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A09377 Christian oeconomie: or, A short survey of the right manner of erecting and ordering a familie according to the scriptures. First written in Latine by the author M. W. Perkins, and now set forth in the vulgar tongue, for more common vse and benefit, by Tho. Pickering Bachelar of Diuinitie. Perkins, William, 1558-1602.; Pickering, Thomas, d. 1625. aut 1609 (1609) STC 19677; ESTC S102572 68,188 208

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also_o remedy_n the_o four_o end_n be_v that_o the_o party_n marry_v may_v thereby_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o their_o calling_n in_o better_a and_o more_o comfortable_a manner_n prou._n 31._o 11._o the_o heart_n of_o her_o husband_n trust_v she_o and_o he_o shall_v have_v no_o need_n of_o spoil_n vers_fw-la 13._o she_o seek_v wool_n and_o flax_n and_o labour_v cheerful_o with_o her_o hand_n marriage_n be_v free_a to_o all_o order_n and_o sort_n of_o man_n without_o exception_n even_o to_o those_o that_o have_v the_o gift_n of_o contimencie_n but_o for_o they_o which_o can_v abstain_v it_o ●s_v by_o the_o express_a commandment_n of_o god_n necessary_a hebr._n 13._o 4._o marriage_n be_v honourable_a among_o all_o man_n and_o the_o bed_n undefiled_a 1_o cor._n 7._o 9_o but_o if_o they_o can_v abstain_v let_v they_o marry_v by_o which_o it_o appear_v to_o be_v a_o clear_a case_n that_o the_o commandment_n of_o the_o pope_n of_o rome_n whereby_o he_o forbid_v marriage_n of_o certain_a person_n as_o namely_o of_o clergy_n man_n be_v mere_o diabolical_a for_o so_o write_v the_o apostle_n 1._o tim._n 4._o 1._o the_o spirit_n speak_v evident_o that_o in_o the_o latter_a time_n some_o shall_v depart_v from_o the_o faith_n and_o shall_v give_v heed_n unto_o spirit_n of_o error_n and_o doctrine_n of_o devil_n vers_fw-la 3._o forbid_v to_o marry_v but_o against_o this_o doctrine_n sundry_a thing_n be_v allege_v object_n 1._o the_o apostle_n command_v the_o marry_v among_o the_o corinth_n to_o abstain_v with_o consent_n for_o a_o time_n that_o they_o may_v give_v themselves_o to_o fast_v and_o prayer_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 5._o i_o answer_v that_o paul_n speak_v not_o in_o that_o place_n of_o daily_a and_o common_a service_n of_o god_n in_o
as_o it_o be_v for_o the_o father_n to_o marry_v the_o daughter_n or_o the_o son_n the_o mother_n again_o in_o the_o collateral_a it_o be_v as_o unlawful_a for_o the_o uncle_n by_o the_o mother_n side_n to_o marry_v the_o wife_n of_o his_o sister_n son_n and_o so_o in_o other_o degree_n as_o it_o be_v for_o he_o to_o match_v in_o the_o same_o degree_n of_o consanguinity_n the_o reason_n be_v because_o in_o these_o line_n as_o well_o as_o in_o those_o of_o consanguinity_n superior_n and_o inferior_n be_v each_o to_o other_o as_o parent_n and_o child_n from_o hence_o among_o other_o thing_n it_o may_v be_v gather_v that_o it_o be_v in_o no_o sort_n lawful_a for_o a_o man_n when_o his_o wife_n be_v dead_a to_o marry_v her_o sister_n levit._n 18._o 16._o thou_o shall_v not_o discover_v the_o shame_n of_o thy_o brother_n wife_n for_o it_o be_v thy_o brother_n shame_n and_o levit_n 20._o 21._o the_o man_n that_o take_v his_o brother_n wife_n commit_v filthiness_n because_o he_o have_v uncover_v his_o brother_n shame_n against_o this_o doctrine_n it_o be_v object_v first_o that_o god_n command_v not_o to_o take_v a_o wife_n with_o her_o sister_n during_o her_o life_n levit._n 18._o 18._o in_o which_o place_n he_o do_v not_o simple_o forbid_v a_o man_n to_o marry_v two_o sister_n one_o after_o another_o but_o to_o marry_v they_o both_o together_o and_o therefore_o after_o the_o wife_n be_v dead_a a_o man_n may_v marry_v her_o sister_n ans._n the_o place_n be_v a_o flat_a prohibition_n of_o the_o sin_n of_o polygamy_n for_o to_o take_v a_o wife_n to_o her_o sister_n in_o the_o hebrew_n phrase_n be_v nothing_o else_o but_o to_o take_v two_o wife_n one_o to_o another_o the_o like_a form_n of_o speech_n be_v use_v otherwhere_o by_o moses_n as_o exo._n 26._o 3._o five_o curtain_n shall_v be_v couple_v together_o the_o woman_n to_o her_o sister_n that_o be_v one_o to_o another_o and_o the_o other_o five_o curtain_n shall_v be_v couple_v the_o woman_n to_o her_o sister_n that_o be_v the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o ezech._n 1._o 9_o the_o four_o beast_n be_v join_v with_o their_o wing_n the_o woman_n to_o her_o sister_n that_o be_v the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o again_o moses_n himself_o there_o allege_v two_o reason_n against_o polygamy_n the_o one_o be_v because_o the_o man_n be_v to_o love_v cherish_v and_o comfort_v this_o wife_n whereas_o if_o he_o shall_v take_v unto_o he_o another_o beside_o she_o he_o shall_v great_o vex_v his_o first_o lawful_a wife_n the_o other_o because_o by_o that_o mean_v he_o shall_v uncover_v the_o shame_n of_o his_o wife_n that_o be_v he_o shall_v play_v a_o very_a dishonest_a part_n with_o she_o to_o who_o he_o be_v before_o lawful_o marry_v object_n 2_o the_o lord_n command_v by_o a_o special_a law_n that_o the_o brother_n in_o case_n his_o brother_n die_v without_o issue_n shall_v take_v his_o wife_n and_o raise_v up_o seed_n unto_o he_o deut._n 25._o 5._o answ._n the_o word_n of_o moses_n be_v a_o special_a exception_n of_o a_o general_a law_n propound_v in_o levit._n 18._o 16._o thou_o shall_v not_o discover_v the_o shame_n of_o thy_o brother_n wife_n for_o it_o be_v thy_o brother_n shame_n and_o they_o be_v peculiar_o direct_v to_o the_o israelite_n upon_o special_a cause_n that_o when_o the_o elder_a brother_n die_v without_o seed_n the_o name_n of_o the_o first_o bear_v may_v not_o be_v extinct_a but_o the_o family_n may_v be_v preserve_v in_o that_o name_n by_o raise_v up_o of_o seed_n unto_o he_o which_o be_v a_o privilege_n proper_a to_o the_o israelite_n upon_o that_o special_a consideration_n it_o must_v not_o be_v enlarge_v to_o any_o other_o sort_n of_o man_n whatsoever_o neither_o be_v the_o text_n to_o be_v understand_v of_o cousin_n remove_v only_o as_o some_o think_v but_o also_o of_o the_o next_o of_o the_o kindred_n by_o blood_n as_o appear_z plain_o by_o the_o history_n of_o ruth_n chap._n i._o vers_fw-la ii_o in_o these_o word_n of_o naomi_n to_o her_o daughter_n in_o law_n turn_v again_o my_o daughter_n for_o what_o cause_n will_v you_o go_v with_o i_o be_v there_o any_o more_o son_n in_o my_o womb_n that_o they_o may_v be_v your_o husband_n turn_v again_o my_o daughter_n go_v your_o way_n for_o i_o be_o too_o old_a to_o have_v a_o husband_n etc._n etc._n iii_o rule_n the_o wife_n kinsman_n by_o blood_n be_v of_o affinity_n to_o her_o husband_n only_o but_o unto_o his_o kindred_n by_o blood_n the_o say_a kinsman_n have_v no_o affinity_n at_o all_o so_o on_o the_o contrary_a it_o be_v true_a that_o though_o the_o husband_n kinsman_n by_o blood_n be_v ally_v to_o his_o wife_n yet_o he_o have_v no_o alliance_n to_o those_o that_o be_v kinsman_n of_o blood_n unto_o she_o the_o reason_n be_v because_o between_o the_o kindred_n of_o blood_n on_o the_o man_n side_n and_o the_o kindred_n of_o blood_n on_o the_o woman_n side_n there_o be_v no_o affinity_n for_o the_o prohibition_n of_o the_o degree_n of_o affinity_n have_v force_n in_o those_o only_o which_o be_v the_o cause_n thereof_o and_o go_v no_o further_a now_o the_o cause_n be_v only_o in_o the_o marry_a person_n themselves_o the_o effect_n may_v not_o in_o reason_n be_v enlarge_v to_o they_o that_o be_v of_o the_o same_o blood_n with_o either_o of_o they_o from_o this_o rule_n it_o follow_v that_o the_o kindred_n of_o both_o marry_a person_n by_o blood_n may_v lawful_o match_v together_o the_o son_n in_o law_n may_v match_v with_o the_o daughter_n of_o his_o mother_n in_o law_n the_o father_n and_o the_o son_n by_o another_o wife_n may_v marry_v the_o mother_n and_o the_o daughter_n two_o brother_n may_v lawful_o match_v with_o two_o sister_n iv._o rule_n kindred_n of_o affinity_n to_o the_o wife_n 82._o be_v also_o kindred_n of_o affinity_n to_o her_o husband_n but_o how_o not_o proper_o but_o only_o after_o a_o sort_n and_o as_o it_o be_v of_o affinity_n so_o on_o the_o contrary_n kindred_n of_o alliance_n to_o the_o husband_n be_v as_o it_o be_v of_o alliance_n to_o his_o wife_n for_o example_n the_o wife_n of_o my_o father_n in_o law_n which_o be_v not_o my_o wife_n own_o mother_n but_o her_o stepmother_n be_v as_o it_o be_v my_o mother_n in_o law_n for_o she_o be_v as_o it_o be_v of_o affinity_n to_o i_o because_o she_o be_v indeed_o of_o affinity_n to_o my_o wife_n those_o which_o be_v of_o affinity_n only_o after_o a_o sort_n can_v convenient_o match_v one_o with_o another_o and_o therefore_o the_o son_n in_o law_n may_v not_o marry_v with_o his_o wife_n stepmother_n because_o be_v of_o affinity_n to_o his_o wife_n she_o be_v in_o stead_n of_o a_o mother_n in_o law_n to_o he_o neither_o may_v the_o daughter_n in_o law_n match_n with_o her_o husband_n stepfather_n because_o he_o be_v as_o it_o be_v a_o stepfather_n to_o she_o again_o my_o sister_n husband_n may_v not_o marry_v my_o brother_n wife_n for_o they_o be_v after_o a_o sort_n brother_n and_o sister_n each_o to_o other_o the_o reason_n hereof_o be_v because_o the_o wife_n be_v hold_v in_o law_n a_o licet_fw-la part_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o therefore_o if_o affinity_n hinder_v marriage_n with_o one_o of_o the_o marry_a couple_n it_o hinder_v as_o well_o in_o the_o like_a case_n and_o respect_n marriage_n with_o the_o other_o and_o thus_o much_o touch_v the_o distance_n of_o blood_n which_o in_o the_o choice_n of_o person_n fit_a for_o marriage_n be_v most_o necessary_o to_o be_v observe_v for_o in_o the_o 18._o chapter_n of_o leviticus_fw-la there_o be_v sixteen_o several_a sort_n of_o person_n with_o who_o marriage_n be_v forbid_v the_o first_o be_v the_o mother_n the_o second_o be_v the_o stepmother_n the_o thid_v the_o sister_n by_o the_o same_o father_n and_o mother_n the_o four_o the_o half-sister_n by_o one_o of_o the_o parent_n only_o the_o five_o be_v the_o niece_n by_o the_o son_n the_o six_o the_o niece_n by_o the_o daughter_n the_o seven_o the_o father_n sister_n the_o eight_o the_o uncle_n that_o be_v the_o father_n brother_n wife_n the_o nine_o the_o mother_n sister_n the_o ten_o the_o daughter_n in_o law_n or_o son_n wife_n the_o eleven_o the_o brother_n wife_n the_o twelve_o the_o wife_n mother_n the_o thirteen_o the_o step-daughter_n or_o the_o wife_n daughter_n by_o another_o husband_n or_o husband_n daughter_n by_o a_o former_a wife_n the_o fourteen_o be_v the_o stepson_n daughter_n that_o be_v his_o daughter_n who_o be_v the_o wife_n son_n by_o another_o husband_n the_o fifteen_o the_o step-daughter_n daughter_n the_o sixteen_o be_v the_o wife_n sister_n and_o not_o only_o these_o but_o all_o other_o answerable_a to_o they_o either_o in_o the_o same_o or_o like_a degree_n be_v by_o equal_a proportion_n forbid_v to_o be_v have_v in_o marriage_n it_o be_v allege_v
time_n prove_v incurablie_o contagious_a and_o so_o loathsome_a that_o the_o one_o may_v just_o fear_v to_o keep_v and_o converse_v with_o the_o other_o as_o it_o fall_v out_o when_o one_o be_v taint_v with_o leprosy_n then_o the_o contract_n be_v utter_o to_o be_v dissolve_v as_o if_o god_n himself_o shall_v have_v command_v it_o though_o the_o promise_n be_v former_o make_v &_o the_o party_n themselves_o shall_v be_v unwilling_a god_n have_v ordain_v matrimony_n to_o help_v not_o to_o hurt_v either_o the_o person_n themselves_o or_o other_o where_o therefore_o these_o disease_n be_v which_o may_v infect_v hurt_n or_o destroy_v other_o there_o god_n have_v as_o it_o be_v testify_v from_o heaven_n that_o the_o act_n do_v be_v not_o please_v unto_o he_o and_o that_o present_o it_o ought_v to_o be_v frustrate_a the_o contract_n be_v thus_o once_o dissolve_v the_o sound_a party_n shall_v be_v at_o he_o or_o her_o liberty_n to_o marry_v again_o but_o the_o disease_a be_v by_o the_o magistrate_n authority_n to_o be_v forbid_v society_n with_o any_o other_o in_o way_n of_o marriage_n and_o command_v to_o lead_v his_o life_n where_o he_o may_v convenient_o from_o company_n for_o fear_n of_o infection_n and_o withal_o he_o be_v for_o his_o own_o part_n to_o sue_v unto_o god_n by_o prayer_n in_o faith_n for_o the_o gift_n of_o continency_n for_o certain_a it_o be_v that_o he_o to_o who_o god_n have_v deny_v the_o power_n of_o use_v marriage_n with_o good_a conscience_n be_v thereby_o even_o call_v to_o continency_n and_o single_a life_n but_o if_o the_o disease_n be_v not_o contagious_a yet_o either_o incurable_a or_o so_o nast_a that_o either_o of_o the_o espouse_a have_v just_a cause_n to_o be_v afraid_a of_o the_o other_o company_n then_o both_o be_v to_o be_v advise_v not_o to_o claim_v their_o right_n but_o willing_o to_o surrender_v it_o each_o to_o other_o by_o mutual_a consent_n that_o they_o may_v be_v free_a again_o &_o not_o bind_v by_o any_o former_a promise_n to_o live_v together_o as_o man_n and_o wife_n consider_v that_o they_o have_v no_o hope_n mutual_o to_o converse_v together_o with_o comfort_n &_o contentment_n while_o they_o so_o remain_v upon_o this_o advice_n give_v by_o their_o lawful_a pastor_n or_o some_o in_o his_o stead_n if_o they_o both_o yield_v or_o one_o of_o they_o at_o the_o least_o desire_n to_o be_v at_o his_o own_o liberty_n the_o espousal_n be_v forthwith_o to_o be_v break_v off_o but_o if_o neither_o will_v consent_v to_o a_o separation_n but_o rather_o proceed_v as_o they_o have_v begin_v and_o in_o probability_n the_o one_o have_v no_o just_a cause_n to_o hold_v the_o other_o in_o suspicion_n in_o respect_n of_o contagion_n they_o be_v not_o to_o be_v hinder_v from_o the_o consummation_n of_o their_o marriage_n furthermore_o though_o one_o of_o they_o shall_v have_v a_o disease_n which_o be_v continual_a without_o intermission_n &_o yet_o curable_a or_o any_o other_o inconvenience_n shall_v befall_v either_o of_o they_o after_o the_o sure-making_a whereby_o they_o become_v lame_a deaf_a or_o dumb_a etc._n etc._n yet_o this_o be_v not_o a_o sufficient_a cause_n to_o move_v they_o to_o renounce_v and_o dissolve_v the_o contract_n a_o second_o case_n what_o if_o it_o fall_v out_o that_o after_o the_o finish_n of_o the_o contract_n one_o of_o the_o espouse_a person_n be_v long_o absent_a from_o the_o other_o so_o as_o the_o absence_n be_v prejudicial_a to_o the_o marriage_n that_o shall_v ensue_v upon_o the_o contract_n answ._n inquirie_n must_v be_v make_v whether_o this_o absence_n be_v voluntary_a or_o against_o the_o will_n of_o the_o party_n if_o it_o be_v voluntary_a for_o example_n if_o the_o man_n upon_o a_o honest_a and_o just_a cause_n the_o woman_n also_o be_v privy_a thereunto_o shall_v go_v beyond_o sea_n and_o be_v admonish_v of_o his_o duty_n before_o hand_n shall_v notwithstanding_o stay_v a_o whole_a year_n or_o more_o and_o will_v not_o return_v but_o further_a wilful_o absent_v himself_o then_o may_v it_o be_v lawful_a to_o the_o woman_n to_o crave_v of_o the_o public_a magistrate_n a_o dissolution_n of_o the_o covenant_n make_v &_o consequent_o marry_v another_o man_n unless_o the_o former_a to_o who_o she_o be_v contract_v be_v hear_v of_o if_o he_o be_v then_o shall_v it_o be_v lawful_a for_o he_o to_o plead_v for_o himself_o and_o tender_v no_o just_a cause_n of_o his_o refusal_n he_o shall_v be_v force_v by_o the_o magistrate_n authority_n to_o stand_v to_o his_o promise_n and_o take_v the_o woman_n for_o his_o wife_n and_o the_o same_o order_n be_v to_o be_v take_v in_o the_o wilful_a absence_n of_o the_o woman_n after_o she_o be_v contract_v if_o again_o the_o man_n or_o woman_n shall_v upon_o a_o evil_a mind_n and_o with_o purpose_n to_o deceive_v each_o other_o absent_a themselves_o and_o depart_v mean_n must_v be_v use_v that_o they_o may_v be_v admonish_v of_o their_o duty_n that_o be_v do_v or_o at_o least_o undertake_v and_o yet_o the_o party_n offend_v will_v not_o appear_v if_o the_o other_o that_o be_v present_a upon_o certain_a knowledge_n of_o he_o or_o her_o want_n in_o respect_n of_o continency_n shall_v sue_v to_o the_o magistrate_n after_o public_a and_o solemn_a notice_n give_v the_o contract_n may_v be_v break_v but_o if_o on_o the_o other_o side_n either_o of_o they_o be_v absent_a against_o their_o will_n and_o intend_v no_o fraud_n or_o deceit_n but_o be_v violent_o detain_v by_o captivity_n imprisonment_n sickness_n force_n banishment_n transportation_n or_o such_o like_a then_o the_o party_n present_v be_v desirous_a of_o the_o consummation_n of_o the_o marriage_n ought_v either_o to_o make_v mean_n unto_o he_o and_o expect_v his_o return_n or_o have_v certain_a notice_n of_o his_o death_n before_o she_o promise_v or_o have_v to_o do_v with_o any_o other_o in_o way_n of_o marriage_n a_o three_o case_n what_o if_o after_o the_o contract_n one_o of_o the_o party_n become_v furious_a or_o mad_a answ._n if_o the_o disease_n be_v continual_a without_o intermission_n in_o all_o equity_n and_o likelihood_n the_o espousal_n be_v to_o be_v dissolve_v unless_o both_o party_n after_o knowledge_n and_o experience_n of_o the_o disease_n have_v know_v one_o another_o yet_o in_o this_o and_o all_o such_o like_a case_n it_o be_v fit_a that_o all_o good_a mean_n be_v try_v and_o use_v and_o sufficient_a time_n be_v give_v for_o the_o restore_n of_o the_o disease_a to_o their_o former_a good_a estate_n and_o for_o the_o accomplishment_n of_o the_o marriage_n lawful_o begin_v as_o before_o chap._n 8._o of_o marriage_n marriage_n be_v that_o whereby_o the_o conjunction_n former_o begin_v in_o the_o contract_n be_v solemn_o manifest_v and_o bring_v to_o perfection_n marriage_n be_v consummate_v by_o three_o sort_n of_o action_n one_o of_o the_o parent_n of_o the_o bride_n and_o bridegroom_n the_o other_o of_o the_o minister_n in_o public_a the_o three_o of_o the_o person_n couple_v together_o the_o action_n of_o the_o parent_n be_v upon_o the_o marriage-day_n to_o bring_v the_o bride_n and_o deliver_v she_o to_o the_o bridegroom_n that_o they_o two_o may_v become_v actual_o man_n and_o wife_n and_o perform_v each_o to_o other_o all_o matrimonial_a duty_n and_o where_o the_o marriage_n be_v complete_a in_o any_o other_o manner_n so_o as_o the_o parent_n upon_o sound_a judgement_n and_o deliberation_n shall_v deny_v their_o full_a and_o free_a consent_n either_o in_o express_a word_n or_o by_o connivance_n and_o silence_n and_o that_o upon_o just_a and_o lawful_a cause_n there_o though_o in_o the_o civil_a court_n of_o man_n it_o may_v stand_v and_o the_o child_n bear_v therein_o be_v legitimate_a before_o man_n yet_o the_o truth_n be_v before_o god_n it_o be_v of_o no_o force_n but_o a_o mere_a nullity_n and_o because_o this_o doctrine_n touch_v consent_n of_o parent_n in_o these_o case_n be_v of_o great_a use_n and_o avail_v much_o to_o the_o support_v and_o 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have_v knowledge_n give_v honour_n to_o the_o woman_n as_o to_o the_o weak_a vessel_n even_o as_o they_o which_o be_v heir_n together_o of_o the_o grace_n of_o life_n that_o your_o prayer_n be_v not_o interrupt_v this_o duty_n must_v be_v keep_v especial_o the_o first_o year_n of_o marriage_n deut._n 24._o 5._o when_o a_o man_n take_v a_o wife_n he_o shall_v not_o go_v on_o warfare_n neither_o shall_v be_v charge_v with_o any_o business_n but_o shall_v be_v free_a at_o home_n one_o year_n &_o rejoice_v with_o his_o wife_n which_o he_o have_v take_v and_o the_o ground_n of_o this_o commandment_n no_o doubt_n be_v that_o they_o may_v learn_v to_o know_v one_o another_o condition_n and_o that_o they_o may_v work_v a_o settle_a affection_n one_o towards_o another_o which_o afterward_o upon_o no_o occasion_n may_v be_v change_v yet_o they_o may_v be_v absent_a each_o from_o other_o in_o two_o case_n first_o upon_o mutual_a consent_n for_o a_o time_n for_o the_o perform_n of_o some_o 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hinder_v from_o the_o use_n of_o the_o ordinary_a and_o lawful_a remedy_n of_o the_o contract_n the_o contrary_a to_o cohabitation_n be_v desertion_n desertion_n be_v when_o one_o of_o the_o marry_a folk_n upon_o a_o wilful_a and_o obstinate_a mind_n of_o their_o own_o head_n depart_v from_o the_o other_o without_o a_o just_a and_o necessary_a cause_n touch_v this_o point_n there_o be_v sundry_a case_n expound_v i._o case_n suppose_v that_o a_o husband_n which_o be_v a_o unbeliever_n or_o a_o heretic_n in_o the_o foundation_n of_o his_o own_o accord_n upon_o detestation_n of_o true_a religion_n quite_o forsake_v the_o believe_a wife_n and_o deny_v any_o more_o to_o dwell_v with_o she_o what_o be_v to_o be_v do_v answ._n all_o good_a mean_n must_v be_v first_o use_v to_o bring_v the_o infect_a party_n to_o repentance_n and_o when_o none_o will_v succeed_v but_o the_o case_n remain_v desperate_a than_o marriage_n be_v dissolve_v on_o his_o part_n and_o the_o believe_a wife_n be_v free_a to_o marry_v another_o so_o say_v the_o apostle_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 15._o if_o the_o unbelieve_a party_n depart_v let_v he_o depart_v a_o brother_n or_o a_o sister_n be_v not_o in_o subjection_n in_o such_o thing_n but_o god_n have_v call_v we_o unto_o peace_n in_o which_o word_n observe_v a_o twofold_a reason_n i._o he_o that_o be_v at_o liberty_n may_v marry_v another_o now_o the_o believe_a party_n forsake_v be_v at_o liberty_n because_o he_o be_v not_o in_o subjection_n in_o such_o thing_n therefore_o he_o may_v marry_v another_o ii_o god_n have_v call_v we_o unto_o peace_n say_v paul_n and_o this_o peace_n can_v be_v keep_v if_o the_o believe_a party_n forsake_v can_v contain_v unless_o he_o marry_v ambrose_n upon_o the_o place_n say_v 15._o that_o marriage_n can_v stand_v firm_a which_o be_v separate_v from_o the_o worship_n and_o service_n of_o god_n and_o therefore_o it_o be_v no_o sin_n in_o the_o party_n that_o be_v for_o saken_a for_o god_n cause_n to_o be_v marry_v to_o another_o and_o the_o unbeliever_n depart_v sin_v both_o against_o god_n and_o against_o the_o law_n of_o wedlock_n because_o he_o deny_v to_o remain_v in_o that_o estate_n in_o regard_n of_o religion_n therefore_o he_o break_v the_o covenant_n of_o marriage_n and_o the_o other_o be_v not_o bind_v in_o this_o case_n to_o keep_v touch_n with_o he_o 39_o the_o master_n of_o the_o sentence_n say_v that_o the_o believe_a party_n in_o this_o case_n be_v not_o bind_v to_o follow_v the_o unbeliever_n when_o he_o depart_v but_o while_o he_o live_v may_v marry_v another_o 1●_n augustine_n affirm_v that_o even_o the_o wife_n which_o be_v join_v to_o her_o husband_n in_o lawful_a society_n if_o she_o will_v not_o abide_v with_o her_o christian_a husband_n because_o he_o be_v a_o christian_n may_v be_v forsake_v and_o leave_v without_o sin_n and_o it_o be_v far_o better_a that_o the_o covenant_n shall_v be_v dissolve_v that_o man_n and_o wife_n have_v make_v each_o with_o other_o then_o that_o the_o covenant_n which_o man_n have_v make_v with_o god_n the_o people_n of_o israel_n be_v in_o affliction_n be_v constrain_v to_o break_v the_o former_a make_v with_o strange_a woman_n that_o they_o may_v keep_v the_o latter_a ezra_n 10._o 11._o 19_o it_o be_v allege_v that_o the_o unbelieve_a party_n may_v haply_o repent_v and_o then_o to_o make_v a_o dissolution_n be_v in_o vain_a but_o i_o say_v that_o it_o be_v as_o likely_a that_o he_o will_v never_o repent_v and_o therefore_o there_o be_v cause_n that_o the_o knot_n shall_v be_v dissolve_v again_o it_o be_v lawful_a say_v some_o to_o make_v a_o divorce_n out_o of_o the_o case_n of_o adultery_n answ._n the_o believe_a party_n which_o be_v forsake_v be_v not_o the_o cause_n of_o the_o divorce_n but_o be_v a_o patient_a of_o the_o separation_n wrongful_o make_v by_o the_o unbeliever_n and_o christ_n where_o he_o mention_v the_o case_n of_o adultery_n matth._n 19_o speak_v of_o a_o equal_a marriage_n whereas_o paul_n speak_v of_o a_o unequal_a ii_o case_n what_o if_o there_o fall_v out_o a_o desertion_n between_o two_o marry_a folk_n which_o be_v both_o believer_n answ._n the_o faulty_a person_n who_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o this_o desertion_n be_v to_o be_v force_v by_o course_n of_o civil_a and_o ecclesiastical_a censure_n to_o perform_v he_o or_o her_o duty_n upon_o which_o proceed_v if_o he_o remain_v obstinate_a and_o perverse_a in_o will_n the_o other_o must_v in_o patience_n &_o earnest_a prayer_n unto_o god_n wait_v the_o time_n until_o his_o mind_n may_v be_v change_v and_o he_o make_v to_o relent_v by_o the_o order_n of_o the_o magistrate_n but_o if_o the_o one_o of_o they_o by_o just_a occasion_n of_o fear_n be_v compel_v to_o depart_v from_o the_o other_o and_o can_v return_v again_o without_o apparent_a danger_n of_o life_n in_o this_o case_n they_o be_v not_o bind_v to_o return_v but_o the_o delinquent_a party_n be_v to_o remain_v solitary_a till_o they_o be_v instruct_v and_o make_v willing_a to_o do_v their_o duty_n and_o in_o the_o mean_a while_n the_o party_n innocent_a must_v be_v resolve_v that_o god_n have_v call_v he_o or_o she_o to_o single_a life_n again_o be_v it_o that_o the_o one_o be_v resolute_o unwilling_a to_o dwell_v with_o the_o other_o and_o thereupon_o fly_v away_o without_o any_o fault_n of_o the_o other_o if_o the_o thing_n after_o a_o long_a space_n be_v sufficient_o know_v beforehand_o and_o all_o possible_a mean_n have_v be_v use_v to_o reclaim_v the_o guilty_a person_n yea_o being_n call_v he_o do_v not_o personal_o appear_v before_o the_o judge_n to_o yield_v a_o reason_n of_o the_o fact_n after_o public_a and_o solemn_a declaration_n make_v the_o minister_n upon_o such_o desertion_n may_v pronounce_v the_o marriage_n to_o be_v dissolve_v for_o he_o
only_o the_o use_n but_o the_o bond_n and_o covenant_n of_o marriage_n matth._n 19_o 9_o i_o say_v therefore_o unto_o you_o that_o whosoever_o shall_v put_v away_o his_o wife_n except_o it_o be_v for_o whoredom_n and_o marry_v another_o commit_v adultery_n etc._n etc._n and_o yet_o the_o same_o bond_n may_v be_v continue_v and_o grow_v up_o again_o by_o the_o good_a will_n and_o consent_n of_o the_o party_n innocent_a and_o consequent_o they_o may_v be_v reconcile_v and_o dwell_v together_o still_o 1._o sam._n 25._o 44._o now_o saul_n have_v give_v michal_n his_o daughter_n david_n wife_n to_o phalti_fw-la the_o son_n of_o laish_n which_o be_v of_o gallim_n 2._o sam._n 3._o 14._o then_o david_n send_v messenger_n to_o ishbosheth_n saul_n son_n say_v deliver_v i_o my_o wife_n michal_n which_o i_o marry_v for_o a_o hundred_o foreskin_n of_o the_o philistines_n the_o same_o course_n may_v be_v take_v in_o like_a case_n by_o the_o innocent_a special_o upon_o the_o repentance_n of_o the_o guilty_a person_n but_o yet_o every_o man_n must_v be_v leave_v to_o his_o own_o conscience_n and_o none_o be_v to_o be_v compel_v to_o take_v another_o from_o who_o he_o may_v just_o be_v separate_v against_o his_o will_n now_o in_o require_v of_o a_o divorce_n there_o be_v a_o equal_a right_n and_o power_n in_o both_o party_n so_o as_o the_o woman_n may_v require_v it_o as_o well_o as_o the_o man_n and_o he_o as_o well_o as_o she_o the_o reason_n be_v because_o they_o be_v equal_o bind_v each_o to_o other_o and_o have_v also_o the_o same_o interest_n in_o one_o another_o body_n provide_v always_o that_o the_o man_n be_v to_o maintain_v his_o superiority_n and_o the_o woman_n to_o observe_v that_o modesty_n which_o beseem_v she_o towards_o the_o man_n after_o the_o divorcement_n make_v it_o shall_v be_v lawful_a for_o the_o harmless_a party_n not_o have_v the_o gift_n of_o continency_n upon_o leave_n obtain_v of_o the_o church_n and_o the_o christian_a magistrate_n to_o marry_v again_o but_o what_o then_o shall_v become_v of_o the_o party_n offend_v answ._n if_o upon_o the_o hazard_n of_o his_o conscience_n in_o want_n of_o the_o remedy_n any_o liberty_n of_o second_o marriage_n be_v to_o be_v grant_v unto_o he_o by_o the_o church_n or_o civil_a magistrate_n as_o indeed_o here_o in_o england_n there_o be_v not_o diverse_a restraint_n in_o this_o case_n must_v be_v observe_v first_o no_o such_o liberty_n be_v to_o be_v grant_v so_o long_o as_o the_o matter_n remain_v uncertain_a whether_o they_o may_v be_v reconcile_v special_o while_o the_o party_n innocent_a live_v in_o single_a life_n second_o it_o must_v evident_o appear_v that_o the_o say_v offend_v party_n have_v earnest_o rpent_v he_o of_o his_o sin_n before_o he_o can_v either_o be_v receive_v into_o the_o church_n or_o admit_v to_o a_o second_o marriage_n three_o this_o liberty_n be_v not_o to_o be_v grant_v he_o either_o present_o or_o unaduised_o but_o upon_o frequent_a and_o serious_a admonition_n rather_o to_o give_v himself_o to_o mourning_n and_o lamentation_n and_o still_o to_o remain_v alone_o then_o to_o desire_v again_o to_o enjoy_v the_o benefit_n of_o that_o state_n which_o he_o have_v already_o so_o shameful_o abuse_v so_o much_o of_o the_o first_o way_n of_o performance_n of_o due_a benevolence_n the_o second_o way_n be_v by_o cherish_v one_o another_o ephes._n 5._o 29._o no_o man_n ever_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o as_o christ_n also_o do_v the_o church_n this_o cherish_n be_v the_o perform_n of_o any_o duty_n that_o tend_v to_o the_o preserve_n of_o the_o live_v one_o of_o another_o wherefore_o they_o be_v free_o to_o communicate_v their_o good_n their_o counsel_n their_o labour_n each_o to_o other_o for_o the_o good_a of_o themselves_o and_o they_o the_o three_o way_n be_v by_o a_o holy_a kind_n of_o rejoice_v and_o solace_v themselves_o each_o with_o other_o in_o a_o mutual_a declaration_n of_o the_o sign_n and_o token_n of_o love_n and_o kindness_n prou._n 5._o 18._o rejoice_v with_o the_o wife_n of_o thy_o youth_n vers_fw-la 19_o let_v she_o be_v as_o the_o love_a hind_n and_o pleasant_a wild_a goat_n let_v her_o breast_n satisfy_v thou_o at_o all_o time_n and_o delight_n in_o her_o love_n continual_o cantic_a 1._o 1._o let_v he_o kiss_v i_o with_o the_o kiss_n of_o his_o mouth_n for_o thy_o love_n be_v better_a they_o wine_n gen._n 26._o 8._o so_o after_o he_o have_v be_v there_o a_o long_a time_n abimelek_n king_n of_o the_o philistines_n look_v out_o at_o a_o window_n and_o lo_o he_o see_v isaak_n sport_v with_o rebekah_n his_o wife_n then_o abimelek_n call_v isaak_n and_o say_v loe_o she_o be_v of_o a_o surety_n thy_o wife_n isaiah_n 62._o 7._o as_o a_o young_a man_n marry_v a_o virgin_n so_o shall_v thy_o son_n marry_v thou_o and_o as_o a_o bridegroom_n be_v glad_a of_o the_o bride_n so_o shall_v thy_o god_n rejoice_v over_o thou_o this_o rejoice_a and_o delight_n be_v more_o permit_v to_o the_o man_n then_o to_o the_o woman_n and_o to_o they_o both_o more_o in_o their_o young_a year_n then_o in_o their_o old_a age_n chap._n 11._o of_o the_o husband_n marry_a folk_n be_v either_o husband_n or_o wife_n the_o husband_n be_v he_o which_o have_v authority_n over_o the_o wife_n hereupon_o in_o scripture_n he_o be_v call_v the_o guide_n of_o her_o youth_n prou._n 2._o 17._o and_o they_o twain_o be_v but_o one_o flesh_n he_o be_v also_o the_o head_n over_o his_o wife_n the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n towards_o the_o wife_n be_v these_o i._o to_o love_v she_o as_o himself_o eph._n 5._o 33._o let_v every_o one_o love_n his_o wife_n even_o as_o himself_o gen._n 24._o 67._o afterwards_o isaak_n bring_v she_o unto_o the_o tent_n of_o sarah_n his_o mother_n and_o he_o take_v rebekah_n and_o she_o be_v his_o wife_n and_o he_o love_v she_o so_o isaak_n leave_v mourn_v for_o his_o mother_n note_v how_o the_o love_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n mitigate_v sorrow_n for_o the_o death_n of_o the_o mother_n he_o be_v to_o show_v this_o love_n in_o two_o thing_n first_o in_o protect_v she_o from_o danger_n gen._n 20._o 16._o and_o unto_o sarah_n he_o say_v behold_v i_o have_v give_v 1000_o shekel_n of_o silver_n unto_o thy_o brother_n behold_v he_o be_v the_o cover_n of_o thy_o eye_n among_o all_o that_o be_v with_o thou_o let_v it_o be_v know_v among_o all_o &_o be_v thou_o instruct_v 1._o sam._n 30._o 5._o david_n two_o wife_n be_v take_v prisoner_n also_o ahinoam_n the_o izreelite_n and_o abigail_n the_o wife_n of_o nabal_n the_o carmelite_n v._n 8._o then_o david_n ask_v counsel_n of_o the_o lord_n say_v shall_v i_o follow_v after_o this_o company_n shall_v i_o overtake_v they_o and_o he_o answer_v he_o follow_v for_o thou_o shall_v sure_o overtake_v they_o and_o recover_v all_o second_o in_o regard_v her_o estate_n as_o his_o own_o and_o provide_v maintenance_n for_o she_o both_o for_o his_o life_n time_n and_o as_o much_o as_o he_o may_v for_o time_n to_o come_v after_o his_o death_n ephes._n 5._o 28._o so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n he_o that_o love_v his_o wife_n love_v himself_o vers_fw-la 29._o for_o no_o man_n yet_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v it_o etc._n etc._n exod._n 21._o 10._o if_o he_o take_v he_o another_o wife_n he_o shall_v not_o diminish_v her_o food_n her_o raiment_n and_o recompense_v of_o her_o virginity_n ruth_n 3._o 9_o unto_o who_o he_o say_v who_o be_v thou_o which_o say_v i_o be_o ruth_n thy_o handmaid_n spread_v therefore_o the_o wing_n of_o thy_o garment_n over_o thy_o handmaid_n for_o thou_o be_v the_o kinsman_n ii_o to_o honour_n his_o wife_n 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o give_v honour_n to_o the_o woman_n this_o honour_n stand_v in_o three_o thing_n first_o in_o make_v account_n of_o she_o as_o his_o companion_n or_o yoke-fellow_n for_o this_o cause_n the_o woman_n when_o she_o be_v create_v be_v not_o take_v out_o of_o the_o man_n head_n because_o she_o be_v 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