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a_o great_a evidence_n of_o love_n can_v not_o be_v give_v for_o great_a love_n have_v no_o man_n then_o this_o that_o a_o man_n 13._o lie_v down_o his_o life_n for_o his_o friend_n the_o end_n of_o christ_n love_n set_v forth_o vers_fw-la 26_o 27._o be_v note_v to_o show_v that_o he_o so_o love_v his_o church_n for_o her_o good_a and_o happiness_n rather_o than_o for_o any_o advantage_n to_o himself_o as_o this_o example_n of_o christ_n love_n to_o his_o church_n be_v set_v before_o husband_n so_o it_o may_v and_o ought_v also_o to_o be_v apply_v to_o all_o christian_n and_o that_o in_o a_o double_a respect_n 1._o as_o a_o motive_n to_o stir_v they_o up_o to_o love_v both_o christ_n himself_o and_o also_o their_o brethren_n 2._o as_o a_o
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not_o instill_v love_n into_o we_o we_o can_v no_o more_o love_v he_o then_o a_o live_a bird_n rise_v out_o of_o a_o cold_a egg_n if_o it_o be_v not_o keep_v warm_a by_o the_o dam_n sit_v upon_o it_o thus_o must_v a_o husband_n first_o begin_v to_o love_v his_o wife_n his_o place_n of_o eminency_n and_o authority_n require_v that_o he_o shall_v be_v to_o his_o wife_n a_o guide_n which_o title_n be_v express_o give_v to_o he_o by_o the_o holy_a 3._o ghost_n to_o teach_v he_o to_o go_v before_o she_o and_o by_o his_o example_n to_o instruct_v and_o incite_v she_o to_o do_v her_o duty_n what_o a_o shame_n will_v it_o be_v for_o a_o man_n who_o be_v the_o image_n and_o glory_n of_o god_n the_o head_n of_o his_o wife_n in_o the_o same_o place_n to_o she_o that_o christ_n be_v to_o his_o church_n to_o be_v provoke_v by_o his_o wife_n wive-like_a carriage_n she_o be_v the_o weak_a vessel_n under_o he_o to_o learn_v of_o he_o to_o love_v she_o 10._o reason_n there_o be_v to_o stir_v up_o a_o wife_n to_o endeavour_n to_o prevent_v her_o husband_n in_o do_v her_o duty_n which_o if_o she_o do_v it_o be_v the_o great_a glory_n to_o she_o but_o this_o pattern_n of_o christ_n shall_v stir_v he_o much_o more_o to_o strive_v to_o go_v before_o she_o §._o 62._o of_o husband_n repay_v unkindness_n for_o love_n contrary_a be_v their_o disposition_n who_o have_v loving_a and_o dutiful_a wife_n be_v notwithstanding_o nothing_o move_v to_o love_v they_o again_o but_o be_v as_o unkind_a and_o churlish_a as_o if_o they_o have_v the_o most_o peevish_a and_o perverse_a wife_n that_o can_v be_v but_o what_o shall_v we_o say_v of_o such_o as_o love_v their_o wife_n the_o less_o yea_o and_o hate_v they_o for_o their_o forwardness_n to_o love_n and_o in_o testimony_n of_o true_a love_n to_o perform_v all_o good_a duty_n what_o but_o that_o they_o be_v very_a devil_n â—ncarnate_a for_o it_o be_v the_o devil_n property_n to_o overcome_v good_a with_o cuill_n these_o make_v the_o doctrine_n of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o seem_v harsh_a and_o a_o careful_a performance_n thereof_o a_o heavy_a burden_n never_o shall_v they_o partake_v of_o christ_n love_n that_o in_o their_o place_n â—ew_a themselves_o so_o unlike_a to_o christ_n §._o 63._o of_o the_o truth_n truth_n of_o husband_n love_n ii_o the_o truth_n of_o christ_n love_n be_v manifest_v by_o the_o fruit_n thereof_o to_o his_o church_n he_o give_v himself_o for_o it_o it_o be_v therefore_o not_o in_o word_n only_o no_o nor_o only_o in_o heart_n but_o in_o deed_n also_o thus_o his_o love_n prove_v profitable_a and_o beneficial_a to_o his_o church_n which_o thereby_o be_v cleanse_v and_o make_v a_o glorious_a 27._o church_n have_v he_o only_o bear_v a_o tender_a compassion_n and_o pitiful_a affection_n towards_o it_o or_o labour_v only_o with_o comfortable_a and_o sweet_a word_n to_o uphold_v and_o succour_v it_o it_o have_v still_o lie_v pollute_v with_o sin_n in_o the_o power_n of_o the_o devil_n and_o under_o god_n wrath_n and_o so_o receive_v no_o profit_n and_o benefit_n at_o all_o so_o must_v husband_n love_v their_o wife_n in_o truth_n and_o in_o deed_n deed_n 18._o such_o a_o love_n be_v require_v of_o a_o man_n to_o his_o brother_n much_o more_o therefore_o to_o his_o wife_n who_o be_v not_o only_o a_o sister_n as_o 5._o the_o apostle_n express_o style_v she_o but_o near_a than_o sister_n mother_n daughter_n friend_n or_o any_o other_o whatsoever_o this_o therefore_o serve_v to_o press_v the_o practice_n of_o all_o the_o forename_a duty_n appertain_v to_o a_o husband_n §._o 64._o of_o husband_n dissimulation_n contrary_n be_v their_o dissimulation_n and_o hypocrisy_n who_o make_v great_a show_n of_o much_o love_n and_o pretence_n of_o earnest_a affection_n use_v many_o outward_a compliment_n but_o fail_v when_o they_o come_v to_o the_o true_a trial_n the_o deed_n some_o like_a suitor_n or_o wooer_n will_v promise_v mountain_n but_o not_o perform_v moul-hill_n other_o will_v coll_v and_o kiss_v their_o wife_n much_o but_o trust_v they_o with_o nothing_o nor_o provide_v for_o they_o thing_n requisite_a there_o be_v that_o will_v weep_v much_o when_o their_o wife_n be_v sick_a yet_o not_o afford_v physic_n and_o such_o like_a thing_n for_o their_o recovery_n yea_o many_o will_v carry_v a_o fair_a face_n all_o their_o life_n long_o towards_o their_o wife_n and_o at_o their_o death_n leave_v they_o nothing_o to_o live_v by_o hence_o it_o be_v that_o many_o who_o by_o other_o be_v account_v to_o be_v very_o kind_a husband_n be_v by_o their_o wife_n find_v to_o be_v far_o otherwise_o if_o trial_n be_v make_v of_o husband_n love_n by_o their_o practice_n and_o performance_n of_o the_o forename_a duty_n it_o will_v be_v find_v that_o they_o for_o the_o most_o part_n come_v as_o far_o short_a in_o love_n as_o wife_n in_o subjection_n §._o 65._o of_o the_o freeness_n of_o husband_n love_n iii_o the_o cause_n of_o christ_n love_n be_v his_o love_n as_o moses_n note_v 8._o he_o set_v his_o love_n on_o you_o because_o he_o love_v you_o his_o love_n arise_v only_o and_o whole_o from_o himself_o and_o be_v every_o way_n free_a as_o there_o be_v nothing_o in_o the_o church_n before_o christ_n love_v she_o to_o move_v he_o to_o love_v she_o so_o can_v there_o be_v nothing_o that_o he_o can_v hope_v for_o afterward_o but_o what_o himself_o bestow_v indeed_o he_o delight_v in_o that_o righteousness_n wherewith_o as_o with_o a_o glorious_a robe_n she_o be_v clothe_v and_o with_o those_o heavenly_a grace_n wherewith_o as_o with_o precious_a jewel_n she_o be_v deck_v but_o that_o righteousness_n and_o those_o grace_n be_v his_o own_o and_o of_o his_o free_a gift_n he_o present_v it_o to_o himself_o a_o glorious_a church_n free_a in_o imitation_n hereof_o husband_n shall_v love_v their_o wife_n though_o there_o be_v nothing_o in_o wife_n to_o move_v they_o so_o to_o do_v but_o only_o that_o they_o be_v their_o wife_n yea_o though_o no_o future_a benefit_n can_v after_o be_v expect_v from_o they_o true_a love_n have_v respect_n to_o the_o object_n which_o be_v love_v and_o the_o good_a it_o may_v do_v thereunto_o rather_o than_o to_o the_o subject_n which_o love_v and_o the_o good_a that_o it_o may_v receive_v for_o love_n seek_v not_o her_o own_o 5._o christ_n love_n in_o this_o branch_n thereof_o shall_v further_o move_v husband_n to_o do_v what_o lie_v in_o their_o power_n to_o make_v their_o wife_n worthy_a of_o love_n thus_o will_v it_o be_v in_o truth_n say_v that_o they_o dwell_v with_o their_o wife_n according_a to_o knowledge_n and_o thus_o will_v their_o 7._o â—ove_n appear_v to_o be_v as_o christ_n love_n free_a §._o 66._o of_o husband_n love_v for_o advantage_n contrary_n be_v their_o love_n which_o be_v only_o for_o their_o own_o content_a â—nd_n advantage_n many_o can_v love_v no_o further_o than_o they_o may_v have_v â—ome_o bait_n to_o allure_v their_o affection_n as_o beauty_n wealth_n honour_n â—r_o the_o like_a by-respect_n or_o at_o least_o hope_n of_o some_o inheritance_n or_o â—ortion_n above_o that_o which_o they_o have_v or_o of_o some_o favour_n that_o they_o expect_v from_o their_o wife_n friend_n this_o can_v be_v a_o true_a sound_a â—â—ue_n such_o a_o man_n may_v be_v think_v to_o love_v his_o wife_n beauty_n inheritance_n and_o friend_n rather_o than_o his_o wife_n this_o love_n can_v last_v §._o 67._o of_o the_o purity_n of_o husband_n love_n four_o christ_n love_n for_o the_o quality_n be_v a_o holy_a pure_a chaste_a 27._o â—â—ue_a as_o he_o himself_o be_v so_o be_v his_o love_n as_o be_v evident_a by_o the_o â—â—fect_a thereof_o for_o it_o move_v he_o to_o sanctify_v and_o cleanse_v his_o church_n to_o make_v it_o a_o glorious_a church_n without_o
pure_a cheerful_a constant_a for_o conscience_n sake_n §_o 54_o 55_o etc._n etc._n treat_n iv._o  _fw-fr particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n  _fw-fr wjsdome_n and_o love_n the_o general_a head_n of_o all_o husband_n duty_n §_o 2_o 4._o  _fw-fr 1_o acknowledgement_n of_o a_o wife_n near_o conjunction_n and_o fellowship_n with_o her_o husband_n §_o 6._o 2_o a_o good_a esteem_n of_o his_o own_o wise_a to_o be_v the_o best_a for_o he_o and_o worthy_a of_o love_n on_o his_o part_n §_o 9_o 3_o a_o inward_a entire_a affection_n §_o 11._o 4_o a_o outward_a amiable_a carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n which_o consist_v in_o a_o husband-like_a gravity_n mildness_n courteous_a acceptance_n of_o her_o courtesy_n and_o allow_v she_o to_o wear_v fit_a apparel_n §_o 4_o 15_o 22_o 40_o 49._o 5_o mild_a and_o love_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o his_o wife_n §_o 24_o 25_o 26_o etc._n etc._n 6_o a_o wise_a maintain_v his_o authority_n and_o forbear_v to_o exact_v all_o that_o be_v in_o his_o power_n §_o 4_o 18._o 7_o a_o ready_a yield_v to_o his_o wife_n request_n and_o give_v a_o general_a consent_n and_o liberty_n unto_o she_o to_o order_v the_o affair_n of_o the_o house_n child_n servant_n etc._n etc._n and_o a_o free_a allow_v she_o something_o to_o bestow_v as_o she_o see_v occasion_n §_o 18_o 54._o 8_o a_o forbearing_z to_o exact_v more_o than_o his_o wife_n be_v willing_a to_o do_v or_o to_o force_v she_o to_o dwell_v where_o it_o be_v not_o meet_v or_o to_o enjoin_v she_o to_o do_v thing_n unmeet_a in_o themselves_o or_o against_o her_o mind_n §_o 18_o 26._o 9_o a_o wise_a order_n of_o reproof_n not_o use_v it_o without_o just_a and_o weighty_a cause_n and_o then_o private_o and_o meek_o §_o 35_o 38._o 10_o a_o provident_a care_n for_o his_o wife_n according_a to_o his_o ability_n §_o 46_o 49_o 50_o 52._o 11_o a_o forbearing_z to_o exact_v any_o thing_n which_o stand_v not_o with_o a_o good_a conscience_n §_o 26._o 12_o such_o a_o love_n as_o christ_n bear_v to_o the_o church_n and_o man_n to_o himself_o which_o be_v first_o free_a in_o deed_n and_o truth_n pure_a chaste_a constant_a §_o 61_o etc._n etc._n and_o 74._o treat_n iii_o  _fw-fr aberration_n of_o wife_n from_o their_o particular_a duty_n  _fw-fr ambition_n the_o general_a ground_n of_o the_o aberration_n of_o wife_n §_o 2._o  _fw-fr 1_o a_o conceit_n that_o wife_n be_v their_o husband_n equal_n §_o 4._o 2_o a_o conceit_n that_o she_o can_v better_o subject_v herself_o to_o any_o other_o man_n then_o to_o her_o own_o husband_n §_o 6._o 3_o a_o inward_a despise_n of_o her_o husband_n §_o 8._o 4_o vnreverend_a behaviour_n towards_o her_o husband_n manifest_v by_o lightness_n sullenness_n scornfulnes_n and_o vanity_n in_o her_o attire_n §_o 9_o 10_o 11_o 12._o 5_o vnreverend_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o her_o husband_n §_o 13_o 14_o 15_o 16._o 6_o a_o stout_a stand_n on_o her_o own_o will_n §_o 17._o 7_o a_o peremptory_a undertake_n to_o do_v thing_n as_o she_o list_v without_o and_o against_o her_o husband_n consent_n this_o be_v manifest_v by_o privy_a purloin_v his_o good_n take_v allowance_n order_v child_n servant_n and_o cattle_n feast_v stranger_n make_v journey_n and_o vow_n as_o herself_o list_v §_o 42._o 8_o a_o obstinate_a stand_n upon_o her_o own_o will_n make_v her_o husband_n dwell_v where_o she_o will_v and_o refuse_v to_o go_v when_o he_o call_v or_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n upon_o his_o command_n §_o 44_o 45_o 46_o 67._o 9_o disdain_n at_o reproof_n give_v word_n for_o word_n and_o wax_v worse_o for_o be_v reprove_v §_o 47_o 48._o 10_o discontent_n at_o her_o husband_n estate_n §_o 50._o 11_o such_o a_o please_a of_o her_o husband_n as_o offend_v christ_n §_o 53._o 12_o such_o a_o subjection_n as_o be_v most_o unlike_a to_o the_o church_n viz._n feign_a force_a fickle_a etc._n etc._n §_o 56_o etc._n etc._n treat_n iv._o  _fw-fr aberration_n of_o husband_n from_o their_o particular_a duty_n  _fw-fr want_n of_o wisdom_n and_o love_n the_o general_a ground_n of_o the_o aberration_n of_o husband_n §_o 3_o 5._o  _fw-fr 1_o too_o mean_a account_n of_o wife_n §_o 8._o 2_o a_o preposterous_a conceit_n of_o his_o own_o wife_n to_o be_v the_o worst_a of_o all_o and_o that_o he_o can_v love_v any_o but_o she_o §_o 10._o 3_o a_o stoical_a disposition_n without_o all_o heat_n of_o affection_n §_o 12._o 4_o a_o unbeseeming_a carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n manifest_v by_o his_o baseness_n tyrannical_a usage_n of_o she_o loftiness_n harshness_n and_o niggardliness_n §_o 5_o 15_o 17_o 41_o 44_o 53._o 5_o harsh_a proud_a and_o bitter_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o his_o wife_n §_o 24_o 25_o 30_o 32_o 36_o 39_o 6_o lose_v of_o his_o authority_n §_o 5._o 7_o too_o much_o strictness_n over_o his_o wife_n this_o be_v manifest_v by_o restrain_v she_o from_o do_v any_o thing_n without_o particular_a and_o express_a consent_n take_v too_o strict_a account_n of_o she_o and_o allow_v she_o no_o more_o than_o be_v needful_a for_o her_o own_o private_a use_n §_o 19_o 55._o 8_o too_o lordly_a a_o stand_n upon_o the_o high_a step_n of_o his_o authority_n be_v too_o frequent_a insolent_a and_o peremptory_a in_o command_a thing_n frivolous_a unmeet_a and_o against_o his_o wife_n mind_n and_o conscience_n §_o 30_o 32._o 9_o rashness_n and_o bitterness_n in_o reprove_v and_o that_o too_o frequent_o on_o slight_a occasion_n and_o disgraceful_o before_o child_n servant_n and_o stranger_n §_o 36_o 38_o 39_o 10_o a_o careless_a neglect_n of_o his_o wife_n and_o niggardly_a deal_n with_o she_o and_o that_o in_o her_o weakness_n §_o 46_o 51_o 53_o 11_o a_o command_a of_o unlawful_a thing_n §_o 26_o 30_o 32._o 12_o such_o a_o disposition_n as_o be_v most_o unlike_a to_o christ_n and_o to_o that_o which_o a_o man_n bear_v to_o himself_o viz._n complemental_a impure_a for_o by-respect_n unconstant_a etc._n etc._n §_o 62_o etc._n etc._n and_o 74._o a_o table_n of_o the_o several_a point_n handle_v in_o the_o eight_o treatise_n of_o domestical_a duty_n i._o treatise_n a_o exposition_n of_o that_o part_n of_o scripture_n out_o of_o which_o domestical_a duty_n be_v raise_v §_o 1_o of_o the_o apostle_n transition_n from_o general_a duty_n to_o particular_n pag._n 1_o 2_o of_o join_v service_n to_o man_n with_o praise_v of_o god_n 2_o 3_o of_o every_o one_o submit_v himself_o to_o another_o 4_o 4_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n 8_o 5_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n move_v we_o to_o do_v service_n to_o man_n 11_o 6_o of_o limit_v all_o duty_n to_o man_n within_o the_o compass_n of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n 13_o 7_o of_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o particular_a calling_n 16_o 8_o of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o private_a function_n in_o a_o family_n 17_o 9_o of_o the_o apostle_n order_n in_o lay_v down_o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o the_o first_o place_n 20_o 10_o of_o the_o apostle_n order_n in_o set_v down_o inferior_n duty_n in_o the_o first_o place_n 21_o 11_o of_o the_o reason_n why_o wife_n duty_n be_v first_o teach_v 25_o 12_o of_o wife_n subjection_n 26_o 13_o of_o the_o person_n to_o who_o wife_n must_v be_v subject_a 27_o 14_o how_o a_o husband_n be_v his_o wife_n head_n 29_o 15_o of_o the_o resemblance_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o christ_n 30_o 16_o of_o the_o resemblance_n betwixt_o the_o church_n to_o christ_n 31_o a_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n  _fw-fr  _fw-fr 17_o of_o the_o relation_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n 32_o 18_o of_o the_o benefit_n of_o christ_n headship_n 34_o 19_o of_o christ_n a_o sufficient_a saviour_n 35_o 20_o of_o christ_n the_o only_a saviour_n 36_o 21_o of_o the_o church_n the_o body_n of_o christ_n 38_o 22_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o christ_n goodness_n to_o all_o his_o body_n 38_o 23_o of_o the_o restraint_n of_o the_o benefit_n of_o christ_n headship_n to_o they_o only_o that_o be_v of_o his_o body_n 40_o 24_o of_o the_o church_n subjection_n to_o christ_n 41_o 25_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o the_o church_n subjection_n 42_o 26_o of_o the_o sum_n of_o husband_n duty_n 43_o 27_o of_o the_o example_n of_o christ_n love_n 44_o 28_o of_o christ_n give_v himself_o 46_o 29_o of_o the_o willingness_n of_o christ_n to_o die_v 47_o 30_o of_o the_o kind_n of_o christ_n death_n and_o oblation_n 48_o 31_o of_o the_o infinite_a value_n of_o the_o price_n of_o our_o redemption_n 48_o 32_o of_o christ_n seek_v the_o good_a of_o the_o church_n 50_o 33_o of_o the_o particular_a end_n why_o christ_n give_v himself_o and_o of_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o church_n before_o christ_n take_v she_o 51_o 34_o of_o christ_n prevent_v grace_n 54_o 35_o of_o christ_n seek_v to_o make_v his_o church_n pure_a 55_o 36_o of_o
reproof_n mat._n 18._o 15._o direction_n for_o reprove_v a_o wife_n who_o offence_n be_v public_a 4._o reprove_v gentle_o pro._n 25._o 15._o a_o reproof_n may_v be_v sharp_a not_o bitter_a gen._n 30._o 2._o job_n 2._o 10._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 21_o 22._o rebuke_v never_o to_o be_v give_v by_o a_o man_n in_o passion_n mat._n 6._o 22._o rebuke_v to_o be_v put_v off_o while_o a_o wife_n be_v in_o passion_n 1_o sam._n 20._o 30._o 1_o sam._n 20._o 32._o 32._o treat_n 3._o §._o 10._o a_o husband_n carriage_n must_v be_v mild_a 1._o a_o mild_a countenance_n gen._n 33._o 10._o psal_n 4._o 6._o gen._n 4._o 6._o gen._n 31._o 2._o contrary_n 1._o a_o lofty_a brow_n 2._o a_o grim_a look_n 3._o a_o frown_a forehead_n 4._o a_o fiery_a eye_n 2._o mild_a geslure_n object_n gen._n 26._o 8._o answ_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 4_o 5._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 4._o vipera_fw-la virus_fw-la ob_fw-la venerationem_fw-la nuptiarum_fw-la evomit_fw-la et_fw-la tu_fw-la duritiem_fw-la animi_fw-la tuferitatem_fw-la tu_fw-la crudelitatem_fw-la ob_fw-la unionis_fw-la reverentiam_fw-la non_fw-la deponis_fw-la basil_n hexaem_n hom_n 7._o ambr._n hexaem_n l._n 5._o c._n 7._o urget_fw-la hanc_fw-la ipsam_fw-la similitudinem_fw-la huiusmodi_fw-la virum_fw-la siquidem_fw-la vir_fw-la appellandus_fw-la est_fw-la potius_fw-la quam_fw-la fera_fw-fr &_o patricidae_fw-la &_o matricidae_fw-la similem_fw-la dixeris_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o a_o husband_n may_v not_o beat_v his_o wife_n reason_n 1._o no_o warrant_n in_o the_o word_n word_n §._o 4._o 2._o small_a disparity_n summa_fw-la iniuria_fw-la est_fw-la aquavitae_fw-la sociam_fw-la &_o in_o rebus_fw-la necessarijs_fw-la tibi_fw-la coniunctam_fw-la taquà m_fw-la mancipium_fw-la ignominia_fw-la affioere_n chrys_n ibid._n 3._o near_o conjunction_n conjunction_n eph._n 5._o 31._o 31._o 1_o king_n 18._o 28._o 28._o mar._n 5._o 5._o eph._n 5._o 30._o mat._n 28._o 18._o 4._o no_o profit_n much_o mischief_n adhibitis_fw-la verberibus_fw-la morbus_fw-la non_fw-la tollitur_fw-la sed_fw-la augetur_fw-la &_o exasperatur_fw-la melch._n jun._n quaest_n polit._n par_fw-fr 2._o nullum_fw-la sit_fw-la tam_fw-la magnum_fw-la peccatum_fw-la quod_fw-la ad_fw-la verberandum_fw-la vxorem_fw-la compellat_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o sedefendendo_fw-la gal._n 6._o 2._o considera_fw-la mulierem_fw-la debile_a vas_fw-la esse_fw-la tu_fw-la autem_fw-la vir_fw-la propterea_fw-la princeps_fw-la factus_fw-la es_fw-la ut_fw-la subditae_fw-la feras_fw-la imbecillitatem_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o direction_n to_o husband_n for_o bear_v with_o their_o wife_n infirmity_n neque_fw-la saram_fw-la tanquam_fw-la sterilem_fw-la contempsit_fw-la abraham_n nâ—que_fw-la quicquam_fw-la tale_n exprobavit_fw-la si_fw-mi uxor_fw-la pauper_fw-la sit_fw-la noli_fw-la exprobare_fw-la &_o si_fw-la stulta_fw-la noli_fw-la ei_fw-la insultare_fw-la ibid._n uxor_fw-la iracunda_fw-la etc._n etc._n admonenda_fw-la &_o adiuvanda_fw-la consilio_fw-la &_o omni_fw-la conatu_fw-la anniten_v dum_o ut_fw-la illis_fw-la liberetur_fw-la affectibus_fw-la ibid._n 1_o sam._n 1._o 8._o gen._n 21._o 14._o prou._n 19_o 11._o eccl_n 7._o 23._o gen._n 30._o 1._o 2_o etc._n etc._n reason_n best_a trial_n of_o a_o man_n wisdom_n &_o love_n matth._n 5._o 46._o luk._n 6._o 32_o 33._o eph._n 5._o 23._o 23._o treat_n 1._o §._o 15._o &_o treat_n 3._o §._o 73._o 1._o provide_v thing_n needful_a 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 17._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 8._o recordare_fw-la quòd_fw-la pater_fw-la uxoris_fw-la tamquam_fw-la depositum_fw-la quoddam_fw-la filiam_fw-la tibi_fw-la tradidit_fw-la &_o omnibus_fw-la relictis_fw-la matre_fw-la domo_fw-la &_o seipso_fw-la omnem_fw-la eius_fw-la curam_fw-la tuus_fw-la dexterae_fw-la commisit_fw-la chrys_n hon_fw-mi 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o contrary_a to_o take_v a_o wife_n only_o for_o himself_o pro._n 18._o 22._o private_a mean_n of_o edification_n act._n 10._o 2_o 30._o judg._n 17._o 10._o 2_o king_n 4._o 11._o public_a mean_n of_o edification_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 7._o &_o 2._o 19_o luk._n 2._o 41._o ezek._n 3._o 18._o etc._n etc._n etc._n jsa_n 4._o 1._o 1._o exo._n 21._o 10._o 10._o treat_n 2._o part._n 2._o §._o 29._o treat_n 3._o §._o 49._o the_o pain_n of_o woman_n travel_n psal_n 48_o 6._o isa_n 13._o 8._o &_o 21._o 3_o jer._n 4._o 31._o &_o 30._o 6._o mic._n 49._o gen._n 35._o 16_o etc._n etc._n 1_o sam._n 4._o 19_o 20._o *_o see_v treat_v 2._o part._n 2._o §_o 30._o 39_o si_fw-mi quid_fw-la uxor_fw-la peccaverit_fw-la consolare_fw-la &_o noli_fw-la moerorem_fw-la augere_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o 11._o treat_n 3._o §._o 38._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 23._o 23._o §._o 6._o 6._o treat_n 3._o §._o 23._o 29._o 33._o pro._n 31._o 15._o etc._n etc._n verse_n 21._o vers_fw-la 28._o verse_n 20._o verse_n 11._o vers_fw-la 28._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o eph_n 4._o 8._o husband_n before_o they_o die_v must_v make_v their_o will_n even_o for_o their_o wife_n good_a 1_o king_n 1._o 21._o husband_n on_o their_o deathbed_n must_v commend_v their_o wife_n to_o some_o faithful_a friend_n job._n 19_o 26_o 27._o reason_n true_a trial_n of_o love_n at_o departure_n contrary_n 1._o a_o wilful_a inability_n 2_o make_v away_o their_o wife_n jointer_n or_o any_o other_o right_o 3._o defeat_v of_o three_o rom._n 13._o 5._o 4._o make_v no_o will_n gen._n 20_o 16._o ruth_n 3._o 9_o ruth_n 2._o 12._o 12._o treat_n 1._o §._o 15._o and_o treat_v 3._o §._o 73._o 1_o sam._n 27._o 3._o &_o 30._o 18._o a_o wife_n must_v be_v keep_v from_o be_v seduce_v a_o wise_a steal_v away_o must_v be_v fetch_v home_o judg._n 19_o 2._o 2_o san._n 3._o 13_o 14._o 1_o sam._n 30._o 18._o a_o wife_n credit_n must_v be_v maintain_v see_v treat_n 2._o part_n 2._o §._o 31._o etc._n etc._n luke_n 10._o 16._o a_o wife_n must_v be_v defend_v against_o stranger_n servant_n and_o child_n est_fw-la 7._o 7_o 8._o etc._n etc._n licèt_fw-la omne_fw-la proijcias_fw-la nihil_fw-la molestius_fw-la continget_fw-la quam_fw-la non_fw-la habere_fw-la benevolam_fw-la domi_fw-la vxorem_fw-la peccatum_fw-la nullum_fw-la magis_fw-la dolendum_fw-la inveneris_fw-la quam_fw-la cum_fw-la uxore_fw-la seditionem_fw-la habere_fw-la chrysost_n hon_fw-mi 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o genes_n 16._o 6._o &_o 21._o 14._o contrary_a dissolute_a carelessness_n 1._o in_o suffer_v seducer_n to_o come_v to_o the_o house_n 2._o in_o suffer_v wife_n to_o go_v whither_o they_o list_v luke_n 15._o 4._o 3._o in_o not_o regard_v ill_a report_n of_o wife_n pro._n 12._o 4._o 4._o in_o suffer_v wife_n to_o be_v misuse_v exod._n 2._o 13._o 5._o in_o boulstr_n up_o child_n or_o servant_n against_o wife_n si_fw-mi illam_fw-la quae_fw-la secundum_fw-la post_fw-la te_fw-la locum_fw-la obtinet_fw-la contumelia_fw-la afficis_fw-la non_fw-la parum_fw-la tui_fw-la principatus_fw-la honori_fw-la derogas_fw-la chrys_n loc_n cit_fw-la the_o manner_n of_o a_o husband_n love_v set_v forth_o by_o christ_n manner_n of_o love_v his_o church_n in_o six_o branch_n 1._o christ_n first_o love_v the_o church_n 1_o joh._n 4._o 19_o cant._n 1._o 2._o husband_n must_v by_o their_o love_n provoke_v their_o wife_n to_o love_n pro._n 2._o 17._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d sicaput_fw-la est_fw-la vir_fw-la praecedere_fw-la debet_fw-la in_o omnibus_fw-la bonis_fw-la factis_fw-la vxorem_fw-la svam_fw-la ut_fw-la illa_fw-la imitetur_fw-la virum_fw-la &_o sequatur_fw-la caput_fw-la suum_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr decem_fw-la chor_n c._n 3._o 3._o treat_n 1._o §._o 10._o treat_n 3._o §._o 57_o 2._o christ_n love_v in_o truth_n verse_n 26_o 27._o husband_n must_v love_v in_o deed_n deed_n 1_o joh._n 3._o 18._o 18._o 1_o cor._n 9_o 5._o 3._o christ_n love_v free_o deut._n 7._o 7_o 8._o eph._n 5._o 27._o husband_n love_n must_v be_v free_a 1_o cor._n 13._o 5._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 4._o christ_n love_n pure_a eph._n 5._o 26_o 27._o 1_o cor._n 12._o 12_o 13_o husband_n love_n must_v be_v chaste_a heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o treat_n 2._o part_n 2._o §._o 5_o 8._o heb._n 13._o 4._o 5_o christ_n love_n extend_v to_o the_o give_v of_o himself_o himself_o ephes_n 5_o 25._o 25._o john_n 10._o 11._o 11._o &_o 15._o 13._o how_o husband_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n more_o than_o themselves_o 1_o john_n 3._o 16._o caution_n about_o a_o husband_n love_v his_o wife_n more_o than_o himself_o 2_o cor._n 12._o 15._o 15._o treat_n 3._o §._o 6._o 6_o christ_n love_n perpetual_a perpetual_a joh._n 13._o 1._o 1._o hos_fw-la 2._o 19_o jer._n 3._o 1._o 2_o sam._n 7._o 15._o husband_n must_v be_v constant_a in_o their_o love_n see_v treat_n 1._o §._o 10._o 10._o treat_n 3._o §._o 59_o eph._n 5._o 28._o to_o christ_n example_n the_o pattern_n of_o one_o self_n be_v add_v 1._o because_o it_o be_v more_o sensible_a 2._o because_o it_o be_v more_o imitable_a the_o pattern_n of_o love_a one_o self_n set_v forth_o the_o same_o thing_n that_o christ_n love_n do_v 1_o cor._n 2._o 11._o man_n be_v tender_a towards_o himself_o eph._n 5._o 29._o husband_n must_v deal_v tender_o with_o their_o wife_n man_n be_v cheerful_a in_o do_v himself_o
be_v service_n ready_a to_o do_v what_o good_a he_o can_v to_o another_o this_o be_v common_a to_o all_o christian_n a_o duty_n which_o even_o superior_n owe_v to_o inferior_n according_a to_o the_o forenamed_a extent_n of_o this_o word_n one_o another_o in_o which_o respect_n even_o the_o high_a governor_n on_o earth_n be_v call_v a_o minister_n for_o the_o good_a of_o such_o as_o 4._o be_v under_o he_o second_o we_o must_v put_v difference_n betwixt_o the_o work_n it_o it_o self_n and_o the_o manner_n of_o do_v it_o that_o work_n which_o in_o itself_o be_v a_o work_n of_o superiority_n and_o authority_n in_o the_o manner_n of_o do_v it_o may_v be_v a_o work_n of_o submission_n viz._n if_o it_o be_v do_v in_o humility_n and_o meekness_n of_o mind_n the_o magistrate_n by_o rule_v with_o meekness_n and_o humility_n submit_v himself_o to_o his_o subject_n in_o this_o respect_n the_o apostle_n exhort_v that_o nothing_o no_o not_o the_o high_a and_o great_a work_n that_o 3._o can_v be_v be_v do_v in_o vainglory_n but_o in_o meekness_n three_o we_o must_v distinguish_v betwixt_o the_o several_a place_n wherein_o man_n be_v for_o even_o they_o who_o be_v superior_n to_o some_o 9_o be_v inferior_n to_o other_o as_o he_o that_o say_v i_o have_v under_o i_o and_o be_o under_o authority_n the_o master_n that_o have_v servant_n under_o he_o may_v be_v under_o the_o authority_n of_o a_o magistrate_n yea_o god_n have_v so_o dispose_v every_o one_o several_a place_n as_o there_o be_v not_o any_o one_o but_o in_o some_o respect_n be_v under_o another_o the_o wife_n though_o a_o mother_n of_o child_n be_v under_o her_o husband_n the_o husband_n though_o head_n of_o a_o family_n be_v under_o public_a magistrate_n public_a magistrate_n one_o under_o another_o and_o all_o under_o the_o king_n the_o king_n himself_o under_o god_n and_o his_o word_n deliver_v by_o his_o ambassador_n whereunto_o the_o high_a be_v to_o submit_v themselves_o and_o minister_n of_o the_o word_n as_o subject_n be_v under_o their_o king_n and_o governor_n he_o that_o say_v let_v every_o soul_n be_v subject_a to_o the_o high_a power_n 1._o except_v not_o minister_n of_o the_o word_n and_o he_o that_o say_v obey_v they_o that_o have_v the_o oversight_n of_o you_o and_o submit_v yourselves_o authority_n except_v not_o king_n only_o the_o difference_n be_v in_o this_o that_o the_o authority_n of_o the_o king_n be_v in_o himself_o and_o in_o his_o own_o name_n he_o may_v command_v obedience_n to_o be_v perform_v to_o himself_o but_o the_o authority_n of_o a_o minister_n be_v in_o christ_n and_o in_o christ_n name_n only_o may_v he_o require_v obedience_n to_o be_v perform_v to_o christ_n the_o reason_n why_o all_o be_v bind_v to_o submit_v themselves_o one_o another_o to_o another_o be_v because_o every_o one_o be_v set_v in_o his_o place_n by_o god_n not_o so_o much_o for_o himself_o as_o for_o the_o good_a of_o other_o whereupon_o the_o apostle_n exhort_v that_o none_o seek_v his_o own_o but_o every_o man_n another_o wealth_n even_o governor_n be_v advance_v 24._o to_o place_n of_o dignity_n and_o authority_n rather_o for_o the_o good_a of_o their_o subject_n then_o for_o their_o own_o honour_n their_o calling_n be_v in_o truth_n office_n of_o service_n yea_o burden_n under_o which_o they_o must_v willing_o put_v their_o shoulder_n be_v call_v of_o god_n and_o of_o which_o they_o be_v to_o give_v a_o account_n concern_v the_o good_a which_o they_o have_v do_v to_o other_o for_o the_o effect_v whereof_o it_o be_v needful_a that_o they_o submit_v themselves_o let_v every_o one_o therefore_o high_a and_o low_a rich_a and_o poor_a service_n superior_a and_o inferior_a magistrate_n and_o subject_n minister_n and_o people_n husband_n and_o wife_n parent_n and_o child_n master_n and_o servant_n neighbour_n and_o fellow_n all_o of_o all_o sort_n in_o their_o several_a place_n take_v notice_n of_o their_o duty_n in_o this_o point_n of_o submission_n and_o make_v conscience_n to_o put_v it_o in_o practice_n magistrate_n by_o procure_v the_o wealth_n and_o peace_n of_o their_o people_n as_o mordecai_n minister_n by_o make_v themselves_o servant_n 3._o unto_o their_o people_n not_o seek_v their_o own_o profit_n but_o the_o 33._o profit_n of_o many_o that_o they_o may_v be_v save_v as_o paul_n father_n by_o well_o educate_v their_o child_n and_o take_v heed_n that_o they_o provoke_v they_o not_o to_o wrath_n as_o david_n husband_n 4._o by_o dwell_v with_o their_o wife_n according_a to_o knowledge_n give_v honour_n to_o the_o wife_n as_o to_o the_o weak_a vessel_n as_o abraham_n 6._o master_n by_o do_v that_o which_o be_v just_a and_o equal_a to_o their_o servant_n as_o the_o centurion_n every_o one_o by_o be_v of_o like_a 2._o affection_n one_o towards_o another_o and_o by_o serve_v one_o another_o in_o love_n according_a to_o the_o apostle_n rule_v let_v this_o duty_n of_o 13._o submission_n be_v first_o well_o learned_a and_o then_o all_o 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the_o duty_n which_o god_n command_v and_o so_o be_v as_o willing_a to_o do_v the_o duty_n as_o desirous_a of_o the_o reward_n 4._o that_o our_o own_o benefit_n be_v not_o the_o only_a no_o nor_o the_o chief_a thing_n we_o aim_v at_o in_o do_v our_o duty_n but_o rather_o come_v as_o a_o motive_n to_o add_v a_o edge_n and_o to_o sharpen_v other_o motive_n of_o great_a moment_n and_o thus_o much_o the_o order_n which_o the_o apostle_n observe_v in_o set_v down_o his_o reason_n note_v unto_o we_o for_o the_o three_o former_a have_v respect_n to_o god_n and_o to_o that_o good_a conscience_n which_o child_n ought_v to_o carry_v towards_o he_o the_o first_o point_v at_o god_n image_n which_o parent_n carry_v in_o the_o lord_n the_o second_o set_v forth_o that_o right_n which_o god_n have_v prescribe_v to_o child_n the_o three_o declare_v god_n charge_n this_o four_o only_a which_o be_v the_o last_o have_v respect_n to_o the_o profit_n and_o benefit_n of_o child_n themselves_o §._o 99_o of_o prefer_v honesty_n before_o commodity_n from_o the_o forename_a order_n we_o may_v further_o gather_v that_o equity_n and_o good_a conscience_n aught_o more_o to_o move_v we_o to_o do_v our_o duty_n then_o our_o own_o profit_n and_o the_o benefit_n that_o thereby_o redound_v to_o us._n if_o there_o shall_v come_v such_o a_o opposition_n betwixt_o these_o that_o they_o can_v not_o both_o stand_v togethet_n but_o that_o for_o do_v that_o which_o be_v right_a and_o which_o god_n have_v command_v our_o prosperity_n must_v be_v hinder_v and_o life_n shorten_v we_o shall_v so_o stand_v to_o that_o which_o be_v right_a and_o command_v of_o god_n as_o prosperity_n life_n and_o all_o be_v let_v go_v to_o this_o purpose_n tend_v all_o the_o exhortation_n in_o scripture_n to_o forsake_v good_n land_n life_n and_o every_o thing_n else_o for_o righteousness_n sake_n so_o clear_a be_v this_o point_n 1._o that_o the_o heathen_a discern_v it_o by_o the_o glimpse_n of_o that_o light_n of_o nature_n which_o they_o have_v for_o they_o can_v say_v that_o that_o which_o be_v honest_a and_o right_a be_v to_o be_v prefer_v before_o that_o which_o be_v commodious_a and_o profitable_a there_o be_v no_o comparison_n betwixt_o honesty_n and_o commodity_n right_a and_o profit_n the_o one_o be_v absolute_o necessary_a for_o attain_v to_o eternal_a salvation_n the_o other_o give_v but_o a_o little_a quiet_a and_o contentment_n in_o this_o world_n nay_o if_o profit_n be_v without_o right_n it_o can_v give_v no_o true_a contentment_n or_o quiet_a at_o all_o unworthy_a therefore_o they_o be_v of_o the_o name_n of_o christian_n who_o use_v so_o whole_o and_o only_o aim_v at_o their_o outward_a profit_n and_o prosperity_n as_o they_o regard_v not_o what_o be_v right_a and_o what_o god_n have_v
one_o in_o another_o the_o care_n which_o elkanah_n have_v to_o carry_v his_o etc._n wife_n along_o with_o himself_o unto_o the_o tabernacle_n of_o the_o lord_n year_n by_o year_n show_v that_o his_o desire_n be_v to_o uphold_v they_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n yea_o the_o gift_n and_o portion_n which_o at_o that_o time_n he_o use_v to_o bestow_v on_o they_o imply_v the_o care_n that_o he_o have_v to_o encourage_v they_o to_o hold_v on_o in_o serve_v the_o lord_n it_o be_v without_o question_n the_o main_a end_n which_o the_o shunamite_n aim_v at_o in_o 10._o provide_v lodging_n for_o the_o prophet_n that_o both_o she_o and_o her_o husband_n may_v be_v build_v up_o in_o grace_n this_o duty_n may_v be_v the_o better_o effect_v by_o these_o mean_n follow_v forward_o 1._o by_o take_v notice_n of_o the_o beginning_n and_o least_o measure_n of_o grace_n and_o approve_v the_o same_o 2._o by_o frequent_a conference_n about_o such_o thing_n as_o concern_v the_o same_o mutual_o propound_v question_n one_o to_o another_o thereabouts_o and_o answer_v the_o same_o 3._o by_o their_o mutual_a practice_n and_o example_n make_v themselves_o each_o to_o other_o a_o pattern_n of_o piety_n 4._o by_o perform_v exercise_n of_o religion_n as_o pray_v sing_a psalm_n read_v the_o word_n and_o the_o like_a together_o 5._o by_o maintain_v holy_a and_o religious_a exercise_n in_o the_o family_n 7._o though_o this_o duty_n especial_o appertain_v to_o the_o husband_n yet_o the_o wife_n must_v put_v her_o husband_n in_o mind_n thereof_o if_o he_o forget_v it_o and_o stir_v he_o up_o if_o he_o be_v backward_o thus_o do_v the_o good_a shunamite_n 2_o king_n 4._o 9_o 10._o no_o man_n persuasion_n in_o this_o kind_n can_v so_o much_o prevail_v with_o a_o man_n as_o his_o wife_n 6._o by_o stir_v up_o one_o another_o to_o go_v to_o the_o house_n of_o god_n olymp._n to_o hear_v the_o word_n partake_v of_o the_o sacrament_n and_o conscionable_o perform_v all_o the_o part_n of_o god_n public_a worship_n great_a need_n there_o be_v that_o husband_n and_o wife_n shall_v endeavour_n to_o help_v forward_o the_o growth_n of_o grace_n in_o each_o other_o because_o we_o be_v all_o so_o prone_a to_o fall_v away_o and_o wax_v cold_a even_o as_o thereof_o water_v if_o the_o fire_n go_v out_o and_o more_o fuel_n be_v not_o put_v under_o therein_o and_o of_o all_o other_o husband_n and_o wife_n may_v be_v most_o helpful_a herein_o because_o they_o can_v soon_o espy_v the_o beginning_n of_o decay_n by_o reason_n of_o their_o near_a and_o continual_a familiarity_n together_o §._o 28._o of_o the_o sin_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n contrary_a to_o a_o mutual_a care_n of_o one_o another_o salvation_n the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o that_o general_a mutual_a duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o procure_v the_o salvation_n of_o one_o another_o and_o to_o the_o particular_a branch_n comprise_v under_o it_o be_v many_o as_o 1._o a_o careless_a neglect_n thereof_o when_o as_o husband_n and_o wife_n thing_n so_o mind_n earthly_a thing_n as_o they_o think_v it_o enough_o if_o they_o be_v provident_a one_o for_o another_o in_o the_o thing_n of_o this_o life_n hereof_o most_o that_o live_v in_o this_o earth_n be_v guilty_a and_o among_o other_o even_o many_o of_o they_o who_o have_v the_o name_n of_o very_o good_a and_o kind_a husband_n and_o wife_n but_o whatsoever_o the_o opinion_n of_o other_o be_v of_o they_o the_o truth_n be_v that_o if_o they_o fail_v in_o this_o point_n they_o go_v no_o further_o than_o the_o very_a heathen_a have_v do_v and_o their_o kindness_n may_v be_v as_o the_o ape_n kindness_n which_o cause_v death_n 2._o the_o unworthy_a walk_n and_o unchristian_a carriage_n of_o a_o believer_n walk_v that_o be_v marry_v to_o one_o that_o believe_v not_o hereby_o the_o unbeliever_n be_v keep_v off_o from_o embrace_v the_o gospel_n and_o make_v the_o more_o to_o dislike_v and_o detest_v it_o if_o a_o popish_a or_o profane_a husband_n be_v marry_v to_o a_o wife_n that_o make_v profession_n of_o the_o truth_n of_o the_o gospel_n and_o she_o be_v stout_a proud_a wanton_a waspish_a wasteful_a or_o give_v to_o any_o other_o like_o vice_n will_v he_o not_o be_v ready_a thereupon_o to_o inveigh_v against_o the_o religion_n she_o profess_v and_o utter_o protest_v against_o it_o so_o also_o a_o popish_a or_o profane_a wife_n if_o she_o be_v marry_v to_o such_o a_o husband_n 3._o negligence_n in_o observe_v one_o another_o disposition_n or_o conversation_n sin_n whereby_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o they_o keep_v not_o back_o nor_o restrain_v one_o another_o from_o run_v into_o any_o sin_n but_o prove_v such_o husband_n and_o wife_n one_o to_o another_o as_o eli_n prove_v a_o father_n to_o his_o son_n whence_o it_o fall_v out_o that_o god_n severe_a vengeance_n fall_v upon_o the_o neck_n of_o the_o one_o and_o of_o the_o other_o pilat_n wife_n though_o a_o heathenish_a woman_n shall_v rise_v up_o in_o judgement_n against_o many_o such_o wife_n for_o she_o do_v what_o she_o can_v to_o keep_v 19_o her_o husband_n from_o shed_v innocent_a blood_n 4._o acomplement_v all_o soothe_n of_o one_o another_o humour_n and_o seek_v man-pleasing_a mutual_o to_o please_v one_o another_o in_o all_o thing_n without_o respect_n of_o good_a or_o evil_n such_o as_o these_o the_o scripture_n term_v 〈◊〉_d men-pleasers_a hence_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v so_o far_o from_o draw_v one_o another_o from_o sin_n that_o the_o better_a rather_o yield_v unto_o the_o worse_o and_o both_o run_v into_o 2._o evil_n as_o adam_n be_v persuade_v by_o his_o wife_n to_o transgress_v against_o god_n express_a charge_n and_o wise_a solomon_n be_v draw_v by_o his_o wife_n unto_o idolatry_n 1_o king_n 11._o 4._o and_o sapphira_n consent_v to_o the_o sacrilege_n of_o ananias_n her_o husband_n act._n 5._o 2._o 5._o a_o undue_a fear_n of_o offend_v one_o another_o by_o christian_a instruction_n offence_n admonition_n reproof_n and_o the_o like_a many_o who_o be_v oft_o move_v in_o conscience_n to_o make_v know_v to_o their_o husband_n and_o wife_n the_o sin_n wherein_o they_o live_v and_o the_o danger_n wherein_o they_o lie_v by_o reason_n thereof_o do_v notwithstanding_o through_o careless_a and_o causeless_a fear_n refrain_v and_o forbear_v to_o do_v so_o 6._o a_o impious_a and_o envious_a disposition_n whereby_o many_o husband_n grace_n and_o wife_n be_v move_v to_o mock_v and_o scoff_n at_o that_o holy_a zeal_n and_o forwardness_n which_o they_o observe_v in_o their_o bedfellow_n as_o michal_n who_o resemble_v david_n to_o a_o fool_n or_o 20._o vaine-fellow_n because_o he_o manifest_v his_o zeal_n by_o dance_v before_o the_o ark_n thus_o do_v many_o nip_v the_o work_n of_o the_o spirit_n in_o the_o very_a bud_n and_o cause_n grace_n soon_o to_o wither_v but_o curse_v be_v that_o husband_n or_o wife_n that_o thus_o pervert_v the_o main_a end_n of_o their_o near_a conjunction_n §._o 29._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a care_n over_o one_o another_o body_n after_o the_o good_a of_o the_o soul_n follow_v the_o good_a of_o the_o body_n wherein_o husband_n and_o wife_n must_v show_v their_o provident_a care_n each_o over_o other_o and_o do_v what_o lie_v in_o they_o to_o procure_v the_o welfare_n of_o one_o another_o person_n and_o to_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v one_o another_o body_n this_o duty_n the_o apostle_n lay_v down_o under_o the_o comparison_n of_o a_o body_n which_o he_o call_v flesh_n say_v 29._o no_o man_n hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o now_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v 31._o one_o flesh_n this_o duty_n the_o apostle_n in_o particular_a apply_v to_o husband_n at_o the_o first_o institution_n of_o marriage_n it_o be_v in_o particular_a apply_v to_o the_o wife_n who_o god_n make_v to_o be_v 18._o a_o help_n meet_v for_o man_n so_o as_o it_o be_v a_o mutual_a duty_n appertain_v to_o both_o it_o seem_v that_o 14._o rebecha_n be_v so_o careful_a of_o isaak_n in_o this_o respect_n that_o she_o can_v ready_o make_v savoury_a meat_n for_o he_o such_o as_o he_o love_v this_o duty_n extend_v itself_o to_o all_o estate_n both_o of_o prosperity_n and_o adversity_n of_o health_n and_o sickness_n for_o so_o much_o do_v they_o mutual_o covenant_n and_o promise_n when_o they_o be_v first_o join_v together_o in_o marriage_n i_o take_v thou_o say_v each_o to_o other_o for_o better_a for_o worse_o for_o rich_a for_o poor_a in_o sickness_n and_o in_o health_n to_o love_n and_o to_o cherish_v wherefore_o they_o ought_v mutual_o both_o to_o rejoice_v in_o the_o welfare_n of_o one_o another_o and_o also_o in_o all_o distress_n to_o succour_v and_o comfort_v each_o other_o put_v their_o shoulder_n under_o one_o another_o burden_n and_o help_v to_o ease_v one_o another_o as_o much_o as_o
to_o her_o husband_n and_o also_o to_o herself_o to_o her_o husband_n in_o that_o it_o will_v make_v she_o manifest_v her_o respect_n of_o he_o before_o other_o behind_o his_o back_n as_o well_o as_o before_o himself_o in_o his_o presence_n and_o also_o will_v make_v her_o faithful_a to_o he_o and_o careful_a to_o do_v his_o will_n wheresoever_o he_o be_v with_o she_o or_o from_o she_o to_o herself_o in_o that_o it_o will_v minister_v inward_a sweet_a comfort_n unto_o she_o though_o her_o husband_n shall_v take_v no_o notice_n of_o her_o subjection_n or_o mif-interpret_a it_o or_o ill_o requite_v it_o for_o she_o may_v say_v as_o hezekiah_n do_v 3._o remember_v o_o lord_n how_o i_o have_v walk_v before_o thou_o in_o truth_n and_o with_o a_o perfect_a heart_n and_o have_v do_v that_o which_o be_v good_a in_o thy_o sight_n that_o the_o church_n do_v season_v all_o her_o subjection_n with_o sincerity_n be_v clear_a in_o that_o she_o be_v say_v to_o be_v 13._o all_o glorious_a within_o there_o be_v no_o glory_n within_o without_o sincerity_n and_o in_o that_o she_o be_v oft_o say_v 2._o to_o seek_v he_o who_o her_o soul_n love_v if_o her_o soul_n love_v he_o in_o sincerity_n of_o heart_n she_o be_v subject_a to_o he_o therefore_o as_o the_o church_n be_v sincere_o subject_a to_o christ_n so_o let_v wife_n be_v to_o their_o husband_n §._o 58._o of_o wife_n complemental_a subjection_n contrary_n to_o sincerity_n be_v dissimulation_n and_o mere_a outward_a complemental_a subjection_n when_o a_o wife_n do_v even_o despise_v her_o husband_n in_o her_o heart_n as_o michal_n do_v david_n and_o yet_o carry_v a_o fair_a 20._o face_n before_o he_o as_o that_o adulterous_a woman_n who_o eat_v and_o wipe_v her_o mouth_n and_o say_v i_o have_v not_o commit_v iniquity_n solomon_n make_v it_o a_o note_n of_o a_o lewd_a wife_n to_o flatter_v with_o her_o word_n 16._o though_o such_o a_o wife_n shall_v perform_v all_o the_o duty_n name_v before_o yet_o will_v those_o all_o be_v nothing_o to_o god_n if_o they_o be_v do_v with_o a_o double_a heart_n and_o not_o in_o singleness_n of_o heart_n for_o as_o many_o outward_a imperfection_n be_v pardon_v by_o god_n where_o sincerity_n be_v so_o no_o outward_a action_n be_v accept_v of_o he_o though_o they_o seem_v never_o so_o fair_a where_o there_o be_v no_o sincerity_n §._o 59_o of_o wife_n 74._o cheerfulness_n in_o every_o duty_n iii_o cheerfulness_n be_v more_o apparent_a than_o sincerity_n and_o make_v subjection_n the_o more_o please_a not_o only_a to_o god_n but_o also_o to_o man_n who_o by_o the_o effect_n thereof_o may_v easy_o discern_v it_o for_o god_n as_o he_o do_v himself_o all_o thing_n willing_o and_o cheerful_o so_o he_o expect_v that_o his_o child_n shall_v therein_o follow_v he_o and_o thereby_o show_v themselves_o his_o child_n god_n love_v a_o 7._o cheerful_a giver_n not_o only_o a_o cheerful_a giver_n of_o alm_n but_o of_o all_o duty_n to_o god_n and_o man_n for_o man_n it_o make_v they_o also_o much_o better_o accept_v any_o duty_n when_o they_o observe_v it_o to_o be_v do_v cheerful_o this_o do_v even_o ravish_v david_n with_o joy_n to_o see_v his_o people_n offer_v their_o gift_n willing_o 9_o unto_o the_o lord_n when_o a_o husband_n see_v his_o wife_n willing_o and_o cheerful_o perform_v her_o duty_n it_o can_v but_o raise_v up_o love_n in_o he_o this_o cheerfulness_n be_v manifest_v by_o a_o ready_a quick_a and_o speedy_a performance_n of_o her_o duty_n sarahs_n readiness_n to_o obey_v 18._o show_v that_o what_o she_o do_v she_o do_v willing_o that_o thus_o the_o church_n subiect_v herself_o to_o christ_n be_v evident_a by_o that_o which_o david_n say_v they_o shall_v be_v willing_a in_o the_o day_n 3._o of_o thy_o power_n therefore_o as_o the_o church_n be_v cheerful_o subject_a unto_o christ_n so_o let_v wife_n be_v to_o their_o husband_n §._o 60._o of_o wife_n sullen_a and_o force_a obedience_n contrary_n to_o this_o cheerfulness_n be_v the_o sullen_a disposition_n of_o some_o wife_n who_o will_v indeed_o be_v subject_a to_o their_o husband_n and_o obey_v but_o with_o such_o a_o lower_a and_o sour_a countenance_n with_o such_o pout_a and_o mutter_v as_o they_o grieve_v their_o husband_n more_o in_o the_o manner_n than_o they_o can_v be_v please_v with_o the_o thing_n itself_o that_o they_o do_v herein_o they_o show_v themselves_o like_a to_o a_o curse_a cow_n which_o have_v give_v a_o fair_a soap_n of_o milk_n cast_v all_o down_o with_o her_o heel_n and_o so_o verify_v the_o proverb_n a_o good_a never_o a_o whit_n as_o never_o the_o better_a such_o subjection_n be_v in_o truth_n no_o subjection_n it_o can_v neither_o be_v acceptable_a to_o god_n nor_o profitable_a to_o their_o husband_n nor_o comfortable_a to_o their_o own_o soul_n §._o 61._o of_o wife_n 72._o constancy_n in_o do_v their_o duty_n four_o constancy_n be_v a_o virtue_n which_o make_v all_o the_o rest_n perfect_a and_o set_v the_o crown_n upon_o they_o without_o which_o they_o be_v all_o nothing_o this_o be_v in_o those_o who_o after_o they_o have_v begin_v well_o continue_v to_o do_v well_o unto_o the_o end_n and_o thereby_o reap_v the_o fruit_n of_o all_o it_o have_v respect_n both_o to_o continuance_n without_o intermission_n and_o also_o to_o perseverance_n without_o revolt_a and_o give_v clean_o over_o so_o as_o it_o be_v not_o enough_o to_o be_v subject_a by_o start_n and_o fit_n one_o while_o yield_v all_o good_a obedience_n another_o while_n stout_a and_o rebellious_a neither_o be_v it_o sufficient_a in_o former_a time_n to_o have_v be_v a_o good_a wife_n and_o after_o prove_v bad_a but_o there_o must_v be_v daily_o proceed_v and_o hold_v on_o from_o time_n to_o time_n so_o long_o as_o husband_n and_o wife_n live_v together_o this_o grace_n be_v in_o she_o of_o who_o it_o be_v say_v she_o will_v do_v he_o good_a and_o not_o evil_a all_o the_o day_n of_o her_o life_n such_o be_v all_o the_o holy_a wife_n commend_v in_o scripture_n among_o other_o particular_n mention_n be_v make_v of_o the_o wife_n of_o phinehas_n who_o on_o her_o deathbed_n show_v the_o reverend_a 21._o good_a respect_n she_o bear_v to_o her_o husband_n though_o he_o be_v a_o wicked_a and_o lewd_a man_n this_o grace_n do_v the_o church_n add_v to_o all_o her_o other_o virtue_n she_o in_o all_o part_n of_o her_o subjection_n remain_v constant_a &_o faithful_a unto_o the_o death_n whereby_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o at_o length_n she_o receive_v the_o reward_n of_o her_o holy_a obedience_n which_o be_v full_a and_o perfect_a communion_n and_o fellowship_n with_o her_o spouse_n christ_n jesus_n in_o heaven_n in_o regard_n of_o her_o unmoveable_a constancy_n it_o be_v say_v that_o the_o gate_n of_o hell_n shall_v never_o prevail_v against_o 18._o she_o therefore_o as_o the_o church_n be_v constant_o subject_a unto_o christ_n so_o let_v wife_n be_v to_o their_o husband_n §._o 62._o of_o wife_n repent_v their_o former_a goodness_n intermission_n contrary_n to_o this_o constancy_n be_v first_o intermission_n of_o duty_n a_o return_v to_o it_o and_o a_o leave_v it_o off_o by_o turn_n like_v one_o that_o be_v sick_a of_o a_o ague_n sometime_o well_o sometime_o ill_o one_o while_o hot_a another_o while_n cold_a that_o sometime_o cease_v take_v away_o all_o the_o virtue_n grace_n and_o glory_n from_o sometime_o do_v beside_o it_o be_v twenty_o to_o one_o that_o through_o the_o corruption_n of_o nature_n that_o diversity_n and_o intercourse_n of_o fit_n at_o length_n will_v cease_v and_o end_n in_o the_o worse_o it_o be_v very_o likely_a that_o michal_n be_v such_o a_o one_o for_o one_o while_o she_o show_v herself_o so_o full_a of_o respect_n to_o david_n as_o etc._n for_o his_o sake_n she_o incur_v the_o king_n her_o father_n displeasure_n another_o while_n in_o her_o heart_n she_o despise_v he_o and_o with_o her_o tongue_n 20._o taunt_v he_o contrary_n also_o to_o the_o forename_a constancy_n be_v apostasy_n apostasy_n that_o be_v a_o clean_a relinquish_a of_o the_o former_a good_a course_n as_o if_o a_o wife_n repent_v she_o of_o her_o former_a good_a beginning_n such_o a_o one_o be_v she_o that_o be_v say_v to_o for_o sake_n the_o guide_n of_o her_o youth_n and_o forget_v the_o 17._o covenant_n of_o her_o god_n for_o aught_o we_o read_v to_o the_o contrary_a job_n wife_n be_v such_o a_o one_o and_o such_o be_v many_o who_o in_o their_o young_a year_n while_o their_o religious_a parent_n live_v as_o joash_n while_o 2._o old_a good_a jehoiada_n live_v have_v behave_v themselves_o very_o well_o like_o good_a dutiful_a wife_n but_o be_v grow_v to_o elder_a year_n have_v grow_v also_o so_o stout_a and_o rebellious_a as_o if_o they_o clean_o repent_v themselves_o of_o their_o former_a good_a beginning_n this_o revolt_n arise_v sometime_o
from_o the_o evil_a counsel_n of_o wicked_a gossip_n and_o sometime_o from_o their_o own_o proud_a humour_n i_o may_v say_v of_o these_o wife_n subjection_n as_o the_o prophet_n say_v of_o the_o righteousness_n of_o revolter_n 24._o their_o subjection_n shall_v not_o be_v remember_v but_o in_o their_o rebellion_n they_o shall_v die_v therefore_o as_o the_o church_n be_v subject_a to_o christ_n let_v wife_n be_v to_o their_o husband_n §._o 63._o of_o the_o 26._o extent_n of_o a_o wife_n obedience_n the_o extent_n of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n which_o remain_v now_o to_o be_v handle_v be_v set_v down_o under_o these_o general_a term_n in_o every_o thing_n which_o be_v not_o so_o general_o to_o be_v take_v as_o if_o they_o admit_v no_o restraint_n or_o limitation_n for_o than_o will_v they_o contradict_v such_o caution_n as_o these_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o the_o lord_n as_o to_o the_o lord_n in_o 18._o the_o lord_n for_o man_n be_v so_o corrupt_a by_o nature_n and_o of_o so_o perverse_a a_o disposition_n that_o oft_o he_o will_v and_o command_v that_o which_o be_v contrary_a to_o god_n will_v and_o commandment_n which_o when_o he_o do_v that_o christian_a principle_n lay_v down_o as_o a_o rule_v case_n by_o the_o apostle_n must_v take_v place_n we_o ought_v rather_o to_o obey_v god_n then_o man_n 29._o quest_n why_o then_o be_v this_o extent_n lay_v down_o in_o such_o general_a term_n answ_n 1._o to_o teach_v wife_n that_o it_o be_v not_o sufficient_a for_o they_o to_o obey_v their_o husband_n in_o some_o thing_n as_o they_o themselves_o think_v meet_v but_o in_o all_o thing_n whatsoever_o they_o be_v wherein_o the_o husband_n by_o virtue_n of_o his_o superiority_n and_o authority_n have_v power_n to_o command_v his_o wife_n thus_o this_o general_a extent_n exclude_v not_o god_n will_n but_o the_o wife_n will_n she_o may_v do_v nothing_o against_o god_n will_n but_o many_o thing_n must_v she_o do_v against_o she_o own_o will_n if_o her_o husband_n require_v she_o 2._o to_o show_v that_o the_o husband_n authority_n and_o power_n be_v very_o large_a it_o have_v no_o restraint_n but_o god_n contrary_a command_n whereof_o if_o a_o wife_n be_v not_o assure_v she_o must_v yield_v to_o her_o husband_n will_n §._n 64._o of_o a_o wife_n 29._o labour_v to_o bring_v her_o judgement_n to_o the_o bent_n of_o her_o husband_n from_o that_o extent_n i_o gather_v these_o two_o conclusion_n 1._o a_o wife_n must_v labour_v to_o bring_v her_o judgement_n and_o will_n to_o her_o husband_n 2._o though_o in_o her_o judgement_n she_o can_v think_v that_o most_o meet_a which_o her_o husband_n require_v yet_o she_o must_v yield_v to_o it_o in_o practice_n in_o the_o former_a of_o these_o i_o say_v not_o simple_o that_o a_o wife_n be_v bind_v to_o bring_v her_o judgement_n to_o the_o bent_n of_o her_o husband_n for_o he_o may_v be_v deceive_v in_o his_o judgement_n and_o she_o may_v see_v his_o error_n and_o then_o unless_o her_o understanding_n shall_v be_v blind_v she_o can_v conceive_v that_o to_o be_v true_a which_o he_o judge_v so_o but_o i_o speak_v of_o endeavour_n when_o she_o have_v not_o sure_a and_o undeniable_a ground_n to_o the_o contrary_a to_o suspect_v her_o judgement_n when_o its_o contrary_a to_o her_o husband_n and_o to_o think_v she_o may_v be_v in_o a_o error_n and_o thereupon_o not_o be_v too_o peremptory_a and_o resolute_a in_o contradict_v her_o husband_n opinion_n this_o submission_n even_o of_o her_o judgement_n respect_v not_o only_a thing_n necessary_a for_o which_o her_o husband_n have_v a_o express_a determinate_a warrant_n out_o of_o the_o scripture_n but_o also_o thing_n doubtful_a &_o indifferent_a for_o even_o so_o far_o do_v this_o clause_n in_o every_o thing_n extend_v and_o the_o subjection_n of_o a_o wife_n respect_v not_o her_o practice_n only_o but_o her_o judgement_n and_o opinion_n also_o which_o if_o she_o can_v bring_v to_o the_o lawfulness_n and_o meetness_n of_o that_o which_o her_o husband_n require_v she_o will_v much_o more_o cheerful_o perform_v it_o to_o this_o purpose_n as_o i_o take_v it_o may_v be_v apply_v that_o exhortation_n of_o the_o apostle_n unto_o woman_n that_o they_o learn_v in_o silence_n with_o all_o subjection_n 11._o which_o though_o it_o be_v principal_o mean_v of_o learning_n in_o the_o church_n yet_o it_o exclude_v not_o her_o learning_n at_o home_n of_o her_o husband_n for_o in_o the_o next_o word_n he_o add_v i_o suffer_v not_o a_o woman_n to_o usurp_v authority_n over_o the_o man_n but_o to_o be_v in_o silence_n §._o 65._o of_o wife_n overween_a conceit_n of_o their_o own_o wisdom_n contrary_n be_v the_o presumption_n of_o such_o wife_n as_o think_v themselves_o wife_a than_o their_o husband_n and_o able_a better_o to_o judge_v matter_n than_o they_o can_v i_o deny_v not_o but_o that_o a_o wife_n may_v have_v more_o understanding_n than_o her_o husband_n for_o some_o man_n be_v very_o ignorant_a and_o blockish_a and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n some_o woman_n well_o instruct_v who_o thereby_o have_v attain_v to_o a_o great_a measure_n of_o knowledge_n and_o discretion_n but_o many_o though_o they_o have_v husband_n of_o sufficient_a and_o good_a understanding_n wife_n and_o discreet_a man_n yet_o think_v that_o that_o which_o they_o have_v once_o conceive_v to_o be_v a_o truth_n must_v needs_o be_v so_o and_o such_o be_v their_o peremptorinesse_n that_o they_o will_v not_o be_v bring_v to_o think_v that_o they_o may_v err_v but_o say_v they_o will_v never_o be_v bring_v to_o think_v otherwise_o then_o they_o do_v though_o all_o the_o husband_n in_o the_o world_n shall_v be_v of_o another_o opinion_n not_o much_o unlike_a to_o the_o wiseman_n fool_n who_o think_v himself_o wise_a than_o seven_o man_n 16._o that_o can_v render_v a_o reason_n §._o 66._o of_o a_o wife_n 27._o yield_v to_o her_o husband_n in_o such_o thing_n as_o she_o think_v not_o to_o be_v the_o meet_a est_fw-fr the_o latter_a conclusion_n concern_v a_o wife_n yield_v in_o practice_n to_o that_o which_o her_o husband_n require_v though_o she_o can_v bring_v her_o judgement_n to_o think_v as_o he_o do_v about_o the_o meeâ—nesse_n of_o it_o olymp._n have_v respect_n to_o indifferent_a thing_n namely_o to_o such_o as_o be_v neither_o in_o their_o particular_n command_v nor_o forbid_v by_o god_n as_o the_o outward_a affair_n of_o the_o house_n order_v it_o dispose_v good_n entertain_v guest_n etc._n etc._n quest_n may_v she_o not_o reason_n with_o her_o husband_n about_o such_o matter_n as_o she_o think_v unmeet_a and_o labour_n to_o persuade_v her_o husband_n not_o to_o persist_v in_o the_o press_v thereof_o yea_o endeavour_n to_o bring_v her_o husband_n to_o see_v the_o unmeetnesse_n as_o she_o think_v of_o that_o which_o she_o see_v answ_n with_o modesty_n humility_n and_o reverence_n she_o may_v so_o do_v and_o he_o ought_v to_o hearken_v unto_o she_o as_o the_o husband_n of_o the_o shunemite_n do_v 2._o king_n 4._o 23_o 24._o but_o yet_o if_o notwithstanding_o all_o that_o she_o can_v say_v he_o persist_v in_o his_o resolution_n and_o will_v have_v it_o do_v she_o must_v yield_v first_o her_o subjection_n be_v most_o manifest_v in_o such_o case_n herein_o she_o apparent_o show_v that_o what_o she_o do_v she_o do_v in_o respect_n of_o her_o husband_n place_n and_o power_n be_v it_o not_o for_o that_o she_o will_v not_o do_v it_o other_o thing_n be_v not_o so_o evident_a proof_n of_o her_o subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n for_o if_o he_o command_v she_o to_o do_v that_o which_o god_n have_v express_o command_v and_o so_o she_o ought_v to_o do_v it_o whether_o her_o husband_n command_v it_o or_o no_o it_o may_v be_v think_v she_o do_v it_o on_o god_n command_n and_o not_o on_o her_o husband_n if_o her_o husband_n command_v she_o to_o do_v that_o which_o god_n have_v express_o forbid_v then_o ought_v she_o by_o no_o mean_n to_o yield_v unto_o it_o if_o she_o do_v it_o may_v rather_o be_v term_v a_o joint_a conspiracy_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n together_o against_o god_n will_n as_o s._n peter_n say_v to_o sapphira_n the_o wife_n of_o ananias_n how_o be_v it_o that_o you_o have_v agree_v together_o to_o tempt_v the_o 9_o spirit_n of_o the_o lord_n than_o subjection_n to_o the_o image_n of_o god_n in_o her_o husband_n second_o her_o yield_v in_o indifferent_a thing_n tend_v much_o to_o the_o peace_n of_o the_o family_n as_o subject_n yield_v to_o their_o magistrate_n in_o such_o case_n make_v much_o to_o the_o peace_n of_o the_o common_a wealth_n for_o in_o difference_n and_o dissension_n one_o side_n must_v yield_v or_o else_o great_a mischief_n be_v like_a to_o follow_v now_o of_o the_o two_o who_o shall_v yield_v but_o the_o inferior_a §._o 67._o of_o wife_n make_v their_o own_o will_v their_o law_n contrary_n be_v the_o
affection_n whereof_o i_o speak_v be_v not_o a_o carnal_a sensual_a beastly_a affection_n but_o such_o a_o one_o as_o may_v stand_v with_o christian_a gravity_n and_o so_o briety_n have_v relation_n to_o the_o soul_n of_o a_o man_n wife_n as_o well_o as_o to_o her_o body_n ground_v both_o on_o the_o near_a conjunction_n of_o marriage_n and_o also_o on_o the_o inward_a quality_n of_o his_o wife_n thus_o far_o of_o a_o husband_n inward_a respect_n of_o his_o wife_n it_o follow_v to_o speak_v of_o his_o outward_a carriage_n towards_o she_o §._o 13._o of_o a_o husband_n 10._o kind_a acceptance_n of_o such_o thing_n as_o his_o wife_n do_v s._n peter_n give_v a_o general_a rule_n for_o a_o husband_n outward_a carriage_n to_o his_o wife_n which_o be_v that_o he_o dwell_v with_o she_o according_a to_o knowledge_n that_o be_v as_o a_o man_n able_a to_o order_v his_o carriage_n wise_o to_o his_o own_o honour_n and_o his_o wife_n good_a that_o so_o she_o may_v have_v just_a cause_n to_o bless_v god_n that_o ever_o she_o be_v join_v to_o such_o a_o husband_n out_o of_o this_o general_a these_o two_o branch_n sprout_v forth_o 1._o that_o a_o husband_n give_v no_o just_a offence_n to_o his_o wife_n 2._o that_o wise_o he_o order_v that_o offence_n which_o be_v give_v by_o she_o to_o avoid_v give_v of_o offence_n he_o must_v have_v respect_n 1._o to_o that_o which_o she_o do_v as_o duty_n to_o he_o 2._o to_o that_o which_o he_o do_v as_o duty_n to_o she_o in_o regard_n of_o the_o former_a two_o thing_n be_v requisite_a 1._o that_o he_o kind_o accept_v what_o she_o be_v willing_a and_o able_a to_o do_v 2._o that_o he_o wise_o commend_v and_o reward_v what_o she_o do_v well_o thus_o have_v for_o order_n sake_n lay_v down_o these_o head_n i_o will_v distinct_o handle_v the_o several_a point_n the_o first_o particular_a wherein_n a_o husband_n show_v himself_o 8._o to_o be_v a_o man_n of_o knowledge_n in_o walk_v before_o his_o wife_n be_v by_o a_o kind_n and_o respective_a acceptation_n of_o every_o good_a duty_n which_o his_o wife_n perform_v abraham_n in_o testimony_n of_o his_o good_a acceptance_n of_o sarahs_n pain_n in_o nurse_v her_o child_n make_v a_o great_a feast_n when_o the_o child_n be_v wean_v and_o elkanah_n on_o a_o like_a respect_n give_v liberty_n 23._o to_o his_o wife_n to_o do_v what_o seem_v she_o best_o a_o great_a encouragement_n must_v this_o need_v be_v unto_o wife_n to_o be_v subject_a unto_o their_o husband_n in_o all_o thing_n when_o they_o observe_v no_o part_n of_o their_o subjection_n to_o be_v careless_o neglect_v but_o rather_o gracious_o accept_v it_o quicken_v the_o spirit_n of_o a_o wife_n to_o think_v that_o her_o care_n and_o pain_n in_o please_v her_o husband_n shall_v not_o be_v in_o vain_a §._o 14._o of_o husband_n slight_v and_o reject_v their_o wife_n goodness_n contrary_n be_v their_o practice_n who_o think_v all_o which_o a_o wife_n goodness_n do_v to_o be_v but_o her_o duty_n take_v little_a or_o no_o notice_n 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manifest_v her_o dutiful_a respect_n of_o her_o 7._o husband_n by_o any_o reverend_a behaviour_n gesture_n or_o speech_n he_o ought_v to_o meet_v she_o as_o we_o say_v in_o the_o midst_n of_o the_o way_n and_o manifest_v his_o gracious_a acceptance_n thereof_o by_o some_o like_a courteous_a behaviour_n gesture_n and_o speech_n be_v seemly_a not_o foolish_a object_n thus_o shall_v a_o husband_n abase_v himself_o and_o disgrace_v his_o place_n answ_n the_o courtesy_n which_o i_o speak_v of_o as_o it_o come_v from_o a_o superior_a be_v a_o mere_a voluntary_a matter_n and_o a_o token_n superiority_n of_o kindness_n and_o favour_n be_v no_o abasement_n of_o himself_o but_o a_o advancement_n of_o his_o inferior_a a_o great_a grace_n to_o she_o no_o disgrace_n to_o he_o abram_n be_v count_v of_o the_o hittite_n a_o prince_n of_o 7._o god_n yet_o in_o commune_v with_o they_o he_o bow_v unto_o they_o it_o be_v note_v as_o a_o commendable_a thing_n in_o esau_n that_o though_o at_o that_o time_n 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