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be_v declare_v in_o the_o next_o word_n the_o law_n of_o his_o god_n be_v in_o his_o heart_n none_o of_o his_o step_n shall_v slide_v five_o bring_v they_o in_o love_n with_o the_o word_n of_o god_n love_v to_o the_o word_n will_v root_v and_o ground_n the_o truth_n of_o god_n in_o their_o heart_n ephes_n 3.17_o root_v and_o ground_v in_o love_n love_n to_o the_o word_n of_o god_n will_v root_v it_o so_o deep_o and_o firm_o in_o their_o heart_n that_o no_o trouble_n will_v cause_v they_o to_o depart_v from_o the_o word_n of_o god_n but_o they_o will_v stick_v and_o cleave_v to_o it_o unto_o their_o die_a day_n cant._n 8.6_o 7._o love_n be_v strong_a as_o death_n many_o water_n can_v quench_v love_n neither_o can_v the_o flood_n drown_v it_o if_o you_o ask_v how_o shall_v we_o bring_v our_o child_n and_o servant_n to_o love_v the_o word_n of_o god_n i_o answer_v 1._o show_v they_o the_o purity_n excellency_n and_o amiableness_n that_o be_v in_o the_o word_n of_o god_n psal_n 119.140_o thy_o word_n be_v very_o pure_a therefore_o thy_o servant_n love_v it_o 2._o stir_v they_o up_o to_o practice_v the_o word_n of_o god_n that_o will_v cause_v they_o to_o love_v it_o psal_n 119.167_o my_o soul_n have_v keep_v thy_o testimony_n and_o i_o love_v they_o exceed_o 3._o show_v they_o what_o a_o dangerous_a thing_n it_o be_v not_o to_o love_v the_o word_n god_n be_v wont_a to_o send_v down_o sore_a judgement_n upon_o they_o that_o do_v not_o receive_v his_o truth_n in_o the_o love_n of_o it_o 2_o thes_n 2.10.11_o 12._o because_o they_o receive_v not_o the_o love_n of_o the_o truth_n that_o they_o may_v be_v save_v and_o for_o this_o cause_n god_n shall_v send_v they_o strong_a delusion_n that_o they_o shall_v believe_v a_o lie_n that_o they_o all_o may_v be_v damn_v who_o believe_v not_o the_o truth_n but_o have_v pleasure_n in_o unrighteousness_n 4._o exhort_v they_o to_o put_v away_o and_o hate_v their_o sin_n and_o then_o they_o will_v love_v and_o delight_n in_o the_o word_n of_o god_n psal_n 119.163_o i_o hate_v and_o abhor_v lie_v but_o thy_o law_n do_v i_o love_v 5._o counsel_v they_o to_o feed_v daily_o upon_o god_n word_n by_o meditation_n and_o faith_n for_o this_o will_v cause_v they_o to_o taste_v the_o sweetness_n of_o it_o jer._n 5.16_o thy_o word_n be_v find_v and_o i_o do_v eat_v they_o and_o thy_o word_n be_v unto_o i_o the_o joy_n and_o rejoice_v of_o my_o heart_n psal_n 104.34_o my_o meditation_n of_o he_o shall_v be_v sweet_a and_o when_o they_o taste_v the_o sweetness_n of_o god_n word_n they_o will_v love_v it_o above_o all_o thing_n in_o the_o world_n psal_n 119.103_o 128._o how_o sweet_a be_v thy_o word_n unto_o my_o taste_n yea_o sweet_a than_o honey_n to_o my_o month_n therefore_o i_o love_v thy_o commandment_n above_o gold_n yea_o above_o fine_a gold_n sect_n 12._o how_o to_o draw_v our_o family_n to_o close_v with_o christ_n how_o to_o ortifie_v they_o against_o the_o offence_n of_o the_o cross_n direct_v 12_o endeavour_n as_o much_o as_o in_o you_o lie_v to_o draw_v they_o to_o jesus_n christ_n that_o they_o may_v receive_v and_o close_v with_o he_o upon_o the_o term_n of_o the_o gospel_n whatever_o instruction_n you_o give_v your_o family_n if_o you_o leave_v they_o christless_a you_o leave_v they_o in_o a_o miserable_a perish_a condition_n 1_o john_n 5.12_o he_o that_o have_v not_o the_o son_n of_o god_n have_v not_o life_n but_o if_o you_o can_v prevail_v with_o they_o to_o come_v to_o and_o to_o close_v with_o jesus_n christ_n they_o shall_v become_v the_o child_n of_o god_n and_o shall_v assure_o obtain_v everlasting_a life_n john_n 1.12_o as_o many_o as_o receive_v he_o to_o they_o give_v he_o power_n to_o become_v the_o son_n of_o god_n even_o to_o they_o that_o believe_v on_o his_o name_n 1_o john_n 5.12_o he_o that_o have_v the_o son_n have_v life_n john_n 6.47_o very_o very_o i_o say_v unto_o you_o he_o that_o believe_v on_o i_o have_v everlasting_a life_n if_o you_o ask_v what_o shall_v we_o do_v that_o we_o may_v draw_v our_o child_n and_o servant_n to_o come_v to_o and_o close_o with_o jesus_n christ_n i_o answer_v first_o show_v they_o their_o miserable_a lose_a and_o undo_v condition_n without_o christ_n the_o misery_n of_o man_n without_o christ_n be_v set_v out_o by_o the_o apostle_n ephes_n 2.12_o that_o at_o that_o time_n you_o be_v without_o christ_n be_v alien_n from_o the_o commonwealth_n of_o israel_n and_o stranger_n from_o the_o covenant_n of_o promise_n have_v no_o hope_n and_o without_o god_n in_o the_o world_n in_o this_o text_n the_o misery_n of_o such_o as_o be_v without_o christ_n be_v set_v forth_o several_a way_n 1._o they_o be_v alien_n from_o the_o commonwealth_n of_o israel_n that_o be_v they_o be_v none_o of_o the_o people_n of_o god_n 2._o they_o be_v stranger_n from_o the_o covenant_n of_o promise_n that_o be_v they_o have_v no_o part_n or_o portion_n in_o any_o of_o the_o promise_n either_o of_o the_o first_o or_o second_o covenant_n the_o covenant_n of_o work_n or_o the_o covenant_n of_o grace_n 3._o they_o be_v without_o hope_n they_o have_v no_o hope_n of_o mercy_n either_o in_o this_o world_n or_o in_o the_o world_n to_o come_v they_o may_v have_v much_o presumption_n and_o much_o carnal_a security_n but_o they_o have_v no_o hope_n 4._o they_o be_v without_o god_n that_o be_v without_o the_o love_n and_o favour_n of_o god_n without_o the_o grace_n of_o god_n without_o any_o communion_n with_o and_o enjoyment_n of_o god_n there_o be_v much_o also_o say_v in_o few_o word_n towards_o the_o set_n forth_o of_o the_o misery_n of_o a_o man_n that_o be_v without_o christ_n in_o that_o forementioned_a scripture_n 1_o john_n 5.12_o he_o that_o have_v not_o the_o son_n of_o god_n have_v not_o life_n he_o have_v not_o the_o life_n of_o grace_n here_o but_o be_v dead_a in_o his_o sin_n he_o have_v not_o the_o life_n of_o glory_n hereafter_o but_o be_v debar_v of_o all_o hope_n of_o enter_v into_o the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n for_o ever_o the_o conviction_n of_o their_o misery_n and_o perish_a condition_n without_o christ_n will_v draw_v they_o to_o seek_v after_o christ_n luke_n 15.17_o 18._o i_o perish_v with_o hunger_n i_o will_v arise_v and_o go_v to_o my_o father_n mat._n 8.25_o his_o disciple_n come_v to_o he_o saying_n lord_n save_v we_o we_o perish_v inform_v they_o also_o that_o salvation_n from_o their_o miserable_a perish_a condition_n be_v to_o be_v have_v in_o christ_n and_o no_o where_o else_o but_o in_o christ_n act_v 4.12_o neither_o be_v there_o salvation_n in_o any_o other_o for_o there_o be_v none_o other_o name_n under_o heaven_n give_v among_o man_n whereby_o they_o may_v be_v save_v when_o the_o people_n of_o israel_n see_v that_o salvation_n be_v to_o be_v have_v in_o the_o lord_n and_o no_o where_o else_o this_o cause_v they_o to_o come_v to_o he_o jer._n 3.22_o 23._o behold_v we_o come_v unto_o thou_o for_o thou_o be_v the_o lord_n our_o god_n true_o in_o vain_a be_v salvation_n hope_v for_o from_o the_o hill_n and_o from_o the_o multitude_n of_o mountain_n true_o in_o the_o lord_n our_o god_n be_v the_o salvation_n of_o israel_n second_o acquaint_v they_o with_o the_o amiableness_n and_o excellency_n of_o the_o lord_n jesus_n christ_n &_o with_o what_o benefit_n they_o shall_v receive_v from_o he_o if_o they_o embrace_v he_o as_o namely_o that_o all_o their_o sin_n shall_v be_v pardon_v act._n 10.43_o and_o their_o soul_n shall_v be_v take_v into_o covenant_n with_o god_n isa_n 55.3_o and_o they_o shall_v be_v bless_v with_o all_o spiritual_a blessing_n eph._n 1.3_o and_o that_o they_o shall_v have_v all_o the_o blessing_n of_o heaven_n for_o ever_o john_n 3.16_o when_o the_o spouse_n have_v set_v forth_o christ_n excellency_n that_o he_o be_v the_o chief_a of_o ten_o thousand_o altogether_o lovely_a etc._n etc._n cant._n 5.10_o 16._o they_o that_o before_o see_v no_o beauty_n or_o comeliness_n in_o he_o why_o they_o shall_v desire_v he_o vers_n 9_o what_o be_v thy_o belove_a more_o than_o another_o belove_v etc._n etc._n fall_v in_o love_n with_o christ_n and_o begin_v to_o inquire_v where_o they_o may_v find_v he_o and_o how_o they_o may_v come_v to_o enjoy_v he_o chap._n 6.1_o whether_o be_v thy_o belove_a go_v o_o thou_o fair_a among_o woman_n whether_o be_v thy_o belove_a turn_v aside_o that_o we_o may_v seek_v he_o with_o thou_o three_o cause_v they_o to_o understand_v that_o god_n be_v very_o willing_a to_o bestow_v his_o son_n and_o jesus_n christ_n be_v very_o willing_a to_o bestow_v himself_o upon_o all_o those_o that_o feel_v their_o need_n of_o he_o and_o be_v willing_a to_o receive_v he_o as_o be_v evident_a from_o such_o scripture_n as_o
and_o to_o cause_v they_o to_o grow_v as_o the_o lily_n sect_n 16._o six_o argument_n for_o diligence_n in_o instruct_v our_o family_n direct_v 16_o if_o you_o will_v carry_v on_o the_o work_n of_o family-instruction_n with_o success_n ply_v it_o with_o diligence_n do_v not_o perform_v it_o in_o a_o slight_a careless_a customary_a manner_n but_o set_v your_o heart_n to_o it_o and_o do_v it_o with_o all_o the_o skill_n and_o might_n that_o you_o have_v the_o lord_n do_v not_o only_o command_v we_o to_o teach_v our_o child_n the_o scripture_n but_o he_o require_v we_o to_o do_v this_o work_n with_o diligence_n deut._n 6.7_o thou_o shall_v teach_v they_o diligent_o unto_o thy_o child_n this_o work_n be_v a_o good_a work_n and_o every_o good_a work_n must_v be_v follow_v with_o diligence_n 1_o tim._n 5.10_o if_o she_o have_v follow_v diligent_o every_o good_a work_n the_o apostle_n speak_v there_o of_o widow_n now_o if_o widow_n who_o condition_n be_v oft_o attend_v with_o many_o difficulty_n and_o encumbrance_n must_v follow_v every_o good_a work_n with_o diligence_n how_o much_o more_o be_v they_o who_o have_v great_a ability_n and_o opportunity_n for_o do_v good_a work_n than_o desolate_a widow_n oblige_v to_o be_v diligent_a therein_o we_o read_v of_o david_n that_o when_o he_o prepare_v material_n to_o build_v the_o temple_n he_o do_v it_o with_o all_o his_o might_n 1_o chron._n 29.2_o i_o have_v prepare_v with_o all_o my_o might_n for_o the_o house_n of_o my_o god_n the_o gold_n for_o thing_n to_o be_v make_v of_o gold_n and_o silver_n for_o thing_n of_o silver_n the_o building_n up_o of_o our_o child_n and_o servant_n a_o spiritual_a house_n for_o the_o lord_n be_v as_o great_a and_o acceptable_a a_o work_n as_o the_o build_n of_o the_o material_a temple_n and_o therefore_o we_o shall_v set_v upon_o it_o with_o all_o our_o might_n to_o quicken_v your_o diligence_n herein_o consider_v 1._o you_o know_v not_o how_o short_a a_o time_n you_o have_v to_o live_v with_o your_o family_n and_o you_o can_v do_v nothing_o for_o they_o when_o you_o be_v in_o the_o grave_a and_o therefore_o what_o you_o see_v necessary_a to_o be_v do_v for_o they_o by_o way_n of_o instruction_n before_o you_o die_v do_v it_o with_o all_o your_o might_n eccles_n 9.10_o whatsoever_o thy_o hand_n find_v to_o do_v do_v it_o with_o thy_o might_n for_o there_o be_v no_o work_n nor_o device_n nor_o knowledge_n nor_o wisdom_n in_o the_o grave_n whither_o thou_o go_v 2._o to_o set_v your_o heart_n to_o this_o work_n and_o do_v it_o with_o your_o might_n be_v the_o way_n to_o prosper_v in_o what_o you_o take_v in_o hand_n 2_o chron._n 31.21_o in_o every_o work_n that_o he_o begin_v in_o the_o service_n of_o the_o house_n of_o god_n and_o in_o the_o law_n and_o in_o the_o commandment_n to_o seek_v his_o god_n he_o do_v it_o with_o all_o his_o heart_n and_o prosper_v 3._o there_o be_v a_o curse_n pronounce_v against_o they_o that_o do_v the_o work_n of_o the_o lord_n negligent_o jer._n 28.10_o curse_a be_v he_o that_o do_v the_o work_n of_o the_o lord_n deceitful_o or_o as_o it_o be_v in_o the_o margin_n negligent_o 4._o this_o work_n be_v to_o be_v do_v out_o of_o love_n to_o jesus_n christ_n john_n 21.15_o love_v thou_o i_o feed_v my_o lamb_n now_o our_o love_n to_o christ_n must_v not_o be_v a_o cold_a and_o weak_a love_n but_o such_o a_o love_n as_o must_v engage_v all_o our_o heart_n and_o strength_n in_o his_o service_n deut._n 6.5_o thou_o shall_v love_v the_o lord_n thy_o god_n with_o all_o thy_o heart_n and_o with_o all_o thy_o soul_n and_o with_o all_o thy_o might_n 5._o consider_v how_o diligent_a satan_n and_o wicked_a man_n be_v to_o do_v evil_a and_o to_o draw_v other_o to_o sin_n some_o wicked_a man_n be_v so_o eager_a of_o do_v mischief_n that_o they_o can_v sleep_v in_o the_o night_n if_o they_o have_v do_v no_o mischief_n in_o the_o day_n time_n prov._n 4.16_o they_o sleep_v not_o except_o they_o have_v do_v mischief_n and_o their_o sleep_n be_v take_v away_o unless_o they_o cause_v some_o to_o fall_v solomon_n describe_v the_o great_a diligence_n of_o harlot_n to_o corrupt_v young_a man_n prov._n 7.12_o 13_o 15_o 21._o now_o be_v she_o without_o now_o in_o the_o street_n and_o lie_v in_o wait_n at_o every_o corner_n so_o she_o catch_v he_o and_o kiss_v he_o and_o with_o a_o impudent_a face_n say_v unto_o he_o therefore_o come_v i_o forth_o to_o meet_v thou_o diligent_o to_o seek_v thy_o face_n and_o i_o have_v find_v thou_o etc._n etc._n with_o much_o fair_a speech_n she_o cause_v he_o to_o yield_v with_o the_o flatter_a of_o her_o lip_n she_o force_v he_o satan_n be_v no_o less_o active_a and_o diligent_a than_o his_o instrument_n to_o tempt_v to_o sin_n and_o destroy_v man_n soul_n 1_o pet._n 5.8_o and_o shall_v not_o this_o provoke_v we_o to_o use_v all_o diligence_n to_o do_v good_a and_o to_o save_v their_o soul_n that_o be_v under_o our_o charge_n 6._o after_o there_o be_v some_o good_a work_n wrought_v in_o their_o heart_n they_o will_v be_v in_o danger_n of_o fall_v into_o a_o harden_a frame_n of_o spirit_n if_o we_o do_v not_o with_o great_a diligence_n instruct_v and_o exhort_v they_o to_o shun_v that_o which_o be_v evil_a and_o to_o follow_v after_o holiness_n heb._n 3.12_o 13._o take_v heed_n brethren_n lest_o there_o be_v in_o any_o of_o you_o a_o evil_a heart_n of_o unbelief_n in_o depart_v from_o the_o live_a god_n but_o exhort_v one_o another_o daily_a whilst_o it_o be_v call_v to_o day_n lest_o any_o of_o you_o be_v harden_v through_o the_o deceitfulness_n of_o sin_n sect_n 17._o seven_o argument_n to_o persuade_v we_o to_o teach_v and_o watch_v over_o every_o member_n of_o our-famy_o direct_v 17_o let_v your_o care_n and_o diligence_n in_o teach_v and_o watch_v over_o your_o family_n be_v extend_v to_o every_o person_n in_o the_o family_n the_o mean_a and_o most_o simple_a as_o well_o as_o the_o more_o know_v person_n as_o minister_n so_o also_o master_n of_o 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