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A64030 The measures and offices of friendship with rules of conducting it : to which are added, two letters written to persons newly changed in their religion / by Jer. Taylor, D.D.; Discourse of the nature, offices and measures of friendship Taylor, Jeremy, 1613-1667. 1657 (1657) Wing T350; ESTC R41495 50,636 214

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and_o the_o expectation_n of_o they_o no_o disparagement_n to_o the_o best_a friendship_n for_o can_v any_o wise_a or_o good_a man_n be_v angry_a if_o i_o say_v i_o choose_v this_o man_n to_o be_v my_o friend_n because_o he_o be_v able_a to_o give_v i_o counsel_n to_o restrain_v my_o wander_n to_o comfort_v i_o in_o my_o sorrow_n he_o be_v pleasant_a to_o i_o in_o private_a and_o useful_a in_o public_a he_o will_v make_v my_o joy_n double_a and_o divide_v my_o grief_n between_o himself_o and_o i_o for_o what_o else_o shall_v i_o choose_v for_o be_v a_o fool_n and_o useless_a for_o a_o pretty_a face_n or_o a_o smooth_a chin_n i_o confess_v it_o be_v possible_a to_o be_v a_o friend_n to_o one_o that_o be_v ignorant_a and_o pitiable_a handsome_a and_o good_a for_o nothing_o that_o eat_v well_o and_o drink_v deep_a but_o he_o can_v be_v a_o friend_n to_o i_o and_o i_o love_v he_o with_o a_o fondness_n or_o a_o pity_n but_o it_o can_v be_v a_o noble_a friendship_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d say_v menander_n by_o wine_n and_o mirth_n and_o every_o day_n delight_n we_o choose_v our_o friend_n to_o who_o we_o think_v we_o may_v our_o soul_n intrust_v but_o fool_n be_v they_o that_o lend_v their_o bosom_n to_o the_o shadow_n of_o a_o friend_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d plutarch_n call_v such_o friendship_n the_o idol_n and_o image_n of_o friendship_n true_a and_o brave_a friendship_n be_v between_o worthy_a person_n and_o there_o be_v in_o mankind_n no_o degree_n of_o worthiness_n but_o be_v also_o a_o degree_n of_o usefulness_n and_o by_o every_o thing_n by_o which_o a_o man_n be_v excellent_a i_o may_v be_v profit_v and_o because_o those_o be_v the_o brave_a friend_n which_o can_v best_o serve_v the_o end_n of_o friendship_n either_o we_o must_v suppose_v that_o friendship_n be_v not_o the_o great_a comfort_n in_o the_o world_n or_o else_o we_o must_v say_v he_o choose_v his_o friend_n best_o that_o choose_v such_o a_o one_o by_o who_o he_o can_v receive_v the_o great_a comfort_n and_o assistance_n 3._o this_o be_v the_o measure_n of_o all_o friendship_n they_o all_o partake_v of_o excellency_n according_a as_o they_o be_v fit_v to_o this_o measure_n a_o friend_n may_v be_v counsel_v well_o enough_o though_o his_o friend_n be_v not_o the_o wise_a man_n in_o the_o world_n and_o he_o may_v be_v please_v in_o his_o society_n though_o he_o be_v not_o the_o best_a nature_a man_n in_o the_o world_n but_o still_o it_o must_v be_v that_o something_o excellent_a be_v or_o be_v apprehend_v or_o else_o it_o can_v be_v no_o worthy_a friendship_n because_o the_o choice_n be_v imprudent_a and_o foolish_a choose_v for_o your_o friend_n he_o that_o be_v wise_a and_o good_a and_o secret_a and_o just_a ingenuous_a and_o honest_a and_o in_o those_o thing_n which_o have_v a_o latitude_n use_v your_o own_o liberty_n but_o in_o such_o thing_n which_o consist_v in_o a_o indivisible_a point_n make_v no_o abatement_n that_o be_v you_o must_v not_o choose_v he_o to_o be_v your_o friend_n that_o be_v not_o honest_a and_o secret_a just_a and_o true_a to_o a_o tittle_n but_o if_o he_o be_v wise_a at_o all_o and_o useful_a in_o any_o degree_n and_o as_o good_a as_o you_o can_v have_v he_o you_o need_v not_o be_v ashamed_a to_o own_o your_o friendship_n though_o sometime_o you_o may_v be_v ashamed_a of_o some_o imperfection_n of_o your_o friend_n 4._o but_o if_o you_o yet_o inquire_v further_o whether_o fancy_n may_v be_v a_o ingredient_n in_o your_o choice_n i_o answer_v that_o fancy_n may_v minister_v to_o this_o as_o to_o all_o other_o action_n in_o which_o
direct_o reject_v his_o motion_n but_o put_v he_o to_o death_n because_o he_o do_v not_o follow_v but_o lead_v on_o gracchus_n and_o bring_v his_o friend_n into_o the_o snare_n for_o so_o they_o preserve_v the_o honour_n of_o friendship_n on_o either_o hand_n by_o neither_o suffer_v it_o to_o be_v sully_v by_o a_o foul_a excuse_n nor_o yet_o reject_v in_o any_o fair_a pretence_n a_o man_n may_v not_o be_v perjure_v for_o his_o friend_n i_o remember_v to_o have_v read_v in_o the_o history_n of_o the_o low-countryes_n that_o grimston_n and_o redhead_n when_o bergenapzoom_n be_v besiege_v by_o the_o duke_n of_o parma_n act_v for_o the_o interest_n of_o the_o cue_n of_o england_n force_n a_o notable_a design_n but_o be_v suspect_v and_o put_v for_o their_o acquittance_n to_o take_v the_o sacrament_n of_o the_o altar_n they_o dissemble_v their_o person_n and_o their_o interest_n their_o design_n &_o their_o religion_n and_o do_v for_o the_o queen_n service_n as_o one_o witty_o write_v to_o 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reason_n for_o it_o for_o it_o be_v all_o the_o band_n that_o this_o world_n have_v and_o there_o be_v no_o society_n and_o there_o be_v no_o relation_n that_o be_v worthy_a but_o it_o be_v make_v so_o by_o the_o communication_n of_o friendship_n and_o by_o partake_v some_o of_o its_o excellency_n for_o friendship_n be_v a_o transcendent_a and_o signify_v as_o much_o as_o unity_n can_v mean_v and_o every_o consent_n and_o every_o pleasure_n and_o every_o benefit_n and_o every_o society_n be_v the_o mother_n or_o the_o daughter_n of_o friendship_n some_o friendship_n be_v make_v by_o nature_n some_o by_o contract_n some_o by_o interest_n and_o some_o by_o soul_n and_o in_o proportion_n to_o these_o way_n of_o unite_n so_o the_o friendship_n be_v great_a or_o less_o virtuous_a or_o natural_a profitable_a or_o holy_a or_o all_o this_o together_o nature_n make_v excellent_a friendship_n of_o which_o we_o observe_v something_o in_o social_a plant_n grow_v better_a in_o each_o other_o 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of_o contract_v necessary_a friendship_n that_o be_v by_o nature_n such_o friendship_n be_v contract_v without_o which_o we_o can_v live_v and_o be_v educate_v or_o be_v well_o or_o be_v at_o all_o in_o this_o scene_n that_o of_o parent_n and_o child_n be_v the_o great_a which_o indeed_o be_v begin_v in_o nature_n but_o be_v actuate_v by_o society_n and_o mutual_a endearment_n for_o parent_n love_v their_o child_n because_o they_o love_v themselves_o child_n be_v but_o like_o emission_n of_o water_n symbolical_a or_o indeed_o the_o same_o with_o the_o fountain_n and_o they_o in_o their_o posterity_n see_v the_o image_n and_o instrument_n of_o a_o civil_a immortality_n but_o if_o parent_n and_o child_n do_v not_o live_v together_o we_o see_v their_o friendship_n and_o their_o love_n be_v much_o abate_v and_o support_v only_o by_o fame_n and_o duty_n by_o custom_n and_o religion_n which_o to_o nature_n be_v but_o artificial_a pillar_n and_o make_v this_o friendship_n to_o be_v 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