Selected quad for the lemma: love_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
love_n	affection_n	life_n	love_v	3,278	5	5.8521	4	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A19453	The court of good counsell VVherein is set downe the true rules, how a man should choose a good wife from a bad, and a woman a good husband from a bad. Wherein is also expressed, the great care that parents should haue, for the bestowing of their children in mariage: and likewise how children ought to behaue themselues towardes their parents: and how maisters ought to gouerne their seruants, and how seruants ought to be obedient towards their maisters. Set forth as a patterne, for all people to learne wit by: published by one that hath dearely bought it by experience.	Guazzo, Stefano, 1530-1593. Civil conversatione.	1607 (1607)	STC 5876; ESTC S105096	41,315	73

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the_o other_o which_o ape_n upon_o occasion_n be_v drive_v from_o her_o den_n and_o have_v take_v that_o which_o she_o love_v in_o her_o arm_n and_o tie_v the_o other_o at_o her_o back_n in_o run_v she_o stumble_v and_o fall_v howne_v against_o the_o hard_a ground_n and_o so_o kill_v her_o young_a one_o she_o have_v in_o her_o arm_n and_o love_v so_o well_o but_o the_o other_o which_o be_v at_o her_o back_n have_v no_o harm_n at_o all_o whereby_o we_o may_v see_v that_o the_o father_n ofttimes_o do_v penance_n for_o his_o fondness_n but_o to_o return_v to_o our_o matter_n there_o be_v yet_o remain_v one_o occasion_n of_o the_o disagreement_n between_o the_o father_n and_o the_o child_n which_o be_v when_o the_o father_n will_v not_o suffer_v his_o child_n to_o come_v forth_o of_o their_o infancy_n mean_v that_o when_o either_o through_o the_o authority_n of_o old_a age_n or_o covetousness_n the_o father_n though_o his_o child_n be_v grow_v to_o man_n estate_n will_v allow_v they_o 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thing_n about_o home_n whereby_o he_o may_v be_v able_a to_o keep_v &_o augment_v his_o estate_n &_o keep_v himself_o from_o fall_v into_o decay_n hereof_o will_v rise_v three_o good_a effect_n the_o first_o be_v the_o love_n of_o the_o son_n who_o see_v his_o father_n withdraw_v himself_o by_o little_a &_o little_a from_o the_o government_n of_o the_o house_n to_o the_o intent_n to_o put_v he_o in_o his_o room_n receive_v thereby_o wonderful_a countentment_n and_o think_v himself_o in_o mind_n much_o bind_v unto_o he_o &_o not_o only_o honour_v he_o but_o withe_v he_o long_o to_o live_v on_o earth_n the_o second_o be_v the_o commodity_n of_o the_o son_n who_o by_o this_o mean_n after_o his_o father_n death_n shall_v have_v no_o need_n to_o seek_v counsel_n at_o his_o friend_n &_o kinsfolk_n hand_n nor_o to_o put_v the_o order_n of_o his_o house_n to_o the_o discretion_n of_o his_o servant_n have_v by_o the_o foresight_n of_o his_o father_n at_o thing_n long_o before_o in_o his_o own_o hand_n so_o that_o the_o government_n of_o his_o house_n shall_v not_o be_v strange_a nor_o troublesome_a unto_o he_o as_o it_o be_v to_o many_o when_o they_o have_v lose_v their_o father_n the_o three_o be_v the_o sweet_a rest_n and_o content_a of_o mind_n which_o the_o father_n enjoy_v in_o his_o old_a day_n both_o for_o that_o he_o feel_v himself_o rid_v from_o all_o worldly_a trouble_n and_o beside_o see_v his_o son_n by_o his_o example_n govern_v his_o house_n orderly_o and_o for_o my_o part_n i_o count_v it_o the_o chief_a felicity_n in_o this_o world_n for_o a_o man_n to_o have_v about_o he_o a_o number_n of_o goodly_a child_n which_o be_v grow_v to_o perfection_n who_o he_o may_v term_v the_o light_n of_o his_o eye_n and_o the_o staff_n of_o his_o age_n and_o i_o thike_v it_o must_v needs_o be_v a_o great_a comfort_n to_o the_o father_n to_o see_v a_o proof_n of_o his_o child_n and_o how_o discreet_o he_o can_v dispose_v of_o his_o lyve_n and_o order_v his_o household_n then_o to_o do_v it_o himslefe_v now_o when_o the_o father_n shall_v be_v arrive_v to_o the_o haven_n of_o such_o happiness_n i_o think_v he_o may_v joyful_o look_v for_o the_o last_o hour_n of_o his_o life_n and_o die_v most_o content_o yet_o in_o the_o holy_a scripture_n in_o it_o write_v give_v no_o authority_n over_o thou_o neither_o to_o thy_o son_n neither_o to_o thy_o wife_n neither_o to_o thy_o brother_n nor_o to_o thy_o friend_n and_o give_v not_o away_o thy_o live_n to_o another_o while_o thou_o be_v alive_a lest_o thou_o afterward_o repent_v it_o yet_o there_o have_v be_v in_o time_n past_a and_o be_v at_o this_o day_n many_o wise_a father_n which_o depart_v with_o their_o livinge_n to_o their_o child_n and_o yet_o incur_v no_o inconvenience_n by_o it_o mary_n they_o do_v it_o in_o such_o sort_n that_o they_o neither_o bring_v themselves_o in_o subjection_n to_o their_o child_n nor_o into_o such_o case_n that_o they_o be_v not_o able_a to_o live_v without_o they_o but_o now_o in_o brief_a i_o give_v the_o father_n to_o understand_v that_o there_o be_v nothing_o in_o this_o world_n wherein_o there_o ought_v more_o care_v and_o diligence_n to_o be_v bestow_v then_o in_o the_o bring_n up_o of_o child_n for_o thereof_o proceed_v for_o the_o most_o part_n either_o the_o maintenance_n or_o the_o decay_n of_o house_n therefore_o he_o must_v begin_v in_o time_n to_o furnish_v their_o tender_a mind_n with_o the_o fear_n and_o knowledge_n of_o god_n and_o such_o good_a condition_n that_o they_o may_v learn_v to_o live_v as_o if_o they_o be_v still_o at_o the_o point_n to_o die_v that_o he_o endeavour_v to_o keep_v they_o in_o obedience_n rather_o by_o love_n then_o fear_n and_o cause_v they_o to_o do_v

master_n and_o servant_n must_v both_o think_v that_o some_o fault_n must_v be_v bear_v withal_o on_o both_o side_n which_o consideration_n the_o servant_n not_o only_o aught_o to_o have_v remember_v that_o it_o be_v his_o duty_n to_o submit_v himself_o to_o the_o will_n and_o pleasure_n of_o his_o master_n but_o the_o master_n much_o more_o know_v that_o servant_n be_v for_o the_o most_o part_n of_o base_a condition_n and_o natural_o incline_v to_o do_v ill_a will_v not_o have_v that_o fidelity_n diligence_n and_o affection_n towards_o he_o as_o he_o will_v have_v towards_o any_o prince_n that_o he_o shall_v serve_v and_o consider_v that_o it_o be_v better_o for_o he_o to_o wink_v at_o some_o fault_n in_o his_o servant_n then_o to_o disquiet_v himself_o in_o go_v about_o to_o reform_v they_o chap._n xxv_o ¶_o of_o the_o great_a abuse_n of_o some_o servant_n towards_o their_o master_n which_o be_v rather_o for_o want_v of_o wit_n then_o for_o any_o other_o cause_n there_o be_v some_o servant_n i_o know_v who_o in_o their_o master_n presence_n look_v as_o though_o butter_n will_v not_o melt_v in_o their_o mouth_n but_o out_o of_o their_o sight_n they_o will_v play_v their_o part_n kind_o yea_o and_o will_v not_o stick_v to_o make_v moe_n at_o their_o master_n behind_o his_o back_n ●nt_v the_o master_n must_v not_o in_o any_o wise_a suffer_v his_o servant_n to_o commit_v either_o in_o word_n or_o deed_n any_o fault_n whereby_o god_n himself_o or_o his_o neighbour_n may_v be_v dishonour_v give_v they_o to_o understand_v that_o he_o will_v entertain_v no_o naughtynesse_n in_o his_o house_n but_o that_o he_o hate_v it_o mostal_o whereby_o though_o he_o be_v not_o able_a to_o root_v out_o their_o wickedness_n yet_o at_o least_o be_v will_v do_v his_o best_a endeau●our_n to_o make_v thou_o honest_a and_o to_o fear_v god_n touch_v some_o other_o natural_a imperfection_n of_o small_a importance_n as_o to_o be_v rude_a soolish_a undiscreete_a crasty_a forgetful_a quarelon_n spiteful_a negligent_a and_o such_o like_a they_o ought_v to_o be_v bear_v withal_o if_o they_o can_v be_v reclaim_v from_o they_o though_o for_o my_o part_n i_o think_v such_o servant_n better_o lose_v then_o find_v and_o the_o house_n it●_n worse_o that_o they_o be_v in_o yet_o i_o know_v some_o honest_a gentleman_n who_o so_o long_o as_o their_o seruavant_n be_v trusty_a and_o faithful_a care_v not_o though_o they_o be_v soolt_n or_o ●esters_n to_o make_v they_o merry_a there_o be_v likewise_o some_o master_n who_o when_o their_o servant_n take_v their_o pleasure_n of_o they_o with_o mock_n and_o scoff_n rather_o take_v pleasure_n in_o it_o then_o seem_v angry_a with_o they_o ●ike_o as_o he_o who_o call_v his_o servant_n king_n of_o fool_n who_o answer_v i_o will_v to_o bed_n i_o be_v king_n of_o soole_n i_o will_v net_n doubt_v then_o but_o i_o shall_v bear_v rule_n ever_o he_o which_o be_v better_o than_o myself_o this_o servant_n be_v without_o doubt_n profitable_a unto_o he_o or_o else_o be_v will_v not_o have_v take_v this_o scoff_n at_o his_o band_n but_o for_o all_o that_o all_o master_n be_v not_o so_o make_v mind_v to_o be_v serve_v with_o such_o man_n nor_o all_o servant_n so_o happy_a to_o meet_v with_o such_o master_n therefore_o i_o will_v set_v down_o some_o such_o order_n that_o the_o master_n and_o the_o servant_n may_v live_v and_o continue_v long_a time_n quiet_o together_o chap._n xxvi_o ¶_o how_o a_o servant_n may_v live_v quiet_o with_o his_o master_n if_o he_o be_v of_o any_o reasonable_a government_n first_o of_o all_o i_o think_v it_o necessary_a that_o be_v which_o do_v desire_n to_o be_v well_o serve_v require_v in_o his_o servant_n three_o special_a thing_n that_o be_v to_o say_v love_n loyalty_n and_o sufficiency_n &_o such_o a_o one_o that_o a_o master_n shall_v east_o come_v by_o which_o will_v show_v himself_o to_o be_v a_o good_a and_o loo_v master_n follow_v the_o commandment_n of_o the_o wise_a man_n love_v he_o who_o thou_o noutishe_v and_o he_o shall_v be_v force_v to_o love_v thou_o again_o if_o master_n will_v but_o think_v that_o servant_n be_v man_n and_o their_o humble_a friend_n they_o shall_v win_v their_o good_a will_n and_o encourage_v they_o to_o do_v diligent_a service_n but_o withal_o i_o hold_v well_o that_o the_o master_n keep_v his_o state_n and_o degree_n to_o love_v they_o well_o but_o not_o to_o embrace_v they_o for_o be_v haile-fellow_n well_o meet_v with_o his_o servant_n he_o shall_v show_v himself_o too_o low_a mindrd_n and_o not_o fit_a to_o command_v and_o to_o be_v as_o it_o be_v a_o servant_n with_o servant_n which_o will_v redound_v to_o his_o reproach_n beside_o he_o shall_v soon_o perceius_fw-la that_o too_o much_o familyarity_n will_v breed_v contempt_n and_o therefore_o man_n of_o judgement_n will_v behane_v themselves_o with_o their_o servant_n in_o such_o fort_n that_o they_o will_v nerth_o make_v they_o too_o sawey_a by_o overmuch_o familiarity_n nor_o to_o fearful_a by_o overmuch_o severity_n for_o in_o no_o wise_a let_v a_o master_n be_v terrible_a to_o his_o servant_n lest_o in_o forw_v still_o upon_o he_o he_o make_v he_o think_v that_o neither_o he_o love_v he_o nor_o like_v of_o his_o service_n which_o be_v the_o way_n quiterd_v disco●●rage_v he_o and_o yet_o in_o give_v good_a countenance_n to_o his_o servant_n be_v must_v be_v wary_a to_o observe_v fit_a time_n and_o place_n for_o as_o it_o beform_v the_o master_n abroad_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o stranger_n to_o cast_v a_o grave_n and_o sad_a look_n upon_o vis_fw-la servant_n so_o it_o be_v his_o part_n be_v at_o home_n in_o his_o own_o house_n to_o look_v more_o pleasant_o upon_o they_o and_o to_o speak_v more_o familiar_o unte_fw-mi they_o which_o be_v thing_n they_o love_v of_o life_n and_o be_v thereby_o encourage_v to_o do_v he_o good_a service_n chap._n xxvii_o ¶_o how_o the_o master_n with_o good_a persuasion_n may_v govern_v his_o servant_n and_o in_o the_o obstinacy_n of_o his_o 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