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cecidit_fw-la fortè_fw-la id_fw-la arte_fw-la ut_fw-la corrigas_fw-la terent._n what_o shall_v fall_v out_o be_v not_o within_o we_o to_o choose_v but_o to_o manage_v and_o improve_v that_o which_o happen_v and_o turn_v it_o to_o our_o advantage_n by_o the_o goodness_n and_o the_o grace_n of_o god_n be_v within_o ourselves_o and_o nothing_o that_o be_v without_o we_o can_v intermeddle_v or_o be_v a_o impediment_n to_o we_o in_o it_o zeno_n i_o remember_v have_v lose_v all_o his_o good_n by_o shipwreck_n seek_v for_o no_o port_n but_o athens_n and_o betake_v himself_o from_o merchandise_n to_o the_o study_n of_o philosophy_n and_o so_o he_o revenge_v himself_o on_o fortune_n as_o he_o call_v it_o by_o become_v a_o scholar_n and_o a_o honest_a man_n cry_v out_o feci_fw-la jam_fw-la benè_fw-la navigavi_fw-la cùm_fw-la naufragium_fw-la feci_fw-la now_o i_o make_v a_o good_a voyage_n when_o i_o lose_v all_o such_o a_o story_n nicephorus_n tell_v we_o of_o one_o cyrus_n a_o courtier_n in_o 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