Convivium Caeleste A plain and familiar DISCOURSE Concerning the LORDS SUPPER SHEWING At once the nature of that Sacrament as also the right way of preparing our selves for the receiving of it In which are also considered those Exceptions which men usually bring to excuse their not partaking of it The Second Edition with some Additions By RICHARD KIDDER Rector of St. Martin Outwich London LONDON Printed by John Richardson for Tho. Parkhurst at the Bible and three Crowns in Cheapside near Mercers-Chappel 1684. The Epistle Dedicatory To my Ever Honoured and very Good Lady the Lady Dawes of Putney Madam THere are many Books already extant upon the Argument which the following Discourse treats of And those also so very good in themselves and so very happy in their Authors that I cannot think that this which follows will ever deserve a name amongst them For as it was at first drawn up for those whose needs required all plainness of speech so it now adventures abroad in the very same dress in which it was at first composed and delivered And therefore I might well find great reason to dispute with my self whether or not I should adventure this Discourse abroad But whatever demur these things might make yet sure I am I did not doubt to whom I ought to address it when I was once resolved to make it publick 'T is due to you Madam whatever it is upon more scores than one And though it be unworthy of so good a name as it will now bear yet I am certain that it needs it I shall not need to recommend to your Ladiship the subject of this following Tract You are already greatly in love with that part of your duty which is here discoursed of You are firmly resolved to lead a life of Religion and to give up your self to the obedience of the Laws of your Lord and Saviour Now certainly you will find nothing a greater help to you than frequent and devout Communions are You will find great need in your pilgrimage towards Heaven of such Spiritual repasts and viands Nothing can be more welcome to a pious Soul than to meet with these happy opportunities of becoming better And they that love their Lord must needs be very forward to celebrate the memory of his death and unspeakable kindness to them The doing of this as we ought will redound greatly to our advantage We shall by this means be reconciled to God and in perfect charity to one another We shall be more fit to live and more prepared to die We shall the better support under our sorrows and be the more strong against our temptations our burden will be the lighter and yet our strength the greater We shall here receive new strength and vigor to walk in Gods ways We shall think that easie which once we thought intolerable We shall lead at once an innocent and an useful life The advantages of frequent and devout Communions are not to be expressed Here are joys which no man can rob us of Treasures more valuable than that of the Indies Every pious Soul will witness to this truth And therefore Madam I doubt not but you will the more favourably receive this treatise for the arguments sake which it discourseth of But still Madam I have farther reason upon my own account to make my acknowledgements to your Ladiship Your kindnesses to me have been very great and have laid a great obligation upon me to shew my thankfulness to you And as an unfained testimony of my gratitude I am bold to present you with this Discourse It is indeed but a small tribute of thanks which here I pay you but yet is such as I have and your Ladiship will I hope rather regard my mind than the thing it self However I shall be extreamly glad if any thing that is here offered may be of any use to your Ladiship in advancing your eternal interest and concern You have made a good beginning and a wise Choice in devoting your self to a Religious Life Continue Madam in this purpose This will turn to your account when all other things will fail you There was never greater need of regular and exemplary piety than now Religion is now become the scoff and derision of profane and foolish men It is not now the mode to be severely Pious Pure Religion and undefiled is very rarely to be found It is infinitely sad to think that so excellent a Religion as ours is should be almost every where either misunderstood or spoken against Your Constancy now will be more rewardable than at other times You will now see cause to shew a great regard to the Laws of your dearest Lord when they are so commonly trampled upon Count it your honour to be truly good And dare to own your Saviour before men and he will confess you before his Heavenly Father We are concerned to refute the Atheists and to defend the excellent Religion which our Lord hath left us against gain-sayers But there is not a more effectual way of doing this than by an exemplary and pious life This does more than our most subtile and nervous reasoning a great example of Piety does more good than a learned Pen. This is the most likely way to prevail against those that oppose themselves Our enemies mouths are stop'd if we take this course These Arguments are unanswerable and will convert more to the Faith than our Reasons are like to do Now Madam you can thus defend your Religion against contentious men This is the way to restore us to what we should be I have great reason to believe that your Ladiship will be a great example of real piety That you will strongly pursue every vertuous and good thing But yet Madam you will pardon me that I put you in mind to persevere and to abound in every good thing This proceeds not from any distrust but from a great and sincere desire of your happiness That the Almighty would keep your Ladiship from every evil thing and bless you with all the blessings of this and a better Life is the most hearty prayer of Madam Your Ladiships most humble Servant Richard Kidder The PREFACE HOW plain a Precept we have to partake of our Lords Supper and how much it would be for our advantage to do it I shall not need to represent to the Reader in this place That is done in the following Discourse And all that I shall here trouble the Reader with is First that he would be pleased to understand that this Discourse was by the Author designed for the use of those men who stand in need of the most plain and easie directions And therefore it is accordingly fitted for such men who have not either the leisure or the other advantages of perusing the more large and elaborate Discourses upon this Subject Secondly that the Authors lot is fallen among those who do very rarely partake of this Sacrament and that therefore he does the more insist upon
bestow upon all those who perform the conditions of the new Covenant God is not only pleased to make a Covenant with us and plainly to declare his readiness to perform his part but also gives us his seal and so does abundantly assure us of his own stedfastness and constancy For such is our weakness so great our unbelief that we need very great supports and an abundant assurance to buoy up our sinking and incredulous hearts And on the other hand so great is the meroy and condescension of our gracious God that he is ready to consider our frame and to give us the greater security assurance He does not only promise us the pardon of our sins in his New Covenant but he also gives us his seal to it besides That so by two immutable things in which it was impossible for God to lie we might have a strong consolation who have fled for refuge to lay hold upon the hope set before us Heb. 2.18 Thus gratiously does God deal with Mankind He gives them his Covenant and his Seal too He not only gives out his decree in the expresses of his will but he signes and seals it also that we may be assured that it is unalterable as it is said the Law of the Medes and Persians in that case was Dan. 6.8 God makes a Covenant with Noah and his sons that he will no more destroy the earth by a flood but to give them still a greater assurance he sets his bow in the cloud as a token of this Covenant between himself and them Gen. 9. And when God makes a Covenant with Abraham and with his seed he does command Circumcision as a token of this Covenant between himself and them Gen. 17.11 God does not only give us his Word but his Sacrament the token of his truth This God does because he is gracious and because our wretched unbelief is so great that we need the utmost assurance And this certainly is one great end of the Sacrament that we might have alwayes with us a sure pledge of the favour and grace of God that we might not miscarry through our unbelief that we might have a full assurance that God would pardon our sins if we do on our part perform the condition of the New Covenant Our Saviours words are plain to this purpose This is my blood of the New Testament which is shed for many for the remission of sins Matth. 28.26 This Sacrament is the instrument of conveyance the Seal that gives us right and title to this great grace and mercy of God We receive in this Sacrament the Body and Blood of Christ and the benefits of his Death The pardon of our sin is here made over to us God hath given us visible pledges of his readiness to forgive our sins And because we are very jealous and suspicious very unapt to believe that such wretches as we are should be received into Gods favour he hath given us this abundant assurance He receives us to his own Table gives us under the symbols of Bread and Wine the Body and Blood of his Son who died for our sins and entertains us with this food of heaven In that God hath given us his Son and given him up to death and this death he underwent for our sins we have a great assurance that with him he will give us all things and that he is ready to pardon those sins for which our Lord hath shed his blood But then this blessed Sacrament is greatly efficacious towards the obtaining of this pardon because it is the ministery of the Death of Christ by which our pardon was procured But then we must be careful that we do not think that our pardon is procured by any inherent vertue of the outward elements of Bread and Wine or that our partaking of these alone will procure this remission of sins For the pardon of sin is procured by the blood of our Saviour and we attain not to it without a lively faith and a performing the conditions of the Gospel But if we do this we have good assurance of pardon when we partake of this Sacrament which is the Ministery of the Death of Christ But then we must have a faith in Christ that is as we eat the outward Element of Bread and drink the Wine so must our Souls receive our Lord Jesus Christ They must entertain him with all his precepts and in all his offices Our hearts must receive him as our Prophet to instruct and teach us as our Lord to rule and govern us as well as our Priest to make a satisfaction for us to the Divine Justice And as we hunger and thirst for our bodily food so we must hunger after the Spiritual provisions that Christ hath made for our Souls We must earnestly breathe after righteousness and purity of heart There must be in our Souls an hunger and a thirst they must receive and feed and not our bodies only It is the spirit that quickeneth the flesh profiteth nothing John 6.63 As our mouth eats the outward element so faith must eat too And it is not a notion not an empty nothing that will feed a lively faith It conveys as real a supply to the Soul as the outward Elements do nourishment to the body The body receives the outward symbol the Soul the inward grace We eat and drink the Element but 't is the Soul that feeds on the thing signified and represented And therefore let not the sinner who lives in his sin and loves it think to obtain his pardon by partaking of this Sacrament This Sacrament will not avail such a man as this is for the death of Christ will profit him nothing if he lives in his sins and loves them and therefore this Sacrament can avail him nothing it being but the Annunciation of the Death of Christ and therefore it cannot save that sinner whom the death of his Lord does not avail It is a vain thing for such a sinner to take sanctuary here If there be not in our souls a principle of new Life it is not the outward Elements of Bread and Wine that will help us God is ready to forgive our sins and we may see it clearly in this Sacrament but while we love our sins we are uncapable of this grace of God 'T is the burdened and the ladened sinner that shall find this favour 'T is he that hates his sin and strives against it These are those whom Christ came to seek and save 'T is not the outward work will save us if there be not in us the grace of God There is no pardon in the Gospel for the obdurate and impenitent sinner and therefore we may not look for it in any of the exterior offices of Religion And therefore let no man deceive himself in this matter He that comes in his sins out of hopes of a pardon will be so far deceived that instead of obtaining a pardon for his former guilt he will contract
a greater and instead of preventing he will but increase and enhaunce his own condemnation CHAP. II. I Shall now mention some of those practical Inferences which the severals beforenamed do suggest unto us 1. If this Sacrament be intended for a renewal of that Covenant we entered into in Baptism we may see what great reason we have at this time to examine our selves and to bewail our misdeeds and strengthen all purposes of amendment of Life The end of its institution does most severely and indispensably require all this at our hands We must prepare our selves to meet the Lord that he may be sanctified by us when we draw nigh unto him We read that at the giving of the Law when the Israelites entered into Covenant with God how solemnly they were prepared for it Exod. 19.14 15. lest their uncleanness should render them unfit for so great a work God is holy and they that make their approaches to him must be so likewise We must purifie and cleanse our hearts and cast out every thing which does defile before we are fit to make so solemn an address to Almighty God God will be sanctified in them that come nigh him Lev. 10.3 Certainly God is too wise to be imposed upon and mocked too holy to behold our iniquities too just to clear and absolve the obdurate and impenitent sinner We must not come to this holy Table before we have examined our own hearts and bewailed our sins and come we must with full purposes of amendment of Life If we cannot find that we are thus prepared we must not dare to adventure If we find that we love our sins and are not willing to part with them we shall eat and drink damnation to our selves when we eat of this bread and drink of this Cup. 2. Hence also we may see the great obligation that lies upon those which do partake of these holy mysteries to lead holy lives for the time to come It is no small sin after we have been partakers of this â—â—crament of the Lords Supper to relapse â—â—â—o our former sins and misdeeds It is â—â—ngerous looking back after we have so â—â—â—â—mnly set our hand to the Plough â—â—en the unclean spirit is gone out of a man and after that his house is swept and garnished if then he shall return thither again the last state of that man will be worse than the first Mat. 12.43 44 45. A relapse is many times of greater danger than the first disease 'T is always so in spiritual things He that commits the same sin after he hath communicated contracts a greater guilt He does not only sin against his Conscience but against his most solemn Vow and promise He sins against greater grace and with greater scandal he offends them that communicate with him and opens the mouths of them that do not He does by his Saviour as Judas did he eats of his bread and lifts up his heel against him Joh. 13.18 The sin of an unbeliever is great but this is much greater still this is the highest treachery and falseness We betray Christ when yet with Judas we kiss him and salute him with an Hail Master Nothing can be more detestable than this is No wonder that the rule Soldiers and the Roman Pilate should be unkind to our Saviour but that a Disciple should deny him and betray him this is that which swells the sin to the greatest magnitude You then that eat of his body and drink his blood have you a care that you betray him not 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrysostom in 1 Cor. 11. For shame let not those hands minister to oppression or injustice that have received the Body and Blood of Christ Let not oaths lyes and filthiness proceed out of that mouth into which the Body of our Lord hath entred Let those vessels be kept clean which have been the receptacles of these sacred Mysteries Let them be shut up as the Gate in Ezekiel against every evil thing because tâ—e Lord the God of Israel had entred in by it Ezek. 44.2 Let there be no passage for any thing which would defile the man where thy Lord hath entered You have taken Christ for your Lord have a care now that sin do not reign in your mortal bodies Do not despise the Blood of Christ who died for all that they which live should not henceforth live unto themselves but unto him which died for them and rose again 2 Cor. 5.15 Know this that if you sin wilfully now there remains no more sacrifice for sin but a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation which shall devour the adversaries Heb. 10.26 27. God will not be mocked by those that trample on the Blood of his Son It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God You run into an unspeakable danger whatever you may think of it You have entered into Covenant with God and you cannot fall back without contracting a great guilt unto your selves It was the ancient manner that when a Covenant was made they did slay a beast shed its blood and cut it asunder Jer. 34.18 19. in token that he that did not stand to his Covenant should himself be obnoxious to the like severity When God makes a Covenant with us in the Gospel he gives up his Son to death the blood which he shed is the blood of this Covenant Heb. 13.20 and 10.19 If now we transgress and trample upon the blood of Jesus we are liable to all the wrath of God which our Lord endured and to bear it also to all eternity And though we may escape temporal plagues yet will it be worse for us if we fall into hardness of heart blindness of mind and a reprobate sense These are the surda verbera those secret and benumming strokes those stupifying ones which do not indeed so much amuse our senses and render us examples to others of Gods displeasure but yet they are of as ill an Omen and presage and of a worse consequence by far than the heaviest and sorest afflictions that befall our estates or bodies in this present world You then that have been cleansing and purifying your selves have a care that you do not defile your selves again Let every such man rather say with the spouse I have put off my coat how shall I put it on I have washed my feet how shall I defile them Cant. 5.3 Have a care you do not with the dog return to your vomit and with the sow that was washed to the wallowing in the mire 2 Pet. 2.22 I shall conclude this particular with the words of Siracides He that washeth himself after the touching of a dead body if he touch it again what availeth his washing So is it with a man that fasteth for his sins and goeth again and doth the same who will hear his prayer or what doth his humbling profit him Eccles 34.25 26. 3. Hence we may see what great reason we have to give