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note_n upon_o it_o how_o cherish_v how_o the_o contrary_a grace_n may_v and_o aught_o to_o be_v instill_v to_o pag._n 38._o 2._o frowardness_n a_o spice_n of_o the_o former_a the_o parent_n duty_n here_o how_o the_o contrary_a grace_n may_v be_v enforce_v to_o pag._n 40._o 3._o the_o way_n of_o lie_v and_o the_o way_n the_o parent_n must_v take_v to_o prevent_v the_o course_n of_o it_o a_o great_a work_n if_o it_o may_v be_v do_v if_o not_o the_o child_n be_v fit_a for_o no_o society_n to_o pag._n 41._o 4._o idleness_n how_o corrupt_a and_o provoke_v labour_n how_o natural_a to_o a_o man_n how_o he_o be_v provoke_v thereunto_o to_o pag._n 43._o 5._o a_o bad_a 7._o malignus_fw-la comes_fw-la quamvis_fw-la candido_fw-la &_o simplici_fw-la rabiginem_fw-la svam_fw-la svam_fw-la affricuit_fw-la sen._n epist_n 7._o companion_n how_o infectious_a and_o corrupt_a he_o will_v defile_v the_o best_a and_o most_o candid_a nature_n with_o his_o foul_a example_n pag._n 44._o 6._o the_o evil_a of_o the_o tongue_n prevent_v by_o teach_v the_o child_n silence_n and_o this_o the_o parent_n must_v teach_v himself_o and_o his_o child_n under_o five_o notion_n the_o brief_a of_o that_o which_o concern_v the_o child_n instruction_n be_v while_o it_o be_v a_o child_n let_v its_o word_n be_v answer_n nature_n teach_v much_o at_o this_o point_n and_o they_o more_o who_o walk_v by_o a_o high_a light_n pag._n 47._o 7._o a_o oath_n a_o word_n clothe_v with_o death_n in_o a_o child_n mouth_n the_o parent_n as_o in_o all_o so_o here_o very_o exemplary_a yea_o yea_o nay_o nay_o the_o friar_n note_n upon_o those_o word_n no_o more_o must_v be_v hear_v from_o a_o child_n pag._n 48._o 8._o the_o child_n must_v be_v teach_v what_o weight_n there_o be_v in_o those_o word_n yea_o yea_o etc._n etc._n a_o good_a hint_n therefrom_o to_o teach_v the_o child_n to_o abhor_v that_o religion_n which_o give_v no_o weight_n to_o word_n nor_o oath_n neither_o pag._n 51._o 9_o 10_o 11_o 12._o nickname_n and_o 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