Selected quad for the lemma: reason_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
reason_n	child_n	good_a	parent_n	4,379	5	9.1837	4	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A08282	A pathvvay to patience in all manner of crosses, tryals, troubles, and afflictions: inwardly for sinne, or outwardly by sicknesse, pouerty, enemies, imprisonment, banishment, slaunders, disobedience of children, houshold-crosses betweene man and wife, &c. With necessary prayers for euerie of them; as also for diuers other necessarie purposes. By I.N.	Norden, John, 1548-1625?	1626 (1626)	STC 18615; ESTC S119966	125,732	476

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antichrist_n especial_o when_o a_o godly_a father_n have_v endeavour_v through_o a_o godly_a and_o religious_a care_n to_o educate_v a_o son_n in_o the_o true_a fear_n and_o knowledge_n of_o god_n &_o yet_o to_o see_v he_o to_o prove_v wicked_a and_o ungodly_a but_o thou_o that_o be_v thus_o afflict_v through_o the_o wicked_a and_o irreligious_a course_n of_o a_o rebellious_a son_n after_o all_o the_o good_a mean_n thou_o have_v use_v to_o reduce_v he_o to_o obedience_n &_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n consider_v with_o patience_n that_o although_o god_n have_v give_v thou_o power_n to_o be_v his_o father_n good_a in_o beget_v he_o and_o to_o his_o mother_n to_o bear_v he_o yet_o neither_o thou_o in_o beget_v nor_o she_o though_o she_o nourish_v he_o in_o her_o womb_n do_v give_v he_o either_o form_n or_o life_n how_o much_o less_o can_v thou_o or_o she_o form_n or_o frame_v his_o mind_n to_o virtue_n and_o godliness_n thou_o may_v give_v good_a &_o wholesome_a counsel_n unto_o his_o ear_n but_o thou_o can_v not_o infuse_v grace_n and_o goodness_n into_o his_o heart_n yet_o it_o be_v thy_o duty_n to_o do_v thy_o best_a endeavour_n to_o give_v he_o good_a and_o godly_a counsel_n with_o faithful_a prayer_n to_o god_n that_o he_o will_v so_o water_v the_o seed_n as_o it_o may_v bring_v forth_o good_a fruit_n and_o more_o the_o most_o godly_a parent_n can_v do_v it_o be_v with_o parent_n in_o their_o desire_n to_o make_v their_o child_n fruitful_a in_o godliness_n as_o it_o be_v with_o the_o husbandman_n that_o covet_v a_o fruitful_a harvest_n who_o manure_n his_o ground_n soil_v it_o plough_v it_o sow_n it_o harrow_n it_o and_o as_o near_o as_o he_o can_v keep_v and_o prevent_v the_o vermin_n from_o devour_v the_o seed_n sow_v yet_o it_o be_v not_o his_o labour_n child_n skill_n and_o diligence_n that_o can_v make_v it_o spring_v up_o he_o can_v form_v the_o blade_n nor_o infuse_v the_o grain_n into_o the_o ear_n nor_o so_o prevent_v the_o vermin_n but_o that_o they_o will_v devour_v some_o of_o the_o seed_n neither_o can_v the_o most_o godly_a father_n by_o his_o best_a counsel_n make_v good_a a_o ungodly_a son_n he_o may_v sow_v the_o good_a seed_n of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n upon_o the_o ground_n of_o his_o heart_n he_o may_v harrow_n it_o with_o sharp_a and_o severe_a threat_n and_o may_v endeavour_n to_o prevent_v venomous_a vice_n that_o offer_v to_o choke_v the_o good_a seed_n that_o he_o have_v sow_v but_o if_o his_o heart_n be_v stony_a thorny_a or_o near_o the_o high_a way_n of_o the_o common_a sin_n of_o this_o world_n all_o his_o labour_n care_n and_o diligence_n will_v prove_v in_o vain_a he_o must_v leave_v the_o infusion_n of_o grace_n into_o his_o heart_n unto_o god_n and_o to_o work_v the_o practice_n of_o godliness_n in_o he_o child_n to_o who_o a_o godly_a father_n become_v a_o daily_a and_o faithful_a petitioner_n that_o he_o will_v drive_v away_o satan_n and_o the_o swarm_n of_o his_o wicked_a instrument_n from_o devour_v the_o good_a seed_n and_o from_o sow_v the_o tare_n of_o sin_n and_o the_o weed_n of_o ungodliness_n in_o he_o this_o corrupt_a world_n be_v so_o full_a and_o fraught_v with_o wicked_a and_o lie_v centious_a youth_n that_o as_o soon_o as_o a_o young_a man_n or_o maid_n have_v liberty_n to_o enter_v into_o the_o company_n and_o society_n of_o wanton_n and_o ungodly_a youth_n they_o become_v common_o so_o infect_v with_o their_o manner_n corrupt_a as_o they_o drink_v in_o all_o kind_n of_o vice_n as_o it_o be_v wine_n make_v they_o many_o time_n so_o drunken_a with_o vanity_n by_o example_n and_o lewd_a enticement_n as_o the_o best_a counsel_n of_o wise_a parent_n can_v make_v they_o true_o sober_a again_o and_o to_o

and_o therefore_o not_o to_o think_v it_o strange_a when_o any_o cross_a or_o affliction_n befall_v we_o but_o rather_o thereby_o to_o take_v occasion_n to_o call_v ourselves_o daily_o to_o account_v what_o we_o have_v do_v against_o the_o commandment_n of_o god_n and_o to_o acknowledge_v that_o for_o those_o sin_n that_o we_o have_v do_v god_n correct_v us._n let_v we_o beware_v that_o we_o be_v not_o find_v of_o the_o number_n of_o those_o heart_n who_o neither_o god_n angry_a countenance_n which_o appear_v in_o the_o severity_n of_o his_o punishment_n nor_o his_o fatherly_a chastisement_n and_o instruction_n contain_v in_o his_o word_n can_v reclaim_v from_o commit_v sin_n nor_o from_o who_o god_n gentle_a correction_n can_v draw_v hearty_a confession_n of_o they_o and_o true_a repentance_n for_o they_o we_o must_v also_o consider_v that_o it_o be_v not_o enough_o for_o we_o to_o confess_v our_o sin_n bare_o to_o god_n for_o he_o know_v they_o better_o than_o we_o ourselves_o but_o with_o our_o confession_n we_o must_v acknowledge_v that_o god_n may_v just_o condemn_v we_o for_o they_o faith_n and_o therefore_o we_o must_v join_v with_o the_o confession_n of_o our_o sin_n true_a and_o sincere_a repentance_n for_o they_o which_o yet_o avail_v not_o without_o a_o lively_a faith_n in_o take_v hold_n of_o the_o blood_n and_o merit_n of_o jesus_n christ_n in_o who_o and_o for_o who_o sake_n our_o sin_n be_v pardon_v and_o this_o faith_n must_v be_v certain_a it_o must_v be_v a_o assure_a confidence_n of_o the_o promise_v make_v in_o christ_n in_o who_o a_o sinner_n true_o penitent_a and_o faithful_o confident_a be_v justify_v and_o neither_o by_o our_o bare_a confession_n or_o best_a work_n but_o by_o the_o mere_a mercy_n of_o god_n in_o his_o son_n as_o there_o be_v no_o man_n but_o sin_v daily_o 34._o so_o he_o must_v daily_o confess_v his_o sin_n to_o god_n and_o true_o repent_v they_o not_o as_o judas_n &_o kayne_n judas_n confess_v he_o have_v sin_v do_v betray_v the_o innocent_a blood_n and_o repent_v but_o not_o in_o faith_n his_o repentance_n be_v a_o desperate_a sorrow_n not_o for_o the_o sin_n he_o commit_v but_o for_o the_o horror_n of_o his_o reprobabation_n so_o do_v kayne_n confess_v his_o sin_n my_o sin_n be_v great_a than_o i_o be_o able_a to_o bear_v but_o he_o tepent_v not_o to_o the_o obtain_n of_o mercy_n confession_n of_o sin_n and_o repentance_n without_o faith_n avail_v not_o it_o avail_v not_o pharaoh_n though_o he_o confess_v the_o righteousness_n of_o god_n and_o his_o own_o and_o his_o people_n sin_n but_o peter_n confess_v his_o sin_n and_o repent_v with_o tear_n 27._o so_o do_v marie_n magdaline_n and_o their_o repentance_n be_v record_v by_o the_o holy_a ghost_n 2._o to_o teach_v all_o posterity_n how_o to_o bewail_v their_o sin_n a_o right_a they_o be_v great_a sinner_n yet_o through_o faith_n and_o repentance_n obtain_v pardon_n which_o to_o the_o comfort_n of_o great_a sinner_n show_v that_o there_o be_v yet_o place_n of_o repentance_n and_o acceptation_n into_o god_n favour_n for_o they_o upon_o sincere_a repentance_n god_n himself_o affirm_v that_o he_o desire_v not_o the_o condemnation_n of_o a_o sinner_n 32._o but_o rather_o that_o he_o repent_v and_o be_v save_v and_o again_o he_o say_v have_v i_o any_o desire_n that_o the_o wicked_a shall_v die_v 23._o or_o shall_v he_o not_o live_v if_o he_o return_v from_o his_o evil_a way_n and_o what_o be_v it_o to_o return_v unto_o god_n but_o true_a repentance_n for_o our_o sin_n and_o we_o be_v to_o consider_v that_o that_o repentance_n which_o be_v perfect_a indeed_o be_v be_v join_v with_o the_o keep_n of_o god_n commandment_n and_o none_o can_v say_v or_o assure_v himself_o that_o his_o confession_n of_o his_o sin_n and_o his_o repentance_n be_v accept_v of_o god_n unless_o he_o add_v all_o his_o desire_n to_o fulfil_v the_o law_n of_o god_n for_o the_o breach_n whereof_o god_n afflict_v his_o own_o dear_a child_n with_o sundry_a cross_n to_o prevent_v his_o curse_n which_o he_o inflict_v either_o here_o upon_o the_o disobedient_a and_o unrepentant_a to_o cause_v his_o own_o to_o avoid_v sin_n by_o the_o example_n of_o his_o severe_a judgement_n whereby_o he_o begin_v here_o to_o punish_v they_o or_o reserve_v his_o punishment_n of_o they_o until_o his_o final_a condemnation_n of_o they_o mark_v of_o repentance_n repentance_n be_v contrition_n and_o unfeigned_a sorrow_n for_o sin_n commit_v join_v with_o a_o lively_a faith_n in_o christ_n for_o pardon_n of_o they_o and_o a_o settle_a desire_n and_o purpose_n ever_o hereafter_o to_o walk_v in_o a_o holy_a fear_n to_o displease_v god_n again_o by_o our_o sin_n namely_o by_o the_o outward_a breach_n of_o god_n commandment_n for_o the_o commit_n of_o thing_n contrary_a to_o the_o law_n of_o god_n be_v that_o sin_n we_o shall_v repent_v we_o of_o which_o by_o reason_n of_o our_o corrupt_a nature_n we_o can_v but_o commit_v without_o the_o especial_a grace_n of_o god_n which_o although_o it_o be_v the_o free_a gift_n of_o god_n it_o be_v not_o obtain_v without_o lively_a faith_n and_o prayer_n in_o christ_n by_o who_o stripe_n we_o be_v heal_v and_o for_o who_o sake_n we_o be_v hear_v and_o in_o who_o blood_n we_o be_v wash_v from_o our_o sin_n but_o sorrow_n of_o heart_n may_v be_v great_a and_o yet_o avail_v we_o nothing_o as_o it_o do_v not_o kayne_n judas_n esau_n unless_o true_a faith_n be_v join_v therewith_o sorrow_n indeed_o may_v cast_v we_o down_o which_o if_o it_o be_v not_o in_o a_o humble_a and_o faithful_a acknowledgement_n of_o our_o unworthiness_n to_o be_v call_v or_o accept_v as_o the_o child_n of_o god_n together_o by_o reason_n of_o our_o sin_n it_o may_v prove_v desperate_a and_o therefore_o sorrow_n for_o sin_n and_o faith_n in_o christ_n to_o be_v pardon_v join_v together_o will_v assure_v we_o that_o god_n be_v our_o god_n and_o that_o we_o be_v his_o people_n that_o he_o be_v our_o father_n and_o that_o we_o be_v his_o son_n and_o daughter_n if_o then_o we_o find_v in_o ourselves_o the_o burden_n of_o our_o sin_n true_o and_o plain_o confess_v they_o to_o god_n and_o hearty_o repent_v they_o we_o can_v but_o through_o faith_n in_o christ_n assure_v ourselves_o that_o our_o sin_n be_v pardon_v and_o have_v a_o inward_a assurance_n thereof_o repentance_n we_o must_v acknowledge_v that_o these_o grace_n proceed_v of_o no_o other_o thing_n then_o of_o the_o mere_a merit_n and_o mediation_n of_o our_o alone_a and_o only_a saviour_n jesus_n christ_n 29._o who_o disdain_v not_o to_o call_v we_o thus_o receive_v into_o the_o communion_n of_o the_o saint_n of_o god_n brethren_n who_o god_n know_v before_o the_o world_n be_v predestinate_v to_o be_v make_v like_o to_o the_o image_n of_o jesus_n christ_n 7._o adopt_v in_o he_o and_o by_o who_o we_o have_v redemption_n in_o his_o blood_n even_o the_o full_a forgiveness_n of_o all_o our_o sin_n through_o his_o grace_n wherewith_o he_o have_v make_v we_o free_o accept_v of_o 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