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A09377	Christian oeconomie: or, A short survey of the right manner of erecting and ordering a familie according to the scriptures. First written in Latine by the author M. W. Perkins, and now set forth in the vulgar tongue, for more common vse and benefit, by Tho. Pickering Bachelar of Diuinitie.	Perkins, William, 1558-1602.; Pickering, Thomas, d. 1625. aut	1609 (1609)	STC 19677; ESTC S102572	68,188	208

only the vse but the bond and couenant of mariage Matth. 19. 9. I say therefore vnto you that whosoeuer shall put away his wife except it be for whoredome and marrie another committeth adulterie c. And yet the same bond may be continued and grow vp againe by the good will and consent of the partie innocent and consequently they may be reconciled and dwell together still 1. Sam. 25. 44. Now Saul had giuen Michal his daughter Dauids wife to Phalti the sonne of Laish which was of Gallim 2. Sam. 3. 14. Then Dauid sent messengers to Ishbosheth Sauls sonne saying Deliuer me my wife Michal which I married for an hundred foreskins of the Philistims The same course may be taken in like cases by the innocent specially vpon the repentance of the guiltie person But yet euery man must be left to his owne conscience and none is to bee compelled to take another from whom hee may iustly bee separated against his will Now in requiring of a diuorce there is an equall right and power in both parties so as the woman may require it as well as the man and he as wel as she The reason is because they are equally bound each to other and haue also the same interest in one anothers bodie prouided alwaies that the man is to maintaine his superioritie and the woman to obserue that modestie which beseemeth her towards the man After the diuorcement made it shal be lawful for the harmelesse partie not hauing the gift of continencie vpon leaue obtained of the Church and the Christian Magistrate to marrie againe But what then shall become of the partie offending Answ. If vpon the hazard of his Conscience in want of the remedie any libertie of second mariage bee to bee granted vnto him by the Church or Ciuill Magistrate as indeed here in England there is not diuers restraints in this Case must be obserued First no such libertie is to be granted so long as the matter remaines vncertaine whether they may be reconciled specially while the partie innocent liueth in single life Secondly it must euidently appeare that the said offending partie hath earnestly rpented him of his sin before he can either be receiued into the Church or admitted to a second mariage Thirdly this liberty is not to be granted him either presently or vnaduisedly but vpon frequent and serious admonition rather to giue himselfe to mourning and lamentation and still to remaine alone then to desire againe to enioy the benefit of that state which he hath alreadie so shamefully abused So much of the first way of performance of due beneuolence The second way is by cherishing one another Ephes. 5. 29. No man euer hated his owne flesh but nourisheth and cherisheth it as Christ also doth the Church This cherishing is the performing of any duties that tend to the preseruing of the liues one of another Wherefore they are freely to cōmunicate their goods their coūsel their labors each to other for the good of themselues and theirs The third way is by an holy kind of reioicing and solacing themselues each with other in a mutuall declaration of the signes and tokens of loue and kindnesse Prou. 5. 18. Reioyce with the wife of thy youth vers 19. Let her be as the louing Hind and pleasant wild goat let her breasts satisfie thee at all times and delight in her loue continually Cantic 1. 1. Let him kisse me with the kisses of his mouth for thy loue is better them wine Gen. 26. 8. So after he had bin there a long time Abimelek King of the Philistims looked out at a window and loe hee saw Isaak sporting with Rebekah his wife Then Abimelek called Isaak and said Loe shee is of a suretie thy wife Esay 62. 7. As a yong man marrieth a virgin so shall thy sonnes marrie thee and as a Bridegroome is glad of the Bride so shall thy God reioyce ouer thee This reioycing and delight is more permitted to the man then to the woman and to them both more in their yong yeares then in their old age CHAP. 11. Of the Husband MArried folkes are either husbād or wife The husband is he which hath authoritie ouer the wife hereupon in Scripture he is called the guide of her youth Prou. 2. 17. and they twaine being but one flesh he is also the head ouer his wife The duties of the husband towards the wife are these I. To loue her as himselfe Eph. 5. 33. Let euery one loue his wife euen as himselfe Gen. 24. 67. Afterward Isaak brought her vnto the tent of Sarah his mother and hee tooke Rebekah and she was his wife and he loued her so Isaak left mourning for his mother Note how the loue of the husband to the wife mitigates sorrow for the death of the mother He is to shew this loue in two things First in protecting her from danger Gen. 20. 16. And vnto Sarah he said behold I haue giuen 1000. shekels of siluer vnto thy brother behold he is the couering of thine eies amongst all that are with thee Let it be knowne amongst all be thou instructed 1. Sam. 30. 5. Dauids two wiues were taken prisoners also Ahinoam the Izreelite and Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite v. 8. Then Dauid asked counsell of the Lord saying Shall I follow after this companie shall I ouertake them And hee answered him Follow for thou shalt surely ouertake them and recouer all Secondly in regarding her estate as his owne and prouiding maintenance for her both for his life time and as much as he may for time to come after his death Ephes. 5. 28. So ought men to loue their wiues as their owne bodies he that loueth his wife loueth himselfe vers 29. For no man yet hated his owne flesh but nourisheth it c. Exod. 21. 10. If he take him another wife he shall not diminish her food her rayment and recompence of her virginitie Ruth 3. 9. Vnto whom he said who art thou which said I am Ruth thine handmaid spread therefore the wing of thy garment ouer thine handmaid for thou art the kinsman II. To honor his wife 1. Pet. 3. 7. Giuing honor to the woman This honor stands in three things First in making account of her as his companion or yoke-fellow For this cause the woman when she was created was not takē out of the mans head because she was not made to rule ouer him nor out of his feet because God did not make her subiect to him as a seruant but out of his side to the end that man should take her as his mate Secōdly in a wise patiēt bearing or couering of her infirmities as anger waywardnes and such like in respect of the weaknes of her sexe 1. Pet. 3. 7. Giuing honor to the woman as vnto the weaker vessell seeing yee are heires together of the grace of life that your prayers bee not hindred Thirdly by suffering himselfe sometimes to be admonished or aduised by

been taken by the Heathen for iudgement of the inclination and towardnesse of their children The Athenians made a law that before children were bestowed in any calling they should bee first brought into a publike place where Instruments belonging to all sorts of trades were laid and look in what kind of Instrument any of them tooke most delight the child was thought to bee most fit for the trade whereunto that Instrument belonged and afterward applied to the same with good successe Now the Parents first and principall care must be for the Church that those of their children which haue the most pregnant wit and be indued with the best gifts be consecrated vnto God and brought vp in the studie of the Scriptures to serue afterward in the Ministerie of the Church Thus Anna dedicated Samuel her son vnto God by vow 1. Sam. 1. 11. And shee vowed a vow and said O Lord of Hostes if thou wilt giue vnto thine handmaid a man-child thē I wil giue him vnto the Lord all the daies of his life And she did according to her vow and the Lord blessed Samuel her sonne who in processe of time became a great Prophet The next point of Education of children is to prouide that they may liue well and lead a godly life To this purpose Parents must do three things First they are to be carefull that the child so soone as may bee after it is borne bee admitted into the true Church of God by Baptisme and haue a fit name giuen vnto it Secondly they are to endeuour to sow the seeds of godlinesse and religion in the heart of the child so soone as it comes to the vse of reason and vnderstanding and as it growes in yeares so care must be had that it grow in knowledge and grace To this purpose is the vow and promise made in Baptisme which parents are bound to call vpon the child to remember when it comes to yeares It was the godly care of Timothies parents 2. Tim. 3. 14. But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned knowing of whom thou hast learned them vers 15. And that thou hast knowne the holy Scriptures of a child which are able to make thee wise vnto saluation through the faith which is in Christ Iesus This was the commandement of God to the parents of his people Deut. 6. 7. Thou shalt rehearse these words which I command thee continually to thy children and shalt talke of them whē thou tarriest in the house And vers 20. When thy sonne shall aske thee in time to come saying What meane these Testimonies and Ordinances and Lawes which the Lord our God hath commanded you Then thou shalt say vnto thy sonne We were Pharaohs bondmen in Egypt c. This was obserued by the Israelites in the ages ●cceeding Psal. 44. 1. We haue heard with our eares O God our fathers haue told vs the workes that thou hast done in their daies in old time Thirdly the first instruction of children in learning religion must be so ordered that they may take it with delight For which purpose they may be sometimes allowed in moderate maner to play and solace themselues in recreatiōs fitting for their yeares And if they do amisse in either they are to bee restrained by the bridle of discipline First by reproofe in word and when that wil not helpe by the rodde of correction Zach. 8. 5. The streets of the citie shall bee full of boyes and girles playing in the streets thereof Prou. 29. 15. The rod and correction giue wisdome but a child set at libertie makes his mother ashamed vers 17. Correct thy son and he will giue thee rest and giue pleasures to thy soule Hebr. 12. 9. We haue had the fathers of our bodies which correct vs and we gaue them reuerence Yet in this point two extreames are carefully to be auoided That the Parent be not either too seuere or too indulgent to the child For seue●itie Paul giues his rule Ephes. 6. 3. Parents prouoke not your children to anger that is by too much austeritie in gouernmēt For lenitie we haue old Eli his example 1. Sam. 2. 23. And he said vnto them Why do yee such things for of all this people I heare euill reports of you Doe no more my sonnes c. So much for Education The second general dutie of parents is the bestowing of their children This bestowing is when they knowing their children fit for mariage not to haue the gift of continencie do vse their best indeuour to prouide matches for them in time or at least do aduise them therunto by themselues or by their friends 1. Cor. 7. 36. If any man thinke it vncomelie for his virgin to passe the flower of her age and need so require let them bee married vers 38. he that giueth her to mariage doth well Ierem. 26. 6. Take yee wiues and take wiues for your sonnes and giue your daughters to husbands c. Gen. 28. 1. Isaak called Iacob and blessed him and charged him and said vnto him Take not a wife of the daughters of Canaan Arise get thee to Padan Aram and thence take thee a wife of the daughters of Laban thy mothers brother Iudg. 14. 2. Sampson came and told his father and his mother and said I haue seene a woman in Timnah of the daughters of the Philistims now therefore giue me her to wife This dutie is now adaies carelessely neglected of Parents and the fruit therof is dangerous For hence it comes to passe that their children oftentimes do either commit whoredome or vndertake wicked and vngodly mariages In the choice of a husband or wife the Parents ought to haue a greater respect vnto pietie and wisedome then vnto beautie and riches or any other outward blessings Yet where they all concurre the partie so qualified is the more thankfully to be entertained Vpon these grounds the Priest of Prince of Midian gaue his daughter Zipporah to Moses and Moses agreed to take her Exod. 2. 19. A man of Egypt deliuered vs from the Philistims and also drew vs water enough watered the sheepe And Moses agreed to dwell with the man who gaue vnto Moses Zipporah his daughter Iosu. 15. 16. Then Caleb said He that smiteth Kiriath-sepher and taketh it euen to him will I giue Achsah my daughter to wife Yea it is a sinne to marrie only for beautie without consideration of the better things Thus the old world sinned whē the sonnes of God saw the daughters of men that they were faire and tooke them wiues of all that they liked Gen. 6. 2. and Sampson who only vpon the sight of the woman in Timnah of the daughters of the Philistims without further inquirie desired that she might be giuen him for his wife Iudg. 14. 2. Againe it is meet that parēts should deale moderately with their children in this case and not vndertake at any hand to force and compel them to marrie this or that partie This was