stock_n or_o though_o he_o be_v her_o prentice_n or_o bondslave_n which_o also_o hold_v in_o the_o case_n betwixt_o a_o age_a woman_n and_o a_o youth_n for_o the_o scripture_n have_v make_v no_o exception_n in_o any_o of_o those_o case_n 2._o object_n but_o what_o if_o a_o man_n of_o lewd_a and_o beastly_a condition_n as_o a_o drunkard_n a_o glutton_n a_o profane_a swaggerer_n a_o impious_a swearer_n and_o blasphemer_n be_v marry_v to_o a_o wife_n sober_a religious_a matron_n must_v she_o account_v he_o her_o superior_a and_o worthy_a of_o a_o husband_n honour_n answ_n sure_o she_o must_v for_o the_o evil_a quality_n and_o disposition_n quality_n of_o his_o heart_n and_o life_n do_v not_o deprive_v a_o man_n of_o that_o civil_a honour_n which_o god_n have_v give_v unto_o he_o though_o a_o husband_n in_o regard_n of_o evil_a quality_n may_v carry_v the_o image_n of_o the_o devil_n yet_o in_o regard_n of_o his_o place_n and_o office_n he_o bear_v the_o â—mage_n of_o god_n so_o do_v magistrate_n in_o the_o commonwealth_n minister_n in_o the_o church_n parent_n and_o master_n in_o the_o family_n note_v for_o our_o present_a purpose_n the_o exhortation_n of_o s._n peter_n to_o christian_a wife_n which_o have_v infidel_n husband_n 2._o be_v in_o subjection_n to_o they_o let_v your_o conversation_n be_v in_o fear_n if_o infidel_n carry_v â—ot_n the_o devil_n image_n and_o be_v not_o so_o long_o as_o they_o be_v infidel_n vassal_n of_o satan_n who_o be_v yet_o wife_n must_v be_v subject_a to_o they_o and_o fear_v they_o §._o 6._o of_o wife_n deny_v honour_n to_o their_o own_o husband_n contrary_n thereunto_o be_v a_o very_a perverse_a disposition_n in_o some_o own_o wife_n who_o think_v they_o can_v better_o subject_v themselves_o to_o any_o husband_n than_o their_o own_o though_o in_o general_n they_o acknowledge_v that_o a_o husband_n be_v his_o wife_n superior_a yet_o when_o the_o application_n come_v to_o themselves_o they_o fail_v and_o can_v be_v bring_v to_o 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youth_n if_o not_o very_a boy_n a_o mind_n and_o practice_v very_o unseemly_a and_o clean_v wart_v god_n ordinance_n but_o let_v they_o think_v of_o rule_v 7._o what_o they_o list_v the_o truth_n be_v that_o they_o make_v themselves_o and_o both_o by_o god_n law_n and_o man_n of_o which_o subjection_n such_o wife_n do_v oft_o feel_v the_o heavy_a burden_n solomon_n note_v this_o to_o be_v one_o of_o the_o thing_n for_o which_o the_o earth_n be_v disquiet_v when_o 22._o a_o servant_n reign_v now_o when_o can_v a_o servant_n more_o domineer_v then_o when_o he_o have_v marry_v his_o mistress_n as_o for_o age_a woman_n who_o be_v marry_v to_o youth_n i_o may_v say_v as_o in_o another_o case_n it_o be_v say_v woe_n to_o thou_o o_o wife_n who_o husband_n be_v a_o child_n unmeet_a it_o be_v 16._o that_o a_o age_a man_n shall_v be_v marry_v to_o a_o young_a maid_n but_o much_o more_o unmeet_a for_o a_o age_a woman_n to_o be_v marry_v to_o a_o youth_n §._o 7._o of_o a_o wife_n 11_o inward_a fear_n of_o her_o husband_n hitherto_o of_o a_o wife_n acknowledgement_n of_o her_o husband_n superiority_n it_o follow_v to_o speak_v of_o that_o answerable_a respect_n which_o she_o ought_v to_o bear_v towards_o he_o a_o wive-like_a respect_n of_o her_o husband_n consist_v in_o two_o point_n 1._o reverence_n 2._o obedience_n  _fw-fr the_o reverence_n which_o she_o owe_v to_o he_o be_v fear_n 1._o inward_a 2._o outward_a  _fw-fr inward_a reverence_n be_v a_o awful_a respect_n which_o a_o wife_n in_o her_o heart_n have_v of_o her_o husband_n esteem_v he_o worthy_a of_o all_o honour_n for_o his_o place_n and_o office_n sake_n because_o he_o be_v her_o husband_n doubtless_o sarah_n have_v in_o her_o heart_n a_o reverend_a respect_n and_o honourable_a esteem_n of_o her_o husband_n when_o 12._o be_v alone_o and_o think_v of_o he_o in_o her_o very_a thought_n she_o give_v he_o this_o title_n lord._n this_o inward_a reverence_n the_o scripture_n comprise_v under_o this_o word_n fear_v as_o where_o our_o apostle_n say_v 〈◊〉_d let_v the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o fear_v her_o husband_n and_o where_o 〈◊〉_d s._n peter_n exhort_v wife_n to_o have_v their_o conversation_n in_o fear_n it_o be_v no_o slavish_a fear_n of_o her_o husband_n which_o ought_v to_o possess_v the_o heart_n of_o a_o wife_n dread_v blow_n frown_n spiteful_a word_n or_o the_o like_a but_o such_o a_o awful_a respect_n of_o he_o as_o make_v she_o to_o use_v the_o apostle_n word_n 34._o care_v how_o she_o may_v please_v he_o this_o wive-like_a fear_n be_v manifest_v by_o two_o effect_n one_o be_v joy_n when_o she_o give_v contentment_n to_o her_o husband_n and_o observe_v he_o to_o be_v please_v with_o that_o which_o she_o do_v the_o other_o be_v grief_n when_o he_o be_v just_o offend_v and_o grieve_a especial_o with_o any_o thing_n that_o she_o herself_o have_v do_v unless_o this_o inward_a reverence_n and_o due_a respect_n of_o a_o husband_n duty_n be_v first_o place_v in_o the_o heart_n of_o a_o wife_n either_o no_o outward_a reverence_n and_o obedience_n will_v be_v perform_v at_o all_o or_o if_o it_o be_v perform_v it_o will_v be_v very_o unsound_a only_o in_o show_n hypocritical_a and_o deceitful_a so_o that_o as_o good_a never_o a_o whit_n as_o never_o the_o better_a for_o according_a to_o one_o inward_a affection_n and_o disposition_n will_v the_o outward_a action_n and_o conversation_n be_v frame_v 16._o michal_n first_o despise_v david_n in_o her_o heart_n and_o thence_o it_o follow_v that_o she_o heart_n utteredmost_fw-mi unreverend_a and_o vile_a speech_n of_o he_o even_o to_o his_o face_n wherefore_o after_o the_o judgement_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v right_o inform_v of_o a_o husband_n superiority_n and_o her_o will_n persuade_v to_o account_v she_o own_o husband_n her_o head_n and_o guide_v it_o be_v very_o needful_a that_o her_o heart_n and_o affection_n be_v according_o season_v with_o the_o salt_n of_o good_a respect_n and_o high_a esteem_n which_o breed_v fear_n and_o that_o thus_o her_o heart_n may_v be_v season_v she_o ought_v oft_o and_o serious_o to_o meditate_v of_o his_o place_n and_o office_n and_o of_o that_o honour_n which_o the_o lord_n by_o virtue_n thereof_o have_v plant_v in_o he_o and_o if_o he_o have_v gift_n worthy_a his_o place_n as_o knowledge_n wisdom_n piety_n temperance_n love_n and_o the_o like_a she_o ought_v to_o take_v notice_n thereof_o and_o to_o think_v he_o worthy_a of_o double_a honour_n §._o 8._o of_o a_o wife_n base_a esteem_n of_o her_o husband_n contrary_n to_o this_o inward_a reverence_n of_o the_o heart_n be_v a_o base_a and_o wile_n esteem_v which_o many_o have_v of_o their_o husband_n think_v no_o better_a of_o they_o then_o of_o other_o man_n nay_o worse_o than_o of_o other_o despise_v their_o husband_n in_o their_o heart_n like_o michal_n of_o who_o we_o hear_v before_o this_o as_o it_o be_v in_o itself_o a_o vile_a vice_n so_o be_v â—t_a a_o cause_n of_o many_o other_o vice_n as_o of_o presumption_n rebellion_n ariseth_z yea_o and_o of_o adultery_n itself_o many_o time_n and_o it_o be_v also_o a_o main_a hindrance_n of_o all_o duty_n it_o common_o rise_v either_o from_o self-conceit_n whereby_o wife_n overween_v their_o own_o gift_n think_v they_o so_o excellent_a self-conceit_n be_v they_o need_v no_o guide_n or_o head_n but_o be_v rather_o fit_a to_o guide_v and_o rule_v both_o their_o husband_n and_o all_o the_o household_n of_o which_o proud_a and_o presumptuous_a spirit_n jezabel_n seem_v to_o be_v who_o with_o a_o audacious_a and_o impudent_a face_n say_v to_o ahab_n her_o husband_n 7._o do_v thou_o now_o govern_v the_o kingdom_n of_o israel_n up_o i_o will_v give_v thou_o the_o vineyard_n of_o naboth_n so_o also_o all_o those_o wife_n which_o be_v note_v to_o draw_v away_o their_o husband_n heart_n from_o the_o
to_o hate_v his_o wife_n nor_o any_o vice_n seem_v to_o he_o intolerable_a with_o goodness_n he_o â—â—ught_v to_o overcome_v evil_a if_o notorious_a sin_n seem_v intolerable_a to_o christ_n or_o that_o he_o think_v any_o occasion_n just_a to_o cause_v hatred_n many_o â—hat_n be_v of_o his_o church_n will_v oft_o draw_v his_o hatred_n upon_o they_o but_o christ_n hate_v never_o a_o member_n of_o his_o church_n 4._o there_o be_v no_o hope_n that_o ever_o i_o shall_v receive_v any_o help_n of_o my_o object_n wife_n or_o benefit_n from_o she_o ans_fw-fr there_o be_v little_a charity_n in_o such_o as_o can_v conceive_v no_o hope_n for_o â—ue_v hope_v all_o thing_n but_o yet_o the_o case_n so_o stand_v with_o christ_n the_o 7._o church_n be_v so_o utter_o unable_a to_o help_v or_o benefit_v he_o as_o he_o may_v just_o â—y_a he_o can_v hope_v to_o receive_v any_o thing_n from_o she_o christ_n love_v the_o church_n for_o her_o own_o good_a not_o for_o he_o so_o ought_v husband_n thus_o if_o 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flesh_n 3._o he_o that_o love_v his_o wife_n love_v himself_o the_o apostle_n himself_o 28._o in_o these_o very_a word_n lay_v down_o this_o conclusion_n from_o whence_o by_o the_o rule_n of_o contrary_n this_o also_o will_v follow_v he_o that_o love_v not_o his_o wife_n love_v not_o himself_o 4._o he_o that_o love_v not_o his_o wife_n can_v but_o bring_v woe_n and_o mischief_n upon_o himself_o for_o the_o damage_n and_o mischief_n which_o follow_v on_o a_o wife_n through_o any_o neglect_n of_o duty_n on_o her_o husband_n part_n follow_v also_o on_o he_o as_o the_o mischief_n which_o follow_v on_o the_o body_n through_o any_o negligence_n of_o the_o head_n light_v also_o on_o the_o head_n if_o these_o be_v not_o motive_n sufficient_a to_o provoke_v a_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n i_o know_v not_o what_o can_v be_v sufficient_a the_o five_o treatise_n duty_n of_o child_n §._o 1._o of_o the_o general_a head_n of_o child_n duty_n ephes._n 6._o 1._o child_n obey_v your_o parent_n 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live_v have_v respect_n to_o their_o authority_n necessity_n  _fw-fr the_o authority_n of_o parent_n require_v of_o child_n reverence_n obedience_n  _fw-fr their_a necessity_n require_v recompense_n the_o duty_n which_o child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n decease_v respect_v their_o body_n credit_n  _fw-fr their_a body_n with_o decency_n must_v be_v bury_v their_o credit_n with_o honour_n must_v be_v maintain_v §._o 2._o of_o child_n love_n to_o their_o parent_n i_o make_v the_o fountain_n of_o child_n duty_n to_o be_v a_o mix_v and_o compound_a disposition_n in_o respect_n of_o that_o authority_n and_o affection_n which_o be_v mix_v together_o in_o parent_n the_o authority_n of_o parent_n require_v fear_n in_o child_n and_o their_o affection_n love_n so_o entire_a and_o so_o ardent_a be_v parent_n affection_n towards_o their_o child_n as_o it_o will_v make_v child_n too_o bold_a and_o insolent_a if_o there_o be_v not_o authority_n mix_v therewith_o to_o work_v fear_n and_o so_o 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covetous_o dote_v upon_o their_o wealth_n as_o they_o will_v not_o bestow_v a_o groat_n to_o help_v they_o in_o call_v and_o marriage_n but_o say_v they_o keep_v all_o for_o they_o what_o a_o wretched_a and_o foolish_a disposition_n be_v this_o that_o they_o shall_v still_o lay_v up_o more_o and_o more_o for_o their_o child_n and_o yet_o refuse_v to_o bestow_v any_o part_n thereof_o upon_o they_o in_o their_o great_a need_n when_o it_o may_v redound_v to_o their_o great_a benefit_n god_n oft_o meet_v with_o such_o covetous_a miser_n and_o cross_v their_o purpose_n by_o make_v stranger_n to_o enjoy_v that_o which_o they_o greedy_o hoard_a up_o §._o 58._o of_o parent_n last_o speech_n to_o their_o child_n the_o last_o duty_n which_o parent_n owe_v to_o their_o child_n be_v when_o they_o cease_v to_o be_v parent_n that_o be_v when_o they_o be_v go_v out_o of_o this_o world_n their_o duty_n at_o that_o time_n in_o general_n be_v to_o do_v what_o lie_v in_o they_o that_o it_o may_v go_v well_o with_o their_o child_n after_o their_o departure_n both_o 6._o the_o reason_n which_o be_v oft_o urge_v by_o the_o holy_a ghost_n to_o stir_v up_o parent_n to_o yield_v obedience_n to_o god_n take_v from_o extent_n of_o god_n blessing_n in_o this_o kind_n of_o phrase_n 7._o bless_a shall_v their_o child_n be_v after_o they_o and_o god_n 29._o promise_v make_v to_o that_o purpose_n do_v prove_v as_o much_o for_o the_o better_a perform_v of_o this_o duty_n three_o general_a point_n tend_v both_o to_o the_o temporal_a and_o also_o to_o the_o spiritual_a good_a of_o child_n be_v to_o be_v observe_v and_o two_o particular_a point_n most_o tend_v to_o their_o temporal_a estate_n the_o three_o general_n be_v these_o 1._o good_a direction_n 2._o faithful_a prayer_n 3._o a_o wise_a choice_n of_o some_o friend_n to_o be_v as_o parent_n to_o they_o 1._o child_n for_o direction_n when_o parent_n observe_v their_o time_n to_o draw_v near_o they_o ought_v to_o commend_v some_o wise_a and_o wholesome_a precept_n unto_o their_o child_n the_o better_a to_o direct_v they_o in_o their_o christian_a course_n so_o do_v 4._o isaak_n and_o etc._n jaakob_n ob._n these_o patriarch_n have_v a_o extraordinary_a spirit_n of_o prophesy_v &_o by_o virtue_n thereof_o foretell_v their_o child_n thing_n to_o come_v answ_n 9_o they_o sustain_v a_o double_a person_n one_o of_o a_o prophet_n another_o of_o a_o father_n as_o prophet_n they_o have_v a_o extraordinary_a spirit_n as_o parent_n they_o perform_v ordinary_a duty_n by_o their_o extraordinary_a spirit_n they_o foretell_v thing_n to_o come_v the_o ordinary_a duty_n which_o they_o perform_v be_v to_o direct_v their_o child_n how_o to_o carry_v themselves_o in_o those_o time_n to_o come_v for_o their_o prophecy_n be_v not_o only_a prediction_n but_o also_o instruction_n to_o direct_v and_o teach_v they_o what_o to_o do_v what_o they_o do_v by_o a_o extraordinary_a spirit_n in_o extraordinary_a thing_n we_o must_v do_v in_o ordinary_a duty_n by_o the_o ordinary_a spirit_n of_o understanding_n and_o wisdom_n which_o the_o lord_n give_v us._n but_o the_o direction_n which_o etc._n isaak_n give_v to_o jaakob_n when_o he_o send_v he_o to_o laban_n be_v no_o extraordinary_a pprophecy_n nor_o that_o which_o 9_o david_n when_o he_o be_v old_a give_v to_o solomon_n and_o again_o etc._n when_o he_o lie_v on_o his_o deathbed_n now_o these_o thing_n be_v thus_o write_v for_o our_o imitation_n and_o great_a reason_n there_o be_v to_o imitate_v those_o holy_a man_n in_o these_o thing_n for_o 1._o the_o word_n of_o a_o die_a parent_n be_v common_o most_v regard_v his_o last_o word_n do_v make_v a_o deep_a impression_n 16._o this_o do_v the_o brethren_n of_o joseph_n press_v upon_o he_o if_o ever_o therefore_o there_o be_v a_o time_n seasonable_a for_o a_o parent_n to_o give_v good_a instruction_n to_o his_o child_n then_o be_v the_o time_n when_o parent_n be_v clean_o depart_v from_o their_o child_n 2._o thus_o shall_v a_o parent_n manifest_v his_o true_a affection_n and_o earnest_a desire_n of_o his_o child_n good_n for_o now_o they_o can_v think_v that_o he_o seek_v his_o own_o ease_n and_o profit_n more_o than_o their_o good_a as_o at_o other_o time_n some_o will_v be_v ready_a to_o say_v of_o their_o parent_n instruction_n and_o admonition_n our_o parent_n know_v what_o be_v good_a for_o themselves_o that_o the_o last_o word_n of_o parent_n may_v be_v the_o more_o seasonable_o and_o direction_n profitable_o deliver_v to_o their_o child_n they_o must_v note_v on_o the_o one_o side_n what_o evil_n their_o child_n be_v most_o prone_a unto_o what_o temptation_n they_o be_v most_o assault_v withal_o what_o snare_n they_o be_v most_o like_a to_o fall_v into_o and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n what_o virtue_n and_o grace_n be_v most_o needful_a for_o they_o and_o wherein_o they_o fail_v most_o and_o according_o they_o must_v order_v and_o frame_v their_o last_o word_n note_v for_o a_o pattern_n herein_o etc._n isaak_v counsel_n to_o jaakob_n when_o he_o send_v he_o to_o laban_n and_o think_v he_o shall_v never_o see_v he_o again_o and_o 3._o david_n to_o his_o son_n solomon_n §._o 59_o of_o parent_n last_o blessing_n to_o their_o child_n ii_o concern_v the_o prayer_n of_o parent_n for_o their_o child_n i_o note_v it_o 4._o before_o to_o be_v a_o general_a duty_n never_o to_o be_v omit_v yet_o here_o in_o particular_a i_o mention_v it_o again_o because_o a_o parent_n blessing_n consist_v therein_o especial_o and_o then_o be_v the_o most_o proper_a time_n for_o parent_n to_o bestow_v a_o blessing_n on_o their_o child_n as_o 3._o isaak_n 15._o jaakob_n 19_o david_n and_o other_o do_v let_v parent_n therefore_o as_o they_o commend_v their_o own_o soul_n into_o god_n hand_n so_o commend_v their_o child_n unto_o god_n grace_n and_o blessing_n god_n providence_n be_v a_o good_a inheritance_n many_o child_n do_v thereby_o exceed_o prosper_v though_o they_o have_v but_o small_a outward_a mean_n whereas_o other_o that_o have_v great_a mean_n use_v for_o their_o good_a come_v to_o ruin_n god_n curse_v follow_v they_o now_o no_o such_o mean_n can_v be_v think_v of_o to_o procure_v god_n blessing_n or_o to_o withhold_v his_o curse_n as_o the_o faithful_a prayer_n of_o parent_n for_o their_o child_n especial_o when_o parent_n be_v leave_v their_o child_n and_o go_v to_o god_n §._o 60._o of_o parent_n care_n to_o commend_v their_o child_n to_o some_o faithful_a friend_n iii_o the_o three_o general_a point_n of_o make_v choice_n of_o some_o faithful_a friend_n to_o commend_v their_o child_n unto_o be_v especial_o in_o behalf_n of_o such_o as_o be_v not_o of_o sufficient_a age_n and_o discretion_n to_o look_v to_o themselves_o or_o to_o those_o weighty_a affair_n which_o belong_v unto_o they_o the_o friend_n which_o in_o this_o case_n be_v make_v choice_n of_o aught_o to_o be_v such_o as_o the_o parent_n themselves_o by_o good_a experience_n have_v find_v to_o be_v honest_a wise_a faithful_a and_o love_v to_o they_o and_o they_o who_o parent_n be_v to_o set_v in_o their_o own_o place_n for_o the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n this_o mean_n do_v david_n use_v when_o he_o be_v old_a in_o the_o behalf_n 21._o of_o his_o son_n solomon_n many_o child_n have_v find_v much_o help_n thereby_o such_o may_v make_v a_o good_a supply_n of_o the_o departure_n of_o parent_n these_o be_v so_o much_o the_o more_o needful_a by_o how_o much_o the_o more_o unstable_a and_o unbridled_a youth_n be_v and_o by_o how_o much_o the_o less_o able_a child_n be_v to_o help_v and_o guide_v themselves_o §._o 61._o of_o parent_n neglect_n of_o their_o child_n for_o the_o time_n to_o come_v contrary_n to_o a_o parent_n providence_n for_o the_o good_a of_o his_o child_n after_o his_o departure_n be_v the_o carelessness_n of_o parent_n for_o the_o time_n to_o come_v they_o think_v the_o world_n be_v go_v with_o they_o when_o they_o be_v go_v and_o therefore_o they_o will_v take_v no_o thought_n for_o the_o future_a time_n that_o shall_v be_v after_o they_o as_o if_o it_o be_v enough_o for_o every_o one_o to_o look_v to_o his_o own_o time_n there_o may_v seem_v to_o be_v more_o self-love_n in_o such_o parent_n than_o love_v of_o their_o child_n in_o that_o their_o care_n determine_v with_o their_o own_o time_n and_o extend_v not_o itself_o to_o the_o time_n and_o continuance_n of_o their_o child_n hence_o be_v it_o that_o not_o a_o word_n of_o direction_n and_o exhortation_n come_v out_o of_o their_o mouth_n to_o their_o child_n when_o they_o be_v depart_v no_o blessing_n that_o they_o will_v leave_v behind_o they_o no_o friend_n shall_v be_v depute_v by_o they_o to_o be_v as_o parent_n to_o their_o child_n let_v god_n provide_v say_v they_o but_o where_o there_o be_v a_o refer_v of_o
pure_a cheerful_a constant_a for_o conscience_n sake_n §_o 54_o 55_o etc._n etc._n treat_n iv._o  _fw-fr particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n  _fw-fr wjsdome_n and_o love_n the_o general_a head_n of_o all_o husband_n duty_n §_o 2_o 4._o  _fw-fr 1_o acknowledgement_n of_o a_o wife_n near_o conjunction_n and_o fellowship_n with_o her_o husband_n §_o 6._o 2_o a_o good_a esteem_n of_o his_o own_o wise_a to_o be_v the_o best_a for_o he_o and_o worthy_a of_o love_n on_o his_o part_n §_o 9_o 3_o a_o inward_a entire_a affection_n §_o 11._o 4_o a_o outward_a amiable_a carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n which_o consist_v in_o a_o husband-like_a gravity_n mildness_n courteous_a acceptance_n of_o her_o courtesy_n and_o allow_v she_o to_o wear_v fit_a apparel_n §_o 4_o 15_o 22_o 40_o 49._o 5_o mild_a and_o love_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o his_o wife_n §_o 24_o 25_o 26_o etc._n etc._n 6_o a_o wise_a maintain_v his_o authority_n and_o forbear_v to_o exact_v all_o that_o be_v in_o his_o power_n §_o 4_o 18._o 7_o a_o ready_a yield_v to_o his_o wife_n request_n and_o give_v a_o general_a consent_n and_o liberty_n unto_o she_o to_o order_v the_o affair_n of_o the_o house_n child_n servant_n etc._n etc._n and_o a_o free_a allow_v she_o something_o to_o bestow_v as_o she_o see_v occasion_n §_o 18_o 54._o 8_o a_o forbearing_z to_o exact_v more_o than_o his_o wife_n be_v willing_a to_o do_v or_o to_o force_v she_o to_o dwell_v where_o it_o be_v not_o meet_v or_o to_o enjoin_v she_o to_o do_v thing_n unmeet_a in_o themselves_o or_o against_o her_o mind_n §_o 18_o 26._o 9_o a_o wise_a order_n of_o reproof_n not_o use_v it_o without_o just_a and_o weighty_a cause_n and_o then_o private_o and_o meek_o §_o 35_o 38._o 10_o a_o provident_a care_n for_o his_o wife_n according_a to_o his_o ability_n §_o 46_o 49_o 50_o 52._o 11_o a_o forbearing_z to_o exact_v any_o thing_n which_o stand_v not_o with_o a_o good_a conscience_n §_o 26._o 12_o such_o a_o love_n as_o christ_n bear_v to_o the_o church_n and_o man_n to_o himself_o which_o be_v first_o free_a in_o deed_n and_o truth_n pure_a chaste_a constant_a §_o 61_o etc._n etc._n and_o 74._o treat_n iii_o  _fw-fr aberration_n of_o wife_n from_o their_o particular_a duty_n  _fw-fr ambition_n the_o general_a ground_n of_o the_o aberration_n of_o wife_n §_o 2._o  _fw-fr 1_o a_o conceit_n that_o wife_n be_v their_o husband_n equal_n §_o 4._o 2_o a_o conceit_n that_o she_o can_v better_o subject_v herself_o to_o any_o other_o man_n then_o to_o her_o own_o husband_n §_o 6._o 3_o a_o inward_a despise_n of_o her_o husband_n §_o 8._o 4_o vnreverend_a behaviour_n towards_o her_o husband_n manifest_v by_o lightness_n sullenness_n scornfulnes_n and_o vanity_n in_o her_o attire_n §_o 9_o 10_o 11_o 12._o 5_o vnreverend_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o her_o husband_n §_o 13_o 14_o 15_o 16._o 6_o a_o stout_a stand_n on_o her_o own_o will_n §_o 17._o 7_o a_o peremptory_a undertake_n to_o do_v thing_n as_o she_o list_v without_o and_o against_o her_o husband_n consent_n this_o be_v manifest_v by_o privy_a purloin_v his_o good_n take_v allowance_n order_v child_n servant_n and_o cattle_n feast_v stranger_n make_v journey_n and_o vow_n as_o herself_o list_v §_o 42._o 8_o a_o obstinate_a stand_n upon_o her_o own_o will_n make_v her_o husband_n dwell_v where_o she_o will_v and_o refuse_v to_o go_v when_o he_o call_v or_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n upon_o his_o command_n §_o 44_o 45_o 46_o 67._o 9_o disdain_n at_o reproof_n give_v word_n for_o word_n and_o wax_v worse_o for_o be_v reprove_v §_o 47_o 48._o 10_o discontent_n at_o her_o husband_n estate_n §_o 50._o 11_o such_o a_o please_a of_o her_o husband_n as_o offend_v christ_n §_o 53._o 12_o such_o a_o subjection_n as_o be_v most_o unlike_a to_o the_o church_n viz._n feign_a force_a fickle_a etc._n etc._n §_o 56_o etc._n etc._n treat_n iv._o  _fw-fr aberration_n of_o husband_n from_o their_o particular_a duty_n  _fw-fr want_n of_o wisdom_n and_o love_n the_o general_a ground_n of_o the_o aberration_n of_o husband_n §_o 3_o 5._o  _fw-fr 1_o too_o mean_a account_n of_o wife_n §_o 8._o 2_o a_o preposterous_a conceit_n of_o his_o own_o wife_n to_o be_v the_o worst_a of_o all_o and_o that_o he_o can_v love_v any_o but_o she_o §_o 10._o 3_o a_o stoical_a disposition_n without_o all_o heat_n of_o affection_n §_o 12._o 4_o a_o unbeseeming_a carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n manifest_v by_o his_o baseness_n tyrannical_a usage_n of_o she_o loftiness_n harshness_n and_o niggardliness_n §_o 5_o 15_o 17_o 41_o 44_o 53._o 5_o harsh_a proud_a and_o bitter_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o his_o wife_n §_o 24_o 25_o 30_o 32_o 36_o 39_o 6_o lose_v of_o his_o authority_n §_o 5._o 7_o too_o much_o strictness_n over_o his_o wife_n this_o be_v manifest_v by_o restrain_v she_o from_o do_v any_o thing_n without_o particular_a and_o express_a consent_n take_v too_o strict_a account_n of_o she_o and_o allow_v she_o no_o more_o than_o be_v needful_a for_o her_o own_o private_a use_n §_o 19_o 55._o 8_o too_o lordly_a a_o stand_n upon_o the_o high_a step_n of_o his_o authority_n be_v too_o frequent_a insolent_a and_o peremptory_a in_o command_a thing_n frivolous_a unmeet_a and_o against_o his_o wife_n mind_n and_o conscience_n §_o 30_o 32._o 9_o rashness_n and_o bitterness_n in_o reprove_v and_o that_o too_o frequent_o on_o slight_a occasion_n and_o disgraceful_o before_o child_n servant_n and_o stranger_n §_o 36_o 38_o 39_o 10_o a_o careless_a neglect_n of_o his_o wife_n and_o niggardly_a deal_n with_o she_o and_o that_o in_o her_o weakness_n §_o 46_o 51_o 53_o 11_o a_o command_a of_o unlawful_a thing_n §_o 26_o 30_o 32._o 12_o such_o a_o disposition_n as_o be_v most_o unlike_a to_o christ_n and_o to_o that_o which_o a_o man_n bear_v to_o himself_o viz._n complemental_a impure_a for_o by-respect_n unconstant_a etc._n etc._n §_o 62_o etc._n etc._n and_o 74._o a_o table_n of_o the_o several_a point_n handle_v in_o the_o eight_o treatise_n of_o domestical_a duty_n i._o treatise_n a_o exposition_n of_o that_o part_n of_o scripture_n out_o of_o which_o domestical_a duty_n be_v raise_v §_o 1_o of_o the_o apostle_n transition_n from_o general_a duty_n to_o particular_n pag._n 1_o 2_o of_o join_v service_n to_o man_n with_o praise_v of_o god_n 2_o 3_o of_o every_o one_o submit_v himself_o to_o another_o 4_o 4_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n 8_o 5_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n move_v we_o to_o do_v service_n to_o man_n 11_o 6_o of_o limit_v all_o duty_n to_o man_n within_o the_o compass_n of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n 13_o 7_o of_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o particular_a calling_n 16_o 8_o of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o private_a function_n in_o a_o family_n 17_o 9_o of_o the_o apostle_n order_n in_o lay_v down_o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o the_o first_o place_n 20_o 10_o of_o the_o apostle_n order_n in_o set_v down_o inferior_n duty_n in_o the_o first_o place_n 21_o 11_o of_o the_o reason_n why_o wife_n duty_n be_v first_o teach_v 25_o 12_o of_o wife_n subjection_n 26_o 13_o of_o the_o person_n to_o who_o wife_n must_v be_v subject_a 27_o 14_o how_o a_o husband_n be_v his_o wife_n head_n 29_o 15_o of_o the_o resemblance_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o christ_n 30_o 16_o of_o the_o resemblance_n betwixt_o the_o church_n to_o christ_n 31_o a_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n  _fw-fr  _fw-fr 17_o of_o the_o relation_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n 32_o 18_o of_o the_o benefit_n of_o christ_n headship_n 34_o 19_o of_o christ_n a_o sufficient_a saviour_n 35_o 20_o of_o christ_n the_o only_a saviour_n 36_o 21_o of_o the_o church_n the_o body_n of_o christ_n 38_o 22_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o christ_n goodness_n to_o all_o his_o body_n 38_o 23_o of_o the_o restraint_n of_o the_o benefit_n of_o christ_n headship_n to_o they_o only_o that_o be_v of_o his_o body_n 40_o 24_o of_o the_o church_n subjection_n to_o christ_n 41_o 25_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o the_o church_n subjection_n 42_o 26_o of_o the_o sum_n of_o husband_n 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the_o church_n justification_n 55_o 37_o of_o the_o church_n sanctification_n 56_o 38_o of_o the_o church_n purity_n before_o god_n and_o man_n 56_o 39_o of_o the_o order_n and_o dependence_n of_o justification_n and_o sanctification_n one_o upon_o another_o 58_o 40_o of_o sacramental_a wash_n of_o water_n 59_o 41_o how_o baptism_n be_v a_o mean_n of_o cleanse_v and_o sanctify_v 60_o 42_o objection_n against_o the_o efficacy_n of_o baptism_n answer_v 61_o 43_o what_o kind_n of_o mean_n of_o grace_n baptism_n be_v 62_o 44_o of_o the_o necessity_n of_o baptism_n 62_o 45_o of_o the_o contrary_a extreme_n of_o papist_n and_o ana._n baptist_n about_o the_o necessity_n and_o efficacy_n of_o baptism_n 63_o 46_o of_o the_o inward_a wash_n by_o baptism_n 65_o 47_o of_o join_v the_o word_n with_o baptism_n 66_o 48_o of_o the_o inference_n of_o glorification_n upon_o instification_n and_o sanctification_n 68_o 49_o of_o the_o fruition_n of_o christ_n presence_n in_o heaven_n 70_o 50_o of_o the_o glory_n of_o the_o church_n in_o heaven_n 72_o 51_o of_o the_o church_n freedom_n from_o all_o deformity_n in_o heaven_n 73_o 52_o of_o the_o perfect_a purity_n of_o the_o church_n in_o heaven_n 74_o 53_o of_o the_o application_n of_o the_o thing_n which_o christ_n have_v do_v for_o the_o the_o church_n unto_o husband_n 75_o 54_o of_o the_o application_n of_o the_o love_n which_o a_o man_n bear_v to_o himself_o unto_o a_o husband_n 76_o 55_o of_o the_o amplification_n of_o a_o man_n love_n of_o himself_o 78_o 56_o of_o man_n natural_a affection_n to_o himself_o 79_o 57_o of_o natural_a self-love_n 80_o 58_o of_o spiritual_a self-love_n 82_o 59_o of_o evil_a self-love_n 82_o 60_o of_o the_o error_n of_o stoic_n in_o condemn_v all_o passion_n 83_o 61_o of_o well_o use_v natural_a affection_n 83_o 62_o of_o man_n forbear_v to_o wrong_v himself_o 84_o 63_o of_o unnatural_a practice_n against_o one_o self_n 85_o 64_o of_o hater_n of_o other_o 86_o 65_o of_o man_n care_n in_o provide_v and_o use_v thing_n needful_a for_o his_o body_n 87_o 66_o of_o they_o that_o neglect_v to_o cherish_v their_o body_n 88_o 67_o of_o contentment_n in_o that_o which_o be_v sufficient_a 89_o 68_o of_o christ_n forbear_v to_o hate_v the_o church_n 90_o 69_o of_o christ_n nourish_v and_o cherish_v his_o church_n 91_o 70_o of_o the_o union_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o saint_n 93_o 71_o of_o the_o privilege_n appertain_v to_o the_o saint_n even_o in_o this_o life_n by_o reason_n of_o their_o union_n with_o christ_n 98_o 72_o of_o the_o privilege_n of_o our_o union_n with_o christ_n in_o the_o time_n of_o death_n 102_o 73_o of_o the_o privilege_n of_o our_o union_n with_o christ_n after_o death_n 103_o 74_o of_o the_o duty_n which_o be_v require_v of_o the_o saint_n by_o virtue_n of_o their_o union_n with_o christ_n 104_o 75_o of_o their_o regeneration_n who_o be_v member_n of_o christ_n 105_o 76_o of_o the_o author_n of_o our_o regeneration_n christ_n 106_o 77_o of_o the_o matter_n of_o our_o 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of_o the_o church_n 125_o 92_o of_o the_o false_a sacrament_n of_o marriage_n 126_o 93_o of_o the_o sum_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n duty_n 128_o 94_o of_o apply_v the_o word_n to_o ourselves_o 129_o 95_o of_o every_o one_o look_v to_o his_o own_o duty_n especial_o 130_o 96_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o first_o verse_n of_o the_o six_o chapter_n 132_o 97_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o second_o verse_n 134_o 98_o of_o aim_v at_o our_o own_o in_o seek_v the_o good_a of_o other_o 137_o 99_o of_o prefer_v honesty_n before_o commodity_n 138_o 100_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o three_o verse_n 139_o 101_o of_o prosperity_n how_o far_o forth_o it_o may_v be_v a_o blessing_n 140_o 102_o of_o prosperity_n bestow_v on_o the_o wicked_a how_o it_o prove_v a_o curse_n 141_o 103_o how_o both_o have_v and_o want_v prosperity_n be_v a_o blessing_n to_o the_o saint_n 142_o 104_o of_o long-life_n how_o far_o forth_o it_o be_v a_o blessing_n 143_o 105_o of_o long_a life_n prove_v a_o curse_n to_o the_o wicked_a 144_o 106_o of_o limit_v the_o promise_n of_o temporal_a blessing_n 144_o 107_o of_o appropriate_a prosperity_n and_o long_a life_n to_o the_o obedience_n which_o child_n yield_v to_o their_o parent_n 145_o 108_o of_o god_n order_v his_o favour_n so_o as_o they_o may_v appear_v to_o be_v true_a blessing_n 147_o 109_o of_o god_n high_a account_n of_o dutiful_a child_n 148_o 110_o of_o child_n do_n good_a to_o themselves_o by_o honour_v their_o parent_n 148_o 111_o of_o parent_n do_v good_a to_o their_o child_n by_o keep_v they_o under_o obedience_n 149_o 112_o of_o the_o perpetuity_n of_o the_o substance_n of_o such_o thing_n as_o in_o their_o circumstance_n respect_v the_o jew_n be_v vanish_v 150_o 113_o of_o the_o determine_a period_n of_o man_n life_n 151_o 114_o of_o reward_n promise_v to_o obedience_n that_o it_o imply_v no_o merit_n 153_o 115_o of_o the_o connexion_n of_o parent_n duty_n with_o child_n 153_o 116_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o these_o word_n father_n child_n 154_o 117_o of_o parent_n provoke_v child_n 155_o 118_o of_o parent_n seek_v the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n 156_o 119_o of_o parent_n nurture_v their_o child_n 157_o 120_o of_o parent_n fix_v precept_n in_o their_o child_n mind_n 158_o 121_o of_o add_v information_n to_o discipline_n 158_o 122_o of_o parent_n teach_v their_o child_n the_o fear_n of_o god_n 159_o 123_o of_o the_o subjection_n which_o believe_v servant_n owe._n 159_o 124_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o five_o verse_n 160_o 125_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o six_o verse_n 164_o 126_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o seven_o verse_n 168_o 127_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o eight_o verse_n 168_o 128_o of_o the_o connexion_n of_o master_n duty_n with_o servant_n 171_o 129_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o this_o phrase_n do_v the_o same_o thing_n 172_o 130_o of_o master_n forbear_v threaten_a 174_o 131_o of_o master_n subjection_n to_o a_o great_a master_n 175_o 132_o of_o god_n be_v in_o heaven_n 175_o 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together_o 189_o 11_o of_o equality_n in_o piety_n and_o religion_n betwixt_o those_o that_o be_v to_o be_v marry_v together_o 191_o 12_o of_o marriage_n betwixt_o person_n of_o diverse_a profession_n 192_o 13_o of_o that_o mutual_a like_n which_o must_v pass_v betwixt_o marriageable_a person_n before_o they_o be_v marry_v 196_o 14_o of_o a_o contract_n what_o it_o be_v 198_o 15_o of_o the_o ground_n of_o a_o contract_n 198_o 16_o of_o the_o reason_n which_o show_v how_o requisite_a a_o contract_n be_v 200_o 17_o of_o abuse_v or_o neglect_v a_o contract_n 202_o 18_o of_o the_o distance_n of_o time_n betwixt_o a_o contract_n and_o marriage_n 202_o 19_o of_o a_o religious_a consecrate_v of_o marriage_n
in_o marry_v without_o their_o parent_n consent_v 450_o 20_o of_o objection_n for_o child_n marry_v without_o parent_n consent_n answer_v 451_o 21_o of_o sâ—ealing_a child_n from_o parent_n for_o marriage_n sake_n 452_o 22_o of_o minister_n sin_n in_o marry_v child_n without_o parent_n consent_n 452_o 23_o of_o child_n forbear_n to_o dispose_v any_o of_o their_o parent_n good_n without_o consent_n 453_o 24_o of_o the_o sin_n of_o child_n in_o purloin_v and_o waste_v their_o parent_n good_n 454_o 25_o of_o child_n contentedness_n to_o be_v apparel_v after_o their_o parent_n mind_n and_o like_n 456_o 26_o of_o child_n forbear_n to_o bind_v themselves_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n against_o their_o parent_n consent_n 456_o 27_o of_o child_n active_a obedience_n 457_o 28_o of_o child_n obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n commandment_n 457_o 29_o of_o child_n disobedience_n to_o their_o parent_n commandment_n 459_o 30_o of_o child_n obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n instruction_n 459_o 31_o of_o child_n patience_n to_o their_o parent_n reproof_n 460_o 32_o of_o child_n readiness_n to_o amend_v what_o be_v just_o reprove_v by_o their_o parent_n 461_o 33_o of_o child_n submission_n to_o their_o parent_n correction_n 462_o 34_o of_o refuse_v or_o abuse_v correction_n 463_o 35_o of_o child_n conform_v their_o judgement_n to_o their_o parent_n 464_o 36_o of_o child_n yield_v to_o practice_n at_o their_o parent_n command_v such_o thing_n as_o in_o their_o judgement_n they_o can_v think_v very_o meet_v 465_o 37_o of_o the_o restraint_n of_o child_n obedience_n 467_o 38_o of_o child_n sin_n in_o yield_v to_o their_o parent_n against_o god_n 468_o 39_o of_o child_n recompense_n 469_o 40_o of_o infirmity_n whereunto_o parent_n be_v subject_a 470_o 41_o of_o child_n bearing_n with_o their_o parent_n infirmity_n 470_o 42_o of_o child_n cover_n their_o parent_n infirmity_n 471_o 43_o of_o child_n bearing_n with_o their_o parent_n casual_a necessity_n 472_o 44_o of_o child_n relieve_v their_o parent_n according_a to_o their_o need_n 473_o 45_o of_o child_n care_n to_o bury_v their_o parent_n be_v dead_a 475_o 46_o of_o decency_n wherewith_o child_n ought_v to_o see_v their_o parent_n bury_v 477_o 47_o of_o child_n pay_v their_o parent_n debt_n after_o their_o death_n 478_o 48_o of_o child_n suppress_n evil_a report_n against_o their_o parent_n decease_v 479_o 49_o of_o child_n imitate_v their_o parent_n good_a example_n 479_o 50_o of_o the_o superstitious_a duty_n enjoin_v by_o papist_n to_o child_n after_o their_o parent_n decease_n 481_o 51_o of_o the_o unlawfulnesse_n of_o child_n seek_v to_o revenge_n their_o parent_n wrong_n 481_o 52_o of_o the_o manner_n of_o perform_v child_n duty_n 482_o 53_o of_o the_o aberration_n of_o child_n in_o the_o manner_n of_o their_o obedience_n 483_o 54_o of_o the_o equal_a respect_n that_o child_n be_v to_o bear_v to_o both_o parent_n 484_o 55_o of_o pretence_n allege_v to_o obey_v father_n rather_o than_o mother_n 485_o 56_o of_o the_o difference_n of_o child_n subjection_n to_o natural_a parent_n and_o to_o such_o as_o only_o be_v in_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n 487_o 57_o of_o child_n subjection_n to_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n 488_o 58_o of_o child_n subjection_n to_o guardian_n tutor_n etc._n etc._n 489_o 59_o of_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n whereby_o child_n ought_v to_o be_v move_v to_o obey_v they_o 490_o 60_o of_o the_o equity_n whereby_o child_n shall_v be_v move_v to_o obey_v their_o parent_n 491_o 61_o of_o god_n accept_n child_n obedience_n 492_o 62_o of_o god_n charge_n how_o inviolable_a a_o bond_n it_o be_v to_o tie_v child_n to_o obey_v their_o parent_n 493_o 63_o of_o the_o title_n first_o give_v to_o the_o five_o commandment_n 494_o 64_o of_o god_n promise_n move_a child_n to_o obey_v their_o parent_n 495_o vi_o treatise_n of_o parent_n duty_n §_o 1._o of_o the_o head_n of_o parent_n duty_n 497_o 2_o of_o that_o love_n which_o parent_n owe_v to_o their_o child_n 498_o 3_o of_o the_o contrary_n to_o love_n 499_o 4_o of_o parent_n pray_v for_o their_o child_n 500_o 5_o of_o vice_n contrary_a to_o parent_n pray_v for_o their_o child_n 501_o 6_o of_o parent_n endeavour_v to_o be_v righteous_a that_o they_o may_v leave_v god_n blessing_n to_o their_o child_n 502_o 7_o of_o the_o preposterous_a course_n which_o covetous_a and_o unjust_a parent_n take_v for_o the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n 503_o 8_o of_o parent_n providence_n for_o their_o child_n 505_o 9_o of_o a_o mother_n care_n over_o her_o child_n while_o it_o be_v in_o her_o womb_n 505_o 10_o of_o provide_v thing_n needful_a for_o the_o child_n so_o soon_o as_o it_o be_v bear_v and_o of_o cruelty_n contrary_a thereunto_o 506_o 11_o of_o give_v suck_n to_o child_n 507_o 12_o of_o mother_n give_v suck_n to_o their_o own_o child_n 508_o 13_o of_o the_o objection_n for_o put_v child_n forth_o to_o nurse_n 513_o 14_o of_o the_o father_n duty_n in_o encourage_v his_o wife_n to_o nurse_v her_o child_n 517_o 15_o 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to_o be_v too_o strict_a and_o precise_a or_o too_o suspicious_a and_o jealous_a or_o too_o covetous_a and_o worldly_a this_o make_v they_o take_v what_o calling_n what_o match_n what_o apparel_n what_o allowance_n they_o think_v best_a whence_o many_o mischief_n arise_v which_o will_v all_o easy_o be_v avoid_v if_o they_o will_v lay_v down_o that_o presumptuous_a conceit_n and_o labour_n to_o observe_v the_o forename_a direction_n §._o 36._o of_o child_n yield_v to_o practice_n at_o their_o parent_n command_v such_o thing_n as_o in_o their_o judgement_n they_o can_v think_v very_o meet_v 2._o though_o child_n can_v in_o their_o judgement_n think_v that_o which_o their_o parent_n require_v to_o be_v the_o fit_a and_o meet_a yet_o be_v press_v thereto_o by_o the_o peremptory_a command_n of_o their_o parent_n in_o practice_n they_o ought_v to_o yield_v unto_o it_o say_v to_o their_o parent_n as_o peter_n to_o the_o lord_n nevertheless_o at_o thy_o word_n i_o will_v do_v this_o thus_o do_v etc._n jaakob_n yield_v to_o rebekah_n he_o think_v by_o do_v that_o which_o his_o mother_n bid_v he_o he_o shall_v seem_v a_o â—â—ocker_n to_o his_o father_n yet_o she_o urge_v he_o he_o do_v it_o quest_n may_v not_o a_o child_n yield_v better_a reason_n than_o his_o parent_n refuse_v to_o do_v what_o he_o think_v unmeet_a or_o at_o least_o forâ—eare_a to_o do_v what_o he_o be_v command_v till_o he_o be_v better_o inform_v â—f_o the_o meetness_n thereof_o answ_n with_o reverence_n and_o humility_n he_o may_v render_v his_o reason_n why_o he_o think_v it_o not_o meet_v and_o desire_v his_o parent_n not_o to_o urge_v it_o upon_o he_o this_o do_v 3._o judah_n one_o of_o the_o son_n of_o jaakob_n and_o be_v not_o blame_v for_o it_o and_o parent_n ought_v in_o such_o a_o case_n to_o yield_v to_o their_o child_n as_o 11._o jaakob_n do_v but_o yet_o if_o in_o thing_n indifferent_a parent_n be_v otherwise_o mind_v then_o their_o child_n and_o will_v have_v their_o child_n yield_v to_o 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prevent_v which_o oft_o fall_v out_o when_o inferior_n refuse_v to_o yield_v to_o their_o superior_n who_o have_v authority_n over_o they_o contrary_n be_v their_o preposterous_a peremptorine_n who_o will_v do_v command_v nothing_o against_o their_o own_o mind_n &_o will_n though_o their_o parent_n require_v it_o never_o so_o much_o this_o phrase_n 5._o if_o thou_o will_v not_o send_v we_o will_v not_o go_v down_o which_o judah_n use_v to_o his_o father_n though_o in_o a_o good_a cause_n be_v too_o peremptory_a for_o a_o child_n they_o who_o obstinate_o refuse_v to_o do_v those_o thing_n which_o be_v against_o their_o own_o mind_n must_v needs_o come_v short_a of_o this_o extent_n obey_v in_o all_o thing_n yea_o they_o show_v that_o what_o they_o do_v be_v rather_o for_o their_o own_o sake_n because_o they_o like_v it_o then_o for_o their_o parent_n sake_n what_o obedience_n then_o may_v that_o be_v think_v to_o be_v yet_o this_o be_v all_o the_o obedience_n which_o many_o child_n 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they_o 1._o answ_n such_o child_n by_o their_o unworthy_a and_o degenerate_a carriage_n make_v forfeiture_n of_o god_n covenant_n and_o 30._o so_o deprive_v themselves_o of_o the_o benefit_n thereof_o 2._o answ_n many_o good_a reason_n may_v be_v give_v why_o god_n shall_v sometime_o alter_v his_o course_n and_o withhold_v his_o blessing_n from_o the_o child_n of_o his_o servant_n as_o 1._o lest_o god_n gift_n and_o blessing_n shall_v otherwise_o seem_v to_o come_v rather_o by_o natural_a propagation_n from_o the_o parent_n then_o by_o free_a donation_n from_o god_n 2._o lest_o parent_n shall_v thereby_o be_v draw_v to_o neglect_v the_o mean_n of_o good_a education_n 3._o lest_o child_n also_o themselves_o trust_v too_o much_o to_o their_o parent_n righteousness_n shall_v take_v too_o much_o liberty_n and_o wax_v licentious_a 4._o lest_o god_n free_a election_n shall_v seem_v hereby_o to_o be_v restrain_v 3._o object_n if_o this_o be_v so_o what_o motive_n can_v it_o be_v unto_o parent_n to_o labour_n after_o righteousness_n for_o their_o child_n sake_n answ_n though_o god_n do_v reserve_v in_o himself_o a_o freedom_n to_o order_v his_o blessing_n as_o it_o please_v he_o and_o to_o bestow_v they_o upon_o who_o he_o will_v and_o thereupon_o sometime_o bless_v the_o child_n of_o a_o wicked_a parent_n instance_n 27._o hezekiah_n &_o deny_v his_o blessing_n to_o the_o child_n of_o a_o righteous_a parent_n instance_n loc_n ammon_n yet_o in_o that_o it_o be_v a_o very_a usual_a course_n with_o he_o to_o extend_v his_o blessing_n according_a to_o his_o promise_n to_o the_o child_n of_o the_o righteous_a it_o be_v a_o strong_a motive_n to_o such_o as_o desire_v the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n the_o rather_o for_o their_o child_n sake_n to_o endeavour_v after_o righteousness_n for_o thus_o do_v they_o use_v the_o mean_n which_o by_o god_n word_n be_v warrant_v and_o sanctify_v for_o procure_v god_n blessing_n to_o their_o child_n leave_v therefore_o a_o good_a memory_n to_o thy_o child_n rather_o than_o much_o wealth_n §._o 7._o of_o the_o preposterous_a course_n which_o covetous_a and_o unjust_a parent_n take_v for_o the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n contrary_n be_v the_o course_n of_o such_o parent_n as_o by_o unrighteous_a mean_n think_v to_o provide_v well_o for_o their_o child_n for_o many_o do_v not_o only_o too_o cark_o and_o distrustful_o moil_n and_o toil_n to_o scrape_v together_o great_a mass_n of_o money_n or_o great_a store_n of_o land_n or_o other_o stock_n for_o their_o child_n neglect_v duty_n of_o piety_n and_o mercy_n but_o also_o by_o unjust_a and_o wrongful_a course_n defraud_v other_o to_o make_v their_o child_n rich_a so_o common_a be_v this_o undue_a course_n of_o provide_v for_o child_n as_o thence_o have_v arisen_a this_o proverb_n happy_a be_v those_o child_n who_o parent_n go_v to_o the_o devil_n a_o curse_a proverb_n for_o what_o other_o thing_n can_v it_o intend_v but_o this_o that_o they_o who_o fear_v not_o god_n nor_o take_v care_n for_o their_o own_o saulation_n will_v have_v most_o respect_n to_o the_o outward_a estate_n of_o their_o child_n and_o be_v most_o careful_a to_o make_v they_o great_a and_o rich_a in_o this_o world_n wherein_o note_n how_o many_o way_n they_o bewray_v their_o notorious_a folly_n 1._o they_o prefer_v the_o outward_a estate_n of_o their_o child_n before_o the_o eternal_a salvation_n of_o their_o own_o soul_n yea_o and_o before_o god_n himself_o 2._o they_o place_v the_o happiness_n of_o their_o child_n in_o the_o good_n of_o this_o world_n 5._o than_o which_o nothing_o more_o vain_a 3._o they_o make_v themselves_o drudge_n to_o their_o child_n and_o so_o debase_v themselves_o below_o that_o dignity_n which_o by_o reason_n of_o god_n image_n on_o they_o appertain_v to_o they_o 4._o they_o with_o much_o pain_n care_n grief_n and_o fear_n be_v long_o gather_v that_o which_o their_o child_n in_o short_a time_n most_o riotous_o and_o prodigal_o will_v lavish_a out_o 5._o they_o make_v themselves_o vassal_n to_o satan_n and_o seek_v by_o he_o to_o be_v make_v rich_a whereas_o indeed_o 22._o it_o be_v the_o blessing_n of_o god_n that_o make_v rich_a thus_o they_o take_v a_o wrong_a course_n to_o get_v wealth_n if_o it_o be_v say_v that_o many_o be_v thus_o make_v rich_a i_o answer_v that_o as_o â—it_n god_n give_v a_o king_n to_o israel_n so_o he_o give_v wealth_n to_o they_o in_o wrath_n and_o in_o wrath_n will_v he_o take_v it_o away_o 6._o they_o bring_v god_n curse_v into_o their_o house_n and_o leave_v it_o unto_o their_o child_n so_o as_o these_o be_v the_o riches_n that_o be_v reserve_v to_o the_o owner_n thereof_o for_o their_o evil_n let_v not_o therefore_o care_v for_o child_n draw_v thou_o to_o any_o covetous_a or_o unjust_a course_n but_o know_v that_o he_o who_o make_v thy_o son_n make_v thou_o also_o and_o he_o who_o afford_v thou_o mean_n of_o nourishment_n will_v also_o afford_v thy_o child_n sufficient_a succour_n §._o 8._o of_o parent_n providence_n for_o their_o child_n itself_o the_o head_n whereunto_o all_o the_o particular_a duty_n which_o parent_n owe_v to_o their_o child_n may_v be_v refer_v be_v a_o provident_a care_n for_o their_o child_n good_a this_o extend_v itself_o to_o all_o time_n and_o to_o all_o thing_n to_o all_o time_n as_o to_o the_o infancy_n youth_n and_o man-age_n of_o their_o child_n and_o that_o not_o only_o while_o parent_n live_v but_o after_o their_o departure_n to_o all_o thing_n namely_o tend_v both_o to_o the_o temporal_a good_a of_o their_o child_n and_o also_o to_o their_o spiritual_a good_a child_n be_v of_o the_o very_a substance_n of_o their_o parent_n &_o therefore_o ought_v parent_n so_o far_o to_o seek_v their_o child_n good_a as_o their_o own_o the_o pattern_n of_o holy_a parent_n record_v and_o commend_v in_o scripture_n do_v lively_o set_v forth_o this_o provident_a care_n but_o this_o general_n we_o will_v exemplify_v in_o the_o particular_n and_o in_o order_n declare_v how_o parent_n must_v provide_v both_o for_o the_o temporal_a and_o also_o for_o the_o spiritual_a good_a of_o their_o child_n in_o every_o degree_n of_o their_o age_n they_o who_o at_o any_o time_n in_o any_o thing_n be_v negligent_a and_o careless_a of_o their_o child_n good_a offend_v in_o the_o contrary_a to_o this_o general_a duty_n the_o heinousnesse_n of_o which_o offence_n will_v appear_v in_o the_o particular_n §._o 9_o of_o a_o mother_n care_n over_o her_o child_n while_o it_o be_v in_o her_o womb_n the_o first_o age_n of_o a_o child_n be_v the_o infancy_n thereof_o i_o will_v therefore_o first_o show_v how_o therein_o parent_n must_v procure_v the_o temporal_a good_a of_o their_o child_n and_o then_o their_o spiritual_a good_a the_o first_o part_n of_o a_o child_n infancy_n be_v while_o it_o remain_v in_o the_o mother_n womb_n here_o therefore_o the_o
to_o be_v respect_v 8._o their_o practice_n who_o upon_o state_n or_o for_o great_a witness_n or_o such_o by-respect_n put_v off_o the_o baptise_n of_o their_o child_n long_o than_o be_v meet_v some_z two_o or_o three_o week_n some_o two_o or_o three_o month_n some_o long_o whereby_o they_o show_v too_o light_a esteem_n of_o this_o sacrament_n in_o that_o they_o prefer_v mere_a complemental_a circumstance_n before_o a_o matter_n of_o so_o great_a moment_n god_n oft_o show_v his_o just_a indignation_n against_o such_o in_o take_v away_o their_o child_n unbaptise_v before_o the_o time_n set_v down_o by_o they_o for_o baptism_n be_v come_v 9_o their_o practice_n who_o care_v not_o what_o heathenish_a idolatrous_a bur._n ridiculous_a name_n they_o give_v to_o their_o child_n what_o respect_n â—oe_v they_o show_v either_o to_o god_n in_o who_o name_n their_o child_n be_v baptise_v or_o to_o the_o holy_a sacrament_n itself_o or_o to_o the_o congregation_n of_o saint_n before_o who_o the_o name_n be_v give_v or_o to_o the_o child_n â—â—_o self_n who_o all_o his_o life_n be_v to_o carry_v that_o name_n §._o 23._o of_o parent_n provide_v thing_n needful_a for_o the_o life_n and_o health_n of_o their_o child_n hitherto_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n respect_v their_o child_n infancy_n such_o as_o respect_v their_o childhood_n follow_v the_o childhood_n of_o a_o child_n be_v â—eckoned_v from_o the_o time_n that_o it_o begin_v to_o be_v of_o any_o discretion_n and_o understanding_n till_o it_o be_v â—t_a to_o be_v place_v forth_o even_o so_o many_o distinguish_v the_o whole_a course_n of_o a_o man_n life_n into_o four_o part_n 1._o childhood_n 2._o youth_n 3._o man-age_n 4._o old-age_n long_o as_o ordinary_o it_o live_v under_o the_o parent_n government_n the_o duty_n which_o parent_n for_o this_o time_n must_v perform_v to_o their_o child_n may_v be_v draw_v to_o these_o two_o head_n 1._o care_v to_o bring_v they_o up_o 2._o care_v to_o place_v they_o forth_o for_o 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15._o health_n and_o life_n which_o parent_n ought_v to_o provide_v for_o their_o child_n as_o 1._o food_n which_o christ_n take_v for_o a_o rule_v case_n whence_o he_o draw_v his_o argument_n to_o show_v that_o god_n will_v provide_v for_o his_o child_n what_o father_n say_v he_o if_o his_o son_n ask_v he_o bread_n will_v give_v he_o a_o stone_n etc._n etc._n mat._n 7._o 9_o 10_o 11._o 2._o apparel_n for_o it_o be_v express_o note_v that_o israel_n make_v his_o son_n a_o coat_n gen._n 37._o 3._o 3._o recreation_n which_o in_o young_a child_n especial_o be_v needful_a for_o their_o health_n in_o that_o zachary_n chap._n 8._o vers_fw-la 5._o tell_v the_o jew_n and_o that_o in_o way_n of_o blessing_n that_o boy_n and_o girl_n shall_v be_v play_v in_o the_o street_n he_o imply_v that_o it_o be_v a_o lawful_a and_o meet_a thing_n which_o parent_n shall_v permit_v unto_o their_o child_n but_o yet_o the_o time_n and_o measure_n and_o kind_a of_o recreation_n must_v be_v well_o order_v 4._o mean_n for_o recovery_n of_o health_n when_o they_o be_v sick_a for_o this_o end_n be_v it_o that_o 2._o jeroboam_fw-la send_v his_o wife_n to_o the_o prophet_n in_o behalf_n of_o his_o son_n who_o be_v sick_a that_o 47._o the_o ruler_n come_v to_o christ_n for_o his_o son_n also_o who_o be_v at_o point_n of_o death_n and_o that_o many_o other_o come_v to_o he_o for_o their_o son_n and_o daughter_n be_v ill_o whatsoever_o other_o thing_n be_v needful_a parent_n to_o their_o power_n 8._o must_v provide_v for_o their_o child_n else_o the_o apostle_n count_v they_o worse_o than_o infidel_n both_o equity_n and_o necessity_n require_v thus_o much_o of_o parent_n equity_n in_o that_o child_n owe_v all_o their_o pain_n and_o service_n to_o their_o parent_n while_o they_o be_v under_o they_o and_o be_v whole_o at_o their_o command_n and_o in_o that_o regard_n have_v no_o mean_n to_o provide_v needful_a thing_n but_o by_o their_o parent_n help_v parent_n therefore_o in_o all_o right_n must_v herein_o be_v helpful_a to_o they_o necessity_n in_o that_o if_o the_o life_n and_o health_n of_o child_n be_v not_o well_o provide_v for_o no_o duty_n no_o service_n can_v be_v expect_v at_o their_o hand_n §._o 24._o of_o parent_n too_o much_o niggardliness_n and_o carelessness_n towards_o their_o child_n there_o be_v two_o extreme_n contrary_a to_o the_o forename_a provident_a ueial_n care_n of_o parent_n for_o their_o child_n good_n in_o the_o defect_n covetousness_n in_o the_o excess_n lavishness_n some_o parent_n so_o far_o fail_v in_o the_o defect_n as_o they_o almost_o starve_v their_o child_n through_o want_n of_o necessary_n not_o afford_v they_o sufficient_a wholesome_a food_n nor_o meet_v and_o comely_a apparel_n but_o suffer_v they_o to_o go_v tag_v and_o ragged_a like_o beggar_n â—rats_n if_o they_o be_v sick_a god_n may_v recover_v they_o if_o he_o please_v but_o the_o parent_n will_v use_v no_o mean_n when_o they_o be_v well_o they_o afford_v they_o no_o time_n of_o 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not_o know_v what_o to_o provide_v for_o they_o or_o when_o to_o give_v it_o they_o the_o full_a soul_n loathe_v a_o honey_n 7._o comb_n yea_o if_o a_o stranger_n come_v to_o the_o table_n where_o such_o a_o child_n sit_v he_o may_v soon_o observe_v that_o he_o have_v be_v too_o dainty_o feed_v if_o at_o first_o child_n be_v feed_v with_o ordinary_a moderate_a diet_n they_o will_v afterward_o both_o be_v in_o better_a health_n and_o like_n and_o also_o more_o content_o and_o thankful_o accept_v whatsoever_o shall_v be_v provide_v for_o they_o but_o excess_n breed_v disease_n both_o in_o body_n and_o mind_n 2._o vanity_n in_o apparel_n do_v also_o much_o corrupt_v young_a child_n for_o there_o be_v in_o they_o even_o from_o the_o cradle_n a_o natural_a disposition_n to_o outward_a bravery_n now_o for_o parent_n to_o prank_n they_o up_o what_o be_v it_o but_o to_o blow_v up_o the_o fire_n of_o that_o vanity_n and_o make_v it_o arise_v into_o such_o a_o flame_n as_o in_o time_n may_v 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provident_a care_n for_o the_o time_n to_o come_v not_o the_o mean_n of_o provide_v for_o himself_o in_o regard_n of_o his_o general_a providence_n he_o be_v commend_v in_o regard_n of_o the_o particular_a mean_n by_o deceive_v his_o master_n he_o be_v call_v unjust_a 6._o they_o may_v not_o before_o their_o covenant_v time_n be_v expire_v go_v away_o from_o their_o master_n when_o 26._o jaakob_n after_o long_a service_n have_v a_o mind_n to_o be_v go_v he_o ask_v leave_v and_o because_o his_o uncle_n and_o master_n will_v not_o willing_o let_v he_o go_v he_o tarry_v still_o object_n afterward_o 20._o jaakob_n privy_o steal_v away_o from_o his_o master_n answ_n 1._o his_o covenant_v time_n be_v out_o 2._o he_o have_v a_o express_a warrant_n from_o god_n to_o be_v go_v 3._o his_o manner_n of_o go_v away_o be_v not_o to_o be_v justify_v and_o in_o that_o respect_n it_o be_v no_o good_a pattern_n §._o 12._o of_o the_o unlawful_a liberty_n which_o servant_n take_v to_o themselves_o contrary_n to_o the_o forename_a limitation_n of_o servant_n liberty_n be_v these_o and_o such_o like_a lewd_a and_o licentious_a prank_n as_o follow_v 1._o when_o servant_n watch_v their_o time_n to_o go_v whither_o they_o list_v and_o their_o master_n not_o know_v it_o as_o when_o their_o master_n be_v serious_o employ_v or_o abroad_o or_o in_o bed_n thus_o that_o lewd_a servant_n gehazi_n watch_v his_o time_n to_o run_v after_o naaman_n think_v that_o 20._o his_o master_n shall_v not_o know_v it_o 2._o when_o be_v bind_v to_o their_o master_n service_n they_o do_v their_o own_o business_n and_o seek_v their_o own_o profit_n and_o that_o without_o their_o master_n leave_n this_o aggravate_v gehazi_n his_o privy_a steal_n and_o withdraw_v himself_o from_o his_o master_n
that_o he_o go_v to_o receive_v gift_n for_o himself_o many_o such_o lewd_a servant_n there_o be_v that_o know_v such_o and_o such_o friend_n of_o their_o master_n who_o will_v be_v ready_a to_o do_v any_o kindness_n for_o they_o will_v use_v their_o master_n name_n to_o borrow_v money_n or_o get_v some_o other_o favour_n and_o never_o let_v their-master_n know_v of_o it_o 3._o when_o servant_n will_v choose_v their_o own_o work_n and_o do_v that_o which_o like_v themselves_o best_a or_o else_o do_v nothing_o at_o all_o thus_o where_o many_o servant_n be_v in_o one_o house_n together_o if_o they_o be_v not_o in_o such_o place_n as_o they_o like_v themselves_o they_o will_v mumble_v and_o grumble_v and_o do_v nothing_o well_o 4._o when_o servant_n especial_o maidservant_n that_o be_v bind_v do_v purposely_o marry_v to_o free_v themselves_o because_o our_o law_n do_v free_a a_o maid_n that_o be_v marry_v from_o her_o service_n to_o master_n and_o mistress_n 5._o when_o they_o be_v liberal_a of_o their_o master_n good_n in_o give_v they_o away_o some_o think_v that_o because_o they_o be_v of_o the_o house_n they_o may_v dispose_v the_o thing_n of_o the_o house_n upon_o charitable_a use_n but_o pretence_n of_o charity_n be_v no_o excuse_n for_o injustice_n servant_n may_v give_v notice_n to_o their_o master_n or_o mistress_n that_o there_o be_v in_o the_o house_n such_o and_o such_o thing_n meet_v to_o be_v give_v away_o or_o that_o there_o be_v such_o and_o such_o poor_a folk_n that_o stand_v in_o great_a need_n but_o privy_o without_o any_o consent_n at_o all_o they_o may_v not_o give_v away_o any_o thing_n of_o their_o master_n 6._o when_o upon_o discontent_n they_o run_v away_o from_o their_o master_n the_o two_o servant_n of_o shemei_n which_o run_v from_o their_o master_n 9_o be_v tax_v for_o it_o by_o the_o holy_a ghost_n one_o simus_fw-la that_o run_n from_o his_o master_n be_v send_v back_o again_o by_o s._n paul_n and_o hagar_n be_v send_v back_o by_o a_o angel_n object_n what_o if_o master_n and_o mistress_n be_v sharp_a rigorous_a and_o cruel_a answ_n a_o angel_n from_o heaven_n give_v one_o answer_n submit_v 9_o thyself_o under_o her_o hand_n and_o a_o apostle_n give_v another_o be_v subject_a with_o all_o fear_n to_o the_o froward_a for_o conscience_n towards_o 19_o god_n endure_v grief_n suffer_v wrongful_o these_o fault_n be_v thus_o note_v that_o servant_n take_v notice_n of_o they_o may_v the_o more_o careful_o avoid_v they_o §._o 13._o of_o servant_n obedience_n to_o their_o master_n commandment_n the_o affirmative_a and_o active_a part_n of_o servant_n obedience_n consist_v in_o a_o ready_a yield_v to_o that_o which_o their_o master_n will_v have_v do_v have_v respect_n as_o the_o like_a kind_n of_o child_n obedience_n to_o the_o commandment_n instruction_n reproof_n and_o correction_n of_o their_o master_n i._o a_o master_n have_v power_n to_o command_v his_o servant_n it_o be_v do_v a_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o obey_v their_o master_n therein_o the_o particular_a work_n which_o appertain_v to_o a_o servant_n by_o virtue_n of_o his_o place_n be_v to_o have_v a_o eye_n to_o his_o master_n to_o see_v what_o he_o require_v at_o his_o hand_n david_n thus_o describe_v the_o property_n of_o good_a servant_n their_o eye_n look_v to_o the_o hand_n of_o their_o master_n that_o look_v as_o it_o 2._o imply_v a_o expectation_n of_o relief_n and_o succour_n so_o also_o a_o readiness_n to_o receive_v and_o execute_v any_o thing_n from_o they_o that_o they_o will_v have_v do_v the_o centurion_n commend_v this_o duty_n 9_o in_o the_o example_n of_o his_o servant_n who_o every_o one_o of_o they_o do_v what_o their_o master_n command_v they_o to_o do_v it_o be_v further_a commend_v in_o the_o example_n of_o 9_o abraham_n servant_n 43._o eliahs_n servant_n and_o many_o other_o note_v how_o far_o the_o lord_n christ_n exact_v this_o duty_n of_o servant_n 8._o though_o a_o servant_n have_v be_v all_o day_n plough_v a_o laborious_a and_o wearisome_a work_n yet_o when_o he_o come_v home_o his_o master_n command_v he_o to_o dress_v his_o supper_n and_o wait_v he_o must_v do_v it_o by_o all_o these_o proof_n it_o appear_v that_o if_o a_o master_n bid_v his_o servant_n come_v go_v do_v this_o or_o that_o he_o must_v obey_v the_o contrary_a hereunto_o be_v the_o high_a degree_n of_o disobedience_n 26._o as_o when_o servant_n refuse_v to_o be_v at_o their_o master_n command_n and_o to_o do_v what_o they_o charge_v they_o to_o do_v as_o ziba_n who_o be_v command_v to_o saddle_v his_o master_n ass_n go_v away_o and_o do_v it_o not_o and_o job_n servant_n who_o be_v call_v will_v not_o answer_v 16._o of_o all_o other_o offence_n this_o do_v most_o provoke_v master_n for_o it_o be_v a_o plain_a contempt_n of_o their_o authority_n §._o 14._o of_o servant_n harken_v to_o their_o master_n instruction_n in_o matter_n of_o their_o call_n ii_o as_o a_o master_n have_v power_n to_o command_v so_o his_o duty_n it_o be_v to_o 38._o instruct_v his_o servant_n in_o the_o way_n of_o righteousness_n and_o in_o that_o civil_a course_n of_o life_n wherein_o he_o be_v to_o walk_v the_o duty_n then_o of_o servant_n it_o be_v in_o both_o to_o hearken_v and_o be_v obedient_a unto_o they_o 1._o such_o servant_n as_o be_v under_o master_n to_o learn_v their_o trade_n be_v bind_v many_o way_n to_o hearken_v to_o they_o 1._o that_o for_o the_o time_n they_o may_v do_v the_o better_a service_n to_o their_o master_n 2._o that_o by_o learn_v a_o trade_n or_o skill_n in_o any_o good_a call_n they_o may_v be_v the_o better_a able_a when_o the_o time_n of_o their_o service_n be_v out_o to_o maintain_v themselves_o to_o teach_v other_o servant_n which_o shall_v be_v under_o they_o and_o to_o do_v the_o more_o good_a in_o the_o place_n where_o they_o shall_v live_v 3._o that_o thus_o they_o may_v the_o better_o discharge_v a_o good_a conscience_n in_o that_o particular_a place_n wherein_o god_n have_v set_v they_o 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