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A30128 Christian behaviour, or, The fruits of true Christianity shewing the ground from whence they flow in their godlike order in the duty of relations, as husbands, wives, parents, children, masters, servants &c. : with a word of direction to all backsliders / by John Bunyan. Bunyan, John, 1628-1688. 1663 (1663) Wing B5492; ESTC R14817 52,342 160

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thou_o to_o have_v dominion_n over_o he_o but_o to_o be_v thy_o husband_n and_o to_o rule_v over_o thou_o 1_o tim._n 2_o 12._o 1_o cor._n 1._o 3_o 8._o 3._o wherefore_o though_o in_o truth_n thou_o may_v have_v more_o discretion_n than_o he_o ye●_n thou_o ought_v to_o know_v that_o thou_o wit●_n all_o that_o be_v thou_o be_v to_o be_v use_v as_o under_o th●_n husband_n even_o every_o thing_n ephes._n 5._o 24._o take_v heed_n therefore_o that_o what_o thou_o do_v go_v not_o in_o thy_o name_n but_o he_o not_o to_o thy_o exaltation_n but_o he_o carry_v all_o thing_n so_o by_o thy_o dexterity_n and_o prudence_n that_o not_o one_o of_o thy_o husband_n weakness_n be_v discover_v to_o other_o by_o thou_o a_o virtuous_a woman_n be_v a_o crown_n to_o her_o husband_n but_o she_o that_o cause_v shame_n be_v as_o rottenness_n to_o his_o bone_n for_o then_o as_o the_o wise_a ma●_n say_v she_o will_v do_v he_o good_a and_o not_o evil_a 〈◊〉_d the_o day_n of_o her_o life_n prov._n 12._o 4._o prov._n 31._o 14._o 4._o therefore_o act_n and_o do_v still_o as_o be_v under_o the_o power_n and_o authority_n of_o th●_n husband_n now_o touch_v thy_o carriage_n to_o thy_o chi●●dren_n and_o servant_n thou_o be_v a_o parent_n and_o a_o mistress_n and_o so_o thou_o ought_v to_o demean_v thyself_o and_o beside_o see_v the_o believe_a woman_n be_v a_o figure_n of_o the_o church_n she_o ought_v as_o the_o church_n to_o nourish_v and_o instruct_v her_o child_n and_o servant_n as_o the_o church_n that_o she_o may_v answer_v in_o that_o particular_a also_o and_o true_o the_o wife_n be_v always_o at_o home_n she_o have_v great_a advantage_n that_o way_n wherefore_o do_v it_o and_o the_o lord_n prosper_v your_o proceed_n of_o child_n to_o parent_n there_o lie_v also_o a_o duty_n upon_o child_n to_o their_o parent_n which_o they_o be_v bind_v both_o by_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o nature_n conscientious_o to_o observe_v child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o the_o lord_n for_o this_o be_v right_n and_o again_o child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o all_o thing_n for_o this_o be_v well-pleasing_a to_o the_o lord_n ephes._n 6._o 1._o col._n 3._o 20._o there_o be_v these_o general_a thing_n in_o which_o child_n shall_v show_v forth_o that_o honour_n that_o be_v due_a to_o their_o parent_n from_o they_o first_o they_o shall_v always_o count_v they_o better_o than_o themselves_o i_o observe_v a_o vile_a spirit_n among_o some_o child_n and_o that_o be_v they_o be_v apt_a to_o look_v over_o their_o parent_n and_o to_o have_v slight_v &_o scornful_a thought_n of_o they_o this_o be_v worse_a than_o heathenish_a such_o a_o one_o have_v get_v just_o the_o heart_n of_o a_o dog_n or_o beast_n that_o will_v bite_v those_o that_o beget_v they_o and_o she_o that_o bring_v they_o forth_o but_o my_o father_n etc._n etc._n be_v now_o poor_a and_o i_o be_o rich_a and_o it_o will_v be_v a_o disparagement_n or_o at_o least_o a_o hindrance_n to_o i_o to_o show_v that_o respect_n to_o he_o as_o otherwise_o i_o may_v i_o tell_v thou_o thou_o argue_v like_o a_o atheist_n and_o a_o beast_n and_o stand_v in_o this_o full_a flat_a against_o the_o son_n of_o god_n read_v mark_v 7._o 9_o 10_o 11_o 12_o 13._o must_v a_o gift_n and_o a_o little_a of_o the_o glory_n of_o the_o butterfly_n make_v thou_o that_o thou_o shall_v ●ot_n do_v for_o and_o honour_n to_o thy_o father_n and_o mother_n a_o wise_a man_n make_v a_o glad_a father_n but_o a_o foolish_a son_n despise_v his_o mother_n prov._n 15._o 20._o though_o thy_o parent_n be_v ne●er_o so_o low_a and_o thou_o thyself_o never_o so_o ●igh_a yet_o he_o be_v thy_o father_n and_o she_o thy_o mother_n and_o they_o must_v be_v in_o thy_o eye_n i●_n great_a esteem_n the_o eye_n that_o mock_v at_o his_o father_n and_o that_o despise_v to_o obey_v his_o mother_n the_o raven_n of_o the_o valley_n shall_v pick_v it_o out_o and_o the_o young_a eagle_n shall_v eat_v it_o prov._n 30._o 17._o second_o thou_o ought_v to_o show_v thy_o honour_n to_o thy_o parent_n by_o a_o willingness_n to_o help_v they_o with_o such_o necessary_n and_o accommodation_n which_o they_o need_v if_o any_o have_v nephew_n or_o child_n let_v they_o learn_v to_o show_v pity_n at_o home_n and_o to_o requite_v their_o parent_n say_v paul_n for_o that_o be_v good_a and_o acceptable_a before_o god_n 1_o tim._n 5._o 4._o and_o this_o rule_n joseph_n observe_v to_o his_o poor_a father_n though_o he_o himself_o be_v next_o the_o king_n in_o egypt_n gen._n 47._o 12._o gen._n 41._o 39_o 40_o 41_o 42_o 43._o but_o mark_v let_v they_o requite_v their_o parent_n there_o be_v three_o thing_n for_o which_o as_o long_o as_o thou_o live_v thou_o will_v be_v a_o debtor_n to_o thy_o parent_n 1._o for_o thy_o be_v in_o this_o world_n they_o be_v they_o from_o who_o immediate_o under_o god_n thou_o do_v receive_v it_o 2._o for_o their_o care_n to_o preserve_v thou_o when_o thou_o be_v helpless_a and_o can_v neither_o care_n for_o nor_o regard_v thyself_o 3._o for_o the_o pain_n they_o 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reason_n say_v so_o and_o there_o be_v none_o but_o dog_n and_o beast_n deny_v it_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n to_o lay_v up_o for_o their_o child_n and_o the_o duty_n of_o child_n to_o requite_v their_o parent_n three_o therefore_o show_v by_o all_o humble_a and_o sonlike_a carriage_n that_o thou_o do_v to_o this_o day_n with_o thy_o heart_n remember_v the_o love_n of_o thy_o parent_n thus_o much_o for_o obedience_n to_o parent_n in_o general_n again_o if_o thy_o parent_n be_v godly_a and_o thou_o wicked_a as_o thou_o be_v if_o thou_o have_v not_o a_o second_o work_n or_o birth_n from_o god_n upon_o thou_o than_o thou_o be_v to_o consider_v that_o thou_o be_v more_o strong_o engage_v to_o respect_n and_o honour_v thy_o parent_n not_o now_o only_o as_o a_o father_n in_o the_o flesh_n but_o as_o godly_a parent_n thy_o father_n and_o mother_n be_v now_o make_v of_o god_n thy_o teacher_n and_o instructer_n in_o the_o way_n of_o righteousness_n wherefore_o to_o allude_v to_o that_o of_o solomon_n o_o son_n hearken_v to_o the_o law_n of_o thy_o father_n and_o forsake_v not_o the_o law_n of_o thy_o mother_n bind_v they_o continual_o upon_o thy_o heart_n and_o tie_v they_o about_o thy_o neck_n prov._n 6._o 20_o 21._o now_o to_o provoke_v thou_o here_o to_o consider_v first_o that_o this_o have_v be_v the_o practice_n always_o of_o those_o that_o be_v and_o have_v be_v obedient_a child_n yea_o of_o christ_n himself_o to_o joseph_n and_o mary_n though_o he_o himself_o be_v god_n bless_v for_o ever_o luke_n 2._o 51._o second_o thou_o have_v also_o the_o severe_a judgement_n of_o god_n upon_o those_o that_o have_v be_v disobedient_a to_o awe_v thou_o as_o 1._o ishmael_n for_o but_o mock_v at_o one_o good_a carriage_n of_o his_o father_n and_o mother_n be_v both_o thrust_v out_o of_o his_o father_n inheritance_n and_o the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n and_o that_o with_o god_n approbation_n gen._n 21._o 8_o 9_o 10_o 11_o 12._o gal._n 4._o 30._o 2._o hophni_n and_o p●hinehas_n for_o refuse_v the_o good_a counsel_n of_o their_o father_n provoke_v the_o great_a god_n to_o be_v their_o enemy_n they_o hearken_v not_o to_o the_o voice_n of_o their_o father_n because_o the_o lord_n will_v slay_v they_o 1_o sam._n 2._o 23_o 24_o 25._o 3._o absolom_n be_v hang_v as_o i_o may_v say_v by_o god_n himself_o for_o rebel_a against_o his_o father_n 2_o sam._n 18._o 9_o beside_o little_o do_v thou_o know_v how_o heart-aking_a a_o consideration_n it_o be_v to_o thy_o parent_n when_o they_o do_v but_o suppose_v thou_o may_v be_v damn_v how_o many_o prayer_n sigh_n &_o tear_n be_v there_o wring_v from_o their_o heart_n upon_o
her_o own_o fiction_n why_o 〈◊〉_d say_v the_o apostle_n ought_v the_o wife_n to_o carpit_v towards_o her_o husband_n let_v the_o woman_n ●ith_o paul_n learn_v in_o silence_n with_o all_o subjecti●●_n but_o i_o suffer_v not_o a_o woman_n to_o teach_v or_o to_o ●urp_v authority_n over_o the_o man_n but_o to_o be_v in_o ●●●ence_n 1_o tim._n 2._o 11_o 12._o it_o be_v a_o unseemly_a thing_n to_o see_v a_o woman_n 〈◊〉_d much_o as_o once_o in_o all_o her_o life-time_n to_o ●●fer_v to_o overtop_n her_o husband_n she_o ought_v 〈◊〉_d every_o thing_n to_o be_v in_o subjection_n to_o he_o use_v to_o do_v all_o she_o do_v as_o have_v her_o war●●nt_n licence_n and_o authority_n from_o he_o ●nd_v indeed_o here_o be_v her_o glory_n even_o to_o be_v ●ider_v he_o as_o the_o church_n be_v under_o christ._n ●ow_o she_o open_v her_o mouth_n in_o wisdom_n and_o 〈◊〉_d her_o tongue_n be_v the_o law_n of_o kindness_n pro._n ●1_n 26._o 3._o take_v heed_n of_o affect_v immodest_a apparel_n or_o a_o wanton_a gate_n this_o will_v be_v evil_a both_o abroad_o and_o at_o home_n abroad_o will_v not_o only_o give_v evil_a example_n but_o so_o tend_v to_o tempt_v to_o lust_n &_o lasciviousn●_n and_o at_o home_n it_o will_v give_v a_o offence_n 〈◊〉_d godly_a husband_n and_o be_v canker_a to_o 〈◊〉_d godly_a child_n etc._n etc._n wherefore_o as_o sa●_n the_o apostle_n let_v woman_n apparel_n be_v mo●●●_n as_o become_v woman_n profess_v godliness_n 〈◊〉_d good_a work_n 1_o tim._n 2._o 10._o not_o with_o b●●●dered_a hair_n or_o gold_n or_o pearl_n or_o co●●●aray_v and_o as_o it_o be_v say_v again_o who_o ●●●dorning_a let_v it_o not_o be_v that_o outward_a adorn_v of_o plait_v the_o hair_n and_o of_o wear_v gold_n 〈◊〉_d of_o put_v on_o of_o apparel_n but_o let_v it_o be_v hide_v man_n of_o the_o heart_n in_o that_o which_o not_o corruptible_a even_o the_o ornament_n of_o a_o m●●_n and_o quiet_a spirit_n which_o be_v in_o the_o sight_n of_o g●●_n of_o great_a price_n for_o after_o this_o manner_n in_o a_o time_n the_o holy_a woman_n also_o who_o trust_v god_n adorn_v themselves_o be_v in_o subject_n on_o to_o their_o own_o husband_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 3_o 4_o 5_o ●_o but_o yet_o do_v not_o think_v that_o by_o the_o su●●jection_n i_o have_v here_o men●●ned_v that_o i_o intend_v woman_n shall_v be_v their_o husband_n slave_n woman_n be_v their_o husband_n yo●_n fellow_n their_o flesh_n and_o their_o bone_n a●●_n 〈◊〉_d be_v not_o a_o man_n that_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n 〈◊〉_d that_o be_v bitter_a against_o it_o ephes._n 5._o 29._o wherefore_o let_v every_o man_n love_v his_o wife_n as_o himself_o and_o the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n ephes._n 5._o 33._o the_o wife_n be_v master_n next_o her_o husband_n and_o be_v to_o rule_v all_o in_o his_o absence_n yea_o in_o his_o presence_n she_o be_v to_o guide_v the_o house_n to_o bring_v up_o the_o child_n provide_v she_o so_o 〈◊〉_d it_o as_o the_o adversary_n have_v no_o occasion_n 〈◊〉_d speak_v reproachful_o 1_o tim._n 5._o 10_o 13._o 〈◊〉_d who_o can_v find_v a_o virtuous_a woman_n for_o her_o price_n be_v far_o above_o ruby_n a_o gracious_a woman_n retain_v honour_n and_o guide_v her_o affair_n with_o discretion_n prov._n 31._o 10._o prov._n 〈◊〉_d 16._o prov._n 12._o 4._o object_n but_o my_o husband_n be_v a_o unbeliever_n what_o shall_v i_o do_v answ._n if_o so_o then_o what_o i_o have_v say_v before_o lie_v upon_o thou_o with_o a_o engagement_n so_o much_o the_o strong_a for_o first_o ●●y_a husband_n be_v in_o this_o condition_n he_o ●●ll_v be_v watchful_a to_o take_v thy_o slip_n and_o in●mities_n to_o throw_v they_o as_o dirt_n in_o the_o ●●e_z of_o god_n and_o thy_o saviour_n 2._o he_o will_v be_v apt_a to_o make_v the_o worst_a of_o 〈◊〉_d one_o of_o thy_o word_n carriage_n and_o gesture_n 3_o and_o all_o this_o do_v tend_v to_o the_o poetise_v his_o heart_n with_o more_o hardness_n paradise_n and_o opposition_n to_o his_o own_o salvation_n wherefore_o as_o peter_n say_v you_o w●●●_n 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this_o account_n every_o miscarriage_n of_o thou_o go_v to_o their_o heart_n for_o fear_n god_n shall_v take_v a_o occasion_n thereat_o to_o shut_v thou_o up_o in_o hardness_n for_o ever_o how_o do_v abraham_n groan_v for_o ishmael_n o_o say_v he_o to_o god_n that_o ishmael_n may_v live_v before_o thou_o gen._n 17._o 18._o how_o be_v is●ac_n and_o rebekah_n grieve_v for_o the_o miscarriage_n of_o esau_n gen._n 26._o 34_o 35._o and_o how_o bitter_o do_v david_n mourn_v for_o his_o son_n who_o die_v in_o his_o wickedness_n 2_o sam._n 18._o 32_o 33._o last_o and_o can_v any_o imagine_v but_o that_o all_o these_o carriage_n of_o thy_o godly_a parent_n will_v be_v to_o thou_o the_o increase_n of_o thy_o torment_n in_o hell_n if_o thou_o die_v in_o thy_o sin_n notwithstanding_o again_o if_o thy_o parent_n and_o thou_o also_o be_v godly_a how_o happy_a a_o thing_n be_v this_o how_o shall_v thou_o rejoice_v that_o the_o same_o faith_n shall_v dwell_v both_o in_o thy_o parent_n and_o thou_o 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