point_n which_o be_v 1._o the_o order_n 4._o the_o quality_n thereof_o 2._o the_o truth_n 5._o the_o quantity_n  _fw-fr 3_o the_o cause_n 6._o the_o continuance_n  _fw-fr i._n for_o the_o order_n christ_n begin_v to_o love_v his_o church_n he_o mafe_v his_o love_n to_o she_o before_o she_o love_v he_o as_o the_o air_n heat_v by_o the_o sun_n be_v hot_a and_o a_o wall_n on_o which_o the_o sunbeam_n smite_v give_v a_o reflection_n of_o heat_n back_o again_o so_o the_o church_n as_o it_o be_v heat_v and_o warm_v at_o heart_n by_o the_o sense_n of_o christ_n love_n love_v he_o as_o the_o apostle_n express_o note_v we_o love_v he_o 19_o because_o he_o love_v we_o first_o and_o the_o church_n herself_o acknowledge_v say_v because_o of_o the_o savour_n of_o thy_o good_a ointment_n 2._o wherewith_o we_o be_v reviue_v and_o cheer_v the_o virgin_n love_v thou_o there_o be_v in_o we_o by_o nature_n no_o spark_n of_o love_n at_o all_o if_o christ_n 〈◊〉_d by_o his_o love_a of_o we_o first_o do_v 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a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o seem_v harsh_a and_o a_o careful_a performance_n thereof_o a_o heavy_a burden_n never_o shall_v they_o partake_v of_o christ_n love_n that_o in_o their_o place_n â—ew_a themselves_o so_o unlike_a to_o christ_n §._o 63._o of_o the_o truth_n truth_n of_o husband_n love_n ii_o the_o truth_n of_o christ_n love_n be_v manifest_v by_o the_o fruit_n thereof_o to_o his_o church_n he_o give_v himself_o for_o it_o it_o be_v therefore_o not_o in_o word_n only_o no_o nor_o only_o in_o heart_n but_o in_o deed_n also_o thus_o his_o love_n prove_v profitable_a and_o beneficial_a to_o his_o church_n which_o thereby_o be_v cleanse_v and_o make_v a_o glorious_a 27._o church_n have_v he_o only_o bear_v a_o tender_a compassion_n and_o pitiful_a affection_n towards_o it_o or_o labour_v only_o with_o comfortable_a and_o sweet_a word_n to_o uphold_v and_o succour_v it_o it_o have_v still_o lie_v pollute_v with_o sin_n in_o the_o power_n of_o the_o devil_n and_o under_o god_n 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ground_n s._n peter_n say_v the_o promise_n be_v unto_o 39_o you_o &_o unto_o your_o child_n &_o s._n paul_n say_v your_o child_n be_v holy_a 14._o shall_v all_o these_o privilege_n be_v make_v void_a by_o a_o inevitable_a want_n 5._o of_o baptism_n if_o so_o will_v god_n have_v enjoin_v circumcision_n which_o to_o the_o jew_n be_v as_o baptism_n be_v to_o christian_n to_o be_v put_v off_o to_o the_o eight_o day_n before_o which_o day_n many_o infant_n die_v or_o will_v moses_n have_v suffer_v it_o to_o be_v forbear_v all_o the_o time_n that_o the_o israelite_n be_v in_o the_o wilderness_n if_o it_o be_v say_v that_o baptism_n be_v more_o necessary_a than_o circumcision_n i_o answer_v the_o scripture_n lay_v no_o more_o necessity_n upon_o it_o if_o it_o be_v so_o necessary_a as_o they_o make_v it_o than_o the_o virtue_n of_o christ_n death_n be_v less_o effectual_a since_o he_o be_v actual_o exhibit_v then_o before_o for_o before_o it_o be_v effectual_a for_o infant_n without_o a_o 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to_o all_o parent_n and_o child_n master_n and_o servant_n concern_v their_o duty_n §._o 95._o of_o every_o one_o look_v to_o his_o own_o duty_n especial_o in_o the_o forename_a application_n a_o eye_n must_v be_v have_v rather_o to_o the_o duty_n which_o we_o owe_v and_o aught_o to_o be_v perform_v by_o we_o to_o other_o then_o to_o that_o which_o be_v due_a to_o we_o and_o other_o ought_v to_o perform_v to_o we_o for_o the_o apostle_n say_v not_o to_o the_o husband_n see_v that_o thy_o wife_n reverence_v thou_o but_o see_v that_o thou_o love_v she_o so_o to_o the_o wife_n for_o this_o purpose_n the_o holy_a ghost_n press_v particular_a duty_n upon_o those_o particular_a person_n who_o ought_v to_o perform_v they_o as_o subjection_n on_o wife_n love_v on_o husband_n and_o so_o in_o other_o this_o therefore_o be_v especial_o to_o be_v consider_v of_o thou_o how_o thou_o 11._o may_v show_v thyself_o blameless_a i_o deny_v not_o but_o that_o one_o ought_v to_o provoke_v another_o and_o 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duty_n lie_v principal_o upon_o the_o mother_n who_o so_o soon_o as_o she_o perceive_v a_o child_n to_o be_v conceive_v in_o her_o womb_n aught_o to_o have_v a_o especial_a care_n thereof_o that_o so_o much_o as_o in_o she_o lie_v the_o child_n may_v be_v safe_o bring_v forth_o 7._o the_o heathen_a philosophen_n by_o light_n of_o nature_n observe_v this_o to_o be_v a_o duty_n and_o prescribe_v it_o to_o mother_n a_o mother_n than_o must_v have_v a_o tender_a care_n over_o herself_o when_o she_o be_v with_o child_n for_o the_o child_n be_v lodge_v in_o she_o and_o receive_v nourishment_n from_o she_o as_o plant_n from_o the_o earth_n her_o well-being_n tend_v much_o to_o the_o good_a and_o safety_n of_o the_o child_n but_o the_o hurt_n that_o come_v to_o she_o make_v the_o child_n the_o worse_o if_o it_o be_v not_o a_o mean_n to_o destroy_v it_o why_o be_v the_o charge_n of_o 4._o abstain_v from_o wine_n strong_a drink_n and_o unclean_a thing_n give_v to_o manoahs_n wife_n but_o 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by_o just_a consequence_n imply_v that_o it_o be_v a_o bind_a duty_n in_o other_o place_n it_o do_v express_o commend_v it_o by_o the_o practice_n of_o holy_a woman_n and_o again_o in_o other_o place_n it_o take_v it_o for_o a_o grant_v truth_n and_o rule_v case_n not_o to_o be_v deny_v 1._o the_o consequence_n whereby_o the_o word_n imply_v this_o duty_n be_v these_o 1._o in_o the_o blessing_n give_v to_o joseph_n thus_o speak_v old_a jaakob_n god_n shall_v bless_v thou_o with_o the_o blessing_n of_o the_o breast_n and_o of_o the_o 25._o womb_n by_o the_o blessing_n of_o the_o womb_n what_o can_v be_v mean_v but_o child_n by_o the_o blessing_n of_o the_o breast_n what_o but_o milk_n whereby_o those_o child_n be_v nourish_v as_o