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A57529 Matrimoniall honovr, or, The mutuall crowne and comfort of godly, loyall, and chaste marriage wherein the right way to preserve the honour of marriage unstained, is at large described, urged, and applied : with resolution of sundry materiall questions concerning this argument / by D.R. ... D. R. (Daniel Rogers), 1573-1652. 1642 (1642) Wing R1797; ESTC R5451 341,707 420

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it_o prove_v a_o mere_a idol_n of_o fancy_n nothing_o in_o all_o the_o world_n the_o lord_n indeed_o appoint_v a_o trial_n for_o the_o jealous_a man_n against_o his_o wife_n but_o we_o must_v not_o conceive_v this_o be_v to_o breed_v or_o nourish_v causeless_a conceit_n it_o be_v no_o doubt_n first_o bring_v to_o the_o judge_n in_o criminal_a cause_n to_o determine_v what_o the_o matter_n be_v and_o as_o our_o inquest_n do_v to_o cut_v off_o all_o mere_a surmise_n else_o what_o a_o bondage_n have_v it_o be_v for_o a_o wife_n to_o be_v so_o hurry_v and_o defame_v and_o although_o it_o be_v true_a that_o for_o the_o hardness_n of_o their_o heart_n the_o lord_n permit_v more_o liberty_n to_o man_n at_o that_o time_n be_v sturdy_a and_o rebellious_a shall_v that_o be_v any_o encouragement_n now_o to_o christian_n to_o nourish_v such_o trash_n in_o themselves_o to_o make_v their_o spirit_n their_o prayer_n their_o whole_a life_n sad_a and_o miserable_a to_o themselves_o and_o to_o be_v so_o 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