our_o own_o conscience_n place_v religion_n in_o those_o thing_n which_o god_n have_v leave_v indifferent_a as_o they_o who_o 3._o prohibit_v certain_a meat_n or_o marriage_n nor_o will_v we_o dispense_v with_o that_o word_n in_o any_o one_o point_n for_o by_o any_o humane_a authority_n pretend_v or_o press_v to_o the_o contrary_n 3._o in_o all_o thy_o action_n and_o design_n before_o thou_o enterprise_n 1._o due_o and_o serious_o consider_v the_o end_n thereof_o that_o be_v as_o we_o have_v note_v like_o the_o rudder_n in_o the_o ship_n though_o iâ—_n come_v last_o it_o direct_v puppimque_fw-la first_o and_o last_o look_v before_o thou_o and_o consider_v what_o must_v be_v the_o end_n 29_o o_o that_o they_o be_v wise_a say_v the_o lord_n that_o they_o understand_v this_o that_o they_o will_v consider_v their_o late_a end_n so_o shall_v thou_o at_o once_o and_o ever_o conclude_v of_o all_o sinful_a action_n with_o the_o apostle_n 21._o the_o end_n of_o those_o thing_n be_v death_n 4._o 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so_o like_v that_o they_o be_v not_o distinguish_v abroad_o at_o home_o they_o be_v not_o of_o stranger_n by_o their_o own_o they_o be_v when_o the_o hypocrite_n have_v deceive_v other_o man_n he_o never_o can_v beguile_v his_o own_o conscience_n be_v thou_o therefore_o just_a and_o sincere_a in_o thy_o deportment_n before_o god_n and_o man_n 7._o do_v nothing_o to_o other_o which_o thou_o will_v not_o have_v do_v to_o thou_o it_o be_v christ_n rule_n and_o 12._o the_o sum_n of_o the_o law_n and_o the_o prophet_n concern_v our_o duty_n in_o the_o second_o table_n 8._o do_v nothing_o whereof_o thou_o must_v at_o best_o bitter_o repent_v thou_o when_o the_o philosopher_n have_v a_o great_a price_n of_o folly_n set_v he_o he_o answer_v i_o will_v not_o buy_v repentance_n so_o dear_a 9_o do_v nothing_o against_o thy_o conscience_n for_o fear_n or_o favour_n of_o man_n esteem_v a_o good_a testimony_n thereof_o before_o all_o treasure_n in_o some_o thing_n we_o sin_v all_o but_o bless_v be_v they_o that_o 22._o condemn_v not_o themselves_o in_o those_o thing_n they_o know_v 10._o in_o every_o undertake_n pray_v god_n to_o direct_v counsel_n and_o bless_v thou_o 6._o in_o every_o thing_n by_o prayer_n and_o supplication_n let_v your_o request_n be_v make_v know_v unto_o god_n he_o be_v unworthy_a to_o be_v bless_v in_o his_o work_n who_o will_v not_o acknowledge_v god_n providence_n in_o ask_v the_o same_o a_o prayer_n for_o direction_n in_o all_o our_o action_n most_o merciful_a father_n who_o have_v promise_v that_o if_o the_o wicked_a turn_n from_o his_o sin_n that_o he_o have_v commit_v and_o do_v that_o which_o be_v lawful_a and_o right_a he_o shall_v live_v and_o his_o transgression_n shall_v not_o be_v mention_v unto_o he_o in_o humble_a acknowledgement_n of_o our_o many_o sin_n the_o equity_n of_o thy_o judgement_n to_o give_v we_o over_o to_o our_o own_o unhappy_a way_n who_o have_v so_o long_o refuse_v to_o be_v guide_v by_o thy_o holy_a word_n and_o our_o own_o helpless_a impotency_n to_o stay_v ourselves_o turn_v unto_o thou_o or_o set_v ourselves_o in_o any_o good_a way_n to_o serve_v and_o please_v thou_o we_o pray_v thou_o for_o christ_n jesus_n sake_n to_o pardon_v all_o our_o misdeed_n and_o to_o vouchsafe_v to_o lead_v we_o in_o thy_o path_n and_o the_o way_n thou_o will_v have_v we_o to_o walk_v in_o we_o have_v long_o go_v astray_o like_o lose_a sheep_n and_o thou_o best_o know_v o_o our_o god_n how_o dangerous_a satan_n snare_n be_v to_o we_o how_o many_o the_o distraction_n of_o a_o beguile_a world_n how_o frail_a and_o infirm_a sinful_a flesh_n and_o blood_n and_o how_o many_o our_o error_n but_o o_o lord_n thy_o wisdom_n can_v err_v therefore_o renounce_v our_o own_o guidance_n we_o render_v ourselves_o into_o thy_o gracious_a hand_n humble_o beseech_v thou_o who_o free_o give_v wisdom_n to_o all_o that_o ask_v and_o upbraid_v no_o man_n hold_v thou_o up_o our_o go_n in_o thy_o path_n that_o we_o fail_v not_o direct_v all_o our_o way_n that_o we_o neither_o decline_v to_o the_o right_a hand_n nor_o to_o the_o lest_o to_o offend_v thou_o give_v we_o the_o shield_n of_o our_o salvation_n and_o let_v thy_o right_a hand_n uphold_v we_o o_o thou_o that_o hear_v the_o prayer_n of_o they_o that_o call_v upon_o thou_o hear_v we_o for_o our_o soul_n wait_v on_o thou_o direct_v and_o guide_v we_o keep_v we_o and_o counsel_v we_o in_o all_o our_o action_n that_o we_o may_v neither_o do_v nor_o design_n any_o thing_n but_o that_o which_o be_v please_v to_o thou_o and_o which_o thou_o will_v bless_v unto_o we_o that_o we_o may_v walk_v unblamable_o and_o prudent_o towards_o all_o man_n and_o holy_o before_o thou_o that_o in_o all_o our_o action_n we_o may_v glorify_v thou_o that_o we_o may_v adorn_v the_o gospel_n of_o christ_n by_o our_o holy_a conversation_n give_v good_a example_n to_o our_o neighbour_n and_o stop_v the_o mouth_n of_o all_o malicious_a adversary_n so_o that_o when_o these_o day_n of_o sin_n be_v end_v we_o shall_v rest_v from_o our_o labour_n we_o may_v enter_v into_o that_o promise_a rest_n which_o remain_v for_o thy_o people_n where_o shall_v be_v no_o more_o sin_n error_n nor_o curse_n hear_v we_o o_o lord_n in_o these_o and_o all_o other_o thing_n necessary_a for_o our_o body_n or_o soul_n for_o jesus_n christ_n his_o sake_n amen_n chap._n xxiii_o of_o the_o government_n of_o family_n the_o duty_n of_o master_n and_o servant_n husband_n and_o wife_n parent_n and_o child_n §_o 1._o of_o a_o family_n §_o 2._o duty_n of_o master_n §_o 3._o duty_n of_o a_o servant_n §_o 4._o motive_n to_o their_o duty_n 1._o we_o have_v speak_v of_o action_n in_o general_a and_o come_v now_o to_o the_o particular_a fall_v under_o domestic_a relation_n of_o master_n and_o servant_n man_n and_o wife_n parent_n and_o child_n duty_n of_o public_a person_n be_v without_o the_o verge_n of_o my_o present_a purpose_n 2._o a_o family_n be_v a_o epitome_n and_o sum_n of_o a_o commonwealth_n cato_n which_o consist_v of_o several_a family_n as_o the_o ocean_n of_o drop_n therefore_o he_o merit_v well_o of_o the_o state_n who_o well_o administer_v his_o own_o family_n as_o he_o deserve_v punishment_n who_o do_v the_o contrary_a a_o good_a patriot_n equal_o solicitous_a for_o the_o state_n and_o family_n be_v a_o rare_a jewel_n but_o more_o rare_a though_o of_o less_o worth_n be_v a_o aristides_n blame-worthy_a in_o this_o that_o in_o his_o justice_n and_o care_n for_o the_o republic_n he_o be_v so_o unjust_a to_o and_o careless_a for_o his_o own_o family_n that_o leave_v they_o to_o the_o public_a charity_n he_o 1â—8_n dishonour_a virtue_n with_o his_o poverty_n and_o herein_o his_o policy_n be_v lame_a 3._o some_o have_v distribute_v the_o family_n into_o three_o part_n the_o first_o command_v as_o master_n the_o second_o command_v but_o not_o in_o chief_a as_o the_o good_a vine_n not_o on_o the_o top_n but_o side_n of_o the_o house_n the_o three_o be_v auxiliar_a only_o obey_v as_o child_n and_o servant_n 4._o now_o though_o this_o be_v the_o order_n and_o order_n so_o necessary_a that_o without_o it_o no_o society_n of_o man_n can_v subsist_v yet_o must_v it_o be_v with_o that_o sanctity_n and_o equity_n that_o the_o god_n of_o order_n may_v be_v know_v to_o govern_v though_o man_n administer_v and_o with_o that_o lenity_n and_o candour_n of_o command_n and_o willing_a reverence_n in_o obey_v that_o all_o may_v seem_v manage_v with_o love_n not_o fear_n familiarity_n rather_o then_o rigid_a and_o imperious_a severity_n for_o which_o i_o suppose_v the_o ancient_a latin_n comprise_v all_o three_o order_n under_o the_o name_n of_o familiares_fw-la 5._o god_n in_o his_o abundant_a mercy_n as_o he_o have_v not_o be_v spare_v
i_o that_o i_o can_v neither_o live_v well_o with_o thou_o nor_o without_o thou_o such_o dishonour_n of_o the_o lovely_a sex_n disgrace_n of_o womanhood_n cause_v some_o wise_a man_n beside_o the_o over-wived_n 128._o over-wived_n interrâ—gatus_fw-la utrum_fw-la melius_fw-la esset_fw-la vxorem_fw-la ducere_fw-la néâ—ne_n inquit_fw-la 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d d._n laert._n l._n 1._o socrat_n l._n 2._o psal._n 128._o socrates_n to_o judge_v that_o there_o be_v matter_n of_o repentance_n both_o in_o wedlock_n and_o single_a life_n but_o the_o good_a woman_n open_v her_o mouth_n with_o wisdom_n and_o her_o tongue_n be_v the_o law_n of_o kindness_n prov._n 31._o 26._o 3._o let_v she_o 5._o she_o tit._n 2._o 5._o keep_v at_o home_n like_o the_o fruitful_a vine_n upon_o the_o wall_n of_o the_o house_n breed_v up_o her_o child_n and_o provide_v for_o they_o it_o be_v that_o which_o god_n enjoin_v that_o they_o be_v discreet_a chaste_a keeper_n at_o home_n it_o be_v the_o harlot_n character_n prov._n 7._o 11._o she_o be_v loud_a and_o stubborn_a her_o foot_n abide_v not_o in_o her_o house_n now_o she_o be_v without_o now_o in_o the_o street_n and_o lie_v in_o wait_n at_o every_o corner_n thus_o much_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o marry_a to_o the_o widow_n i_o have_v to_o say_v she_o be_v free_a to_o marry_v again_o but_o advise_v she_o to_o take_v heed_n that_o 1._o she_o marry_v not_o to_o low_a least_o suspicion_n brand_v she_o with_o the_o obloquy_n of_o some_o former_a familiarity_n 2._o that_o she_o marry_v not_o too_o soon_o lest_o she_o that_o can_v so_o quick_o abolere_fw-la sichaeum_fw-la be_v think_v for_o want_n of_o love_n to_o make_v such_o short_a exequy_n valeria_n be_v demand_v why_o she_o marry_v not_o again_o can_v say_v my_o servius_n be_v dead_a to_o other_o not_o to_o i_o 3._o that_o she_o sell_v not_o her_o child_n to_o want_v and_o herself_o to_o misery_n by_o a_o ungodly_a concourse_n of_o lust_n and_o avarice_n 4._o that_o she_o consider_v well_o that_o which_o deter_v cato_n daughter_n from_o second_o marriage_n i_o can_v easy_o say_v she_o find_v that_o man_n which_o love_v i_o so_o much_o as_o my_o estate_n a_o prayer_n for_o the_o marry_v o_o lord_n god_n who_o do_v create_v man_n and_o woman_n join_v they_o in_o marriage_n sanctify_v and_o bless_v we_o who_o thy_o providence_n have_v join_v together_o lord_n give_v we_o one_o heart_n to_o love_v thou_o and_o one_o another_o in_o thou_o that_o we_o may_v be_v heir_n together_o of_o the_o promise_n that_o thy_o blessing_n of_o heaven_n above_o and_o earth_n beneath_o the_o blessing_n of_o peace_n unity_n and_o plenty_n may_v be_v upon_o we_o and_o all_o that_o thou_o give_v we_o lord_n jesus_n who_o do_v furnish_v the_o want_v at_o the_o cana_n marriage_n with_o a_o bountiful_a supply_n supply_v all_o our_o necessity_n with_o those_o thing_n which_o thou_o know_v necessary_a for_o we_o that_o in_o every_o estate_n we_o may_v find_v a_o cheerful_a sufficiency_n keep_v we_o body_n and_o soul_n from_o all_o the_o snare_n of_o satan_n the_o distraction_n of_o the_o world_n corruption_n of_o flesh_n and_o blood_n and_o the_o power_n of_o sin_n that_o we_o may_v live_v unblamable_o towards_o all_o man_n and_o holy_o before_o thou_o to_o the_o good_a example_n of_o sanctity_n and_o sobriety_n to_o our_o family_n and_o mutual_a comfort_n and_o blessing_n to_o each_o other_o through_o jesus_n christ_n our_o lord_n amen_o chap._n xxv_o concern_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n and_o child_n §_o 1._o what_o honour_n to_o parent_n want_v of_o child_n good_a parent_n of_o evil_a child_n §_o 2._o duty_n of_o the_o parent_n rule_v thereto_o belong_v §_o 3._o duty_n of_o child_n rule_v thereof_o motive_n thereto_o 1._o 12._o honour_n thy_o father_n and_o thy_o mother_n i._o say_v the_o lord_n under_o this_o name_n be_v comprehend_v all_o superior_n and_o governor_n parent_n by_o nature_n order_n or_o institution_n as_o under_o the_o name_n of_o child_n all_o inferior_n son_n daughter_n subject_n pupil_n servant_n etc._n etc._n and_o honour_n import_v all_o duty_n respective_o to_o be_v perform_v 2._o want_v of_o child_n be_v a_o great_a affliction_n to_o some_o therefore_o 10_o hannah_n weep_v and_o pray_v in_o bitterness_n of_o soul_n it_o be_v then_o a_o reproach_n and_o affliction_n to_o the_o just_a and_o a_o 21._o curse_n on_o the_o wicked_a when_o god_n say_v unto_o 2_o abraham_n fear_v not_o i_o be_o thy_o shield_n and_o exceed_v great_a reward_n he_o reply_v lord_n god_n what_o will_v thou_o give_v i_o see_v i_o go_v childless_a 18_o give_v i_o child_n or_o i_o die_v say_v impatient_a rachel_n she_o know_v not_o then_o what_o it_o be_v to_o have_v a_o benoni_n a_o son_n of_o sorrow_n 3_o child_n be_v a_o heritage_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o the_o fruit_n of_o the_o womb_n be_v his_o reward_n he_o make_v 9_o the_o barren_a woman_n to_o keep_v house_n and_o to_o be_v a_o joyful_a mother_n of_o child_n as_o the_o 3._o fruitful_a vine_n on_o the_o side_n of_o the_o house_n with_o child_n like_o olive_n branch_n god_n make_v the_o just_a man_n wife_n great_a blessing_n if_o good_a or_o great_a affliction_n if_o otherwise_o certain_a care_n uncertain_a comfort_n a_o lovely_a possession_n but_o ever_o bring_v the_o most_o happy_a possessor_n many_o care_n fear_n and_o trouble_n to_o some_o most_o bitter_a sorrow_n if_o god_n give_v thou_o no_o child_n he_o have_v give_v thou_o the_o less_o care_n and_o occasion_n of_o sorrow_n which_o in_o their_o loss_n sit_v heavy_o even_o on_o the_o heart_n of_o those_o mourn_a parent_n who_o may_v say_v as_o that_o shunamite_n 28_o did'i_n not_o desâ—re_v a_o son_n of_o my_o lord_n do_v i_o not_o say_v do_v not_o decceve_v i_o be_v thankful_a for_o that_o which_o god_n have_v give_v thou_o no_o man_n have_v all_o happiness_n some_o thou_o have_v the_o great_a if_o he_o have_v give_v thou_o christ_n thy_o redeemer_n and_o saviour_n how_o just_o may_v he_o say_v that_o of_o elkanah_n 8._o why_o be_v thy_o heart_n grieve_v be_o not_o i_o better_o to_o thou_o then_o ten_o son_n 3._o that_o good_a parent_n have_v sometime_o evil_a child_n appear_v in_o 9_o noah_n cham_n 25._o elie_n and_o 3_o samuel_n son_n david_n amnon_n and_o absolom_n 6._o jehoshaphat_n hezekiah_n manasse_n and_o the_o like_a thus_o god_n please_v either_o to_o punish_v their_o neglect_n in_o breed_v they_o or_o to_o exercise_v their_o patience_n and_o humble_v they_o so_o likewise_o to_o manifest_v to_o the_o world_n that_o sanctity_n be_v by_o no_o natural_a propagation_n but_o free_a grace_n sometime_o wicked_a parent_n have_v holy_a son_n as_o appear_z in_o 2._o josiah_n son_n of_o amon_n and_o many_o other_o that_o none_o may_v despair_v of_o whatsoever_o family_n he_o come_v 1._o the_o duty_n of_o a_o parent_n towards_o his_o child_n ii_o be_v to_o nourish_v and_o breed_v they_o up_o provide_v necessary_n for_o they_o to_o teach_v they_o the_o fear_n of_o the_o lord_n 1_o tim._n 5._o 1._o tit._n 2._o 4._o gen._n 18._o 19_o exod._n 12._o 27._o exod._n 13._o 8_o 14._o deut._n 4._o 10._o deut._n 6._o 7_o 20._o deut._n 11._o 19_o deut._n 32._o 46._o josh._n 4._o 6_o 7_o 21_o 22._o josh._n 22._o 24._o psal._n 74._o 4._o isai._n 38._o 19_o joël_n 1._o 3._o ephes._n 6._o 4._o to_o reprove_v their_o â—innes_n 1_o sam_n 3._o 13._o prov._n 13._o 24._o prov._n 29._o 17._o hebr._n 12._o 9_o gen._n 34._o 30._o to_o pray_v for_o they_o 2_o sam._n 12._o 16._o job_n 1._o 5._o to_o lay_v up_o forâ—them_n two_o cor._n 12._o 14._o gen._n 24._o 36._o 2_o chron._n 21._o 3._o to_o bestow_v they_o in_o marriage_n gen._n 24._o 2_o 3._o gen._n 21._o 21._o gen._n 28._o 1._o judg._n 14._o 3_o 5._o therefore_o these_o follow_a rule_n be_v necessary_a for_o parent_n concern_v the_o same_o 1._o study_v thy_o family_n that_o thou_o may_v not_o be_v a_o stranger_n at_o home_n first_o it_o be_v necessary_a for_o thou_o to_o proportion_v the_o expense_n thereof_o and_o the_o breed_n 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and_o amity_n that_o they_o give_v not_o scandal_n to_o other_o nor_o create_v mutual_a bitterness_n to_o themselves_o mutual_a love_n be_v god_n blessing_n on_o thy_o family_n a_o praeludium_n of_o heaven_n in_o thy_o house_n a_o comfortable_a pattern_n to_o thy_o child_n like_o the_o sunbeam_n on_o thy_o possession_n as_o the_o dew_n of_o heaven_n on_o thy_o field_n which_o make_v all_o look_n cheerful_o and_o be_v fruitful_a a_o state_n that_o come_v near_o up_o to_o that_o bless_a paradise-oeconomy_a of_o adam_n innocent_a a_o blessing_n which_o make_v every_o estate_n such_o without_o which_o no_o store_n be_v bless_v 17_o bless_v pro._n 15._o 17_o better_a be_v a_o dinner_n of_o herb_n where_o love_n be_v than_o a_o stall_v ox_n and_o hatred_n therewith_o 1._o therewith_o pro._n 17._o 1._o better_a be_v a_o dry_a morsel_n and_o quietness_n therewith_o than_o a_o housefull_a of_o sacrifice_n with_o strife_n 4._o that_o they_o do_v cheerful_o and_o willing_o communicate_v in_o 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more_o endear_v they_o to_o each_o other_o 6._o that_o they_o join_v hand_n and_o heart_n to_o assist_v each_o other_o in_o the_o way_n to_o heaven_n see_v 1_o cor._n 7._o 16._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 7._o that_o they_o mutual_o defend_v each_o other_o so_o michol_n preserve_v david_n when_o saul_n seek_v his_o life_n so_o prudent_a abigail_n endeavour_v nabal_n preservation_n they_o must_v not_o be_v false_a delilah_n to_o confederate_a against_o the_o life_n or_o estate_n of_o their_o husband_n 8._o that_o they_o neither_o unjust_o take_v nor_o just_o give_v occasion_n of_o jealousy_n which_o ever_o embitter_v the_o otherways_o most_o happy_a family_n jerom_n rule_n be_v here_o to_o be_v commend_v to_o woman_n 9_o woman_n etsi_fw-la negagata_fw-la non_fw-la feceris_fw-la tamen_fw-la deform_v pute_fw-la testimonium_fw-la si_fw-la rogeris_fw-la high_a ep_n 2l_o 9_o though_o thou_o yield_v not_o be_v ask_v yet_o think_v it_o a_o odious_a testimony_n to_o be_v ask_v he_o come_v to_o near_o who_o come_v to_o be_v deny_v the_o duty_n proper_a to_o the_o husband_n may_v appear_v in_o these_o follow_a rule_n 1._o let_v the_o 7._o the_o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o husband_n dwell_v with_o his_o wife_n according_a to_o knowledge_n give_v honour_n to_o she_o as_o the_o weak_a vessel_n as_o be_v coheir_n of_o the_o grace_n of_o life_n that_o their_o prayer_n be_v not_o hinder_v where_o there_o need_v reproof_n let_v it_o neither_o be_v rough_a odious_a injurious_a public_a clamorous_a nor_o disgraceful_a but_o allay_v with_o such_o wisdom_n and_o opportune_a persuasion_n as_o may_v not_o only_o reform_v but_o endear_v in_o the_o most_o happy_a wedlock_n there_o may_v be_v some_o matter_n of_o just_a dislike_n and_o therefore_o due_a cause_n of_o reproof_n it_o much_o concern_v thou_o to_o know_v thy_o wife_n fault_n but_o not_o to_o hate_v she_o for_o they_o let_v the_o rule_n be_v either_o bear_v thy_o wife_n fault_n if_o tolerable_a with_o patience_n or_o amend_v they_o with_o direction_n if_o they_o be_v intolerable_a in_o this_o thou_o make_v she_o better_o in_o that_o thyself_o 2._o let_v a_o man_n love_v 33._o love_v eph._n 5._o 33._o his_o wife_n as_o himself_o esteem_v nothing_o too_o good_a or_o dear_a for_o her_o good_a as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n which_o conclude_v nothing_o for_o they_o who_o impious_o and_o cruel_o afflict_v their_o wife_n with_o stripe_n or_o otherwise_o for_o god_n say_v 19_o say_v col_fw-fr 3_o 19_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n and_o be_v not_o bitter_a against_o they_o it_o be_v uncertain_a whether_o they_o have_v evil_a wife_n but_o certain_a that_o they_o deserve_v such_o who_o can_v no_o otherwise_o govern_v then_o by_o blow_n neither_o do_v this_o bind_v any_o man_n to_o a_o indiscreet_a much_o less_o a_o impious_a and_o dangerous_a indulgence_n to_o his_o wife_n wherein_o she_o desire_v that_o which_o needs_o must_v or_o probable_o may_v hurt_v herself_o her_o husband_n or_o family_n it_o be_v love_n and_o wisdom_n to_o deny_v she_o that_o 3._o let_v a_o man_n maintain_v his_o wife_n in_o clothes_n and_o necessary_n according_a to_o his_o estate_n so_o as_o she_o may_v live_v cheerful_o with_o he_o not_o as_o servant_n but_o as_o a_o partner_n in_o his_o estate_n 4._o let_v the_o husband_n use_v all_o comity_n holy_a gracious_a prudent_a and_o peaceable_a language_n as_o a_o pattern_n to_o all_o his_o family_n so_o special_o as_o a_o pledge_n of_o love_n to_o his_o wife_n neither_o like_v rugged_a nabal_n nor_o fond_a and_o vain_a which_o common_o change_v into_o fit_n of_o extreme_a bitterness_n for_o who_o can_v like_v such_o inksome_a levity_n 5._o let_v the_o man_n hear_v the_o wife_n advice_n but_o never_o be_v transport_v beyond_o better_a reason_n nor_o carry_v thereby_o against_o the_o holy_a will_n of_o god_n as_o adam_n who_o dreadful_a sentence_n bear_v this_o cause_n in_o the_o front_n 17._o front_n gen._n 3._o 17._o because_o thou_o have_v hearken_v to_o the_o voice_n of_o thy_o wife_n as_o 25._o as_o 1_o king_n 21._o 25._o ahab_n hearken_v to_o the_o voice_n of_o jezabel_n as_o 3_o as_o 1_o king_n 11_o 3_o solomon_n who_o his_o wife_n most_o fearful_o corrupt_v etc._n corrupt_v anilâ—e_fw-la mihi_fw-la libre_fw-la videatur_fw-la cui_fw-la mulier_fw-la imperat_fw-la cui_fw-la leges_fw-la imponit_fw-la praescribit_fw-la iubet_fw-la vetat_fw-la qui_fw-la nihil_fw-la imperaâ—â—i_fw-la negare_fw-la potest_fw-la nihil_fw-la recusare_fw-la audetâ—â—_fw-it ego_fw-la verò_fw-la isâ—um_fw-la non_fw-la modò_fw-la servum_fw-la sed_fw-la nâ—quissimum_fw-la servum_fw-la etiamsi_fw-la in_o amplissima_fw-la â—amilta_fw-la natus_fw-la sit_fw-la appellandum_fw-la puto_fw-la cic._n pare_v omnes_fw-la sapientes_fw-la liberos_fw-la esse_fw-la etc._n etc._n the_o orator_n can_v say_v of_o a_o man_n so_o awe_v by_o his_o wife_n i_o do_v think_v that_o he_o ought_v to_o be_v call_v not_o only_o a_o slave_n but_o true_o the_o worst_a of_o such_o concern_v the_o proper_a duty_n of_o wife_n i_o sinde_v these_o three_o principle_n rule_n 1._o let_v the_o wife_n be_v 18._o be_v eph._n 5._o 22._o col_fw-fr 3._o 18._o subject_a to_o her_o husband_n as_o unto_o the_o lord_n in_o every_o thing_n for_o the_o man_n be_v the_o wife_n head_n 12._o head_n 1_o tim._n â—_o 9_o 12._o she_o be_v make_v for_o man_n god_n permit_v not_o the_o woman_n to_o usurp_v authority_n over_o the_o man_n this_o duty_n comprehend_v love_n 32._o love_n eph._n 5._o 32._o reverence_n aiâ—_n and_o assistance_n do_v her_o husband_n good_a endeavour_v to_o content_v please_v and_o comfort_v he_o see_v pro._n 31._o 11._o contrary_a to_o which_o be_v the_o imperious_a command_n of_o the_o domineer_a wife_n unreverend_a speech_n or_o action_n neglect_v of_o her_o charge_n through_o pride_n sloth_n or_o riotous_a waste_v her_o husband_n estate_n 2._o let_v she_o be_v chaste_a modest_a and_o silent_a the_o scripture_n express_v this_o by_o 10_o by_o 1_o pet._n 3._o 5_o 6_o 1_o pet._n 3_o 1_o etc._n etc._n 1_o tim._n â—_o 9_o 10_o chaste_a conversation_n couple_v with_o fear_n impudence_n and_o chastity_n be_v rare_o compatible_a and_o modest_a apparrel_v which_o become_v woman_n profess_v godliness_n andâ—let_n the_o woman_n learn_v with_o all_o subjection_n a_o meâ—k_n and_o a_o quiet_a spirit_n be_v of_o high_a esteem_n in_o god_n sight_n this_o be_v god_n rule_n by_o what_o law_n they_o live_v who_o think_v it_o religion_n and_o good_a policy_n by_o their_o loud_a and_o quarrelsome_a tongue_n bitter_a spirit_n of_o contradiction_n and_o otherwise_o to_o master_v their_o husband_n and_o cantonize_v themselves_o i_o know_v not_o it_o be_v certain_a these_o be_v heavy_a cross_n and_o no_o better_a than_o the_o sad_a fury_n possess_v and_o so_o restles_o haunt_v the_o house_n of_o a_o wretched_a man_n that_o he_o may_v well_o take_v up_o that_o old_a bemoan_v possum_fw-la bemoan_v hei_fw-la mihi_fw-la nec_fw-la sine_fw-la te_fw-la nec_fw-la tecum_fw-la vivere_fw-la possum_fw-la woe_n be_v
the_o woman_n be_v of_o the_o man_n without_o pain_n because_o innocent_a but_o now_o the_o man_n be_v of_o the_o woman_n with_o her_o sorrow_n because_o she_o have_v sin_v a_o sorrow_n so_o intense_a and_o embitter_v with_o fear_n and_o anguish_n that_o the_o holy_a ghost_n etc._n hereby_o express_v the_o condition_n of_o the_o faint_a afflict_a and_o deject_a spirit_n in_o sudden_a fear_n of_o the_o affright_a conscience_n expect_v a_o inevitable_a judgement_n the_o hour_n of_o birth_n and_o death_n the_o entrance_n and_o exit_z of_o this_o world_n be_v sole_o in_o god_n hand_n and_o secret_a counsel_n none_o else_o know_v the_o time_n nor_o be_v able_a to_o dispose_v thereof_o reason_n more_o than_o apparent_a urge_v the_o necessity_n of_o address_n to_o he_o 2._o some_o be_v the_o sepulchre_n of_o their_o child_n go_v out_o of_o ere_o they_o come_v into_o this_o world_n exile_v before_o they_o see_v a_o native_a soil_n advance_v from_o a_o short_a imprisonment_n in_o the_o womb_n to_o the_o glorious_a liberty_n of_o the_o son_n of_o god_n to_o the_o bless_a kingdom_n of_o heaven_n before_o they_o touch_v this_o cursebearing_a earth_n some_o see_v their_o benoni_n and_o thence_o have_v passage_n into_o eternal_a life_n where_o the_o sentence_n of_o death_n begin_v some_o live_v to_o taste_v their_o sorrow_n allay_v in_o â—he_n sweet_a temper_n of_o divine_a mercy_n with_o justice_n become_v rejoice_v mother_n all_o be_v dispose_v by_o the_o all-guiding_a providence_n and_o unlessen_v power_n of_o god_n word_n who_o at_o the_o beginning_n but_o speak_v and_o it_o be_v do_v it_o have_v much_o trouble_v some_o to_o think_v ii_o why_o if_o our_o sin_n be_v pardon_v in_o christ_n be_v not_o the_o punishment_n thereof_o also_o take_v away_o as_o here_o why_o the_o elect_a and_o reprobate_a the_o chaste_a matron_n and_o filthy_a adultress_n shall_v in_o this_o sentence_n share_n and_o suffer_v alike_o for_o satisfaction_n herein_o let_v the_o servant_n of_o god_n consider_v 1._o that_o whereas_o all_o sin_n though_o not_o in_o the_o same_o kind_n measure_n or_o degree_n there_o remain_v the_o same_o cause_n there_o must_v remain_v the_o same_o effect_n in_o all_o that_o bring_v forth_o 2._o this_o life_n be_v the_o stadium_n or_o race_n which_o we_o have_v through_o the_o variable_a distraction_n and_o trial_n of_o seduce_a pleasure_n and_o deject_v pain_n so_o to_o run_v that_o we_o may_v obtain_v here_o all_o be_v a_o like_a the_o 30._o wheat_n and_o the_o tare_n must_v grow_v up_o together_o unto_o the_o harvest_n the_o difference_n shall_v appear_v in_o the_o bind_n up_o which_o shall_v sufficient_o 10._o crown_v or_o punish_v 3._o god_n final_a sentence_n be_v adjourn_v to_o the_o world_n great_a assize_n the_o day_n in_o which_o he_o have_v 31._o appoint_v to_o judge_v in_o righteousness_n if_o he_o shall_v by_o present_a reward_n or_o punishment_n distinguish_v between_o good_a and_o evil_a the_o matter_n of_o religion_n will_v seem_v act_v by_o self-love_n fear_n aw_v and_o gain_v allure_a servile_a mind_n to_o secure_v and_o serve_v themselves_o not_o god_n rather_o then_o the_o love_n of_o god_n which_o be_v the_o sum_n and_o ground_n of_o all_o true_a obedience_n nor_o shall_v man_n according_a to_o the_o merciful_a ordinance_n of_o god_n live_v by_o faith_n but_o sense_n the_o life_n of_o beast_n rather_o than_o of_o man_n 12_o they_o be_v draw_v to_o obsequy_n by_o reward_n hold_v out_o to_o they_o or_o compel_v to_o duty_n by_o stripe_n but_o these_o by_o faith_n in_o the_o promise_n of_o god_n even_o when_o there_o appear_v in_o thing_n external_a etc._n no_o difference_n between_o the_o wicked_a and_o the_o just_a nor_o indeed_o shall_v god_n otherwise_o leave_v a_o due_a place_n for_o faith_n reward_n which_o be_v not_o slight_o try_v by_o our_o present_a share_n in_o secular_a evil_n with_o the_o wicked_a nor_o so_o just_a and_o great_a a_o punishment_n of_o sin_n by_o permit_v the_o disobedient_a to_o run_v on_o in_o their_o own_o way_n store_v up_o wrath_n against_o the_o day_n of_o wrath_n and_o greatn_v their_o own_o damnation_n 4._o though_o there_o be_v much_o difference_n in_o the_o issue_n between_o the_o temporal_a affliction_n common_a to_o elect_v and_o reprobate_a they_o be_v the_o beginning_n of_o destruction_n to_o these_o and_o a_o fatherly_a correction_n to_o the_o other_o that_o they_o may_v not_o be_v condemn_v with_o the_o world_n yet_o he_o continue_v they_o to_o his_o dear_a child_n in_o this_o life_n that_o they_o may_v make_v they_o thorough_o sensible_a of_o the_o odiousness_n of_o sin_n by_o the_o bitter_a effect_n thereof_o of_o god_n immutable_a and_o inviolable_a justice_n the_o same_o now_o which_o it_o be_v when_o this_o doleful_a sentence_n be_v first_o pronounce_v of_o the_o corrupt_a state_n of_o man_n deprave_a nature_n conceive_v in_o sin_n and_o therefore_o come_v into_o live_v in_o and_o go_v out_o of_o the_o world_n with_o sorrow_n and_o last_o of_o the_o necessity_n of_o our_o repair_n by_o faith_n and_o continual_a renew_v our_o repentance_n 5._o as_o all_o other_o affliction_n be_v not_o only_o mitigate_v but_o make_v good_a to_o the_o saint_n and_o 8._o cooperative_a for_o the_o best_a to_o they_o that_o love_n god_n so_o be_v this_o for_o through_o this_o temporal_a childbearing_n they_o 15._o shall_v be_v save_v if_o they_o continue_v in_o faith_n and_o charity_n with_o holiness_n and_o sobriety_n and_o in_o the_o mean_a time_n they_o be_v not_o without_o their_o peculiar_a comfort_n 1._o our_o saviour_n note_v it_o 21._o so_o soon_o as_o she_o be_v deliver_v of_o the_o child_n she_o remember_v no_o more_o the_o anguish_n for_o joy_n that_o a_o man_n be_v bear_v into_o the_o world_n doubtless_o as_o it_o be_v and_o be_v a_o 30._o affliction_n to_o be_v childless_a so_o it_o can_v but_o be_v a_o comfort_n to_o her_o that_o by_o a_o holy_a progeny_n increase_v the_o kingdom_n of_o god_n to_o be_v her_o husband_n blessing_n 128._o a_o fruitful_a vine_n upon_o the_o wall_n of_o his_o house_n god_n promise_v the_o fruit_n of_o the_o womb_n and_o the_o sweet_a olive_n branch_n round_o about_o the_o table_n for_o a_o blessing_n to_o they_o that_o fear_v he_o and_o walk_v in_o his_o way_n 2._o it_o must_v be_v a_o comfort_n to_o consider_v how_o god_n not_o only_o in_o christ_n in_o who_o 28._o male_a and_o female_a have_v equal_a interest_n have_v take_v off_o the_o curse_n from_o this_o sex_n make_v coe-heire_n with_o we_o of_o the_o same_o grace_n but_o also_o the_o dishonour_n and_o bitterness_n of_o their_o sentence_n by_o some_o peculiar_a favour_n and_o consolation_n as_o first_o that_o he_o send_v forth_o his_o 4._o son_n make_v of_o a_o woman_n without_o man_n so_o that_o he_o make_v her_o mother_n of_o christ_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n that_o she_o may_v by_o the_o power_n of_o the_o most_o high_a conceive_v her_o saviour_n that_o as_o she_o be_v the_o unhappy_a 25._o door_n to_o let_v in_o sorrow_n and_o pain_n death_n terrible_a harbinger_n and_o destruction_n on_o all_o her_o posterity_n so_o she_o may_v be_v to_o let_v in_o christ_n the_o peace_n happiness_n redeemer_n and_o life_n of_o all_o the_o elect_a second_o that_o god_n make_v her_o seed_n to_o break_v the_o serpent_n head_n 3._o that_o he_o make_v a_o woman_n the_o first_o witness_n of_o the_o accomplishment_n thereof_o in_o his_o resurrection_n from_o the_o dead_a that_o the_o sex_n that_o first_o hear_v and_o feel_v the_o sentence_n on_o sin_n shall_v first_o see_v and_o believe_v the_o ransom_n of_o our_o sin_n there_o accomplish_v where_o death_n be_v absolute_o vanquish_v 3._o in_o the_o sweet_a object_n of_o their_o affection_n they_o most_o tender_o love_v who_o suffer_v the_o most_o bitter_a sorrow_n for_o child_n god_n sometime_o express_v the_o constancy_n of_o his_o love_n by_o a_o mother_n 15._o can_v a_o mother_n forget_v can_v a_o great_a among_o the_o child_n of_o man_n have_v be_v find_v his_o infinite_a love_n and_o compassion_n towards_o man_n shall_v have_v be_v weigh_v by_o it_o 4._o in_o their_o husband_n great_a love_n as_o leah_n say_v 32._o now_o therefore_o my_o husband_n will_v love_v i_o none_o but_o the_o unnatural_a but_o will_v have_v compassion_n and_o the_o more_o tender_a love_n to_o she_o by_o who_o sorrow_n god_n have_v make_v he_o glad_a by_o the_o comfort_n of_o dear_a child_n pledge_n of_o his_o posterity_n 5._o in_o their_o child_n love_n and_o duty_n who_o 8._o forsake_v not_o the_o law_n of_o their_o mother_n as_o fool_n who_o be_v their_o live_a sorrow_n only_o the_o wicked_a forget_v their_o mother_n pain_n and_o care_n for_o they_o the_o 17._o raven_n of_o the_o valley_n be_v too_o mild_a executioner_n for_o they_o who_o despise_v their_o mother_n when_o she_o be_v old_a who_o look_v