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true_o therefore_o do_v saint_n paul_n say_v that_o such_o pleasure_n have_v not_o enter_v into_o the_o heart_n of_o man_n this_o seem_v to_o be_v a_o riddle_n not_o enter_v into_o the_o heart_n of_o man_n how_o can_v man_n enjoy_v it_o then_o indeed_o he_o must_v be_v above_o a_o natural_a man._n above_o himself_o that_o enjoy_v such_o pleasure_n he_o must_v be_v partaker_n of_o the_o divine_a nature_n of_o a_o superhumane_a and_o heavenly_a temper_n all_o grace_n be_v above_o nature_n and_o if_o by_o reason_n of_o our_o frailty_n and_o infirmity_n we_o can_v attain_v to_o such_o a_o height_n of_o love_n to_o and_o joy_n in_o god_n in_o this_o life_n yet_o if_o we_o endeavour_v true_o for_o this_o grace_n to_o love_n and_o serve_v he_o who_o always_o accept_v our_o true_a endeavour_n and_o desire_n and_o perfect_v our_o weakness_n by_o his_o power_n there_o shall_v come_v a_o time_n when_o we_o shall_v see_v god_n as_o he_o be_v know_v he_o as_o we_o be_v know_v love_v he_o beyond_o expression_n and_o enjoy_v in_o he_o infinite_a pleasure_n and_o felicity_n for_o ever_o and_o then_o we_o shall_v be_v make_v like_o he_o as_o saint_n john_n say_v 1._o john_n 3.2_o in_o such_o sort_n as_o fire_n by_o unite_n itself_o to_o iron_n by_o a_o exceed_a and_o extreme_a heat_n do_v purify_v the_o iron_n and_o convert_v the_o same_o into_o fire_n in_o like_a manner_n but_o above_o all_o degree_n of_o comparison_n do_v god_n purify_v and_o reduce_v we_o to_o a_o be_v supernatural_a and_o deify_v unite_v and_o take_v the_o soul_n into_o his_o own_o divine_a nature_n and_o this_o fire_n which_o shall_v so_o unite_v we_o to_o god_n be_v divine_a love_n for_o as_o god_n be_v a_o consume_a fire_n to_o his_o enemy_n so_o be_v he_o a_o fire_n of_o love_n to_o his_o friend_n and_o then_o we_o shall_v have_v a_o new_a be_v and_o a_o new_a name_n that_o be_v of_o our_o spouse_n of_o our_o belove_a of_o god_n himself_o for_o hereby_o the_o soul_n become_v a_o part_n of_o god_n and_o with_o he_o and_o in_o he_o enjoy_v all_o happiness_n so_o as_o now_o it_o may_v be_v say_v to_o be_v no_o more_o a_o soul_n but_o god_n himself_o to_o conclude_v let_v we_o then_o fervent_o wish_v and_o long_a for_o this_o time_n which_o shall_v be_v at_o the_o marriage_n of_o the_o king_n son_n to_o which_o the_o angel_n shall_v invite_v we_o then_o shall_v we_o celebrate_v a_o everlasting_a wedding_n feast_n yea_o our_o soul_n shall_v be_v the_o bride_n and_o love_n shall_v be_v the_o banner_n over_o we_o and_o then_o shall_v we_o possess_v and_o enjoy_v infinite_a pleasure_n and_o felicity_n for_o ever_o finis_fw-la jmprimatur_fw-la tho_o wykes_n decemb_v 7._o 1637._o