Selected quad for the lemma: honour_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
honour_n	child_n	parent_n	reverence_n	2,246	5	9.8892	5	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A12984	A Bartholmew fairing for parentes to bestow vpon their sonnes and daughters, and for one friend to giue vnto another: shevving that children are not to marie, without the consent of their parentes, in whose povver and choise it lieth to prouide wiues and husbandes for their sonnes and daughters. Wherin is sufficiently prooued, what in this point is the office of the fathers and in like maner declared the part and duty of all obedient children. By Iohn Stockvvood, minister and preacher of Tunbridge.	Stockwood, John, d. 1610.	1589 (1589)	STC 23277; ESTC S105880	52,324	112

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thus_o do_v god_n no_o doubt_n will_v add_v a_o blessing_n unto_o their_o godly_a endeavour_n and_o holy_a care_n &_o work_v obedience_n in_o the_o heart_n of_o their_o child_n as_o he_o frame_v the_o heart_n of_o isaac_n with_o entire_a affection_n to_o embrace_v rebeccah_n who_o his_o father_n abraham_n have_v by_o his_o steward_n provide_v for_o he_o and_o lest_o that_o any_o shall_v imagine_v that_o this_o counsel_n be_v a_o peevish_a fancy_n of_o a_o too_o much_o spice_a and_o nice_a conscience_n the_o parent_n ought_v to_o be_v induce_v and_o persuade_v hereunto_o prayer_n gen._n 24.7_o aben_n ezra_n hold_v this_o to_o have_v be_v a_o prayer_n first_o by_o the_o example_n of_o abraham_n who_o commit_v the_o charge_n of_o provide_v a_o wife_n for_o his_o son_n unto_o his_o servant_n pray_v that_o god_n will_v send_v his_o angel_n before_o he_o to_o direct_v he_o in_o this_o business_n secondlie_o the_o course_n which_o abraham_n his_o servant_n take_v in_o the_o effect_n of_o this_o charge_n do_v teach_v no_o less_o 24.12_o gen._n 24.12_o of_o who_o we_o read_v that_o he_o enter_v into_o this_o business_n with_o prayer_n 24.26_o gen._n 24.26_o that_o he_o geve_v thanks_n unto_o god_n when_o he_o meet_v with_o rebeccah_n 5●_n gen._n 24_o 5●_n that_o he_o praise_v god_n when_o at_o the_o delivery_n of_o his_o message_n the_o parent_n without_o gaine-saieng_a grant_v their_o consent_n and_o while_o i_o give_v this_o counsel_n unto_o the_o parent_n same_o child_n marriageable_a be_v to_o pray_v unto_o god_n to_o direct_v their_o parent_n in_o a_o godly_a choice_n and_o to_o incline_v their_o mind_n to_o accept_v of_o the_o same_o i_o will_v not_o have_v the_o child_n think_v that_o i_o discharge_v they_o of_o this_o duty_n of_o who_o the_o same_o be_v by_o so_o much_o the_o more_o to_o be_v put_v in_o practice_n by_o how_o much_o they_o be_v more_o subject_a to_o be_v carry_v away_o with_o the_o swift_a current_n of_o their_o stayless_a affection_n from_o who_o 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often_o do_v by_o ungodlie_a parent_n who_o sometime_o violent_o force_v husband_n upon_o their_o daughter_n or_o that_o which_o be_v worse_o do_v thrust_v they_o into_o monastery_n or_o abbey_v nay_o above_o all_o thing_n the_o consent_n of_o the_o parent_n do_v here_o step_n in_o between_n who_o office_n it_o be_v to_o bestow_v their_o son_n or_o daughter_n in_o marriage_n neither_o be_v it_o their_o part_n rash_o to_o choose_v unto_o themselves_o wife_n etc._n etc._n for_o i_o cite_v he_o the_o more_o sparinglie_o because_o he_o have_v write_v a_o learned_a common_a place_n of_o this_o argument_n the_o which_o although_o it_o be_v in_o english_a yet_o because_o so_o far_o as_o i_o know_v it_o be_v not_o to_o be_v have_v severallie_o but_o among_o the_o rest_n of_o his_o common_a place_n be_v a_o book_n of_o too_o great_a a_o price_n for_o the_o poor_a sort_n i_o have_v be_v the_o rather_o induce_v and_o move_v to_o labour_v also_o in_o this_o question_n and_o that_o as_o i_o trust_v 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etc._n write_v on_o this_o sort_n he_o declare_v by_o example_n that_o which_o he_o have_v say_v already_o that_o there_o shall_v be_v no_o darkness_n in_o his_o word_n and_o we_o may_v expound_v that_o word_n virgin_n as_o well_o for_o the_o person_n as_o for_o the_o thing_n itself_o namely_o virginity_n the_o meaning_n be_v this_o if_o a_o man_n have_v a_o virgin_n marriable_a and_o now_o ready_a for_o a_o husband_n for_o this_o i_o understand_v by_o that_o which_o he_o say_v if_o she_o pass_v the_o time_n of_o marriage_n the_o which_o ambrose_n translate_v if_o she_o be_v past_a ripeness_n of_o age_n and_o have_v a_o desire_n to_o marry_v that_o be_v it_o which_o he_o say_v and_o so_o it_o ought_v to_o be_v so_o that_o her_o father_n be_v to_o fear_v lest_o that_o secret_o she_o go_v about_o or_o enterprise_v some_o thing_n that_o be_v not_o comely_a unless_o she_o be_v provide_v for_o by_o marriage_n now_o the_o father_n sin_v not_o if_o he_o bestow_v she_o forth_o upon_o a_o 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