Selected quad for the lemma: woman_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
woman_n	church_n	time_n	wilderness_n	1,494	5	9.8942	5	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A18056	Carters Christian common vvealth; or, Domesticall dutyes deciphered	Carter, Thomas, of London.	1627 (1627)	STC 4698; ESTC S116227	89,281	328

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the_o order_n of_o priesthood_n unto_o which_o the_o lord_n have_v choose_v he_o and_o elye_o do_v 2._o 1._o sam._n 2._o place_v his_o son_n in_o the_o same_o order_n nay_o he_o do_v not_o take_v it_o from_o they_o although_o he_o know_v that_o they_o be_v wicked_a and_o david_n do_v not_o 1._o 1._o king_n 1._o at_o his_o death_n divide_v his_o kingdom_n unto_o his_o son_n but_o leave_v it_o whole_o unto_o his_o son_n solomon_n 11._o 1._o king_n 11._o neither_o do_v he_o divide_v it_o but_o leave_v it_o unto_o his_o son_n rehoboam_n and_o he_o also_o leave_v it_o unto_o his_o son_n ab●am_n 14._o 1._o king_n 14._o and_o he_o unto_o his_o son_n asa_n and_o 1●_n 2._o cro._n