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perform_v this_o part_n of_o her_o particular_a call_n namely_o to_o nurse_v she_o own_o child_n 6._o woman_n ought_v to_o do_v all_o the_o best_a duty_n of_o love_n that_o they_o can_v to_o their_o child_n therefore_o mother_n ought_v to_o nurse_v their_o own_o child_n ii_o some_o of_o the_o most_o worthy_a pattern_n in_o who_o example_n this_o duty_n be_v commend_v to_o mother_n be_v these_o 1._o sarah_n give_v suck_v to_o isaak_n this_o example_n be_v to_o be_v note_v 7._o especial_o of_o the_o great_a sort_n as_o rich_a man_n wife_n honourable_a man_n wife_n and_o the_o like_a for_o sarah_n be_v a_o honourable_a woman_n a_o princess_n a_o rich_a man_n wife_n a_o beautiful_a woman_n age_a and_o well_o grow_v in_o year_n and_o a_o mistress_n of_o a_o family_n be_v not_o these_o excuse_n pretend_v by_o many_o mother_n for_o not_o nurse_v child_n themselves_o 2._o the_o virgin_n mary_n give_v suck_v to_o jesus_n this_o example_n be_v to_o be_v note_v especial_o of_o the_o mean_a sort_n for_o the_o virgin_n man_n be_v young_a poor_a persecute_v force_v to_o remove_v and_o fly_v with_o her_o child_n from_o country_n to_o country_n be_v not_o these_o excuse_n pretend_v by_o other_o mother_n these_o two_o pattern_n do_v not_o only_o commend_v the_o duty_n but_o also_o strip_v all_o mother_n that_o be_v negligent_a therein_o of_o all_o excuse_n to_o these_o may_v be_v add_v the_o example_n of_o 22._o annah_n of_o 9_o david_n mother_n and_o of_o many_o other_o what_o if_o also_o i_o add_v the_o example_n of_o that_o true_a natural_a affectionate_a mother_n who_o stand_v before_o salomon_n throne_n to_o plead_v for_o her_o child_n she_o thus_o say_v of_o herself_o 21._o i_o arise_v to_o give_v my_o son_n suck_v etc._n etc._n if_o this_o have_v not_o be_v a_o good_a motherly_a duty_n she_o will_v not_o then_o and_o there_o have_v plead_v it_o iii_o the_o place_n of_o scripture_n which_o take_v this_o duty_n for_o a_o matter_n grant_v and_o for_o a_o rule_v case_n be_v such_o as_o these_o 1._o where_o sarah_n say_v who_o will_v have_v say_v to_o abram_n that_o 7._o sarah_n shall_v have_v give_v child_n suck_v in_o this_o phrase_n she_o set_v forth_o god_n blessing_n in_o give_v abram_n a_o son_n by_o she_o now_o in_o that_o she_o express_v the_o blessing_n under_o this_o phrase_n of_o give_v suck_n she_o take_v it_o for_o grant_v that_o the_o mother_n which_o bear_v child_n must_v give_v they_o suck_v 2._o where_o david_n say_v thou_o do_v make_v i_o hope_v upon_o my_o 9_o mother_n breast_n he_o do_v not_o only_o imply_v that_o his_o mother_n give_v he_o suck_v but_o by_o the_o phrase_n make_v it_o a_o rule_v case_n that_o the_o child_n which_o suck_v must_v hang_v upon_o the_o mother_n breast_n 3._o where_o solomon_n say_v o_o that_o thou_o be_v as_o my_o brother_n that_o 1._o suck_v the_o breast_n of_o my_o mother_n he_o take_v if_o also_o for_o grant_v that_o brother_n and_o sister_n as_o they_o come_v out_o of_o the_o same_o womb_n so_o they_o shall_v suck_v the_o same_o breast_n even_o the_o breast_n of_o she_o out_o of_o who_o womb_n they_o come_v their_o own_o mother_n breast_n 4._o where_o the_o woman_n say_v to_o christ_n blessed_n be_v the_o womb_n that_o 27._o bear_v thou_o and_o the_o pap_n which_o thou_o have_v suck_v she_o take_v it_o for_o grant_v as_o it_o be_v a_o usual_a practice_n in_o those_o day_n that_o the_o â—aps_n of_o that_o woman_n who_o womb_n bear_v he_o give_v he_o d._n â—ucke_v these_o argument_n we_o have_v from_o the_o light_n of_o god_n word_n other_o we_o may_v have_v from_o god_n work_n and_o the_o light_n of_o nature_n as_o 1._o god_n have_v give_v to_o woman_n two_o breast_n fit_a to_o contain_v â—nd_n hold_v milk_n and_o nipple_n unto_o they_o fit_a to_o have_v milk_n draw_v from_o they_o why_o be_v these_o thus_o give_v to_o lay_v they_o â—rth_o for_o ostentation_n there_o be_v no_o warrant_n for_o that_o in_o all_o god_n â—ord_n they_o be_v direct_o give_v for_o the_o child_n food_n that_o come_v out_o of_o the_o womb_n for_o till_o the_o child_n be_v bear_v there_o be_v â—o_o milk_n in_o the_o breast_n anon_o after_o it_o be_v bear_v milk_n ordinariâ—â—_n flow_v into_o the_o breast_n yea_o a_o great_a part_n of_o the_o meat_n which_o â—â—ey_n eat_v turn_v into_o milk_n they_o make_v this_o admirable_a work_n â—f_n god_n providence_n to_o be_v in_o vain_a that_o dry_a up_o this_o spring_n use_v suffer_v not_o their_o child_n to_o partake_v of_o the_o benefit_n of_o it_o 2._o that_o nourishment_n whereon_o the_o child_n feed_v in_o the_o moâ—â—ers_n womb_n and_o whereby_o it_o be_v there_o sustain_v turn_v into_o milk_n
she_o shall_v say_v it_o be_v her_o right_n and_o if_o she_o can_v have_v his_o consent_n she_o will_v do_v it_o without_o his_o consent_n she_o therein_o show_v no_o great_a respect_n many_o other_o inconvenience_n may_v be_v reckon_v up_o but_o i_o will_v not_o long_o insist_v on_o they_o only_o from_o these_o let_v it_o be_v well_o consider_v whether_o it_o be_v not_o better_o for_o a_o family_n that_o the_o husband_n shall_v be_v bar_v from_o dispose_v the_o good_n without_o consent_n of_o his_o wife_n so_o as_o there_o may_v be_v according_a to_o the_o proverb_n but_o good_n one_o hand_n in_o the_o purse_n than_o both_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o have_v liberty_n to_o dispose_v they_o without_o each_o other_o consent_n §._o 28._o of_o property_n in_o good_n whether_o it_o give_v liberty_n to_o dispose_v they_o as_o a_o wife_n will_n to_o justify_v a_o wife_n liberty_n in_o dispose_v the_o common_a good_n 16._o of_o the_o family_n without_o her_o husband_n consent_n it_o be_v say_v that_o she_o have_v a_o true_a right_n and_o property_n in_o those_o good_n 1._o answ_n though_o it_o be_v grant_v that_o a_o wife_n have_v a_o true_a property_n in_o the_o good_n yet_o this_o conclusion_n will_v not_o follow_v thereupon_o that_o she_o have_v power_n of_o herself_o to_o dispose_v the_o good_n without_o her_o husband_n consent_n for_o the_o authority_n which_o god_n have_v give_v a_o husband_n and_o subjection_n which_o he_o have_v lay_v on_o a_o wife_n restrain_v her_o power_n and_o liberty_n in_o that_o which_o be_v she_o own_o as_o for_o example_n suppose_v 13._o that_o a_o woman_n at_o the_o time_n of_o her_o marriage_n have_v a_o lease_n for_o year_n or_o the_o wardship_n of_o the_o body_n and_o land_n of_o a_o infant_n or_o have_v it_o by_o gift_n or_o b._n purchase_n after_o marriage_n she_o can_v give_v it_o away_o whatsoever_o the_o extremity_n be_v but_o her_o husband_n may_v any_o time_n during_o coverture_n dispose_v of_o it_o and_o such_o his_o disposition_n shall_v cut_v off_o the_o wife_n interest_n or_o suppose_v that_o the_o only_a child_n of_o her_o father_n be_v a_o inheretrix_fw-la of_o land_n and_o have_v in_o herself_o her_o father_n be_v dead_a the_o full_a possession_n thereof_o or_o that_o a_o widow_n have_v the_o right_n unto_o and_o possession_n of_o her_o husband_n estate_n and_o thus_o possess_v be_v marry_v to_o a_o husband_n have_v she_o be_v a_o wife_n liberty_n to_o dispose_v that_o estate_n which_o she_o bring_v with_o she_o without_o or_o against_o her_o husband_n consent_n i_o think_v none_o will_v say_v it_o sure_o i_o be_o that_o what_o she_o give_v dare_v sell_v or_o otherwise_o dispose_v without_o his_o consent_n he_o if_o he_o will_v may_v for_o his_o life-time_n recover_v again_o and_o yet_o no_o man_n will_v deny_v but_o that_o she_o have_v the_o true_a interest_n and_o property_n in_o the_o forename_a land_n and_o inheritance_n object_n may_v she_o not_o as_o well_o dispose_v of_o she_o own_o inheritance_n as_o of_o those_o good_n or_o revenue_n which_o her_o husband_n give_v she_o answ_n no_o for_o the_o gift_n of_o the_o husband_n be_v a_o general_a consent_n of_o he_o for_o she_o to_o dispose_v that_o which_o be_v give_v she_o as_o she_o see_v meet_v §._o 29._o of_o the_o reason_n against_o a_o wife_n property_n in_o the_o common_a good_n of_o the_o family_n 2._o answ_n it_o may_v safe_o be_v deny_v that_o a_o wife_n have_v a_o property_n in_o the_o common_a good_n of_o the_o family_n whereof_o she_o be_v no_o heir_n for_o property_n in_o good_n be_v a_o civil_a matter_n and_o to_o be_v limit_v according_a to_o the_o law_n of_o man_n under_o which_o we_o live_v where_o the_o law_n or_o custom_n of_o the_o place_n make_v all_o the_o child_n coheire_n all_o have_v a_o equal_a right_n to_o their_o several_a part_n where_o the_o elder_a only_a be_v make_v heir_n he_o have_v a_o right_a to_o all_o where_o the_o young_a only_a be_v make_v heir_n he_o have_v a_o right_a to_o all_o but_o neither_o the_o law_n of_o nation_n nor_o of_o the_o land_n where_o we_o live_v give_v the_o wife_n a_o property_n case_n by_o the_o common_a law_n marriage_n be_v a_o gift_n of_o all_o the_o good_n and_o chattel_n personal_a of_o the_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n so_o that_o no_o kind_n of_o property_n in_o the_o same_o remain_v in_o she_o 31._o and_o all_o personal_a good_n and_o chattel_n during_o marriage_n give_v to_o the_o wife_n be_v present_o ipso_fw-la facto_fw-la transfer_v as_o to_o the_o property_n of_o they_o to_o the_o husband_n so_o that_o by_o our_o law_n she_o be_v so_o far_o from_o gain_v any_o property_n by_o her_o marriage_n in_o her_o husband_n good_n as_o she_o lose_v all_o the_o property_n she_o former_o have_v in_o she_o own_o good_n yea_o 4_o her_o necessary_a apparel_n be_v not_o she_o in_o property_n while_o she_o remain_v a_o wife_n she_o be_v to_o use_v the_o law-phrase_n under_o covert_a baron_n 26._o she_o can_v neither_o let_v sell_v alien_a give_v nor_o otherwise_o of_o right_o make_v any_o thing_n away_o no_o nor_o yet_o make_v a_o will_v so_o to_o dispose_v any_o good_n while_o her_o husband_n live_v without_o his_o consent_n which_o yet_o a_o husband_n may_v while_n his_o wife_n live_v and_o that_o without_o or_o against_o her_o consent_n object_n the_o law_n state_n a_o wife_n in_o a_o great_a part_n of_o the_o husband_n good_n provide_v for_o her_o jointer_n or_o three_o which_o the_o husband_n can_v make_v away_o without_o her_o consent_n answ_n this_o provision_n be_v only_o for_o the_o time_n of_o her_o widowhood_n in_o case_n she_o overlive_v he_o but_o for_o the_o time_n that_o she_o remain_v his_o wife_n he_o may_v make_v away_o all_o and_o she_o can_v recover_v none_o till_o he_o be_v dead_a object_n this_o restraint_n of_o wife_n be_v only_o in_o the_o court_n of_o man_n answ_n see_v it_o be_v not_o against_o the_o law_n of_o god_n it_o must_v also_o hold_v good_a in_o the_o court_n of_o conscience_n nay_o it_o be_v agreeable_a to_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o ground_v thereupon_o for_o to_o omit_v the_o proof_n before_o allege_v what_o may_v be_v the_o reason_n that_o the_o daughter_n of_o zelophehad_n who_o be_v heir_n to_o their_o father_n be_v forbid_v to_o marry_v out_o of_o their_o father_n tribe_n and_o that_o a_o law_n be_v make_v that_o no_o daughter_n that_o possess_v any_o inheritance_n shall_v marry_v out_o of_o their_o father_n tribe_n but_o because_o all_o that_o a_o woman_n have_v before_o marriage_n pass_v upon_o the_o husband_n and_o become_v he_o by_o virtue_n of_o marriage_n this_o also_o for_o that_o purpose_n be_v by_o some_o not_o unfit_o nor_o without_o probability_n note_v that_o it_o be_v the_o common_a phrase_n of_o scripture_n to_o term_v husband_n 89._o but_o not_o wife_n rich_a imply_v thereby_o that_o riches_n by_o a_o property_n appertain_v to_o husband_n yea_o usual_o in_o scripture_n good_n and_o land_n be_v say_v to_o be_v the_o husband_n object_n the_o wife_n of_o jaakob_n do_v term_v the_o good_n which_o their_o husband_n have_v they_o say_v the_o riches_n which_o god_n have_v take_v from_o our_o father_n be_v our_n gen._n 31._o 16._o answ_n they_o use_v the_o word_n we_o in_o opposition_n to_o their_o father_n house_n and_o in_o relation_n not_o to_o their_o person_n but_o to_o their_o connub_fw-la husband_n family_n and_o therefore_o they_o add_v and_o our_o child_n so_o as_o by_o that_o place_n no_o great_a right_n can_v be_v prove_v for_o wife_n then_o for_o child_n when_o the_o holy_a ghost_n speak_v of_o the_o same_o good_n he_o say_v not_o in_o relation_n to_o husband_n and_o wife_n both_o their_o flock_n their_o substance_n but_o only_o in_o relation_n to_o the_o husband_n his_o flock_n his_o substance_n for_o as_o in_o mixture_n of_o wine_n and_o water_n though_o the_o great_a quantity_n be_v water_n yet_o we_o call_v the_o whole_a wine_n so_o in_o the_o common_a good_n of_o the_o family_n though_o the_o wife_n shall_v 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to_o the_o church_n as_o spouse_n love_n dove_n with_o the_o like_a i_o do_v not_o deny_v but_o that_o in_o the_o song_n of_o solomon_n and_o in_o other_o place_n of_o scripture_n many_o title_n be_v give_v and_o speech_n use_v by_o christ_n to_o the_o church_n which_o be_v not_o meet_v to_o be_v use_v by_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n because_o they_o be_v metaphorical_a and_o hyperbolical_a but_o yet_o in_o they_o all_o we_o may_v observe_v token_n of_o amiableness_n kindness_n and_o mildness_n which_o be_v the_o end_n for_o which_o i_o have_v allege_v his_o example_n but_o contrary_a be_v such_o title_n as_o on_o the_o one_o side_n set_v the_o wife_n title_n in_o too_o high_a a_o place_n over_o her_o husband_n as_o lady_n mistress_n dame_n mother_n etc._n etc._n and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n set_v she_o in_o too_o mean_v a_o rank_n as_o woman_n wench_n etc._n etc._n and_o their_o christian_a name_n contract_v as_o sal_fw-la malipiero_n bess_n nan._n etc._n etc._n and_o name_n of_o kindred_n as_o sister_n and_o cousin_n and_o opprobrious_a name_n as_o stut_v drab_n queant_fw-la and_o name_n more_o befit_v beast_n than_o wife_n as_o cole_n browne_n muggle_n etc._n etc._n object_n these_o be_v title_n of_o mildness_n kindness_n and_o much_o familiarity_n for_o husband_n call_v their_o wife_n by_o these_o name_n not_o when_o they_o be_v angry_a with_o they_o and_o displease_v but_o ordinary_o and_o usual_o even_o when_o they_o be_v best_a please_v answ_n the_o mildness_n and_o familiarity_n which_o be_v require_v of_o a_o husband_n must_v be_v such_o as_o may_v stand_v with_o his_o authority_n and_o place_n of_o eminency_n as_o some_o of_o those_o name_n do_v not_o and_o with_o that_o near_a conjunction_n which_o be_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n about_o all_o other_o as_o other_o do_v not_o and_o with_o christian_a gravity_n and_o discretion_n as_o other_o do_v not_o christian_n therefore_o must_v take_v heed_n that_o by_o their_o practice_n they_o justify_v not_o corrupt_a custom_n §._o 25._o of_o a_o husband_n manner_n of_o instruct_v his_o wife_n 2._o to_o instruction_n the_o apostle_n express_o annex_v meekness_n meekness_n instruct_v say_v he_o with_o meekness_n those_o that_o oppose_v themselves_o if_o minister_n must_v use_v meekness_n when_o they_o instruct_v their_o people_n much_o more_o husband_n when_o they_o instruct_v their_o wife_n if_o 〈◊〉_d in_o case_n of_o opposition_n meekness_n must_v not_o be_v lay_v aside_o then_o in_o no_o case_n at_o no_o time_n in_o this_o case_n to_o manifest_a meekness_n let_v these_o rule_n be_v observe_v meekness_n 1._o note_v the_o understanding_n and_o capacity_n of_o thy_o wife_n and_o according_o fit_a thy_o instruction_n if_o she_o be_v of_o mean_a capacity_n give_v precept_n upon_o precept_n line_n upon_o line_n here_o a_o little_a and_o there_o a_o little_a a_o little_a at_o once_o oft_o give_v namely_o every_o day_n something_a will_v arise_v in_o time_n to_o a_o great_a measure_n and_o so_o arise_v as_o together_o with_o knowledge_n of_o the_o thing_n teach_v love_v of_o the_o person_n that_o teach_v will_v increase_v 2._o instruct_v she_o in_o private_a betwixt_o thyself_o and_o she_o that_o so_o her_o ignorance_n may_v not_o be_v blaze_v forth_o private_a action_n pass_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v token_n of_o much_o kindness_n and_o familiarity_n 3._o in_o the_o family_n so_o instruct_v child_n and_o servant_n when_o she_o be_v present_a as_o she_o may_v learn_v knowledge_n thereby_o there_o can_v be_v no_o more_o meek_a and_o gentle_a manner_n of_o instruct_v then_o by_o one_o to_o instruct_v another_o 4._o together_o with_o thy_o precept_n mix_v sweet_a and_o pithy_a persuasion_n harshness_n which_o be_v testimony_n of_o great_a love_n contrary_n be_v a_o harsh_a and_o rough_a manner_n of_o instruct_v when_o husband_n go_v about_o to_o thrust_v into_o their_o wife_n head_n as_o it_o be_v by_o violence_n deep_a mystery_n which_o they_o be_v not_o able_a to_o conceive_v and_o yet_o if_o they_o conceive_v not_o they_o will_v be_v angry_a with_o they_o and_o in_o anger_n give_v they_o evil_a language_n and_o proclaim_v their_o ignorance_n before_o child_n servant_n and_o stranger_n this_o harshness_n be_v ordinary_o so_o fruitless_a and_o withal_o so_o exasperate_v a_o woman_n spirit_n as_o i_o think_v he_o be_v better_a clean_o omit_v the_o duty_n then_o do_v it_o after_o such_o a_o manner_n §._o 26._o of_o a_o husband_n manner_n of_o mildness_n command_v his_o wife_n any_o thing_n 3._o the_o commandment_n which_o a_o husband_n give_v to_o his_o wife_n whether_o they_o be_v affirmative_a bid_v she_o to_o do_v something_o or_o negative_a forbid_v she_o to_o do_v this_o or_o that_o must_v all_o be_v season_v with_o mildness_n for_o which_o end_n respect_n must_v be_v have_v to_o the_o matter_n and_o manner_n of_o his_o commandment_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o matter_n the_o thing_n which_o he_o command_v wife_n his_o wife_n to_o do_v must_v be_v 1._o such_o as_o be_v indeed_o lawful_a and_o honest_a 2._o such_o as_o she_o be_v persuade_v to_o be_v so_o 3._o such_o as_o beseem_v her_o place_n 4._o such_o as_o be_v of_o weight_n and_o moment_n and_o on_o the_o contrary_a the_o thing_n which_o he_o forbid_v must_v be_v 1._o such_o as_o be_v indeed_o unlawful_a to_o be_v do_v wife_n 2._o such_o as_o he_o can_v evident_o prove_v unto_o she_o to_o be_v unlawful_a 3._o such_o as_o be_v unbeseeming_a her_o place_n 4._o such_o as_o will_v have_v some_o evil_a and_o mischievous_a effect_n if_o they_o be_v do_v 1._o to_o command_v a_o thing_n unlawful_a or_o forbid_v a_o thing_n which_o ought_v to_o be_v do_v be_v to_o bring_v his_o own_o authority_n into_o opposition_n with_o god_n in_o which_o case_n he_o bring_v his_o wife_n into_o this_o strait_a either_o to_o reject_v god_n commandment_n or_o he_o how_o then_o can_v she_o think_v that_o her_o husband_n love_v she_o when_o he_o bring_v she_o into_o such_o snare_n and_o strait_n that_o she_o must_v needs_o fall_v into_o the_o gulf_n of_o god_n displeasure_n or_o knock_v against_o the_o rock_n of_o her_o husband_n offence_n mildness_n be_v far_o from_o such_o commandment_n 2._o the_o like_a may_v be_v say_v of_o such_o thing_n as_o to_o a_o wife_n conscience_n she_o seem_v to_o be_v sinful_a if_o they_o be_v enjoin_v to_o she_o or_o her_o bind_a duty_n if_o they_o be_v forbid_v especial_o if_o she_o have_v any_o ground_n for_o her_o conscience_n out_o of_o god_n word_n the_o conscience_n be_v subject_a to_o god_n alone_o if_o it_o be_v force_v it_o will_v be_v a_o fearful_a horror_n and_o a_o very_a hell_n in_o that_o party_n who_o conscience_n be_v force_v she_o that_o doubt_v be_v condemn_v if_o she_o do_v that_o whereof_o 23._o she_o make_v doubt_n 1._o object_n in_o doubtful_a matter_n the_o command_a power_n warrant_n of_o a_o governor_n be_v sufficient_a warrant_n and_o ground_n to_o resolve_v the_o conscience_n of_o they_o that_o be_v under_o authority_n answ_n 1._o in_o thing_n mere_o doubtful_a concern_v which_o the_o party_n in_o subjection_n have_v not_o warrant_v out_o of_o god_n word_n one_o way_n or_o other_o it_o may_v be_v so_o but_o when_o the_o conscience_n do_v not_o doubt_n and_o hang_v in_o suspense_n but_o be_v out_o of_o some_o ground_n take_v from_o god_n word_n persuade_v that_o that_o which_o be_v command_v be_v unlawful_a or_o that_o which_o be_v forbid_v be_v a_o bind_a duty_n then_o to_o do_v this_o or_o to_o leave_v that_o undo_v be_v to_o the_o party_n so_o persuade_v a_o sin_n and_o this_o be_v the_o doubt_v whereof_o the_o apostle_n speak_v that_o condemn_v a_o man_n in_o this_o case_n to_o urge_v a_o wife_n to_o do_v this_o or_o not_o to_o do_v that_o be_v to_o urge_v she_o to_o sin_n which_o a_o mild_a spirit_n and_o love_a heart_n will_v not_o do_v 2._o though_o the_o husband_n command_v be_v sufficient_a warrant_n to_o the_o wife_n and_o if_o he_o peremptory_o press_v she_o to_o this_o or_o that_o she_o ought_v to_o yield_v yet_o the_o love_n and_o mildness_n require_v of_o a_o husband_n shall_v make_v he_o so_o to_o tender_v she_o as_o to_o remit_v something_o of_o his_o power_n and_o when_o he_o see_v her_o conscience_n trouble_v about_o his_o command_n to_o relieve_v her_o conscience_n by_o for_o bear_v to_o press_v that_o which_o seem_v so_o burdensome_a to_o she_o a_o husband_n may_v sin_v in_o press_v that_o too_o much_o upon_o his_o wife_n which_o she_o upon_o his_o press_n may_v without_o sin_n yield_v unto_o §._o 27._o of_o a_o husband_n 66._o wise_a carriage_n when_o his_o wife_n be_v erroneeus_o scrupulous_a 2._o object_n what_o if_o a_o husband_n upon_o his_o knowledge_n observe_v his_o wife_n to_o be_v erroneous_o scrupulous_a and_o to_o misinterpret_v and_o misapply_v the_o word_n of_o