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dead_a q._n 5._o be_v not_o that_o sorrow_n too_o much_o for_o your_o dead_a which_o be_v more_o than_o you_o have_v for_o your_o sin_n be_v not_o sorrow_n upon_o the_o account_n of_o some_o present_a evil_n that_o be_v upon_o we_o as_o joy_n be_v for_o some_o present_a good_a and_o shall_v not_o the_o degree_n of_o our_o sorrow_n bear_v some_o proportion_n to_o the_o greatness_n of_o the_o evil_a that_o be_v the_o cause_n and_o reason_n of_o our_o sorrow_n be_v not_o sin_n against_o god_n a_o great_a evil_n than_o any_o beside_o sin_n do_v fall_v upon_o we_o be_v not_o your_o own_o dead_a heart_n and_o cold_a affection_n towards_o god_n a_o great_a evil_n than_o the_o dead_a corpse_n and_o cold_a flesh_n in_o the_o grave_a which_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o all_o this_o sorrow_n now_o when_o your_o sorrow_n be_v more_o for_o the_o lesser_a evil_n than_o it_o be_v for_o the_o great_a judge_v if_o your_o sorrow_n for_o the_o great_a be_v not_o too_o small_a and_o your_o sorrow_n for_o the_o lesserâ—_n overmuch_o and_o excessive_a q._n 6._o be_v not_o that_o sorrow_n overmuch_o which_o carry_v our_o thought_n down_o into_o the_o grave_a to_o think_v of_o their_o dead_a corpse_n but_o hinder_v they_o from_o ascend_v into_o heaven_n to_o meditate_v upon_o the_o the_o eternal_a everliving_a god_n what_o a_o shame_n and_o reproach_n be_v it_o to_o we_o that_o a_o dead_a wife_n or_o a_o dead_a child_n or_o a_o dead_a father_n or_o mother_n shall_v have_v more_o of_o our_o thought_n than_o god_n and_o christ_n and_o thing_n above_o and_o that_o the_o body_n of_o our_o depart_a relation_n consume_v in_o their_o grave_n shall_v have_v more_o of_o our_o thought_n than_o their_o soul_n triumph_v in_o heaven_n have_v that_o it_o be_v so_o our_o excessive_a sorrow_n do_v testify_v to_o our_o face_n for_o we_o can_v say_v nor_o do_v pretend_v to_o sorrow_n for_o the_o soul_n in_o heaven_n be_v it_o not_o then_o for_o the_o body_n in_o the_o grave_a and_o why_o shall_v not_o the_o joy_n the_o immortal_a part_n be_v fill_v with_o abate_v our_o sorrow_n for_o the_o corruptible_a part_n though_o it_o be_v consume_v if_o our_o thought_n be_v as_o much_o with_o the_o soul_n in_o heaven_n as_o they_o be_v with_o the_o body_n in_o the_o grave_a let_v these_o excessive_a mourner_n ingenuous_o confess_v if_o they_o have_v not_o twenty_o thought_n of_o the_o dead_a body_n for_o one_o serious_a heart_n affect_v thought_n they_o have_v of_o god_n and_o christ_n and_o the_o live_a triumphant_a soul_n above_o for_o will_v not_o the_o one_o cause_n joy_n as_o other_o do_v sorrow_n and_o so_o our_o joy_n mitigate_v be_v equal_a to_o or_o exceed_v our_o sorrow_n if_o it_o be_v