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to_o promote_v thy_o spiritual_a good_a present_a profit_n or_o present_a credit_n sure_o that_o temper_n of_o spirit_n must_v needs_o be_v very_o evil_a that_o hinder_v thou_o from_o do_v good_a to_o thyself_o 2._o thy_o frowardness_n and_o angry_a passion_n thy_o contentious_a wrangle_a spirit_n hinder_v from_o do_v any_o spiritual_a good_a it_o indispose_v thou_o for_o performance_n of_o any_o spiritual_a duty_n to_o god_n it_o make_v thou_o averse_a to_o converse_v with_o god_n and_o unfit_a to_o serve_v god_n in_o a_o right_a manner_n it_o be_v a_o hindrance_n of_o holy_a prayer_n angry_a person_n can_v call_v upon_o god_n in_o a_o serious_a spiritual_a manner_n because_o their_o heart_n be_v carnal_a earthy_a and_o poison_a with_o self-love_n nor_o will_v god_n hear_v they_o if_o they_o call_v upon_o he_o anger_n hinder_v person_n in_o all_o ordinance_n it_o make_v they_o the_o most_o unfit_a person_n in_o the_o world_n for_o to_o pray_v therefore_o the_o apostle_n say_v in_o the_o 1_o tim._n 2.8_o i_o will_v therefore_o that_o man_n pray_v every_o where_o how_o lift_n up_o holy_a hand_n but_o without_o wrath_n o_o husband_n or_o o_o wife_n thou_o must_v be_v sure_a when_o thou_o lifte_v up_o thy_o hand_n to_o prayer_n that_o there_o be_v no_o wrath_n in_o thy_o spirit_n that_o thou_o do_v not_o go_v to_o prayer_n in_o a_o passion_n angry_a passionate_a prayer_n be_v vain_a prayer_n the_o lord_n love_v zeal_n and_o much_o warmth_n of_o affection_n in_o prayer_n but_o he_o can_v abide_v wrath_n or_o the_o least_o spark_n of_o passion_n in_o prayer_n a_o peaceable_a heart_n be_v as_o necessary_a in_o prayer_n as_o a_o pure_a hand_n when_o a_o wife_n come_v to_o god_n in_o prayer_n have_v i_o know_v not_o what_o wrathful_a dispute_n within_o herself_o against_o her_o husband_n how_o can_v she_o look_v for_o a_o gracious_a acceptance_n with_o god_n the_o like_o may_v be_v say_v of_o the_o husband_n will_v the_o lord_n be_v please_v with_o those_o that_o nourish_v secret_a displeasure_n against_o their_o near_a relation_n no_o no_o furious_a and_o unquiet_a thought_n must_v be_v lay_v down_o by_o those_o that_o will_v have_v favour_n with_o god_n and_o compassion_n from_o god_n if_o person_n will_v compass_v god_n altar_n and_o there_o offer_v up_o the_o sacrifice_n of_o prayer_n and_o thanksgiving_n they_o must_v first_o wash_v their_o hand_n in_o innocency_n ps_n 26.6_o and_o our_o saviour_n christ_n command_v that_o before_o person_n offer_v any_o gift_n unto_o the_o lord_n that_o they_o seek_v to_o be_v reconcile_v to_o the_o party_n with_o who_o they_o be_v displease_v mat._n 5.23_o so_o long_o therefore_o as_o any_o continue_v in_o their_o anger_n they_o be_v unfit_a to_o pray_v and_o this_o appear_v most_o manifest_o in_o the_o five_o petition_n of_o the_o lord_n prayer_n where_o we_o desire_v to_o be_v forgive_v as_o we_o forgive_v mat._n 6.12_o and_o again_o our_o saviour_n christ_n do_v single_a this_o out_o of_o all_o the_o other_o petition_n but_o if_o you_o will_v not_o forgive_v man_n their_o trespass_n no_o more_o will_v your_o father_n forgive_v your_o trespass_n they_o who_o be_v sue_v for_o and_o expect_v favour_n and_o mercy_n from_o god_n have_v need_n to_o discharge_v themselves_o of_o all_o wrath_n and_o displeasure_n towards_o man_n and_o the_o apostle_n peter_n in_o the_o 1_o ep._n 3.7_o exhort_v man_n and_o wife_n to_o live_v together_o in_o love_n that_o their_o prayer_n be_v not_o interrupt_v jarring_n between_o such_o relation_n do_v hinder_v their_o pray_v together_o to_o any_o good_a purpose_n therefore_o if_o you_o will_v be_v fit_a to_o go_v to_o god_n together_o for_o mercy_n and_o favour_n beware_v that_o you_o carry_v no_o wrath_n in_o your_o heart_n towards_o one_o another_o for_o than_o you_o will_v be_v send_v empty_a away_o and_o be_v not_o that_o a_o very_a great_a evil_n
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sinful_a passion_n be_v very_o injurious_a to_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n it_o grieve_v the_o spirit_n so_o much_o that_o he_o will_v withdraw_v his_o motion_n his_o guidance_n assistance_n and_o comfort_n from_o angry_a person_n o_o then_o if_o thou_o will_v not_o grieve_v the_o spirit_n of_o god_n lay_v aside_o all_o bitteresn_n wrath_n and_o anger_n etc._n etc._n consider_v what_o a_o heinous_a evil_a anger_n wrath_n and_o frowardness_n of_o spirit_n be_v thou_o do_v not_o only_o by_o thy_o passion_n grieve_v thy_o friend_n or_o near_a relation_n but_o also_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n and_o will_v thou_o be_v so_o ungrateful_a as_o to_o grieve_v that_o spirit_n that_o have_v do_v thou_o so_o much_o good_a that_o be_v appoint_v by_o the_o father_n and_o by_o jesus_n christ_n to_o be_v thy_o comforter_n even_o the_o comforter_n of_o thy_o spirit_n if_o thou_o have_v a_o ingenious_a spirit_n thou_o will_v think_v it_o a_o ill_a thing_n to_o grieve_v thy_o friend_n and_o if_o thou_o hear_v thou_o have_v do_v that_o which_o have_v grieve_v he_o in_o will_v grieve_v thou_o exceed_o o_o then_o how_o shall_v it_o trouble_v thou_o and_o grieve_v thou_o that_o when_o thou_o be_v in_o a_o angry_a passion_n thou_o do_v grieve_v the_o dear_a friend_n thou_o have_v in_o the_o world_n thou_o do_v grieve_v the_o holy_a spirit_n of_o god_n 3._o o_o husband_n or_o o_o wife_n by_o thy_o give_a way_n to_o excessive_a anger_n thou_o do_v give_v place_n to_o the_o devil_n ephes_n 4.27_o thou_o do_v cast_v open_a the_o door_n to_o satan_n the_o capital_a enemy_n of_o thy_o soul_n to_o enter_v thy_o heart_n and_o incite_v thou_o by_o his_o uncessant_a suggestion_n to_o act_v some_o mischief_n as_o satan_n be_v dethrone_v and_o shut_v out_o of_o the_o heart_n of_o all_o true_a believer_n and_o though_o he_o shall_v never_o reign_v over_o they_o at_o his_o pleasure_n yet_o he_o be_v daily_o watch_v &_o search_v out_o if_o it_o be_v but_o the_o narrow_a passage_n and_o least_o 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if_o thou_o do_v nourish_v thy_o froward_a humour_n and_o be_v so_o often_o contend_v with_o thy_o husband_n or_o with_o thy_o wife_n thou_o do_v gratify_v thyself_o exceed_o thou_o do_v do_v as_o he_o will_v have_v thou_o thou_o do_v give_v he_o a_o welcome_a entertainment_n in_o thy_o heart_n alas_o how_o can_v thou_o fancy_v such_o a_o monstrous_a fiend_n as_o to_o comply_v with_o his_o suggestion_n be_v not_o so_o vile_a a_o wretch_n as_o to_o be_v kind_a to_o the_o mortal_a enemy_n of_o thy_o soul_n his_o design_n be_v to_o have_v thou_o angry_a and_o so_o contentious_a that_o he_o may_v hinder_v the_o exercise_n of_o thy_o reason_n and_o so_o make_v thou_o unreasonable_a in_o thy_o action_n o_o then_o when_o thy_o anger_n begin_v to_o rise_v suppress_v it_o with_o this_o consideration_n if_o i_o give_v way_n to_o my_o anger_n i_o please_v no_o one_o but_o the_o devil_n all_o other_o except_o the_o devil_n be_v displease_v with_o my_o anger_n and_o frowardness_n that_o act_n 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transport_v into_o a_o flame_n of_o fury_n by_o every_o little_a spark_n of_o distaste_n give_v nay_o a_o furious_a spirit_n be_v a_o devilish_a spirit_n and_o therefore_o the_o devil_n be_v very_o often_o call_v fury_n o_o let_v this_o consideration_n stir_v thou_o up_o to_o endeavour_v after_o meekness_n calmness_n and_o peaceablenss_n of_o spirit_n 4._o thou_o shall_v be_v careful_a to_o abstain_v from_o anger_n and_o frowardness_n of_o spirit_n because_o there_o be_v nothing_o that_o thou_o can_v do_v in_o anger_n but_o thou_o may_v do_v it_o better_o out_o of_o anger_n thou_o can_v have_v thy_o mind_n or_o thy_o will_n in_o nothing_o in_o anger_n but_o thou_o may_v have_v thy_o mind_n and_o will_v better_o out_o of_o a_o angry_a fit_n and_o wherefore_o then_o shall_v thou_o be_v angry_a consider_v when_o thou_o have_v thy_o anger_n stir_v what_o thou_o will_v do_v in_o thy_o anger_n thou_o may_v it_o say_v i_o will_v reprove_v my_o wife_n or_o my_o husband_n that_o have_v do_v amiss_o i_o say_v thou_o must_v reprove_v without_o anger_n thou_o must_v restore_v with_o a_o spirit_n of_o meekness_n gal._n 6.1_o there_o be_v no_o recover_v a_o fall_v relation_n from_o sin_n in_o a_o boisterous_a way_n there_o be_v gentle_a mean_n that_o be_v most_o influential_a thy_o reproof_n shall_v be_v as_o physic_n thou_o do_v not_o use_v to_o give_v physic_n scald_a hot_a thou_o may_v reprove_v thy_o wife_n husband_n child_n or_o servant_n without_o anger_n as_o well_o as_o with_o anger_n and_o if_o thou_o will_v give_v correction_n thou_o may_v do_v it_o best_o without_o anger_n if_o thou_o do_v correct_v in_o anger_n or_o reprove_v in_o anger_n thy_o servant_n or_o any_o other_o relation_n will_v think_v it_o be_v rather_o from_o thy_o fury_n than_o his_o fault_n that_o thou_o do_v it_o perhaps_o thou_o will_v do_v some_o special_a service_n for_o god_n and_o thou_o say_v that_o anger_n will_v quicken_v thou_o but_o james_n say_v cap._n 1.20_o the_o wrath_n of_o man_n 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