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must_v reverence_v the_o word_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d there_o imply_v a_o reverence_n proceed_v from_o fear_n 33_o v._o 33_o yet_o no_o servile_a base_a fear_n but_o a_o love_a or_o a_o fear_n to_o give_v he_o offence_n because_o she_o love_v he_o as_o she_o be_v command_v 2.4_o tit._n 2.4_o and_o this_o kind_n of_o reverence_n fear_v or_o subjection_n arise_v from_o and_o couple_v with_o the_o mutual_a love_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n and_o the_o wife_n to_o the_o husband_n make_v it_o such_o a_o subjection_n as_o s._n paul_n speak_v of_o though_o in_o another_o case_n 3.17_o 2_o cor._n 3.17_o say_v where_o that_o the_o spirit_n of_o the_o lord_n be_v i_o say_v where_o love_n in_o the_o lord_n be_v there_o be_v liberty_n and_o such_o as_o christ_n speak_v when_o he_o say_v 11.30_o mat._n 11.30_o my_o yoke_n i_o may_v say_v the_o wife_n yoke_n thus_o fasten_v be_v easy_a and_o the_o burden_n she_o bear_v by_o such_o her_o subjection_n be_v light_n for_o love_n make_v all_o easy_a and_o light_a and_o yet_o that_o wife_n may_v not_o grumble_v or_o dispute_v against_o their_o subjection_n as_o too_o unjust_a servile_a or_o hard_o let_v they_o know_v that_o their_o subjection_n to_o their_o husband_n be_v but_o as_o to_o the_o lord_n 5.22_o eph._n 5.22_o which_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d as_o to_o the_o lord_n mean_v not_o that_o the_o wife_n must_v be_v a_o subject_n to_o her_o husband_n as_o to_o the_o lord_n god_n but_o it_o teach_v that_o she_o be_v to_o be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n according_a to_o the_o lord_n command_v 3.16_o gen._n 3.16_o or_o according_a to_o and_o so_o far_o as_o the_o husband_n shall_v command_v agreeable_a to_o and_o not_o repugnant_a to_o the_o word_n and_o will_v of_o the_o lord_n for_o if_o the_o husband_n usurp_v a_o power_n or_o command_v contrary_a to_o the_o lord_n word_n 5.29_o act._n 5.29_o the_o wife_n answer_n and_o obedience_n be_v that_o of_o s._n peter_n we_o ought_v to_o obey_v god_n 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head_n be_v to_o rule_v and_o she_o as_o the_o body_n be_v to_o obey_v her_o husband_n and_o that_o wife_n err_v not_o or_o come_v not_o short_a in_o the_o performance_n of_o this_o duty_n the_o apostle_n have_v be_v very_o careful_a to_o set_v down_o the_o qualification_n and_o necessary_a concomitant_n of_o this_o subjection_n when_o he_o bid_v the_o woman_n submit_v 5.22_o eph._n 5.22_o which_o teach_v she_o it_o shall_v be_v spontaneous_a and_o voluntary_a and_o not_o a_o force_a subjection_n 2._o that_o it_o must_v not_o be_v a_o carnal_a worldly_a but_o a_o holy_a submission_n for_o as_o to_z or_o as_o in_o the_o lord_n 3._o it_o must_v not_o be_v a_o partial_a lame_a subjection_n in_o some_o thing_n which_o the_o wife_n like_v and_o
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a_o house_n to_o keep_v it_o from_o shake_v and_o fall_v and_o this_o be_v require_v in_o the_o love_n as_o in_o the_o name_n and_o title_n of_o husband_n and_o yet_o s._n paul_n enlarge_v this_o love_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o his_o wife_n 5.29_o ephes_n 5.29_o when_o he_o tell_v the_o husband_n that_o he_o must_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d he_o must_v nourish_v and_o cherish_v she_o not_o feed_v she_o only_o for_o so_o he_o must_v do_v his_o servant_n but_o the_o word_n mind_v somewhat_o more_o to_o feed_v she_o with_o the_o best_a and_o so_o to_o nourish_v she_o and_o not_o only_a thâ—â—_n to_o nourish_v but_o to_o cherish_v which_o may_v be_v 〈◊〉_d metaphorical_a word_n take_v from_o hen_n hover_v over_o and_o cover_v the_o young_a one_o defend_v they_o from_o the_o sharpness_n of_o the_o weather_n and_o warm_v they_o by_o her_o feather_n and_o the_o heat_n of_o her_o body_n the_o plain_a and_o full_a sense_n of_o the_o word_n you_o may_v find_v in_o the_o 1_o king_n 1.2_o 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