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A28901	A light from Christ leading unto Christ by the star of his word, or, The rich jewel of Christian divinity practically explained in the principles enlightening the children of God how to meet Christ in his ordinances and by strength from Christ to walk comfortably with Christ in the whole course of their lives ... by way of catechism or dialogue, not to answer verbatim or by wrote ... but each one according to his own sence and understanding of the question / by Immanuel Bourn of Ashover in the county of Derby, now preacher of the Gospel to the congregation in Sepulchres C.L.	Bourne, Immanuel, 1590-1672.	1646 (1646)	Wing B3855; ESTC R35779	307,398	743

in Jesus Christ who is our peace-maker and whose rest is glorious 1 Cor. 1.30 Secondly as a sanctifyer and nourisher in grace by his spirit of faith and preserver to glory that receiving dayly refreshing nourishment from Christ by meeting Christ in his Ordinances Mat. 18.20 John 15.5 2 Pet. 3.18 1 Pet. 1.3 4 5. wee may grow in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ and by his power be kept through Faith unto salvation The Thirty three Classis or company of Questions The second Section Question 1. YOu have opened the fift Commandement at large both in the duties commanded and the sinnes forbidden with the use and application as by a light from Christ to leade us unto Christ both as a justifyer and a sanctifyer to enable us to walke comfortably with Christ in the course of our lives Now I pray you tell mee in briefe what are the duties commanded and the sinnes forbidden in the sixt commandement Thou shalt not kill Ans This Commandement is negative as are the rest that follow Gen. 9.6 and this sixt Commandement God gave for preservation of the life of man as being Gods owne Image as hee did the seventh commandement for preservation of a holy seed Malac. 2.15 The eight cōmandement for preservation of mens estated and that propriety which God hath given to men in their owne children or any thing else as goods Deut. 22.1 2 3. Psal 15.3 and the ninth Commandement was given for preservation of a man or womans good name and the Tenth to keepe the very heart and desires of the soule in a right order to the glory of God and the good of our Neighbour But in every one of these negative commandements the affirmative duties are required and a walking according to that rule of righteousnesse which God planted at first in man and woman when hee created them in his owne Image I will therefore first hold forth the duty and then the sinnes forbidden and some use of them In this sixt Commandement Thou shalt not kill or Th●u shalt doe no murther Prov. 4.23 In the affimaitive part the Lord requireth of every man woman or child to be carefull to preserve his or her owne life of soule and body Gen. 1.27 Mat. 4.6 7 Prov. 24.11 Job 29.12 and the life of his or her Father Mother Husband Wife Brother Sister Neighbour or of any Man Woman Job 29.13 Acts 19.30 31. Deut. 20.19 20. 2 Pet. 1.7 1 Sam. 15.2 3. 1 Pet. 3.8 9. Coloss 3.3 1 John 3.15 Eph. 4.27 Deur 30.35 Mat. 10.28 Rom. 3.15 16 17. or Child in the world by all lawfull and good meanes in heart word and deed in love meekenesse long-suffering and to avoide all occasion of murder lying in waite to destroy or the unlawfull destroying the life of any of whatsoever degree or condition they or any of them may be all malice hatred envy rash anger disdaine evill words or actions especially old grudges and drunkennesse all occasion of murders and forgtefulnesse of Gods presence or want of feare of offending the great God and sinning against Christ Jesus Quest 2. You hav● held forth the duties in generall with divers particular meanes to preserve life and occasions of taking life away to be avoyded Now what are the contrary sinnes to bee avoided in generall or particular as briefe as you can Ans All selfe-murder of soule Gens 4.6 7 c. or body or any unlawfull killing of any of mankind much more of Husband Prov. 18.19 Wife Father Mother Brother Sister Neighbour or any other and all means and occasion of soule killing or unlawfull taking away the life of any Levit. 19.17 is a sinne Mat. 5.22 Prov. 17.19 James 1.20 Mat. 5.21 c. Acts 5.31 as all hatred malice rash anger envie contempt emulation strife contentions and heartrisings wrath especially amongst brethren want of brotherly love or uncharitablenesse in any respect in thought word or deed especially evill reviling words giving the lie or any other provocations of quarrells all unlawfull duells or other occasions whatsoever all being a degree of murder Therefore is necessity to seek to Christ for Repentance and Remission of sins Quest 3. Now wee have heard the duties of the sixt what are the duties of the seventh Commandement Thou shalt not commit Adultery 2 Tim. 2.22 Heb. 13.4 Mat. 5.28 Job 31.1 1 Thess 4.2 3 4. Ephes 5.3 4. 5. Eph. 5.25 to 33. Answ The Lord requireth all true chastity both in the married and single estate both in minde and in body both inward holinesse and chastity of the heart and affections and outward holinesse and chastity of the Eyes Eares Tongue and whole man every one walking as Christians and as knowing how to possesse his vessell in holinesse and honour And waiting on Christ in use of all good meanes to prevent sinne in this as in other temptations the husband resting satisfyed with the love of his own Wife Prov. 5.18.19 and the Wife of her own Husband delighting in each others love constantly in the Lord. Quest 4. Now you have shewed the duty declare what are the sinnes contrary to this duly both in the single and in the Married estate and first in the single estate Ans All unchaste corrupt lusts of the heart Gen. 6.2 1 John 2.16 1 Pet. 2.11 Jam. 1.14.15 Gens 38.18 Gen. 39.9 2 Sam. 11.2 3 4. Jer. 5.7 Prov. 7.22 c. Isai 5.11 12. 1 Cor. 7.9 Levit. 20. ●0 Malac. 2.14 15 16. or lust of the eyes and all selfe pollution by speculative wantonnesse or wicked imaginations defiling the soule and all fornication or adultery in act or any meanes or occasions thereunto in heart word or deeds active or passive provoking God to anger and all keeping company with Harlots or mispending time in idlenesse drunkennesse or any manner of sin whatsoever Quest 5. What are the sins in the maried estate Answ Besides that all those sinnes noted in the single estate are sinnes likewise in the married all breach of wedlock or conjugall fidelity and promise made betweene man and wife either in thought Lev. 18.18 Mat. 19.9 Heb. 13.4 1 Cor 5.1 Mark 6.17 18. 1 Cor. 7.2 3 4 5. 1 Cor. 6.9 10. Levit. 18.19 20. Levit. 20.18 Ezek. 18.6 Ezek. 16.49 Rom. 13.13 14. Eph. 5.5 6. Levit. 19.29 Deut. 23.17 18. Gens 34.25.31 Heb. 13.4 Reve. 21.8 word or deede and all Polygamy and also all unlawfull divorce or separation all whoredome adultery incest or any such wickednesse whatsoever all denyall of due benevolence which may occasion breach or decay of love or sinne otherwise all effeminatenesse and immodest immoderate or unseasonable use of the marriage-bed in times prohibited by the Law of nature of God or of lawfull consent betweene themselves all pampering of the flesh or surfeting and drunkennesse to nourish unlawful lusts and all force and rashnes all impudent behaviour or prostitution of

heard one acknowledge That the Lord did strike him with a terrible sicknesse and fear of death and hell for his sins which terrified him and when he did recover God did draw him to attend more diligently to the Preaching of the Word by which he became so convinced of his former evil life and of the damnable danger of his former wicked companions and of the vanity of this present evil world 1. Christs spirit by the law or commanding part of the Word revealing even the vain thoughts Ier 4.14 Rom. 7. and speculative sinful imaginations odious to God yea the lusts of the heart to be damnable and as Christ interprets the Law He that is angry with his Brother rashly or calls his Brother Raca or gives him evil names shall be in danger of Iudgement and he that saith thou fool shall be in danger of hell fire or he that but looks upon a woman to lust after her hath committed Adultery with her already in his heart Mat. 5.28 Gal. 3.24 that Law was his School-master to bring him unto Christ and the Law so expounded by Christ convincing his conscience and so accusing him of sin that he could finde no rest or peace in his soul 2. The spirit of Christ by the promising part of the Word the Gospel of grace drawing him unto Christ Acts 13.48 Mat. 11.28 29. wrought faith in his soul enabled him to believe and imbrace Christ to receive and rest on Christ as he is All-sufficient and alone Redeemer and then he found rest in the arms of his Saviour and did know that Christ had communicated life of grace to his soul Quest 18. Sir have you known none in a different manner converted unto Christ Ans Yes truly to answer your relation I remember one acquainted me with the manner of his life and told me of his conversation I was saith he Mr. M. of London first a Souldier beyond Sea and got money and outward riches but I had gotten no life of grace in my soul Then I came into England and was a Courtier and encreased my riches but I gained no grace at Court nor life of grace to my soul Then I turned Merchant in the city and gained a place in custome for a great Merchandize and increased my gold and silver by trading but I gained no life of grace for my soul till in the time of the great Plague I fled the city for fear of infection and in the country though I took great store of gold and silver with me yet I was in danger to perish for want of provision no one would come near me for fear of the Plague nor suffer me to stir out of doors so that in a straight I began to think there was a great God who could starve me in the midst of gold Gen. 42.16 Iam. 4.16 2 King 7.19 20. Acts 16.29 5.42 Phil. ●3 7 c. of heaps or bags or take my life in a night and what was my gold and silver to me and I went back to London like the affrighted Iaylor not knowing what to do and I heard a Minister of the Gospel Preach Christ and the Doctrine of Gods Free-grace in Christ so sweetly that the spirit of God wrought faith in my soul drew me in to imbrace Christ to count all but dung for Christ and so I gained the life of grace more of value then all the gold and silver in the world And thus you may see how God is pleased to work divers wayes in the conversion of sinners Acts 2.36 c. 9.4 5. 16.14 Ioh. 3.1 and communicating the life of grace to their souls as we finde evidence in the Scriptures in Peters tears the Eunuch Paul Lydia and the Iaylor and others some wrought upon by the spirit of Christ in one way some in another but which way soever it pleaseth God to give grace that soul that findes and feels this life of grace to be nourished may assuredly approach with boldnesse and comfort to the Table of the Lord. Quest 19. But Sir Psal 116.11 Isa 50.10 Psal 51.8 c. Isa 63.17 Psal 77.7 c. I have heard a friend of mine complain that although in time past she thought she had the life of grace in her soul and she found divers evidences of her conversion felt joy and comfort in Christ with hungring desire and rejoycing to meet Christ in his Word Sacrament and other Ordinances and although she felt sweet refreshment from Christ in them yet now she walks in darknesse and seeth no light she findes hardnesse of heart and deadnesse of spirit to prayer or any spiritual duty she is forgetful of good cannot remember Gods Word full of fears and doubtings that she is none of Gods Elect she is subject to fearful temptations against God and Christ and the Gospel and Ministers as if false Preachers yea to speak against Gods Government or think strange thoughts of God and that God hath hardned her heart and his mercy is gone from her for ever And because she seeth so many divisions even amongst those whom she hath esteemed to be Saints she is ready to cast off all and to think it is in vain for her to meet Christ in the Word or in the Sacraments judging her case desperate and in a sad condition she findes such decay of grace in her soul What counsel I pray you is to be given to her Or what comfort or means of comfort in Christ that she may be revived and the life of grace revived in her and she filled again with longings after Christ that so she may meet Christ again with comfort at the Lords Table Ans I have satisfied this doubt and answered these cases of conscience at large out of Gods Word in a Sermon which I Preached at Pauls Crosse London Printed by G. Fayrbead 1617. called The true way of a Christian to the new Jerusalem but I believe it is difficult to be gotten in print therefore I will acquaint you with the brief resolutions of these and such like cases of conscience by which some christians in the like temptations have found comfort and it may be with Gods blessing they may be profitable for your friend The twenty sixth Classis or Company of Questions 1 Question I Shall be right glad to hear of any comfort for my friends Now what I pray you are the causes wherefore the Lord somtimes suffers these doubtings and these temptations to disquiet his children Ans There are divers occasions why the Lord withdraweth the beams of his graces from his own people and leaveth them as it were to themselves for a time of many take a few which follow 1. Isa 57.16 c. Psal 31.1 c. It may be for some sin for which the soul is not humbled so God doth it for humiliation that the soul may see more need of Christ both for Iustification and Sanctification Psal 77.2 c. 1 Pet. 5.8