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A80737	Knovvledge & practice, or, a plain discourse of the chief things necessary to be known, believ'd, and practised in order to salvation. Drawn up, and principally intended for the use and benefit of North-Cadbury in Somersetshire, / by Samuel Cradock, B.D. & Pastor there: sometime fellow of Emmanuel Colledge in Cambridge.	Cradock, Samuel, 1621?-1706.	1659 (1659)	Wing C6751; Thomason E1724_1; ESTC R209799	322,548	715

I confesse 't is a very sad thing to see any that seemed Lights in the Firmament to prove Meteors and falling stars But though some fall yet through Grace many stand and continue faithful to the end There was a Judas among our Saviours own Disciples and yet it followes not from thence that any of the rest were such The fals of some professors should teach us not to be high-minded but continually jealous over our own hearts We should be exceeding humble and cease from trusting in our selves and put all our trust in God to be kept by his power through Faith unto Salvation The Devil aimes all he can to foil professors If he can but foil one of them he blurs their profession makes others shie of it and so advances his own Kingdom mightily Therefore the fall of some should not discourage us but make us more humble and watchful and cause us often to examine our hearts whether Gods Glory be our aim and end and whether we do in humility and integrity walk before him Obj. 8. God is merciful We see Mercy was afforded to the thief on the Crosse a little before his death Sol. 1. 'T is an example without a promise Here is an example of a late repentance but where have we a promise that God will give repentance at last to such as go on in a long course of sin 'T is not examples but the promises of God that is a foundation for Faith to build upon 2. This was an extraordinary time What if our Saviour on this extraordinary occasion was pleased by this rare Miracle of Mercy to honour his Crosse will this afford any ground of hope that he will do so ordinarily and especially to wilfull sinners 3. We do not find that this thief had ever known Christ before or had ever neglected or refused any offers of Grace made unto him Thou hast little reason to plead this who sittest daily under the calls and intreaties of the Gospel This case will minister little comfort to thee if thou goest on in thy sins I come now in the third place to give some Directions to such as are willing to be advised in this matter of so much concernment to them I Let them take heed of those things that usually undo young people Such are 1. Carelesnesse want of consideration and laying to heart the things that most concern them going on in a dissolute negligence without ever asking themselves what their state and condition to God ward is 2 An eager following youthful lusts and sensual pleasures Therefore the Apostle exhorts 2 Tim. 2.22 To flee youthful lusts 1 Pet. 2.11 As pilgrims and strangers to abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul Let them consider that the feet of those lusts that have carried away and buried millions of other young persons in perdition stand ready to carry them the same way if preventing Grace come not in to deliver them 3. Pride of wit parts strength beauty c. 4. A headinesse and wilful obstinacy against good counsel Carnal reason flesh and blood are usually young mens counsellors and very bad Ones 5. Slighting religion and whatever is serious as too strict for them 6. Putting the day of death far from them and flattering themselves with hopes of long life 7. Ill company that great snare of the Devil 8. Comparing themselves with such as are worse than themselves thinking that an excuse for them that others are worse II. Let them be especially careful to be well grounded in the Principles of Christian Religion If there be a good foundation of saving knowledge laid in their minds betimes so that they throughly understand how the Religion they professe is grounded on the Scriptures they will not be like children easily tossed to and fro with every wind of Doctrine as too many now a daies are And for this purpose I refer them to the first Part of this Treatise containing the Principles of right Knowledges III. Let them labour to understand betimes wherein the chief happinesse of man consists namely in the pardon of his sins a gracious frame of heart and communion with God Every one naturally desires to be happy but people commonly mistake the way to it Therefore it highly concerns all young persons to be early acquainted and deeply possessed how they may steer a right course both to be happy here and hereafter IV. Let them acquaint themselves well with the Scriptures be much in secret prayer and self-reflexion keep close to the publick Ordinances and listen to the awakenings of Gods Spirit they shall meet with in them V. Let them take heed of sinning against Conscience When Conscience saies do it not let them listen to that voice let them labour to keep their Consciences tender VI. Let them decline such occasions and temptations as they foresee are like to ensnare them and especially ill company which hath ruin'd Thousands VII Let them acquaint themselves with serious sober minded and experienced Christians From such they may reap exceeding great benefit VIII And Lastly Let them take heed of Spiritual pride which hath thrown down many young professors from a great hopefulnesse Let them remember the Devil will attempt if it be possible to foil them by drawing them either into some erroneous Doctrines or some scandalous practices Let them therefore be sure to set the Glory of God before their eyes and endeavour to walk humbly with God suspecting themselves and leaning on his goodnesse to preserve them from falling Eccles 12.1 Remember now thy Creatour in the daies of thy youth while the evil daies come not nor the years draw nigh when thou shalt say I have no pleasure in them Prov. 8.17 I love them that love me and those that seek me early shall find me Prov. 22.6 Train up a child in the way which he should goe and when he is old he will not depart from it Psal 119.9 Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way by taking heed thereto according to thy Word Tit. 2 6. Young men likewise exhort to be sober-minded 2 Tim. 2.22 Flee also youthful lusts but follow righteousness faith charity peace with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart 1 Kings 18.12 But I Obadiah thy servant fear the Lord from my youth 2 Chron. 34.3 For Josiah in the eighth year of his reign while he was yet young began to seek after the God of David his Father c. 2 Tim. 3.15 And that from a child thou hast known the holy Scriptures which are able to make thee wise unto salvation 2 John v. 4. I rejoyced greatly that I found of thy children walking in the Truth as we have received a Commandment from the Father Psal 32.9 Be ye not as the Horse or as the Mule which have no understanding whose mouth must be held in with bit and bridle lest they come neer unto thee Jer. 22.21 I spake unto thee in thy prosperity but thou saidst I will not

KNOVVLEDGE PRACTICE Or a PLAIN DISCOURSE of the CHIEF THINGS necessary to be Known Believ'd Practised in order to Salvation Drawn up and Principally intended for the Use and Benefit of NORTH-CADBVRY in SOMERSETSHIRE By SAMUEL CRADOCK B. D. PASTOR there Sometime Fellow of Emmanuel Colledge in CAMBRIDGE August lib. 15. de Trin. cap ult Domine Deus quaecunque dixi de tuo agnoscant tuit Siqua de meo tu ignosce tui LONDON Printed by J. Hayes for John Rothwell at the Fountain in Goldsmiths-row in Cheapside 1659. John 17.3 This is life eternal that they might know thee the only true God and Jesus Christ whom thou hast sent 1 Cor. 3.11 Other foundation can no man lay than that is laid Jesus Christ Act. 20.20 21. I kept back nothing that was profitable unto you but have shewed you and have taught you publickly and from house to house Testifying both to the Jews and also to the Greeks repentance toward God and Faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ Eccles 12.13 Fear God and keep his Commandments for this is the whole duty of man Heb. 12.14 Follow peace with all men and holinesse without which no man shall see the Lord. John 13.17 If ye know these things happy are ye if ye do them 2 Pet. 1.12 Wherefore I will not be negligent to put you alwaies in remembrance of these things though ye know them and be established in the present truth John 5.39 Search the Scriptures 2 Tim. 3.15 Which are able to make thee wise unto Salvation V. 16. All Scripture is given by inspiration of God and is profitable for doctrine for reproof for correction for instruction in righteousnesse TO THE REVEREND Doctor DILLINGHAM THE Master and his worthy Friends the Fellowes OF EMMANVEL-COLLEDGE in CAMBRIDGE Honoured Sirs IT may seem strange that I should adventure to dedicate so plain a Discourse calculated for this meridian to so Learned a Society But the Providence of God having by your free choice placed me in this Charge wherein I stand I take my self obliged to render an account to you above any others of this my undertaking I have found by sad experience in those few years I have here lived what extream need my people have of some such help as this to be ready at hand to admonish them of those things they are to Know Believe and Practise in order to their salvation As also to acquaint them with such Scriptures collected together under severall Heads as declare Gods mind and will concerning those particulars I could not therefore satisfie my self without endeavouring to minister to their necessities in this kind according as I was able especially being perswaded that a Book of this nature left in every family might through the blessing of God be a very proper means of their instruction for the present and might teach them also hereafter when my mouth will be stopp'd with dust This consideration among others engaged me in this work in which at first I did not intend to be so large but handling such variety of Subjects it hath swelled to the bulk you see You may perceive by the whole that the great Master-Builder hath appointed me to labour in the foundations And blessed yea for ever blessed be his Holy Name that he hath accounted me worthy to be employed any way about his spirituall building I shall not need to make any apology for the plainnesse of my work if it be but sure and well laid Such as it is I humbly present unto you as an evidence of the great desire I have according to my poor ability to feed the people committed to my care with knowledge and understanding and to guide them in the way wherein they should go As also to testifie to the world my great Obligations to that Religious and Eminent Society God Almighty blesse your Colledge with his choicest blessings and grant that Reall Piety and all Vseful Learning may flourish within your wals from Generation to Generation This is the earnest Prayer of Honoured Sirs Your much obliged Servant SA CRADOCK North-Cadbury May 5th 1659. TO THE INHABITANTS OF NORTH-CADBVRY in SOMERSETSHIRE My loving Neighbours and Friends OUR Blessed Saviour intending to give Peter a charge of his Lambs and Sheep enquires first concerning his sincere love to him John 21.15 16 17. Simon son of Jonas lovest thou me more than these he saith unto him yea Lord thou knowest that I love thee He saith unto him feed my Lambs V. 16. He saith to him again the second time Simon sonne of Jonas lovest thou me he saith unto him yea Lord thou knowest that I love thee he saith unto him feed my Sheep V. 17. He said unto him the third time Simon sonne of Jonas lovest thou me Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time lovest thou me And he said unto him Lord thou knowest all things thou knowest that I love thee Jesus saith unto him feed my Sheep Which words plainly intimate thus much unto us that Ministers who are called to take charge of Christs Flock had need of much love unto him no service about them being approved if it flow not from this fountain but be undertaken for by-respects and there being no possibility without this love well to endure the many blasts and storms they will meet with from without in the discharge of their calling nor the much toil they will have even from the flocks themselves The truth is the paines and labour and sufferings of the Ministerial Function are so great where 't is conscientiously discharged and there are so many other waies wherein we might make our lives more comfortable as to worldly contentments that he must needs be a man of great ignorance and inexperience or intends not to be over-diligent and faithful in his Ministry that takes on him that sacred Calling meerly for temporal advantages But whoever lifts up his heart to think how much our dear Lord and Saviour hath done for him who endured the Crosse and despised the shame to redeem mankind and shall consider what glorious rewards he propounds to those who turn many to righteousnesse surely cannot grudge to be employed in the work of so gracious a Redeemer or to spend and be spent in his service This consideration hath drawn me often to think with my self by what means I might best promote your everlasting welfare And after many serious thoughts I have judged it exceeding expedient for your benefit to draw up a discourse of this nature and to give to every Family among you one of them And I blesse God that hath put it into my heart to set about it and hath enabled me to perform it 'T was your benefit and the winning of your souls to Christ that was the grand motive to this undertaking And if that great businesse through the blessing of God may be any way advanced thereby I shall never repent of my pains but shall very much rejoyce that the

who is a Spirit infinitely Glorious and being One in Nature is yet Three in Persons or Subsistences The Father The Son and The Holy Ghost These are Three and One after a wonderfull and mysterious manner The Father God The Son God And the Holy Ghost God and yet not three Gods but one God Secondly His Properties or Attributes God is Eternal or without any Beginning or End Omnipotent or Almighty Omnipresent or every where present Omniscient or All-knowing Infinitely Wise Holy Just Mercifull Thirdly His Works which are principally two 1. Creation 2. Providence I. Creation Concerning which we must know 1. That God made the world and all the Creatures therein both visible and invisible by his Almighty power and Created them all very good 2. The chief of his Creatures are Angels Men. 3. All the Angels were at first made holy and happy Spirits Some continued in their obedience to God and are still Angels of Light Others fell from God through Pride or some other sin and are become Devils of Darknes Concerning the Creation of Man see farther in the next Chapter II. Providence As God Created the World and all the Creatures therein by his Almighty Power So he upholds directs disposes and governs them all by his Providence Nothing so Casual but he disposes of it No Agent so free as to be exempted from his Controule No affliction or Evil of Punishment but he hath a hand in it But as for sin he neither is nor possibly can be the Author or Approver of it CHAP. II. Concerning Man COncerning Man we are to know and understand these three things 1. The happy Condition in which he was made 2. His Fall 3. The way of his Recovery by Christ 1. The Holy and happy estate in which God created man at first Namely after his own Image in Knowledge Holinesse and Righteousnesse with Dominion over the Creatures here below writing his Law on mans heart requiring perfect obedience from him and giving him power to perform it promising the continuance of him in that happy estate if he obeyed and threatning him with death if he disobeyed which is called the Covenant of works 2. The miserable Condition into which man threw himself by sin Our first Parents by the temptation of Sathan disobeyed God broke his righteous Law and Commandement and thereby cast themselves out of the Favour of God became the Slaves of Satan and liable to the curse of the Law and brought a great depravation of soul and body upon themselves And such as our first Parents were such must their posterity needs be For who can bring a clean thing out of an unclean says Job Chap. 14.4 They having lost the Image of God themselves the holinesse and happinesse in which they were made could not conveigh it to their posterity So that the nature of man is now become corrupt prone to evil backward to good And this miserable condition is derived to us from Adam by our immediate Parents and as men come to be born in several Ages and generations so they actually participate of the sap that comes from the first root we being therefore all of us in so bad a Condition by nature and by custome and practice in sin having made our selves much worse and more abominable in the sight of God more guilty and liable to his wrath we are to know and consider that this woful state of sin and misery is by no means to be rested in But seeing we are fallen into so lamentable a condition we must speedily endeavour to get out of it And therefore let us remember that without Conversion there is no hope of Salvation Except a man be born again and made a new Creature he cannot enter into the Kingdome of God 3. The blessed way found out and appointed by God for mans Recovery out of this miserable state which is by the undertaking and mediation of his onely Son CHAP. III. Concerning the Mediator between God and Man COncerning the Mediator between God and man Christ Jesus We must know and understand these seaven things 1. What manner of person he was He was God and Man in the same person The Eternal Son of God The second Person in the Trinity took to himself our humane Nature a humane soul and body and united it after a wonderfull manner to his Godhead And so God and Man became one person 2. How he became man He was born about sixteen hundred and odd years ago of the Virgin Mary who was of the seed of Abraham and of the Family of David as was foretold in the Scriptures being Conceived in her by the Almighty power of the Holy Ghost without the help of man and without sin and was Called Jesus Christ 3. How he Lived He Lived about three and thirty years here upon Earth a most holy innocent sinless Life performing perfect obedience to the Law of God And as the great Prophet of God who was promised Deut. 18.15 Acts 3 22. he declared his Fathers will in his heavenly discourses and Sermons and wrought many miracles to confirm his doctrine and to prove himself the true Messias and the Eternal Son of God 4. How he Died Being betrayed by Judas forsaken by his Disciples scorned and rejected by the World through the malicious prosecution of the Jews and unjust sentence of Pilat he was Condemned to be Crucified and being tormented by his persecutors and having conflicted with the Terrors of Death and felt and born Gods wrath He endured the painful shameful and cursed death of the Crosse there as a Priest offering up himself a Sacrifice to God and a Ransome and Propitiation for our sins 5. What became of him after his Death He being buried rose again the third day and after Fourty days continuance on the earth in which time he frequently appeared to his Disciples and others teaching the things appertaining to the Kingdome of God he ascended into Heaven and is now in Glory with the Father where he intercedes for and presents the Merits of his Death and Sufferings in the behalf of all them that unfeignedly repent of their sins and do truly beleeve on him And being made King and Head of his Church and Lord of Angels and Men he shall come from Heaven again in great Glory to judge the quick and the dead at the Last day 6. What was the End and Intent of Christs Coming into the world The chief End and Intent of his Coming into the world was to save Lost and undone sinners to procure their pardon reconciliation with God by his Merits to Sanctifie their Natures by his Holy Spirit and to bring them to everlasting Life And to this end he appointed his Ministers to preach the Gospel unto the world and instituted the two Sacraments Baptism and the Lords Supper to signifie and keep in remembrance the great and inestimable benefits of his Death and Sufferings 7. What they are effectually Called unto and through the assistance of the

the Scripture might be fulfilled John 1.1 In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God V. 2. The same was in the beginning with God V. 3. All things were made by him and without him was not any thing made that was made 1 Cor. 15.47 The first man is of the earth earthy the second man is the Lord from Heaven Col. 2.9 For in him dwelleth all the fulnesse of the God-head bodily Christ Man Heb. 2.14 Forasmuch then as the Children are partakers of flesh and blood he also himself likewise took part of the same that through death he might destroy him that had the power of death that is the devil V. 16. For verily he took not on him the nature of Angels but he took on him the seed of Abraham V. 17. Wherefore in all things it behooved him to be made like unto his brethren that he might be a merciful and faithful High Priest in things pertaining to God to make reconciliation for the sins of the people Isa 9.6 For unto us a child is born unto us a son is given and the Government shall be upon his shoulder and his name shall be called Wonderful Councellor the mighty God the everlasting Father the Prince of peace Phil. 2.6 Who being in the form of God thought it not robbery to be equall with God V. 7. But made himself of no reputation and to k upon him the form of a servant and was made in the likenesse of men V. 8. And being found in fashion as a man he humbled himself and became obedient unto death even the death of the Crosse 1 John 4.3 And every Spirit that confesseth not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is not of God and this is that Spirit of Anti-Christ whereof ye have heard that it should come and even now already is it in the world 2 John 7. For many deceivers are entred into the world who confess not that Jesus is come in the flesh this is a deceiver and an Anti-Christ John 5.27 And hath given him authority to execute judgment also because he is the Sonne of man John 1.14 And the word was made flesh and dwelt among us and we beheld his Glory the Glory as of the Onely begotten of the Father full of Grace and Truth 1 Tim. 2.5 For there is one God and one Mediator between God and Man the man Christ Jesus Mat. 16.13 When Jesus came into the Coasts of Cesarea Philippi he asked his Disciples saying whom do men say that I the Son of man am V. 14. And they said Some say that thou art John the Baptist some Elias and others Jeremias or one of the Prophets V. 16. He saith unto them but whom say ye that I am V. 15. And Simon Peter answered and said thou art Christ the Son of the living God V. 17. And Jesus answered and said unto him Blessed art thou Simon Barjona for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee but my Father which is in Heaven 2. How he became man He was born about sixteen hundred and odd years ago of the Virgin Mary who was of the seed of Abraham and of the Family of David as was foretold in the Scriptures being Conceived in her by the Almighty power of the Holy Ghost without the help of man and without sin and was Called Jesus Christ Gal. 4.4 But when the fulnesse of time was come God sent forth his Son made of a woman made under the Law V. 5. To redeem them that were under the Law that we might receive the adoption of Sons Mat. 1.18 Now the Birth of Jesus Christ was on this wise when as his mother Mary was espoused to Joseph before they came together she was found with child of the Holy Ghost V. 20. But while he thought on these things behold the Angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream saying Joseph thou son of David Fear not to take unto thee Mary thy wife for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Ghost V. 22. Now all this was done that it might be fulfilled which was spoken of the Lord by the Prophet saying V. 23. Behold a Virgin shall be with child and shall bring forth a Son and they shall Call his Name Emmanuel which being interpreted is God with us Luke 1.26 And in the sixth moneth the Angel Gabriel was sent from God unto a City of Galilee named Nazareth V. 27. To a Virgin espoused to a man whose name was Joseph of the house of David and the Virgins name was Mary V. 28. And the Angel came in unto her and said Hail thou that art highly favoured the Lord is with thee Blessed art thou among women V. 30. And the Angel said unto her fear not Mary for thou hast found favour with God V. 31. And behold thou shalt conceive in thy womb and bring forth a Son and shalt Call his name Jesus V. 32. He shall be great and be Called the Son of the Highest and the Lord shall give unto him the Throne of his Father David V. 33. And he shall reign over the House of Jacob for ever and of his Kingdome there shall be no end V. 34. Then said Mary unto the Angel how shall this be seeing I know not a man V. 35. And the Angel answered and said unto her the Holy Ghost shall come upon thee and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee therefore also that holy thing which shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God Luke 2.7 And she brought forth her first born Son and wrapped him in swadling Clothes and laid him in a manger because there was no room for them in the Inne V. 8. And there was in the same Countrey shepherds abiding in the field keeping watch over their flock by night V. 9. And Lo the Angel of the Lord came upon them and the Glory of the Lord shone round about them and they were sore afraid V. 10. And the Angel said unto them fear not for behold I bring you good tidings of great joy which shall be to all people V. 11. For unto you is born this day in the City of David a Saviour which is Christ the Lord. V. 12. And this shall be a sign unto you ye shall find the babe wrapped in swadling Clothes lying in a manger V. 13. And suddenly there was with the Angel a multitude of the heavenly Host praising God and saying V. 14. Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace good will towards men V. 15. And it came to pass as the Angels were gone away from them into Heaven the shepherds said one to another Let us now go even unto Bethlehem and see this thing which is come to passe which the Lord hath made known unto us V. 16. And they came with hast and found Mary and Joseph and the babe lying in a manger Rom. 1.3 Concerning his Son Jesus Christ our Lord which was made of

the Lord God said it is not good that the man should be alone I will make him an help meet for him 4. Nature it self proclaims it in respect of the sex the female being inferiour to the male Man is the Image and Glory of God and the woman is the Glory of the man 1 Cor. 11.7 2. From the Transgression For the woman though the latter in Creation yet was the former in transgression Gen. 3.6 And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food and that it was pleasant to the eies and a tree to be desired to make one wife she took of the fruit thereof and did eat and gave also unto her husband with her and he did eat v. 12. And the man said the woman whom thou gavest to be with me she gave me of the tree and I did eat 1 Tim. 2.14 Adam was not deceived i. e. first and by Satan but the woman being deceived was in the transgression not only sinning her self but drawing her husband into transgression also 3. From the titles of head and guide given to the husband in the Scriptures which declare him to be the Superiour 1 Cor. 11.3 The head of the woman is the man Eph. 5.23 For the Husband is the head of the Wife even as Christ is the head of the Church Prov. 2.17 Which for saketh the guide of her youth and forgetteth the Covenant of her God II. Reverence Eph. 5.33 Let the wife see that she reverence her husband Reverence is a mixture of love and fear 1. The wife must intirely love her husband Tit. 2.4 And desire to do him good and not hurt all the daies of her life Prov. 31.12 Love must sweeten her whole behaviour towards him And this love must proceed from a due estimation of him as her Head and Guide Judgment 't is the sourse and spring of affection What the mind esteems not the heart affects not That which we highly prize we dearly value And if the wife truly esteem her husband her carriage and behaviour towards him will be with all sweetness amiablenesse and due respect and regard 2. She ought to fear not with a servile slavish but a liberal free ingenuous fear like that true Converts bear to God springing from love and joyn'd with love least she give him any just occasion of displeasure and discontent 1 Cor. 7.34 The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord that she may be holy both in body and in Spirit but she that is married careth for the world how she may please her husband III. Obedience 1 Cor. 14.34 The Apostle tels us women are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the Law What Law Why Gen. 3.16 Thy desire shall be to thy husband and he shall rule over thee Also Tit. 2.5 To be discreet chast keepers at home good obedient to their own husbands that the Word of God be not blasphemed And in 1 Pet. 3.6 Sarah is propounded as their pattern Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham c. B●t what kind of obedience is it the wife is to render to the Husband The Apostle tels us Col. 3.18 Wives submit your selves to your own husbands as it is fit in the Lord. Which hints to us these two things 1. It must be done in obedience to God to the Commandment and the Ordinance of God It must be a religious conscientious submission A Heathen woman may do all the outward duties of a good wife for her credit sake or peace at home or from principles of natural honesty But a Christian woman besides these motives should do it out of Conscience to Gods Command out of a desire to please God and to approve her heart to him as unto the Lord as the Apostle speaks Eph. 5.22 Having a respect to the precept and enjoynment of Christ This may take away that common Objection of some women if my husband do not his duty to me Why should I do mine to him His faultinesse and neglect of his duty will not excuse thy non performance of thine For thou owest this duty not only and principally to him but to the Lord who requires it of thee whether thy husband do his or no. And further the worse the husband is the more need there is for the wife to carry her self with such gentlenesse and sweetness towards him as may be most like to win him for so the Apostle advises 1 Pet. 3.1 Likewise ye wives be in subjection to your own husbands that if any obey not the Word they also may without the Word be won by the conversation of the wives The discreet kind loving behaviour of the wife towards her husband though a bad man may be a great means to reclaim him whereas the ill fruits of the wives unquietness are very notorious How many are there that to avoid the noise of a froward wife have fallen to company keeping and by that to drunkennesse poverty and a multitude of mischiefs Let all wives therefore be careful not to administer such a temptation 2. It must be in the Lord i. e. in all lawful commands It must not extend to any thing that is against God For otherwise 't is here as in the case of other Superiours God must be obeyed rather than man If the Husband command a thing though not unlawful yet very inconvenient and imprudent let the Wife calmly and mildy shew him the inconveniencies thereof and perswade him to the contrary but if she cannot win him by fair intreaties let her not finally refuse to obey nothing but the unlawfulnesse of the command being a sufficient warrant for that And further she must manifest her obedience in two things 1. In being willing to be admonished of her husband in case of any failing not returning a snappish answer again but readily reforming what is amisse 2. In being willing to be advised by him Not but that she may advise him in some cases and on some occasions For what a servant may do much more may a wife do as we find 2 King 5.3 1 Sam. 16 15 16. but this must be done with wisdom and discretion The admonition must be given seasonably not as Physick in a fit It must be done with that softnesse and mildness that it may appear 't is love and not anger that makes her to speak 4. And lastly She is to be a meet helper to him both in spiritual and temporal concernments 1. In the mannaging of domestical affairs the house being her proper sphear Tit. 2.5 The Apostle saies Wives should be keepers at home Not daughters of Dinah but of Sarah They must have a vigilant and watchful eye over the affairs of the Family They must guide the house as 't is 1 Tim 5.14 Every wise woman Solomon saies Prov. 14 1. buildeth her house but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands Prov. 31 27. She looketh well to the waies of her houshold and eateth not the bread of Idlenesse 2. She must bear a part