spent her youthful dayes amongst Ruffians and debauched Companions If thou thinkest the flower of thine Age too good to give God may justly think the dregs of it too bad to receive How canst thou reasonably think that God should take pleasure in those dayes of which thou thy self wilt say Thou hast no pleasure in them Eccles 12.1 2 Sam. 19.35 'T is task sufficient for old Age to bear up under the infirmities of it Preparation for Death in old Age or sickness is usually weak and sickly like the party and proceeds rather from fear than love How kindly doth God take it when we dedicate the firstling of our years to his service Jer. 2.2 I remember thee saith God the kindness of thy youth Youthful bodies are most active and strong and so most fit for the Service of God who is a Spirit a pure Act and a living God He whose Name is I Am Exod. 3.14 cares not for such as say They will be but are not Now Courteous Reader what I have here spoken is out of a good intent not to drive any to despair but to prevent presumption Well then as Abraham rose early in the morning to sacrifice his Son Gen. 22.3 so let us early in the morning of youth sacrifice our sins or dedicate our selves both Soul and Body to God's Service 2. Ardenter 2. Put the forementioned Directions into practice Earnestly This God calls for Luk. 13.24 Strive to enter in at the strait Gate 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 * Cornelius a Lap. in locum Quasi in agone contendite extremas summasque vires velut agonizantes exerite Strive as Wrestlers do put to all their strength so the word signiffes We should give diligence to make our Calling and Election sure 2 Pet. 1.10 Yea all diligence v. 5. Thou hast commanded us saith David Psal 119.4 to keep thy Precepts diligently 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 valde that is with all diligence and watchfulness and earnest endeavour So Dr. Hammond in Loc. Nay we are not only to give diligence but to put forth holy violence Mat. 11.12 Luke 6.16 The twelve Tribes are said to serve God instantly day and night Acts 26.7 Orig. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 with a kind of extension or vehemencie 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 sig Omnibus viribus vehementer prolixe liberaliter toto animo Cornel. a Lap. in 1 Pet. 1.22 St. Paul tells you what he did Phil. 3.13 14. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Like a man running a race he press'd forward stretch'd forth his Neck and Arms and ran swiftly towards the Mark. True Christians are called lively stones 1 Pet. 2.5 They are compared to stones for solidity and stability but called Lively Stones for their Zeal and Activity Lazy wishes and luke-warm desires will not serve our turn Numb 23.10 He lies under the prophetick Curse that doth the Work of the Lord negligently Jer. 48.10 All that we do for God without zeal is but opus operatum meer performance of the Work which can no more ascend to Heaven than Vapours from the Still unless there be fire under it as a worthy * Mr. Ward in Serm. on Rev. 3.19 Divine tells us Dulness Drowsiness Luke-warmness is unsutable to the work of the Lord. We should serve him with most awakened affections and most serious intentions of Spirit Deut. 11 13. Mat. 22.37 God hath threatned to spue the luke-warm out of his mouth Rev. 3.15 16. Some say that Speech is drawn from warm-water which the stomach cannot by any means brook so God cannot away with luke-warm persons Gregory somewhere saith It is better to be cold than luke-warm in Religion not because the luke-warm person sins more hainously but because he is reclaimed more hardly Dum enim se sanum putet medicinae opem non quaerit Marlor A cursed formality or customary performance of duties without fervent love to them undoes many and renders the Times so perillous 2 Tim. 3.5 Having a * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 form of Godliness but denying the Power from such turn away Let us then with Caleb follow God fully Numb 14.24 And as Barnabas exhorted Let us with full purpose of heart cleave unto the Lord Acts 11.23 As Peter and John strove which should come first to our Savious Sepulchre Joh. 20.4 so let us strive which should attain first to true mortification of sin Let us strive to out-strip one another in goodness * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 This is a commendable contention The greatness of the Work calleth for our greatest endeavours We have many Duties to perform many Graces to get many Sins to subdue and conquer The manifold opposition which we meet with in our way to Heaven from the World the Flesh and the Devil should make us active 1 Cor. 16.13 Ephes 6.10 11 12 13. 1 Pet. 5.8 9. Former mispence of time should put us upon a more diligent improvement of it for the future Ephes 5.16 1 Pet. 4.3 4. Vespatian an Heathen lamented the loss of a day wherein he had done no remarkable service Heu diem perdidi was his word Alas I have lost a day We have let slip many days without doing good squandred away many precious opportunities not to be regained Let us improve time whilst we have it with the best diligence we can shortly we would be glad to have it that we might improve it If God would but vouchsafe to the damned creatures a little time of tryal here on earth again how eagerly would they accept it how holily would they spend it like those Creatures mentioned Ezek. 1.14 They would run and return as the apperance of a flash of Lightning They would Angel-like be upon the Wing ready to fly upon the hardest Errand God should send them about But alas their Glass is run and shall never be turned more The Door of Mercy is shut against them their possibilities are ended Let us be wise in time and work whilst we may for when the Night of Death comes no man can work John 9.4 Stella in Luk. 13.24 Nunc ergà poenitentiam age nè praeoccupatus die mortis quaeras locum quando invenire non possis The wise Man makes this consideration a Whetstone to Industry Eccles 9.10 Whatever thy hand finds to do do it with all thy might for there is no work nor device nor knowledge nor wisdom in the Grave whither thou goest If thy Work be not done when Death comes thou'lt be undone for ever for there will be no second Edition of thy Life to alter or amend what is done amiss Nicodemus's saying according to the flesh is true John 3.4 No man can enter the second time into his Mothers Womb and be born O then be not remiss and negligent in matters of such consequence Let us pray in good earnest repent in sober sadness let us put on Christ's Vertues by imitation and his Merits by application with as much diligence as may be Old men especially
place Psalm 68.20 He that is our God is the God of Salvation and to God the Lord belongs the issues from death This God whom the Righteous are related to and have an interest in can help in greatest straits and send in deliverance when they are nigh unto death and stand in most need of help That God that kept Moses's Bush burning yet it was not consumed Exod. 3.2 and preserved Noah's Ark upon the Waters from perishing in the Waters This God can preserve his People under sickness and their saddest tryals and in his due time give them an happy issue out of all afflictions See what the Psalmist saith Psal 73.26 My flesh and my heart faileth but God is the strength of my heart or according to Orig. The Rock of my heart or according to Septuag 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 The God of mine heart and my portion for ever When the Godly Man's flesh fails health declines strength is weakned then is God ready to support him under sickness and to ease him of his pains either by restoring him to health or by taking him out of the miseries of this sinful World by death So that if we belong to God as Bullinger Bulling in phil 2.27 saith Optimè nobiscum agitur sive revalescamus sive moriamur it will go well with us whether we live or die 2. This Consideration affords comfort not only to believers ' midst personal sickness but likewise to God's Church ' midst national calamities Though Church and State lie as it were bed-rid languishing unto Death under Schism and Division Sin and Errour and other national Calamities Yet let us not despair of help for he that cured Epaphroditus here who was sick nigh unto death can help us even in this extremity See Ezek. 37.11 12 13. God like a skilful Bone-setter or Chyrurgeon can bind up the breach of his People and heal the stroak of their Wound as the expression is Isa 30.26 God hath promised to heal in case we return unto him by prayer and unfeigned repentance Isa 19.22 so Jer. 33.6 None indeed can heal us but he Hos 5.13 All others except God be of the Quorum are Physitians of no value Let us then as it is Hos 6.1 Come and return unto the Lord for he hath torn and he will heal us he hath smitten and he will bind us up Una eademque manus vulnus opemque feret 3. This consideration may afford comfort to such as are spiritually sick and in their apprehensions nigh unto eternal death and destruction That God that raised Epaphroditus who was deadly sick in body can cure thy Soul mortally wounded with sin Let such as are wounded in conscience consider this Though your wounds have been grievous and of a long standing yet they exceed not the skill and power of God the spiritual Physitian God can yea and will cure you if you turn to him and relie upon him Take my word for it Nay it is not only mine but God's Word or I should be loth to speak it in this place See Isa 55.7 Let the wicked forsake his way Ezek. 18.27 and the unrighteous man his thoughts and let him return unto the Lord and he will have mercy upon him and to our God for he will abundantly pardon So Matth. 11.28 Come unto me saith Christ all ye that labour and are heavy laden and I will give you rest Come to Christ and wellcome he keeps open house to all comers 4. And lastly Gods dear People that by their sinning have blurred their evidences for Heaven and fallen from some degrees of Grace and Spiritual Comfort as David did Psal 51.8 12. Let them not despair of recovery That God that restored Epaphroditus's sick body to its pristine health Ps 147.3 can restore thy soul to spiritual health peace and comfort Thus he dealt by David Psal 23.3 He restoreth my soul He is the Creator of Peace and Comfort Isa 45.7 so Isa 57.17 18 19. and hath promised in his due time to speak peace unto his People and to his Saints but let them not turn again to folly Psal 85.8 I end this with that of the Evangelical Prophet Isa 50.10 Who is among you that feareth the Lord that obeyeth the voice of his Servant that walketh in darkness and hath no light a Child of light it seems may walk in darkness i. e. have little or no comfort for the present yet let him trust in the Name of the Lord and stay upon his God Let him still wait on God prayingly believingly obediently c. in God's due time which is ever best comfort will come And so much for this Use by way of comfort Vse 2 2. By way of instruction We learn if God cure the body of sickness as he did Epaphroditus here surely it is he that cures the Soul of sin which is a far harder work God upon the account of Christ who as at this time came into the World to undertake for us heals our souls of sin by applying Christs perfect Righteousness to the soul he removes the guilt and by his blessed Spirit implanting in the soul the Seeds of Divine Grace he heals it of the filth of sin Psal 103.3 Who pardoneth all thine Iniquities who healeth all thy Diseases God alone that cures the body of its distempers heals the soul of its spiritual maladies The Scribes and Pharisees acknowledged as much Luke 5.21 The Pope cannot pardon sins The Ministers of the Church of England absolve no otherwise then declarativè as the Embassadors of Christ God doth it autoritativè the authority is wholly his We do but pronounce the Pardon which before we speak is really done in Heaven to sincere Penitents Vse 3 and last 3. And lastly By way of Exhortation 1. To all in general Let us be exhorted to go to God for help in time of sickness It was he that cured Epaphroditus when sick nigh unto death Too too blame are they who in sickness and such like straits consult Astrologers Witches Devils and I know not whom for help It was an inexcusable sin in Ahaziah King of Israel who in his sickness sought to Baalzebub the Godd of Ekron for recovery of his health and for so doing God threatned him and accordingly brought it to pass that he should not come down from his sick-bed but should surely die Read the passage in 2 King 1.2 c. What good got Saul by consulting the Witch of Endor Surely the Wounds of God are rather to be chosen than the Devils Plaisters Indeed their best cures are deadly wounds For if the mortal body should be restored by such unlawful means yet the immortal soul which is the far better part is thereby much endangered Habes hoc loco qui omnes depollit morbos Bul in Phil. 2.27 O do not go about indirectly to wind your selves out of trouble you have a God to repair unto who can help at all straits and at every turn your head cannot ake
is still with thee in whom dwels all fulness Col. 1.19 Inexhaustible treasures are to be found in Christ If we were Christless then hopeless would our condition be Ephes 2.12 But so long as we have Christ we are well enough It is enough said Jacob in a time of want and misery Gen. 45.28 Joseph my Son is yet alive So may a Christian say It is enough my Christ Joseph was a type of him is yet alive Christ who is still with thee he hath the sweetness desirableness of all creature-comforts he is able and willing to help in the greatest straits Heb. 4.15 16. and therfore Christian be content 3. Consider Thou hast the Comforter still the holy Ghost abiding in thee for ever John 14.16 26. So John 15.26 This Comforter comforts us in all our tribulation 2 Cor. 1.4 5. So 2 Cor. 7.4 Hos 2.14 Peace of Conscience which passeth all understanding Phil. 4.7 Is the earnest and first fruits of the Spirit Rom. 8.23 These Spiritual joyes that come streaming into thy soul they are a cluster of Grapes Numb 13.24 A fore-taste of the exceeding great joy that thou shalt have in the Heavenly Canaan Now as Eliphaz said to Job Do the consolations of God seem small to thee or as Gideon said Is not the gleaning of the Grapes of Ephraim better then the Vintage of Abiezer Judg. 8.2 Is not this gleaning of Spiritual joy better then the whole vintage of carnal joy that the world affords Therefore Christian be content 4. Consider Thou hast interest in many pretious promises as 1. of Justification or pardoning Grace see Isa 43.25 so Jer. 31.34 Mic. 7.19 2. Of Sanctification or Healing see Isa 1.18 Psal 65.3 Ezek. 36.25 26 27. Zech. 13.1 Hos 14 4. Rom. 6.14 3. Of Corroboration or Spiritual assistance 1 Sam. 2.9 Psal 37.17 Isa 41.10 4. Of outward provision Psal 34.10 Psa 132.15 Isa 41.17 Mat. 6.33 1 Cor. 3.21 22. Phil. 4.19 1 Tim. 4.8 5. Of outward protection Psal 31.20 Psal 91.3 4 c. Rom. 8.31 1 Pet. 3.13 6. Of direction in reference to soul and body Neh. 9.20 21. Prov. 3.5 6. Psal 25.12 Psal 32.8 Psal 48.14 Psal 73.24 Isa 58.11 They have the Spirit leading them into all truth Joh. 14.26 and this is a great priviledge calling for thankfulness v. 22. Luther preferr'd the understanding one of David's Psalms above all the riches in the world 7. And lastly Of Eternal Salvation Psal 73.24 2 Cor. 4.17 18. 2 Tim. 4 8. Tit. 1.2 Heb. 4.9 1 John 2.25 What if livelyhood be short so long as Eternal Life will be thine shortly Though thou hast little in hand yet thou hast much in hope and therefore rejoyce in hope of the glory of God Rom. 5.2 We count not him poor that hath a great estate very shortly to fall into his hand There is but one life betwixt thee and a great inheritance and it is thine own life when that is expired thou shalt take possession of it St. James tells us James 2.5 God hath chosen the poor of this world rich in Faith and Heirs of the Kingdom which he hath promised to them that love him What discontent and Heir to a Kingdom methinks you should take joyfully the spoiling or loss of your goods knowing in your selves that you have in Heaven a better and an enduring substance Heb. 10.34 Now Christian Reader these are exceeding great and precious Promises 2 Pet. 1.4 and the Righteous are Heirs to such Promises as these Heb. 6.17 The Saints are there called 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 There is never a Promise in the whole Bible but a godly man may lay claim to it and say This is mine I have an interest there And far better it is to be Heirs to these Promises than to a whole Kingdom therefore Christian be content These Promises are certain things 1 Thess 5.24 Tit. 1.2 Heb. 6.17 18. God's Word is more certain than any mortal man's Bond. I have not wrote down the words of these Promises because I would have you to turn to them in your Bibles and dwell upon them in your private thoughts 'T is Meditation that sucks sweetness out of the honey-comb of a Promise 5. And lastly consider Thou hast many precious Graces which are far better than all the Riches which the World affords as Faith which is more precious than Gold that perisheth 1 Pet. 1.7 It is called Precious Faith 2 Pet. 1.1 So Hope and Charity Humility Meeknesse Chastity Temperance c. are precious things So Spiritual Wisdom is better than Rubies Pro. 3.13 c. and 8.11 These are the true Riches Luke 16.11 These are the durable Riches that cannot be taken away from us Luk. 10.42 These are such things as accompany Salvation Heb. 6 9. Now what saith Solomon Prov. 14.14 The good man shall be satisfied from himself that is as some expound it from the Grace of God that is in him Piety is a good foundation to build Contentment upon Well then poor Christian if I may call thee poor who indeed art so rich having the Graces of the Spirit which are better than this world's goods be content Thus you see if you belong to God you have better things than the World affords But some may say I fear I belong not to God I have not made my peace with him Ans Methinks then the things of the World should be the least of thy care and thou shouldst be most troubled that thou hast not made thy Calling and Election sure as thou art commanded 2 Pet. 1.10 and for the future shouldst give no sleep to thine eyes nor slumber to thine eye-lids Prov. 4.4 till by Faith Prayer and Repentance thou hast got a propriety in him 14. Consider God can if it please him raise thee to a great estate 1 Sam. 2.7 8. He bringeth low and lifteth up he raiseth up the poor out of the dust and lifteth up the beggar from the dunghil So Psal 107.41 He setteth the poor on high from affliction So Psal 113.7 8. Jacob became a great man from small beginnings Gen. 32.10 God raised up Job again and made him greater then he was before as you may see Job 42.10 11 12. Well then remember this that God that gave these things at first may give them a second time therefore be content 15. Lastly Consider Gods former loving kindness let this support thee It was God that did form us in the womb through the midwifery of his providence we were brought forth into the world and ever since we came into the world we have depended upon the breasts of divine providence for Act. 17.28 In him we live move and have our being We may say with Jacob Gen. 48.15 God hath fed us all our life long unto this day Why then should we distrust him now former Experience of God's Mercies should strengthen future confidence in the God of Mercies 1 Sam. 17.37 The Lord that delivered me saith David out of the paw of the
they not cover thy nakedness defend thy body keep thee warm and distinguish thee in respect of sex and condition Therefore be content 7. And lastly Consider If you be cloathed with Christs Righteousness and have upon your souls the graces of his blessed Spirit you are better cloathed then he that goes in Scarlet wanting this spiritual apparel Christ with his Righteousness and the graces of his Spirit in Scripture is compared to a garment Psal 45.13 14 Isa 61.10 Mat. 22.11 12. Rom. 13.14 Gal. 3.27 Ephes 4.24 The white Raiment so oft mentioned in the Revelations as Rev. 3 18. 4.4 6.11 7.9 13. what is it but Jesus Christ imputed and applied to the soul Christ with his graces in which the soul of a Beleiver is invested Rev. 19.8 Believers are candidati invested with the white Robes of Christ's Righteousness This spiritual Garment doth most beautify a Christian as the Apostle shews 1 Pet. 3.3 4. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair and of wearing of gold or of putting on of apparel but let it be the hidden man of the heart in that which is not corruptible even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit which is in the sight of God of great price And again 1 Pet. 5.5 be cloathed with humility Humility is a garment becoming any Christian soul The Greek word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Illigare et innodare significat Mr. Leigh's Crit. Sacra in vocem It signifies to â—ye or bind together or to tye knots as delicate and curious women use to do of Ribands to adorn their heads or bodies as if Humility was the knot of every Vertue and ornament of every Grace And St. Paul adviseth 1 Tim. 2.9 10. That women adorn themselves in modest apparel with shamefastness and sobriety not with broidred Hair or Gold or Pearls or costly Array but which becometh women professing Godliness with good works St. Cyprian writing to the Virgins of his time said of them Quaerentes ornamenta monilium perdiderunt morum That they looked so much after Jewels they lost the Ornament of Vertue and good Manners No such Jewels as Meekness Humility Chastity Sobriety c. See a chain of Graces becoming any Christians neck 2 Pet. 1.5 6 7. Salvian saith Salv. l. 7. de gub Dei pe 235. Quid Deus a nobis exigit quid praestari sibi a nobis jubet nisi solùm tantummodò fidem castitatem humilitatem sobrietatem misericordiam sanctitatem quae utique omnia non onerant nos sed ornant These graces will adorn not burthen us Put on therefore as the elect of God holy and beloved bowels of mercies kindness humbleness of mind meekness long-suffering forbearing one another c. Col. 3.12 13. If these graces be in you and abound you have no cause to complain though your outward apparel be but mean But you say You shall be slighted and disrespected Answ Indeed this is too much the guise of the world Prov. 14.20 The poor is hated even of his neighbour but the rich hath many friends Donec eris faelix multos numerabis amicos Nullus ad amissas ibit amicus opes Ovid. It is with us usually as with a Sun-dyal you know in a cloudy day the Sun-dyal is not lookt upon nor are we respected if a cloud of adversity overshadow us Tempora si fuerint nubila solus eris But let such consider for their comfort 1. Consid It hath been the common Lot of God's dear servants to be disrespected Job's friends like leaves from trees dropt off from him when the winter of adversity drew on See Job 12.4 I am as one mocked of his neighbour The just upright man is laughed to scorn And Job 16.20 My friends scorn me So Job 19.13 to 20. So David Psal 109.25 I became a reproach saith he unto them when they looked upon me they shaked their heads by way of derision Psal 22.7 So Psal 119.141 I am small and despised So it was with the Apostles 1 Cor. 4.10 13. They were defamed and made as the filth of the world and off-scouring of all things So those Worthies Heb. 11.36 Had tryal of cruel mockings Nay Christ himself our Lord and Master was despised See Psal 22.6 I am a worm and no man a reproach of men and despised of the people It is spoken Prophetically of Christ So Isa 53.3 He is despised and rejected of men And Phil. 2.7 He made himself of no reputation Nay God himself is despised Exod. 5.2 Pharaoh said Who is the Lord that I should obey his voice to let Israel go I know not the Lord neither will I let Israel go So Job 21.14 15. They say unto God Depart from us we desire not the knowledge of thy wayes What is the Almighty that we should serve him And what profit shall we have if we pray unto him So Psal 73.9 Wicked men set their mouth against the Heavens Melancton said right Nullum hominem tantum sustinere malorum quantùm contumeliarum Deus Our betters then by far are far more despised than we are or can be 2. Consid God hath an hand in all reproach and disrespect that we meet with David under curses and great disrespect from Shimei saw God's Providence in it and was patient 2 Sam. 16.10 Let him curse said he because the Lord hath said unto him Curse David And again vers 11. Let him alone let him curse for the Lord hath bidden him c. But where did God bid him Answ Not by his revealed Word for that forbidds cursing especially a Magistrate as David was Exod. 22.28 Eccles 10.20 but as some observe by a secret act of Providence disposing of Shimei's malice to chastise David for his sins and hasten forward his own destruction as it did afterwards in Solomon's days 1 King 2.44 That God hath a hand in the disrespect we meet with will farther appear Psal 44.9 Thou hast cast us off saith the Church and put us to shame So vers 13. Thou makest us a reproach to our Neighbours a scorn and derision to them that are round about us And again vers 14. Thou makest us a by-word among the heathen a shaking of the head among the people God himself tells us Isa 43.28 I have given Jacob to the curse and Israel to reproaches Submit therefore your selves to God as St. James speaks Jam. 4.7 3. Consid God layes upon you scorn and disrespect for your good David was patient under disrespect not only because he saw the hand of God in it but likewise because he thought God would do him good by it as you may see 2 Sam. 16.12 It may be saith he that the Lord will look on mine affliction and that the Lord will requite good for his cursing this day God hath several good ends in suffering thee to lie under disrespect As 1. For the Tryal and Exercise of Christian Graces as Faith Patience Constancy Courage Sincerity Zeal Humility
lest I should exceed the bounds of an Epistle craving your Lordships Patronage and Acceptance of these my Labours I take leave and rest My Lord Your Honours most humbly devoted Servant Tho. Allestree Ashow Jan. 27. 1670. To the Reader Courteous Reader SOme judicious Divines have looked upon these following Notes as a Talent not to be buried in a Napkin or in a few sheets of Paper in my Study I therefore resolved at last to press them for publick service This I can say I have not offered thee that which cost me nothing I have spent much time and labour in the composure of this following Treatise What I have met with in reading that might serve for my present purpose I have digested into a method for thy benefit and the principal Quotations I have set down A Posy is not cast away because made up of several Flowers nor Honey distasted which the diligent Bee gathers here and there nor I hope wilt thou like this Book the worse because there are several Quotations in it The former part of this Funeral Handkerchief may teach thee to take patiently the death of Friends We read Act. 19.12 That frō the body of Paul were brought to the sick Handkerchiefs or Aprons and the Diseases departed from them and the evil spirits went out of them This Handkerchief brought to thee from mine hand may through Gods blessing be a means to cure thee of melancholly immoderate sorrow discontent and such like distempers of spirit which may arise at death of Friends and Relations Mine Arguments are grounded upon Divine Writ And as David said of the Sword of Goliah 1 Sam. 21.9 There is none like that give it me So say I of Scripture-Arguments there are none like them These are right words and so the more perswasive Job 6.25 How forcible are right words The latter part of this Treatise may teach thee several good uses which thou oughtest to make of the death of Friends and Relations The first part is far larger than the second what though A large first makes recompence for the shorter second Course at any mans Table And this I also say That though the first part be greater in bulk yet the latter is of greater worth both parts I hope may in some measure answer expectation as to what they promise but the latter chiefly if thou livest up to it may be a means to promote thy eternal Salvation which is the hearty desire of Thy faithful Friend and Servant T. 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The Porch Entrance or Preface to to the ensuing Discourse WHen a Friend is going a long Journey it is a commendable piece of civility to go with him some part of the way and to weep at parting so civil were the people to St. Paul Act. 20.37 38. they accompanied him to the ship and wept over him So when our Friends depart and go to their long-home from whence they shall never return till time shall be no more is it not good manners to accompany them to the Grave and shed some tears for them whom we shall see no more with mortal eyes Eccl. 12.5 Man goeth to his long-home and the Mourners go about the streets The Jews were wont to hire Mourners 2 Chron. 35.25 Jer. 9.17 18. Amos 5.16 and for the most part they were women called in Latin Praeficae They profest an Art in Mourning and composing doleful Ditties And for the greater solemnity persons of worth or estate would hire them to accompany the Hearse and they would mourn for the Dead with such affection gesture and lamentation that they would cause others to mourn for company We find Eccles 7.2 4. the Wise-man calling the house where one dies the house of Mourning which he would not do if it were not lawful to mourn upon such an occasion We reade in Scripture how Abraham mourned for Sarah Gen. 23.2 Joseph for his Father Jacob Gen. 50.10 The Israelites wept for Moses Deut. 34.8 so for Samuel 1 Sam. 25.1 Elisha cryes after Elijah 2 King 2.12 Jeremiah weeps for Josiah 2 Chro. 35.25 And under the New-Testament we find Act. 8.2 devout man carried Stephen to his Burial and made great Lamentation over him And Act. 9.36 37 39. We find there the Widows embalming charitable Dorcas in tears And before this we reade how Martha and Mary wept sore for their Brother Lazarus John 11.19 31 33. Nay Christ himself wept v. 35. and the Jews interpreted it as an argument of his love to Lazarus v. 36. so that civility custom and love to deceased Friends call for weeping upon such an occasion It is pronounced as a judgment upon wicked men when relations shed not a tear nor pay a solemn sigh but are rather glad to be rid of them Job 27.15 Psa 78.64 so God threatned Jehoiakim that he should die unlamented and be buried with the burial of an Ass Jer. 22. 18
as my Husband my Wife my Father my Mother my Brother my Sister my Son my Daughter my Friend c. Whereas the truth is they are not ours but Gods he is the absolute owner of them he made them and hath freely lent them to us without any certain time or date or promise of continuance and what is lent freely we cannot deny but may be call'd for most justly at the pleasure of him that lent it May not God most justly say as the Owner of the Vineyard to the murmuring Labourer Mat. 20.15 Is it not lawful for me to do what I will with mine own Well then we hold our Friends non jure sed gratis not by a juridical right but upon favour and courtisie and if we enjoyed our Relations some time we should be thankful to God that hath lent them to us so long rather then murmur that he takes them so soon St. Jerome comforting Paula for the death of her Daughter Bresilla said Durum quidem sed tolerabile quia sustulit ille qui dederat It was a heavy loss but to be born patiently because he took that gave at first This comforted Job when amongst other things he had lost his Children Job 1.21 22. The Lord gave and the Lord hath taken away blessed be the Name of the Lord. Job considered that God had taken but what he gave at first and so doth thankfully resign up his losses to him Consid 3 Thirdly consider God hath a hand in death of Friends Psal 31.15 My times are in thy hand saith David times of plenty and times of poverty times of health and times of sickness living times and dying times are in the hand i. e. of the disposal of God He measures time of life in what proportion he pleaseth to some he gives a large piece to others a small remnant Job 7.1 Is there not an appointed time to man upon earth Here he puts it by way of question but Job 14.5 There he puts it out of question and takes it for granted That mans dayes are determined the number of his moneths are with thee O Lord thou hast appointed his bounds that he cannot pass So that when a Friend departs that 's the time that God hath appointed So it is said of David Acts 8.36 After he had served his own generation by the will of God fell asleep c. Will of God may be annexed to his falling asleep as well as serving his generation he dyed then by the will of God and was gathered to his Fathers and saw corruption Job saith Job 30.23 I know that thou wilt bring me unto death and to the house appointed for all living Naomi said when she was deprived of her Husband and two Sons in a strange Land The Almighty hath dealt very bitterly with me and the Lord hath testifyed against me and the Almighty hath afflicted me Ruth 1.5 20 21. compared So Moses speaking of the frailty and shortness of mans life saith Thou turnest man to destruction and sayest Return ye children of men Psal 90.3 Gods dixit is his fecit as in the first Creation he said Let there be light and there was light Gen. 1.3 So God here saith Return i. e. he makes them to return viz. to their Original The Body to the earth and the Spirit to him that gave it Eccles 12.7 So David tells us God takes away mens breath and then they dye and return to their dust Psal 104.29 God indeed is the orderer and ordainer of all conditions 1 Sam. 2.6 The Lord killeth and maketh alive he brings down to the grave and bringeth up So Isa 45.7 I form the light and create darkness I make peace and create evil I the Lord do all these things Our Saviour tells us not a Sparrow falls to the ground nor a hair from our heads without the overruling providence of God Mat. 10.29 30. Here is Argumentum a minore ad majus If not a Sparrow a bird of small price and account or an Hair which is no essential part but made for convenience and ornament if these fall not to the ground without the will of our heavenly Father surely a Friend cannot dye but God wills it Let us then at loss of Friends patiently submit to Gods will The Heathenish Idolaters were loth to cast Jonah overboard but when they had cast lots and found it to be Gods will it should be so they patiently submitted 1 Jonah 13.14 Let not Heathens outstrip Christians Let us say with Christ John 18.11 The Cup which my Father hath given me shall I not drink it See Jobs carriage Job 1.20 21 22. He fell down and worshipped not murmured he charged not God foolishly by railing as though he dealt unjustly with him but saith The Lord hath given and the Lord hath taken He saw the hand of God in whatever befel him and this was a strong pillar of supportment to his drooping spirit It is no striving against the stream or current of Gods powerful will Job 9.4 Isa 45.9 Let Gods authority over thee prevent impatience in thee God who doth what he will and will do what he pleaseth Psal 115.3 So Psal 135.6 He takes away and none can hinder him who will say unto him What dost thou Job 9.12 Say then when a Friend is dead Truly this is a grief yet I must bear it Jer. 10.19 And as Seneca saith Aequum est ut patientèr feras quicquid corrigere est nefas It is but fit to bear that patiently which we cannot remedy Consid 4 Fourthly consider God intends it for thy good Psal 119.68 Thou art good O Lord and doest good So vers 75. I know O Lord that thy judgments are right and that thou in faithfulness hast afflicted me So Psal 145.17 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Misericors The Lord is righteous in all his wayes and holy or according to Orig. merciful in all his works Plutarch in his Epistle consolatory to his Wife on the death of a Child amongst others hath this Argument We must always think well of what the Gods do Christians should consider that God in the saddest passages of his providence aims at their good Though indeed his ways be sometimes hidden yet they are alway just When clouds and darkness are round about him then righteousness and judgment are the habitation of his Throne Psal 97.2 Though his Providences sometimes seem to cross his Promises yet in the conclusion you shall see all things work together for good as Physick works for the good of the Patient Rom. 8.28 Every Rod like Jonathans 1 Sam. 14.27 hath Honey at the end of it All things even loss of Friends work together for good to those that love God We read how Sampson fetch'd Honey out of the carcase of the Lyon Judg. 14.8 9. So may we find or fetch good instructions from the Carcase of a deceased Friend God it may be took away such or such a Relation as the Widow of Sarepta said when
sooner let out of the prison of the body but is brought to Heaven the Presence-Chamber of God who is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords where we shall see him as he is so saith St. John 1 Joh. 3.2 And St. Paul tells us 1 Cor. 13.12 We shall see him face to face and know◠him even as we are known 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 as * Mr. Abr. Wright's Serm. on Luk. 16.9 one observes is Nota similitudinis non aequalitatis As God knows me so shall I know God but I shall not know God so as God knows me It is not quantum but sicut not as much but as truly as the Fire doth as truly shine as the Sun shines though it shine not out so far nor to so many purposes Believers at death know God perfectly though not comprehensively for as †Mr. Frost at the end of his Serm on Acts 17.23 another Divine saith well God is infinitae Veritatis Cognoscibilitatis as well as Entitatis and so must either lay aside his Infinity and cease to be God or elevate us above the condition of finite creatures before we can be capable of any comprehensive vision which supposeth an equal commensuration between the object and the faculty but we shall know God so fully see Christ so face to face as that we shall be perfectly happy The Wisemen rejoyced to see the Star that directed to Christ Mat. 2.10 What exceeding Joy will it then be to see the Sun of Righteousness for so Christ is called Mal. 4.2 Old Simeon upon the sight of Christ in the flesh got him into his arms and desired to die Luke 2.28 29. We reade of some John 12.21 that came to Philip and said Sir we would see Jesus And to see Christ in the flesh was one of the three things St. Austin much desired And we read John 20.20 The Disciples were glad when they saw the Lord. It was matter of joy to them to see Christ after he was risen from the dead Now if it was so joyfull a sight to see Christ in the flesh and to see him after he was risen before his Ascension What a joyful sight will it be to see Christ in Glory sitting at his Father's right-hand If the enjoyment of God's Spirit in the Ordinances be so sweet to a Child of God that one dayes communion with God there is better than a thousand Psal 84.10 what will it be to enjoy the immediate Presence of God for ever here the Soul 's Beloved shews himself as it were through the Lattice Cant. 2.9 for clear visions of God are too glorious for this state but hereafter he will shew sorth himself in his full glory To end this Moses prayed Lord shew me thy Glory Exod. 33.18 To whom God answered v. 20. Thou canst not see my face for there shall no man see me and live Whereupon St. Austin meditating cryed out Moriar Domine ut te videam Lord let me die that I may see thee So that you see Death brings a Believer to a sight of him 2. Death brings a Believer to the society of glorified Saints and Angels Heb. 12.22 23. When godly Friends depart they go to better company from Church-militant to Church-triumphant We find Gen. 15.15 compared with Gen. 25.8 Abraham was gathered to godly Fathers Adam Seth Enoch Noah c. that went before him So it is said Isa 57.1 The Righteous perisheth and no man layeth it to heart and merciful men are taken away none considering that the Righteous is taken away from the evil to come The righteous man's perishing is but a taking away Or according to the Original 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Collecti a gathering to their Fathers and godly Friends Many shall come saith Christ from the East and from the West yea and from the North and South from all the quarters of the World Luke 13.28 29. and shall sit down with Abraham Isaac and Jacob in the Kingdome of Heaven Mat. 8.11 I have read how Cato comforted himself in his old age with this consideration that he should depart from the rude multitude and go to the company of blessed Souls O praeclarum diem cum ad illud animorum concilium coetumque proficiscar cum ex hâc turbâ colluvione discedam And Socrates dying rejoyced to go to the place where he should see Homer Hesiod and other Worthies who lived in the Age before him Sure it will be very comfortable to Believers to see Abraham Isaac and Jacob Job David St. Paul St. Austin St. Jerom and innumerable others in the Kingdom of Heaven where joyntly with the blessed Angels as so many Quiristers they sing continually divine Anthems of praise Rev. 4.8 10 11. 19.4 5. David counted the Godly The only Excellent in whom was all his delight Psal 16.3 If it be so delightful to be in company with them here where the best of their actions are mingled with many imperfections Oh! how delightful will it be to be in their company in Heaven where they serve God perfectly without sinning day and night in his Temple Rev. 7.15 We find Luke 16 2◠how that Lazarus departed is carried by the Angels into Abrahams bosom and then v. 25. It is said he is comforted And no wonder for if to be with glorified Saints and blessed Angels be not a comfort I pray you tell me what is 3dly and lastly Death brings a Believer to joy unspeakable We read Heb. 12.2 Christ for the joy that was set before him endured the Cross And Saints are said Rev. 7.9 13. To be cloathed in white Robes Now white as it is an Emblem of purity so likewise of joy And this heavenly joy is so great Dr. Stuarts Cathol Divinity pag. 249 250. that we cannot express it St. Austine said of Jerome Quae Hieronymus nescivit nullus hominum unquam scivit that which Jerome knew not no man ever knew And St. Cyril said also to St. Austin in magnifying St. Jerome That when a Catholick Priest disputed with an Heretick and cited a passage of St. Jerome and the Heretick said Jerome lyed instantly he was struck dumb Yet of the joy of Heaven this learned St. Jerome would adventure to say nothing no not when he was divested of his mortal Body for as soon as he dyed at Bethleem he came instantly to Hippo St. Austins Bishoprick and though he told him Hieronymi anima sum I am the soul of that Jerome to whom thou art now writing o◠the joys and glory of Heaven Mr. Abr. Wright's Serm. on Luk. 16.9 yet he said no more then this Quid quaeris brevi immittere vasculo totum mare Why goest thou about to pour the whole Sea into a Thimble this is easier than to comprehend the joy and glory of Heaven in this Life If all sublunary delights were put together yet were they but as a Candle to the Sun or Drop to the main Ocean if compared with Heavenly joyes And
being in the blood of the mother then the flesh was consolidated Now under the Gospel God hath left Baptism to discretion of Parents and not tyed them strictly to the observance of a day but let not Parents create needless delays to baptize the Child Mr. Fuller in his Infants Advocat Ne quod differatur auferatur lest God in the interim take the Child from them In which case faith Mr. Fuller as I will not be Judg to condemn the Child so should I be one of the Jury I would not aquit the Father St. Austin was called durus Pater Infantum and sure he was an hard-hearted Father to Infants for his opinion was as I have read that children that dyed unbaptized were damned Indeed we read Gen. 17.14 The uncircumcised Man-Child whose flesh of his foreskin is not circumcised that soul shall be cut off from his people he hath broken my Covenant Certainly this place is not to be interpreted of the infant breaking the Covenant who can do nothing to the keeping of it vid. Musculum in loc pag. 407 408. They therefore are here threatned by whose default Curcumcision was omitted or it may be understood of those not circumcised in childhood if they should after come to years of discretion and refuse Circumcision they were to be cut off and looked upon as breakers of the Covenant But to come home to you 1. Consider It is in the want of Baptism as in the want of Circumcision The want of Circumcision except in case of contempt or wilful neglect was not so dangerous Jos 5.7 Circumcision as may be gathered from that text was omitted for forty years in the wilderness and as some observe not reproved in Scripture Indeed we say Contemptus damnat the contempt of the Ordinance is dangerous without repentance and deep humiliation for it for God was displeased with Moses because he neglected to circumcise his son Exod. 4.24 but not the want of it when it was against your will 2. Consider Davids child he lived not to recieve the seal of Circumcision set upon him for he dyed the seventh day 2 Sam. 12.18 And it came to pass on the seventh day the Child dyed Some understand the 7th day from the Child's sickness others in my conceit more rightly understand it the seventh day from the birth of it so that the Child dyed before it was circumcised yet v. 23. he had hopes of the Child 's eternal welfare and therefore wipes his eyes and rests contented Indeed Baptism under the Gospel requires not adjournment to the eighth day as Circumcision did under the Law But if your Child dyed suddenly unexpectedly before the Minister could be procured and your desire was that your Child should be Baptised surely you are herein excusable for God hears the very desire of the humble Psal 10.17 3. And lastly consider Though we be bound to observe Gods Ordinance yet God himself is not tyed to the Sacrament As a most learned and pious Bishop said That Spirit which worketh by means will not be tyed to means Bp. Hall 5th Decad Epistle 4th Cast your eyes upon that good thief good in his death though in his life abominable he was never washed in Jordan yet is received into Paradise his soul was foul with rapines and injustice yea bloudy with murders And yet being scoured only with the blood of his Saviour not with water of Baptism it is presented glorious to God Thus as St. Austin saith Non minus sine Sacramentis salvatus est latro quam cum Sacramentis condemnatus est Judas Thus God who usually works by the Ordinances can also work without them 2d Apology answered Another cryes out This Child that God hath taken away was my Darling the Child I most affected as Jacob did Joseph Gen. 37.3 I could have wished God had taken some other of my children so he had but spared this Answ Thou sayest that thou hast lost a Child that thou most affectedst above all the rest of thy children Yea and it is to be feared more then God too It is I concieve lawful to love one child above another though it be not prudence to express it too fondly for fear of exasperating the rest Gen. 37.3 4. Col. 3.21 thou mayest and oughtest to love that child most which is most like thy Maker Christ loved all his Disciples Joh. 13.1 but John eminently transcendently above the rest John 13.23 and 20.2 and 21.20 because according to his name he was most gracious We may then love our children dearly Salv. ad Eccles Cathol l. 1. p. 347 more then any other outward possessions Non Solum amandos dicimus filios sed precipue ac super omnia amandos nec quicquam his omnino anteponendum nisi Deum solum But we must love no Child more then God If we do God will if he bear special love to us take away that little idol we too much dote upon that he may be loved and admired the more and the creature the less God cannot away with Corrivals he calls for the Heart Prov. 23.26 and will have intensiveness of Affection Matth. 22.37 and therefore removes from you that Child which was as a skreen to keep off the heat of your love from him Hadst thou then loved thy Child less thou mightest have enjoyed him longer Parents may kill their Children by over-loving them aswel as by over-laying them Blame then thy self who too fondly lovedst thy Child but blame not God who took away thy Child for thy good lest thy soul should eternally miscarry And whereas thou sayest thou couldest have wished he had taken some other of thy children so he had but spared this Answ 1. Consider Such kind of speeches are very offensive to God It is not for silly man to prescribe but to submit to God Who art thou that replyest against God in his providential dispensations Rom. 9.20 As God makes all in wisdom Psa 104.24 So he orders all things in wisdom Eph. 1.11 Who worketh all things after the counsel of his own will He knows when he means to shoot what Arrow in his Quiver to chuse he sits at the Helm of this World guiding all things in Wisdom so that when things fall not out as we would have them yet as God would And as * Salv. lib. 1. De Gub. Dei pag. 23. Salvian speaks Summa justitia est voluntas Dei His Will is the Rule of Rectitude and therefore cannot do any thing unjustly Job 34.10 Therefore we should say under cross providences that befall us as 2 Sam. 15.26 Behold here am I let him do to me as seemeth good unto him We read 2 Sam. 3.36 Whatsoever the King did pleased all the people Surely what the Kings King the great Lord and Master of Heaven and Earth is pleased to do should please us For can poor mortals as we are be better disposed of then by Wisdom and Goodness it self Liberame Domine a meipso
so Isa 25.6 and 55.1 2. These and such like places signify celestial viands wherewith God feeds his people by the ministry of his blessed Word and Sacraments Hungry and thirsty souls get much refreshing by these Luk. 1.53 4. and lastly You have the rich graces of the Spirit of God which are a spiritual feast of this Christ speaks Mat. 5.6 Such as hunger and thirst after the righteousness of Christ after the gifts and graces of his blessed Spirit they are blessed and they shall be filled as at a feast So Rev. 3.20 If any man open the door of his heart and recieve Christ with his graces he hath promised to come in and sup with him They shall be merry and fully satisfied as at a feast Thus the righteous have meat to eat that the world knows not of 10. And lastly consider If you belong to God you shall ere long have better fare You may be to morrow for ought you know at the Supper of the Lamb Rev. 19.9 God as one saith is the founder of this feast and none are admitted but Friends Christ the Lamb of God will gird himself and make them to sit down to meat and will come forth and serve them Luke 12.37 What a strange expression is this Christ himself their Lord and Master will serve at the Table he who is sweetness it self will afford them his presence to serve them and to solace them Future happiness is oft in Scripture set forth under the similitude of a feast as Mat. 26.29 Mark 14.25 Luke 22.16 18 30. Mat. 8.11 so Luke 13.29 the Greek word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 signifies to sit down as at a feast or banquet but let us not dream as possibly that Pharisee did Luke 14.15 that there is eating and drinking in Heaven For glorified bodies are freed from these and the like necessities Rev. 7.16 They shall hunger no more neither thirst any more and then v. 17. The Lamb which is in the midst of the Throne shall feed them c. The Lamb of God shall be instead of meat drink apparel sleep and the like Muscul in Gen. 1.29 p. 47. In coelesti vitâ corpus futurum est sine cibo perdurare Glorified bodies shall stand in no need of any outward refreshments no more then Spirits do And therefore the Apostle tells you It is sown a natural body it is raised a Spritual body 1 Cor. 15.44 The holy Ghost then by comparing the joys of Heaven to a Feast shews that there is fulness of joy as at a Feast For as it is Psal 16.11 In thy presence is fulness of joy and at thy right hand there are pleasures for ever more Well then poor Christian that fares so hardly though it be bad with thee now it will be better with thee shortly Poor Lazaras that fared hardly here being dead is comforted Luke 16.25 and abundantly refreshed as at a feast And whereas you say you must wear mean apparel Consider for your comfort 1. Consider Thy betters have gone in worse habit then thou wearest John the Baptist had his Raiment of Camels hair and a leathern girdle about his Loins Mat. 3.4 so the Apostles 1 Cor. 4.11 We hunger and thirst and are naked so 2 Cor. 11.27 so those Worthies Heb. 11.37 They wandred about in Sheep-skins and Goat-skins being destitute afflicted tormented Our first Parents after the fall were no better cloathed then with Leather Gen. 3.21 2. Consider Thy Garments how mean soever are gifts from God Gen. 28.20 Jacob acknowledged raiment to put on as well as bread to eat to be Gods gift God ows thee nothing thou deservest nothing It is a mercy that thou hast any thing to put on to cover thy nakedness For thy unthankfulness God might justly strip thee of all Hos 2.8 9. 3. Consider God knows mean apparel is fittest for thee Costly apparel is many times a provocation to lust 1 Tim. 2.9 It is a consumer of a great estate and so hinders works of charity It brings down Gods judgments Isa 3.16 c. Zeph. 1.8 It makes them proud usually that wear it who more proud then your great Gallants though there is little reason for it For many inferior pitiful creatures excel man in his gallantry Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like a Lilly Mat. 6.28 29. And a poor Butter-fly as * Refin'd Courtier p. 47. one saith outvies all the artificial colours of the Court. Besides our clothes are ensigns of our sin and shame compare Gen. 2.25 with Gen. 3.21 The same Hebrew word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that signifies a garment Buxtorf Heb. lex signifies likewise sin Had it not been for sin that caused shame we had not needed apparel And therefore to be proud of it is as if a wounded man should be proud of his plaisters Well then God cloaths thee in mean apparel to prevent sin in thee 4. Consider To be desirous of rich apparel argues much vanity St. Bernard saith Vestium curiositas deformitatis mentium et morum indicium est It shews the deformed nakedness of the soul and that virtue hangs but loosly on it Attire was at first given as I told you to cover shame and sin he therefore that is desirous of apparel surely hath more sin to hide more shame to cover then other men 5. Consider God respects no man a jot the more for the richness af his outward apparel see Jam. 2.5 God hath chosen the poor of this world rich in Faith Poor Lazarus was dear to him and received into Abrahams bosom but rich Dives notwithstanding his gorgeous apparel was cast into Hell the place of torment as you read Luke 16.19 c. 6. Consider Course garments may be as useful Hos 2.9 as costly apparel Garments were given for these ends 1. To cover our nakedness Gen. 3.7 Our first Parents after the fall sewed fig leaves together poor shifts to cover their shame 2. To defend and guard the body from the injuries of the weather Garments are munimenta corporis the bodies defence and safe-guard see Gen. 3.21 Our first Parents first covering was of fig-leaves which would do them little service but God afterwards provided them such cloathing as would defend them against the offence of heat cold wind rain c. 3. To give warmth to the body Joh 31.20 and Job 37.17 4. and lastly To distinguish persons 1. In respect of sex that men may be known from women and women from men Deut. 22.5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth to the man nor shall a man put on a womans garment Habits of men and women have been ever diverse 2. In respect of quality and condition Conditions should thereby be distinguished as well as Sexes Clergy should by their garments be distinguished from Laity Exod. 28.2 c. Rich from Poor Prince from Peasent Master from Servant Mat. 11.8 Luke 7.25 Well then are not thy course garments as useful as more costly apparel do
be a means to humble thee Drinking Wormwood say some will take down a full body Sure I am the Wormwood of Poverty is a proper remedy for an high and lofty spirit Lam. 3.19 20. Poverty clips the wings of Pride and keeps the heart humble 6. Patience Rom. 5.3 We glory in tribulations knowing that tribulation worketh patience St. John the Divine speaking of the Saints sufferings saith Here is the Patience and Faith of the Saints 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Rev. 13.10 The meaning is here is matter for their Patience and Faith to be exercised about Jam. 5.11 Ye have heard of the Patience of Job Job's Poverty amongst other afflictions set Patience at work 7. Frugality Rich men many times are addicted to prodigal spending They are excessive many times in their expences upon back and belly And they give that to their Dogs and Hogs which is fit for poor Christians to feed upon God therefore by sending Poverty teacheth a Lesson of Frugality to gather up the fragments that remain that nothing be lost Joh. 6.12 8. And lastly Constancy and sincerity of your love to God It is ordinary to see many follow Christ for loaves and express their love towards him so long as they reap outward gain by him but to see a man cleave to him and follow him through a wilderness of temptations and tryals when he sees nothing but signs of his displeasure this argues the strength and sincerity of his affection towards him Job's love was seen and set at work in the midst of poverty and other tryals that he met with Job 27.5 6. Till I die saith he I will not remove mine integrity from me my righteousness I hold fast and will not let it go Now if God take away outward possessions and by this means work in us these and the like graces we have no cause to complain as if we were undone or losers by such an exchange If a man go backward in estate yet if he thrive in grace this is uberrimus quaestus and what he loseth one way he gains another 2. Answ A man is never utterly undone till he be in Hell And wilt thou say thou art utterly undone when God by this affliction would prevent thy coming thither 1 Cor. 11.32 When we are judged we are chastened of the Lord that we should not be condemned with the world The Captain of our Salvation was made perfect by suffering Heb. 2.10 Though the cup be bitter yet Gods wisdom tempers and love sweetens all the bitter ingredients God saith he will do us no hurt Jer. 25.6 He sees it needful for you to be thus afflicted 1 Pet. 1.6 For a season if need be ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations God who afflicts not willingly Lam. 3.33 sends no more affliction then you need God who is a dieting of thee sees it best for thy souls health to be kept fasting or to be stinted in thy allowance It is good for the Patient to be at the finding and disposing of so wise a Physitian and withall so careful It is good for me saith David that I have been afflicted Psal 119.71 Volo mihi irascare Pater misericordiarum sed illâ irâ quâ corrigis devium non quâ excludis curiâ Bern. Per diversam medicaminum opem ad unam nos vult Deus perducere salutem Salvian de Gub. Dei lib. 6. p. 224. Alas poor silly man knows not what is good for him like a Child led by sence he prefers sweet-meats before bitter pills that are more wholsom Assure thy self dear friend Non caeco impetu volvuntur rota The motions of Providence are all juditious these wheels are full of eyes God knows these worldly things have ruined thousands of souls God knows a great estate hath hindred many from entring in at the narrow-gate and therefore he cuts you short as a man cuts off a gangren'd Leg to preserve Life It is thy ignorance of Gods design that makes thee quarrel with him Moreover the greatest Mercies have oft-times issued from the womb of greatest Disappointments How ill does Jacob resent Josephs absence Gen. 37. latter end 42.36 He concludes all against him when indeed all made for him for preservation of himself and the life of his whole family in Egypt Gen. 45.5 Nay we read that Joseph himself was sold Gen. 37. and after that cast into Prison Gen. 39. What could Joseph expect but utter ruine Retrò omnia all things went so cross and ill-favoured with him yet Divine Providence so ordered the matter that Joseph is advanced Religion propagated in Aegypt and the Reliques of the Church preserved in a time of great Famine Gen. 50.20 Patitur eum in Carcere aliquantulum sudare laborare clamare precari lachrymari ut eum in pietate probè exerceat tandem verò Carcerem in salutem ejus convertit nisi enim in Carcerem quidem Regium fuisset conjectus non innotuisset Regi nec fuisset hoc modo exaltatus saith Pareus in Gen. cap. 39. It was a great mercy for Israel to be in the Wilderness for that was the right way to Canaan And though God suffered them there to meet with much hardship yet it was to humble them to prove them and do do them good at their latter end Deut. 8.15 16. yet they thought and concluded they were brought to be slain Exod. 16.2 3. Num. 14.2 3. 20.4 One attempting to kill Prometheus the Thessalian Tully reports the like of Phereus Jason Cic. l. 3. de Nat. Deorum Sic casu fortuito Phereo Jasoni profuit hostis qui gladio vomicam ejus aperuit quam sanare medici non poterant run him so deep with his sword into an Imposthume that he let out corruption and saved his life So this bitter stroke of God which thou thinkest God intends for thy undoing is a means to purge out corruption and save thy soul Therefore say with Themistocles Periissem nisi periissem I had been lost if God had not prevented me with this happy losse It is well with me it is so ill with me for if God had not thus cross'd me I had been in a cursed condition Job calls Gods afflicting of us his magnifying of us Job 7.17 And vers 18. he calls afflictions Gods visitations They are God's friendly visits he corrects out of love As Josephs Cup was put in Benjamins Sack whom he most loved so the Cup of Affliction is the Lot of God's most affected Children Prov. 3.12 27.6 Heb. 12.9 10. Rev. 3.19 Et cum blandiris Pater es Pater es cum caedis Augustine saith well he is a Father when he strikes us as well as when he stroaks us The Cross is the way to the Crown Via non Causa 2 Cor. 4.17 For our light affliction which is but for a moment worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory That God that brought light out of darkness and erected the glorious Fabrick
of the World out of a confused Chaos and made Clay and Spittle likely to put out sight a means to recover it this God I say can bring it to pass that what thou thinkest will undo thee shall be a means to promote thy eternal good Oh the admirable harmony of Divine Dispensations in reference to mans Salvation To shut up this you know several herbs have several qualities some of them very bitter yet if a skilful simpler have the mixing of them he will make you a pleasing and wholsom sallade so there are many interchangable passages of Providence and some of them very bitter to flesh and blood yet divine Wisdom and Goodness will so order the matter that they shall in the end be both pleasing and profitable Jam. 1.2 My brethren count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations For vers 12. Blessed is the man that endureth temptation for when he is tried he shall receive the Crown of Life which the Lord hath promised to them that love him Indeed we read Psal 36.6 Gods judgements are a great deep And again Psal 77.19 Gods way is in the Sea and his path in the great waters and his footsteps are not known Which words some apply to the bringing of his People through the Sea and the waters returning to their course of which you read Exod 14.28 29. Others apply the words to the interchangable passages of Providence in reference to his Church the administration of the World and of every mans Salvation And so Rom. 11.33 How unsearchable are his judgements and his ways past finding out Gods wayes are many times cryptical full of Meanders we cannot trace them they are a compendious heap of intricacies oft going contrary to mans judgment and expectation and to our apprehended rules of common right Yet all his wayes are judgment that is justice and equity for he is a God of truth and without iniquity just and right is he Deut. 32.4 Much may be above us because our ignorance is such that we cannot see a reason of his wayes but nothing is unreasonable or evil that proceeds from an holy wise loving and just God I end this with that of the Psalmist Psal 25.10 All the pathes of the Lord how rugged and severe soever to flesh and blood are mercy and truth to such as keep his Covenant and his testimonies They may seem cruelty but indeed they are mercy though thou can'st not see it for the present yet thou may'st hereafter Another crys out 7th Apology answered This relation of mine dyed in the best of his age in the prime of his strength in the acuteness of his parts his Sun set at noon-day he fixed a Period where we made account of a Comma hoping at least half the Sentence of his Life was behind but it was broken off in haste and this troubles me Answ We do not much lament the death of Old persons because we know they could not live long Every mans Life as one saith is a Lease and an old mans Life is an old worn Lease ready to drop into the Land-Lords hand We expect a Taper should go out when the Wax is spent but to see the Lamp of a friends Life extinguished in its brightest and strongest lustre This troubles us But 1. Consid 'T is ordinary for man to dye in his full strength Job 21.23 24. One dyeth in his full strength being wholly at ease and quiet his breasts are full of milk and his bones are moistned with marrow c. King Edward the 6th that hopeful Prince fell asleep before noon and was laid untainted in the Bed of Honour So that good King Josiah died before he was 40 years of age as may be gathered from 2 Chron. 34.1 Nay Christ himself was cut off before he attained one half of the age of man described by Moses Psal 90.10 Nay David tells us Psal 39.5 Every man at his best state whether of age or honour is altogether vanity It being so ordinary for man to dye at or about the vigour of his age it should be the less troublesom 2. Consid If thy Friend had lived to old age what is that but an age of misery a stage of vanity an hospital of Diseases The dayes of Old Age are called Evil dayes by the Wise man Eccles 12.1 Remember now thy Creator in the dayes of thy youth while the evil dayes come not nor the years draw nigh when thou shalt say I have no pleasure in them q. d. The dayes of old age bring so many aches and troubles along with them that if they be lengthened into years yet a man can find no pleasure or content but whole years together shall be full of weariness and sorrow Nay the very strength of the years of an Old man is labour and sorrow saith Moses Psal 90.10 Old people are oft-times a trouble to themselves and others 3. And lastly consid Thy Friend must at last have died Man's Life is by some fitly compared to a Lamp which may be soon extinguished by some fall or violent blast but if it escape these there is but a set proportion of oyl which will soon be consumed and then it goes forth of its own accord The Clock though it goes slowly strikes surely at last And the Sun in the longest day of its perambulation at last goes out of sight He that walks longest over the graves of others comes at last to his own So that if thy Friend had not died now he must have dyed some other time And if another time why not now Another cryes out 8th Apology answered This Relation of mine was loth to die he died comfortless desperate words idle vain talk unseemly gestures and speeches proceeded from him and this troubles me Answ Was your Relation loth to dye 1. Consid Many of Gods dear Children have at some time or other been loth to depart So was David Psal 55.4 5. and Psal 102.24 And Hezekiah Isa 38.1 And Peter out of a sudden apprehension of death and fear of it denyed his Lord and Master The Godly cease not to be Men by becoming Christians as men they are sometimes afraid of Death which is 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Malum corruptivum destructive to nature God hath imprinted saith a Dr. Abbot Lect. 6. on Jonah p. 126 127. judicious Divine a passionate love betwixt the soul and the body that they grieve to leave one another So that the spirit may be willing yet the flesh is weak What man is he whom God's Spirit hath not in a great measure mortified that feels not in himself oft-times an horror and a quaking to think of his dissolution 2. Consid Thy Friend though he might fear the pain of death yet he might rejoyce at the gain of death as many a man desires the Haven yet trembles at the voyage The pangs of death might a little affright him yet being dead if a good man let us not question his happiness Christ
I know there is a kind of bastard counterfeit patience which as one saith ariseth from the natural constitution whereby the heat not abounding too much the man is not so prone as some others to choler and discontent but useth his reason in ordering of himself and bears what he cannot avoid but this is but 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 the shadow and picture of true patience which indeed is an herb of Grace not growing in Natures Garden or if you will it is a Slip taken from the Tree of Life and planted in the Soul by the finger of God it is of an heavenly extract or descent from God as well as Faith Phil. 1.29 Men naturally meek good natures as we call them may bear a little but not enough nor in a right manner nor to right ends without the supernatural work of patience The Apostle placeth it amongst the fruits of the Spirit Gal. 5.22 23. Well then If any man be afflicted let him pray Jam. 5.13 Let him under loss of Friends or any other Affliction lay open his sad condition before God in prayer as a man opens his mind to his Friend So did Hannah 1 Sam. 1.12 and then with her ver 18. he may in time come from prayer and his countenance no be more sad The End of the First Part. Deo gratias A Funeral Handkerchief The Second Part. Containing severall Uses which we ought to make of the Death of Friends By Thomas Allestree M. A. Rector of Ashow in the County of Warwick 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Nocumenta documenta Hear the Rod and who hath appointed it Mic. 6.9 So teach us to number our dayes that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom Psal 90.12 LONDON Printed for the Author Anno Dom. 1671. To that Worthy Gentleman and my much esteemed Kinsman Mr. William Allestree Living in Darby Grace and Peace be multiplied Dear Sir DIvine Providence hath deprived you of many dear Friends and Relations amongst others he hath taken away your Religious Parents and lately your dear * Mâ—is Frances Lorymore Wife the choicest under heaven of all your outward Possessions and Delights made nearer unto you by Marriage than either Father or Mother I call her one of Gods Jewels such there are Mal. 3.17 she was little of stature but of great worth She was a Great Fortune but which is more considerable she was an huge good person She was a constant frequenter of the Ordinances a strict observer of the Sabbath her Family-devotion was great and her secret ejaculations fervent and constant She was meek modest chaste courteous charitable patient humble c. These and the like Virtues came streaming into her Soul from the Fountain of Divine Grace She was no scoffing Michal nor you a churlish Nabal The onely strife betwixt you was this which should shew most dearness and tenderness so pleasing was your deportment each to other that one would think one Soul animated two Bodyes You did never grieve her Spirit but by your excessive grief to see her in that extreamity of She dyed in child-bed pain which with greatest care you could not remedy and with admirable patience and Christian courage she chearfully underwent She was not afraid of Death Though she loved her Husband as dearly as any Christian ought to do yet she loved him much less than her Saviour and she knew that Death would bring her to an happy sight of him and I doubt not but she is with him whom her soul longed for What remains sweet Sir but that you look upon your self at least as half dead and become a most serious and mortified man I know when God first snatched this precious Jewel out of your bosom you were sadly affected with your loss indeed her Funerals were celebrated with great solemnity with many a weeping eye and sorrowful heart let not sensual delights make you to forget it Labour to get good by this affliction Let her Memory be still pretious with you not for adoration leave that foppery to the Papists but for imitation And that you may make a right use of this and such like losses which have and may still befal you let me entreat you to peruse this following Treatise to which I take the boldness to prefix your Name to testify my thankfulness for former Favours and to declare to the world That I am SIR Yours unfainedly T. Allestree Ashow March 3d. 1670. A Funeral Handkerchief Part 2. CHAP. I. Containing several Uses which we ought to make of the Death of Friends SAint Austin cryed out against some who did not profit by afflictions August de Civit. Dei lib. 2 cap. 33. Perdidistis utilitatem calamitatis Ye have lost the benefit of your affliction Christians should improve cross Providences to their spiritual advantage Sad it is when as Salvian Salvian lib. 7. de Cub Dei p. 231. complains Curâ ipsâ deteriores sumus we are made worse by that which should make us better It is with Spiritual as with bodily Physick if it makes us not better it leaves us worse than we were before I shall therefore Courteous Reader for thy spiritual benefit shew thee what Use ought to be made of the Death of Friends which discourse like the Wine in the Gospel John 2.10 though it come now at last yet through God's blessing may be best of all And here my Prayer is That my Doctrine may drop as the Rain my speech distil as the Dew as the small Rain upon the tender Herb and as the Showers upon the Grass Deut. 32.2 Now if you would make a right Use and spiritual improvement of the Death of Friends and Relations you must Use 1 1. Eye the hand of God in such losses Gods Providence reacheth to all worldly occurrences Not a Sparrow falls to the ground nor an Hair from our Heads without the will of our heavenly Father Mat. 10.29.30 Of him and through him and to him are all things to whom be glory for ever Amen Rom. 11.36 God worketh all things after the Counsel of his own will Ephes 1.11 There is no evil befalls us but God hath a hand in it Amos 3.6 Shall there be evil in a City he speaks of malum culpae of the evil of punishment and the Lord hath not done it God is the appointer of the Rod as the Prophet Micah tells us Mic. 6.9 In particular God hath an hand in loss of Friends as I shewed at large in the former Treatise and therefore under such losses look up to God and give him the glory of all The Psalmist Psal 28.5 there threatens with destruction all such as regard not the works of the Lord nor the operation of his hands So Isa 26.11 Lord saith the Prophet when thine hand is lifted up they will not see but they shall see and be ashamed It is a most grievous sin when people do like the Dog snap at the stone forgetting the hand of him that sent it It is a
on Luk. 7.12 13. p. 13. Dr. saith Their less confirmed constitution is sooner discomposed and out of temper Their fresher blood is more susceptive of infection their warmer and agil spirits more easily blown up into a feaverish heat and flame Infectious Distempers as Plague Measels Small-Pox c. soonest seize on the purest Complexions and speedily overturn the best-built structures of Nature The purest Fruit soonest perisheth When Jonah's Gourd was fullest of Sap and Verdure then the Worm smites it and it is gone Strong Cedars sturdy Oaks are hewen down when Death layes the Ax to the Root of the Tree Great Zerxes wept to think that the strength of his Army could not keep Death out of his Quarters If thou beest as strong as Sampson or David's three Worthies whom you read of in 2 Sam. 23.8 yet sickness may soon weaken thee and Death lay thee flat on thy back 2. Some measure their life by the lives of others as their Neighbours and their own Kindred They see many Neighbours older than they by many years and besides their Father is alive and Grandfather lived long Their Generation used to be long-liv'd and therefore they reckon on many years But this is deceitful reckoning for young men die as well as those that are striken in years see Job 21.23 24 25 26. So Job 36.14 They die in youth So Jer. 9.21 Death is come up into our Windows and is entered in at our Palaces to cut off the Children from without and the young Men from the streets Old Age is a Distemper that very few in comparison die of And though your Father be alive and your Grandfather lived long yet many times Children die before their Parents Gen. 11.28 Haran died before his Father Terah Absalom out-lived all his Children Naomi lived to see her Children buried as well as her Husband Ruth 1.5 So did Job Job 1.18 19. To end this The Sons of Jacob as * Mr. Fuller in his Comment on some of Ruth one observes when they came to the Table of Joseph sat down the eldest according to his Age and the youngest according to his Youth Gen. 43.33 But Death observes not this method he takes not Men in seniority but sometimes sends them first to their Burial that came last from the Birth and those that came last from the Womb first to their Winding-sheet 3. Some think they shall live long because they are temperate and chast Intemperance doubtless destroys many Plures gulâ quà m gladio More perish by gluttony than by the Sword Multos morbos multa fecerunt fercula Seneca Epist 95. And drunkenness is destructive to the bodies of those that delight in it Prov. 23.29 30. Whence come Dropsies Gouts Feavers Rheums and such like Distempers but usually from excess in eating and drinking Lasciviousness and excessive wantonness is likewise an impairer of strength Prov. 5.11 so Prov. 31.5 But yet the most temperate and chast men may die soon For these are very subject to infectious Maladies neither are they priviledged from manifold chances and unexpected surprisals which may suddenly put an end to life 4. and lastly Others because they have been sick and are recovered they hope to see many dayes But alas how ordinary are relapses into the same distemper that men think they are recovered of And those relapses as Physitians say and Experience doth witness most dangerous But if a man be perfectly recovered of one distemper how ordinary is it for that man to fall irrecoverably into another Ambros. de Obitu fratris 3 Tom. p. 16. Satyrus St. Ambrose's Brother returned from Africk by a perilous Voyage for he suffered shipwrack and escaped drowning very narrowly by swimming yet having escaped so great a danger within a short t me after his arrival and return to his Friends fell sick and died amongst them If you escape one danger you know not how soon you may fall into another If you recover of one distemper you are but reprieved for how short a time God only knows O courteous Reader deceive thy self no longer Death like a Mole is secretly undermining thee Thou art far nearer Death and the Grave than thou art aware of Consider 1. How many Diseases thou art subject to which like so many Worms lie gnawing at the Tree of Life The very eye as some Oculists observe hath above sixty Diseases attending it Innumerable then must the diseases be which the whole body is subject unto This Body of ours which is fearfully and wonderfully made Psal 139.14 like a curious Watch is soon out of order and oft-times Physicians with all their skill cannot mend it again Non est in medico semper relevetur ut aeger Ovid de Pont. Lib. 1. Eleg. 4. Interdum doctá plus valet arte malum Some mens Bodies are ground to pieces with the Stone some destroyed with the Epilepsie See Mr. Ley's Sermon on Jam. 4.14 or an Imposthume which insensibly gathers to an head breaks in a moment and stops the breath of mans Bosom or stifles the spirits of his Brain Some Bodies are blown up with the Cholick or Illiaca Passio Some eaten up insensibly by a Consumption some drowned with the Dropsie some burnt with a Feaver And indeed many new Diseases break forth amongst us which puzzle Physitians not only how to cure them but how to call them These bodily Distempers are as so many warning-pieces which God many times shoots off before he send his murdering-piece 2. De civit Dei lib. 22 cap. 22. Consider the manifold chances which may befal thee Quid de innumeris casibus qui forinsecùs corpori formidantur Aug. There are casual mishaps as well as Diseases innumerable which may prove destructive to life We all receive life but one way viz. by Generation but we may lose it many * Mille modis morimur Sen. l. 7. 1. Controvers wayes As we see in a Garden-Pot the Water is poured in but at one place viz. the narrow mouth but it runs out at an hundred holes If we ride on Horseback the Horse may start or stumble and cast us that we may rise no more Absaloms Mule running from under him hastned his destruction 2 Sam. 18.9 c. If we walk on foot we may take immoderate heats and colds which may bring with them incurable Distempers Thieves and Robbers may surprize us wound us and leave us for dead Luke 10.30 Some Beast or other may kill us as the disobedient Prophet was slain with a Lyon 1 Kings 13.24 Or a Drunkard worse then a Beast enraged by strong drink Prov. 20.1 may speedily dispatch us Walking in the streets a piece of Timber a Stone or Tile from an House may suddenly fall upon thee and strike thee dead As a piece of a Mill-stone thrown from a Tower broke the Skull of Abimelech Judg. 9.53 D. Stuarts Catholick Divinity p. 163. Martial makes mention of one that was kill'd with the fall of an Ice-sicle which caused
forbidden Fruit he should surely die Now we know Adam did eat Gen. 3. and the threatning took effect for after that he had eaten every day some part of his life was gone The wise Man tells us Eccles 3.2 There is a time to be born and a time to die What no time to live Truly it may be the wise man thought this life-time was so short that it was not worth taking notice of or it may be he would give us to understand that all the while we live we are in a dying condition An Heathen by the dim candle-light of Nature had a glymps of this for saith Seneca Quotidie morimur quotidiè enim demitur aliqua pars vitae Vita hominum dum crescit decrescit dum augetur minuitur Cylind as a Candle you know is no sooner lighted but begins to waste it is not the last blaze that spends it but it spends all the while it burns So an Hour-glass is no sooner turned but presently the Sand begins to run out The longer a man lives the less he hath to live Oh did we but see the Glass of our Life running many of us would see but little Sand remaining Well then let your going to the House of Mourning and following the Corps to the Grave mind you of your mortality that God will shortly bring you to the Grave The House appointed for all men living Job 30.23 15th and last Use Lastly Let death of Friends put us upon preparing for Death Seneca said Aetate fruere mobili cursu fugit Use time while you have it He meant it not in that sence in which the merry Greeks and voluptuous Epicures take it 1 Cor. 15.32 Let us eat and drink for to morrow we die But he would have us to imploy our short time in doing vertuous actions Labour that the Temple of Grace be erected in your souls before the Temple of your bodies be pulled down I have read how Peter Waldo about the year 1160. a Merchant of Lyons Mr. Fuller in his Holy War rich in substance and learning was walking and talking with his Friends when one of them suddenly sell down dead which lively spectacle of mans mortality so impressed the soul of this Waldo that instantly he resolved on a strict reformation of life which to his power he performed Mr. Dugard in his Serm. on Ps 89 48. pag. 39. Ribad de vita Fr. Borgia lib. 1. c. 9. It is likwise reported of Sir Francis Borgia a Spanish Courtier That having been at the Funeral of the Empress and considering how little a Grave had devoured all earthly Greatness he said when he came home Augustae mors mihi vitam attulit The death of the Empress hath brought me life and forthwith he became a wonderfully reformed man So when Friends die and we return from their burial let us resolve to lay aside worldly vanities and return home more grave and serious Let us set our House and Souls in order Luke 12.40 Be ye therefore ready for the Son of Man cometh at an hour when ye think not As we know not the time of our general so neither of our particular judgment It is good for us to stand upon our watch Mar. 13.32 and to improve all our opportunities both of doing and receiving good that so we may be as the wise Virgins Mat. 25. having Oyl in our Lamps Grace in our Hearts and may be fitted and prepared to meet the Bridegroom of our Souls when ever he cometh Now because preparation for Death though last mentioned is a chief and principal use that we should make of death of Friends I shall therefore somewhat enlarge upon it and shew you in the next Chapter wherein it consists CHAP. II. Shewing wherein preparation for Death consists NOW preparation for Death consists in these following Particulars 1. In praying unto God 1. Dir. Praecandos Confess thy manifold sins at the Throne of Grace and pray to God for pardon thereof Moses David Daniel Paul and other good men mentioned in Scripture were conversant in this duty of Prayer Our Saviour himself in the dayes of his flesh offered up Prayers and Supplications with strong crying and tears Heb. 5.7 The * Per miserere mei tollitur ira Dei Publican confessing his sins and most humbly suing out the pardon of them went away justified Luke 18.13 14. How did Christ remember the Thief upon the Cross praying to him Luke 23. 42 43. Jacob was frequent and prevalent with God in prayer Gen. 32.28 even when he was old and weak he humbly presented his devotion to God Gen. 48.31 Heb. 11.21 Stephen that saw Heaven opened Acts 7.56 as he lived so he died praying Abel rediv in life of Luther and Erasmus vers 59. Luther he died praying and resigning his Spirit into Gods hands Erasmus breathed out his Soul in these Ejaculations Mercy sweet Jesus Lord loose these Bands How long Lord Jesus How long Jesus Fountain of Mercy have mercy upon me c. Bishop * Dr. Bernard in life of B. Vsher Usher he died like Mr. Perkins who expired with crying for mercy and forgiveness Pray then to God that he would pardon your manifold sins and fit you for death say with David Psal 39.4 Lord make me to know my end and the measure of my dayes that I may know how frail I am Pray with Moses Psal 90.12 Dr. Abbot on Jonah 4.2 p. 521. So teach us to number our dayes that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom Prayer rightly performed as a learned Doctor saith is the best Sacrifice which the Soul can send up into Heaven 2. Preparation for Death consists in bewailing our sins 2. Dir. Peccata deplorando We should be like Doves of the Valleys all of us mourning every one for his iniquity as the Prophet speaks Ezek. 7.16 A broken and contrite heart saith David O God thou wilt not despise Psal 51.17 The words are a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 he means God highly prizeth a broken and contrite heart under the sence of sin St. Bernard saith Qui non plangit peccata non sentit vulnera He is not sensible of his spiritual wounds who doth not bewail his sinful condition And again saith another Father St. Austin Gravissima peccata gravissimus lamentis indigent Great sins call for great sorrows David saith Psal 6.6 All the night make I my bed to swim I water my couch with my tears and Psal 38.6 I go mourning all the day long so that night and day he mourned for his sins And Peter having sin'd he went out and wept bitterly Mat. 26.75 The crowing of the Cock was a Monitor of his fault And some say he never heard a Cock crow after but he wept bitterly for his offence in denying so shamefully as he did his Lord and Master St. Paul complains of a Body of Death Rom. 7.24 * Tertul. lib. de Panitent c. ult
us thankfully acknowledge both spiritual and temporal Mercies to proceed from him as the Apostle speaks Eph. 5.20 Giving thanks alwayes for all things unto God and the Father in the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ 1 Thes 5.18 In every thing give thanks for this is the Will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you Adam had he continued in Paradise should have sung praise unto God And the Saints now in Heaven as so many blessed Quiristers are continually chanting forth Divine Anthems of praise Rev. 4.10 11. And Dr. Sibs saith They that begin not Heaven upon Earth shall never go to Heaven when taken from the Earth Let us then bear a part here in singing praises to God which is a pleasant and comely duty Psal 147.1 if we would hereafter have admittance into the Coelestial Quire to sing forth perpetual Hallelujahs Future happiness is called Glorification John 13.32 And he that gives not glory unto God here shall not hereafter be glorified by God Let us then be much in thanksgiving for as God saith Psal 50.23 Whoso offereth praise glorifieth me and to him that ordereth his conversaition aright will I shew the Salvation of God 10. And lastly to name no more There was in Christ Heavenly-mindedness He lived on Earth as if he had been still in Heaven The gaudy vanities of this World were too pittiful a lure for him to be taken with So Heavenly-minded he was that he extracted many spiritual contemplations instructions from all sorts of earthly objects occasions that were before him Upon the sight of Jacob's Well he preacheth to the Woman of Samaria concerning the Living-Water John 4.10 By which Theophilact understands as we are told 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 the Grace of the Holy Spirit which refresheth the weary Soul even to life eternal vers 14. So when he had wrought the Miracle in feeding five thousand with five Loaves and two Fishes he teacheth them that sought after him that they should not labour for that Meat that perisheth but for that Meat which endureth to everlasting life John 6.27 And after tells them He was the Bread of Life vers 32.33 so John 15.1 passing through or by some Vineyard he tells them That he was the True Vine and his Father the Husband-man It was Christ's usual manner upon the sight of things temporal to raise Spiritual and Heavenly Meditations Let us play the Divine Chymists and extract Spiritual Instructions and Heavenly Meditations from Worldly Occurrences The Moralist could say Senec. Praefat. in Natural Quest Quà m contempta res est homo si non supra humana se exercuerit What a dung-hill wretch is Man if he mind only earthly things The Apostle tells you The end of such is destruction Nos ut Coelorum cives nos-met gerimus Beza Phil. 3.19 but saith he vers 20. Our conversation is in Heaven Christians are ad majora nati born to look after greater things than the World affords Let us then as we are commanded Col. 3.2 set our affections upon or according to * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Orig. let us savour and mind the things that are above and not the things upon earth Let not the Heaven-born Soul be imprisoned in an earthly body See Dr. Boreman's Serm. on Phil. 3.20 or be chained in Fetters of earthly cares but let it be dilated in its ardent desires after Heaven and Heavenly Objects These and the like vertues which appeared in the Life of Christ must appear in our lives and conversations else we cannot be saved 1 John 2.6 He that saith he abides in him ought himself also so to walk even as he walked Christ was full of Grace John 1.14 and true Christians that are in Christ not only in regard of outward profession but likewise in respect of saving union they partake of his fulness vers 16. All God's Elect are conformed to the Image of his Son Rom. 8.29 1 Cor. 11.1 The Oyl poured on Aaron's Head ran down upon his Beard and went down to the Skirts of his Garments Psal 133.2 by which was signified That the very same Oyl of Grace that was poured on the Head Christ Jesus is thence derived unto all even the meanest of his Members As Jacob was blessed by his Father Isaac in the goodly Raiment of his Elder Brother Gen. 27.15 27 compared So must we have on the Spiritual Garment of Christ's Vertues who is our Elder Brother if we expect the Blessing of our Heavenly Father These and the like Vertues are called Glory because they undoubtedly lead to Glory 2 Cor. 3.18 View then Christ's Image in the Glass of the Gospel and labour to be transformed into that Image Put on therefore as the Elect of God Holy and Beloved bowels of mercy kindness humbleness of mind long-suffering forbearing one another and forgiving one another c. Col. 3.12 13. And as St. Peter speaks 2 Pet. 1.5 6 7 10 compared Giving all diligence add to your Faith Vertue and to Vertue Knowledge and to Knowledge Temperance and to Temperance Patience and to Patience Godliness and to Godliness Brotherly-kindness and to Brotherly-kindness Charity for if ye do these things ye shall never fall And thus much for the fifth Direction 6. And lastly Preparation for Death consists in Believing 6th last Direction Fidendo This though◠mentioned last is not the least but chief Direction see John 3.14 15 16 18 36. To this Paul directed the trembling Jaylor Acts 16.31 Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be saved Acts 10.43 To him give all the Prophets witness that through his Name whosoever believeth in him shall receive remission of sins Christ is the Lord our Righteousness Jer. 23.6 He is the Way the Truth and the Life as he tells Thomas John 14.6 He is the true way to Eternal Life Qui aliter vadit cadit He that thinks to go to Heaven any other way will fall short of it For there is none other Name given among men whereby we must be saved Acts 4.12 See for farther proof of this Gal. 2.20 3.11 1 Pet. 1.5 9. 1 John 5.13 Those Worthies mentioned Heb. 11. died in the Faith St. Paul would not be found at the Day of Judgment in the most righteous Work that ever he did Phil. 3.8 9. Nay Bellarmine himself after a long Discourse concerning the merit of Works he overturns all in his last conclusion Propter incertitudinem propriae justitiae periculum inanis gloriae tutissimum est fiduciam totam insolâ Dei misericordiâ reponere He thought it the safest way to put his whole trust in the mercy of God alone Works must needs be a Sandy Foundation to build hopes of Eternal Life upon For our best Works are imperfect they flow from a foul Fountain for there is no mind so illuminated but there is some darkness in it See Bp. Andrew's Serm. on Jer. 23.6 no Heart so sanctified but there is some uncleanness in it and
to perform God sent us not into the World as he did the * Psalm 104.26 Leviathan into the Sea to take our sport and pastime therein but he sent us hither as into a School to learn this one Lesson to die well Yet alas how negligent are most as if unconcerned herein This great concern is the least of their care Tell them of preparing for Death and they are ready to put us off as Felix did Paul Acts 24.25 Go thy way for this time when I have a convenient season I will call for thee but we never read that he call'd for him after I shall therefore Courteous Reader lay before thee some Considerations to move thee to prepare thy self for Death according to the forementioned Directions And here I have a large field before me but as the Disciples passing through the Field of Corn pluckt onely an ear or two and rubbed them in their hands so shall I content my self with three Considerations amongst many and handle them as briefly as I can with conveniency First then Consider 1 1. By this means thou shalt live comfortably 2 Cor. 1.12 Our rejoycing is this the testimony of our Conscience that in simplicity and Godly sincerity we have had our conversation in the World Rejoycing and working Righteousness is put together Isa 64.5 What joy and peace is there in believing Rom. 15.13 If the Angels in Heaven rejoyce at the conversion of a sinner as the Scripture affirms Luk. 15.7 10. surely the joy of a sinner converted must needs be very great in his heart How can it otherwise be For such an one is reconciled to God his sins are pardoned whereupon follows peace with God and rejoycing in hope of the Glory of God as you may see Rom. 5.1 2. And this peace of Conscience passeth all understanding Phil. 4.7 It is joy unspeakable and full of glory 1 Pet. 1.8 A continual Banquet together with the joy of the Harvest and of such as divide the spoyl are but dark representations of it Prov. 15.15 Isa 9.3 This is Manna in the Wilderness a foretaste and earnest of future Jubilees such an one is even in the Suburbs of Heaven so that the Term of a godly mans life who is continually fitting himself for Death may be truly called Hilary Term for a pure Christal Torrent of Divine Joy comes streaming into his Soul from the God of all comfort What should such an one fear Of whom should he be afraid At what should he be dismaid If he lives he lives to the Lord if he dies he dies in the Lord Living or dying he is the Lords Rom. 14.8 Object But do not we see those who take most pains in fitting themselves for Death most sad and sorrowful mourning for their own and other mens sins do they not meet with most trouble and afflictions so that their lives of all men are most uncomfortable Answ A carnal man can no more judge of a good mans condition than a pur-blind man can of Colours He is not acquainted with a good mans joy Prov. 14.10 The righteous have meat to eat which the World knows not of They have hidden Manna secret joy 2 Cor. 6.10 As sorrowful yet alwayes rejoycing Their weeping for their own and other mens sins Est quedam flere voluptas makes way for spiritual comfort As April-showers refresh the face of the Earth When the Righteous have been shedding tears at the Throne of Grace they oft arise from their knees with their hearts brim full of comfort If they meet with outward trouble as the Waves encrease so doth the Ark of Comfort arise above these Waves See 2 Cor. 1.3 4 5. Blessed be God even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ the Father of Mercies and the God of all Comfort who comforteth us in all our tribulation that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble by the comfort wherewith we our selves are comforted of God for as the sufferings of Christ abound in us so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ We read Acts 5.41 how the Apostles rejoyced that they were counted worthy to suffer When Saint Paul was in that great storm at Sea Acts 27. When neither Sun nor Stars in many dayes appeared vers 20. In the midst of that danger his Soul was 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrysost in a quiet Haven Dr. Boreman in Serm. on Phil. 3.20 p. 33. even in the bosom of God In that great darkness he had a light within the light of joy and comfort because God was with and in him I end this with that of Solomon Prov. 29.6 In the transgression of an evil man there is a snare that strangleth his joy but the Righteous doth sing and rejoyce Consider 2 2. By this means you may die comfortably A man who in his life-time hath been fitting himself for death is not afraid of it when God shall please to send it He can say Come Death come Lord Jesus come and well-come He can say to Death as Adonijah did to Jonathan the Son of Abiathar the Priest 1 King 1.42 Come in for thou art a valiant man and bringest good tydings He knows Death sets his Soul at liberty out of the Prison of the Body as the Angel did Peter out of Prison Acts 12.7 Upon the sight of Death his Spirit revives as Jacob's did when he saw the Wagons that were sent to carry him from a place of penury and misery to a place of plenty and happiness Gen 45.27 When Moses the Servant of the Lord had finisht his course God bids him Go up and die in the Mount Deut. 32.49 50. Deut. 34.5 It is there said He died according to the Word of the Lord secundum os Domini The Jews say that his Soul was suckt out of his mouth with a kiss God dealt by him as a fond Nurse by her Babe kissed him and laid him down to sleep Elijah requests God to take away his life 1 King 19.4 Aged Simeon like a Swan welcomed his approaching death with this melodious Song Sapientis animus totus in mortem prominet hoc vult hoc meditatur hac semper cupidine fertur Sen. ad Marcium c. 23. Nunc dimittis c. Luke 2.29 Lord now lettest thou thy Servant depart in peace according to thy Word c. St. Paul cries out Cupio dissolvi Phil. 1.23 I desire to depart and to be with Christ which is far better St. Ambrose ready to depart said to his Friends Non sic vixi ut me pudent inter vos vivere sed nec mori timeo quia bonum Dominum habemus He was neither ashamed to live nor afraid to die Old Hilarion being somewhat backward at first to entertain Death he checkt himself for his vain fears Egredore anima quid times Septuaginta annos servivisti Deo jam mori times Egredere Anima Go out my Soul said he what fearest thou Thou hast served God these threescore years and ten
best for us to pay our Vows Deut. 23.21 Eccl. 5.4 5. we are perjur'd persons truce-breakers if we do not Defer not to put into action what God's Spirit in sickness put into intention Do as David did when he was brought low God helped him Psal 116.6 God delivered his soul from death v. 8. See his resolution v. 9. I will walk before the Lord in the land of the living He devoted himself to God's Service v. 16. Truly O Lord I am thy Servant I am thy Servant And he likewise resolved to pay his Vows v. 14. so v. 18. so likewise Psal 66.13 14. I will go into thine house with burnt-offerings I will pay thee my Vows which my lips have uttered and my mouth hath spoken when I was in trouble Let health strength life soul and body the products of Gods mercy be presented to his service Rom. 12.1 I end this with that advice which Christ gave to one whom he cured John 5.14 Behold thou art made whole sin no more lest a worse thing come unto thee 3. Apply your selves to God in future straits pray unto him trust in him Thus did David Psal 116.2 Because he hath enclined his ear unto me therefore will I call upon him as long as I live So v. 17. I will call upon the Name of the Lord. So Ps 56.3 What time I am afraid I will put my trust in thee for v. 13. Thou hast delivered my soul from death So Ps 63.7 Thou hast been my help therefore in the shadow of thy wings will I rejoyce See 1 Sam. 17.37 so 2 Cor. 1.9 10. We had the sentence of death saith the Apostle in our selves that we should not trust in our selves but in God which raised the dead who delivered us from so great a death and doth deliver in whom we trust that he will yet deliver us It is good Scripture-logick as * Mr. Reyners Praecepts p. 266. one saith to draw conclusions of confidence from premises of experience Such then whom God hath restored to health when God casts them again into the Prison of a sick-bed let them be still Prisoners of Hope as the expression is Zach. 9.12 Suffer not Faith to flag and Hope to hang wing Lam. 3.26 It is good that a man should both hope and patiently wait for the salvation of the Lord. 4. Sympathize with others that are in misery If God have had mercy on thee go thou and have mercy on others Be not straitned in your bowels as some in the Church of Corinth were 2 Cor. 6.12 Oh pity and pray for such as are in sickness and misery and do them all offices of love and kindness that may be Not only God calls for this but the Law of friendship calls for it Job 6.14 To him that is afflicted pity should be shewed from his friend But yet Job's friends dealt very unfriendly with him as you may see v. 15. whom he compares to a Brook which in open weather when people have least need of water promiseth refreshment but in cold weather is frozen up and in hot weather is become dry so that the weary Travellers fall short of their expectation So you may find him complaining how he was forsaken of all Relations Job 19.2 c. insomuch that he begs their pity upon the account of friendship v. 21. Have pity upon me have pity upon me O ye my Friends for the hand of God hath touched me here is another Argument for if you touch or strike upon the string of an Instrument other strings move too When God strikes another with sickness we our selves should be moved with compassion towards them the sicknesses and miseries of others call for your help Jos 10.6 Acts 16.9 As the Father said of Lazarus's sores Quot ulcera tot ora so many sores so many mouths calling for the rich mans help Yea though they be their enemies you should pity them as David did Psal 35.11 12 13 14. Though compassion begin at the heart yet it should proceed to the hand and mouth help them with your counsels and prayers and purses too Sic mens per compassionem doleat ut larga manus affectum doloris ostendat What the good Samaritan did Luk. 10.30 c. By which passage our Saviour would teach us to have pity on those whether friends or enemies acquaintance or strangers that stand in need of our help v. 37. Go thou and do likewise The Greek word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that signifies Alms comes from 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that signifies Pity Alms should be a fruit of pity 1 Joh. 3.17 If you who have known what it is to lie under sickness do not pity such folk who should if you do not who will 5. Lastly Give God the sole praise of all let him have the glory of the cure for to him it belongs and it is a piece of sacriledge to rob God of his due We should not give nor should any man take to himself the glory of a cure Neither Peter nor John Act. 3.12 Paul nor Barnabas Act. 14.11 c. durst take to themselves the glory of a cure Every Physitian should say as the King of Israel in another case said to the Woman crying out to him for help 2 King 6.26 27. If the Lord do not help thee whence shall I help thee The best Physitians can do nothing without Gods assistance Simples are but simple things without the blessing of God upon them Who put medicinal qualities into Drugs but the God of Nature Whence had the Physitian his skill to find out the quality of the Distemper and apply sutable means but from the God of Wisdom Jam. 1.5 Christ said Mat. 4.4 Man lives not by bread alone c. Nor is man recovered by Physick alone without Gods blessing Ps 107.18 19 20. Their soul abhorreth all manner of meat and they draw near to the gates of death then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble he saveth them out of their distress he sent his Word and healed them and delivered them from their destructions It follows v. 21. O that men would praise the Lord for his goodness and for his wonderful works to the children of men Quest But may we not thank our Physitian Answ Yes and you are too blame if you do not Ingratitude is an odious sin Gen. 40.23 compared with Gen. 41.9 It is one of the sins that makes the last times so perillous 2 Tim. 3.2 The Heathen thought you could not give a man a more odious title then to call him ungrateful Ingratum si dixeris omnia as though it was a compendium of all vices and indeed it is a decompounded sin Ahasuerus was too blame to forget loyal-hearted Mordecai so long who had been a means to save his life till it was almost too late to remember him He was to be commended for conferring civil dignities upon him afterwards as you read he did Esth 6. Let such as are unthankful to Physitians and to such as are a means to save their lives from destruction go to School to those Barbarians Acts 28.8 9 10. from whom they may learn lessons of Civility They honoured Saint Paul who healed many amongst them of many Diseases with many honours and when he with the rest of his company departed they laded them with such things as were necessary Well then you may and ought to thank them as Instruments but remember that God is the supream efficient They are to be rewarded and respected for their pains and care with us but God alone is to be praised for the Cure wrought upon us God is the Fountain they are but as Pipes to convey God's mercies to us Let us then give God the praise of all as the Angels sung Gloria in Excelsis Glory be to God on high Luk. 2.14 And as Christ hath taught us Mat. 6.13 For thine is the Kingdom and the Power and the Glory for ever Amen That Woman in the Gospel cured of the Distemper called by the Greeks 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Glorified God as you may read Luke 13.13 There were ten Lepers that lift up their voices and said Jesus Master have mercy on us Luk. 17.13 Yet being cleansed there was but one of them that turned back and with a loud voice glorified God vers 15. But Christ took notice of their ingratitude v. 17 18. There was but one of ten that returned to give thanks 'T is ten to one if God cure us but we prove ungrateful Oh let us not in sickness pray for mercy and in health forget to return thanks for the receit of mercy Non sonet illud tantum miserere Deus sed sonet etiam laus gratianum actio pro accepta illius misericordia Muscul in Phil. 2.27 David was much in praising God for delivering him from deadly dangers as the Psalms testifie Psal 30.1 3 4. 86.12 13. 103.3 104.33 116.6 12 17. 118.14 146. v. 1 2. So Hezekiah being recovered pens a Song of Thanksgiving Isa 38.9 c. Oh my beloved extraordinary mercies call for more then ordinary thanks Exod. 12.42 Communicate your experiences Psalm 66.16 Tell others of the cures God hath wrought Joh. 5.15 Mar. 5.19 The tongue is called our glory Psal 16.9 Let your glory sing praise to God and not be silent Psal 30.12 Wherein is your tongue a glory if not in setting forth the glory of God I end all with that Doxology of the Apostle 1 Tim. 1.17 Now unto the King Eternal Immortal Invisible the only wise God be honour and glory for ever and ever Amen 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 FINIS
to lie unburied and dye unlamented Deut. 28.26 1 King 21.23 24. 1 King 14.11 2 Chron. 21.19 Isa 14.20 Jer. 7.33 8.2 14.16 16.4 and 22.19 Fit then it is that we attend at the Obsequies of deceased Friends not that it helps the Dead But 1. For their Honour it being a decent respect we pay to their name and memory for it is an honour to live desired and die lamented See Dr. Walker Fun. Sermon on Luke 7.12 13. 2. In Charity to the Living for their comfort and alleviating their sorrow while the burden is made lighter by many helping them to bear it John 11.31 The Jews were with Mary to comfort her at the death and burial of her Brother Lazarus Curatio Funeris conditio Sepulturae pompa Exequiarum magis vivorum solatia sunt quà m subsidia mortuorum Aug. 3. For our own advantage and encrease of Piety Eccles 7.2 3 4. 4. And lastly To testifie our faith in that great Article of the Resurrection of the Dead For if in this life onely we have hope in Christ we are of all men most miserable 1 Cor. 15.19 Now it strengthens our faith of the Resurrection when bodies of Christians are not cast away as beasts bodies are But if thy Friend wanted decent Burial if there was no Funeral-solemnity for thy comfort 1. Consid It cannot reasonably be expected that there should be Funeral-Solemnities in Pestilential-places for this would occasion further infection We read Luke 7.12 how the Widows son of Naim was carried out of the City to be buried Hinc collige Judeos Sepulchra sua habuisse non in Urbe sed extra Urbem idque tùm ob nitorem tùm ob sanitatem nè cadavera suo faetore putredine aerem inficerent Cornel. à . Lap. The Jewes buried out of the City that the Graves might not deface the comliness of their Cities nor noysome Exhalations and Vapours of the Graves infect the Air and hazard the health of the Living Great care is to be had that the Living be not infected with the Contagion of the Dead For if a living Dog be better than a dead Lion as Solomon concludes Eccles 9.4 Surely the persons of Christians that survive are more to be respected than the bodies of those that are dead Now how dangerous were it for the Living to accompany the Corps of such as dyed of the Plague how noysome to bury them there where the Living have often occasion to make their recourse so that it were incommodious to humane society to perform solemn Funeral Rites at such a time I end this with words taken out of that godly Exhortation at the end of Divine-Service appointed to be used on the Monthly-Fast during the continuance of the Plague The words are these Though it be a Christian and laudable custom to accompany the Bodies of the Dead unto the Grave and commend them in decent manner unto their rest yet seeing the end of such Assemblies as are then gathered together is by the use of Prayer and the Word preached rather to give comfort unto the Living than any benefit unto the Dead let men be advised perswaded and content that their Dead should be buried with no more company than is needful for the interring and laying them up in the Earth because the gathering together of Friends and Neighbours in so common a Contagion cannot be without present danger and hazard of their health and lives and it is verily thought that Infection by this means of meeting hath ensued unto many 2 Consid It is all one to the Dead whether their Bodies be drown'd or burnt or buried and if buried it is all one where the Grave is made for them Facilis jactura Sepulchri Lucan lib. 16. If they fail of the Burying-Place they expected the loss is not great for the Body is not sensible how it is used Neither do such Solemnities do the Dead either good or hurt Though they adde to the comfort of the Living yet not of the Dead 3 Consid What if the Body be thus used the Soul is safe if thy Friend belonged to God The Soul of man is his Darling Psal 22.20 and 35.17 If this Jewel be preserved no matter what becomes of the Cabinet 4 Consid Many of Gods dear Servants have wanted decent Burial See Psal 79.2 3. The dead Bodies of thy Servants have they given to be meat unto the Fowls of the Heaven the Flesh of thy Saints unto the Beasts of the Earth their Blood have they shed like water round about Jerusalem and there was none to bury them There was none to bury them either none that durst for fear of the enemy or so many slain by the enemy that the living sufficed not to bury the dead In persecuting times many Martyrs have been devoured of wild-beasts torn in pieces hang'd on gibbets burnt to ashes drowned c. so that they have wanted burial Moses himself a dear Servant of the Lord was buried no man knows where Deut. 34.6 5. And lastly consider The Dead in the Lord are never the worse thought of by God if without decent burial Sore Lazarus had little cost bestowed on him at his Death that found so little mercy in his Life It is said Luke 16.22 This Beggar died no mention made of his Burial yet he was carried by the Angels into Abraham's bosom which as St. Ambrose Ambros Orat. fun de obitu Valent. saith is a certain retiring-place of eternal rest Sinus Patriarcharum recessus quidam est quietis aeternae But it is said of the Rich-man that he died and was buried buried he was and probably with great pomp yet the next news we hear of him is that in Hell he lift up his eyes being in torment ver 23. Another cryes out 12. Apology answered It troubles me to think the body should lye rotting and stinking in the grave and be eaten up of wormes and be turned to dust disrobed of all amiable features so that after a few years there are but few remains of our dear friend here perhaps a scalp and there a bone c. Answer 1. Consid The Soul of thy Friend if a Child of God is in bliss whilest the Body lies in the grave that place of silence rottenness stench and corruption That the Soul dyes not with the Body these places of Scripture shew See 1 King 17.21 Elijah raising to life the Widows Son of Sareptah cryed unto the Lord and said O Lord my God I pray thee let this Childs Soul come into him again Which expression as it shews the Child was really dead and that death separates the Soul from the Body so it shews that after death the soul lives or hath a being for he said Let this Childs Soul come into him again or let it return He doth not say let a new one be made for him So Eccles 12.7 Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was and the Spirit shall return to God
who gave it So Mat. 10.28 our Saviour teacheth that the Soul cannot be kill'd though the Body be So Mat. 22.32 God is not the God of the dead yet he is said to be the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob These Patriarchs then were alive as to their Souls You see then the Soul dyes not with the Body And if the Soul of a good man it is in bliss and happiness even in the state of separation as these places shew Luke 23.43 2 Cor. 5.1 8. Phil. 1.23 Rev. 14.13 The Body is as it were the Nest or Cage of the Soul Death disturbs this Nest opens this Cage and then the Soul that Bird of Paradise flyes away to the kingdom of Heaven Seneca Seneca ad Merc. cap. 24. could tell disconsolate Mercia Imago duntaxat filii tui periit ipse quidem aeternus meliorisque nunc status est despoliatus onexibus alienis sibi relictus That the Image only of of her Son was defaced by death and that himself was Eternal in a better state eased of his uneasie burdens and now at freedom to enjoy himself 2. Consid There is not a fitter place for the Body of thy deceased Friend than the Grave is Gen. 23.4 Give me a possession of a burying place with you saith Abraham to the Children of Heth that I may bury my dead out of my sight He would be rid of Sarah when she was dead he would have beautiful Sarah removed out of his sight he would have the Wife of his bosom laid under foot When once we are dead all beauty and glory ceaseth and we become loathsome to our best friends and the Grave is the fittest place for us 3. Consid Thy friend fares no worse than Princes do The Grave is called The house appointed for all living Job 30.23 Living men in short time become dead men and are housed there Psal 89.48 What man is he that liveth and shall not see death Shall he deliver his soul from the hand of the Grave No death will attach the greatest and the Grave be a Prison to hold their bodyes fast 4. Consid Is not the Grave a desirable place Death is a sleep and the Vault or Grave is a Dormitory or Bed for the Body to rest in See Isa 57.1 2. The Righteous that are taken away are said to enter into peace and rest in their beds Poor afflicted Saints are glad when they can find the Grave See Job desired it Job 3.13 c. and 14.13 O that thou wouldest hide me in the Grave he longed for it 5. And lastly Consid Thy Friends Body shall rise again and if he dyed in the Lord be made a glorious body The Body of man shall rise again as appears by holy Writ Deut. 32.39 1 Sam. 2.6 Job 14.7 c. Job 19.25 26 27. Isa 26.19 Ezek 37.1 5. Dan. 12.2 Joh. 11.23 24. ◠Cor. 15. The Apostle spends the longest Chapter in all his Epistles in proving the Resurrection of the Body against some in the Church of Corinth that denyed it Most of the Heathens dreamed of an everlasting Separation Nobis cum semel occidit brevis lux Nox est perpetuò una dormienda Catullus But Christians make the Resurrection of the Body an article of their Faith Manchest All mon. in contemplatio mortis immortalitatis And truly when we see as an honourable person observed worms and flyes and other creatures that spend the winter season in a kind of Death revive in the Spring when we see our selves dead every night and alive in the morning we may easily conclude and believe the Resurrection of the Body No stone great enough could be laid in the mouth of Christs Sepulchre to hinder him from rising again and nothing shall hinder the rising of God's dear servants St. Austin saith Bodyes of Believers shall be raised tantâ facilitate quantâ faelicitate with as much facility as felicity with as much ease as happiness The Body of a Believer is a pretious treasure which God locks up in the Cabinet of the Grave so much is implyed in that Phrase Job 14.13 O that thou wouldest hide me in the Grave We use to hide our choicest treasure At the great day of Judgement he will open his Cabinet and take out the Body and it shall be as good nay better than before There shall then be a new Edition of the Body in a fairer Letter more amended for Phil. 3.20 21. Our conversation is in Heaven saith the Apostle from whence we look for a Saviour the Lord Jesus Christ who shall change our vile Body that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious Body according to the working whereby he is able to subdue all things to himself The same Body shall rise again the same for substance but not for quality a change of it there shall be but 't is for the better The vile body shall be changed that it may be fashioned like unto Christs glorious body and that you should not doubt of it he tells you it is done according to the working whereby he is able to subdue all things to himself q. d. There is nothing too hard for Omnipotency to effect Your friends body though sown in corruption is raised in incorruption sown in dishonour yet raised in glory 1 Cor. 15.42 c. It shall then be a glorious body indeed for it shall be beautiful full of brightness active and nimble not stand in need of outward refreshment it shall not be subject to irksom labours afflictions and diseases it shall not dispose the soul to sin nor the soul make use of the body as a weapon to fight against God it shall be an immortal body and every part and member of it shall have as much happiness as it is capable of Such honour have all the bodies of Believers at Christ's second coming So then thy Friends Soul is not eternally divorced from his Body nor shall the Body lye for ever in the grave but at Christ's second coming which will be shortly it shall rise again and his Soul be re-united to it in a more glorious and firm contract and they shall enter together into the Kingdom of Heaven Mat. 25.34 Dr. Abbot on Jonah Lect. 15. To end this You know a Watch is taken in pieces before it be mended and things new cast are broken first So thy Friend's Body must be knockt in pieces by death and the power of the grave that it may be new cast not only in its old figure but to a better form in the day of the Resurrection Wherefore comfort one another with these words 1 Thes 4.18 With what words with those words going before vers 13 c. Whereof this is the summe that they shall rise again and be for ever with the Lord. 13th Apology answerd Another cryes out This Friend or Relation that God hath taken away was a good and useful person a very charitable man c. not only I my self but the