Selected quad for the lemma: friend_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
friend_n	answer_v	good_a	see_v	1,023	5	2.8313	3	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A10867	A nevv yeeres gift The courte of ciuill courtesie: fitly furnished with a plesant porte of stately phrases and pithie precepts: assembled in the behalfe of all younge gentlemen, and others, that are desirous to frame their behauiour according to their estates, at all times, and in all companies: thereby to purchase worthy praise, of their inferiours: and estimation and credite amonge theyr betters. Out of Italian, by S.R. Gent.	S. R. (Simon Robson), d. 1617.; Mont. Prisacchi Retta, Bengalassa del, attributed name.	1582 (1582)	STC 21135; ESTC S110654	28,088	48

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requisitie_n of_o the_o table_n and_o what_o to_o be_v shun_v what_o be_v to_o be_v consider_v in_o the_o wash_n before_o dinner_n and_o in_o the_o sit_v down_o be_v set_v forth_o in_o the_o beginning_n of_o this_o direction_n chap._n 9_o ¶_o how_o a_o man_n shall_v pacify_v his_o friend_n his_o better_a or_o his_o equal_a if_o he_o have_v give_v he_o unwilling_o any_o cause_n of_o offence_n chap._n 10._o now_o a_o man_n shall_v shift_v off_o reproach_n or_o taunt_n offer_v between_o sport_n and_o earnest_n by_o envious_a and_o scornful_a person_n that_o will_v seem_v to_o do_v it_o so_o cunning_o as_o the_o other_o shall_v have_v the_o taunt_n and_o yet_o at_o his_o own_o pleasure_n will_v deny_v it_o chap._n 11._o finis_fw-la the_o court_n of_o civil_a courtesy_n how_o a_o young_a gentleman_n may_v behave_v himself_o in_o all_o company_n and_o be_v prepare_v for_o ordinary_a entertainment_n and_o to_o get_v a_o good_a opinion_n and_o credit_n among_o his_o better_n chap._n 1._o first_o he_o have_v to_o consider_v that_o the_o lack_n of_o good_a behaviour_n which_o be_v a_o comely_a audacity_n with_o out_o a_o saucy_a presumption_n which_o argue_v discreet_a judgement_n and_o wisdom_n make_v his_o inferior_a to_o be_v his_o equal_a and_o make_v his_o equal_a his_o better_a till_o himself_o have_v attain_a not_o only_o the_o habit_n of_o be_v the_o like_a but_o the_o time_n to_o make_v himself_o know_v to_o be_v the_o like_a therefore_o if_o he_o shall_v light_v in_o the_o company_n of_o any_o who_o live_a and_o birth_n be_v worse_a than_o his_o own_o and_o yet_o perceyve_v the_o other_o for_o his_o wisdom_n and_o gravity_n to_o be_v well_o esteem_v of_o by_o other_o it_o become_v the_o young_a gentleman_n to_o give_v he_o the_o place_n or_o at_o

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