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and_o he_o restrain_v they_o not_o god_n judge_v his_o house_n for_o ever_o 5._o sabbath_n 5._o to_o sanctify_v the_o sabbath_n to_o keep_v holy_a the_o sabbath_n day_n not_o only_o you_o but_o all_o within_o your_o house_n the_o charge_v whereof_o lie_v main_o on_o the_o master_n of_o the_o house_n and_o next_o upon_o the_o mistress_n exod._n 20.9_o 10._o this_o godly_a covenant_n of_o your_o household_n will_v draw_v down_o god_n protection_n and_o blessing_n upon_o your_o habitation_n relation_n and_o upon_o all_o your_o affair_n the_o use_n hereof_o be_v to_o exhort_v all_o marry_v and_o marry_v person_n 1_o to_o learn_v these_o marriage_n duty_n both_o special_a and_o common_a duty_n use_v 1_o learn_v these_o marriage_n duty_n for_o any_o to_o marry_v before_o they_o know_v their_o duty_n or_o how_o to_o carry_v therein_o be_v like_o set_v up_o before_o one_o have_v learn_v the_o trade_n or_o like_o answer_v a_o matter_n before_o one_o hear_v it_o which_o be_v folly_n and_o 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wife_n may_v draw_v forth_o the_o love_n and_o kindness_n of_o a_o husband_n and_o a_o husband_n may_v extract_v the_o helpfulness_n and_o comfort_n of_o a_o wife_n by_o the_o religious_a do_v of_o their_o duty_n the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o for_o man_n or_o woman_n to_o expect_v the_o comfort_n of_o a_o relation_n and_o to_o neglect_v the_o duty_n thereof_o be_v to_o tempt_v god_n 25.24_o math._n 25.24_o and_o to_o act_v the_o part_n of_o a_o hard_a man_n who_o look_v to_o reap_v where_o he_o have_v not_o sow_v and_o to_o gather_v where_o he_o have_v not_o strew_v 3._o covenant_n 3_o the_o marriage_n covenant_n motive_n the_o solemn_a league_n and_o covenant_n you_o enter_v into_o mutual_o at_o marriage_n whereof_o god_n himself_o be_v a_o witness_n malac._n 2.14_o both_o of_o your_o make_n it_o
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male_a and_o female_a be_v in_o he_o all_o one_o 3._o that_o their_o prayer_n be_v not_o hinder_v a_o husband_n disrespect_n to_o his_o wife_n breed_v discontent_a between_o they_o distraction_n in_o the_o family_n and_o interruption_n in_o duty_n and_o a_o contempt_n of_o they_o both_o to_o which_o i_o may_v add_v that_o of_o solomon_n 12.4_o pron_z 12.4_o a_o virtuous_a woman_n be_v a_o crown_n to_o her_o husband_n and_o if_o she_o give_v he_o a_o crown_n he_o may_v afford_v to_o give_v her_o honour_n a_o husband_n by_o debase_v and_o disgrace_v his_o wife_n dishonour_v himself_o 4._o instruction_n 4._o instruction_n duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n be_v instruction_n direction_n and_o consolation_n to_o teach_v she_o counsel_v she_o lead_v and_o comfort_v she_o as_o her_o head_n eph._n 5.23_o and_o guide_v prov._n 2.17_o this_o be_v to_o dwell_v with_o she_o according_a to_o knowledge_n 1_o pet._n 3_o 7._o hence_o the_o wife_n shall_v learn_v of_o her_o husband_n 1._o 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she_o forsake_v father_n and_o mother_n and_o his_o dear_a friend_n for_o she_o and_o to_o be_v glue_v to_o she_o and_o to_o become_v one_o with_o she_o eph._n 5.31_o one_o flesh_n to_o dwell_v with_o she_o not_o only_o one_o house_n but_o one_o bed_n shall_v hold_v they_o and_o to_o rejoice_v in_o she_o eccles_n 9.9_o and_o prov._n 5.18.19_o or_o live_v joyful_o with_o she_o make_v she_o his_o chepthzibah_n and_o be_v ravish_v always_o with_o her_o love_n the_o wife_n shall_v be_v as_o dear_a to_o the_o husband_n as_o the_o hind_n be_v to_o the_o hart_n as_o the_o do_v to_o the_o roebuck_n this_o will_v make_v he_o drink_v water_n out_o of_o his_o own_o cistern_n only_o not_o the_o have_v of_o a_o wife_n but_o to_o delight_v in_o she_o and_o love_o to_o comport_v with_o she_o will_v keep_v a_o man_n chaste_a from_o embrace_v the_o bosom_n of_o a_o stranger_n prov._n 5.19_o 20._o a_o man_n shall_v count_v all_o other_o strange_a woman_n in_o comparison_n of_o a_o wife_n 6._o 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