Selected quad for the lemma: son_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
son_n	brother_n	father_n	sister_n	23,792	5	10.2345	5	false

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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A17510	The vvidovves ioy. Or Christ his comfortable saluation to a comfortlesse widow being obseruations no lesse profitable then comfortable for the losse of our deceased friends. By W.C.	Cragge, William, 1595 or 6-1636.	1622 (1622)	STC 4323; ESTC S114181	18,275	52

ground and tooke deepe roote VVeepe not here it is sprung into a blade This good Samaritan Christ Iesus contenteth not himselfe to see this wounded woman for indeed she had a wounded spirit and to haue compassion on her but goes vnto her bindes vp her wounds poures wine and oyle into them and takes care for her farther comfort weepe not To teach vs that it is not sufficient for vs when we see any in miserie onely to bee moued with compassion but wee must speake some words of comfort in due season it is the Apostle his rule our tongues must vtter the tender affections of our hearts and our hearts as they are or should bee the ground where mercy must roote must sometimes shew that there is life by sending fourth some buddes into the tongue which is the hearts best interpreter and commonly speakes the language of the heart if the heart conceiue compassion the tongue must vtter weepe not VVeepe not Here comes our Sauiour now and makes good in performance his comfortable doctrine which was in words and promises Blessed are they that mourne hee comes with a towell in his hands and wipes away the brinish teares from the blubbered and furrowed cheeks of this sorrowfull widow and turnes her sadnesse into gladnesse her fasting into feasting her sobbes and sighes into songs and prayses of deliuerance such is the power prouidence and mercy of our gracious Lord and mercifull Sauiour to rayse vp vnto his children in the middest of sorrow sudden and vnexpected comfort But here some sad deiected Christian co-partner with this widow in the same or like cause of griefe may yet refuse to be comforted and iustifie both the cause and act of sorrow for the Prophet Esay complained in his dayes that the righteous man perished and no man considered it in his heart besides it is not found through the whole sacred Storie of our Sauiours life that euer hee was seene to laugh but to weepe often and besides all this woman lost her sonne and therefore a senslesse stupiditie in her not to haue mourned would haue argued not onely want of loue but of nature and humanitie or to haue had 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 courage aboue and beyond the strength of nature for how quiet soeuer the morall Doctors haue made themselues yet their rules haue neuer counteruailed all their troubles The wisest and most resolute Moralist that euer was look't pale when he was to taste his poysonfull Hemlocke and why because to grieue at crosses and to feare death is naturall is to bee a man why then doth our Sauiour forbid her saying VVeepe not We must know for all this that the God of nature will haue vs sometime though not to deny yet to curbe nature and grace must teach vs to doe that sometime which nature cannot for courage and constancie against all crosses and then to be least shaken when most assayled commeth from the rules of an higher art then naturall wisedome was euer able to teach Not that grace would make a man not be affectionate as not to mourne with them that mourne and weep with them that weepe for euen this is a lesson which euery man must learne in the schoole of grace but direct vs to moderate the inordinate and ouer-passionate affections of nature that they should not meurne as men without hope for them that sleepe in the Lord. Weepe not Here mee thinkes I am taken with admiration to conceiue in what amazement this sorrowfull soule and all the mournfull company stood to see one silly man and that a stranger to come with such a song of melody into a house of mourning and to present such a dissonant and discording dittie to so dolefull a tune and yet I cannot chuse but admire more how suddenly their sorrow was turned into comfort and mourning into mirth while I consider who it is that sayes vnto her weepe not Vox hominem sonat oh Deus certè the sound of the voyce bewrayes him to be a man but the matter that he speakes mightily declares him to be the Sonne of God God speakes by his Sonne the brightnesse of his glory and the engraued forme of his Person out of his Word vnto all both good and bad but it is not the sound of the voyce of God but the matter which he speaks that argues loue he may speake vnto an enemie as vnto Satan Satan whence commest thou Iob 1. in anger as vnto Adam when he called him to an account Adam where art tbou Gen. 3. He speakes peace to none but to his owne it is vnto them and vnto their soules that he sayes I am thy saluation It is with them that hee doth indent I will be their God and they shall be my people and happy that soule vnto whom in the middest of sorrow Christ shall vtter this comfortable voyce Weepe not The Church of God is compared to a ship sayling on the sea euery Christian is a passenger in this Vessell Christ is the Pilot and Steeres-man he still sits at the Helme let the weather be neuer so foule let the sea and waues of crosses rise one vpon another with neuer such swelling surges yet if my Sauiour say vnto my soule I am thy saluation I will neuer despaire if my steeres-man say vnto mee as vnto his Disciples Feare not O yee of litle faith that little faith I haue shall make me so confident as not to be dismayed if my Sauiour meete mee though not in the flesh yet but in his word as he doth here this comfortlesse widow with a noli flere weepe not though he take away from mee father or mother brother or sister my nearest and dearest comfort in the world I will not mourne as without hope but comfort my selfe in his comfortable promises Thus haue you seene a sorrowfull mother following her dead sonne with tearedewed cheekes a passionate multitude attending this pensiue widow a compassionate Lord stopping their mouthes wiping their eyes and cheering their hearts with a comfortable noli flere VVeepe not But this is not all let me adde something farther then my Text yet not beyond the Text for t' is in the Hystory hee gaue her her sonne aliue againe and thus the blade is growne to an eare from a verball to a reall comfort To teach vs first that it is not sufficient for vs to haue a tender heart and a bemoaning tongue to those that are in want and miserie but our handes must be inlarged our hearts towards poor needy Christians must be so affected that some worke of charitie and mercy might be effected Secondly and for conclusion of all whereas this woman in the depth of her sorrow found comfort and the yong man in the midst of death found life we may learne that both to liue and to liue comfortably are in and from Christ alone But some sorrowfull soule may yet farther obiect and reason that well might this woman receiue a great deale of comfort for shee had the reall and bodily presence of her blessed Sauiour whose very lookes were able to reuiue a drooping and languishing soule and besides to his presence he annexed his Power miraculously raising her dead sonne to life and thereby vnexpected comfort to her selfe but now Christ is ascended into heauen and there shall remaine till his second comming besides miracles are now ceased how then shall I by this example any whit comfort my selfe how shall I expect restitution of my losse restauration of my comfort I answere these doubts proceed but from the weaknesse of our faith shall the eyes of the body minister comfort to the soule and shall not Faith the Eye of the soule doe much more Rubbe but the scales of infidelitie from these eyes and then euen now by faith thou mayest see thy Sauiour sitting at the right hand of God making continuall intercession for thee But why doe I grant that Christ is absent from his Church and children Hee is not as Abraham in the Parable answered Diues They haue Moses and the Prophets so I say wee haue Christ still haue we not his owne promise Loe I am with you to the end of the world Doth hee not daily speake vnto our soules by the Spirit the Comforter and to our eares by his holy word as comfortably as euer hee did vnto this woman when hee sayd vnto her VVeepe not May not wee daily heare him say Blessed are the poore in spirit Blessed are they that mourne for they shall bee comforted Come vnto mee all yee that are heauy laden and I will refresh you and you shall finde rest vnto your soules As for the comfort this woman had by the raising of her dead sonne know that this was but a temporall and short life and when hee badde her not to weepe this comfort was as short if not shorter then the former for certainely afterwards so long as shee liued shee would haue cause to weepe by daily renewed causes of sorrow But wee howsoeuer wee loose our friends now shall one day see a more blessed raising of them neuer any more to bee depriued of their societie and then shall Christ pronounce words which shall bring more durable comfort then these to this woman for then shall all teares bee wiped from our eyes neuer to feele more sorrow Till which time the Lord giue vs grace to liue religiously and to wait patiently FINIS