Selected quad for the lemma: woman_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
woman_n	child_n	house_n	lord_n	1,728	5	3.8805	3	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A57118	Considerations concerning marriage the honour, duties, benefits, troubles of it whereto are added 1. directions in two particulars, 1. how they that have wives may be as if they had none, 2., how to prepare for parting with a dear yoke-fellow by death, or other-wife : 2. resolution of this case of conscience, whether a man may lawfully marry his wives sister? / by Edward Reyner ...	Reyner, Edward, 1600-1668.	1657 (1657)	Wing R1221; ESTC R3111	49,078	102

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be_v lesson_n of_o chastity_n and_o temperance_n and_o the_o property_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n prov._n 31._o his_o father_n david_n compose_v a_o psalm_n for_o his_o instruction_n psal_n 72._o timotheus_n mother_n teach_v he_o the_o scripture_n from_o his_o infancy_n 2_o tim._n 1.5_o 3.15_o family_n 7_o to_o build_v a_o godly_a family_n 7._o common_a duty_n be_v to_o build_v a_o godly_a family_n not_o only_o by_o the_o procreation_n and_o religious_a education_n of_o child_n which_o be_v a_o pillar_n of_o the_o house_n but_o by_o a_o wise_a and_o godly_a government_n and_o order_n of_o the_o house_n in_o which_o the_o wife_n ought_v to_o act_v her_o part_n i_o will_v say_v paul_n that_o the_o young_a woman_n marry_o and_o bear_v child_n and_o guide_v the_o house_n that_o be_v domestic_a affair_n domi-portae_a 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o tim._n 5.14_o domi-portae_a to_o this_o end_n they_o ought_v to_o be_v discreet_a that_o be_v prudent_a and_o circumspect_a and_o keeper_n at_o 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because_o the_o author_n have_v no_o copy_n of_o it_o there_o have_v be_v hitherto_o some_o expectation_n that_o this_o loss_n may_v have_v be_v recover_v that_o this_o spiritual_a tract_n may_v have_v be_v add_v unto_o the_o former_a but_o now_o through_o long_a disappointment_n our_o hope_n grow_v more_o faint_a if_o hereafter_o god_n good_a hand_n of_o providence_n shall_v bring_v this_o manuscript_n either_o unto_o the_o author_n at_o lincoln_n or_o to_o myself_o at_o london_n the_o restorer_n thereof_o shall_v be_v well_o recompense_v and_o it_o shall_v be_v forthwith_o publish_v for_o common_a profit_n christian_n reader_n as_o the_o author_n deserve_v so_o he_o beg_v thy_o prayer_n who_o be_v octo._n 15._o 1657._o thy_o friend_n and_o servant_n in_o christ_n simeon_n ashe_n let_v the_o reader_n be_v desire_v to_o amend_v these_o fault_n with_o his_o pen_n before_o he_o peruse_v the_o b●ok_n errata_fw-la page_n 2._o line_n 4._o for_o efficiency_n read_v efficient_a p_o 2._o l._n 6._o f_o justification_n r._n institution_n p._n 5_o l._n 13_o f_o love_n r._n lover_n p._n 6._o l._n 9_o r._n to_o act_n in_o to_o his_o church_n p._n 6._o l._n 32._o f._n justification_n r._n institution_n p._n 8_o l._n 9_o f._n lincy_n r_o l●n●ey_n margin_n r._n 1_o king_n 11_o ●_o 3_o ●_o p._n 14_o in_o mark_fw-mi col._n 18._o 3._o r_o col._n 3_o 18._o p._n 15._o l._n ult_n l_o be_v r._n in_o the_o sal●_n p_o 18._o l._n 17._o f_o follows_z r._n flon_n p._n 23_o l._n 25_o f_o proprietor_n r._n proprietary_n p._n 25_o l_o 3._o f_z spiritual_a r_o special_a p._n 25_o l._n 5_o f._n walk_v r._n well-being_n p._n 26._o l._n 19_o f._n advance_v r._n clean_a mark_fw-mi r._n 1_o king_n 11._o 2._o p._n 26._o l._n 34._o f._n communion_n r_o communication_n p._n 27._o l._n ●5_n f._n party_n r._n party_n &_o l._n 26._o f._n it_o be_v r._n and_o be_v apt_a &_o l_o 32._o f_o heaven_n 1_o healer_n p_o 30._o l._n ●_o f._n allunder_v r_o asunder_o &_o l._n 2._o f_o contention_n r._n contentation_n &_o l._n 16._o f._n wrest_v r_o wres●le_v &_o l._n 19_o put_v out_o be_v p_o 31._o mark_fw-mi r_o 1_o tim._n 5_o 14._o f._n tim._n 2._o 14._o p._n 33._o l._n 26._o f._n covenant_n r._n government_n &_o l._n 30_o f._n exercise_n r._n exercise_n p._n 44._o l._n 1._o ●●_o r._n to_o thirst_n p._n 53._o l._n 13_o f._n fore-arned_n r._n fore-armed_n p._n 59_o l._n 3._o f._n our_o r._n or_o &_o l._n 28._o f._n we_o r._n our_o p._n 60_o l_o 3._o f._n learn_v r_o leave_v p._n 64._o l._n 29._o f._n word_n r._n world_n p._n 70._o l._n 3._o f._n fit_v r._n fill_v the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n there_o be_v four_o thing_n considerable_a in_o it_o the_o honour_n duty_n benefit_n trouble_v of_o it_o i._o the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n 〈◊〉_d heb._n 12.4_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d marriage_n be_v honourable_a in_o all_o say_v paul_n of_o high_a esteem_n and_o great_a account_n among_o all_o sort_n of_o person_n high_a and_o low_a rich_a and_o poor_a and_o the_o bed_n consider_v in_o itself_o be_v undefiled_a adam_n and_o eve_n may_v have_v use_v it_o in_o their_o innocence_n this_o be_v common_a to_o all_o mankind_n author_n reas_n 1._o from_o the_o author_n reas_n 1._o from_o the_o efficiency_n or_o author_n of_o it_o that_o be_v god_n 5_o way_n 1_o by_o justification_n marriage_n be_v god_n ordinace_n he_o first_o invent_v it_o and_o appoint_v it_o what_o be_v of_o god_n be_v excellent_a and_o honourable_a 2_o by_o administration_n he_o marry_v adam_n and_o eve_n when_o he_o have_v build_v the_o rib_n he_o take_v out_o of_o the_o man_n side_n into_o a_o woman_n 2.22_o gen._n 2.22_o he_o bring_v she_o to_o the_o man_n that_o be_v join_v she_o in_o marriage_n with_o he_o and_o god_n be_v say_v now_o to_o join_v man_n and_o wife_n together_o math._n 19.6_o that_o be_v by_o his_o ordinance_n and_o by_o his_o providence_n 3_o by_o qualification_n of_o the_o person_n for_o a_o matrimonial_a relation_n 2.18_o gen._n 2.18_o make_v the_o woman_n to_o be_v a_o help_n meet_v for_o the_o man_n and_o the_o man_n to_o be_v a_o fit_a head_n and_o guide_v for_o the_o woman_n this_o be_v god_n work_n a_o prudent_a wife_n be_v from_o the_o lord_n prov._n 19.14_o so_o be_v a_o love_a husband_n god_n make_v they_o so_o 4_o by_o benediction_n god_n bless_v they_o together_o to_o make_v they_o partaker_n of_o all_o the_o end_n and_o comfort_n of_o marriage_n as_o he_o do_v adam_n and_o eve_n when_o he_o have_v make_v they_o and_o marry_v they_o 5._o gen._n 1.28_o gen._n 33_o 5._o he_o pronounce_v a_o large_a blessing_n upon_o they_o say_v be_v fruitful_a and_o multiply_v and_o replenish_v the_o earth_n child_n and_o famly_n psalm_n 107.41_o be_v god_n gift_n 5_o by_o mission_n of_o his_o angel_n which_o god_n send_v forth_o to_o be_v minister_a spirit_n to_o his_o servant_n for_o assistance_n in_o this_o business_n as_o to_o abraham_n servant_n when_o his_o master_n send_v he_o to_o mesopotamia_n to_o take_v a_o wife_n unto_o his_o son_n isaac_n and_o to_o joseph_n mary_n espouse_v husband_n 1.20_o gen._n 24.7.21.40_o math._n 1.20_o math._n 1.20_o and_o 2.13_o the_o ministry_n of_o angel_n about_o marriage_n by_o direction_n and_o protection_n imply_v it_o to_o be_v weighty_a and_o worthy_a in_o itself_o though_o unto_o many_o it_o seem_v worldly_a and_o base_a circumstance_n reas_n 2._o from_o the_o subject_n and_o circumstance_n reas_n 2._o from_o the_o subject_a and_o circumstance_n of_o marriage_n at_o the_o first_o who_o be_v the_o first_o couple_n who_o god_n marry_v adam_n and_o eve_n who_o be_v the_o common_a parent_n of_o all_o mankind_n of_o all_o the_o king_n queen_n prince_n and_o noble_n in_o the_o world_n yea_o of_o jesus_n christ_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n even_o he_o be_v the_o son_n of_o adam_n luke_n 3.38_o where_o be_v marriage_n first_o celebrate_v in_o paradise_n where_o god_n manifest_v his_o presence_n to_o our_o first_o parent_n which_o make_v the_o place_n a_o heaven_n upon_o earth_n when_o be_v marriage_n first_o institute_v and_o minister_v in_o the_o time_n of_o man_n innocency_n before_o his_o fall_n before_o sin_v enter_v into_o the_o world_n therefore_o there_o be_v no_o sin_n in_o marriage_n but_o marriage_n be_v now_o a_o remedy_n against_o sin_n the_o person_n place_n and_o time_n of_o the_o first_o marriage_n or_o of_o marriage_n at_o the_o first_o do_v put_v honour_n upon_o it_o christ_n reas_n 3_o from_o jesus_n christ_n reas_n 3._o from_o jesus_n christ_n who_o high_o honour_a marriage_n not_o only_o by_o choose_v to_o be_v conceive_v and_o bear_v of_o a_o woman_n espouse_v to_o a_o man_n and_o by_o his_o presence_n at_o that_o marriage_n in_o cana_n of_o galilee_n where_o he_o wrought_v his_o first_o miracle_n 10.11_o john_n 2.1_o 2_o 10.11_o and_o manifest_v forth_o his_o glory_n by_o turn_v water_n into_o wine_n and_o by_o compare_v the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n to_o a_o weddin_fw-mi 22._o mat._n 22._o feast_n but_o especial_o by_o choose_v a_o conjugal_a relation_n to_o stand_v in_o to_o his_o church_n as_o husband_n to_o wife_n and_o therein_o 1._o to_o manifest_v and_o communicate_v himself_o to_o she_o 2._o to_o solace_v and_o delight_v himself_o with_o she_o 3._o to_o glorify_v himself_o in_o she_o and_o she_o with_o himself_o for_o ever_o in_o heaven_n this_o marriage_n be_v begin_v between_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n and_o every_o true_a believer_n in_o espousal_n upon_o earth_n hosea_n 2.19_o 2_o cor._n 11.2_o and_o it_o be_v consummate_v in_o heaven_n revel_v 19.7_o 8_o 9_o bless_a be_v they_o which_o be_v call_v to_o the_o mariage-supper_n of_o the_o lamb_n that_o be_v as_o some_o expound_v it_o the_o time_n of_o celestial_a joy_n hence_o the_o civil_a marriage_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v make_v by_o paul_n a_o figure_n or_o representation_n of_o the_o mystical_a marriage_n between_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n and_o every_o child_n of_o god_n in_o respect_n of_o the_o union_n or_o near_a conjunction_n of_o they_o this_o be_v now_o bone_n of_o my_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o my_o flesh_n say_v adam_n of_o his_o wife_n gen._n 2_o 23._o we_o be_v member_n of_o his_o that_o be_v christ_n body_n of_o his_o flesh_n and_o of_o his_o bone_n say_v paul_n of_o saint_n and_o beleiver_n ephes_n 5.30_o and_o of_o conjugal_a communion_n between_o they_o therefore_o paul_n conclude_v verse_n 32._o this_o be_v a_o great_a mystery_n but_o i_o speak_v concern_v christ_n and_o the_o church_n as_o if_o he_o have_v say_v all_o i_o have_v write_v concern_v husband_n and_o wife_n set_v forth_o the_o matrimonial_a relation_n and_o fellowship_n between_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n his_o expression_n of_o love_n to_o she_o and_o interchangeable_o her_o duty_n

she_o own_o but_o her_o husband_n or_o better_a than_o her_o husband_n or_o shall_v a_o man_n love_v other_o man_n wife_n or_o a_o woman_n love_v other_o woman_n husband_n better_a then_o their_o own_o peculiarity_n of_o interest_n be_v a_o ground_n of_o speciality_n of_o love_n 3._o union_n 3_o union_n ground_n of_o special_a love_n between_o they_o be_v union_n the_o conjunction_n husband_n and_o wise_n have_v one_o with_o another_o they_o two_o be_v in_o many_o respect_n as_o one_o person_n and_o so_o one_o together_o as_o they_o be_v not_o or_o shall_v not_o be_v with_o any_o one_o beside_o in_o all_o the_o world_n to_o wit_v one_o flesh_n gen._n 2.24_o as_o it_o be_v incarnate_v one_o to_o another_o adam_n acknowledge_v this_o when_o god_n have_v make_v the_o woman_n for_o he_o and_o bring_v or_o marry_v her_o to_z he_o he_o say_v this_o be_v now_o bone_n of_o my_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o my_o flesh_n to_o show_v his_o thankfulness_n to_o god_n and_o love_n to_o his_o wife_n 2.23_o gen._n 2.23_o as_o wonder_v at_o god_n goodness_n to_o he_o therein_o marriage_n be_v a_o moral_a conjunction_n of_o two_o person_n so_o as_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v in_o law_n one_o flesh_n by_o god_n ordinance_n it_o be_v the_o strict_a bond_n of_o any_o relation_n and_o therefore_o a_o fellowship_n of_o the_o dear_a amity_n near_o than_o that_o between_o parent_n and_o child_n though_o child_n have_v their_o flesh_n and_o bone_n from_o their_o parent_n yet_o they_o be_v not_o one_o flesh_n with_o their_o parent_n therefore_o shall_v a_o man_n leave_v his_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o shall_v cleave_v unto_o his_o wise_n this_o 2.24_o gen._n 2.24_o be_v the_o sanction_n of_o marriage_n all_o society_n must_v be_v leave_v that_o this_o between_o man_n and_o wife_n may_v be_v keep_v this_o be_v paul_n rule_n let_v not_o the_o wise_a depart_n from_o her_o husband_n 16._o 1_o cor._n 7.0.11_o ●●●ach_n 2_o 16._o and_o let_v not_o the_o husband_n put_v away_o his_o wife_n for_o god_n hate_v put_v away_o the_o wife_n must_v be_v a_o individual_a companion_n of_o life_n the_o say_n of_o the_o philosopher_n that_o perfect_a friendship_n be_v only_o between_o two_o be_v most_o true_a in_o this_o case_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n because_o they_o two_o be_v by_o marriage_n make_v one_o necessity_n 4_o necessity_n the_o 4_o ground_n of_o spiritual_a love_n between_o they_o be_v necessity_n of_o the_o one_o for_o the_o other_o even_o for_o their_o be_v as_o well_o as_o for_o their_o walk_n in_o both_o these_o respect_n we_o may_v understand_v that_o of_o the_o apostle_n 11.11_o 1_o cor._n 11.11_o neither_o be_v the_o man_n without_o the_o woman_n neither_o be_v the_o woman_n without_o the_o man_n in_o the_o lord_n the_o man_n be_v not_o without_o the_o woman_n nor_o can_v be_v because_o man_n now_o be_v conceive_v and_o bear_v of_o a_o woman_n the_o woman_n be_v not_o without_o the_o man_n 14.1_o job_n 14.1_o because_o she_o be_v now_o beget_v of_o man_n so_o that_o they_o be_v mutual_a cause_n the_o one_o of_o the_o other_o the_o woman_n have_v her_o generation_n from_o the_o man_n the_o man_n have_v his_o conception_n and_o birth_n from_o the_o woman_n they_o can_v be_v much_o less_o be_v well_o the_o one_o without_o the_o other_o the_o husband_n shall_v look_v at_o his_o wife_n as_o causa_fw-la sine_fw-la qua_fw-la non_fw-la a_o help_n he_o can_v well_o be_v without_o for_o god_n say_v it_o be_v not_o good_a that_o man_n shall_v be_v alone_o and_o the_o woman_n shall_v look_v at_o her_o husband_n under_o the_o same_o notion_n it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o the_o woman_n to_o be_v alone_o therefore_o the_o husband_n shall_v not_o insult_v over_o his_o wife_n because_o o●_n his_o superiority_n over_o she_o nor_o the_o wife_n be_v discourage_v because_o of_o her_o inferiority_n or_o subjection_n to_o he_o because_o they_o have_v need_v the_o one_o of_o the_o other_o as_o fellow_n to_o bear_v and_o draw_v in_o one_o yoke_n together_o now_o mutual_a necessity_n shall_v breed_v mutual_a love_n between_o they_o what_o be_v so_o dear_a unto_o the_o wife_n as_o the_o child_n of_o her_o womb_n isa_n 49_o 15._o yet_o the_o husband_n shall_v be_v dear_a to_o she_o as_o e●kanah_n say_v to_o hannah_n 1.8_o 1_o sam._n 1.8_o be_o not_o i_o better_o to_o thou_o then_o ten_o son_n 3_o communion_n 3_o common_a du●●_n be_v communion_n common_a duty_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v communion_n which_o flow_v from_o the_o union_n of_o their_o person_n by_o marriage_n for_o union_n be_v the_o ground_n of_o communion_n or_o communication_n of_o their_o body_n soul_n good_n and_o respect_n 1._o body_n 1_o of_o body_n of_o their_o body_n by_o mutual_a benevolence_n perform_v by_o the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o 1._o gor._n 7.3.4_o 2_o by_o cohabitation_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o or_o dwell_v together_o unless_o it_o be_v for_o a_o time_n and_o upon_o necessary_a occasion_n 3._o by_o conjugal_a fidelity_n reserve_v themselves_o entire_o and_o peculiar_o proper_a the_o one_o for_o the_o other_o as_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n do_v hosea_n 3.3_o 2_o soul_n 2_o of_o soul_n of_o their_o soul_n for_o the_o spiritual_a good_a of_o both_o the_o heart_n as_o well_o as_o the_o body_n shall_v be_v common_a between_o husband_n and_o wife_n one_o say_v that_o both_o the_o body_n and_o the_o soul_n be_v unite_v together_o in_o marriage_n conjugal_a love_n will_v make_v heart_n advance_v together_o as_o well_o as_o body_n as_o amical_a love_n do_v friend_n the_o soul_n of_o jonathan_n be_v knit_v with_o the_o soul_n of_o david_n and_o jonathan_n love_v he_o as_o his_o own_o soul_n 1_o sam._n 18.1_o as_o lustful_a love_n make_v the_o soul_n of_o unclean_a person_n to_o cleave_v together_o as_o well_o as_o their_o body_n as_o shechems_n soul_n cleave_v to_o dinah_n jacob_n daughter_n who_o he_o defile_v gen._n 34.3_o 11.3_o 1_o king_n 11.3_o and_o solomon_n cleave_v unto_o many_o strange_a woman_n in_o love_n but_o i_o shall_v speak_v more_o of_o this_o soul_n communion_n between_o marry_a person_n in_o the_o four_o common_a duty_n 3_o go_n 3._o of_o go_n of_o their_o good_n and_o estate_n labour_n and_o endeavour_n a_o joint_a fruition_n thereof_o for_o mutual_a benefit_n and_o comfort_n 4_o kindred_n 4._o of_o respect_n to_o their_o kindred_n also_o there_o shall_v be_v a_o communion_n of_o due_a respect_n and_o love_a kindness_n to_o the_o kindred_n and_o friend_n that_o pertain_v to_o either_o party_n the_o husband_n and_o wife_n lie_v as_o corner-stone_n in_o the_o wall_n to_o join_v several_a alliance_n and_o kindred_n together_o and_o aught_o to_o carry_v very_o respectful_o to_o their_o affinity_n contract_v by_o marriage_n esau_n wife_n offend_v great_o in_o grieve_v the_o heart_n of_o their_o husband_n parent_n gen._n 26.35_o 4._o another_o 4._o furtherance_n of_o the_o salvation_n one_o of_o another_o common_a duty_n be_v to_o further_a the_o salvation_n and_o soul_n good_a one_o of_o another_o as_o 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