Selected quad for the lemma: religion_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
religion_n	aaron_n	head_n	ointment_n	16	3	9.6696	5	false

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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A57537	A godly & fruitful exposition upon all the First epistle of Peter by that pious and eminent preacher of the word of God, John Rogers.	Rogers, John, 1572?-1636.; Simpson, Sidrach, 1600?-1655.	1650 (1650)	Wing R1808; ESTC R32411	886,665	744

of other in prosperity and adversity for body and soul and this is for the continuance and increase of love True it is the Husband may be absent from his Wife either by the commandment of his Prince being imployed in any service whether in Church or Commonwealth or upon his own necessary affairs as Merchants and Marriners or upon meer necessity as many dwelling in one place do yet work in another yet must not he fail in his absence to pray for her to keep himself chaste to have her as it were still present with him sending to her as often as he can and returning as speedily as he may Also if any contagious disease should be they may with mutual consent part for a while It must be matter of weight must keep them any time asunder not any unkindeness yea though both be willing to dwell asunder For whom God hath joyned together no man must sunder And as they may keep in one house so one bed and board must hold them therefore it is that she is said to lie in his bosom and Let her breasts satisfie thee at all times 1. This condemneth all unlawful parting 's of Husband and Wife as of the Jews which put away their Wives when they took dislike of them by giving them a Bill of divorcement This came of the hardness of their hearts but was not so from the beginning Of sundry in our times which live asunder as have been married yong through some sinister respects of their Parents or rashly or inconsiderately though come to years of discretion which afterwards they have disliked neither party loving the other according to Gods Ordinance of those Husbands that idly give themselves after marriage to travel to see Countreys and Fashions thus exposing as well themselves as their Wives to Satans temptations Of those that for the most part haunt Inns Alehouses and Taverns Gusling Gaming and Whoring being but seldom at home If the Husband is to leave Father and Mother much more such places to cleave to his Wife Of those which following their Recreations and Pleasures put all upon their Wives chiding them for whatsoever is done amiss by Servants or others those prove cruel taskmasters to their Wives like Pharaoh's to the Israelites were it not better for such their businesses being over to read confer and lovingly converse with their Wives and should not their company be better to them then all companies in the world 2. This condemneth those that part boards the Husband being either so proud as he thinks his Wife not good enough to sit with him at Table or she so unquiet that he eats by himself each Hog in his own Trough yea and beds too and that either continually or upon discontent for some time or upon surliness and overmuch coyness when the Husband will not be troubled with the childes crying c. as if he were not sometimes to bear such marriage troubles but lay all upon his Wife 3. This condemeth the marriage of Children who must be kept asunder many years This comes from the excessive haste of Parents which dare not trust God for a marriage rich enough till they come of years but thus prevent the Lord Such think they work wisely but for the most part it s but foolishly They think thus to build their houses but for the most part it proves their ruine such seldom loving one another According to knowledge Husbands must be men of understanding and knowledge in the Scriptures and grounds of Christian Religion that they may do good to their wives and whole family They are the head therefore must be able to guide the eye therefore must see If the eye be dark all must needs be dark as the oyntment on Aarons head ran down on his beard and thence to the skirt of his garment their knowledge must be exercised for the good of their wives and the meanest in their family They must be men of knowledge 1. To instruct them in the ways of God to pray with them and especially when through weakness or sickness their wives have been forced to stay at home to inform them of such Points as were publikely delivered by the Preacher 2. To comfort them in their heaviness of minde affliction of body loss of children and the like and that from the Word of God being able to asswage the bitterness of their grief 3. To advise and counsel them for the best 4. How to admonish and reprove them They must not do it without cause nor when there is cause in an ill maner before company or with carnal bitterness but rather in the terms of the Scriptures and in love 5. When to yield to their requests or perswasions Herein Adam Sampson and Ahab failed but Job in rebuking his wife shewed he was a man of knowledge 6. To bear with their weaknesses and infirmities meet to be born with 7. Not prescribing them to do any unlawful or unreasonable thing whether on the Lords day or at other times as to say They are not within when they are within c. 8. Not keeping such a number of Dogs as may be both loss and continual vexation to their wives or removing up and down till they have wasted all they have Thus bad wives may be brought on to goodness and good wives made better 1. This condemneth the common abuse of this Land How few husbands be men of knowledge able to instruct comfort advise govern or admonish their wives how few able to pray with them repeat a sermon to them or comfort them in any of their heavinesses Hence it is that they burthen their wives with needless things Hence many women of some good parts and towardness matching with such Worldlings and Ignorants have been undone Hence so many jars and contentions in families How many wives would perform their duties if their husbands would go before them in performing theirs O what evils might be avoided if husbands had but discretion but most are void of understanding cannot give a reason of their Faith cannot pray in their families scarce give thanks for their meat check and discourage their wives from goodness if they have any inclination thereto Alas in these days if they get a little hair on their faces and their portion into their hands they think themselves fit to marry though they have neither wit nor understanding or if they stay some years it s to get goods to set up with not that they may be furnished with knowledge Parents enquire after wealth and how their daughters shall live but do not much regard their living with men of knowledge 2. This condemneth the Papists which forbid the Layety to read the Scripture But where 's knowledge to be learned if not by them It s enough with them that their Priests have knowledge yet must not they marry 3. For those that are married and have failed herein let them redeem the