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A26981 A paraphrase on the New Testament with notes, doctrinal and practical, by plainess and brevity fitted to the use of religious families, in their daily reading of the Scriptures : and of the younger and poorer sort of scholars and ministers, who want fuller helps : with an advertisement of difficulties in the Revelations / by Richard Baxter. Baxter, Richard, 1615-1691. 1685 (1685) Wing B1338; ESTC R231645 1,057,080 615

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use convincing Evidence in Explication and Application they all convince him and shew him his Condition 25. And thus are the secrets of his heart made manifest and so falling down on his face he will worship God and report that God is in you of a truth 25. And this searching convincing Light will make them join with you in the reverent Worship of God and make them report that God is in your Church a a holy Assembly 26. How is it then brethren when ye come together every one of you hath a psalm hath a doctrine hath a tongue hath a revelation hath an interpretation Let all things be done to edifying 26. Therefore let all your G●fts whether of Psalmody or Doctrine or Languages or Revelation or Interpretation be used to Edification which is the true End of Church-Assemblies And the End is your Directory in the use of all undetermined Accidents of the Means 27. If any man speak in an unknown tongue let it be by two or at the most by three and that by course and let one interpret 27. If you will use your Guift of Languages let it be done by no more than two or three one after another and let some interpret it to the Unlearned in the Church 28. But if there be no interpreter let him keep silence in the church and let him speak to himself and to God 28. That which only God and your selves understand let none but God and your selves hear and speak not that in the Church which they cannot understand 29. Let the prophets speak two or three and let the other judge 29. And the Prophets also must do all to Edification and therefore must speak no more than may edisie the Church which is but two or three at an Assembly the rest judging 30. If any thing be revealed to another that sitteth by let the first hold his peace 30. If God immediately inspire another then to speak let the first give way to him by silence 31. For ye may all prophesie one by one that all may learn and all may be comforted 31. For all that are Prophets or are then prophetically inspired may prophesie in order that all in the Church may learn and be exhorted and comforted 32. And the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets 32. And whereas Men may pretend to be inspired of God and that to speak just at that time when it is not so as their own Understanding must judge of the edifying Season and Order so the Prophets that are Hearers having the Spirit of God are fit Judges whether it be that Spirit or a Delusion and Passion of their own that Order may be kept in the Assemblies at least as to the time 33. For God is not the author of confusion but of peace as in all churches of the saints 33. For pretended Inspirations and Mandates are not to be believed against Gods common Law to all the Churches which have a surer notification than a single Man can give us B●t Gods common Law is against Confusion and for Peace and Order and therefore it is certain that Confusion is not of Divine Inspiration 34. Let your women keep silence in the churches for it is not permitted unto them to speak but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law 34. And it is one of the Rules of Order That Women be no Publick Teachers or Speakers in the Church God permitteth it not who hath commanded them Subjection by the Law 35. And if they will learn any thing let them ask their Husbands at home for it is a shame for women to speak in the church 35. Not but that they should learn but it must be with modesty asking their Husbands if they have such as are able to teach them as they ought else they have other private Helps It 's a shame to the Church and her for a Woman there to speak except in common singing Psalms or other Common Acts. 36. What came the word of God out from you or came it unto you only 36. I ask them that contradict this Did Gods Word come out from you or from intrusted Apostles Or did it come to you only that you contradict the Churches 37. If any man think himself to be a prophet or spiritual let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord. 38. But if any man be ignorant let him be ignorant 37 38. If any be indeed a Prophet or Inspired and not pretendedly only he will confess that these Canons or Decisions are Gods own Commandments and not my Device But if Men will be obstinate in their Ignorance let them look to it 39. Wherefore brethren covet to prophesie and forbid not to speak with tongues 39. Prophecy for the Churches Edifying is to be coveted and Languages there not forbidden 40. Let all things be done decently and in order 40. That Sacred things be all done decently and not with uncomely negligence and orderly and not in confusion or as every Mans Fancy leads him this is a General Law of God according to which undetermined Modes and Circumstances must be regulated and done ANNOTATIONS I. IT 's a Doubt oft put How it could be that Gods Spirit should inspire Men with Tongues or Prophecy and yet not tell them when and how to use them But it 's not to be thought that he that was before without the Habit had the actual Use of them then suddenly inspired but that as the Learned so the Inspired had the habitual Knowledge of Tongues before they assembled and so for the actual Use and Time were to exercise their own Discretion II. The Description of the Church here oft named as meeting in one Place with their Officers and Guides tells us that then a Church of this Rank was not a Diocess of many hundred Assemblies which had all but one Bishop their Constitutive Head but that it was a Company associated for Personal Communion that usually met in one Place though Necessity might make them meet in many and tho some General Guides might take care of many such Churches III. The greater number of Prophets and Teachers c. that were here in one Assembly whose Exercises the Apostle was put to restrain doth fully confute Dr. Hammond's oft-repeated Opinion That in Scripture-times there is no Proof that there were any more Presbyters to one Church than one who was a Bishop and had Deacons under him and that for want of capable Persons But his Opinion inferreth That then a Church was no greater than could meet in one Place For one Bishop could not be at once in many And if no Subject-Presbyters were made in Scripture-times it must be proved by what just Power they were after made even a sort of Pastors never made by the Apostles IV. The Arguments of the Apostle against the uninterrupted Use of Tongues not understood in the Church are so many cogent plain and vehement that I will
do with your bodies what you list God is your absolute Owner not only by the right of Creation and Preservation but by that of Redemption ●y the price of the Blood and Merits of Christ Therefore you rob and wrong him though you cannot hurt him if you alienate his own and glorifie not that God whose you wholly are by the faithful Love and Service of Soul and Body which are his And to be thus his is your Honour Safety and Felicity CHAP. VII 1. NOw concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me It is good for a man not to touch a woman 1. As to the Question about Marriage of which you wrote I say That if a Man have no kind of intrinsick or extrinsick Reason to make it best for him it is for a Man 's own ease and quietness in the World to live single and safest to avoid Temptations to keep at sufficient distance from Women especially to avoid all tempting and immodest Touches or Familiarity 2. Nevertheless to avoid fornication let every man have his own wife and let every woman have her own husband 2. But the State of Man on Earth is such that M●n cannot always do that which is most for their own quietness and ease Some have so strong Lust that Marriage is necessary to them to avoid Fornication And to those that need it it is Gods Ordinance for the Propagation of Mankind on Earth 3. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence and likewise also the wife unto the husband 3. And let Husband and Wife perform to each other all the Duties of Marriage which they promised 4. The wife hath not power of her own body but the husband and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body but the wife 4. By the Marriage-Covenant you have given each other power of your Bodies for regular Congress 5. Defraud you not one the other except it be with consent for a time that ye may give your selves to fasting and prayer and come together again that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency 5. To deny this to each other is Injury and Fraud except when you are called to Humbling Fasting and Prayer and then you should consent to that sort of Abstinence but after use due Matrimonial Conversation lest your forbearance give Satan advantage to tempt you 6. But I speak this by permission and not of commandment 6. But mistake me not as if I hereby imposed Marriage on all Men as their Duty though allowed when necessary or gave this my Counsel as a Law 7. For I would that all men were even as I my self but every man hath his proper gift of God one after this manner and another after that 7. For I could wish that all Men for their own advantage had the Gift of Continence as well as I have But God who will have the World yet continued hath not given it to all but some have one measure and sort of G●ft and some another 8. I say therefore to the unmarried and widows It is good for them if they abide even as I. 8. It is most for their own ease and liberty and quiet if they can to abide single as I do 9. But if they cannot contain let them marry for it is better to marry than to burn 9. But if they cannot let them use Marriage as Gods appointed Remedy for such which is better than sinful Lust 10. And unto the married I command yet not I but the Lord Let not the wife depart from her husband 10. But though it be no Sin to marry it is a Sin to depart when married Herein I ●ay God Command upon you and offer it not to your Choice as a thing indifferent 11. But and if she depart let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband and let not the husband put away his wife 11. But to marry upon departure is a double Sin If any intollerable Abuse or Passion provoke her to depart let her remain unmarried and be reconciled to her Husband And so let not the Husband put away his Wife 12. But to the rest speak I not the Lord If any brother hath a wife that believeth not and she be pleased to dwell with him let him not put her away 13. And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not and if he please to dwell with her let her not leave him 12 13. But as to the Case of Separation from an Infidel which some may think necessary by the Israelites Case in Ezra c. I bring you not this as a flat Command of Christ but as my best Advice Though you may let an Infidel go and may live without him that will not stay with you but is the Deserter in enmity to your Religion yet I think it best for you to do your best first to make such willing to continue and though it be to your great trouble to live with such yet if they be willing to stay be not you the Deserters no not for a time nor omit due means to make them willing though some such will be tyrannical and malicious Adversaries 14. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband else were your children unclean but now are they holy 14. For though the Case in Ezra may make you doubt how it was with the Israelites yet to Christians under the Law of Grace your abode with an Infidel doth not make your Conjugal Stare or Converse or Family to be unholy The State and Interest of a Believer maketh your Relation and Cohabitation holy as separated to God for holy use which the Believer can improve as all things else are sanctified to him for the Service of God Else your Children would be like those of the Infidels unclean as not in the Covenant and Church of God but now they are holy and numbred with his Peculiar People For the Christian devoteth to God himself and all that is in his power and dispose which is accepted according to the Capacity and Use of that which is devoted and this he doth by Gods Command and therefore with his Acceptance as the Seed of the Faithful always were 15. But if the unbelieving depart let him depart A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases but God hath called us to peace 15. But to resolve your Doubt I say If the Unbeliever depart and will not be persuaded to stay you are not bound to follow them whither ever they go Marriage was made for mutual help and you are not bound in such Cases to be enslaved by a Sinners Implacability and Desertion But yet omit nothing that tendeth to a peaceable Cohabitation for God hath called us all to Peace 16. For what knowest thou O wife whether thou shalt save thy husband o● how knowest thou O man whether thou shalt save thy wife 16. And as the Relation and Marriage-Converse is sanctified to the
accept it and doth by many Mercies intimate to them that he useth them not according to the meer violated Law of Innocency but on Terms of Grace 4. Few Christians have the face to affirm that this Universal Conditional Pardon and Gift or Law of Grace is no Fruit of the Death of Christ 5. If therefore this Act of Pardon was purchased by Christ and given to all no modest Face can deny that he so far died for all as to purchase for them all that he actually giveth them 6. It is usual to say that we give a Man a Benefit e. g. Life to a condemned Malefactor if it be given him on the fair Condition of his Acceptance and brought to his own Will and he intreated to receive it 7. If any Wrangler say that this is unfit Language to say He is willing that Men shall be saved who offereth them Salvation freely unless he also make them willing Let him confess that it is but the Name that he denieth and none of the Gifts in question 8. And be it known that Unwillingness cometh not from a Physical Impossibility through the want of Natural Faculties as it is with Brutes but from a voluntary Pravity which aggravateth the Sin 9. And the mutable Will of Man is to be changed by Reason And God giveth Men Reasons in their kind sufficient to persuade them to accept of Christ and Life 10. And lastly No Man can say that Adam when he fell had not Grace enough to make him Able to have stood which he might have used and should have done to his actual standing No● that God never giveth such a power to believe or at least to come nearer the State of a true Believer to many that might bring it into Act and do not This much is enough to end this Controversie with modest Wits 7. Whereunto I am ordained a preacher and an apostle I speak the truth in Christ and lie not a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and verity 7. This Gospel I am appointed to preach to the Gentiles Christ knoweth that I feign not his Commission and faithfully and truly to be their Teacher 8. I will therefore that men pray every where lifting up holy hands without wrath and doubting 8. According to this my Commission I give these Directions following to all sorts First That all Men be much in Prayer to God not onely in the Assemblies but in all convenient Places wheresoever open or secret but that they lift not up to God Hands defiled with any wilful Sin but pure and clean by harmless Conversation and that they come not to God with Wrath against others or with a quarrelsom disputing contentious Disposition but in Christian Love Note That the Ceremony of Lifting up the Hands in Prayer which was an Act of Corporal secondary Worship is lawful and fit where Custom maketh it so and yet is not necessary by Institution as Kneeling also is 9. In like manner also that women adorn themselves in modest apparel with shame-facedness and sobriety not with broidered-hair or gold or pearls or costly aray 9. And for Women I forbid them not all Ornaments specially when they come to the Sacred Assemblies but let them be adorned onely with Attire which expresseth Gravity Modesty and Sobriety not like proud vain or alluring Persons with curious Dressings of their Hair Embroidery Jewels Gold or any over-costly Apparel as those that would seem either Richer or Comelier than they are 10. But which becometh women professing godliness with good works 10. But let them take Good Works of Piety to God and Charity to Man for their chiefest Ornament as they will do if they are true Professors of Godliness It is these in which they must excel the Ungodly and not in Ostentation of Wealth or Beauty 11. Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection 11. Let them be Learners rather than Teachers and let them use Silence and humble Subjection and not be over-talkative and masterly specially silent in the Church 12. But I suffer not a woman to teach nor to usurp authority over the man but to be in silence 12. I forbid Women to be Publick Teachers and to usurp any Authority over their Husbands or over Men in Church-government but to be quiet silent and obedient Note 1. That Paul forbiddeth not Women to teach their Children or Servants or the elder Women to teach the younger 2. Nor doth he meddle with Cases of Civil Government as whether a Woman may Govern a Kingdom or a City or a multitude of her own Tenants and Men-servants 13 14. For Adam was first formed then Eve And Adam was not deceived but the woman being deceived was in the transgression 13 14. For God made the Woman for Subjection by making Adam first and then making her to be for his help And the Woman subjected her self yet lower by being first in the Transgression deceived by the Serpent and then tempting her Husband 15. Notwithstanding she shall be saved in child-bearing if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety 15. Yet though her Sin have brought her low and even under a Curse in the Pain and Peril of Child-bearing she is even in that low and sad condition under Gods merciful Protection and saving Covenant of Grace which containeth the Promise of this Life and that to come if they continue in Faith Charity and Purity with Sobriety Or Though Sin and Sorrow in Travel came in by the Woman yet by a Womans Child-bearing a Saviour came into the World which is some Reparation of the Honour of the Sex And so the Women may be saved as well as the Men by Christ if they continue in Faith Charity Purity and Sobriety CHAP. III 1. THis is a true saying if a man desire the office of a bishop he desireth a good work 1. As for the Office of a Bishop believe it he that desireth it doth desire a very great and excellent work It is not a bare Name Title Dignity or place of Honour and Command but a Work and a Work of great Importance and Labour and Difficulty which every desirer is not fit for Take heed therefore whom thou dost admit 2. A bishop then must be blameless the husband of one wife vigilant sober of good behaviour given to hospitality apt to teach A Bishop must be one 1. That is not guilty of any scandalous sin since his Conversion 2. One that hath not put away his Wife except for Fornication and married another much less that hath two at once 3. One that is vigilant and wholly addicted to do what he shall undertake 4. One that is of a sober moderate temper and not guilty of Levity and Temerity 5. One that is of an Orderly Composed Decent Temper and Carriage 6. By Charity to be ready to entertain Strangers and take in those that are exposed to want 7. One that is fit by Ability and Zealous Willingness to teach the Flock the necessary things
fullfilled by their doing it 25. Now there stood by the cross of Jesus his mother and his mothers sister Mary the wife of Cleophas and Mary Magdalene 26. When Jesus therefore saw his mother and the disciple standing by whom he loved he saith unto his mother Woman behold thy son 27. Then saith he to the disciple Behold thy Mother And from that hour that disciple took her unto his own home 25 26 27. Note Christ on the Cross had a care of his Mothers future comfort in the World which consisted in her Entertainment and Converse with his beloved Disciple 28. After this Jesus knowing that all things were now accomplished that the scripture might be fulfilled saith I thirst 29. Now there was set a vessel full of vinegar and they filled a Spunge with Vinegar and put it upon hyssop and put it to his mouth 30. When Jesus therefore had received the vinegar he said It is finished and he bowed his head and gave up the ghost 28. As other Scriptures of him were fulfilled so he would have that Psal 69.22 And having drunk the Vinegar he said my Sacrifice on the Cross is performed and the Prophecies of it fulfilled and he bowed his Head and resigned his Soul Many passages are omitted by John because written by others 31. The Jews therefore because it was the preparation that the bodies should not remain upon the cross on the Sabbath-day for that Sabbath-day was an high day besought Pilate that their legs might be broken and that they might be taken away 32. Then came the souldiers and brake the legs of the first and of the other which was Crucified with him 31 32. Note What day it was whether the Seventh day Sabbath or another so called by the Jews Superstition Expositors varying I have before said I will not trouble the Vulgar Reader with the Controversie 33. But when they came to Jesus and saw that he was dead already they brake not his legs 34. But one of the souldiers with a spear pierced his side and forthwith came there out bloud and water 33 34. They made sure since that he was dead 35. And he that saw it bare record and his record is true and he knoweth that he saith true that ye might believe 36. For these things were done that the Scripture should be fulfilled A bone of him shall not be broken 35 36. John that saw it is a true Witness And that Psal 34.20 which speaketh Gods care of all his People was specially meant of Christ whether David so understood it or not 37. And again another Scripture saith They shall look on him whom they pierced 37. Thus also that of Zach. 12.10 was fulfilled 38. And after this Joseph of Arimathea being a disciple of Jesus but secretely for fear of the Jews besought Pilate that he might take away the body of Jesus And Pilate gave him leave He came therefore and took the body of Jesus 38. Joseph that duist not own Christ openly alive begs and obtaineth his body for burial 39. And there came also Nicodemus which at the first came to Jesus by night and brought a mixture of Myrrhe and Aloes about an hundred pound weight 40. Then took they the body of Jesus and wound it in linen cloths with spices as the manner of the Jews is to bury 39. The Mirrh and Aloes were to keep the Body from Putrefaction but it seems they did for hast being late but rudely lay them to the body with the Cloaths deferring the full Embalming till the first day of the week when the Women came with Spices to have done it 41. Now in the place were he was Crucified there was a garden and in the garden a new sepulchre wherein was never man yet laid 42. There laid they Jesus therefore because of the Jews preparation-day for the sepulchre was nigh at hand 41 42. It was Josephs Sepulchre which he had prepared for himself cleanness and nearness made it convenient CHAP. XX. THe first day of the week cometh Mary Magdalene early when it was yet datk unto the Sepulchre and seeth the stone taken away from the Sepulchre 1. Mary and other Women first see it 2. Then she runneth and cometh to Simon Peter and to the other Disciple whom Jesus loved and saith unto them They have taken away the Lord out of the Sepulchre and we know not where they have laid him 3. Peter therefore went forth and that other Disciple and came to the Sepulcre 4. So they ran both together and the other Disciple did outrun Peter and came first to the Sepulchre 5. And he stouping down and looking in saw the linen cloths lying yet went he not in 6. Then cometh Simon Peter following him and went into the Sepulchre and seeth the linen clothes lye 7. And the napkin that was about his head not lying with the Linnen clothes but wrapped together in a place by it self 8. Then went in also that other Disciple which came first to the Sepulchre and he saw and believed 2 3 c. Peter and John moved by Marys words went and saw c. 9. For as yet they knew not the Scripture that he must rise again from the dead 9. Though the Scripture and Christ himself often foretold them his Resurrection they yet believed it not 10. Then the Disciples went away again unto their own home 11. But Mary stood without at the Sepulchre weeping and as shee wept she stouped down and looked into the Sepulchre 12. And seeth two Angels in white sitting the one at the head and the other at the feet where the body of Jesus had layen 13. And they say unto her Woman why weepest thou She saith unto them Because they have taken away my Lord and I know not where they have laid him 10 11 c. Though some Evangelists mentioned but one Angel that denieth not that there were two which is here affirmed 14. And when she had thus said she turned her self back and saw Jesus standing and knew not that it was Jesus 15. Jesus saith unto her Woman why weepest thou whom seekest thou she supposing him to be the Gardener saith unto him Sir if thou have born him hence tell me where thou hast laid him and I will take him away 16. Jesus saith unto her Mary She turned her self and saith unto him Rabboni which is to say Master 14. Not Whether her not knowing him was not by reason of distance darkness or Christs not appearing in full notoriety is uncertain Secondly Christs first words are of Compassion to a weeping Sinner that loved him Thirdly It s easy to think with what passionate Joy this sight and word surprized her 17. Jesus saith unto her Touch me not for I am not yet ascended to my Father but go to my brethren and say unto them I ascend unto my Father and your Father and to my God and your God 17. I am not risen for such familiar Conduct and Converse as I had with you before my
had called us for to preach the Gospel unto them 10. Note It is the duty of Ministers to follow Gods call though all have not visions all have some notifications of Gods will by Mens necessity opportunity invitation c. 11. Therefore loosing from Troas we came with a straight course to Samothracia and the next day to Neapolis 12. And from thence to Philippi which is the cheif city of that part of Macedonia and a colony and we were in that city abiding certain days 11. Note The Apostles did choose Populous Cities to Preach in because there was most matter to work on It s best fishing in the Sea Besides that the Jews Synagogues were mostly in such places 13. And on the sabbath we went out of the city by a River-side where prayer was wont to be made and we sat down and spake unto the women which resorted thither 13. Note Whether here was an Oratory or Chapple or only the open Field is uncertain And whether the Assemblies were Proselites of the Jews or Jews with such or the better sort of Gentiles is not certain But the first is likely because they kept the Sabbath 14. And a certain woman named Lydia a seller of purple of the city of Thyatira which worshipped God heard us whose heart the Lord opened that she attended unto the things which were spoken of Paul 14. 1. Note It s like she was a Proselite 2. They that worship God are best prepared for further Grace 3. Gods opening the heart maketh the word effectual 4. Diligent regardful attention to the word is the beginning of Conversion or a great preparation 15. And when she was baptized and her houshold she besought us saying If ye have judged me to be faithful to the Lord come into my house and abide there And she constrained us 15. Note 1. It was the ordinary way of Apostles to Baptize Housholds Not that they could be sure they were all true Believers or that the Rulers could make them such But it was the Rulers duty to devote all in their Power to God and therefore to do their best to perswade them to a true consent and to rid their house of all unnecessary Persons that refused And God used to bless their endeavours and their interest and power might do much 2. Converted Persons have so much love to Christs Ministers who converted them that they greatly desire their Company and further help 16. And it came to pass as we went to prayer a certain Damsel possessed with a Spirit of divination met us which brought her Masters much gain by sooth saying 16. One possessed with a deluding foretelling Devil who thereby brought him gain for Divination 17. The same followed Paul and us and cried saying These men are the servants of the most high God which shew unto us the way of salvation 17. Note God constrained the Devil to confess Christ against his will 18. And this did she many days But Paul being grieved turned and said to the Spirit I command thee in the name of Jesus Christ to come out of her And he came out the same hour 18. Note 1. Satan must be dispossest of Body Soul or Nation whenever Christ commandeth it 19. And when her Masters saw that the hope of their gains was gone they caught Paul and Silas and drew them into the market-place unto the Rulers 19. Note It s like her Masters being more then one were some Heathen Priests however we see the love of Money is the root of Persecution and all evil 20. And brought them to the magistrates saying These men being Jews do exceedingly trouble our city 21. And teach customs which are not lawful for us to receive neither to observe being Romans 20 21. They brought them to the Roman Officers under whose Government they were and accused them as being Jews of a contrary Religion and by their unlawful Doctrines causing Sedition and disturbing the publick peace Note Covetous malignants use the accusation of Sedition to hide their malice 22. And the multitude rose up together against them and the magistrates rent off their clothes and commanded to beat them 23. And when they had laid many stripes upon them they cast them into prison charging the jayler to keep them safely 24. Who having received such a charge thrust them into the inner prison and made their feet fast in the stocks 22 c. Note Rulers and Rabble nnd most were for the DevIl against Christ and their own Salvation And the innocent Servants of Christ are imprisoned and used as Rogues meerely for seeking Mens wellfare 25. And at midnight Paul and Silas prayed and sang praises unto God and the prisoners heard them 25. Note Persecution doth not disoblige us from joyful praise to God nor destroy believers comforts 26. And suddenly there was a great Earthquake so that the foundations of the Prison were shaken and immediately all the doors were opened and every ones band were loosed 26. Note Luke that wrote this was one of their Company in the City when this was done Gods Power is invincible 27. And the keeper of the Prison awaking out of his sleep and seeing the Prison-doors open he drew out his sword and would have killed himself supposing that the Prisoners had been fled 28. But Paul cried with a loud voice saying Do thy self no harm for we are all here 27. He would have killed himself to prevent punishment in the rage of his passion 29. Then he called for a light and sprang in and came trembling and fell down before Paul and Silas 30. And brought them out and said Sirs what must I do to be saved 29. Note When Gods dreadful Judgments and his Grace joyn together no heart can resist them 31. And they said Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be saved and thy house 31. Note 1. He was resolved to do whatever they required knowing by this miracle that they were sent by God 2. Believing in Christ includeth all the essentials of Christianity 3. His house would not be saved for his Faith without any of their own But it is supposed that God would bless his endeavours to convert them 32. And they spake unto him the word of the Lord and to all that were in his house 32. They instructed him and his Houshold that they might indeed believe and be saved 33. And he took them the same hour of the night and washed their stripes and was baptized he and all his straightway 33. He presently shewed his Repentance and Faith For he that had scourged them washed their sores to heal them and he and all his Houshold were presently Baptized as having professed their resolved Faith in Christ Note The Apostles delayed not Baptism when serious profession gave them right but in doubtful cases of ignorant or unresolved Men it ought to be longer delayed 34. And when he had brought them into his house he set meat before them and rejoyced believing in God with all his
brought him unto Areopagus saying May we know what this new doctrine whereof thou speakest is 20. For thou bringest certain strange things to our ears we would know therefore what these things mean 19. They brought him to the Court of Judicature who were to be Judges before any new God was to be received that they might hear what God it was that he Preached 21. For all the Athenians and strangers which were there spent their time in nothing else but either to tell or to hear some new thing 21. The very learning and daily business of the Athenian Philosophers Students and Sojourners was but to know News and tell it whether Speculative or Historical And what else is all learning that serveth not to Holiness and Heaven 22. Then Paul stood in the midst of Mars-hill and said Ye men of Athens I perceive that in all things ye are too superstitious 22. Ye are on pretence of being very Religious addicted to worship multitudes of Gods 23. For as I passed by and beheld your devotions I found an altar with this inscription TO THE UNKOWN GOD. Whom therefore ye● ignorantly worship him declare I unto you 23. Whatever was the occasion of that Inscription you confess you worship an unknown God I would therefore make known to you that only God whom you must worship 24. God that made the world and all things therein seeing that he is Lord of Heaven and Earth dwelleth not in Temples made with hands 25. Neither is worshipped with mens hands as though he needed any thing seeing he giveth to all life and breath and all things 24 25. Bring not down that God that made and owneth all the World imaginarily to your Temples and Images or think that he needeth or you can give him any thing who giveth us all things 26. And hath made of one bloud all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the Earth and hath determined the times before appointed and the bounds of their habitation 26. And hath made all Men of one human nature propagated from one root and ordered them into their several Countries and bounded habitations determined by him 27. That they should seek the Lord if haply they might feell after him and find him 27. Making it their duty to seek to know him as their Maker by his works and as their Benefactor by his Mercies which palpably declare him that they might serve love and worship him as their God 27.28 Though he be not far from every one of us For in him we live and move and have our being as certain also of your own poets have said For we are also his offspring 27 28. He is as neer us as our Souls are to our Bodys Being indeed more than a Soul to all the World For it is In him that we live and move and have our Being As your Poet Aratus faith For we are his off-spring for of him and through him and to him are all things and no Parent so much causeth us as God doth nor doth the Soul so much to our life motion and being as God doth 29. Forasmuch then as we are the offspring of God we ought not to think that the Godhead is like unto gold or silver or stone graven by art and mans device 29. Our Souls being the best Image of God our Maker we must not so much debase him as to make Images of him of Gold Silver or Stone as if he was like such shapes 30. And the times of this ignorance God winked at but now commandeth all men every where to repent 30. And as man seemeth by forbearance a while to connive at faults so God hath not in the time of this ignorance either punished the World as such deserveth nor sent them from Heaven that notice of his displeasure and that call to Repent and amend as now he doth but left them mostly to the Light of Nature and the discoveries of his Works and Providence But now in hatred of Sin and Mercy to Sinners he hath sent a special Messenger to the World to call all to Repentance and offer them pardon thereupon 31. Because he hath appointed a day in the which he will judge the world in righteousness by that man whom he hath ordained whereof he hath given assurance unto all men in that he hath raised him from the dead 31. For he hath certainly determined to judge the World with Righteousness by that Man whom he hath ordained to be the Saviour of the Faithful and the Judge of all which though it seem incredible to most that a man should be so advanced to be King and Judge of all the World yet God hath given certain proof of by evidence sufficient to evince it to true reason in that he hath raised him from death to life and taken him up to Heaven 32. And when they heard of the Resurrection of the dead some mocked and others said We will hear thee again of this matter 33. So Paul departed from among them 12 13. Note The Resurrection seemed so incredible that some Epicureans its like scoft at it Note Paul did wisely in Preaching the true God to them first and reproving their Idolatry and only concluding with the notice of Christ And yet no sort of men more contemned his Doctrine than the Learned Athenians Self-conceit and the prepossession of their vain though extolled Learning most powerfully kept out the Truth And it did not please God there to work Miracles to convince them 34. Howbeit certain men clave unto him and believed among the which was Dionysius the Areopagite and a woman named Damaris and others with them 34. This famous University yeilded few Converts But those few were precious to God CHAP. XVIII AFter these things Paul departed from Athens and came to Corinth 2. And found a certain Jew named Aquila born in Pontus lately come from Italy with his wife Priscilla because that Claudius had commanded all Jews to depart from Rome and came unto them 2. That Claudius banished all Jews from Rome is certain but the cause is uncertain Suetonius saith It was their Tumults by the impulse or imitation of Christ or some read it of one Crestus It is not unlike that the Jews rage at Rome against the Gospel made them Tumultuous against Christians and thereupon both sorts were banished under the name of Jews And so there could then be no Church left and tolerated at Rome but Gentiles only For it is doubtless that the Christian Jews were banished 3. And because he was of the same craft he abode with them and wrought for by their occupation they were Tent-makers 3. Note Men separated to the Ministry of the Gospel may labour for their Living if needful 4. And he reasoned in the Synagogue every Sabbath and perswaded the Jews and the Greeks 4. Note Still the Jews Synagogue was his Preaching place to gather the beginnings of a Church 5. And when Silas and Timotheus were come from Macedonia Paul was
is sold in the shambles that eat asking no question for conscience sake 26. For the earth is the Lords and the fulness thereof 25. If it be sold in the Shambles it is common Food to you your Consciences need not ask whether it be unclean or whether it was ever offered to any Idol 26. God that is the Lord of all the Earth hath allowed us all that is fit for Food 27. If any of them that believe not bid you to a feast and ye be disposed to go whatsoever is set before you eat asking no question for conscience sake 27. As it is not unlawful when invited to go to a Feast to Unbelievers so when you see cause to go eat what is set before you and question not the Lawfulness of it your selves 28. But if any man say unto you This is offered in sacrifice unto idols eat not for his sake that shewed it and for conscience sake The earth is the Lords and the fulness thereof 28. But if any Man say This is part of the Meat that was an Idol Sacrifice eat not of it for his sake that told thee so lest thou tempt him to venture on Idol-Sacrifices and for Conscience sake that thou uncharitably seduce not his Conscience God hath allowed thee lawful Meats enough thou needest not eat to others hurt 29. Conscience I say not thine own but of the others for why is my liberty judged of another mans conscience 29. When I say Conscience I mean that you wrong not anothers Conscience I mean not that this Meat is unlawful to you had you not been told it was offered to Idols or had eaten it privately where no one was hurt by it For another Mans Conscience is not my Guide nor makes Lawful Food Unlawful to me But Uncharitableness and Hurtfulness to others as well as Corporal Idolatry I must make Conscience to avoid my self as against the great Commands of Christ 30. For if I by grace be a partaker why am I evil spoken of for that for which I give thanks 30. For if I neither seem to worship the Idol my self nor hurt another but with Thanksgiving eat what 's set before me at a Common Feast though another expect that I should enquire whether it was not an Idols Sacrifice I sin not nor ought he to speak evil of me as a Sinner 31. Whether therefore ye eat or drink or whatsoever ye do do all to the glory God 31. Therefore as in all that you do so in these things where God hath made no particular common determining Law the Interest of our Great End the Glory of God must be our common and most obliging Law Neither eat nor drink nor do any thing against the Glory of God and your Reliligion and the Good of others in which God is glorified Yea do nothing but what as some Means hath its tendency to his Glory nothing that is either hurtful or vain 32. Give none offence neither to the Jews nor to the Gentiles nor to the church of God Avoid all unnecessary things which will be a stumbling or hurtful Temptation to Jews or Heathens or the Church of God or any Members of it So dangerously are abundance of Religious Persons mistaken that scruple not offending or hardning the ungodly by sowr Contempt and causeless Singularity and that take displeasing mistaken Censorious Christians to be the Offence here meant when pleasing them by seeming to own their Mistakes as Peter did Gal. 2. by his Separation is a usual hurtful way of scandalizing them 33. Even as I please all men in all things not seeking mine own profit but the profit of many that they may be saved 33. Imitate me in this who in things which God hath lest undetermined to my power do chuse that part which pleaseth other Men so far as is for their profit and do not humour or please my own self-will for any carnal Interest of my own but do that which tendeth to the good of most even their Salvation Note O happy had it been with the Christian World if the Bishops had been of Paul's mind and had not chosen to silence banish burn and murder thousands of Gods faithful Servants for not humouring their Wills and obeying unnecessary Canons imposed by Papal Usurpation CHAP. XI 1. BE ye followers of me even as I also am of Christ 1. In all this self-denial which I tell you I have used I follow Christ who denied his very Life for us Therefore follow me as I follow Christ 2. Now I praise you brethren that you remember me in all things and keep the ordinances as I delivered them to you 2. It is your Praise as well as your Duty and Safety that you remember what Doctrine and Orders we Apostles of Christ at first delivered to you and keep that which then we taught you 3. But I would have you know that the head of every man is Christ and the head of the woman is the man and the head of Christ is God 3. And now to your Case about Church-Order I first remember you that the due Subordination of Persons must be kept Christ is the Head of all Men high and low and the Man is the Head of the Woman who therefore must shew Subjection and God is the Head of Christ as Man and Mediator 4. Every man praying or prophesying having his head covered dishonoureth his head 4. It being the Custom then to cover the Faces of those that were put to any great shame a Man that shall vail his Head and Face doth thereby take Reproach unto himself 5. But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head for that is even all one as if she were shaven 5. But for a Woman to be uncovered in the Assembly at Publick Worship Prayer or Prophecying is a dishonour to her as contrary to the sign of Subjection which is her Duty Note That the Woman is said to Pray or Prophesie that joyneth with the Church therein As Custom maketh it a shame to her to be shaven so also to be unvailed Note That this was a changeable Custom and is contrary now with us 6. For if the woman be not covered let her also be shorn but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven let her be covered 6. The Custom of long Hair as a kind of Covering pleads also for the Custom of Vailing 7. For a man indeed ought not to cover his head for as much as he is the image and glory of God but the woman is the glory of the man 7. The Mans Face is used well to be uncovered as being first made in the Image of God and so a Beam of his Splendour But the Woman made out of Man is subject to him and his Splendour 8. For the man is not of the woman but the woman of the man 8. For at the Creation the Man was first made and the Woman was made out of the Man 9. Neither was
For it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer 4 5. For all that God hath made for Food is good and clean and not to be refused as in kind unlawful if it be received thankfully as from Gods Gift to fit us for his Service For to such as do thus it is more than lawful even a sanctified Means to sit them to serve God Gods Word allowing and giving it them and Prayer craving his Blessing to that end 6. If thou put the brethren in remembrance of these things thou shalt be a good minister of Jesus Christ nourished up in the words of faith and of good doctrine whereunto thou hast attained 6. These things thou must suggest to the Brethren as their Teacher that thou maist approve thy self a good Minister of Christ bred up in sound Faith and Doctrine c. 7. But refuse profane and old wives fables and exercise thy self rather unto godliness 7. But as for the Jewish and Heretical Fancies of Abstinence from Marriage and Meats and the idle Reasons from Tradition or Pythagorean Dotage which they give for them avoid them and let it be thy Business to preach promote and practise plain Doctrine and Duties of Godliness and guide the Flock therein 8. For bodily exercise profiteth little but godliness is profitable unto all things having the promise of the life the now is and of that which is to come 8. For no Corporal Austerities or Exercises in Religion must be overvalued The best of them are of small Profit in comparison of that Godliness which consisteth in Spiritual Exercises of Faith Hope Love and their Expressions But this true Spiritual substantial Godliness is profitable to all that we can justly desire having from God the Promise of all the Good of this Life which is meet for us and we meet for it and of that which is to come after this Life is ended 9. This is a faithful saying and worthy of all acceptation 10. For therefore we both labour and suffer reproach because we trust in the living God who is the Saviour of all men specially of those that believe 9 10. And what I say of the Promise to Godliness for this Life and that to come is a Truth most sure and of greatest moment and worthy of our greatest acceptation For it is on the belief of this that we labour strive and suffer trusting on the Goodness and Promises of God who is Life and the Lord of Life and as their Saviour giveth the Mercies of this Life and that to come as Men are fitted for each to all Men all Good being from him to all the World But eternal Good being by his Promise secured to all true Believers which others reject when it is offered them for temporal Good 11 12. These things command and teach Let no man despise thy youth but be thou an example of the Believers in word in conversation in charity in spirit in faith in purity 11 12. These things teach commandingly as necessary with Authority And so behave thy self that thy Youth expose thee not to Contempt Be thou an Example in whom all the Believers may see how they should live in thy Speech and thy Conversation in Love and Spirituality in sound Faith and spotless Purity 13. Till I come give attendance to reading to exhortation to doctrine 13. Till I come be diligent in Reading the Scripture privately for thy self and publickly to Expound it to the Church to apply it by Exhortation and sound Doctrine 14. Neglect not the gift that is in thee which was given thee by prophecy with the laying on of the hands of the presbytery 14. Neglect not diligently to use and improve those Eminent Gifts which were given thee even with Prophecy of thee as one that would be faithful by the laying on of the Hands of the Presbytery or Elders of of the Church when thou wast called and ordained to the Ministry For neglect quencheth the Spirit 15. Meditate upon these things give thy self wholly to them that thy profiting may appear to all 15. Note That even those that are extraordinarily Inspired and Qualified must study hard and wholly give themselves to that and all their Ministerial Work if they would appear good Proficients Therefore those tha● have no such Inspiration have need of hard study And they that wholly addict themselves to the Ministry have no leisure for Magistracy or Worldly Avocations Nor can do that for many hundred Churches which required the whole of a Timothy for one 16. Take heed unto thy self and unto thy doctrine continue in them for in doing this thou shalt both save thy self and them that hear thee 16. In sum Take greatest heed First that thy own Soul and Life be Sound and Holy and Undefiled and next that thy Doctrine be so and thou diligently labour in it Continue in this twofold Care and Diligence and thou shalt secure thy own Salvation and in all likelyhood thy Hearers for God will will not deny his Blessing to such Labours CHAP. V. 1. REbuke not an elder but intreat him as a father and the younger men as brethren 2. The elder women as mothers the younger as sisters with all purity 1 2. When Elders in Age or Office transgress use not Magisterial roughness of Reproof but Humble Exhortation as to Fathers And speak to the Younger with Love and Gentleness as to Brethren And speak to the Elder Women as to Mothers with due respect and to the Younger as Sisters carefully shunning all that savoureth of Immodesty or Unchastity in thought or speech or looks or behaviour 3 4. Honour widows that are widows indeed But if any widow have children or nephews let them learn first to shew piety at home and to requite their parents for that is good and acceptable before God 3 4. Let those that are Widdows indeed at once deprived of Husbands and Maintenance being Aged and unable to work be maintained by the Church with due respect But if any of them have Children and Nephews that can maintain them Let these their Off-spring be taught that Piety and Gratitude for all their Parents care of them oblige them to maintain their Widdows and not to cast them on the Church and that this is a Duty that God requireth of them and will accept Note That it is doubted whether these Widdows were Deaconesses or meerly kept for poverty I think that it was the Custom of the Ancient Churches to maintain all that are Poor and Aged and unable to get their own livings but not to maintain them in Idleness but to appoint them to employ much of their time in visiting the sick and poor Women and counselling the younger sort and giving notice of their Wants and Cases to the Elders so that the same Women were also as Deaconesses tho some that were wiser and fitter than the rest might be more specially thus employ'd 5. Now she that is a widow indeed and desolate trusteth in God and continueth in supplications and
always liars evil beasts slow bellies This witness is true 12. Epimenides an esteemed Poet of their own saith that the Cretians are false bad and savage gluttonous and idle and his words are true of too many of them who are not converted from these sins 13. Wherefore rebuke them sharply that they may be sound in the faith 13. Note That sharp or cutting Rebukes are necessary to some that they be sound in Faith and Religion 14. Not giving heed to Jewish fables and commandments of men that turn from the truth 14. Not believing the Jewish Fables and Traditions and Commands of Men which the Pharisees uphold and which turn men from sound Faith Note Do you think that Paul then was for introducing all the vast body of the Popish Canons and all their corrupt Traditions and Ceremonies 15. Unto the pure all things are pure but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure but even their mind and conscience is defiled 15. They pretend that men are defiled by eating things unclean not keeping their Days Traditions c. But to Believers who are purified from guilt and sin all Meats and Days and things of that nature are clean and lawful yea sanctified to further them in serving God But all things are made unclean as abused to sin and evil ends by them that are unclean and unbelievers their defiled Minds and Consciences defile all to them 16. They profess that they know God but in works they deny him being abominable and disobedient and unto every good work reprobate 16. It is not these Judaizers and Hereticks Profession that they know more of God and his Will than others that will prove them wise or good For their deeds contradict their tongues They are practical Atheists while they deny God by their works and lives as if they knew not God to be the Holy and Righteous Governour and Judge of all For they are abominable and disobedient and averse and unmeet for all good works CHAP. II. 1. BUT speak thou the things which become sound doctrine 2. That the aged men be sober grave temperate sound in faith in charity in patience 1. Note Sound Doctrine is practical teaching men their duties 2. It was so ordinary with the Jews for the Younger to reverence and obey the Elder that Officers being chosen by seniority caeteris paribus it is of no great moment whether we here expound this of Office or Age as most do They that take Aged to signifie Rulers some mean Deacons some Elders that ruled only either as some not Ordained to Preach or as others not Ordinary Preachers But all unproved 3. The aged women likewise that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness not false accusers not given to much wine teachers of good things 3. That the Aged women who are in the Church-Catalogue or List that they behave themselves as becometh holiness not to diabolize or calumniate not addicted to Wine Teachers of the younger sort in good things Note Whether these were Deaconesses by Office or not it is certain 1. That all Aged women should instruct the younger 2. But because few do their duty to purpose it is of great use in a well ordered Church that some few of the fittest be by Office chosen to this work that the Ministers may direct these Aged women in it and not be themselves too often with the younger sort in private 4. That they may teach the young women to be sober to love their husbands to love their children 5. To be discreet chast keepers at home good obedient to their own husbands that the word of God be not blasphemed 4 5. It is their work to teach the younger women to be wise and of sound Judgment to love their Husbands and Children and shew it in their care and behaviour to be discreet and chast in mind and behaviour to keep at home and look to their houshold business and not affect to be needlesly abroad in idleness or under temptations to be good and subject to their Husbands for there is danger that the miscarriages of young women may bring reproach on Religion and the Gospel which they profess 6. Young men likewise exhort to be sober-minded 6. Note 1. By Sober-mindedness is meant a mind setled in the Truth guided by sound Judgment and not by Passion nor seduced by Sense and Appetite or Evil company or proud Self-conceit or hasty Judging into evil ways 2. By Paul's warnings we may note what the Vices are that young men and all sorts are most in danger of 7. In all things shewing thy self a pattern of good works in doctrine shewing uncorruptness gravity sincerity 8. Sound speech that cannot be condemned that he that is of the contrary part may be ashamed having no evil thing to say of you 7 8. In all the good which thou wouldest persuade thy hearers to be an eminent visible Pattern thy self that they may see in thy self what thou meanest in thy Preaching Let thy Doctrine be entire and sincere without corrupt mixture and grave without levity sound words that deserve not blame and cannot be confuted that gainsayers for such you must expect may be ashamed having no ill to charge on your Doctrine or Life 9 10. Exhort servants to be obedient unto their own masters and to please them well in all things not answering again Not purloining but shewing all good fidelity that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour in all things 9 10. Servants even the lowest are thy Charge and must be taught to be obedient to their Masters and in all things lawful belonging to their Government to make it their care to please them not crossing and contradicting them nor stealing the least thing nor taking any thing that is theirs which is not allowed them by their consent but shewing all conscionable trustiness that while Christian Servants thus excel all others it may honour the Gospel and Religion more than opinionative proud Professors do 11 12. For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men teaching us That denying ungodliness and worldy lusts we should live soberly righteously and godly in this present world 11 12. For the Grace of God by a Redeemer which bringeth Salvation is made known now to all sorts of men and extendeth to Servants as well as Masters teaching us all not the vain speculations of the world but to deny all Doctrines and Practices which are ungodly and all worldly lusts of sensuality or covetousness and that we should live in this present world soberly and temperately to our selves righteously and charitably to others and holily and obediently to God 13. Looking for that blessed hope and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ 13. Animated herein by our believing expectation of our hoped blessedness and the appearing of the glory of that great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ according to his faithful Promise 14. Who gave himself for us that he
threatned revenge when he suffered by them but prayed for the pardonable and committed all to God the righteous Judge 24. Who his own self bare our sins in his own body on the tree that we being dead to sin should live unto righteousness by whose stripes ye were healed 24. And never think much to imitate the Patience of your Lord considering what he did therein for us For it was the punishment of our sins which as a Sacrifice he bare in his suffering body on the Cross that we being dead to sin as he died for sin might live to righteousness as he revived and rose And he that healed you by his own stripes will not let you be finally losers by any stripes which you endure in obedience to him 25. For ye were as sheep going astray but are now returned unto the Shepherd and Bishop of your souls 25. For in your state of ignorance and unbelief you were like wandring lost Sheep but now you are converted and come home to the true Shepherd and Bishop of your Souls who keepeth you and will feed save you CHAP. III. 1. LIkewise ye wives be in subjection to your own husbands that if any obey not the word they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives 1. And though Wives be not Servants yet a loving subjection and obedience to their Husbands is their duty so that if their Husbands be unbelievers and are not converted by Ministers preaching yet the conversation of their Wives may be such as may convince them of the goodness of Religion and may win them to a liking of the Word till by it they are fully converted Note This winning conversation of Wives is their excelling all other sorts of Women in love prudence meekness patience humility diligence in educating Children in holiness c. 2. While they behold your chast conversation coupled with fear 2. While they see your pure and chast conversation joyned with the true fear of God or reverence to them 3. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair and of wearing of gold and of putting on of apparel 3. And do not inordinately mind that sort of adorning which consisteth in following the fashions of proud vain or lascivious persons such as plaiting or knotting the Hair and wearing Ornaments of Gold to make you seem rich or extraordinarily comely and costliness neatness or curiosity of Apparel Note That the thing forbidden is the signifying of a vain proud procacious tempting mind and the imitation of such vain persons And that the Rule to be observed in Apparel by the rich is to chuse 1. That which is best for bodily health as warm and suitable 2. Least hindering and most useful for labour and business 3. Decent without curiosity or too much costliness 4. Not scandalous either imitating those above our rank or humorously and sordidly singular but imiting the gravest of our own age and rank 5. But the command of a Husband though he should be mistaken may oblige a Wife or Child to somewhat differing from their own inclination or judgment 6. And young persons desiring Marriage may go further adorning than graver Women so they deceive none thereby 4. But let it be the hidden man of the heart in that which is not corruptible even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit which is in the sight of God of great price 4. But labour to excel in that which is the truest and preciousest ornament which is the New Creature of a right frame of heart which is not like beauty or apparel or gold a corruptible thing and specially a humble meek and quiet spirit void of pride and passion and of an unquiet mind that troubleth it self and those that are about such that is hardly pleased nor can live pleasingly to others but keep themselves and their Families in discontent and uncomfortable trouble God is the Judge of our amiableness whom you must specially please And he highly valueth this meek and quiet spirit 5. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also who trusted in God adorned themselves being in subjection unto their own husbands 5. This was the chief adorning of those holy Women whose praises you read of in the Scripture who trusted in God being in reverent and loving subjection to their Husbands 6. Even as Sara obeyed Abraham calling him lord whose daughters ye are as long as ye do well and are not afraid with any amazement 6. And thus Sarah the believing Wife of Abraham the Father of the Faithful obeyed and reverenced her Husband and spake of him as her superiour and you will be the Daughters and Successors of her Faith and Blessing as long as you do well and are obedient to God and your Husbands and give not way to those vexatious causeless fears which your Sex is much liable to and which signifie too little trust in God especially when they would fright you from your duty 7. Likewise ye husbands dwell with them according to knowledge giving honour unto the wife as unto the weaker vessel and as being heirs together of the grace of life that your prayers be not hindred 7. And you Husbands must dwell with them as beseemeth those that should teach and guide them and therefore should excel them in knowledge and help to edifie them and because their parts are supposed to be lower than yours do not contemn them for it but contribute your Authority and Wisdom to maintain their honour and keep them from being contemned by Children or Servants as being so nearly united that you should live together as joynt Heirs of all the mercies of God for this life and a better that so in this concord you may daily pray together as with one mind and mouth and that discord and discontent unfit you not for such united prayers 8. Finally be ye all of one mind having compassion one of another love as brethren be pitiful be courteous 9. Not rendering evil for evil or railing for railing but contrariwise blessing knowing that ye are thereunto called that ye should inherit a blessing 8. Yea let all Christians be of one mind and live in concord not exagitating but compassionating each others infirmities and sufferings loving as Christian Brethren ought pitiful to those that need you and humble and courteous to all not hurting those that hurt you nor railing at those that rail at you as if you might lawfully revenge evil with evil but contrarily bless those and give them good words who give you evil ones For Christ by his Word Example and Mercys hath called and obliged you to this that you may be blest of God 10. For he that will love life and see good days let him refrain his tongue from evil and his lips that they speak no guile 11. Let him eschew evil and do good let him seek peace and ensue it 10 11. For as it is said Psal 34. He that will love life