Selected quad for the lemma: duty_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
duty_n	apostle_n	good_a	work_n	1,094	5	5.3618	4	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A00554	Counsel to the husband: to the wife instruction A short and pithy treatise of seuerall and ioynt duties, belonging vnto man and wife, as counsels to the one, and instructions to the other; for their more perfect happinesse in this present life, and their eternall glorie in the life to come.	Ste. B.	1608 (1608)	STC 1069; ESTC S118841	33,892	104

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world_n how_o he_o may_v please_v his_o wife_n thus_o they_o shall_v not_o strive_v unless_o it_o be_v to_o give_v honour_n as_o be_v say_v and_o to_o do_v service_n and_o by_o love_n to_o prevent_v each_o other_o in_o that_o which_o love_n shall_v further_o one_o another_o in_o to_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o whole_a and_o honour_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o sure_o where_o true_a love_n reign_v indeed_o and_o not_o a_o counterfeit_a show_n of_o love_n or_o where_o in_o faithful_a love_n either_o of_o they_o be_v true_o careful_a of_o each_o other_o good_a they_o shall_v not_o need_v to_o sue_v each_o other_o at_o the_o law_n for_o their_o right_n or_o complain_v they_o have_v wrong_a but_o as_o abraham_n say_v to_o lot_n 13.8.9_o gen._n 13.8.9_o let_v there_o be_v no_o strife_n i_o pray_v thou_o between_o thou_o and_o i_o etc._n etc._n but_o if_o thou_o will_v take_v the_o left_a hand_n than_o i_o will_v go_v to_o the_o right_n or_o if_o thou_o will_v go_v to_o the_o right_n i_o will_v 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counsel_n to_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n instruction_n a_o short_a and_o pithy_a treatise_n of_o several_a and_o joint_a duty_n belong_v unto_o man_n and_o wife_n as_o counsel_n to_o the_o one_o and_o instruction_n to_o the_o other_o for_o their_o more_o perfect_a happiness_n in_o this_o present_a life_n and_o their_o eternal_a glory_n in_o the_o life_n to_o come_v at_o london_n imprint_v by_o felix_n kyngston_n for_o richard_n boyle_n 1608._o to_o the_o right_n worshipful_a and_o my_o very_a christian_a friend_n master_n thomas_n gervoyse_n and_o his_o virtuous_a wife_n mistress_n lucy_n gervoyse_n true_a happiness_n in_o this_o life_n and_o eternal_a glory_n in_o the_o life_n to_o come_v be_v from_o god_n the_o father_n through_o jesus_n christ._n my_o worshipful_a dear_a friend_n in_o the_o christian_a duty_n which_o i_o owe_v unto_o your_o worshipful_a parent_n who_o have_v a_o long_a time_n deserve_v much_o at_o my_o hand_n and_o much_o more_o than_o i_o can_v repay_v as_o 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