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neither_o must_v we_o forget_v what_o judas_n affirm_v in_o verse_n 19_o of_o his_o epistle_n madam_n there_o be_v some_o be_v so_o impudent_a as_o to_o aver_v that_o none_o do_v so_o much_o hate_v the_o power_n of_o godliness_n as_o the_o old_a english_a puritan_n but_o it_o be_v well_o observe_v by_o the_o most_o intelligible_a that_o their_o tongue_n can_v slander_v no_o man_n but_o it_o be_v a_o truth_n that_o the_o old_a english_a puritan_n do_v abhor_v such_o power_n of_o godliness_n as_o too_o many_o of_o these_o man_n hold_v forth_o which_o be_v eminent_o take_v notice_n of_o to_o be_v pride_n docet_fw-la experientia_fw-la docet_fw-la malice_n self-interest_n design_n to_o exalt_v themselves_o to_o high_a place_n partiality_n uncharitable_a censure_v such_o as_o be_v more_o unblameable_a than_o themselves_o and_o fashion_v themselves_o according_a to_o this_o world_n both_o in_o antique_a attire_n and_o manner_n etc._n etc._n but_o if_o any_o say_v to_o i_o as_o the_o lawyer_n do_v to_o our_o lord_n and_o saviour_n luk._n 11_o 45._o i_o will_v not_o answer_v as_o christ_n do_v 46._o yet_o let_v he_o that_o read_v consider_v it_o as_o christ_n also_o say_v in_o another_o case_n mat._n 24.15_o but_o this_o i_o will_v say_v the_o lord_n grant_v they_o sound_a conviction_n and_o through_o conversion_n the_o fruit_n of_o which_o be_v newness_n of_o heart_n and_o life_n and_o then_o doubtless_o all_o that_o be_v the_o real_a godly_a party_n will_v give_v they_o not_o only_o the_o right_a hand_n of_o fellowship_n gal._n 2.9_o but_o also_o their_o very_a heart_n and_o soul_n for_o the_o gospel_n sake_n ah_o what_o need_v have_v all_o christian_n to_o labour_v for_o humility_n and_o selfe-deniall_n and_o to_o walk_v close_o with_o god_n according_a to_o divine_a prescription_n which_o will_v be_v a_o very_a choice_n and_o effectual_a mean_n to_o prevent_v apostatise_v madam_n in_o that_o god_n have_v be_v please_v to_o be_v so_o gracious_a to_o you_o as_o to_o keep_v you_o from_o defile_v your_o garment_n by_o walk_v in_o byway_n it_o be_v a_o very_a clear_a demonstration_n that_o the_o groundwork_n of_o your_o profession_n have_v be_v lay_v on_o the_o rock_n of_o age_n and_o hence_o it_o be_v that_o your_o structure_n stand_v firm_a and_o unshaken_a in_o these_o stormy_a time_n of_o diversity_n of_o opinion_n especial_o in_o relation_n to_o fundamental_a truth_n for_o in_o point_n mere_o circumstantial_a christian_n ought_v to_o bear_v one_o with_o another_o and_o not_o to_o be_v disjoin_v in_o affection_n to_o each_o other_o they_o agree_v in_o the_o main_a and_o hence_o it_o be_v in_o the_o first_o place_n that_o i_o have_v gather_v up_o some_o encouragement_n to_o presume_v thus_o upon_o your_o ladyship_n by_o this_o bold_a intrusion_n but_o second_o when_o i_o weigh_v with_o myself_o the_o many_o and_o ponderous_a favour_n which_o so_o undeserved_o on_o my_o part_n i_o have_v receive_v under_o god_n at_o your_o ladyship_n hand_n i_o stand_v convince_v that_o all_o possible_a gratitude_n be_v due_a from_o i_o unto_o you_o but_o that_o this_o presumption_n of_o i_o may_v even_o in_o the_o least_o measure_n be_v esteem_v of_o to_o such_o a_o end_n it_o only_o rest_v in_o your_o ladyship_n candid_a acceptation_n of_o it_o which_o acceptation_n of_o you_o i_o most_o humble_o beg_v for_o without_o it_o i_o be_o at_o a_o exceed_a great_a stand_n in_o this_o particular_a madam_n be_v please_v therefore_o i_o beseech_v you_o so_o far_o to_o deny_v yourself_o as_o to_o cast_v a_o favourable_a aspect_n upon_o this_o poor_a ensue_a piece_n which_o under_o god_n will_v be_v some_o supportation_n to_o it_o for_o true_o it_o be_v a_o weak_a and_o poor_a babe_n but_o how_o can_v it_o be_v otherwise_o when_o the_o worthless_a author_n of_o it_o be_v not_o only_o full_a of_o imbecility_n but_o be_v weakness_n it_o
to_o love_n and_o good_a work_n she_o will_v be_v a_o mean_n to_o help_v thou_o in_o the_o growth_n of_o grace_n here_o and_o so_o a_o mean_n of_o thy_o happiness_n hereafter_o here_o be_v more_o flower_n to_o add_v to_o thy_o begun-nosegay_n in_o the_o last_o end_n of_o marriage_n bound_v they_o together_o and_o they_o will_v be_v very_o odoriferous_a to_o please_v thy_o sense_n three_o thou_o have_v need_v to_o make_v grace_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n in_o choose_v a_o wife_n as_o thou_o desire_v thy_o love_n shall_v hold_v out_o to_o the_o end_n for_o if_o thou_o make_v riches_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n they_o may_v be_v lose_v they_o be_v subject_a to_o many_o casualty_n riches_n have_v wing_n like_o a_o eagle_n and_o may_v fly_v away_o prov._n 23.5_o and_o when_o they_o be_v go_v thy_o love_n will_v fly_v after_o if_o thou_o make_v beauty_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n that_o may_v vanish_v away_o for_o favour_n be_v deceitful_a and_o beauty_n be_v vanity_n prov._n 31.30_o beauty_n may_v be_v take_v away_o by_o sickness_n or_o by_o some_o accidental_a blow_n in_o the_o face_n by_o loss_n of_o a_o eye_n by_o a_o canker_n in_o the_o nose_n or_o some_o other_o mean_n and_o if_o once_o go_v love_n will_v go_v too_o if_o thou_o make_v person_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n that_o may_v suffer_v much_o detriment_n crookedness_n may_v grow_v in_o a_o body_n former_o straight_o such_o a_o comely_a body_n may_v come_v to_o want_v a_o leg_n or_o a_o arm_n which_o will_v be_v a_o blemish_n to_o it_o now_o person_n be_v defective_a love_n will_v be_v the_o same_o if_o thou_o make_v hope_n of_o honour_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n thy_o wife_n great_a kindred_n may_v fail_v of_o power_n to_o advance_v thou_o nay_o of_o power_n to_o hold_v up_o themselves_o we_o want_v not_o plentiful_a experience_n of_o this_o or_o they_o may_v be_v prejudice_v against_o thou_o and_o frustrate_v thy_o expectation_n and_o make_v thou_o see_v too_o late_o that_o 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then_o as_o grace_n do_v increase_v so_o thy_o love_n will_v abound_v but_o grace_n can_v but_o increase_v continual_o therefore_o love_n will_v multiply_v in_o thy_o heart_n exceed_o now_o as_o thou_o desire_v to_o be_v keep_v from_o apostasy_n or_o fall_v from_o god_n and_o the_o way_n of_o his_o grace_n and_o as_o thou_o desire_v to_o be_v help_v forward_o in_o all_o christian_a counsel_n and_o good_a way_n and_o as_o thou_o do_v desire_v to_o keep_v life_n in_o thy_o love_n and_o to_o increase_v therein_o to_o thy_o own_o comfort_n and_o the_o comfort_n of_o thy_o wife_n so_o let_v it_o be_v thy_o care_n in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n to_o look_v to_o thy_o own_o heart_n that_o it_o deceive_v thou_o not_o but_o that_o thou_o do_v indeed_o make_v grace_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n in_o the_o choice_n of_o thy_o wife_n then_o thou_o may_v certain_o expect_v by_o the_o blessing_n of_o god_n much_o comfort_n in_o such_o a_o yokefellow_n in_o all_o thy_o want_n of_o wealth_n or_o health_n of_o soul_n or_o body_n and_o may_v while_o thou_o enjoy_v she_o begin_v to_o write_v encomium_n of_o she_o and_o when_o she_o be_v dead_a 20._o gen_n 35.19_o 20._o then_o with_o jacob_n set_v up_o a_o pillar_n upon_o her_o grave_a and_o perhaps_o may_v true_o say_v many_o daughter_n have_v do_v virtuous_o but_o thou_o excelle_v they_o all_o for_o favour_n be_v deceitful_a and_o beauty_n be_v vain_a but_o a_o woman_n that_o fear_v the_o lord_n she_o shall_v be_v praise_v give_v she_o of_o the_o fruit_n of_o her_o hand_n and_o let_v she_o own_o work_n praise_v she_o in_o the_o gate_n here_o we_o shall_v turn_v in_o and_o proceed_v no_o further_o in_o the_o amplification_n of_o the_o first_o inward_a qualification_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n wife_n the_o second_o qualification_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n in_o the_o second_o place_n the_o chief_a qualification_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n next_o save_v grace_n be_v sweet_a disposition_n of_o nature_n that_o she_o be_v of_o a_o quiet_a and_o peaceable_a spirit_n for_o it_o be_v much_o to_o be_v bewail_v that_o in_o divers_a man_n and_o woman_n that_o we_o doubt_v not_o in_o the_o least_o measure_n but_o that_o they_o be_v very_o gracious_a and_o desire_v to_o prove_v their_o soul_n to_o god_n in_o all_o way_n of_o holiness_n yet_o be_v of_o bad_a nature_n and_o themselves_o can_v but_o see_v it_o and_o i_o doubt_v not_o but_o they_o desire_v to_o bewail_v it_o before_o god_n in_o secret_a and_o yet_o can_v attain_v to_o have_v their_o corruption_n in_o this_o kind_n mortify_v in_o any_o comfortable_a way_n yet_o it_o must_v be_v grant_v that_o such_o person_n be_v not_o many_o time_n comfortable_a consort_n and_o therefore_o thou_o that_o be_v to_o make_v choice_n of_o a_o wife_n have_v cause_n enough_o to_o endeavour_v to_o avoid_v lay_v a_o conjugal_a tie_n upon_o thyself_o to_o live_v and_o die_v with_o such_o a_o woman_n though_o otherwise_o one_o of_o good_a part_n if_o a_o woman_n be_v of_o churlish_a nature_n &_o of_o cross_a dispositon_n in_o the_o abstract_n she_o will_v cast_v such_o a_o cool_a damp_n on_o her_o husband_n love_n as_o may_v not_o only_o chill_a but_o kill_v it_o whereby_o though_o she_o may_v be_v a_o sad_a sufferer_n herself_o she_o will_v abundant_o prejudice_v her_o husband_n in_o his_o comfort_n and_o may_v shorten_v his_o day_n for_o a_o man_n can_v live_v that_o can_v love_v the_o love_n of_o any_o thing_n give_v contentment_n to_o the_o mind_n to_o enjoy_v the_o same_o a_o cross_n and_o tart_n nature_n in_o a_o wife_n un-wifes_n her_n as_o i_o may_v say_v for_o she_o that_o be_v not_o a_o meet_a helper_n be_v either_o not_o a_o wife_n or_o else_o a_o very_a imperfect_a one_o for_o how_o can_v she_o be_v say_v to_o be_v a_o wife_n that_o be_v not_o a_o meet_a helper_n who_o be_v unfit_a for_o comfortable_a society_n but_o such_o a_o wife_n be_v as_o sharp_a and_o bitter_a touchy_a and_o tangue_n by_o nature_n will_v not_o ordinary_o be_v sociable_a love_a kind_a and_o amiable_a in_o her_o carriage_n and_o deportment_n to_o her_o husband_n and_o do_v it_o not_o concern_v thou_o to_o avoid_v she_o in_o thy_o choice_n of_o a_o wife_n for_o such_o a_o woman_n as_o we_o speak_v of_o will_v not_o make_v a_o good_a wife_n nor_o good_a mother_n nor_o good_a dame_n or_o mistress_n she_o will_v not_o be_v good_a in_o any_o relation_n i_o mean_v in_o the_o latter_a part_n of_o this_o discourse_n where_o a_o untoward_a nature_n be_v predominant_a in_o a_o woman_n solomon_n say_v it_o be_v be_v better_a to_o dwell_v in_o a_o corner_n of_o the_o house_n top_n than_o with_o a_o brawl_a woman_n in_o a_o wide_a house_n prov._n 21.9_o he_o also_o say_v the_o contention_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v a_o continual_a drop_n pro._n 19.13_o a_o continual_a drop_n will_v wear_v waist_n and_o consume_v stone_n as_o observation_n will_v prove_v and_o true_o this_o drop_n from_o a_o contentious_a wife_n will_v wear_v waste_n and_o consume_v not_o only_o all_o the_o comfort_n that_o her_o husband_n otherwise_o may_v have_v in_o she_o but_o his_o skin_n flesh_n bone_n marrow_n and_o vital_a spirit_n and_o all_o in_o time_n the_o apostle_n tell_v we_o that_o a_o meek_a and_o quiet_a spirit_n in_o a_o woman_n be_v of_o great_a price_n with_o god_n 1_o pet._n 3.4_o and_o so_o it_o be_v doubtless_o with_o every_o rational_a man_n therefore_o as_o thou_o will_v avoid_v many_o inconvenience_n in_o the_o marriage_n estate_n and_o wear_v the_o comfort_n of_o it_o as_o a_o crown_n of_o all_o temporal_a felicity_n so_o labour_v to_o gain_v a_o woman_n of_o sweet_a natural_a disposition_n of_o a_o very_a amiable_a and_o
like_o it_o not_o that_o i_o shall_v enjoy_v she_o as_o my_o wife_n and_o that_o because_o she_o have_v too_o much_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n in_o she_o as_o they_o think_v and_o not_o outward_a portion_n so_o much_o as_o they_o will_v have_v i_o enjoy_v with_o a_o wife_n and_o true_o i_o have_v long_o wait_v for_o their_o consent_n and_o use_v the_o best_a mean_n i_o can_v to_o enjoy_v the_o same_o but_o do_v even_o despair_v of_o ever_o gain_v of_o it_o now_o sir_n i_o beseech_v you_o give_v i_o a_o word_n or_o two_o of_o counsel_n and_o direction_n what_o i_o shall_v do_v in_o this_o case_n i_o answer_v dear_a heart_n i_o condole_v thy_o condition_n and_o can_v but_o sympathize_v with_o thou_o i_o see_v thou_o be_v in_o a_o conflict_a estate_n with_o the_o devil_n with_o thy_o corruption_n and_o with_o thy_o unnatural_a and_o degenerate_a parent_n yet_o there_o be_v some_o balm_n in_o gilead_n for_o thou_o only_o first_o take_v by_o the_o way_n a_o word_n or_o two_o of_o 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