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The confession of faith, of the Reformed Churches in the Netherlands with the formes which they use ... translated out of Dutch into English.; Belgic confession. English
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Brès, Guy de, 1522-1567.
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Wing C5784; ESTC R12576
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your selves respectfully towards those who provide for you be thankfull towards them and murmure not follow Christ for the food of your soules and not for the loaves Hee who hath stolen or beene burdensome to his neighbour steale no more but worke with his hands that hee may give to those who are in want If yee doe this every one that which belongs to him yee shall receive of the Lord the wages of righteousnesse But seeing wee are not able of our selves to doe this let us call upon the Name of our God. O Lord God Heavenly Father wee thanke thee that for the better edification of thy Church thou hast beene pleased to ordaine with the Ministers of the Word Rulers and Helpers by whom thy Church may bee kept in peace and prosperity and the poore bee maintained and that thou hast given us into this place men of good testimonies who are furnished with thy Spirit Wee beseech thee give unto them more and more such giftes as are necessary for them in their ministrations the gift of Wisedome of Courage of Discretion and of Goodnesse that so each of them may carry himselfe aright in his Office the Elders in taking a carefull oversight of the doctrine of life in keeping out of the Sheepefold of Christ all wolves and in reprooving and admonishing all persons who are goeing astray In like manner the Deacons in a diligent receiving and free and prudent distributing of the almes to the poore and in comforting of the same with thy holy Word Give grace both to the Elders and Deacons that they may persevere in their faithfull labour and not shrincke or grow weary through any trouble or paine or love of the world Graunt also thy speciall grace to this people over whom they are set that they may submit themselves willingly to the good exhortations of the Elders counting them worthy of hounor for their Office sake graunt to the Rich liberall hearts towards the poore and to the poore thanckfull hearts towards those who are helpefull to them and serve them that so every one carrying himselfe aright in his Office thy holy Name may bee magnified and the Kingdome of thy Sonne Jesus Christ enlarged in whose name wee conclude our Prayer with that forme of Prayer which hee hath taught us Our Father c. FORME For the Confirmation of Marriage before the Church SEeing that married Persons are by reason of sinne subject to many miseries and crosses to the end that you N and you N who desire heere openly to have your marriage-bond confirmed in the Name of God before his Church may bee assured in your heart of the assistance of God in your crosses therefore hearken out of the Word of God how honourable the married estate is and that it is an ordinance of God which is pleasing to him therefore also will hee blesse and assist married persons according to his promise on the contrary punish the whoremongers and adulterers First therefore yee shall know that God our Father after hee had created the Heaven the Earth and all that is therein hath also created man after his Image that hee might be Lord over all the beasts of the Field the fishes in the Sea and the birds of the Aire and after hee had created man hee sayd It is not good that man should bee alone I will make him a helpe meet for him and the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam and hee slept and hee tooke one of his Ribbs and closed up the flesh instead thereof and the Ribb which the Lord God had taken from Man made hee a woman and brought her unto the Man. And Adam said This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh shee shall bee called Woman because shee was taken of Man therefore shall a man leave his Father and his Mother and shall cleave unto his Wyfe and they twaine shall be one flesh Therefore yee are not to doubt but the maried estate doth please the Lord God for he hath made Adam his wife brought her unto him and given her to him to be his wife thereby wittnessing that hee to this day doth bring as with his hands to every man his wife for this cause also the Lord Jesus Christ hath honoured this estate with his presence giftes and miracles in Cana of Galite shewing thereby that the married estate is to bee kept honourably and that hee will assist the maried persons yea then when they least of all are thinking upon it But that yee may live godly in this estate you must know the reasons wherefore God hath instituted the same The first Reason is that each other faithfully assist one another in all things that belong to this life and a better Secondly that they bring up the children which they shall get in the true knowledge and feare of God to his glory and their salvation Thirdly that each of them avoiding all uncleannesse and lusts may live with a good and quiet conscience For to avoyd fornication let every man have his owne wife and every wife her owne husband insomuch that all who are come to their yeares and have not the gift of continence are bound by the Command of God to enter into the married estate with knowledge and consent of Parents or Tutors and Friends that so the Temple of God which is our body may not bee defiled for whosoever defileth the Temple of God him shall God destroy Next you are to know how each is to carry himselfe towards the other according to the Word of God. First you who are the Husband shall know that God hath set you to bee the head of your wife that you according to your ability shall lead her with discretion instructing comforting protecting her as the head rules the body yea as Christ is the head wisedome consolation and assistence to his Church besides you are to love your wise as Christ hath loved his Church you shall not be bitter against her but dwell with her as a man of understanding giving honour to the wife as the weaker vessell considering that yee are joynt heires of the grace of life that your prayers bee not hindered And seeing it is Gods Command that the man shall eate his bread in the sweat of his face therefore you are to labour diligently and faithfully in the calling wherein God hath for you that you may maintaine your houshold honestly and likewise have some thing to give to the poore In like manner shall you who are the wife know how you are to carry your selfe towards your husband according to the Word of God You are to love your lawfull Husband to honour and feare him as also to be obedient unto him in all lawfull things as to your Lord as the body is obedient to the head and the Church to Christ You shall not exercise any dominion over your Husband but be silent for Adam was first created and then Eve to be an helpe to Adam and after the
fall God said to Eve and in her to all women Your will shall bee subject to your Husband you shall not resist this ordinance of God but bee obedient to the Word of God and follow the examples of Godly women who trusted in God and were subject to their Husbands as Sara was obedient to her Husband calling him her Lord You shall also bee an helpe to your Husband in all good and lawfull things looking to your family and walke in all honesty and vertue without worldly pride that you may give an example to others of modesty Wherefore you N. and you N. having now understood that God hath instituted Marriage and what hee commands you therein are yee willing thus to carry your selves in this holy estate as you heere doe confesse before this Christian assembly and are desirous that you be confirmed in the same Answer Yea. Whereupon the Minister shall say to the Assembly I take you all who are met heere to witnesses that there is brought no lawfull impediment Further to the married persons Seeing then it is fit that you be furthered in this your worke the Lord God confirme your purpose which hee hath given you and your beginning be in the Name of the Lord who made Heaven and Earth Heereupon they shall joyne hands together and the Minister speake first to the Bridegroome N. Doe you acknowledge heere before God and this his holy Church that you have taken and doe take to your lawfull wife N. heere present promising her never to forsake her to love her faithfully to maintaine her as a faithfull and pious Husband is bound to doe to his lawfull wife that you will live holily with her keeping faith and trueth to her in all things according to the Holy Gospell Answer Yea. Afterwards to the Bride N. Doe you acknowledge heere before God and his holy Church that you have taken and doe take to your lawfull Husband N. promising to be obedient to him to serve and assist him never to forsake him to live holily with him keeping faith and trueth to him in all things as a pious and faithfull wife is bound to her Husband according to the Holy Gospell Answer Yea. Then the Minister shall say The Father of mercies who hath called you out of his mercy to this holy estate of Marriage knit you together with true love and faithfulnesse and give you his holy blessings Amen Hearken now how firme this bond of Marriage is as Matth. describes it Chap. 19. Vers 3.4.5.6.7.8.9 The Pharisees came unto Christ tempting him and saying unto him Is it lawfull for a man to put away his wife for every cause and Hee answered and said unto them Have yee not read that hee which made them at the beginning made them Male and Female and said For this cause shall a Man leave Father and Mother and shall cleave to his Wife and they twaine shall be one flesh wherefore they are no more twaine but one flesh What therefore God hath joyned together let no man put a sunder They sayd unto him Why did Moses then command to give a Writing of divorcement and to put her away Hee said unto them Moses because of the hardnesse of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives but from the beginning it was not so and I say unto you whosoever shall put away his wife except it bee for fornication and shall marry an other committeth adultery and who so marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery Afterwards shall the Minister command the married persons to kneele downe and exhort the Church to pray for them ALmighty God who shewest thy power and goodnesse in all thy workes and ordinances who hast sayd from the beginning that it is not good that Man should bee alone and for that cause hast made a helpe meet for him and hast ordained that these two should bee one who also doest punish all uncleanesse wee beseech thee seeing thou hast called these two persons to the State of Marriage and knit them together that thou wilt give unto them thy holy Spirit that they may live holily together with a true and firme faith according to thy holy Name and set themselves against all manner of sinne Blesse them O Lord as thou blessest those faithfull Fathers thy friends and Servants Abraham Isaack and Jacob that being partakers of that Covenant which thou confirmest to those thy Servants they may beget holy Children and educate them in a godly manner to the honour of thy holy Name to the edification of thy Church and propagation of the Gospell Heare us Father of all mercyes through Jesus Christ thy deare Sonne our Lord and Saviour in whose name wee pray further Our Father c. Hearken now unto the promise which God made in the 128 Psalm Blessed is hee who feareth the Lord and walketh in his wayes for thou shalt eat the labor of thine hands happy shalt thou be and it shall be wel with thee Thy wife shall be as a fruitfull Vine by the sides of thine house thy Children like olive-plants round about thy Table Behold thus shall the man be blessed that feareth the Lord the Lord shall blesse thee out of Zion and thou shalt see the good of Jerusalem all the dayes of thy life yea thou shalt see thy childrens children and peace upon Israël Our blessed Lord God fulfill your hearts with his grace and graunt that yee may live long together in all piety and holinesse AMEN