by Children and more oft in their vices then vertues by how much in humane things the bad exceeds the good therefore timely and diligent heed must be prepared against them that so the Cokatrice and subtill Serpent may be killed betime broken in the egg before it shew a deceitfull countenance lest the dissembling Wolfe having gotten a Sheeps cloathing deceive the innocent Lambs and bring them unawares into his slaughterhouse of destruction Nunc adhibe pure Pectore verba puer nunc te melioribus offer Quo semel est imbuta recens servabit odorem Testa diu Horat. Now Childe in the white paper of thy breast Write Vertue now such Precepts from the best A Pot well seasoned holds the primitive taste A long time after 2 Chron. 34.3 For while he was yet young he began to seek after the God of David his father Psal 119.9 Wherewithall shall a young man clense his way by taking heed thereto according to thy word Prov. 1.4 To give subtilty to the simple to the young man knowledge and discretion Prov. 3.6 In all thy wayes acknowledge him aad he shall direct thy pathes Psal 5.3 My voice shalt thou hear in the morning O Lord in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee and will look up Isa 45.13 I have raised him up in righteousnesse and I will direct all his wayes Jer. 10.23 O Lord I know that the way of man is not in himself it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps Psal 36.9 For with thee is the fountaine of life in thy light shall we see light Rev. 7.17 For the Lambe that is in the midst of the throne shall feed them and lead them unto living fountaines of water and God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes Phil. 4.8 If there be any vertue think of these things 2. Pet. 1.3 According to his Divine power he hath given to us all things that pertain to this life and godlinesse through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and vertue Ver. 5. Add to faith vertue and to vertue knowledge Ver. 6. To knowledge temperance and to temperance patience and to patience godlinesse and to godlinesse brotherly kindnesse Luk. 10.42 Mary hath chosen the good part which shall not be taken from her Luk. 10.42 Mary hath chosen the good part which shall not be taken from her Joh. 6.27 Labour not for the meat that perisheth but for that meat which endureth unto everlasting life Prov. 11.28 He that trusteth in his riches shall fall Matth. 23.6 The Scribes and Pharises love the uppermost rooms and chief seats Ver. 7. And greetings in the market-place and to be called of men Rabbi Ver. 12. Whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted Matth. 25.48 But if the evill servant shall say in his heart my Lord delayes his coming Ver. 49. And shall begin to smite his fellow-servants and to eat and drink with the drunken the Lord of that servant shall cut him in sunder Rom. 7.23 But I see another Law in my members warring against the Law of my minde Neh. 9.37 They have dominion over our bodies and over our cattell at their pleasures and we are in great distrasse Prov. 12.21 There shall no evill happen to the just but the wicked shall be killed with mischief Eccl. 12.13 Fear God and keep his Commandements for this is the whole duty of man Eph. 5.19 Quench not the spirit Psal 119.16 I made haste and delayed not to keep thy Commandements Rev. 3.20 Behold I stand at the door and knock if any man hear my voice and open the door I will come in to him and will sup with him and he with me Prov. 1.24 25 26. But because I have called and ye refused I have stretched out my hand and no man regarded but ye have set at nought all my counsell and would none of my reproof I also will laugh at your calamity and mock when your fear cometh Prov. 4.7 Wisdome is the principall thing therefore get wisdome and with all thy gettings get understanding Eccl. 7.8 The patient in spirit is better then the proud in spirit 2 Cor. 11.2 For I am jealous over you with a a godly jealousie for I have espoused you to one husband that I may present you as a chast vergin to Christ Psal 51.12 O Lord uphold me with thy free spirit And 143.10 Teach me to doe thy will for thou art my God Thy spirit is good lead me into the land of uprightnesse Prov. 16.32 He that ruleth his spirit is better then he that taketh the City And 20.27 The spirit of a man is the candle of the Lord searching all the inward prrts of the blly Psal 22.20 The meek shall eat and be satisfied And 25.9 The meek will he guide in judgement and the meeke will he teach his way Phil. 2.8 And being found in fashion of a man he humbled himself and became obedient unto death even the death of the crosse Jer. 9.3 But they are not valiant for the truth upon the earth for they proceed from evill to evill and they know not me saith the Lord. Psal 60.12 Through God we will doe valiantly for he it is that shall tread down our enemies 1 Thes 5.6 Let us not sleep as doe others but let us watch and be sober And ver 8. Let us that be of the day be sober putting on the brest-plate of faith and love and for a helmet the hope of salvation Col. 4.6 Let your speech be alwayes with grace seasoned with salt that ye may know how you ought to answer every man Eccl. 10.10 Wisdome is profitable to direct And 9.16 Wisdome is better then strength And v. 18. Wisdome is better then weapons of warre but one sinner destroyeth much good INfancy and Childhood being passed like the red Sea and the wildernesse the next and third Age is called Youth like passing over Jordan and therein is temperance to be carefully planted This is a dangerous and a difficult passage and our guide herein must be supernaturall it is not humane light that can direct us in this way it must be a coal taken from the Altar and a Candle enlightned at the holy Lampe that must protect us in this voyage here we must take and endear unto us the living fountain of life to curb the threatning floods of death here Vertues shew your strength or vice will soon prevail and conquer here you must wage a war with Epicures and other vain professors that in vain glorious pastimes talk of Vertues and make them handmaids to their vitious pleasures whereas no true pleasure is without them for that is not Vertue which waiteth on delight the chiefest place is hers and she it is that must lead command and be obeyed Take great heed of being bond-slave to delight for all is vain where Vertue hath no place Vertue only giveth perpetuall and assured joy although there be some obstacles
we are very apt to desire change and not to be content with a providentiall disposement as also to think our own and present condition to be very ill or the worst that may be prayer humility true devotion the uncertainty of life the certainty of death the mercy and justice of God with fervent and constant meditation and practice herein may by the mercy of God make an Eunuch for the kingdom of Heavens sake but if it be that it is better for thee to marry then to burn take along with thee these advisements from a Father which if thou well observe by Gods assistance therein thou maist doe well I cannot make them absolute for that there is nothing so bad but some I will praise thee for I am wonderfully made marvelous are thy works O Lord. Psal 139.14 All reason tell 's mee as the Creatures doe Wee haue a maker and redeemer too Though conquering time doth make mee rott Yet shall I liue when time is not Man is but chang'd for man and till his death Like changeing sand still changes for beneath good may be extracted from it not any thing so good but secundary causes may produce evill by it yet some things are so near the producing a necessity to evill that I wish thee take heed how thou touchest pitch least thou be defiled study what thou art and know what thou maist be before thou hast passed these ten Ages then suite the uncorrupted desires and appetites of thy soul in a woman before she be thy wise least after it be too late know well her nature inclination education parentage private devotion and ordinary imployment that after knowledge doe not trouble thee My first advice to thee is not to marry except thy best friends counsell and wish thee to it before twenty years of age in a woman and twenty five in a man about which time by Gods grace thou maist have a little knowledge of good and evill Secondly let not money beauty or friends be the greatest inducement to thy choice for these things all fade and so thy due affection may also fail but choose such a one as may cheerfully walk with thee in Christ to Christ and in that walk thou maist finde a true and lasting refreshment Thirdly be very circumspect how thou marriest one that before was married it may doe well but I can give no encouragement to it for it seemes as good for thee to make thy partner as for another to make thy house whereby we commonly avoid great losse but alwaies great hazard Fourthly it is good to choose equality in parentage and proportion in some reasonable measure and if greater then thy proportion in these be offered search narrowly least there be a Serpent in the grass least these adorne the Owner and not the Owner these Fiftly endeavour thy living in some wholesome ayre where by the blessing of God thou maist probably have health in thy family Sixtly let thy partner be of a strong and healthy habit of body for that a sickly constitution endangereth the losse both of estate and affection Seventhly having made thy choice and providence having therin determined and finished his appointment do thou as the admired Bee that takes honey out of sower herbs and let nothing be so bitter to thee that thou shouldest not convert it to some good use moving thee to true Christian contentment and do thou joyfully delight thy self in all the providences of God towards thee especially when thou seest his pleasure so fully determined and concluded hate all desire to change increase and nourish all good honest and contented inclinations and besure to subdue hate and and avoide all appearances of evill murmuring or dislike of thy choice and know that we are all here but in our journey the way of our pilgrymage which soe it leade to Heaven happy is that passage for the seas are rough through which we must saile to eternall Peace or not attaine it Now a word or two concerning chastity or continency because it is very difficult and must have a carefull and painefull guard for it is no easie matter wholly to resist nature which herein is strong and ardent but the more obstinate the enemy the more commendable the conquest To be truely chast out of due obedience to the commands of God is alike Vertue laudable in men as women Now because this is a violent passion and deceitfull we must arm our selves against it and be wary to discover its baits and the more it flattereth us the more to distrust it it would willingly imbrace us to strangle us pamper us with honey to glut us with gall Unchast incontinency hath many great inconveniencies and dangers it consumes the body and as some say effeminates the soul weakens the spirit and that many by giving way thereto have lost both lives fortunes and spirits and it doth appear true that there is more pleasure in vanquishing pleasure then in possessing it the best of earthly things oft breeds repentance but the worst alwayes There are many kindes and degrees of chastity continency and incontinency of which the conjugall continency is a chief and principall it must be kept and retained within the chast breast of that party whom almighty God hath disposed of in marriage for our companion and whosoever doth otherwise violates his or her own body by the Law of God which commands chastity therein by the Law of nature which forbids that to be common which is proper to one and imposes upon faith and constancy by the Law of nations and by the Law of Justice equity and right which if we violate and offend the justice of heaven must justly punish us Heb. 13.4 Whoremongers and adulterers God will judge Isa 65.21 And they shall build houses and inhabit them and they shall plant vineyards and eat the fruit of them Luk. 6.44 Every tree is known by his fruit for of thorns men doe not gather figgs nor of a bramble bush gather they grapes 1 Chron. 28.7 I will establish his Kingdome for ever if he be constant to doe my Commandements and my judgments 1 Sam. 2.3 The Lord is a God of knowledge and by him actions are weighed Matth. 5.44 45. But I say unto you love your enemies blesse them that curse you doe good to them that hate you and pray for them that dispightfully use you and persecute you that ye may be the children of your Father which is in Heaven for he maketh his Sunne to rise on the evill and on the good and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust Gal. 6.9 Let us not be weary of well doing Rev. 1.10 Be thou faithfull unto death and I will give thee the Crown of life 2 Pet. 1.5 Giving all diligence add to your faith vertue and to your vertue knowledge Ver. 6. To knowledge temporance to temporance patience to patience godlinesse Ver. 7. To godlinesse brotherly kindnesse to brotherly kindnesse charity Ver. 8. For if these be in
which are as foggy mists which never surmount the Sunne to obtain this no labour is too great nor any pains too high a price to make us thus affected true worth is to be well composed unto Vertue all that is honourably performed one only Vertue doth it although it be by advice and counsell for there is an inseperable society of all Vertues when any endures affliction constantly Where with shall a young man cleanse his way by taking heed thereto according to thy word Psal 119.9 When strength and health like to the loaded glass Are fall at height remember they must pass Since like this head thy head must bee Hate pride and loue humilitye Noe pas-time needs times steede is passing fleete Time present and time past each moment greete stantly perhaps he imployes all his Vertues although but one discovereth it self at hand which is his Patience Vertue is that which properly belongs to a wise man and cannot be taken from him bloudy Tyrants have no power over this those goods are true and only worthy our serious endeavours to obtain which cannot be taken from us as for riches honour precious-stones gold silver epicures feasts and such like they are but earthly burdens which a sincere minde and such as is not forgetfull of his nature cannot love because nature spiritualized is alwayes light and will mount as high as heaven as soon as it sees the gate open in the mean while as farre as these bonds of the body and masse of the flesh which environeth the same will permit upon the wings of a sudden and swift thought it visiteth and vieweth celestiall things and examineth both time past and that which is to come whereas this frail body the fetters and gives of the soul is tossed hither and thither punishments thefts and sicknesses are exercised upon it but a vertuous minde is sacred and eternall and wicked hands cannot lay hold to hurt it Endeavour to obtain and keep thy self very close to all kinde of Vertue which the holy Spirit shall upon any occasion dart into thy minde and take great heed thou quench not the holy Spirit in thee by sleighting neglecting refusing or delaying to make good use of the good motions thereof for doubtlesse lesse all men have at one time or other offers and opportunities of grace which if he make no good use of his damnation is surely just I will in this place only name and particularize some choice Vertues which I admonish you diligently to labour for and I will but name them as it were because I purpose God willing to discourse more fully of them hereafter The first is Wisdome which teaches all duty to thy Maker thy self and thy neighbour this is a principall thing therefore get wisdome and above all thy gettings get understanding then get Patience which conquereth the world and fits thee to receive all the sweet corrections of thy Maker with joy and comfort remember the patience of Job and the sweet and pleasant fruits thereof Then get Chastity whereby thy body and minde will be a fit Tabernacle for the holy Ghost to dwell in and in the power of the holy Spirit subdue naturall corruption to the blessed Law and rules of true piety and religion Next Meeknesse Moses was the meekest man upon the earth saith the Text Numb 12.3 Matth. 5.5 Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth and see his favour with almighty God Then Humility O remember how our blessed Saviour humbled himself for our salvation therefore there is no true Christian without true humility Next get Fortitude and true valour but be sure thy cause be religious right and good Then Sobriety and watchfullnesse especially over thy self and therein shew thy true fortitude and valour in conquering and controuling thy naturall passions subjecting them to the upright rules of reason and religion here is great use and need of temperance lest heady and self-conceited youth think and presume to run before he can goe Temperance gives a sweet rellish and seasoning to all the vertues and it is perpetually required in controversies and contestations trouble and divisions this vertue bridles pleasant things that deceive the senses and by serious consideration takes the good of things obdurate As true Fortitude is a spur in adversity so Temperance is a bridle in prosperity with these two we may subdue our passions and carry our selves wisely in all accidents which is a high point of wisdome This is the bridle of the soul and hereby we wean it from the sweet milk of the pleasures of this world and maketh it fit for better nourishment which heaven direct us in for the good mercy thereof Amen Numb 21.3 And the Lord hearkned to the voice of Israel and delivered up the Canaanites and they utterly destroyed them and their Cities Eccl. 8.11 Because sentence against an evill work is not executed speedily therefore the hearts of the sonnes of men are fully set in them to doe evill And Chap. 9. ver 3. Also the hearts of the sonnes of men are full of evill and madnesse is in their hearts while they live Prov. 8.12 I wisdome dwell with prudence 2 Chron. 2.12 Blessed be the Lord God of Israel that made heaven and earth who hath given to David the King a wise sonne endued with prudence and understanding Prov. 23.12 Apply thy heart to instruction and thy ears to the words of knowledge And 4.24 Keep thy heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life 2 Cor. 8.12 For if there be a willing minde it is accepted according to what a man hath and not according to that he hath not Prov. 23.19 Hear thou my sonne and be wise and guide thy heart in the way Psal 73.24 Thou shalt guid me with thy counsell and afterwards receive me into glory Isa 2.5 O house of Jacob come ye let us walk in the house of the Lord. Isa 1.18 Come now let us reason together saith the Lord. Prov. 19.11 The discretion of a man deferreth his anger and it is his glory to passe over a transgression And 27.4 Wrath is cruell anger is outragious Eccl. 7.9 Anger resteth in the bosome of fools Prov. 16.32 He that is slow to anger is better then the mighty and he that ruleth his spirit then he that taketh a City And 29.1 He that being often reproved hardneth his neck shall suddenly be destroyed and that without remedy Psal 34.12 What man is he that desireth life and loveth many dayes that he may see good Ver. 13. Keep thy tongue from evill and thy lips that they speak no guile Ver. 14. Depart from evill and doe good seek peace and ensue it Eccl. 7.12 The excellency of knowledge is that wisdome giveth life to them that have it Prov. 12.28 In the way of righteousnesse there is life and in the path-way thereof there is no death Josh 1.8 This book of the Law shall not depart out of thy mouth but thou shalt meditate therein
be at all allowed it must be without sinne Be angry but sinne not and then surely it must be very short the Sunne must not goe down upon it Anger is a high degree of madnesse and therefore unfits a man wholly to act any businesse in it it is only good when with thy self for the committing of sinne from which there is some hopes of thy repentance with care for the future to avoid it Anger unfits a man either to defend himself or offend his enemy it doth disarm us as it were and lay us open to all attempts against us therefore have a speciall care to govern thy passions and keep thy self in a constant setled way in thy affections that so no chance or accident may attempt thee unprovided or unfortified with strong reason and wisdome to oppose and resist it passion sets a false glosse upon a businesse and maketh him seem guilty whom moderation and perfect reason would clearly excuse Murmur not neither be angry at any affliction in this life but blesse almighty God that it is no sharper unto thee considering the great deserts of thy infinite transgressions remember if thou make right use of it that it is a sign and mark of the love of God to thee and be thou truly penitent humble and thankfull for it for why should a sinfull man complaine of a man for the punishment of his sinnes but rather in all humble obedience love and thankfullnesse lift up thy heart with thy hands unto God in the heavens That thou mayest avoid the occasion of much anger and passion set a watch over thy lips and a strict restraint to thy tongue use not many words for that can hardly be without sinne especially take heed of cursing swearing blaspheming lying c. and love not to relate fabulous and vain jests for they are commonly as near a lye as complements to hypocrisie and dissimulation which is a gilded untruth to make it passe the better Two things it s said never wax old in a man which without a carefull watch draw the whole body into sinne that is the heart and the tongue the heart alwayes imagining new things and the tongue is swift to utter them especially whilst thou art young keep much silence for that will prevent much repentance imprison thy tongue or it will imprison thee set a restraint unto it for it may be an evill enemy to thee Some say a lyar is only good to reveale secrets unto for that no man that knowes him will beleeve his relation Some say he which knowes not how to dissemble knowes not how to live but dissembling then must be taken only for not speaking all the truth at all times which in some sense may be esteemed dissembling but I conceive a man may so dissemble without blame if he wisely order his discourse whatsoever thou sayest or doest perform it from a pure and right principle in true performance of filiall obedience so highly due unto our God and not out of any respect to man other then in promoting in thy neighbour all good and preventing in him any appearance of evill that by thy evill example thou be not accessory to thy neighbours sinne Now to speak a little of fortitude which is a rare vertue and produceth much worthy praise and commendation if rightly used but may be abused as other good vertues to much losse and dammage it s said of Prudence and Justice that they govern a man in company but Fortitude and Temperance govern a man in private and alone All accidents in this life may be comprehended under prosperity and adversity the former guideth in adversity the latter in prosperity and these two vertues may wholly be comprised and understood by this word Constancy which is a right and equall stayednesse of minde in all accidents and outward things whereby he is not puffed up in prosperity nor dejected in adversity Now Fortitude or Vertue in the generall and vulgar understanding of the words is exercised wholly in opposition and in subduing all things under it contemning all terrible things and if abused brings faire liberty into bondage Military valour is commonly much different from true fortitude we finde this valour in the ordinary sense common in beasts but true Fortitude is only to be found in Wisdome many attain Valour by use institution example or custome though they be of base and slavish mindes without any tincture of vertue or true fortitude which is farre from an inconsiderate temerity or bruitish stupidity for vertue cannot be without knowledge and true fortitude is a stayed minde grounded upon the duty honesty and justice of the enterprise which never ceaseth untill it overcome for that it is a quality of the minde not of the body not of the limbes but of true courage in the heart and will whereby it is truly sound for not the conflict but the cause sheweth valour in which much wisdome and discretion must be shewed in the execution and all lawfull meanes used to avoid an approaching danger true fortitude is both a director and a protector therefore most necessary to be obtained although it cost both pay and pains Fortior est qui se quam qui fortissima vincit Mania Psal 1.1 2 7. Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsell of the ungodly nor standeth in the way of sinners nor sitteth in the seat of the scornfull but his delight is in the Law of the Lord and therein doth meditate day and night He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of waters that bringeth forth her fruit in season Jer. 17.7 Blessed is the man that trusteth in the Lord and whose hope the Lord is Ver. 8. He shall be as a tree planted by the waters that spreadeth out her roots by the rivers Psal 7.10 My defence is of God which saveth the upright in heart And 59.9 God is my defence And 16. I will sing of thy power yea I will sing aloud of thy mercies in the morning for thou hast been my defence and refuge in the day of my trouble Rev. 3.2 Be watchfull and strengthen the things which remain that are ready to die for I have not found thy works perfect before God Mark 13.33 Take yee heed watch and pray for ye know not when the time is Psal 51.12 Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation and uphold me with thy free spirit And 143.10 Teach me to doe thy will for thou art my God thy spirit is good lead me into the land of uprightnesse Neh. 9.20 Thou gavest also thy good spirit to instruct them 1 Thes 5.19 Quench not the spirit 1 Joh. 4.1 2 3. Believe not every spirit but try the spirits whether they are of God because many false prophets are gone out into the world Hereby know ye the Spirit of God every spirit that confesseth that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is of God and every spirit that confesseth not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is
you and abound they will make you that you shall neither be barren nor unfruitfull in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ Ver. 9. But he that lacketh these things is blinde 1 Joh. â— 15 Love not the world nor the things of the world if any man love the world the love of the Father is not in him Prov. 14.14 The backslider in heart shall be filled with his own wayes and a good man shall be satufied from himself Psal 34. from the 10th to the end The young Lyons doe lack and suffer hunger but they that fear the Lord shall not want any thing that is good Come my children hearken unto me I will teach you the fear of the Lord. What man is he that desirech life and loveth many dayes that he may see good Keep thy tongue from evill and thy lippes that they speake no guâ—l Depart from evill and doe good seek peace and ensue it The eyes of the Lord are upon the righteous and his ears are open to their cry The face of the Lord is against them that doe evill to cut off the remembrance of them from the earth The righteous cry and the Lord heareth and delivereth them out of all their troubles The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit Many are the afflictions of the righteous but the Lord delivereth him out of them all He keepeth all his bones not one of them is broken Evill shall slay the wicked and they that hate the righteous shall be desolate The Lord redeemeth the souls of his servants and none of them that trust in him shall be desolate Prov. 14.15 16. The simple beleeveth every word but the prudent man looketh well to his goings A wise man feareth and departeth from evill but the fool rageth and is confident Eccl. 12.13 Fear God and keep his Commandements for this is the whole duty of man Ver. 14. For God shall bring every work into judgment with every secret thing whether it be good or whether it be evill NOw we have by the mercy of God obtained a fruitfull plantation in this promised Land let us plant in it good and wholesome fruit for men do not gather grapes of thorns nor figgs of thistles Here we may proceed in the sixth Age of our Life and third ascent of our Manhood under the notion of constant Action and hereby our duty is by all means to endeavour the good of all the heavens lead us to this by shining upon all without hopes of gain or requitall shewing thereby the duty of a good man to his neighbour to be constantly conversant in some good employment of the body minde or both is a very lively branch of true vertue which keeps a man unvanquished and is not subject to pleasures and hath its reward in it self Vertue doth alone bring forth solid joy and only enables a man to bear all the changes and chances of this life with comfort and doe you rightly consider all the branches that proceed from this root and you will finde that they are firmly united with linkes unseparable as all the branches of a tree have but one root to nourish them so all the Vertues have but one principall foundation which is the doing all things out of true obedience to the service and commands of almighty God therefore is true Vertue most highly to be aspired unto Wisdome is a true branch of it which makes a man rightly to understand the nature use and property of all things and counteth nothing evill but vice which it is alwaies sufficiently fortified against and cannot enter there Teach mee o lord the way of thy statutes and I shall keepe it vnto the end Psal 119.33 Take heede of wasting time for when it 's spent There 's noe redemption from the great Judgment Vaine wretched pride beholde within thy sight Is death or dayes falce pleasure or delight My dayly dying freinds that take theire flight At highest noone bid mee remember night where vertue and honesty dwelleth if injury be the sufferance of some evill and a wise man cannot suffer evill then there is no evill that appertains to a wise man every injury is a diminution of him to whom it is offered and no man may receive injury without some detriment either in good-Name body or goods but a wise man can loose nothing he hath all his goods inclosed with the enjoyment of true vertue as for other things he useth them as borrowed and what man is so much moved at the losse of what is not his own but if injury can attempt nothing which is proper to a wise man because the whole is conserved by his vertue it must follow that a wise man cannot be injured because he sets not his heart upon earthly things as if they were his own knowing that the possession of all those things that abound externally is slippery and un-assured plant then plentifully in the vineyard of Vertue and be thou a flourishing branch of this blessed root so thou shalt relieve others with thy pleasant fruits without diminishing of thy own store and plenty prosperity shall not puff thee up nor adversity deject thee true goods are never subject to moth rust and canker neither can thieves break through and steal them heavenly riches shall have a heavenly reward and earthly changes cannot approach their dwelling Wisdome will advise thee to be very carefull how thou dost ingage thy self either by word or action especially amongst a croud with a multituâ—e in a warre a civill warre against a Prince a present power rather fly such a flame if any conveniency will permit avoid the fire while fury is fierce let it passe thee for violent things are seldome permanent I cannot shew you a certain way to avoid the dangers that time and chance may bring upon you or upon your country in your generations for outward things true vertue and inward treasure must secure you it must be wisdome that heavenly gift obtained by true and hearty prayer and humble obedience that must guide your feet in the way of peace that peace which the world the flesh the devill cannot deprive us of which the God of Heaven grant us all for his mercies sake Amen Into thy hands I commit my spirit thou hast redeemed it or lord God of truth Psal 31.5 If wee a blest Creatoure and a saviour haue Our duty is to worke and faith to craue Vnto my mother earth I am now gon Vntill the morning resurrection As quickly as the Sand falls to his place Soe sudden is the change of humane race Gen. 2.8 And the Lord God planted a garden eastward in Eden and there he put the man whom he had formed Ver. 15. And the Lord God took the man and put him into the garden of Eden to dresse it and to keep it Prov. 20.18 Every purpose is established by counsell and with good advice make warre And 24.6 For by wise
holyness and pyetye My dryed bones doe not despise For I expect a call to rise Life 's gone on th' one side on th' other it run's fast Life's time that 's present death is time that 's past thereof which surely tends to the salvation of our souls therefore although our souls be properly us yet while we are in the body our bodies as may be said had need watch over them or more properly over themselves for that the sinne of the body destroyes the soul Now because this watch may be rightly ordered let us consider some of those particulars it is to be set over and first let us begin this watch over our wills because the greatest part of those impieties heresies and errors in our faith and religion is sprung from our wicked and corrupt wills from a violent and voluptuous passion which afterward draweth unto it the understanding it self this is a main wheel in all our actions and if it be evill then it is the chief enemy that commands against us whose Officers and assistants in this warfare against us we may mention afterwards in some particulars But first to the Will Imagination opinion and will is the guide or foot of the vulgar as reason is of the wise and prudent and men are tormented by the opinion they have of things and not by the things themselves Will is a great part of the reasonable soul of very great concernment and it principally behooves us to study how to order it and set a watch upon it for that thereupon dependeth almost our whole estate of happinesse this is truly ours at our command Understanding memory imagination and the like may be taken from us changed and annoyed with many accidents and yet the will remain at our dispose he that hath parted with and given away his will is no more his own man by this we are made good or evill and that will is only excellent where goodnesse and vertue lodgeth not he that knowes good things but he that wills and in a right understanding desires them is good and vertuous The will is happy that loveth God and to will evill things is wicked In the next place set a watch over thy eyes thy ears thy tongue these are three most dangerous and desperate enemies if left at liberty but if well kept to strict command and order the most serviceable souldiers in all the muster the abused and common eye is moved with the present object but a wise foresight considereth the matter The ear is a principall agent to the understanding and by the well ordering of it saving faith is obtained speech is the messenger of the heart and interpreter of the soul and is chiefly ordained to edifie and instruct to salvation it doth discover our mentall secrets and men judge very much by it One said well Speak that I may see thee that is know thy heart like golden Apples in pictures of silver so are words spoken in due season But because our duty is in all our waies to have a constant watch over our selves we will endeavour to mention some few more of those particulars we are to watch over First Over all vain idle and ambitious desires and thoughts they are by nature innumerable in us Ambition is a folly and a vanity like catching of smoake instead of light the shadow instead of the body it is to fasten contentment upon the opinion of the vulgar voluntarily to renounce ones own liberty to follow the passions of others to displease ones self for the pleasure of the beholders to let our own affections depend on the eyes of others and so farre to love vertue as may like the vulgar to doe good not for love of good but reputation this is either to be filled with nothing but winde or else to be empty Ambition hath no limits it 's a gulf without brink or bottome fire that increaseth by it's own nourishment it is it 's own punishment and excecutioner and is only just in that True humility is a chief Embleme of honour the higher the Sunne is the lesser shadow it maketh the greater the vertue is the lesse glory it seeketh Commonly honour is truly compared to a shadow which follows those that flie it and flieth those that follow it Let us receive our charge modestly and exercise it sincerely knowing that almighty God hath placed us to stand centinell that others may rest in safety under our care Parchment-honour or by descent onely without desert is shamefull and ignoble it is greater honour not to have the mark having deserved it than to have it it is more honourable to be asked why thy statue is not set up in the market-place than why it is it is not the honour commonly given of Princes to their subjects who give it most oft to them that deserve it least and can give that shadow neither but upon that little ground and that little ground and those few hearts they command whereby it becomes a shame and reproach to those that have it that almighty God seems actually to guide or very favourably to allow but true wisdome is true honour and thereby we honour aright our neighbour and our God and therefore to attain this wisdome ought to be our care and study Let thy watch likewise take heed of covetousnesse and prodigality to love or affect riches with too much care to get or keep them is covetousnesse for they are not worthy our earnest care and attention the desire of goods and our pleasure in them is only opinion what we necessarily use not are a burthen Covetousnes is a wrong estimation and use of riches it is a passion that respecteth riches as the principall good of a man and feareth poverty as the greatest evill nature hath placed it under us and we esteem it above our selves it is ordained to supply necessity and we covet it without occasion Prodigality is the contrary passion and it is likewise very vitious for in despising or misusing the gift we doe the same to the giver to spend prodigally is to refuse the means to doe well to fling away the staff and then complain because we fall he that hath the least Talent hath least burthen least account yet take heed for the least must be accounted for and therefore not misused nor rejected Psal 107.36 37. And there he maketh the hungry to dwell that they may prepare a City for habitation and sow the fields and plant vineyards which may yeeld fruit of increase Ezek. 28.26 And they shall dwell safely therein and shall build houses and plant vineyards yea they shall dwell with confidence when I have executed judgments upon all them that despise them round about them and they shall know that I am the Lord their God Isa 11.2 3 4. And the spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him the spirit of wisdome and understanding the spirit of counsell and might the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the Lord and shall
sight This rock of comfort rightly built upon is not impeach't by any battering storme It 's still the same in its salvation though with the world it 's desolate forlorne This lightens darknesse perfumes the dungeons foule feels not the tortures of the Tyrants rage It 's food in pinings cherisheth the soule in strangest torments where they tyranage What 's scorching heat what 's icy freezing cold what 's wildernesse or banishing from home What 's boilings scaldings torments manifold what 's all we comprehend by martyrdome If I but know that I am not my own But my Creatours and it is most right That he dispose for ever reason 's showne I must submit to his most perfect sight That sees what 's only good unto my soul to fit it for eternall Paradice And only orders what without controule doth onely fit my soule for sacred blisse Which if once known welcome the swiftest speed that brings me tydings of the blest decree That these sharp scourges are no more then 's need and after death my ever blisse is free Then cast me from most towring rocks amongst fair Neptune's poudred locks And let my next remove be set within the Ocean's Cabinet Or place me on the Lybean plaine which raging windes to wrath constraine Or let my habitation be in depth of black obscurity Or if the thirsty wretch for blood must torture me to meit's good More wrong for good we here endure the more is our salvation sure Well suffering wrong is surely blest with promise of eternall rest This promise fails not know you this Yea and Amen this promise is If I could knowingly but see how all things work the best for me And if I were to perfect love converted then I should not move Though Neptune's foaming wave did burn though mountains over mountains turn Though humble valleys should deride the lofty hills in seeming pride Though man unto his neighâ—our be as raging wolves in tyranny Though foaming floods usurp the place of Ceres with her wonted grace Though Neptune Juno Vulcan's flames part Tellus from her Comely Dames Though flaming Meteors joyn their force with warlike furious language hoarse Though lyes and home-bred foes take place and have the power of my disgrace Though civill warres and forraigne might take from my life all earths delight Though plagues and famine sinnes desert my comforts to distresse subvert Though my Creators love correct and for my sinnes my soul deject Yet while my God is all and chief I have my peace I have relief A Discourse Shewing Honour dangerous Earthly things empty Order of Estate and Family Education of Children The golden mean What tends to eternall happinesse onely good A competency the best Great Estates have great troubles Our Saviour refused earthly Treasure Disposall of Estate in life or Death Respect the Righteous Duty in using the Creatures They exceed in sense we in reason Some liberty from necessity Titles of Honour unprofitable Court Honour is rarely Vertues character TItles of Honour usually proceed from vain glory and doe much advantage the design of flatterers thereby they breathe their fond deceit knowing this winde rests onely in the fame of others and of it self is onely profitable to them that have it not many evill effects proceed from it as pride covetousnesse c. but one of the best effects therefrom that I know is the reproving a fool by his folly thereby shewing him how little I am profited or he prejudiced by my superiority of going before him but rather that I have inconvenience and danger thereby This gilded Apple most deceives their vain and shallow judgements who love to spend their precious time in visits and excesse but with the wise in their constant necessary and solid imployments it is little or nothing worth Earthly things empty I advise you not to be too solicitous for the outward profits or pleasures of this life for if thou doe obtain them thou shalt finde them in use beyond expectation empty Order Live soberly under and within the compasse of your Estate in your Family if the Almighty give you any and keep them in constant duty once a day at least in publike prayer together and in private advise them all to use it twice every day at least Education Bring up your Children if God shall give you any in learning and education suitable to the severall Portions you are able to give them and so order them that they may have no idle time and as little as may be for vain imployments Avoid idleness and vanity Be sure neither to live thy self nor bring up your Children above your present Estate for that almost enforceth to pride and then covetousnesse must maintain for observe one vice is alwayes borne up by another and so also is Vertue although they may seem to intermix they very seldome or never doe A mean necessary Love the golden mean in all earthly things use this present world as if thou used it not and so endeavour to order and teach thy family that your great joy may be from your hopefull assurance to live together in eternall happinesse for the fashion of this world vanisheth away and there is nothing good or worth desiring That onely good which tends to eternall happiness but what tends to the good of our eternity or at least not to the hurt thereof and nothing can be evill that tends to our eternall peace Selah A competency the best A competency of earthly things is the request of Agur's prayer What a competency is under the true notion of neither poverty nor riches is to be resolved I conceive that whatsoever doth or may preserve and satisfie nature is a competency What it is and in that sense is almost every mans present estate wherewith he ought according to right and justice to be content But if I be asked what in my opinion a sussicient competency is in England for a Person of quality to live handsomely upon What in England I conceive 500lb or 1000lb per Annum to be sufficient from well ordering of it to have many opportunities to give almighty God much honour and thereby to doe much good to men and I am sure a great account must be made of so great a Talent Great Estates cause great sorrow What is there from such vast Estates as vain and unsatisfied desires wish for but great care both in getting and keeping of them They have more servants more diet more vain-glory and more trouble and sorrow therewith but what is there more usually for the almighty giver surely very little and often nothing save cause of anger for the bad ordering or misusing of it which if not in time repented of causeth and will produce a certain and eternall destruction Our Saviours portion Then love the Golden mean the competent easie load and Talent which being wisely ordered with honest care and industry may give thee more true and lasting comfort then any excesse in earthly things
unpreparednesse Parents must chiefly take care of their Childrens soule and principle them in good Love of and in the truth most necessary p. 3. The endowments of the minde excell the adornments of the body A heavenly Deity to be acknowledged Wherein true Religion consisteth p. 4. The benefit of true Religion How Almighty God must be served A pure and true Sacrifice p. 5. Outward Ceremonies not to be contemned nor abused Submission is our duty in prayer A ask nothing contrary to the revealed will of Almighty God p. 6. Use not the Name of God without serious premeditation His Name is holy All honour is due unto it p. 7. The good of necessity and of correction p. 8. Corrections work to good or hurt Labour to be a good Text-man p. 9. In what sense Gods servants want nothing that is good but have their hearts desire p. 10. Search not over curiously into the misteries of the Almighty Take heed of infecting thy judgment with false doctrine Be not weary of well-doing Vain-glory hath at best but a worldly reward p. 11. It shall onely be well with the righteous p. 12. The first Age. The three chief destinguished Ages of mans life Infancy like the Red sea p. 13. Let not time passe in vaine p. 14. Death holds all our years in possession therefore fasten on to day Losse of time considered a great grief He that hath lived long hath often lived little Life is onely time spent with prudence and circumspection p. 15. Death is alwayes very nigh at hand p. 16. The second Age. What the action of this Age is Of what materials foundations ought to be p. 17. Learn not what must be unlearned Observing others changes fits us for our own Fly offences Corrupted nature first offereth corruption p. 18. How Tutors and Fathers of Children ought to be disposed p. 19. The third Age. Temperance necessary Passing Jorden dangerous The chiefest place is vertue The society of vertues inseparable p. 20. Vertues cannot be taken from us Earthly vanities may Quench not the spirit p. 21. A recitall of certain Vertues p. 22. The fourth Age. Wisdome and right reason necessary Prudence and humility are especiall guides to the mine Anger an enemy to reason The designes of reason and anger different Wisdome distinguisheth us from the beasts The properties of Wisdome The company and advice of wise men profitable 24 25. From Almighty Gods forbearance learn patience An honest Calling very necessary It must not hinder devotion A Souldiers life and calling very dangerous p. 26. The fift Age. Marriage dangerous Means that may make an Eunuch p. 28. Some directions in marriage p. 29. Chastity in both Sexes like laudable The inconveniences of incontinency p. 30. 31. The sixth Age. Endeavour the common good Vertue to be desired p. 32. Wise men set not their hearts on earthly things Prosperity pusseth not them up nor adversity casts them down Engage not in a croud nor in Civil warre p. 33 34. The seaventh Age. Fortitude gravity and consideration is required Wisdome is the Candle of the Lord. A wise foresight necessary p. 35. Anger a high degree of madnesse Anger onely good against thy own oversights Complements commonly guilded untruths The heart and tongue are said never to wax old Lies are abominable p. 36 37. Fortitude or valeur What difference betwixt military valour and true fortitude p. 38 39. The eighth Age. A carefull watch over our selves at all times most necessary p. 40. Over what this watch is chiefly needfull Will the guide of the vulgar Reason of the prudent Ambition full of vanity and is onely just in its own punishment Humility the true embleme of Honour p. 41 42 43 43 44 45. The ninth Age. Sound judgement and justice what Justice not to be executed by the lump p. 46. Punishment and reward the hands of justice It must begin at home as well as Charity Live not by chance We may live both seriously and chearfully Defer not justice to thy self not buying till the market be past The happy life What the right use of the creature Sound judgement what Rashnesse and self-conceitednesse what p. 47 48 49. The tenth Age. True wisdome what The practicall part chiefly profits Wisdome three wayes discovered Wisdome doth peaceably attend all things even death As necessary for a man to study and know himself as it is naturall to him to think and be near himself Know thy self is a heavenly salutation Want hereof causeth much sinne One just act maketh not a just man p. 50 51 52 53. Wisdome subdueth passion Three traps that the most are taken with No limit in what is false No happinesse without subduing corrupted desires p. 54. The multitude unconstant They praise things past desire things to come and despise things present Severall things to beware of p. 55 50 57. Wisdome governs good and subdues evill How to carry our selves in company Three considerations Beware of flatterers Marks to know them from friends p. 58 59. Beware of suretyship Of all excesse Beware of chusing friends Of Suits and of revenge p. 60. A constant preparednesse for death most necessary p. 61. The too late repentance of the wicked after death p. 63. A generall Discourse of Religion p. 66. Reason The ten Ages The Metaphor p. 71. Humility p. 72. Why Sinne is forbidden and Righteousnesse commanded p. 73. The Life and Death of E.M. p. 74 75. A Speech to the Soul p. 75 76. Civil Warre p. 77. Demeanour Upon severall Accidents and Occasions p. 78. The Resolve p. 82. A Discourse shewing Honour dangerous Earthly things empty Order of Estate and Family Education of Children The Golden mean What tends to Eternall happinesse onely good A competency the best Great Estates have great troubles Our Saviour refused earthly treasures Disposall of Estate in life or death Respect the righteous Duty in using the Creatures They exceed in Sence we in Reason Some liberty from necessity p. 84. Severall comforts from Scripture both in life and death p. 87. Against Presumption and Despair at all times but especially upon the death-bed Satans suggestions and the Souls answer p. 107. True Love p. 110. A Prayer p. 112. A Confession and suit for pardon in Jesus p. 114. A Prayer p. 117. Pious Sentences JOB Chap. 24. in Meeter p. 121. My God Righteous Hope p. 122. Wise Sayings of the Ancients p. 126. For the mortification of the flesh p. 133. The sweetest Comfort p. 140. Of worldly rest On L.M.W. dying in Childe-bed p. 142. For L.M.W. in sicknesse p. 143. The least that tends to Eternall good unestimable p. 144. A Consult with the Soul p. 145. The Offring p. 155. The Belief p. 156. The Farewell p. 158. A Catechisme p. 160. A Discourse betwixt Adam and Eve p. 167. A Prayer p. 168. The Blessing p. 172. There are divers words mistaken misplaced mispelled added and omitted some of which I here mention the Readers care must reform the rest PAge 38. line 29. for vertue read valour p. 56. l. 13. for propriety r. piety and l. 36. for at r. all p. 67. l. 13. for sleiget r. sleight p. 71. l. 17. for health r. wealth p. 73. l. 22. for wreakes r. reckes and l. 28. for yet r. that p. 74. l. 13. for be r. tree p. 75. l. 11. for see r. so and l. 27. for maketh r. masketh p. 82. l. 4. for beauty will r. cenâ—ynill p. 84. l. 10. for their r. the. p. 109. l. 29. for if then I had not sinned r. if that I had not fallen p. 121. l. 37. for tombe or r. toom'ye p. 124. l. 18. for curaces r. cutaces p. 130. l. 8. for gapde r. garde r. garde and l. 22. for soy r. foy p. 138. l. 26 for enime r. enim p. 142. l. 32 for share r. steare p. 143. l. 1. for houre r. home l. 4. for then r. their l. 31. for shew r. chere p. 145. l. 40. for jarre r. ire p. 146. l. 12 and l. 13. should change places p. 150. l. 14. for both r. what p. 158. l. 9. for roote r. rocke p. 168. l. 41. for distruction r. distraction FINIS