thing that hath any corresponcy with him so as respecting him whom he loues as another himselfe hee cannot but bee inflamed with this consideration The Platonicians had another reason the which in my opinion concurres with this Loue say they makes an impression in the soule of him that loues of the Image and forme of the thing beloued But man loueth not onely his being and his true and reall forme but also his imaginary forme as appeares by pictures and looking-glasses in which we behold with content our portraicts formes Wherefore there is a certaine Passion for the thing beloued in whose soule he doth contemplate his forme which Loue hath ingrauen After this manner resemblance breedeth Loue and vnites the affections of men The truth hereof appeares for that men do commonly loue those that are allyed vnto them in neernesse of blood so as Kinsmen doe commonly loue one another or by some conformity of humours and complexions which maketh melancholy men loue the company of their like and Iouiall spirits delight in the company of them that are pleasant Or by some commerce of profession which maketh Philosophers to loue Philosophers and Painters delight in Painters Or some equality of age which makes young men delight in the company of youth and olde men to conuerse with them that are graue Or some coherence of manners which makes good men loue the vertuous and the wicked seeke after such as are wickedly affected But notwithstanding that which we haue said that coÌ„monly men of one profession loue one another must bee vnderstood according to the true nature of things for by occasion and accident this coÌ„formity of professions may ingender hatred and enuy that is to say when as they of one trade and profession liuing of their art and labour hinder one another as for example when as a tradsman hauing gotten some reputation doth hinder the profit of his companions then iealousie riseth amongst them according to the saying of an Ancient The Potter enuies the Potter The Philosophers giue an excellent reason hereof He that loues say they loues himselfe more deerely then all other things besides for that he is vnited to himselfe by Essence and Nature whereas hee is not conioyned to him that he loues but by some accidentall and externall forme And therefore if this conformity crosseth his priuate good and be preiudiciall vnto him hee findes himselfe more strictly tied vnto himselfe then to his like wherefore seeing his losse concurring with his passion he whom hee loued being an obstacle to his desire he growes odious vnto him as opposite to his good Men doe also loue those that aspire to the same honors and dignities at the least when they may attaine vnto them and enioy them together without any obstacle or wrong one vnto another For competency causing an hinderance as it did in the pursuit of the Consulate at Rome it happeneth as wee haue said of men of the same profession that it excites enuy and hatred Wherefore in the loue of women they can endure no corriuals for that with honesty they cannot be enioyed by two They also loue those with whom they haue any familiarity which is not scrupulous hauing free liberty without apprehension of disdaine to doe and say things in their presence which they would not act or speake before the world As for example they affect those before whom they may freely discourse of their loues of their pursuites and of their other Passions But wee must remeÌ„ber that there are some things which are dishonest of themselues the which a good man may neither do or speak before the world or before his friends But there are others which are shameful only in the opinioÌ„ of the world and not according to the truth of things and these a good man vsing an honest familiarity with his friends may doe and speake in their presence although he would not doe it in publike before the world like vnto King Agesilaus being in priuate with his children playd with them with a fatherly liberty but beeing surprized by one who knew not how farre the loue of a father might extend he was discontented Men also testifie that they loue those before whom they are ashamed to doe or say those things which are of themselues shamefull or dishonest wherein wee may say that the Persians gaue good testimony of their loue to their wiues when as they caused them to retire from their banquets being vnwilling that their eies shold be spectators of their excesse admitting none but their Concubines For this respect and reuerence which they gaue them was a signe of true Loue for that wee are ashamed to commit any vnworthy Act before them wee affect They also willingly imbrace such as they haue seene faithfull and constant in their affections and who loue equally both present absent For which consideration they desire to insinuate themselues into their friendship which testifie their loue vnto the dead who adorne their Tombes erect Statues and make other monuments for them to preserue their memory among men They also affect such as abandon not their friends in the crosses and iniuries of fortune whereof wee haue a worthy example in the subiect of Damon and Pithias whereof the one beeing condemned to die by the tyrant Dionisius and desiring some respite to goe and settle the affaires of his house his companion yeelded himselfe a pledge for his returne with this condition that if hee returned not backe within the prefixed time hee should vndergo the rigour of the same sentence but the condemned man presenting himselfe at the day appointed the tyrant was so rapt with admiration to see the faith which he had vnto his friend in a matter of that importance and of so great danger that in stead of putting him to death he coniured these two perfect friends to accept of him as a third man in their friendship Behold how the most sauage and vntamed spirits are forced to loue those that shew an vnuiolable constancy in their affectioÌ„s Men doe also loue such as they see full of freedome and without dissimulation towards them In which ranke they nuÌ„ber such as make no scruple to discouer their errors vnto them and who entertaine them freely with their priuate passions For as wee haue shewed before we blush not to say or doe in priuate with our friends that which we would not doe publickely before the world Wherefore as he that is ashamed to doe any thing before another shewes that hee loues him not perfectly so he that hath not this apprehension giues a manifest testimony that he hath a full confidence in his friendship wherefore wee loue such as make shewe to rely vpon vs euen discouering their imperfections vnto vs. Againe they affect those whose authority is not fearefull vnto them whose power they thinke they shall haue no cause to apprehend for no man euer loued him whom he feared seruilely and herein Tyrants abuse themselues thinking to seâ—le
this life is subiect Finally they desire rather to vndertake those things which are honorable then that which concernes profit For that they gouerne themselues rather by their owne courage and the bounty of their nature which hath the honesty of things for obiect then by the discourse of reason which doth commonly propound for end that which is most profitable Young men doe also loue indifferently the company of such as are of their age and condition not making any curious choyce of their friends the which shewes that they haue more curiosity then care of that which may auaile them in the course of their liues They are also violent and obserue no moderation in their motions and actions so as if they loue they loue furiously and if they hate it is extreame and so in all other things they keepe no mediocrity The which grows from their presumption and for that they haue a conceit to know any thing which makes them to speake boldly and to defend their impertinencies wilfully They commit many errors but commonly they are the defects of youth which proceede from the heat of blood so as there is more insolency in their actions then affected crimes They are moreouer pittifull and gentle for that measuring others by their own innocency they beleeue that al the world is good and that they which suffer any extraordinary miserie haue not deserued it and for that reason they haue compassion of them Finally young men are pleasant witty and loue to laugh and to heare a witty ieast which they thinke is a signe of a good spirit and therefore admire him They also loue horses dogges huntings combates and other exercises which haue some kinde of violence or pleasure To conclude young men are commonly rich in inuention but poore in matters of iudgement they are fit for execution but incapable for any great dessigne They are borne to excite troubles but are not able to pacifie them they imbrace much but hold little they aspire to the end but looke not to the meanes and when they haue committed an error they will hardly acknowledge it and leaue it like vnto those resty horses which leape and bound and will neither stand still nor go forward As for those that grow to age they haue Passions in a manner quite contrary to young men for hauing liued long and beene often deceiued hauing themselues committed many errors and knowing also that the world is full of subtilty and villainy they are not assured of any thing but looke vpon all things with distrust and if they deliuer their opinion in any businesse it is with a kind of feare so as it seemes they will make it knowne that in all things there is more coniecture then certainty wherfore their ordinary restriction in their answers and discourses is It may be peraduenture it is true The which proceedes frō the great Idea they haue of the inconstancy of things the deceits of men For the same reason they are malicious being a meere malice to interpret as they doe all things in the worst sence and for the same reason they are also distrustfull and suspitious suspitious by reason of their distrust and distrustfull in regard of the experience they haue of things Finally they neuer loue entirely neither is their hatred furious but they loue commonly as if they should hate and they hate as if they shold he moued to loue Moreouer their courage is weake both in respect of the coldnes of their blood and spirits as also by reason of calamities past and the miseries which they haue tried And for this reason vnlesse they haue some spice of folly they doe seldome attempt any hardy enterprizes nor hazard their fortunes and honors but they are content to seeke that which may protect them from necessity whereby they are couetous and fast fearing to diminish that which they thinke is necessary for them whereunto they are drawne by experience which hath taught them how hard a thing it is to gather great wealth and how easie it is to lose it They are in like manner fearefull and encrease their apprehensions by imagination and by the fore-sight of the future wherewith they are alwayes troubled the which proceeds from the coldnesse of their blood For this coldnesse which is common to olde men makes them enclined to feare whereas heate incites courage and resolution Moreouer they loue life much and especially vpon the declining of their dayes for that men desire that naturally whereof they haue great neede and when as they feare it should fly from them then they desire it more passionately They commonly powre forth cōplaints which are signes of their weaknesse and which makes them importune And then they rather imbrace that which is profitable then what is honorable wherein they shew themselues commonly extreame euen base the which growes from the loue they beare vnto themselues For profit is the good of that priuate person that doth enioy it but honour tends to good absolutely without consideration of the interest of any particular After this they are rather impudent then bashfull for respecting not honour so much as their owne commodities they care not for the opinion of the world but contemne it Finally they renounce in a manner all good hopes and haue none but bad both for that they are distrustfull and fearefull as for that experience hath taught them that most things are bad and that they impaire daily so as they liue rather by memory then hope for that they haue not long to liue and haue liued long for hope is of future things and memory of what is past And this is the cause that old men are great talkers for that they take a singular content to commend the times past In our times say they we did this wee did that taking a wonderfull content to remember what is past As for their choler it is sudden and violent but it is like a fire of straw that is soon quencht Their desires are mortified or weake and cannot bee quickened or receiue any vigor vnlesse the loue of money possesse them And therefore they are temperate and loue frugality which is a kinde of sparing for that they gouerne themselues rather by the discourse of reason then by their owne genius or their proper inclination for as wee haue said discourse aymes at the end and courage hath a respect to honesty as a companion to vertue Their faults sauour more of iniustice then insolency or outrage They are inclined to mercy yea more then young men but for diuers reasons for young men are pittifull by humanity and old men by weaknesse whose age makes them apprehend the miseries wherewith they see other men afflicted as if it hung ouer their heads which is a consideration as wee haue said else-where moues to mercy and pitty And for this reason they doe nothing but complaine and they loue not to see any one laugh neither doe they willingly frequent any that are pleasant and
is deuided into fiue branches and that there are fiue kinds which differ much one from another for there is a loue of naturall things there is a loue of creatures there is a loue of men there is a loue of Angells and there is a loue of God The Loue of naturall things is nothing else but the inclination which things destitute of knowledge haue to vnite themselues vnto their ends and to attaine the perfections of their nature to which sence an Ancient sayd that the loue of the bodies was nothing else but the weight wherewith they are ballanced bee it that the weight keepes them downe or that the lightnes raiseth them vp on high for God hath ingrafted these inclinations into all naturall things to the end they may attaine to their perfections and preserue them when they haue once gotten them The loue of creatures is nothing else but a vehement impression made in their sences surprized with things which they conceiue to be pleasing This Passion is many times blind importune obstinate and insolent and is common to men brute beastes which suffers themselues to bee transported with the motions of a dishonest pleasure Humaine Loue is a Passion which should follow the motions of reason and which being guided by the light of the soule shold only imbrace the true good to make it perfect for containing himselfe within these bounds it should no more be a violent furious passion which filles the world daily with so many miseries by her exorbitant and strang disorders The Loue of Angells flies yet higher for that those happy spirits enlightned with a more excellent light and illuminated with a more pure perfect splendour loue the soueraigne Good more ardently then all the creatures and by a reflux of this great Loue take an incredible care of the affaires of men and being neuer wearied in the seruice they do them by the coÌ„mandement of God assist them procure their safety with constancy and ioy full of amazement and wonder The Loue of God enters not into comparison with any other for that as there is no proportion betwixt things finite and infinite his motions being infinite they appeare with another lustre and shew themselues with a greater endeauor towards that he loues then the creatures can doe From this spring flow the admirable beauties which shine in the heauens in the Starres Planets Elements in bodies both simple and compound and in great meane and small things all which do feele the effects of his bounty and the perfect assistance of his prouidence From this spring proceedes the care which hee hath of men the graces which he imparts vnto them the good desires wherewith hee doth inspire them and the meanes which hee offers them to raise them vp to the height of his glory and to make them enioy the felicity of Angells But we will not treate of this kind of loue whereof wee had rather feele the flames then describe the perfection Neither will wee discourse of that of Angells which wee may better admire then set forth wee will not in like sort busie our selfe with that of naturall things or of creatures which is too base for our subiect but wee will represent the Loue which is a humaine Passion whereof morall Philosophy teacheth vs to discourse and whose essence we meane now to set downe Wherein the Essence of Loue doth consist CHAP. 2. AS in other subiects we dovsually ascend vnto the knowledge of the cause by the search of the effects so in this matter to attaine vnto an exact knowledge of the nature of Loue we must first vnderstand what it is to loue to the end the branch may discouer the nature of the roote Loue then is no other thing but To will good to some one not for our owne priuate interest but for the loue of himselfe procuring with all our power what we thinke may bee profitable for him or may giue him content Whereby it appeares there are foure things to be considered in Loue. The first is that wee be carefull of his good whom we Loue the which growes for that loue vnites the wills perfectly and makes vs esteeme the good which befalls him we loue as our owne particular wherefore the Ancients sayd that Loue was one soule in two bodies The which it seems that Alexander would giue Darius mother to vnderstand when he sayd that Hephestion was another AlexaÌ„der For he vsed this speech in regard of the great affection hee bare him the which was such as he held him another himself so as he would haue him a partaker of all his honors glory After this manner then wee should desire to our friends the same honors the same glory and all other felicities which we wish for our own proper contentment And when they succeed wee must reioyce as if wee our selues enioyed them seeing that all things are common among friends But secondly we must wish al this good to those we loue for their ownesakes and not for any priuate interest of our owne or for any profite wee expect to reape by them for the Epicures opinion who wil haue men loue for profit or pleasure is infamous and makes Loue either mercenary or of small continuance Wee must then remember that there are three kinds of friendship that is to say honest profitable and pleasing Betwixt the which there is this difference that the two last kinds are no true affections but rather shadowes of Loue whereas the first that is to say honest friendship which hath vertue for her obiect is solid and true and moreouer it is constant and of long continuance whereas the profitable and the pleasing last little and are dissolued vpon the first alteration which happens in the subiect whereunto they are tied As for example they that loue only for profit continue no longer in this affection then they whom they loue may be beneficiall vnto them the which ceasing they renounce the duties of friendship which they had formerly shewed for that the cause ceasing the effect of necessity must cease Hence it growes that the friendships of Court are so inconstant and variable for that Courtiers commonly â—â—e their affections to those which are in fauour haue some kind of credit to the end it may bee an entry for them to offices in the Estate But if there happen any alteration in their fortune by a disgrace with the Prince and that they see them vnable and incapable to assist them they presently abandon them and make no more account of them then of an image ouerthrowne yea they would haue men thinke that they neuer obserued them So in Tiberius time Seianus possessing his maister absolutely receiuing the fauor of this Prince with full sailes so as all the honors all the dignities and all the offices of the Estate depended of the inclination he had to those that courted him all the world adored him the people and Senate erected statues vnto him hee was publiquely
vertue generosity sanctity and eminent knowledge are not only louely things of themselues and which haue powerfull allurements to cause them to bee affected and admired in the subiects where they reside but also men beleeue there is a kind of glory to bee admitted into the fauour of such illustrious persons whose glory seemes to communicate with those that haue the honor to come neere them But men Loue particularly these famous and vertuous Persons when as they discouer that they disdaine not the affection and Loue of those which make shew to honor them with Passions for it is a testimony of their moderatioÌ„ of the bounty of their nature not to be puft vp with the glorious aduantages which they haue gotteÌ„ aboue the ordinary sort of men They also Loue such as are of a sweete conuersation and that haue a milde and pleasing humor that is to say they Loue those that are not fantasticall and of a troublesome and importune behauiour They also Loue such as reproue them not odiously of their faults they loue those whom they see enemies of contention and which make shew that they haue not a desire to bee superior in al disputes which rise in companies but accoÌ„modate themselues wisely and moderately to that which is contested The reason is for that these wayward spirits they that are licentious in their answeres and such as will alwayes in their arguments haue the vpper hand seeme to bee borne to contradict and controule the opinions of the whole world the which is a signe of the alienation of wills and dissenting from others which makes them to be hated whereas contrariwise they Loue such as haue none of these bad humours and which accomodate themselues in company without making any shew to bee selfe conceited Moreouer men haue as it were a naturall inclination to Loue those which haue a quicknes and grace in their incounters or to iest pleasantly but withall can indure to heare a witty returne hence it comes that in Court buffoones and ieasters which haue biting and Satiricall spirits are so much esteemed and yet many times these people bite priuate Persons too sensibly and indiscreetly and draw vpon them the iust wrath of those whom they haue licentiously offended In the meane time the reasons why they Loue such as are sudden in their incounters and sharpe in their ieasts is for that it seemes this quicknesse wittinesse to incounter proceeds from the subtilty and force of their spirits And then we are inclined to heare men euil spoken of wherefore we Loue them that do it with a good grace And for that we Loue particularly such as take liberty to iest at others are content to be iested withall that proceedes for that wee beleeue that such as will indure that which they themselues practise to others haue no bad intent nor any bitternes in their hearts but are carried to these incounters more through a quicknesse of wit then by any spleene Moreouer they loue such as seeme to make great esteeme of the good partes and qualities which they beleeue they enioy Wherefore wee suffer our selues to be surprized by flatterers who insinuate into our fauours couer our defects seeme to admire our actions This misery happeÌ„s particularly to such as distrust themselues and who feare to want those vertues which they desire to attaine vnto For this distrust bâ—ing dispersed by the praises which they giue them they thinke themselues bound to such as bring this support vnto their weaknes They also loue those persons which affect neatnesse in all things who take delight to carry a pleasing countenance and to attire themselues properly for that this neatnesse and hansomenesse is as it were a signe of the desire they haue to insinuate themselues into the hearts and to gaine the affections of men who fâ—r this cause think theÌ„selues bouÌ„d to loue them they in like manner loue them that lay not their faults before them to shame them nor reproche them with the benefits wherwith they haue bound them The reason is for that both the one and the other redounds to our disgrace and it seemes that such as enter into these reproaches will make vs contemptible either by discouering our defects or in accusing vs of ingratitude They also loue such as remember not iniuries past which are not obstinately bent to reuenge and who are alwaies ready to pardon such as haue offended them Wherefore the Romaines did woÌ„derfully admire the first of the Caesars for that he forgat nothing but iniuries the remembrance whereof he held vnworthy the greatnesse of his courage Wherefore when as this Prince had erected againe the statues of Pompey Cicero that great ornament of the Romaine Eloquence pronounced to his commendatioÌ„ that in erecting the statues of Pompey he had assured his owne as hauing wonne the Loue of the whole world by this act oâ— humanity which hee shewed to his enemy opprest with misery The reason of this Loue which men beare to those which forget iniuries in this manner is for that they presume when they haue offended them they will shew themselues in like manner to them as they haue done to others They also loue such as are not il tongued or detractors which obserue not their imperfections nor those of their friends but only regard their vertues either to admire them or to frame themselues after their example For that these things are the offices of good men and of persons indued with singular integrity and great probity Moreouer they loue such as resist them not when they are in choler or that importune them not in the middest of their most serious imployments for that they which take pleasure in these oppositions and importunities seeme to loue contention and to be enemies to all society They also loue those that admire them which haue an opinion that they are vertuous and make shew that they take delight in their conuersation and are officious vnto them But principally when they make shew of this affection and liking in those things wherein they would haue their industry admired As for example a man that loues Philosophy takes delight to heare his profession praised he that takes delight in Armes hath a singulat content to heare his exercise commended wherefore both the one and the other loue those thaâ— giue glorious testimony of that which concernes their profession Aboue all they haue an inclination to loue their like being a thing which nature teacheth vs dayly that resemblance ingenders Loue not onely among men but also among other creatures for euery creature loues his like Tygers Panthers troop together with beasts of their owne kind And birds of one fether fly willingly together such power hath resemblaÌ„ce to vnite affectioÌ„s the which we must beleue is more powerful in man who can haue no sweeter conuersatioÌ„ theÌ„ with his like The reasoÌ„ why euery man loues his like is for that maÌ„ louing passionatly aboue other things loues consequently any
his desires and intentions But whence comes the power which this Passion hath thus to vnite the subiects where it worketh This cannot well bee explicated without the aide of Philosophy First of all Loue say the Philosophers is a desire to enioy the good wee propound vnto our selues as proper for our content and capable to make vs in some sort better by the fruition But this enioying participation cannot bee effected but by vniting the obiect to our affection which is the same good we propound vnto our selues wherefore it is of the Essence of Loue that it produceth this vnion Hence it proceeds that the presence of the party beloued is so deare and pretious vnto vs and that we feele our selues filled with content when as we may enioy him to entertaine our thoughts to taste the sweetnesse of his company and to discouer our Passions whereas his absence and separation giues vs a thousand torments and afflicts vs with a thousand sorrowes and discontents which wee would redeeme with our liues Wherefore when as death doth take violently from vs those whom wee loue dearely and by this meanes hath condemned vs as it were to a perpetuall absence we striue to ease our griefe and sweeten our losse by transporting our selues often to the places where we were accustomed to see theÌ„ representing vnto our selues their portracts and images reading ouer their letters stil handling al the gages and monuments they left vs of their affection Sometimes the same gages and the same momuments of their affection displease vs and wee do so abhorre them as wee cannot indure to see them nor handle them but this growes from the griefe of their absence for that we then represent them as infallible signes of our losse which they figure vnto vs as irreparable by reason whereof their pictures fill vs with bitternes But on the other side when as the same things seeme vnto vs to supply the presence wee Loue them dearely and cannot bee weary to entertaine our selues with those thoughts And if amidst all this we can inuent any thing that may serue to preserue the memory more liuely in our soules wee imbrace the inuention and are wonderfully pleased with this art Wherein doubtlesse Artimesia Queene of Caria shewed an act of wonderfull Passion towards her husband Mausolus For death hauing taken him away this desolate Princesse not knowing how to pull the thornes of her sorrow out ofher soule she caused his body to be reduced to ashes and mingled them in her drinke meaning to make her body a liuing tombe whereas the reliques of her deare husband might rest from whom shee could not endure to liue separated The most subtile Philosophers giue a second reason of this vnion which ariseth froÌ„ Loue. Loue say they hath her feate in the Will they doe not consider it as a Passion onely which riseth in the sences but also as a quality which in the end becomes spirituall but there is this difference betwixt the vnderstanding and Will the vnderstanding goes not out of it selfe to ioyne with his obiect but rather he drawes the obiect vnto him whereof the Image is framed to produce his action like vnto a seale which prints its forme in the waxe But the Will being toucht with the Loue of her obiect suffers it selfe to bee drawne to his Image and going out of it selfe vnites it selfe vnto him to take his forme like vnto the waxe which receiues impressions of the seale So as by this reason Loue is thoght to cause the vnion of him that loueth with the party beloued for that his will rauished by his loue hath no other Passion but to see her self vnited vnto her But these meditations are too nice for our subiect The second effect they attribute to Loue and which is as it were a branch and bud of the first is that it causeth the soule of him that loues to bee more where it loues then where it liues and that reciprocally the soule of the party beloued is more with the louer then with his owne body The reason is for that the soules of such as loue are perpetually attentiue to coÌ„template the image of that they loue and haue no other thoght nor greater pleasure then that they receiue by this sweete entertainment By reason whereof the soule making shew of a more exact presence where it doth most frequently worke it followes thereby that it is more with the party beloued then in its owne body But let vs heare the opinion of the Platonicians vpon this point The soule say they which is toucht to the quicke with Loue dying in iâ—s owne body findes life in that it loues And when this Loue is reciprocall it dies but once wheras it reuiues twice For he that loues dyes truly when as Loue makes him neglect and forget the causes of his life to thinke wholly vppon the party beloued but hee recouers his life doubly when as he sees himselfe imbraced and entertained by the party beloued and that he finds in his armes his deer Image which hee preserues more carefully then his own life Who will not then say they hold this death happy which is recompenced by two such sweete liues But this discourse of the Platonicians presupposeth an equall correspoÌ„dency in Loue without the which they maintaine that this Passion is full of despaire leaues nothing in our soules but importune and troublesome thornes Wherfore the Ancients said that to make Loue grow shee had neede of a brother But wee haue treated sufficiently of this Subiect They attribute other effects to Loue that is to say languishings extasies and amazements but that Loue must bee very violent which doth produce them And moreouer wee may consider these extasies and rauishâ—ments which may happen in a violent Loue after two sorts First we may obserue them as a true alienation of the sences which ariseth for that the spirit and will of him that loueth being wholy imployed in the contemplation and enioying of the thing beloued suffereth himselfe to bee so transported with this content as the soule remaines as it were quencht and without motion The which may also proceed from a more powerfull cause that is to say either from God or from euill spirits which somtimes stirre vp these rauishments and extraordinary extasies Secondly we may consider these extasies rauishments as a kind of madnes which transports them that Loue and makes them to commit many follies wherefore an Ancient sayd that Iupiter himselfe could not be wise and loue at one instant These extasies and rauishments produce sometimes prodigious effects in their soules that are afflicted with this Passion For that his soule that loues intirely is perpetually imployâ—ed in the contemplation of the party beloued and hath no other thoughts but of his merit the heate abandoning the parts and retiring into the braine leaues the whole body in great distemperature which corrupting and consuming the whole bloud makes the face grow pale wanne causeth
seeme to threaten him he goes couragiously to encounter them whereas when he is surprized by feare he faints and abandons himselfe vnto the misfortune his despaire rising from the difficulties which he apprehends in the good which he should hope for But to haue full knowledge of this subiect and of the whole matter we must in the end of this chapter shew how despaire is contrary to hope and seek the reason why it may sometimes make men valiant and to winne great victories First of all you must remember what wee haue formerly sayd that among the Passions of the soule they obserue two kinds of opposition The first is found among those that haue contrary things for obiects and that is onely a-among the passions of the Concupiscible part as for example betwixt Loue and Hatred whereof the one regards the good and the other the euill The second is obserued betwixt those that in truth regard the same obiect but with diuerse considerations and that is found among the Irascible passions whereof the one seekes the good and the other flies it by reason of the difficulty which doth inuiron it As for example Courage and Feare do both regard an imminent danger which presents it selfe to the imagination but courage lookes vppon it to encounter and vanquish it and feare regards it to auoyd it and flye from it if it be in her power After this manner then despaire is contrary to hope for that the obiect of hope which is a good difficult to obtaine drawes vs of the one side that is to say so farre as wee doe imagine a power to obtaine it But it doth reiect vs on the other side as when we apprehend that wee haue no meanes to enioy it for this apprehension daunts our resolution or that as Aristotle teacheth the impossibility which wee imagine in things makes vs to giue ouer their pursuit Wherefore in this consideration despaire is quite contrary to hope But some one may say How comes it that many times in warre despaire makes men valiant and giues them great victories as well as Hope for that it is not the custom of nature to produce the like effects from contrary causes To which we answer that when in the midst of despaire men resolue to fight valiantly as we reade of the English in the plaines of Poictiers where they tooke one of our Kings prisoner it happens for that they haue not lost all hope for they that see no apparence of safety by flying and apprehend that it cannot preserue them from falling into their enemies hands but will purchase them eternall shame with their miserie losing all hope of that side they resume new courage and resolue to sell their liues dearely and to reuenge their deaths gloriously Wherefore great Captaines haue alwaies held opinion that enemies should not bee thrust into despaire beeing put to flight but rather make them a bridge of gold to giue them meanes to passe riuers lest that finding themselues staied and despairing of all safety they should take more courage and generously reuenge their first basenesse by a cruell slaughter of their enemies Of Choler CHAP. 1. OF all the passions of the soule there is not any one that takes such deepe root or extends her branches farther then Choler wherof neither age condition people nor nation are fully exempt There are whole Countries which liuing vnder a sharp rough climate are not acquainted with pleasures There are others who contenting themselues with those benefits which nature presents vnto them are not enflamed with any ambition Some there be to whom misery is familiar as they fear not any accidents of fortune But there is not any ouer whom Choler doth not exercise her power and shew the excesse of her rage Yea she enflames whole kingdomes and Empires whereas the other passions doe onely trouble and agitate priuate persons Wee haue neuer seene a whole Nation surprized with the loue of one woman It was neuer foūd that a whole City hath beene transported with a desire to heape vp treasure Ambition doth puffe vp but certaine spirits But we see Cities Prouinces and whole States enflamed with Choler and transported by this fury with a publicke conspiracy of great small young and olde men and children Magistrates and multitude we see Commonalties whom this fury hath incensed runne all to Armes to reuenge a disgrace or a wrong which they pretend hath beene done them Wee haue also seene great and powerfull Armies which haue bene the terror of the world ruine themselues by this fury which hath thrust them into mutiny against their Commanders Wherefore if there be any passion which is pernicious vnto man-kind it is this which seemes neither to haue bounds nor limits nor any shew of reason It shall bee therefore fit to know the nature properties and effects thereof to the end wee may finde out some remedy to diuert the miseries which shee brings into the world Let vs begin by the Definition which giues a full light of the Essence of the thing and makes vs to know perfectly Choler is an ardent passion which vpon the apparence there is to be able to reuenge our selues incites vs to a feeling of a contempt and sensible iniury which we beleeue hath been vniustly done either to our selues or to those we loue Whereby it appeares first that Choler is accompanied with a heate which is framed and ingendred in vs for that this passion enflames the blood and spirits which are about the heart by meanes of the gall which in this heat exhales it selfe and ascends vnto the braine where it troubles our imagination This heate differs from that which proceedes from loue for that the heate which is found in loue tending to the thing beloued to vnite it selfe with it is mixt with a certaine sweetenesse so as the Philosophers compare it to the moderate heate of the ayre or blood Wherefore we say that sanguine complexions are most capable of loue that the bounty of the liuer wheras the blood is framed induceth to loue But the heate of Choler is boyling full of bitternesse and accompanied with sharpenes which tends to the destruction of the obiect which it pursues and is properly like to the heate of a great fire or to adust choler extraordinarily mooued which consumes the subiect whereunto it is fixed and therefore the Philosophers maintaine that it proceedes from the gall It appeares also by the Definition of Choler that she hath alwayes for obiect the particular persons which haue wronged vs. Wherein she differs from hatred which extends to a multitude of men As for example wee detest all murtherers all theeues all poysoners and all slanderers euen as wee abhorre all serpents vipers and venemous beasts And therefore it is not sufficient to satisfie our Choler that he that hath done vs wrong fall into some disaster which might suffice to giue satisfaction to our hatred But moreouer to giue vs full contentment hee must know that
vnworthy They are angry also with such as dissemble things and make a ieast of that which they haue done seriously for this dissimulation and diuersion of their intensions is a signe of scorne Finally men are discontented with those which doe good to all the world yet do none to them in particular for they are conceited that such as haue no care to bind them vnto them shewing an inclination to oblige all the world witnesse thereby that they esteeme them not as they do other men but haue a most base conceit of their merit This consideration hath bred discōtents in the courts of great Princes for euery one holding himselfe as worthy as his companion to attain vnto the offices of State when as any one is aduanced without mention made of them they conceiue that his good fortune is a blemish to their glory makes them to be esteemed inferiour to his merite To cōclude forgetfulnesse prouokes choler for that forgetfulnesse is a signe of the little care they haue of men And this little care is a mark of contempt for that the things whereof they make account are most carefully recommended to memory CHAP. 3. Of the Effects and remedies of Choler AMONG all the Passions that trouble transport the soule of man there is not any accompanied with so great violence which shewes such brutishnesse or that produce such fatall and tragicall effects as Choler which seemes properly to be the spring frō whence flowes all the miseries and ruines which happen in the world For whereas other passiōs as Loue and Ioy Desire and Hope haue certain beams of sweetnesse which makes them pleasing Choler is full of bitternes hath no sweeter obiects thē punishments blood and slaughter which serue to glut her reuenge These be her delights these are her ioyes these are the sweetest and most pleasing spectacles which she can behold But if you desire to see how shee is the fountaine of all the horrors which are dispersed ouer the world and make it desolate reade in histories of the sacking of Townes of Prouinces ruined and made deserts obseruing the euersion and ouerthrow of Empires Diademes troden vnder foote Princes basely betrayed and smothered by poyson Kings murthered great Commanders in Warre cast into chaines and seruing as an example of humane miserie Consider that whole multitudes haue beene put to the sword or made Gallyslaues whole Natiōs rooted out the Temples wheras Diuinity dwels prophaned the Altars beaten down and whatsoeuer was most holy and most reuerend among men vnworthily violated and they shall find that all these tragicall spectacles are the effects of that cruell and inhumane fury But setting apart the horror of the effects which shee produceth generally let vs obserue the miseries whereof she is the cause in priuate persons that suffer themselues to bee transported with this Passion First then if the saying of Physitians be true that of all the infirmities wherewith we are afflicted there are none worse nor more dangerous then those which disfigure the face of man and which make it deformed and vnlike vnto himselfe we must conclude by the same reason that of all the Passions of man there is not any one more pernitious nor more dreadfull then Choler which alters the gracefull countenance and the whole constitution of man For as furious and mad men shew the excesse of their rage by the violent changes which appeare in their bodies euen so a man transported with Choler giues great signes of the frenzie that doth afflict him his eyes full of fire and flame which this Passion doth kindle seeme fiery sparckling his face is wonderfully inflamed as by a certaine refluxe of blood which ascends from the heart his haire stands vpright and staring with horror his mouth cannot deliuer his words his tongue falters his feete and hands are in perpetuall motion He vomits out nothing but threats hee speakes of nothing but blood and vengeance Finally his constitution is so altered and his lookes so terrible as he seemes hideous and fearefull euen to his dearest friends What must the soule then be within whose outward image is so horrible Wherefor an Ancient sayd that Choler was a short fury And another maintained that all violent Choler turned into madnesse The which we may confirme by that which is written of Hercules who growing furious knew not his owne wife and children vpon whom he exercised his rage tearing them inhumanely in peeces euen so they ouer whom Choler hath gotten absolute power forget all affinity and friendship and without any respect make their owne kinsfolkes and friends feele the effects of their fury For it is a Passion which growes bitter against all the world which springs aswell from loue as from hatred and is excited aswell in sport as in the most serious actions So as it imports not from what cause it proceeds but with what spirit it incounters As it imports not how great the fire is but where it falles for the most violent cannot fire marble whereas the smallest sparkles will burne straw Hereby wee gather that this Passion domineers principally in hot and fiery constitutions for that heate is actiue and wilfull and giues an inclination to these kinds of violence making vs to grow bitter easily yea vpon the least subiect that may be Finally to returne to our first purpose Choler doth not only disfigure the body but many times it ruines it wholy For some being extraordinarily moued haue broken their veines and vomited out their soule with the blood yea they which haue slaine themselues owe their misfortune to Choler which hath forced them to this last fury hauing then left such cruell signes of rage vpon the body she assailes the mind shee doth outrage to the soule and smothers reason in man and like vnto a thicke cloud will not suffer it to enlighten him and by this meanes fills him with disorder and confusion So as hee begins to shut his eare to all good aduice he will no more heare speake of that which may helpe to mollifie his courage which is full of bitternesse and violence so as taking pleasure in his owne affliction he abhorres all remedies and flies the hand of the Physitian which might cure him yea in this transport hee is offended at any thing and imitates the sauage beasts whom the most cheerefull colours thrust into fury An innocent smile a shaking of the head which signifies nothing a glance of the eye without dessigne is capable to draw him to the field But how often haue wee seene this inhumaine fury dissolue euen the most sacred friendship vpon very friuolous subiects hath shee not prouoked dearest friends to duells and made them serue as spectacles of infamy both to heauen and earth for quarrells imbraced without any ground It is then very apparant that this Passion is not only infamous but also most wretched seeing that vnder an weake pretext of reuenge she doth precipitate men into most horrible villanies makes them
benefits from him it is reason wee should endure and that remembrance of things past should mollifie our present bitternesse and we must duely consider with our selues whether hee hath not iust cause to entreat vs with that rigor whereof wee now complaine If it be a woman this sexe doth not alwayes follow the motions of reason and her weakenesse should serue her for an excuse If they bee persons subiect to a greater power it may be they haue bene forced and being solicited by such as they could not disobey would you then bee angry against necessity another may offend vs after that he hath bene outraged by vs and what wonder is it if hee requite vs with the like If he be a Magistrate or a Iudge from whom wee pretend to haue receiued some iniustice his sufficiency must bee of more weight then our priuate opinion and wee should rather accuse our owne crime then suspect him of corruption If it bee a King or Prince that punisheth some malefactor we must beleeue that hee doth it iustly But if hee oppresse an innocent we must not complaine but giue way to the miseries of humane nature remembring that the weaker are subiect to the lawes of mighty If it bee a bruite beast or a peece of timber or stone that hurts vs we must beware that we become not more stupid then sencelesse things thinking to reuenge our iniuries of them If it be a good man we should not thinke that he had any will to hurt vs beeing confident of his innocency If hee bee a wicked man why are wee amazed if the effects resemble the cause Moreouer if we thinke that wee are wrongfully opprest let vs remember that many times wee thinke that vniust which is not so in effect This procâ—eeds from too great a loue which wee beare vnto our selues and in a word it is ignorance or insolency that thrusts vs into Choler neuer remembring that humane nature like vnto a field full of weeds and thornes brings foorth spirits that are ingrate trecherous enuious and wicked Hee that shall duely consider this will not easily giue way to Choler These are parts of the remedies which Philosophers propound against this furious Passion There are others which were too long to relate and to say the truth most of them are rather remedies of Emperickes which palliate the euill then solide medicines which cure our Passions The soueraigne remedy is to cast our eyes vpon the examples of patience which the seruants of God and the Saints haue taught vs in this world and especially to fixe them vpon those which the Sonne of God hath left vs who being outraged by men did not curse them being persecuted hee did not threaten his excutioners being crucified hee prayed for his enemies and who in the end by a Philosophy farre different from that of the world hath put our saluation in his crosse our triumphs in his reproches and our glory in his punishments Of Mildnesse and Gentlenesse CHAP. 1. AS CHOLER enflaming man to reueÌ„ge transports him in such sort as many times he seemes to be depriued of all kind of humanity and that it hath conuerted him into a sauage and cruell beast which breathes nothing but blood slaughter so there is a motion contrary to this Passion which restores man to the estate of man and casting as it were water vpon the fire of his wrath makes him tractable to pardon the outrages which hee pretends to haue beene done him vnworthily This Passion hath no proper name but may be called Gentlenesse Mildnesse or clemency according to the subiects where it encounters and it is no other thing but a motion which reduceth the soule to a quiet estate and makes him forget all kinds of iniuries reuenges Wherefore as men are ordinarily incensed against those that contemne them this contempt being an iniury which proceeds from the will of him that offends vs it is visible that our Choler is easily pacified when as wee see there is no cause of contempt in vs for that they of whom we might complaine haue done it against their inclination and not by any affected malice And the reason is for that humane actions depend of the intention of him that doth them Wherefore imagining that they haue no bad intention against vs we hold them free from crime By the same reason we do easily forget the Choler which wee haue conceiued against those who being mistaken shew their griefe and desire to liue otherwise for that this desire is a testimony that their will hath beene surprized As for example a friend in our infirmity may giue vs a receipt which hee thinkes fit to cure our disease but hauing taken it our paine increaseth yet wee are not bitterly incensed against him for that it appeares his will was to giue vs ease although our paine increased And particularly wee shew our selues easie to pardon those which doe vnto themselues what they haue done vnto vs For that we cannot conceiue that they haue contemned vs in those things wherein themselues are ingaged being apparent that no man contemnes himselfe We also pardon those easily which confesse their faults freely and shew repentance for their offences for that wee imagine this griefe is a sufficient punishment for their wrong Whereof we haue a familiar example in our seruants reprehending more sharply and punishing more seuerely those that palliate their offences or that answer vs arrogantly and we entreat them more graciously which acknowledge their faults and demand pardon And the reason is for that it is a signe of impudency to maintaine an error which is apparent and thâ—s impudency is a notable coÌ„tempt of him against whom they contest so boldly for that wee contemne those with whom we shew no respect or reuerence We are easily pacified when as they whom we pretend haue offended vs humble themselues before vs endure our reproofe and doe not contradict vs for that this submission is as it were a signe of feare or reuerence which they beare vs whereby they silently confesse that they are our inferiours so as we conceiue they doe not contemne vs for that no man contemnes him whom he feares Wherefore euery man layes aside all choler against those that humble themselues we haue an example in the Lyon a generous beast who neuer shewes his fury but pardons those that lye prostrate vpon the ground to saue themselues We also shew our selues mild to those which making the same profession honour vs and speake not slanderously of vs for that this respect shewes they haue vs in good esteeme and that they contemne vs not Wee also pardon those willingly from whom wee haue receiued some notable fauour particularly when they entreat vs and coniure vs with passionate prayers to forget the iniuries they haue done vs and not to take reuenge of them for that these kinde of â—ntreaties are signes of their submission Wee also pardon those willingly which are not reputed to be insolent