Selected quad for the lemma: son_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
son_n	brother_n	daughter_n	sister_n	75,810	5	11.5950	5	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A26870	A breviate of the life of Margaret, the daughter of Francis Charlton ... and wife of Richard Baxter ... : there is also published the character of her mother, truly described in her published funeral sermon, reprinted at her daughters request, called, The last work of a believer, his passing-prayer recommending his departing spirit to Christ, to be received by him.	Baxter, Richard, 1615-1691.	1681 (1681)	Wing B1194; ESTC R1213	62,400	127

to_o live_v on_o the_o charity_n of_o stranger_n §_o 18._o when_o warrant_n be_v out_o from_o sir_n thomas_n davis_n to_o distrain_v of_o my_o good_n for_o fine_n for_o my_o preach_v she_o do_v without_o any_o repine_a encourage_v i_o to_o undergo_v the_o loss_n and_o do_v herself_o take_v the_o trouble_n of_o remove_v and_o hide_v my_o library_n a_o while_n many_o score_n be_v so_o lose_v and_o after_o to_o give_v it_o away_o bonâ_fw-la fide_fw-la some_o to_o new_a england_n and_o the_o most_o at_o home_n to_o avoid_v distrane_n on_o they_o and_o the_o danger_n of_o imprisonment_n and_o pay_v 40._o l._n for_o every_o sermon_n be_v so_o far_o from_o incline_v she_o to_o hinder_v or_o discourage_v i_o from_o any_o one_o sermon_n that_o if_o she_o do_v but_o think_v i_o have_v the_o least_o fear_n or_o self-saving_a by_o fleshly_a wisdom_n in_o shrink_v from_o my_o undertake_a office_n work_v it_o be_v so_o great_a a_o trouble_n to_o she_o that_o she_o can_v not_o hide_v it_o who_o can_v too_o much_o hide_v many_o other_o §_o 19_o she_o be_v exceed_v impatient_a with_o any_o nonconform_a minister_n that_o shrink_v for_o fear_n of_o suffering_n or_o that_o be_v over-querulous_a and_o sensible_a of_o their_o want_n or_o danger_n and_o will_v have_v no_o man_n be_v a_o minister_n that_o have_v not_o so_o much_o self-denial_n as_o to_o lay_v down_o all_o at_o the_o foot_n of_o christ_n and_o count_v no_o cost_n or_o suffer_v too_o dear_a to_o serve_v he_o she_o great_o hate_v choose_v or_o use_v the_o sacred_a ministry_n for_o wealth_n ease_n or_o honour_n or_o any_o worldly_a end_n serve_v the_o flesh_n under_o the_o name_n of_o serve_v christ_n and_o look_v to_o be_v reverence_v and_o honour_v in_o this_o take_n of_o god_n name_n in_o vain_a §_o 20._o according_o after_o some_o year_n wherein_o a_o lager_n course_n have_v be_v take_v she_o be_v against_o my_o persuade_a parent_n to_o devote_v their_o child_n to_o the_o ministry_n that_o have_v but_o good_a wit_n and_o part_n and_o be_v not_o profane_a though_o my_o success_n with_o some_o do_v much_o encourage_v i_o to_o it_o heretofore_o but_o her_o sense_n of_o the_o sin_n and_o mischief_n of_o bad_a minister_n make_v she_o persuade_v all_o that_o in_o that_o case_n she_o have_v to_o do_v with_o to_o take_v heed_n of_o devote_v their_o son_n to_o the_o ministry_n till_o they_o have_v good_a reason_n to_o judge_v they_o true_o godly_a and_o as_o she_o will_v not_o have_v pious_a person_n to_o marry_v such_o as_o be_v not_o pious_a on_o pretence_n of_o hope_n that_o god_n will_v convert_v they_o so_o much_o less_o will_v she_o have_v such_o hope_n that_o have_v no_o promise_n from_o god_n pretend_v for_o devote_v unsanctified_a lad_n to_o the_o sacred_a office_n she_o see_v how_o many_o even_o of_o good_a man_n child_n profane_v the_o ministy_a and_o turn_v to_o any_o course_n that_o do_v but_o serve_v their_o worldly_a interest_n that_o she_o be_v vehement_o against_o addict_v any_o to_o that_o office_n that_o have_v not_o beside_o good_a wit_n and_o part_n so_o great_a a_o love_n to_o god_n and_o soul_n as_o to_o come_v to_o it_o with_o absolute_a self-denial_n resolve_v to_o serve_v christ_n at_o the_o dear_a rate_n and_o take_v his_o acceptance_n and_o the_o win_n of_o soul_n for_o their_o benefice_n she_o be_v not_o willing_a to_o entice_v any_o into_o the_o way_n of_o the_o ministry_n as_o a_o common_a trade_n to_o live_v by_o in_o the_o world_n and_o will_v have_v have_v two_o or_o three_o reading_n write_v and_o catechising-school_n set_v up_o instead_o of_o one_o grammar-school_n and_o she_o will_v not_o have_v parent_n make_v scholar_n of_o bad_a child_n nor_o send_v they_o to_o the_o university_n lest_o when_o they_o have_v a_o little_a wordy_a learning_n they_o shall_v make_v themselves_o minister_n whether_o their_o parent_n will_v or_o not_o and_o so_o a_o swarm_n of_o such_o as_o have_v be_v a_o few_o year_n at_o the_o university_n shall_v think_v a_o benefice_n their_o due_a and_o take_v the_o charge_n of_o the_o soul_n of_o many_o that_o never_o know_v the_o worth_n of_o one_o nor_o how_o it_o must_v be_v qualify_v and_o guide_v §_o 21._o her_o expectation_n of_o liberality_n to_o the_o poor_a from_o other_o be_v too_o high_a and_o her_o displeasure_n too_o great_a towards_o they_o that_o deny_v she_o whereupon_o when_o she_o see_v a_o worthy_a person_n in_o debt_n or_o prison_n or_o great_a want_n she_o will_v promise_v to_o gather_v they_o such_o a_o sum_n and_o sometime_o she_o be_v put_v to_o pay_v most_o of_o it_o herself_o but_o a_o fortnight_n or_o month_n before_o she_o die_v she_o promise_v to_o get_v 20._o l._n towards_o the_o relief_n of_o one_o of_o know_a name_n and_o worth_n and_o can_v get_v but_o 8._o l._n and_o somewhat_o over_o of_o it_o and_o pay_v all_o the_o rest_n herself_o §_o 22._o her_o judgement_n be_v that_o we_o ought_v to_o give_v more_o or_o less_o to_o every_o one_o that_o ask_v if_o we_o have_v it_o and_o that_o neighbourhood_n and_o notice_n and_o ask_v next_o to_o know_a indigence_n and_o great_a worth_n be_v the_o mark_n by_o which_o to_o know_v to_o who_o god_n will_v have_v we_o give_v i_o think_v that_o beside_o these_o we_o must_v exercise_v prudence_n in_o discern_v the_o degree_n of_o need_n and_o worth_n but_o she_o practise_v as_o she_o think_v and_o special_o to_o they_o in_o prison_n for_o debt_n and_o blame_v i_o if_o i_o deny_v any_o one_o §_o 23._o alas_o i_o know_v many_o poor_a widow_n and_o oother_n that_o think_v they_o have_v now_o lose_v a_o mother_n and_o be_v leave_v desolate_a who_o i_o can_v wish_v some_o that_o be_v able_a will_v help_v instead_o of_o the_o help_n which_o they_o have_v lose_v §_o 24._o she_o be_v much_o more_o liberal_a to_o many_o of_o my_o own_o poor_a kindred_n than_o i_o be_v but_o her_o way_n be_v not_o to_o maintain_v they_o in_o idleness_n but_o to_o take_v child_n and_o set_v they_o to_o some_o trade_n or_o help_v they_o out_o of_o some_o special_a strait_n §_o 25._o to_o her_o own_o kindred_n she_o bear_v a_o most_o tender_a love_n but_o her_o care_n be_v most_o to_o get_v they_o to_o be_v good_a and_o save_v their_o soul_n and_o next_o to_o settle_v they_o well_o in_o the_o world_n i_o have_v ever_o be_v great_o averse_a to_o motion_n marriage_n yet_o she_o even_o compel_v i_o first_o satisfy_v my_o reason_n to_o be_v a_o motioner_n of_o a_o wife_n to_o her_o only_a brother_n son_n who_o it_o be_v say_v be_v worth_a to_o he_o above_o 20000._o l._n and_o her_o sister_n child_n she_o love_v as_o if_o they_o have_v be_v she_o own_o especial_o three_o daughter_n §_o 26._o there_o be_v some_o thing_n charge_v on_o she_o as_o fault_n which_o i_o shall_v mention_v 1._o that_o she_o busy_v her_o head_n so_o much_o about_o church_n and_o work_n of_o charity_n and_o be_v not_o content_a to_o live_v private_o and_o quiet_o but_o this_o be_v but_o just_a what_o profane_a unbeliever_n say_v against_o all_o zeal_n and_o serious_a godliness_n what_o need_v there_o all_o this_o ado_n do_v not_o paul_n call_v some_o woman_n his_o help_n in_o the_o gospel_n he_o that_o know_v what_o it_o be_v to_o do_v good_a and_o make_v it_o the_o business_n of_o his_o life_n in_o the_o world_n and_o know_v what_o it_o be_v to_o give_v account_n of_o our_o stewardship_n and_o to_o be_v doom_v as_o the_o unprofitable_a slothful_a servant_n will_v know_v how_o to_o answer_v this_o accusation_n §_o 28._o another_o accusation_n be_v that_o she_o be_v wasteful_a and_o imprudent_a in_o leave_v i_o so_o much_o in_o debt_n to_o that_o i_o answer_v 1._o let_v any_o one_o that_o read_v what_o go_v before_o consider_v what_o she_o do_v and_o he_o will_v not_o wonder_v at_o her_o debt_n it_o be_v not_o to_o pamper_v she_o own_o body_n she_o use_v mean_a clothing_n and_o a_o far_o mean_a diet_n for_o she_o own_o person_n i_o think_v much_o less_o than_o cornario_n and_o lessius_n proportion_n 2._o and_o she_o go_v into_o no_o debt_n but_o by_o mortgage_n or_o otherwise_o she_o give_v the_o creditor_n good_a security_n for_o 3._o but_o i_o confess_v she_o and_o i_o differ_v in_o this_o i_o think_v i_o be_v to_o give_v but_o all_o my_o income_n and_o not_o to_o borrow_v to_o give_v unless_o in_o some_o public_a or_o extraordinary_a case_n she_o think_v otherwise_o that_o while_o she_o can_v give_v security_n she_o ought_v to_o borrow_v to_o relieve_v the_o poor_a especial_o the_o most_o worthy_a nor_o do_v she_o draw_v upon_o we_o any_o debt_n but_o what_o there_o be_v not_o only_o sufficient_a security_n for_o but_o also_o a_o fair_a prospect_n of_o ourselves_o have_v a_o competency_n

not_o think_v that_o his_o book_n be_v disgrace_v if_o he_o write_v not_o over_o again_o all_o that_o every_o one_o else_o have_v write_v before_o he_o but_o my_o fault_n lay_v 1._o in_o believe_v dr._n stillingfleet_n who_o tell_v we_o that_o these_o paper_n be_v write_v in_o k._n edward_n reign_n which_o make_v i_o look_v for_o they_o in_o dr._n burnet_n second_a volume_n where_o they_o be_v not_o and_o another_o affirm_v to_o i_o that_o he_o see_v they_o in_o that_o second_o volume_n and_o i_o peruse_v it_o purposely_o a_o second_o time_n confirm_v i_o but_o dr._n b._n say_v dr._n stillingfleet_n be_v mistake_v many_o year_n and_o that_o they_o be_v write_v long_o before_o in_o the_o reign_n of_o hen._n 8._o and_o so_o he_o have_v they_o in_o his_o first_o volume_n which_o i_o have_v not_o peruse_v not_o expect_v they_o there_o and_o for_o this_o hasty_a judge_n i_o beg_v his_o pardon_n as_o to_o these_o little_a private_a history_n of_o my_o own_o family_n foremention_v i_o be_v loath_a to_o cast_v by_o my_o own_o mother-in-law_n life_n she_o be_v a_o person_n of_o so_o long_a and_o extraordinary_a holiness_n live_v long_o with_o sir_n robert_n harley_n who_o lady_n be_v her_o cousin-german_a and_o after_o at_o shrewsbury_n and_o after_o with_o my_o father_n and_o i_o etc._n etc._n in_o so_o great_a communion_n with_o god_n contempt_n of_o the_o world_n and_o all_o its_o pomp_n and_o vanity_n so_o great_a victory_n over_o the_o flesh_n and_o so_o long_o desire_v to_o die_v and_o especial_o in_o much_o constant_a fervent_a successful_a prayer_n that_o have_v marvellous_a answer_n as_o very_o few_o christian_n attain_v and_o i_o be_v loath_a to_o have_v cast_v by_o the_o narrative_a of_o my_o wife_n mother_n for_o some_o reason_n not_o now_o to_o be_v mention_v and_o because_o her_o daughter_n extraordinary_a love_n to_o she_o make_v her_o just_a honour_n very_o dear_a to_o she_o but_o her_o character_n be_v in_o the_o sermon_n true_o give_v you_o but_o i_o be_o convince_v by_o the_o judgement_n of_o my_o friend_n that_o public_a thing_n be_v fit_a for_o public_a notice_n and_o i_o feel_v that_o love_n grief_n and_o nearness_n affect_v i_o with_o the_o matter_n that_o be_v so_o near_o i_o and_o as_o it_o do_v not_o much_o concern_v the_o world_n to_o know_v whether_o i_o be_o sick_a or_o well_o dead_a or_o alive_a or_o whether_o ever_o i_o have_v a_o be_v though_o it_o concern_v i_o so_o i_o shall_v think_v of_o the_o concern_v of_o my_o friend_n affection_n make_v we_o think_v our_o own_o or_o our_o friend_n affair_n to_o be_v such_o as_o the_o world_n shall_v be_v affect_v with_o i_o perceive_v this_o weakness_n and_o submit_v that_o which_o be_v leave_v out_o of_o the_o narrative_a of_o my_o wife_n life_n be_v the_o occasion_n and_o inducement_n of_o our_o marriage_n and_o some_o passage_n between_o some_o relative_n and_o she_o which_o the_o world_n be_v not_o concern_v yet_o at_o least_o to_o know_v if_o this_o that_o be_v write_v seem_v useless_a to_o any_o it_o will_v not_o hurt_v they_o if_o they_o leave_v it_o to_o other_o that_o find_v it_o more_o suitable_a to_o they_o all_o thing_n be_v not_o agreeable_a to_o all_o that_o may_v be_v useful_a to_o person_n of_o her_o own_o quality_n which_o be_v not_o so_o to_o many_o other_o to_o her_o nephew_n and_o niece_n and_o some_o other_o kindred_n who_o be_v also_o near_o to_o she_o and_o for_o who_o sake_n above_o most_o other_o i_o write_v it_o you_o can_v think_v that_o it_o will_v be_v altogether_o useless_a o_o that_o they_o will_v all_o imitate_v she_o in_o all_o that_o be_v praiseworthy_a and_o needful_a to_o themselves_o the_o grand_a objection_n i_o foresee_v will_v be_v that_o i_o seem_v but_o to_o predicate_v some_o of_o my_o own_o good_a work_n by_o praise_v she_o and_o must_v i_o needs_o bury_v the_o memory_n of_o they_o as_o she_o for_o fear_v of_o the_o sting_n of_o such_o objector_n i_o have_v tell_v they_o true_o it_o be_v not_o my_o own_o act_n but_o those_o that_o be_v proper_o she_o that_o i_o there_o mention_v it_o be_v not_o her_o give_v of_o my_o money_n which_o i_o there_o recite_v but_o that_o which_o either_o be_v she_o own_o and_o none_o of_o i_o or_o else_o procure_v by_o she_o for_o those_o use_n and_o the_o work_v such_o in_o which_o i_o be_v but_o the_o executor_n of_o her_o will._n she_o be_v go_v after_o many_o of_o my_o choice_a friend_n who_o within_o this_o one_o year_n be_v go_v to_o christ_n and_o i_o be_o follow_v even_o at_o the_o door_n have_v i_o be_v to_o enjoy_v they_o only_o here_o it_o will_v have_v be_v but_o a_o short_a comfort_n mix_v with_o the_o many_o trouble_n which_o all_o our_o fail_n and_o sin_n and_o some_o degree_n of_o unsuitableness_n between_o the_o near_a and_o dear_a cause_n but_o i_o be_o go_v after_o they_o to_o that_o bless_a society_n where_o life_n light_n and_o love_n and_o therefore_o harmony_n concord_n and_o joy_n be_v perfect_a and_o everlasting_a reader_n while_o i_o give_v thou_o but_o the_o truth_n forgive_v the_o effect_n of_o age_n weakness_n and_o grief_n and_o if_o before_o i_o get_v over_o this_o own_v passion_n i_o publish_v also_o a_o few_o poetical_a fragment_n partly_o suit_v to_o the_o condition_n of_o some_o sick_a or_o sad_a afflict_a friend_n and_o partly_o to_o my_o own_o if_o thou_o accept_v they_o not_o forgive_v they_o only_o and_o neglect_v they_o as_o the_o man_n be_v such_o will_v be_v his_o thought_n and_o work_n the_o lord_n prosper_v our_o preparation_n for_o our_o great_a approach_a change_n to_o leave_v this_o world_n for_o ever_o and_o enter_v upon_o a_o endless_a life_n where_o we_o shall_v speed_v according_a to_o the_o preparation_n of_o this_o little_a inch_n of_o time_n do_v certain_o bespeak_v the_o most_o scrious_a thought_n the_o wise_a and_o speedy_a care_n and_o diligence_n the_o most_o patient_a suffer_v the_o most_o unwearied_a labour_n the_o most_o frugal_a use_n of_o all_o our_o time_n the_o most_o resolute_a resistance_n to_o all_o temptation_n and_o to_o the_o faithful_a the_o most_o joyful_a hope_n july_n 23._o 1681._o rich._n baxter_n a_o breviate_v of_o the_o life_n of_o margaret_n the_o daughter_n of_o francis_n charlton_n esque_n and_o late_a wife_n of_o richard_n baxter_n who_o die_v june_n 14._o 1681._o chap._n i._o her_o parentage_n and_o the_o occasion_n of_o our_o acquaintance_n §_o though_o due_a affection_n make_v i_o willing_a to_o give_v the_o world_n a_o narrative_a which_o else_o i_o have_v omit_v yet_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n have_v not_o so_o forsake_v i_o that_o i_o shall_v willing_o deliver_v any_o falsehood_n through_o partiality_n or_o passion_n but_o as_o i_o know_v more_o of_o this_o person_n than_o any_o other_o for_o the_o good_a of_o the_o reader_n and_o the_o honour_n of_o god_n grace_n in_o she_o i_o shall_v by_o god_n assistance_n true_o report_v the_o thing_n which_o i_o know_v §_o 2._o we_o be_v bear_v in_o the_o same_o county_n within_o three_o mile_n and_o a_o half_a of_o each_o other_o but_o she_o of_o one_o of_o the_o chief_a family_n in_o the_o county_n and_o i_o but_o of_o a_o mean_a freeholder_n call_v a_o gentleman_n for_o his_o ancestor_n sake_n but_o of_o a_o small_a estate_n though_o sufficient_a her_o father_n francis_n charlton_n esq_n be_v one_o of_o the_o best_a justice_n of_o the_o peace_n in_o that_o county_n a_o grave_n and_o sober_a worthy_a man_n but_o do_v not_o marry_v till_o he_o be_v age_a and_o gray_a and_o so_o die_v while_o his_o child_n be_v very_o young_a who_o be_v three_o of_o which_o the_o elder_a daughter_n and_o his_o only_a son_n be_v yet_o alive_a he_o have_v one_o survive_a brother_n who_o after_o the_o father_n death_n maintain_v a_o long_a and_o costly_a suit_n about_o the_o guardianship_n of_o the_o heir_n yet_o live_a this_o uncle_n robert_n be_v a_o comely_a sober_a gentleman_n but_o the_o wise_a and_o good_a mother_n mary_n dare_v not_o trust_v she_o only_o son_n in_o the_o hand_n of_o one_o that_o be_v his_o next_o heir_n and_o she_o think_v that_o nature_n give_v she_o a_o great_a interest_n in_o he_o than_o a_o uncle_n have_v but_o it_o be_v in_o the_o heat_n of_o the_o late_a civil_a war_n robert_n be_v for_o the_o parliament_n have_v the_o advantage_n of_o strength_n which_o put_v she_o to_o seek_v relief_n at_o oxford_n from_o the_o king_n and_o afterward_o to_o marry_v one_o mr._n hanmer_n who_o be_v for_o the_o king_n to_o make_v her_o interest_n that_o way_n her_o house_n be_v a_o sort_n of_o a_o small_a castle_n be_v now_o garison_v for_o the_o king_n but_o at_o last_o robert_n procure_v it_o to_o be_v besiege_v by_o the_o parliament_n soldier_n and_o storm_v and_o