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the_o devil_n and_o not_o a_o child_n of_o god_n and_o in_o thy_o rage_n and_o fury_n do_v resemble_v the_o devil_n who_o g_o es_fw-ge about_o like_o a_o roar_a lion_n seek_v who_o he_o may_v devour_v 4._o person_n by_o their_o sinful_a anger_n their_o contentious_a wrangle_n and_o frowardness_n of_o spirit_n do_v subject_n themselves_o to_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n and_o bring_v his_o curse_n upon_o they_o yea_o their_o anger_n bring_v upon_o they_o even_o in_o this_o life_n the_o dreadful_a effect_n of_o god_n anger_n o_o thou_o angry_a husband_n or_o angry_a wife_n if_o thou_o do_v not_o repent_v thou_o of_o thy_o sinful_a anger_n frowardness_n hastiness_n and_o touchiness_n of_o spirit_n upon_o every_o trivial_a occasion_n god_n will_v deal_v with_o thou_o in_o his_o anger_n as_o thou_o will_v deal_v with_o thy_o husband_n or_o wife_n in_o thy_o anger_n for_o as_o we_o forgive_v other_o so_o do_v god_n forgive_v we_o if_o therefore_o thou_o retain_v thy_o anger_n towards_o thy_o husband_n god_n will_v retain_v his_o anger_n towards_o thou_o the_o lord_n act_v the_o part_n of_o a_o umpire_n to_o make_v up_o breach_n heal_v difference_n and_o make_v reconciliation_n between_o relation_n but_o if_o either_o of_o they_o be_v so_o stiff_a and_o contentious_a that_o he_o or_o she_o will_v not_o be_v reconcile_v what_o do_v that_o party_n else_o but_o by_o froward_a behaviour_n and_o obstinate_a stiffness_n refuse_v the_o lord_n arbitrement_n and_o determination_n make_v god_n his_o enemy_n eliphaz_n tell_v job_n cap._n 5.2_o wrath_n kill_v the_o foolish_a man_n that_o may_v be_v take_v two_o way_n very_o true_a the_o wrath_n of_o god_n kill_v or_o destroy_v the_o wrathful_a rash_a and_o inconsiderate_a man_n that_o have_v no_o true_a government_n of_o himself_o for_o anger_n rest_v in_o the_o bosom_n of_o fool_n eccles_n 7.9_o or_o the_o angry_a man_n kill_v himself_o his_o own_o wrath_n be_v as_o a_o knife_n to_o his_o throat_n and_o as_o a_o sword_n in_o his_o own_o bowel_n wrath_n proper_o be_v anger_n inveterate_a wrath_n be_v a_o long_a anger_n when_o a_o man_n or_o woman_n be_v set_v upon_o it_o when_o the_o spirit_n be_v steep_v or_o soak_v in_o anger_n than_o it_o be_v wrath_n but_o in_o this_o place_n i_o conceive_v it_o note_n a_o fervent_a heat_n and_o distemper_n of_o spirit_n present_o break_v forth_o or_o a_o extreme_a vexation_n fret_v or_o disquiet_v within_o as_o in_o psal_n 112.10_o the_o wicked_a shall_v see_v it_o and_o be_v grieve_v that_o be_v he_o shall_v have_v secret_a indignation_n in_o himself_o to_o see_v matter_n go_v so_o he_o shall_v gnash_v with_o his_o tooth_n and_o melt_v away_o gnash_v of_o the_o tooth_n be_v cause_v by_o the_o vex_v of_o the_o heart_n and_o therefore_o say_v he_o shall_v melt_v away_o which_o note_v a_o extreme_a heat_n within_o so_o that_o a_o person_n wrath_n make_v he_o or_o she_o melt_v away_o as_o we_o say_v of_o a_o person_n furious_o vex_v it_o melos_fw-la his_fw-la or_o her_z grease_n with_o chafe_v this_o be_v a_o effect_n of_o divine_a displeasure_n whereby_o god_n in_o judgement_n do_v suffer_v people_n wrath_n to_o be_v so_o vexatious_a to_o they_o that_o it_o make_v their_o life_n a_o continual_a death_n to_o they_o and_o at_o last_o so_o weary_a and_o waste_v their_o spirit_n that_o they_o die_v for_o very_a grief_n and_o except_o the_o lord_n be_v merciful_a to_o they_o and_o the_o death_n of_o christ_n heal_v the_o wound_n that_o their_o anger_n and_o impatiency_n have_v make_v they_o will_v murder_v their_o own_o soul_n for_o ever_o frowardness_n and_o anger_n be_v a_o person_n sin_n and_o torment_n for_o people_n tear_v themselves_o in_o their_o anger_n job_n 18.4_o the_o more_o fretful_a people_n be_v the_o more_o miserable_a do_v they_o make_v themselves_o those_o that_o be_v of_o wrathful_a spirit_n will_v certain_o feel_v some_o degree_n of_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n either_o in_o this_o life_n or_o in_o the_o life_n to_o come_v that_o must_v needs_o be_v hurtful_a yea_o mortal_a to_o man_n that_o carry_v in_o it_o a_o resistance_n to_o the_o immortal_a god_n some_o anger_n be_v not_o only_a grief_n for_o the_o opposition_n that_o person_n meet_v with_o but_o a_o kind_n of_o stomack_v at_o god_n who_o permit_v they_o to_o be_v oppose_v or_o cross_v and_o though_o they_o do_v not_o confess_v it_o to_o be_v so_o yet_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n know_v it_o to_o be_v so_o now_o know_v that_o the_o wrath_n of_o man_n against_o man_n be_v a_o sin_n which_o god_n will_v punish_v with_o further_a wrath_n god_n will_v pour_v out_o wrath_n upon_o wrathful_a person_n and_o it_o appear_v that_o the_o wrath_n of_o man_n stir_v up_o god_fw-we to_o punish_v man_n if_o we_o observe_v what_o the_o apostle_n say_v in_o gal._n 5.15_o if_o you_o bite_v and_o devour_v one_o another_o what_o be_v this_o bite_n and_o devour_v that_o be_v every_o act_n which_o be_v opposite_a to_o that_o love_n which_o god_n command_v we_o to_o exercise_v towards_o our_o neighbour_n or_o our_o near_a and_o dear_a relation_n be_v a_o bite_n and_o devour_v we_o bite_v and_o devour_v one_o another_o when_o we_o be_v unkind_a wrathful_a and_o vexatious_a one_o to_o another_o see_v what_o follow_v as_o the_o effect_n of_o their_o passionate_a and_o froward_a carriage_n one_o to_o another_o take_v heed_n you_o be_v not_o consume_v one_o of_o another_o take_v heed_n lest_o by_o walk_v so_o unlike_o christian_n and_o so_o unanswerable_a to_o the_o law_n of_o gospel-love_n you_o provoke_v god_n to_o kindle_v such_o a_o fire_n among_o you_o and_o in_o you_o as_o may_v prove_v a_o utter_a consumption_n when_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v not_o careful_a to_o walk_v together_o in_o love_n as_o christ_n have_v love_v we_o god_n sometime_o as_o a_o evidence_n of_o his_o wrath_n and_o displeasure_n give_v they_o up_o to_o a_o spirit_n of_o contention_n and_o their_o breach_n be_v like_o the_o sea_n which_o can_v be_v heal_v their_o cruel_a and_o 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unadvised_a anger_n in_o mat._n 5.22_o he_o that_o be_v angry_a with_o his_o brother_n without_o cause_n be_v in_o danger_n of_o judgement_n intimate_v that_o rash_a anger_n be_v a_o capital_a offence_n and_o do_v bring_v a_o person_n under_o the_o severe_a sentence_n of_o god_n judgement_n in_o the_o latter_a part_n of_o the_o verse_n christ_n say_v that_o if_o a_o person_n anger_n break_v out_o in_o disrespectful_a speech_n the_o sin_n be_v the_o more_o capital_a because_o such_o a_o one_o give_v word_n of_o disdain_n whosoever_o shall_v say_v to_o his_o brother_n racha_n shall_v be_v in_o danger_n of_o the_o council_n but_o if_o anger_n and_o disdain_n proceed_v so_o far_o as_o to_o reproach_v a_o brother_n yet_o more_o despiteful_o and_o call_v he_o fool_n than_o that_o person_n shall_v be_v in_o danger_n of_o hell-fire_n consider_v then_o o_o husband_n or_o o_o wife_n the_o dreadful_a effect_n of_o thy_o anger_n wrath_n and_o frowardness_n it_o subject_n thou_o to_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n and_o oh_o what_o punishment_n what_o consume_v judgement_n do_v god_n wrath_n bring_v forth_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n may_v be_v specificate_v into_o any_o judgement_n it_o produce_v every_o evil_a if_o god_n wrath_n be_v kindle_v but_o a_o little_a if_o it_o be_v but_o as_o a_o spark_n it_o will_v quick_o grow_v up_o to_o a_o flame_n and_o consume_v all_o as_o in_o numb_a 16.46_o moses_n bid_v aaron_n haste_n to_o make_v the_o atonement_n for_o say_v he_o wrath_n be_v go_v out_o from_o the_o lord_n the_o plague_n be_v begin_v but_o know_v the_o wrath_n of_o god_n be_v not_o a_o passion_n in_o he_o but_o a_o action_n towards_o man_n he_o act_v as_o man_n when_o they_o be_v angry_a but_o he_o suffer_v nothing_o by_o his_o anger_n he_o smite_v and_o wound_n and_o pull_v down_o and_o destroy_v
like_o a_o wrathful_a man_n yea_o a_o enrage_a man_n yet_o he_o do_v this_o in_o the_o exact_a frame_n and_o sweet_a composure_n of_o his_o spirit_n but_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n be_v only_o his_o holy_a and_o most_o bless_a will_n burn_v with_o hatred_n against_o sin_n especial_o the_o wrath_n and_o disâ—entions_n of_o such_o near_a relation_n as_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o so_o he_o turn_v away_o from_o such_o in_o his_o high_a displeasure_n and_o as_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n draw_v out_o punishment_n so_o thy_o angry_a froward_a pettish_a humour_n draw_v out_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n the_o wrath_n of_o god_n be_v terrible_a and_o that_o must_v needs_o be_v a_o terrible_a evil_n that_o provoke_v god_n to_o pour_v it_o out_o will_v it_o not_o then_o be_v grievous_a to_o thou_o to_o behold_v the_o appearance_n of_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n against_o thou_o and_o smart_n under_o the_o kindle_n of_o divine_a displeasure_n o_o who_o can_v abide_v the_o come_n of_o the_o lord_n with_o consume_a fire_n a_o fire_n kindle_v only_o to_o consume_v be_v dreadful_a as_o in_o isa_n 10.17_o the_o light_n of_o israel_n shall_v be_v for_o a_o fire_n and_o his_o holy_a one_o for_o a_o flame_n and_o it_o shall_v burn_v and_o devour_v his_o thorn_n and_o his_o briar_n in_o one_o day_n that_o be_v the_o fury_n of_o the_o lord_n shall_v appear_v against_o those_o that_o like_a briar_n and_o thorn_n in_o their_o anger_n and_o contention_n do_v prick_v and_o scratch_v one_o another_o though_o in_o a_o strict_a sense_n it_o relate_v unto_o god_n consume_v the_o assyrian_n who_o plague_v the_o jew_n shall_v not_o then_o the_o terrible_a wrath_n of_o god_n that_o thy_o furious_a spirit_n bring_v upon_o thou_o scare_v thou_o from_o cherish_v thy_o passionate_a and_o froward_a humour_n if_o thou_o retain_v thy_o anger_n against_o thy_o husband_n or_o against_o thy_o wife_n god_n will_v settle_v his_o wrath_n upon_o thou_o o_o think_v upon_o this_o o_o husband_n or_o o_o wife_n when_o thy_o choler_n begin_v to_o rise_v if_o i_o give_v way_n to_o my_o anger_n i_o do_v but_o call_v upon_o god_n to_o pour_v down_o his_o wrath_n upon_o i_o before_o i_o proceed_v to_o give_v direction_n for_o the_o subdue_a bridle_a and_o prevent_a wrath_n and_o dissension_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n i_o shall_v endeavour_v to_o manifest_v which_o of_o they_o be_v most_o principal_o faulty_a in_o cause_v heat_n and_o dissension_n between_o they_o which_o of_o they_o be_v most_o faulty_a in_o be_v angry_a and_o froward_a and_o that_o in_o these_o follow_a particular_n 1._o that_o person_n that_o in_o he_o or_o her_o anger_n do_v by_o expression_n manifest_v a_o contempt_n or_o undervalue_v or_o a_o want_n of_o affection_n to_o the_o other_o person_n be_v principal_o faulty_a in_o be_v angry_a and_o be_v indeed_o angry_a immoderate_o and_o without_o cause_n for_o a_o well-grounded_n anger_n do_v manifest_a displeasure_n against_o another_o offence_n and_o sin_n but_o not_o against_o the_o person_n offend_v endeavour_n to_o make_v faulty_a person_n ashamed_a but_o not_o a_o shame_n that_o husband_n that_o do_v in_o his_o anger_n and_o furiousness_n of_o spirit_n call_v his_o wife_n where_o do_v indeed_o evidence_n a_o contempt_n and_o hatred_n of_o her_o person_n and_o that_o wife_n that_o do_v call_v her_o husband_n rogue_n knave_n and_o cheat_a fellow_n or_o other_o opprobrious_a term_n do_v real_o hate_v her_o husband_n and_o be_v principal_o in_o fault_n when_o a_o difference_n do_v arise_v between_o they_o also_o that_o person_n that_o do_v obstinate_o refuse_v to_o give_v due_a conjugal_a respect_n to_o the_o other_o do_v evidence_n a_o contempt_n of_o the_o other_o person_n and_o be_v guilty_a of_o its_o own_o anger_n and_o of_o the_o strife_n that_o be_v stir_v up_o between_o they_o 2._o that_o party_n that_o keep_v in_o memory_n and_o repeat_v over_o old_a thing_n that_o have_v be_v the_o occasion_n of_o contention_n a_o long_a time_n before_o 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thy_o own_o mind_n therefore_o give_v not_o way_n to_o anger_n see_v it_o blind_v reason_n which_o be_v the_o light_n and_o guide_v of_o the_o soul_n if_o man_n abhor_v drunkenness_n and_o that_o worthy_o because_o it_o make_v they_o differ_v from_o bruit_n beast_n only_o in_o shape_n of_o body_n why_o shall_v thou_o not_o for_o the_o same_o cause_n hate_v this_o vice_n of_o anger_n which_o like_o a_o burn_a ague_n do_v so_o disturb_v thy_o mind_n and_o while_o the_o fit_n last_v it_o utter_v nothing_o but_o rave_v do_v not_o then_o nourish_v thy_o froward_a humour_n nor_o give_v way_n to_o thy_o wrath_n be_v not_o of_o a_o hasty_a spirit_n whereby_o thou_o be_v guilty_a of_o such_o rashness_n and_o fierceness_n in_o all_o thy_o action_n because_o those_o furious_a act_n be_v so_o contrary_a to_o right_a reason_n 2._o another_o effect_n of_o anger_n and_o discord_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v that_o they_o be_v great_a enemy_n to_o the_o quiet_a of_o their_o own_o heart_n a_o angry_a passion_n be_v a_o great_a disturber_n of_o a_o man_n or_o woman_n own_o peace_n that_o we_o may_v say_v of_o it_o as_o the_o wise_a man_n say_v of_o cruelty_n prov._n 11.17_o he_o that_o be_v cruel_a trouble_v his_o own_o flesh_n so_o those_o that_o be_v of_o froward_a spirit_n they_o trouble_v their_o own_o flesh_n and_o trouble_v their_o spirit_n too_o it_o do_v macerate_v and_o vex_v the_o soul_n with_o fury_n for_o what_o great_a torment_n can_v we_o imagine_v than_o to_o have_v the_o mind_n distract_v upon_o the_o rack_n of_o rage_n as_o therefore_o we_o will_v account_v he_o a_o mad_a man_n who_o with_o his_o own_o hand_n shall_v set_v his_o house_n on_o fire_n and_o consume_v it_o alike_o mad_a be_v that_o person_n to_o be_v think_v who_o will_v set_v he_o or_o her_o soul_n on_o fire_n with_o the_o rage_a flame_n of_o anger_n wherein_o it_o be_v not_o only_o torment_v in_o this_o life_n but_o also_o without_o repentance_n in_o the_o life_n to_o come_v it_o shall_v be_v torment_v everlasting_o rage_n and_o fury_n torture_v more_o than_o wrong_a or_o injury_n hereby_o man_n and_o woman_n prove_v burden_n to_o themselves_o and_o hence_o it_o be_v that_o a_o angry_a husband_n or_o wife_n cry_v out_o no_o one_o be_v so_o plague_v as_o i_o be_o i_o know_v no_o body_n so_o cross_v as_o i_o be_o because_o indeed_o they_o be_v plague_n to_o themselves_o and_o cross_n to_o themselves_o they_o have_v no_o quiet_a in_o their_o own_o spirit_n nothing_o without_o be_v quiet_a to_o they_o if_o we_o can_v look_v into_o the_o bofom_n of_o a_o angry_a person_n we_o shall_v find_v that_o there_o be_v no_o such_o discontent_a spirit_n as_o a_o angry_a spirit_n be_v such_o a_o one_o will_v fain_o have_v his_o or_o her_o own_o will_n but_o sail_v herein_o in_o spite_n of_o he_o or_o her_o heart_n there_o will_v be_v nothing_o but_o confusion_n and_o trouble_n in_o he_o or_o her_o spirit_n immoderate_a anger_n have_v prove_v a_o enemy_n to_o the_o body_n itself_o it_o 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may_v contain_v thy_o anger_n for_o a_o long_a time_n enter_v into_o a_o resolve_n in_o the_o strength_n of_o divine_a assistance_n that_o whatever_o occasion_n may_v be_v offer_v thou_o yet_o thou_o will_v refrain_v to_o manifest_v thy_o wrath_n and_o displeasure_n and_o so_o by_o little_a and_o little_o thou_o shall_v attain_v a_o habit_n of_o patience_n and_o meekness_n 5._o in_o those_o that_o be_v guilty_a of_o much_o furious_a passion_n their_o anger_n do_v cause_n abundance_n of_o sin_n as_o in_o prov._n 29.22_o a_o angry_a man_n stir_v up_o strife_n and_o a_o furious_a man_n abound_v in_o transgression_n anger_n be_v the_o door_n and_o gate_n of_o vice_n and_o therefore_o the_o psalmist_n say_v psal_n 37.8_o cease_v from_o anger_n leave_v off_o wrath_n fret_v not_o thyself_o to_o do_v evil_a as_o if_o he_o will_v imply_v that_o to_o abound_v in_o anger_n be_v to_o abound_v in_o sin_n and_o it_o can_v be_v but_o a_o person_n must_v be_v guilty_a of_o much_o sin_n that_o live_v 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eruption_n run_v away_o without_o a_o rule_n and_o end_n in_o folly_n and_o inconveniency_n prov._n 14.17_o he_o that_o be_v soon_o angry_a deal_v foolish_o by_o frequent_a fit_n of_o passion_n anger_n be_v concoct_v into_o malice_n which_o do_v evidence_n a_o very_a wicked_a disposition_n and_o be_v find_v only_o in_o the_o most_o deprave_a nature_n james_n say_v cap._n 1.20_o the_o wrath_n of_o man_n work_v not_o the_o righteousness_n of_o god_n intimate_v that_o it_o be_v so_o far_o from_o work_v righteousness_n that_o it_o work_v all_o manner_n of_o evil_n there_o be_v in_o a_o person_n anger_n somewhat_o of_o rage_n and_o violence_n which_o vehement_o excit_v the_o person_n to_o act_v and_o take_v away_o the_o rule_n according_a to_o which_o he_o or_o she_o ought_v to_o act_v so_o anger_n cause_v people_n conscience_n to_o be_v stany_v with_o the_o impurity_n of_o their_o life_n 1._o violent_a passion_n cause_v man_n and_o woman_n even_o to_o fly_v in_o the_o very_a face_n of_o 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care_v not_o what_o she_o say_v or_o what_o she_o do_v she_o fear_v not_o god_n displeasure_n while_o the_o fit_a of_o passion_n and_o contention_n last_v for_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n be_v to_o depart_v from_o evil_n and_o there_o can_v be_v no_o restraint_n from_o sin_n when_o that_o be_v go_v in_o people_n fit_n of_o angry_a passion_n their_o reproachful_a and_o revile_v speech_n do_v much_o dishonour_n god_n and_o their_o action_n flat_o oppose_v his_o will_n while_o they_o be_v angry_a they_o do_v not_o stand_v in_o awe_n of_o god_n and_o thereby_o their_o unruly_a lust_n be_v let_v loose_a run_v up_o and_o down_o do_v mischief_n sin_v against_o god_n and_o their_o brethren_n indeed_o the_o gratify_n of_o passionate_a humour_n do_v make_v person_n cease_v fear_v god_n in_o fearlesness_n of_o god_n be_v a_o mighty_a provoke_a sin_n see_v what_o almighty_a god_n say_v in_o jer._n 5.22_o fear_v you_o not_o i_o say_v the_o lord_n will_v you_o not_o tremble_v at_o my_o presence_n and_o in_o verse_n 24._o neither_o say_v they_o in_o their_o heart_n let_v we_o now_o fear_v the_o lord_n our_o god_n and_o in_o verse_n 29._o shall_v i_o not_o visit_v for_o these_o thing_n say_v the_o lord_n shall_v not_o my_o soul_n be_v avenge_v on_o such_o a_o nation_n as_o this_o o_o then_o be_v sensible_a what_o great_a provoke_a sin_n anger_n and_o contention_n do_v occasion_n 6._o husband_n and_o wife_n by_o the_o frequency_n of_o their_o angry_a passionate_a fit_n make_v themselves_o all_o their_o life_n contemptible_a to_o other_o some_o husband_n and_o wife_n think_v to_o be_v terrible_a to_o other_o in_o their_o passion_n but_o they_o discover_v so_o much_o folly_n as_o that_o they_o make_v those_o that_o they_o be_v angry_a with_o to_o despise_v they_o they_o may_v think_v to_o gain_v the_o more_o authority_n and_o make_v other_o stand_v more_o in_o awe_n of_o they_o by_o their_o be_v angry_a with_o they_o but_o they_o see_v so_o much_o rashness_n and_o distemper_n in_o their_o 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impli_v the_o great_a sense_n of_o his_o own_o vileness_n nothingness_n and_o wretchedness_n the_o true_a reason_n why_o people_n at_o any_o time_n carry_v it_o so_o high_a with_o god_n that_o they_o have_v a_o good_a opinion_n of_o themselves_o be_v because_o their_o notion_n and_o apprehension_n of_o god_n be_v so_o infinite_o below_o he_o do_v they_o know_v god_n more_o how_o will_v they_o fear_v before_o he_o and_o stand_v as_o person_n astonish_v at_o the_o presence_n of_o his_o majesty_n it_o be_v people_n darkness_n about_o god_n which_o embolden_v they_o beyond_o their_o bound_n or_o the_o line_n of_o creature_n and_o the_o reason_n why_o carnal_a person_n and_o hypocrite_n carry_v it_o so_o stout_o before_o god_n be_v because_o they_o know_v not_o god_n aright_o they_o may_v bâ—ast_v of_o their_o knowledge_n when_o they_o know_v nothing_o as_o they_o ought_v 1_o cor._n 8.2_o person_n never_o see_v how_o imperfect_a they_o be_v till_o they_o see_v themselves_o in_o the_o 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righteousness_n how_o pure_a soever_o it_o may_v be_v from_o that_o use_n and_o direct_v we_o to_o look_v only_o to_o the_o righteousness_n of_o christ_n for_o that_o use_n which_o the_o apostle_n call_v the_o righteousness_n of_o god_n rom._n 10.3_o because_o it_o be_v that_o which_o the_o wisdom_n of_o god_n the_o father_n have_v provide_v for_o we_o and_o which_o the_o worthiness_n of_o god_n the_o son_n have_v wrought_v and_o procure_v for_o we_o pardon_v this_o digression_n i_o have_v reason_n for_o what_o i_o do_v o_o then_o will_v you_o get_v your_o pride_n mortify_v that_o beget_v and_o feed_v your_o angry_a passion_n endeavour_v after_o full_a manifestation_n of_o god_n serious_o consider_v god_n as_o reveal_v in_o his_o word_n converse_v more_o with_o god_n get_v more_o acquaintance_n with_o god_n know_v and_o consider_v how_o much_o god_n be_v above_o and_o the_o mean_a you_o will_v be_v in_o your_o own_o eye_n the_o full_a discovery_n you_o have_v of_o god_n the_o more_o sensible_a you_o will_v be_v of_o your_o own_o unworthiness_n and_o the_o more_o calmness_n will_v you_o have_v in_o your_o own_o spirit_n and_o the_o more_o able_a you_o will_v be_v to_o resist_v provocation_n unto_o anger_n we_o have_v no_o cause_n to_o wonder_v to_o see_v person_n in_o the_o world_n that_o do_v not_o know_v god_n to_o have_v bold_a and_o presumptuous_a spirit_n and_o have_v their_o spirit_n lift_v up_o in_o vanity_n but_o it_o be_v a_o wonder_n that_o a_o soul_n that_o ever_o have_v any_o sight_n of_o god_n shall_v have_v any_o rise_n of_o spirit_n that_o any_o sinful_a height_n of_o spirit_n shall_v be_v in_o that_o soul_n that_o know_v what_o a_o infinite_a god_n he_o be_v to_o deal_v with_o o_o converse_n much_o with_o god_n and_o then_o you_o will_v be_v humble_a soul_n that_o soul_n that_o never_o go_v from_o duty_n without_o experience_a communion_n with_o god_n be_v very_o humble_a and_o nothing_o have_v that_o excellency_n in_o it_o as_o that_o which_o come_v from_o converse_v with_o god_n and_o upon_o the_o sight_n of_o his_o excellency_n 3._o consider_v that_o the_o more_o you_o see_v and_o know_v yourselves_o the_o more_o you_o shall_v be_v abase_v and_o lie_v low_a in_o yourselves_o a_o right_a knowledge_n of_o yourselves_o be_v that_o which_o shall_v bring_v your_o heart_n low_a do_v but_o serious_o consider_v what_o you_o be_v in_o yourselves_o what_o abundance_n of_o filth_n and_o vileness_n there_o be_v in_o yourselves_o and_o you_o will_v not_o have_v any_o high_a thought_n of_o yourselves_o o_o then_o study_v yourselves_o more_o converse_v with_o yourselves_o and_o endeavour_v to_o know_v yourselves_o more_o and_o that_o noxious_a wind_n of_o ostentation_n by_o which_o proud_a person_n be_v vain_o puâ—â—t_v up_o in_o their_o fleshly_a mind_n will_v be_v let_v out_o and_o avoid_v let_v every_o proud_a person_n consider_v what_o he_o be_v let_v the_o question_n be_v put_v to_o his_o or_o her_o own_o soul_n thus_o who_o be_o i_o or_o what_o be_o i_o that_o i_o shall_v have_v a_o proud_a thought_n shall_v dust_n and_o ash_n shall_v one_o that_o be_v but_o a_o shadow_n a_o vapour_n but_o as_o grass_n a_o flower_n of_o the_o field_n and_o in_o his_o best_a estate_n altogether_o vanity_n be_v proud_a o_o consider_v whatever_o thou_o be_v as_o to_o this_o world_n thou_o can_v not_o be_v long_o what_o thou_o be_v in_o thy_o high_a perfection_n attainable_a in_o this_o world_n thou_o be_v very_o mutable_a and_o the_o high_a thou_o be_v the_o more_o mutable_a thou_o be_v and_o what_o have_v thou_o to_o be_v proud_a of_o shall_v perish_a thing_n be_v proud_a thing_n will_v thou_o be_v lift_v â—pâ—_n with_o what_o thou_o have_v which_o as_o 〈◊〉_d the_o wâ—rld_n be_v of_o â—o_o little_a be_v as_o thou_o can_v haâ—lly_o be_v say_v to_o be_v consider_v all_o these_o thing_n which_o be_v as_o fuel_n and_o occasion_n of_o thy_o priâ—e_n thou_o must_v short_o give_v a_o account_n for_o they_o to_o god_n and_o the_o more_o thou_o haâ—â—_n receive_v in_o any_o kind_n whatsoever_o the_o strict_a will_v thy_o account_n be_v for_o thy_o account_v will_n be_v proportionable_a to_o what_o thy_o receipt_n be_v luke_n 12.48_o to_o whosoever_o much_o be_v give_v of_o he_o shall_v much_o be_v require_v consider_v wâ—at_n thou_o be_v by_o nature_n and_o while_o â—n_v thy_o unconverted_a state_n thou_o be_v a_o child_n of_o wrath_n as_o bad_a as_o the_o base_a and_o vile_a wretch_n in_o the_o world_n thou_o be_v full_a of_o sin_n the_o seed_n of_o all_o kind_n of_o sin_n there_o be_v no_o sâ—n_n in_o hell_n itself_o but_o the_o seed_n of_o it_o be_v in_o thy_o heart_n thy_o heart_n and_o life_n be_v full_a of_o sin_n all_o the_o faculty_n of_o thy_o soul_n be_v full_a of_o sin_n all_o the_o member_n of_o thy_o body_n be_v instrument_n of_o sin_n thy_o soul_n and_o body_n be_v pollute_v and_o loathsome_a and_o in_o that_o condition_n thou_o be_v succourless_a and_o helpless_a thou_o can_v never_o deliver_v thyself_o thou_o be_v wander_v from_o god_n and_o will_v have_v wander_v eternal_o if_o god_n have_v not_o look_v upon_o thou_o in_o mercy_n there_o be_v such_o a_o breach_n make_v between_o god_n and_o thy_o soul_n that_o have_v all_o the_o angel_n n_o heaven_n or_o creature_n in_o the_o world_n lay_v down_o their_o life_n for_o thou_o thou_o can_v not_o by_o their_o death_n have_v help_v to_o make_v up_o that_o breach_n look_v back_o to_o this_o condition_n and_o thou_o will_v see_v cause_n enough_o to_o be_v low_a in_o thy_o own_o eye_n consider_v what_o thou_o may_v now_o have_v be_v if_o the_o lord_n have_v takâ—n_v advantage_n against_o thou_o thou_o be_v now_o in_o a_o comfortable_a condition_n thou_o now_o come_v among_o the_o people_n of_o god_n into_o the_o assembly_n of_o the_o saint_n but_o thou_o
apostle_n prescribe_v humility_n as_o a_o antidote_n against_o strife_n and_o contention_n and_o a_o sovereign_n mean_a for_o attain_v unto_o and_o entertain_v of_o union_n and_o peace_n but_o where_o pride_n be_v predominant_a man_n and_o woman_n walk_v so_o as_o that_o they_o care_v not_o to_o give_v content_a to_o any_o body_n but_o themselves_o in_o the_o family_n they_o must_v have_v all_o the_o content_n and_o no_o body_n else_o be_v please_v certain_o a_o humble_a spirit_n be_v much_o free_a from_o angry_a passion_n than_o any_o other_o because_o as_o a_o humble_a person_n be_v not_o willing_a to_o give_v offence_n to_o any_o so_o be_v not_o ready_a to_o take_v offence_n from_o other_o for_o it_o be_v pride_n of_o spirit_n to_o be_v ready_a to_o take_v offence_n from_o other_o upon_o every_o trifle_n and_o by_o this_o mean_n person_n prove_v to_o be_v very_o burdensome_a to_o other_o the_o ground_n of_o a_o proud_a person_n take_v offence_n be_v this_o because_o they_o think_v that_o every_o body_n must_v say_v as_o they_o say_v and_o do_v as_o they_o do_v else_o they_o cry_v out_o that_o they_o be_v always_o oppose_v and_o because_o they_o think_v their_o own_o judgement_n best_o and_o such_o a_o thing_n be_v better_a therefore_o other_o must_v do_v it_o and_o if_o they_o do_v not_o than_o they_o be_v lofty_a than_o they_o be_v proud_a and_o stout_a and_o break_v out_o into_o unseemly_a speech_n be_v inflame_v with_o passion_n evidence_v that_o they_o be_v under_o the_o tyranny_n of_o their_o pride_n so_o that_o there_o be_v no_o prevent_v of_o anger_n &_o contention_n between_o husband_n &_o wife_n without_o the_o mortification_n of_o their_o pride_n 4._o another_o direction_n to_o prevent_v sinful_a anger_n and_o hot_a contest_v between_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v that_o thou_o do_v consider_v that_o god_n be_v merciful_a and_o gracious_a slow_a to_o anger_n and_o abundant_a in_o kindness_n exod._n 34.6_o and_o as_o he_o be_v not_o easy_o provoke_v to_o anger_n so_o be_v provoke_v his_o anger_n last_v not_o long_a for_o he_o will_v not_o always_o chide_v nor_o keep_v his_o anger_n for_o ever_o psal_n 103._o 8_o 9_o the_o lord_n with_o much_o lenity_n suffer_v the_o vessel_n ordain_v to_o destruction_n how_o long_o do_v he_o suffer_v the_o old_a world_n how_o loath_a be_v he_o to_o strikeâ—_n if_o in_o and_o hundred_o &_o twenty_o year_n he_o can_v have_v reclaim_v they_o he_o will_v have_v forbear_v they_o 1_o pet._n 3.20_o the_o measure_n of_o his_o grace_n and_o mercy_n towards_o we_o be_v daily_o boundless_a and_o exceed_v all_o measure_n he_o forgive_v we_o every_o moment_n much_o more_o than_o we_o can_v possible_o be_v wrong_v of_o man_n yea_o he_o forgive_v that_o person_n that_o injure_v we_o much_o more_o than_o we_o can_v forgive_v he_o o_o then_o if_o thou_o will_v evidence_n thyself_o to_o be_v a_o child_n of_o god_n must_v thou_o not_o labour_v to_o express_v his_o virtue_n this_o be_v that_o the_o apostle_n exhort_v col._n 3.12_o 13._o put_v on_o therefore_o as_o the_o elect_a of_o god_n holy_a and_o belove_a bowel_n of_o mercy_n kindness_n humbleness_n of_o mind_n meekness_n long-suffering_a forbear_v one_o another_o if_o any_o man_n have_v a_o quarrel_n against_o any_o even_o as_o christ_n forgive_v you_o even_o so_o do_v you_o he_o recommend_v the_o practice_n of_o meekness_n and_o long-suffering_a which_o consist_v in_o bear_v with_o and_o pardon_v of_o even_o real_a injury_n do_v by_o other_o and_o persuade_v to_o it_o from_o christ_n example_n in_o pardon_v we_o the_o example_n of_o god_n and_o christ_n be_v a_o most_o convince_a pattern_n for_o exciting_a we_o to_o pardon_v and_o forgive_v on_o another_o if_o we_o consider_v either_o the_o greatness_n of_o those_o wrong_n which_o he_o pardon_v isa_n 1.18_o or_o our_o baseness_n who_o do_v injure_v he_o isa_n 40.17_o 22._o or_o his_o omnipotency_n to_o right_v himself_o of_o the_o wrong_n do_v unto_o he_o mat._n 10.28_o do_v thou_o o_o husband_n or_o o_o wife_n stand_v in_o need_n of_o forgiveness_n and_o will_v thou_o not_o forgive_v thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n shall_v god_n forgive_v thou_o infinite_a sin_n and_o will_v thou_o not_o pass_v by_o one_o offence_n do_v thâ—n_o stand_v in_o deed_n of_o a_o sea_n of_o mercy_n for_o the_o wash_n away_o thy_o many_o foul_a offence_n and_o will_v thou_o not_o let_v one_o drop_v fall_n upon_o thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n to_o forbear_v or_o forgive_v in_o trifle_a wrong_n certain_o if_o husband_n and_o wife_n will_v but_o serious_o consider_v these_o thing_n it_o will_v make_v all_o quarrelling_n and_o contention_n between_o they_o to_o cease_v o_o what_o little_a cause_n have_v thou_o then_o to_o manifest_v a_o furious_a spirit_n against_o thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n for_o every_o trifle_n see_v god_n do_v not_o deal_v furious_o with_o thou_o for_o great_a offence_n o_o that_o these_o consideration_n may_v prevent_v husband_n and_o wife_n rage_v against_o and_o fall_v out_o one_o with_o another_o for_o the_o time_n to_o come_v 5._o if_o thou_o will_v keep_v thy_o spirit_n quiet_a and_o free_a from_o furious_a passion_n when_o any_o thing_n be_v do_v by_o thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n that_o be_v contrary_a to_o thy_o mind_n and_o do_v much_o displease_v look_v up_o to_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n and_o acknowledge_v the_o providence_n of_o god_n without_o which_o not_o the_o least_o grief_n or_o injury_n can_v befall_v thou_o for_o even_o the_o least_o be_v a_o portion_n of_o that_o cup_n which_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n reach_v out_o to_o thou_o to_o drink_v of_o job_n look_v not_o at_o the_o sabean_o and_o thief_n that_o take_v away_o his_o good_n but_o at_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n the_o lord_n have_v take_v away_o bless_a be_v his_o name_n job_n 1.21_o 22._o he_o be_v satisfy_v that_o god_n will_v that_o in_o righteousness_n and_o justice_n which_o they_o act_v with_o so_o much_o cruelty_n and_o injustice_n david_n look_v up_o to_o god_n when_o shimei_n curse_v he_o quiet_v his_o spirit_n and_o restrain_v his_o anger_n so_o in_o psal_n 39.9_o i_o be_v dumb_a and_o open_v not_o my_o mouth_n o_o lord_n because_o thou_o do_v it_o he_o do_v neither_o manifest_a forwardness_n nor_o discontent_n because_o he_o take_v notice_n of_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n joseph_n do_v not_o vent_v his_o passion_n against_o his_o brother_n for_o sell_v he_o to_o the_o ishmeelite_n but_o keep_v himself_o in_o a_o calm_a frame_n of_o spirit_n by_o consider_v this_o it_o be_v god_n that_o send_v i_o hither_o a_o godly_a man_n can_v be_v angry_a at_o the_o do_v or_o speak_v of_o that_o which_o please_v god_n to_o order_v the_o speak_n or_o do_v of_o because_o he_o know_v he_o be_v bind_v to_o submit_v to_o the_o will_n of_o god_n and_o thy_o only_a observe_v of_o the_o person_n that_o do_v in_o any_o way_n displease_v thou_o and_o not_o consider_v that_o god_n have_v a_o hand_n in_o all_o thing_n that_o befall_v thou_o be_v the_o cause_n that_o thou_o be_v so_o often_o transport_v with_o furious_a passion_n a_o observation_n that_o god_n have_v a_o hand_n in_o all_o thing_n that_o befall_v thou_o be_v as_o water_v to_o quench_v the_o inflammation_n of_o thy_o angry_a passion_n this_o persuasion_n that_o god_n see_v cause_n for_o all_o the_o wrong_n that_o thou_o do_v suffer_v be_v many_o way_n forceable_a to_o move_v thou_o unto_o patience_n for_o 1._o if_o thou_o do_v look_v to_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n in_o those_o thing_n that_o distaste_n thou_o it_o will_v constrain_v thou_o to_o confess_v that_o all_o thy_o chastisement_n be_v just_a far_o less_o than_o thy_o sin_n have_v deserve_v for_o indeed_o all_o the_o opposition_n that_o thou_o have_v from_o thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n be_v in_o some_o measure_n a_o rebuke_n of_o god_n against_o some_o miscarriage_n of_o thou_o and_o god_n in_o permit_v thou_o to_o be_v exercise_v with_o such_o thing_n as_o do_v very_o much_o distaste_n thy_o spirit_n do_v do_v thou_o no_o wrong_n because_o it_o be_v not_o commensurate_a to_o the_o merit_n of_o thy_o sin_n for_o indeed_o such_o cross_n and_o provocation_n as_o thou_o do_v meet_v with_o from_o thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n be_v but_o light_a to_o a_o gracious_a heart_n and_o if_o not_o so_o light_a to_o thou_o as_o to_o other_o yet_o but_o momentory_n but_o thy_o sin_n have_v deserve_v infinite_a and_o eternal_a punishment_n if_o therefore_o the_o lord_n use_v those_o earthly_a rod_n to_o correct_v thy_o sin_n thou_o shall_v rather_o admire_v his_o mercy_n than_o be_v angry_a at_o so_o gentle_a chastisement_n if_o thou_o do_v but_o consider_v that_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n be_v in_o every_o thing_n whereby_o thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n displease_v thou_o thou_o will_v
beginning_n which_o have_v break_v out_o into_o most_o fearful_a outrage_n how_o often_o be_v it_o in_o a_o family_n that_o a_o little_a spark_n do_v kindle_v a_o great_a fire_n at_o first_o there_o may_v be_v but_o a_o word_n speak_v amiss_o that_o may_v easy_o have_v be_v pass_v over_o but_o that_o word_n beget_v another_o and_o another_o and_o so_o grow_v to_o a_o most_o hideous_a flame_n sometime_o it_o be_v between_o the_o near_a relation_n as_o husband_n and_o wife_n that_o a_o contention_n do_v arise_v between_o they_o for_o a_o very_a small_a matter_n sometime_o for_o the_o very_a gesture_n of_o the_o hand_n or_o some_o spot_n on_o the_o apparel_n oh_o a_o very_a slight_a ground_n for_o distaste_n and_o it_o argue_v very_o little_a or_o no_o grace_n in_o that_o heart_n that_o be_v displease_v with_o such_o inconsiderable_a thing_n with_o which_o god_n be_v not_o displease_v at_o all_o sometime_o it_o begin_v in_o the_o very_a countenance_n the_o wife_n think_v that_o her_o husband_n look_v not_o upon_o she_o with_o so_o pleasant_a a_o countenance_n as_o he_o be_v wont_a to_o do_v and_o from_o thence_o she_o begin_v to_o have_v surmize_n and_o suspicion_n and_o then_o come_v to_o make_v misinterpretation_n and_o from_o thence_o there_o come_v a_o strangeness_n and_o from_o be_v strange_a she_o begin_v to_o hearken_v to_o tale_n that_o be_v carry_v to_o she_o against_o her_o husband_n and_o to_o believe_v they_o and_o to_o aggravate_v they_o then_o she_o begin_v to_o speak_v some_o hard_a word_n against_o he_o and_o then_o to_o do_v he_o some_o ill_a office_n then_o break_v out_o into_o violent_a and_o eminent_a passion_n and_o act_n against_o he_o revile_v he_o cast_v false_a aspersion_n upon_o he_o endeavour_v to_o represent_v he_o to_o other_o as_o the_o vile_a wretch_n live_v lay_v such_o thing_n to_o his_o charge_n as_o he_o be_v altogether_o innocent_a of_o and_o then_o to_o deny_v all_o conjugal_a respect_n to_o he_o and_o then_o wish_v she_o have_v never_o be_v relate_v to_o he_o and_o some_o go_v so_o far_o as_o to_o use_v indirect_a mean_n to_o extinguish_v the_o relation_n other_o grow_v fond_a of_o other_o man_n and_o so_o come_v to_o have_v unlawful_a intimacy_n with_o they_o whereas_o have_v there_o be_v care_v take_v by_o she_o at_o the_o beginning_n all_o this_o may_v have_v be_v prevent_v as_o the_o wise_a man_n say_v prov._n 17.14_o the_o beginning_n of_o strife_n be_v as_o one_o let_v out_o water_n therefore_o leave_v off_o contention_n before_o it_o be_v meddle_v with_o or_o before_o the_o breach_n be_v make_v so_o great_a as_o not_o to_o be_v repair_v so_o then_o when_o thy_o heart_n be_v first_o set_v on_o fire_n with_o anger_n do_v thou_o present_o endeavour_v to_o quench_v it_o with_o the_o water_n of_o the_o spirit_n for_o after_o thou_o be_v thorough_o inflame_v it_o will_v be_v too_o late_o to_o apply_v any_o remedy_n till_o the_o flame_n have_v spend_v itself_o but_o thou_o may_v say_v i_o fall_v into_o anger_n many_o time_n when_o i_o never_o mean_v it_o and_o it_o have_v overcome_v i_o before_o i_o be_o aware_a how_o therefore_o shall_v i_o prevent_v that_o which_o i_o do_v not_o foresee_v or_o free_v myself_o from_o it_o when_o it_o violent_o over-ruleth_a i_o to_o which_o i_o answer_v 1._o if_o thou_o do_v careful_o watch_v over_o thyself_o thou_o shall_v easy_o perceive_v when_o thou_o be_v incline_v to_o anger_n for_o there_o be_v many_o sign_n which_o go_v before_o a_o storm_n and_o many_o symptom_n which_o discover_v disease_n before_o person_n do_v fall_v into_o they_o so_o thou_o may_v easy_o discern_v in_o thyself_o many_o note_n and_o sign_n of_o this_o furious_a and_o tempestuous_a storm_n and_o rage_a fever_n of_o mind_n unjust_a anger_n before_o it_o break_v forth_o and_o show_v itself_o much_o pain_n swell_v of_o heart_n discontent_n and_o bitterness_n of_o spirit_n appear_v before_o it_o 2._o anger_n do_v not_o present_o as_o soon_o as_o enter_v into_o thy_o heart_n over-rule_v thou_o before_o by_o increase_n of_o fuel_n it_o be_v grow_v to_o a_o great_a height_n than_o it_o have_v at_o first_o the_o most_o furious_a anger_n attain_v not_o its_o full_a strength_n at_o first_o entrance_n but_o by_o little_a and_o little_o increase_v like_o a_o flame_n by_o take_v hold_n of_o new_a matter_n and_o the_o fire_n in_o the_o begin_n thereof_o be_v easy_o suppress_v first_o by_o not_o yield_v obedience_n to_o a_o angry_a passion_n nor_o bolieve_v she_o in_o any_o thing_n that_o she_o say_v or_o do_v to_o prompt_v thou_o to_o furious_a action_n therefore_o if_o thou_o observe_v thyself_o like_a to_o be_v transport_v with_o choler_n endeavour_v to_o retain_v thyself_o and_o strive_v to_o moderate_v thy_o passion_n and_o divert_v the_o infirmity_n that_o seek_v to_o seize_v upon_o thou_o give_v no_o ear_n to_o any_o incitement_n unto_o anger_n 3._o if_o thou_o will_v timely_o subdue_v thy_o anger_n withdraw_v the_o food_n wherewith_o it_o be_v nourish_v the_o most_o furious_a anger_n will_v soon_o be_v mitigate_v if_o it_o be_v not_o continual_o nourish_v with_o a_o new_a supply_n of_o matter_n the_o fuel_n of_o anger_n be_v the_o multiply_a of_o word_n as_o nothing_o soon_o than_o the_o wind_n cause_v a_o small_a spark_n to_o burst_v out_o into_o a_o furious_a flame_n so_o nothing_o soon_o do_v cause_n a_o small_a spark_n of_o anger_n to_o increase_v into_o a_o furious_a rage_a flame_n than_o the_o wind_n of_o word_n do_v not_o then_o think_v to_o disgorge_v thy_o stomach_n of_o anger_n by_o vomit_v out_o spleen_n in_o bitter_a word_n for_o they_o only_o aggravate_v thing_n for_o the_o continue_n of_o anger_n do_v thou_o therefore_o use_v most_o modesty_n mildness_n of_o speech_n and_o lowness_n of_o voice_n do_v so_o withdraw_v nourishment_n from_o the_o fire_n of_o anger_n that_o it_o will_v soon_o of_o itself_o be_v extinguish_v 4._o if_o thy_o anger_n begin_v to_o arise_v make_v some_o delay_n before_o thou_o speak_v or_o do_v any_o thing_n give_v not_o place_n to_o wrath_n let_v it_o not_o have_v vent_n by_o sudden_a or_o unadvised_a word_n anger_n smother_v will_v languish_v but_o let_v out_o will_v flame_n into_o further_a mischief_n it_o be_v some_o cure_n of_o passion_n to_o delay_v it_o therefore_o solomon_n say_v prov._n 19.11_o the_o discretion_n of_o a_o man_n defer_v his_o anger_n and_o it_o be_v wisdom_n so_o to_o do_v so_o it_o be_v thy_o honour_n it_o be_v the_o glory_n of_o a_o man_n to_o pass_v by_o a_o transgression_n not_o to_o take_v distaste_n at_o every_o offence_n therefore_o it_o be_v good_a to_o check_v thy_o precipitant_a motion_n by_o delay_n and_o due_a recourse_n to_o reason_n lest_o by_o follow_v thy_o passion_n too_o close_o thou_o run_v thyself_o into_o great_a inconvenience_n o_o by_o thy_o quickness_n and_o shortness_n of_o spirit_n thou_o be_v transport_v into_o many_o indecency_n which_o dishonour_n god_n and_o wound_v thy_o conscience_n therefore_o do_v what_o thou_o can_v to_o suppress_v thy_o anger_n as_o soon_o as_o it_o do_v appear_v if_o this_o course_n be_v take_v by_o husband_n and_o wife_n it_o will_v be_v a_o excellent_a mean_n to_o prevent_v and_o suppress_v anger_n and_o discord_n between_o they_o 11._o if_o thou_o will_v not_o be_v angry_a with_o thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n take_v heed_n of_o too_o much_o curiosity_n in_o observe_v every_o little_a thing_n or_o every_o trifle_n in_o thy_o husband_n or_o wife_n word_n or_o action_n if_o thou_o will_v not_o be_v angry_a thou_o must_v past_o over_o a_o great_a many_o thing_n and_o take_v no_o notice_n of_o they_o thou_o must_v have_v a_o kind_n of_o holy_a negligence_n of_o a_o great_a many_o thing_n and_o pass_v over_o and_o see_v and_o not_o see_v and_o turn_v away_o thy_o ear_n from_o many_o thing_n as_o in_o eccles_n 7.21_o also_o take_v no_o heed_n unto_o all_o word_n that_o be_v speak_v many_o thing_n that_o be_v speak_v thou_o must_v let_v pass_v unregarded_a many_o time_n hard_a say_n or_o ill_a speech_n vain_a and_o undervalue_a speech_n speech_n speak_v at_o random_n without_o occasion_n without_o consideration_n and_o without_o any_o real_a detriment_n to_o we_o must_v not_o be_v take_v notice_n of_o to_o make_v they_o occasion_n of_o enmity_n and_o discord_n or_o to_o break_v our_o own_o peace_n and_o tranquillity_n thus_o mr._n cotten_n on_o this_o wise_a therefore_o i_o say_v do_v not_o take_v notice_n of_o hard_a or_o slight_a speech_n speak_v against_o thyself_o or_o vain_a impertinent_a word_n that_o do_v thou_o no_o personal_a prejudice_n paul_n take_v little_a notice_n of_o word_n speak_v against_o he_o 1_o cor._n 3.4_o but_o with_o i_o it_o be_v a_o very_a small_a thing_n that_o i_o shall_v be_v judge_v of_o you_o never_o keep_v empty_a impertinent_a word_n
not_o trouble_v himself_o so_o much_o with_o the_o small_a scratch_n find_v upon_o the_o inferior_a member_n through_o the_o wisdom_n of_o the_o head_n the_o house_n be_v build_v and_o with_o understand_v it_o be_v establish_v prov._n 24.3_o where_o this_o be_v want_v that_o house_n be_v nigh_o to_o desolation_n according_a to_o that_o of_o our_o saviour_n mat._n 12.25_o a_o house_n divide_v against_o itself_o can_v stand_v it_o be_v to_o be_v wish_v that_o christian_n especial_o under_o the_o tie_n of_o conjugal_a relation_n can_v learn_v to_o bear_v with_o one_o another_o infirmity_n and_o so_o fulfil_v the_o law_n of_o christ_n a_o choleric_a couple_n be_v ask_v how_o he_o and_o his_o wife_n live_v so_o comfortable_o and_o sweet_o together_o the_o man_n answer_v when_o my_o wife_n fit_n be_v upon_o she_o i_o yield_v to_o she_o and_o the_o woman_n say_v when_o my_o husband_n fit_n be_v upon_o he_o i_o yield_v to_o he_o and_o so_o we_o be_v never_o angry_a both_o at_o once_o it_o be_v 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