in reading of play-books and unprofitable pamphlets which thou mightest spend in reading the Word which is able to make thee wise unto Salvation to this end carry it about thee as Alexander did Homers Iliads for his fellow and companion in the Wars Oh that every one of us were ambitious of that commendation which Eusebius gives of St. Origen That he could repeat all the Scriptures at his fingers ends 3. Pray unto God for the change of thine heart beg of him that he would be pleased by his spirit to regenerate thee to plant his image in thy soul that thou maist become a new-creature What the Apostle Iames saith of wisdom is true of all grace If any one lack it let him ask it of God that giveth to all men liberally and upbraideth not and it shall be given him Oh therefore beseech him to open thine eyes and shew thee how sad and deplorable thy condition is so long as thou continuest in the state of unregeneracy that thou maist be truly sensible thereof that he would shew thee the excellency and necessity of a new birth that thine heart may be raised up in some earnest longing desires after the same that he would vouchsafe unto thee his Holy Spirit which may quicken thy dead soul and renew it after the Image of God in righteousness and true holiness And in thy prayers plead the promise of God to give his Spirit to those who ask him That thy Prayers for a new birth may the better speed 1. Be earnest therein Pray withall thine heart and with all thy might with the highest intention of affection If thou wouldst be a prevailing Israel thou must be a wrastling Iacob wrastle with God in prayer for it is the fervent prayer only that is effectual 2. Be unâ—â—ssant in thy Prayers as one that will take no nay nor give over till thou find the work wrought in thy soul. Be as importunate with God as the Widdow was with the unjust judge For God loveth importunity If the unjust Judge was overcome with importunity how much rather will the righteous God who is compassionately affected towards those who seek unto him Resolve with Iacob I will not let thee go except thou bless me Lord help me Lord break me humble me change and turn me I cannot turn my self Ministers cannot Ordinances cannot afflictions cannot turn me If thou wilt thou canst turn thou me and I shall be turned draw thou me and I will run after thee O suffer thy self this once to be overcome by a poor Worm I cannot be denyed I dye I am undone if thou deny me I cannot be denyed I will not be denyed I will not let thee go untill thou bless me Lord hear Lord turn me Obj. But some are apt to object and say how can I pray without the Spirit A. Put thy self upon the duty of prayer and who knoweth but thou maist soon feel and find the assistance of Gods spirit in the performance though thou findest it not in the entrance of the duty Go therefore unto God in prayer spread before him thy wretched miserable state and condition plead thy miserable necessity the dreadfulness of thy present state how much better it had been that thou hadst never been born than not to be born again And then waiting for the assistance of the Spirit be earnest and importunate with God that he would not let thee live a day longer in thine Unregenerate state least death should find thee therein and then thou perish everlastingly Obj. Some I know do question whether carnal and unregenerate men may be put upon that duty of prayer because the Scripture saith that the Sacrifice of the wicked is abomiâ—ation to the Lord and that God heareth not sinners A. 1. The Scriptures give us warrant to press carnal and unregenerate men upon the duty of Prayer For at the time when Peter told Simon Magus that he was in the gall of bitterness and in the bond of iâ—iquity then he pressed him to pray unto God saying Repent of thy wickedâ—ess and pray unto God if perhaps the thought of thine heart may be forgiven thee 2. We do not exhort men to pray and still hold themselves resolved to continue in their wicked and ungodly courses such prayer indeed would be an abomination but to resolve upon turning and so to go unto the Lord for his grace to assist and accept them And therefore saith Peter to Simon Magus Repent of this thy wickedness and so pray for pardon 3. The young Ravens cry for want of food and God is said to hear them Why may he not then hear the cryes and Prayers of carnal and unregenerate men especially when they pray unto him for changed and renewed hearts which prayers cannot but be agreeable to the will of God How graciously did God reward that petition of Solomon when he asked not for riches or long life but for a wise and understanding heart So may God say unto them because ye have not asked temporal blessings as health wealth or the like but a renewed heart a new birth be it according to your desires your natural carnal heart shall be changed and renewed And to thine own Prayers call in the help of other mens prayers beg of them that in their Prayers they would be mindfull of thee and of thy condition that they would be earnest with God on thy behalf that he would make thee a new creature by endowing thee with true saving sanctifying graces Thus Simon Magus begged the Prayers of the Apostles apprehending their prayers to be more prevalent than his own For it is possible that God may hear the Prayers of Iob for his friends when he will not hear them for themselves And the Iaylors Conversion is set down as the Consequent of the Apostles Prayers Not only their deliverance out of his prison but his deliverance out of the Devils prison is set down as a fruit of their prayers To thine own prayers therefore call in the help of other mens Prayers VII When either in hearing reading praying or at any other time thou feelest any motions of Gods spirit in thy soul and conscience make much of them surrender up thy self thereunto presently turn those motions into resolutions and those resolutions into endeavours Let not the motions of Gods Spirit be nipped in the bud but nourish and cherish them that they may bring forth good fruit Ah sinner as thou tendrest the good and happiness of thy precious and immortal soul slight not the motions of Gods Spirit in thee but labour to improve them to the ends for which they are sent Are they motions tending to the working in thee a loathing and abhorring of thy former sinful lusts second those motions with strong resolutions to leave and forsake them for the time to come at least so to strive against them as they may not rule and raign in thee as formerly they have done Are they motions tending to the
accurately indeed for so the word in the Greek seemeth to import in its proper notion viz. A going from the bottom to the top of the rule 3. Our exact walking consisteth in a carefull avoiding all occasions of evil and temptations thereunto Having by sad experience found such and such things to have been snares and occasions of sin unto us it is our duty and will be our wisdom carefully to shun and efchew the same Especially considering that by running into temptations we tempt the Lord and provoke him to give us over to our weakness and to the power of our corruptions that so by our falls we may for the time to come be more wise and wary Every man by nature is like dry wood which is apt to kindle so soon as fire is put to it There needs not any Devils to tempt us Dry stubble will take fire without any bellows to blow it Let the least occasion that is be offered unto us how easily doth it take every spark will catch upon our tinder hearts The first sin that proved so fatal to mankind came by temptation The Devil prevailed with Eve to go and see the forbidden fruit telling her that though she might not eat it yet she might lawfully look on it and that became the occasion of her fall For from sight and view she proceeded to touch and taste to the taking in of that which proved the bane both of her and hers By the like means how sadly doth the Devil prevail upon souls daily what windows doth he make our eyes and ears to let in temptation first and then iniquity what snares doth he make of our voluptuous tables our vain and loose companions our gorgeous apparel our vain and wanton fashions even forming our hearts into the image of those vanities and leading us out to all iniquity As our Saviour therefore taught us to pray that we enter not into temptation So it will be our wisdom to see to it that our practice be according to our prayers What a mockery is it this hour to pray against temptations and the next hour to be running into them Pray against temptations and watch against them Watch against all temptations but especially such as are most taking with thee and such as have a tendency to thy bosome and best beloved sins For from them is most danger to be feared they having most strength from our natures The Devil knowing full well which are our bosome and beloved sins and most predominant lusts unto them especially and with greatest success doth he apply his temptations 4. Our exact walking consisteth in abstaining from appearances of evil as well as from apparent and direct evills As there are some things apparently evil so there are other things in shew and appearance only evil He who walks circumspectly and exactly will as carefully shun the one as the other He will not adventure upon any thing that looks like sin or that hath the least affinity with it If the thing be doubtfull whether it may or may not be done he will do that which is most safe and leave the other undone Yea though he know a thing to be lawfull in it self yet if it may prove a stumbling block in the way of another and so be an occasion of sin unto him he will carefully avoid the same Upon this account St. Paul resolved to avoid the eating of flesh though he might lawfully do it yet when it was like to be a stumbling-block to his weak Brother in regard it had an appearance of evil in it he said If meat make my Brother to offend I will eat no flesh while the world standeth Upon this ground likewise the Apostles and Elders in the first general Council at Ierusalem imposed upon the Gentiles abstinence from meat offered to Idols from things strangled and from blood Not for that these meats were in themselves unclean and unlawfull but because they were apprehended to be so unto many of the Iews who were kept off from Christ because those meats in which they supposed to be such uncleanness were ordinarily eaten by the Christians Hereupon it concerns us in all our actions to be satisfied not only of the lawfullness but likewise of the expediency of them For many things in themselves may be lawfull which yet in some respect may not be expedient because they have some shew of evill in them or are lyable to some mis-construction or may be occasions of sin unto our selves or of scandal and offence unto our weak Brother or may strengthen and confirm wicked men in their ungodly courses and the like But herein this cauâ—ion is to be observed that all necessary duties commanded by God ought to be performed by us though our Brother be offended at them and though to the World they have some appearance of evil Christs Doctrines Works and Conversations were an offence to many in his dayes yet he went on therein and pronounced them blessed who were not offended in him We may not therefore shun profession of holiness and the practice of Godliness because unto Worldly men it appeareth but brain-sick peevishness and an irrational precisâ—ness But being commanded by God in his Word ought to be endeavoured after I may not wound mine own Consâ—ience to secure my Brothers 5. Our exact walking consisteth in a moderate use of lawfull things That overmuch liberty which some men have given to themselves in such things as are in their own nature lawfull hath proved great occasion of sin unto them Our Saviour seemeth to blame the men of the old World that when the Flood came upon them they were eating and drinking buying and selling planting and building Things no doubt in themselves lawfull to be done but by over using those lawfull things and setting their hearts upon them they laid aside all care of Heavenly things and increased their pride and covetousness neglecting the threatnings of a Flood and so drowned themselves in perdition The Apostle therefore tells us that they who marry must be as if they marryed not and they who buy as if they bought not and they who use this World as not abusing it There is a lawfull using the comforts of this life and an unlawfull an abusing of them We lawfully use them when we enjoy them with moderation and with subordination to spiritual grace and heavenly glory when we use all we have for God We abuse the comforts of this life when we use them too much even excessively in respect of the measure and inordinately in respect of the manner when letting out our hearts too much upon them the things which should lead us to God withdraw us from him To spend some time in honest recreations for the refreshing of our minds and strengthening our bodies is lawfull But to waste too much of our precious time in sports and pastimes making a vocation of our recreations or to give up our hearts unto our pleasure
Maid-servant c. Suitable to this charge is the care and holy resolution of Ioshua in the Text I and my house will serve the Lord. Choose you whom you will serve saith he to the rest of the people I have not so much to do with that but as for me and my house I must and will look to that we will serve the Lord. Hence this first thing appears that governours of Families are to take care of the Religion and therrefore of the souls of their Families When a Child is brought forth when a Servant is brought into thine house God sayes to thee as the man in the Prophets Parable Keep this man look to this Child look to this Servant look to their souls if they miscarry or be lost through thy neglect Thy life shall go for their lives thy soul for their souls and so shall thy judgement be 2. Governours of Families have never faithfully discharged their trust till they have used all means which God hath appointed that may be for the advantage of the souls under their charge and the furtherance of them in Religion If there be any thing you might have done that you have neglected you are therein unfaithfull 3. Their joyning in Prayer with their Families is according to Gods appointment and of great advantage to souls 1. Ioynt-prayer is an ordinance of God Thus much is hinted clearly enough in that form of Prayer which Christ taught his Disciples which runs in the plural number Our Father Give us this day our daily bread And from the practice of the primitive Christians Now if Christians in general such as were not of the same Family are by Gods appointment to joyn in Prayer then much more Christians of the same family Conjunction in the same Family-relation cannot hinder or discharge from any part of Christian communion Families as well as greater assemblies should not forget their joynt-prayers 2. Conjunction in Prayer as it is Gods Ordinance so 't is of great advantage to souls The joynt prayers of the several persons in a Family are more acceptable to God and more prevalent with him than the Prayers of the same persons apart There 's the same reason for the prevalency of the joynt-prayers of Christians of the same Family as of the joynt-Prayers of Christians not of the same Family of the same City or Town or Country Now we find in Scripture from the practice of the people of God that this was their concurrent judgement that their coming together to pray would prevail more with God than their praying apart as Act. 12.12 before mentioned Many were gathered together in Maries house praying for Peter If it had been all one as to the probability of the success If the Lord had been as likely to have been prevailed with for Peters enlargment by their separate as by their joynt Prayers they would never have run that hazard as they did by their coming together They knew well enough what danger it would have been had they been taken praying Many instances might be brought of the like practice of Christians in all ages who especially in cases of great exigencies and necessities did thus assemble Whence is a clear foundation of this argument That way of Prayer which the people of God did choose and betake themselves to in cases of any special exigencies that was in their judgement the most acceptable and prevailing But joynt Prayer is such in the case of greater societies and therefore also in the less Besides joynt-prayers will be of this advantage It will be a great help to those that are less able to teach them to pray apart Governours should teach theirs to pray as Christ taught his Disciples And how should they teach them by instruction only We may learn more of the skill and Spirit of Prayer by a few instructions exemplified than by multitudes of counsels alone The Nurse teaches the Child to speak by speaking in its hearing By this Christian practice we shall suggest matter of Prayer to them put words into their mouths yea kindle desires in their hearts Who that hath any experience knows not how our affectionate enlargements and importunate pleadings and wrestlings with God in Prayer do often warm and enlarge the hearts of those that joyn with us Arg. 2. It s the will of God that Christians should take and improve all opportunities advantages and occasions of Prayer This proposition if it need proof is sufficiently evident from 1 Tim. 2.8 I will that men Pray every where and Eph. 6.18 Praying alwayes with all Prayer Alwayes or as it is in the Greek on every opportunity with All Prayer with all manner of Prayer in publick in private in secret alone together as opportunity is offered and occasion requires Now have not governours of Families as such special opportunities for joynt-Prayer Their cohabitation upon which they may meet more easily and frequently than those that live at a greater distance their authority by vertue whereof they may command the attendance of their families puts opportunities into their hands And have they not also as such special occasions of joyning in Prayer there are Family-mercies which they are joyntly concerned to pray for when wanted and to acknowledge when received There are Family-afflictions and crosses which they are in common concerned to pray against there are Family sins which call for joynt-confessions and humiliations Those that have sinned together or suffer together or are sharers in the same common mercies ought also to joyn together in the same confessions petitions and thanksgivings Arg 3. From the example of Christ who not only taught his Family to Pray but pray'd with them His Disciples were his Family The Passeover was to be eaten by the several Families apart a Lamb for a Family And if you would know who were Christs Family enquire with whom he are the Passoâ—ver these are his â—isciples and with these he prayed As he was alone praying his Disciples were with him But how was he alone when his Disciplâ—s were wiâ—h hâ—m the meaning only is he was withdrawn from the multitude he and his Disciples were privately together and with them he prayes Now to gather up all together If the example of Christ be obliging to his followers if governours of Families have opportunities and occasions of joyning in Prayer with them and it be the will of God that they take and improve all opportunities and occasions if governours of Families be intrusted with the souls of their Families and this trust cannot be discharged where this exercise is neglected then must it be acknowledged that it is a duty incumbent on them from the Lord and that they sin against God who make no conscience of it To what hath been said let me farther add these two things 1. Consider the manifold benefits which usually follow and accompany this duty of Family-prayer 1. It is a sanctifying Ordinance thereby the Husband is sanctified to the wife and the wife
of him that he would by his Spirit help thine infirmities teaching thee to pour out thy soul unto him in Prayer For it is he alone that can teach thee and endue thee with this Heavenly gift 2. Be constant in thy secret devotions which will be a special means to embolden thee to pray with thy Family For when thou findest that thou canst express thy self in any competent measure in secret thou wilt then the better adventure to Pray in private with thy Family And know this for thy comfort that if thou sincerely endeavourest to do what thou canst God will enable thee to do what thou shouldst 3. Rather than the apprehension of thine own insufficiency to pray should occasion a constant omission of the duty I would advise thee to use the help of a form of Prayer for a while till by Gods blessing thou hast attained some ability therein and boldness thereunto 2. Obj. Some against this duty object their multitude of business and little spare time for Family-prayer A. 1. The more and greater thy businesses are the more and greater need thou hast of Family-prayer for the obtaining Gods blessings thereon without which all thy pains and endeavours may signifie little yea prove succesless Assure thy self that the time spent in Prayer both in thy closet and with thy Family will prove no let but rather a great furtherance to thy business 2. Dost thou put off praying with thy Family for the multitude of business Know that therein thou art penny-wise and pound-foolish hazarding the loss of thy precious and immortal soul for the gaining of a little Worldly pelf which will be soon taken from thee or thou from it Oh that such Woâ—â—dâ—ngs would seriously consider that expression of our Saviour What shall it profit a man if hâ— shall gain the whoâ—e World and lose his own soul 3. Dost thou put off Family-prayer for the multitude of Worldly buâ—inesseâ— thereby to encrease thy wealth Know that that wealth is cursed which is thus gotten that substance which is the price of a Prayer may for ought thou knowest be the price of blood Well beware thou neglect not this great duty upon any pretence whatsoever Neither let it be performed after a cold formal and perfunctory manner but be very serious and fervent therein stirring up thy self to an active lively performance thereof which the Apostle intimateth where he saith Be fervent in Spirit serving the Lord and that for two reasons 1. Such Prayers only are acceptable and pleasing unto God these are the Sacrifices wherewith he is well-pleased 2. Such only have the promise of being heard And thereupon saith the Apostle St. Iames The effectual fervent Prayer of a rightâ—ous man availeth much The word in the Greek translated effectual properly signifieth a prayer excited or stirred up and so implyeth both the efficacy and influency of the Holy-Ghost and the vehemency of an earnest spirit and affection which is the only prevailing Prayer CHAP. VII Of Reading the Holy Scriptures in Families with quickning Motives thereunto II. ANother duty incumbent upon Parents and Masters of Families is frequently to read the Holy Scriptures or to cause them to be read in and with their Families Though this be a distinct exercise from the former of Prayer yet do they mutually help one another and therefore are fit to be joyned together We read how the Priest under the Law was daily to light the Lamps and to burn incense as the Lamp signified the Word of God so the incense signified Prayer And as the Lamp was daily to be lighted and the incense daily to be burned so are we thereby taught daily to joyn the Word and Prayer together for as the Apostle speaketh By the Word and Prayer every thing is sanctified Yea this duty of reading the Word we find given in command unto housholders under the Law for saith the Lord Ye shall lay up my words meaning the words of the Law in your heart and in your soul. And ye shall teach them your Children speaking of them when thou sitest in thine house when thou lyest down and when thou risest up which implyeth a diligent reading of the Word in their houses Yea the old people of the Iews were so diligent in teaching their Children the Word of God that Iosephus saith Every one of our people being asked concerning the Laws rehearseth them more easily than his own name In the New Testament we have the Apostles command for this duty for saith he Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly The Word is sometimes taken for Christ himself and so it is true that we should labour that the word Christ should dwell in us But by the Word of Christ is here meant the written Word of God which is here called the Word of Christ both because he is the author of it and because he is the chief subject of it And whereas the Apostle saith Let the Word of Christ dwell in you it is a Metaphor taken from such as dwell under one and the same roof with us and noteth two things 1. That we must get it into our hearts and houses as well as into our Churches 2. That by our frequent reading of it and causing it to be read in our houses it should be as familiar with us as one that dwells with us under the same roof For the better pressing of this duty upon the Consciences of Parents and Masters of Families I shall hint only two Motives to quicken you up thereunto 1. The knowledge of the Scriptures will be an excellent means to keep up your authority in your Families over your Children and Servants For therein they cannot but hear and understand it is their duty to be obedient to you in all things Your own commands and threatnings may perhaps cause them to serve you with eye-service as menpleasersâ— but to hear the commands and threatnings of God in his Word may cause them to serve you in singleness of heart So that if nothing else yet policy methinks should prevail with you to cause the Word of God to be read frequently in your houses 2. Some by reading the Scriptures others by hearing it read in the Family have been converted from the state of nature to the state of grace For faith may be wrought in us by hearing the Word read as well as hearing it Preached St. Austine reports of an Aegyptian Monk who living in a Christian-family where the Word of God was frequently read was thereby converted to the Christian faith And indeed there is a greater vertue in the holy Scriptures than in any other book for the working of conversion in the hearts of natural Men and Women Oh what an encouragement should this be unto Parents and Masters of Families to cause the holy Scriptures to be frequently read in their houses for what know they whether some under their charge may not thereby be converted And that
special reason why many go drooping and groaning so long under the bondage of corruption under the weight and burden of their spiritual maladies and diseases is because they do not go unto Christ by prayer for freedom from the same or through the weakness of their faith they do not believe Christ is as able so willing to help and deliver them For what Christ said to the poor man who came unto him in behalf of his possessed child the same he saith to thee If thou canst believe all things are possible to him that believeth Obj. Some are apt to say I have often gone unto Christ by Prayer earnestly begging of him to strengthen my weak graces to subdue my strong lusts and corruptions to mollifie my hard heart c. but I cannot pray in faith I cannot believe that he is as able so willing to grant my requests Answ. 1. Thou mayest pray in faith even then when thou thinkest thou dost not believe Weak Christians are often mistaken here supposing that if they be not confidently perswaded that God will hear them they do not pray in faith Whereas it is not a confidence that God will hear us but a dependance upon Christ in hope of audience that is our sâ—â—et evidence of faith in prayer Thou sayest thou prayest and prayest but canst not be perswaded that the holy God will hear the prayers of such a vile and unworthy wretch and thereupon concludest that thou dost not pray in faith But let me ask thee Dost thou offer up thy prayers in the name of Christ dost thou depend upon him in hope of an answer for his sake this is praying in faith 2. Mourn and weep for the weakness of thy faith 3. Be earnest with God in prayer that he would strengthen it 4. Know that thy corruption neither is nor will be utterly destroyed so long as thou livest here in this World neither will thy spiritual maladies and diseases be quite cured but they do and will continue in some measure and degree partly to bring down thy pride which of all sins is the most odious and abominable unto God and to advance thy humility which of all graces is most pleasing and acceptable unto God and partly that thou mayest have frequent occasion of going unto God by prayer for help and strength against the power of thy lusts and corruptions 5. Know that power against sin increase of grace an humble tender clean heart are mercies as worth the praying for so worth the waiting for Christs delays are no denials thou canst not say he will not because yet he hath not given thee thy desires Be not weary of seeking in due season thou shalt reap if thou faint not Before I leave this point I shall add one word by way of caution Beware thou mistake not thy self Take not thy self to be one of little faith whilest thou hast no faith Let not unbelievers catch at the comforts and encouragements that belong to the least of Saints that which is their meat will be thy poison Comforts falsely applyed though they be sweet in the mouth will prove curses in the belly Hast thou no faith Oh tremble this is the word that belongs to thee He that believeth not shall be damned Though to him that hath shall be given yet to him that hath not shall be taken away even that which he seemeth to have He that hath the least faith is a resolved enemy of all sin a resolved friend of holiness is resolved to hang upon Christ to cleave unto Christ to follow him to the death in righteousness and holiness of life though he still do question whether Christ be his or no. Is it not thus with thee Beware how thou catch at the forementioned comforts Yet this let me say to thee also if thou hast not faith wilt thou go to Christ for faith If thou canst not go to Christ as a Believer wilt thou go to him as a Sinner If thou art not yet in a state of salvation art thou willing to be saved Art thou willing to learn of Christ to ask his counsel what must I do to be saved wilt thou go thus to Christ Lord camest thou not into the world to save sinners to make intercession for transgressors to seek and to save them which are lost Oh wilt thou save this sinner my sinfull soul Lord I fear I am none of thine but wilt thou make me thine I come to thy door I lye at thy feet a poor lost soul an undone creature Oh wilt thou take me in and make me one of thy Disciples Wilt thou thus come to Christ Even thou also art one of those that he calls to He came not to call the righteous but sinners to repentance Thus much of Christs entertaining Nicodemus Come we now to the first general point whereof Christ discourseth with Nicodemus and that was the Doctrine of Regeneration in these words Verily Verily I say unto thee except a man be born again he cannot see the Kingdom of God In which we may note 1. The manner of propounding it 2. The matter and substance of it For the manner it is propounded with a double asseveration Verily Verily I say unto thee In the Greek it is Amen Amen which in the Hebrew signifieth truth The asseveration is doubled to stir up attention in Nicodemus who being yet in great measure ignorant of the fundamental principles of Religion might happily have lightly esteemed this doctrine of Regeneration and therefore to stir up his attention Christ useth this double asseveration verily verily I say unto thee Which was a form of speech often used by our Saviour when he would solemnly avouch any weighty truth He never used it but in matters of great moment By it therefore our Saviour giveth us to understand that the truth here delivered is a weighty truth not lightly to be regarded and slightly passed over For he who gave this commandment Let your communication be yea yea nay nay would never have added this double asseveration if there had not been need thereof Christ therefore having prefixed this preface to the following truths doth thereby stir us up to give as the more credit so the more diligent heed thereto Yea and thereby shews the doctrine of Regeneration to be a most important point necessary to be known and learned of all The matter or substance of the Doctrine of Regeneration as Christ hath sayd it down followeth in these words Except a man be born again he cannot see the Kingdom of God For the more profitable handling whereof I shall 1. Clear the words by giving you the sense and meaning of them 2. Raise and prosecute such points of Doctrine as they afford unto us For the clearing of the words Except a man In the Greek it is Except any This indefinite particle joyned with an exclusive hath the force of a general As if our Saviour had said No man can enter into heaven except
his countenance was changed his thoughts troubled him so that the joynts of his Loyns were loosed and his knees smote one against another How much more shall the wicked tremble and quake and their knees smite one against another for fear at the great day when they shall hear the sentence of condemnation pronounced by Jesus Christ How will they then run like men distracted to the Mountains and Hills for covert and shelter How will they then beg and yell again for mercy to a judge that is justly inexorable I say justly inexorable to them having scornfully rejected his many loving invitations and earnest beseechings by his Ministers to accept of that peace and reconciliation which he hath purchased by his blood Oh that men would consider that one tear or sigh of a penitent heart will now more prevail for attainment of mercy than all their bitter and importunate yellings in that day of Gods wrath VII After the promulgation of the sentence followeth the execution and sending of the persons judged to their everlasting estate as it is written And these shall go away into everlasting punishment So that now comes the eternal separation from Christ and possession of those torments which are easeless and endless For then shall they be hurried by the Devils as their Iaylors out of Christs presence and dragged into the bottomless lake of outer-darkness that perpetually burneth with fire and brimstone Oh the hellish cryes and horrible shrieks that then will be heard no heart can conceive or imagine what an hideous cry it will be When the inhabitants of Sodom and Gomorrah felt the fire and brimstone falling from Heaven upon their heads And when the earth opened her mouth to swallow up Corah and his company and they saw themselves going down quick into the pit Oh the cryes which were then heard Oh the shrieks which then filled the air But alas what were these to the outcryes which will be made and to the scrieches which will be heard when the Devils and reprobate men and women shall be violently driven into Hell never never to return again For though they houl and cry to the judge for mercy and redemption pitty and compassion yet will they find no answer but too late too late Mercy and pardon and peace have been preached to thee but thou wouldst not hearken thou wouldst not accept Thy day is over the things of thy peace are hid from thine eyes henceforth no more for ever Ah sinner hadst thou now an heart to turn from thy sins unto God by true and unfaigned repentance and to pray unto him for mercy in and through the merits of Jesus Christ there were hope of mercy But at the day of judgement thy repentance and thy prayers will nothing avail The judge will not then be intreated by thee and no marvel seeing thou wouldst not hearken to him in the day of his merciful visitation But though he sent unto thee messenger after Messenger Ambassadour after Ambassadour to woe and beseech thee to abandon thy sins and to accept of him for thy Lord and Saviour yet wouldst thou not leave one beloved sin nor deny one fleshly lust for all his intreaties And therefore on that day will he not be intreated by thee notwithstanding thy manifold cryes and prayers If thou wilt not believe me hear Christs own words to this purpose Because I have called and ye refused I have stretched out my hand and no man regarded But y e have set at nought all my counsel and would none of my reproof I will also laugh at your calamity I will mock when your fear cometh as desolation and your destruction as a whirlwind when distress and anguish cometh upon you then shall they call upon me but I will not answer they shall seek me early but they shall not find me Ah sinner time was when he called to thee turn from thy sins cast away thy transgressions accept of grace submit to mercy be wise be happy thou maist if thou wilt but thou wouldst not but hast sold thy mercy and thy peace and thy Saviour and thy soul for thy lusts and the pleasures of sin And therefore though in thy greatest extremity thou cry unto him for mercy he will tell thee that thy day of mercy is past and gone and the day of vengeance is come wherein he will no longer entreat nor no more be entreated Ah sinner how will it then wound thy very soul to remember thy folly in neglecting thy season and refusing so great salvation How will it make thee with anguish of heart to cry out Ah silly wretch where was thine understanding to sleight such gracious invitations to preferr every base lust before the Lord of life to turn aside from him that spake unto thee from Heaven and to turn after thy companions and the pleasures of this earth to put off the turning from thy sins and making thy peace with God till it was too late Oh now would I give a World if I had it for one offer of Christ more for one Sabbath more to make my peace with God and to make sure of Christ but alas it is now too late Oh the fears and distractions the tearing of the hair and wringing of the hands the gnashing of teeth and dashing of knees the weeping and wailing the crying and roaring that this will produce especially when thou shalt consider how God every Sabbath called upon thee by his Ministers to turn from thy sins unto him but thine ear and thine heart were shut against him And how Jesus Christ was offered and tendred to thee only upon these terms that thou wouldst cast away thy sins and cast thy self into his arms and yet thou wouldst not go unto him but refusedst and rejectedst him and his grace This sad reflection of thy soul upon its own wilful folly in neglecting and outstanding thy day will be the everlasting worm that will gnaw on thy heart World without end Oh the folly and madness of all wicked men who go on securely and impenitently in their sins till they drop into hell-fire Is this thy Wisdom to sin awhile and burn for ever to laugh a while and howle for ever for a little momentary pleasure here to suffer the vengeance of eternal fire Ah sinner that thou wouldst now forethink of this dreadful time and woful misery which hangs over thine head that when thou art alone thou wouldst seriously consider with thy self as the certainty and dreadfulness of this day so what thy condition is like to be that thou mightest thereby be stirred up to make out after Christ by whom thou maist escape the wrath to come Now whilest Christ is Preached to thee in the Ministry of the Gospel mercy and salvation is offered and now if ever is the time to accept it Oh therefore that now even now in this thy time and day of grace thou wouldst know the things that belong to thy peace that thou wouldst now
Thy Furnace hath not yet been hot enough if thy sin be not too hot for thee Resolve for Christ resolve against the Devil and all his works And that thy resolution may hold observe these following directions 1. Be sure thou do not ground thy resolutions upon any confidence in thine own strength but in the strength of Iesus Christ without whose assistance thou canst do nothing as our Saviour himself expresseth Iob. 15.1 But through Christ strengthening thee thou wilt be enabled to do any thing As David therefore when he was to encounter with Goliah went not out in his own name but in the name and strength of the Lord of Hosts So must thou resolve to fight against thy lusts and corruptions not in thine own name or strength but in the name and strength of Jesus Christ. Otherwise thy lusts may reply to thee as the Devil did to the Sons of Sheva Iesus I know and Paul I know but who are ye And know that the more sensible thou art of thine own weakness and insufficiency the more ready Christ is to help thee and the more strength shalt thou receive from Christ. Which the Apostle Paul found true in his own experience for saith he when I am weak then am I strong that is when I am weak and insufficient in my self in mine own apprehension then do I most of all feel a gracious supply from Christ. 2. Back thy resolutions with Prayer As thou dost resolve in the grace and strength of God to abandon thy lusts to forsake thy former wicked and ungodly course of life so be earnest with God in prayer for power and strength against the power and strength of sin For as it is Gods power by which alone thou canst keep down the power of thy lusts so prayer is the means sanctified for the obtaining thereof Oh therefore pray and pray earnestly yea add fasting to thy prayers For old sins to which thou hast been long accustomed are like those Devils which possessed the man from his youth which could not be cast out without fasting and prayer 3. Second thy Prayers with thy diligence and faithful endeavours striving against thy lusts and corruptions though never so sweet and dear unto thee For these are vain and insignificant resolutions which promise great matters but do nothing Whereas true resolutions are active and stirring putting men upon the work Hast thou resolved through the grace of God to abandon thy lusts up then and be doing set on it presently without any farther delay For shouldst thou consecrate the prime and strength of thy dayes to the service of Satan and gratifying thine own carnal lusts and reserve thy decayed strength and decrepit old age the dregs of thy dayes for God and his service Canst thou think God will accept thereof Surely no. For mark what the Prophet Malachy speaketh Cursed be the deceiver which hath in his floâ—k a male and voweth and sacrificeth unto the Lord a corrupt thing What then can they expect who dedicate the prime and strength of their dayes to sin and reserve only the lees their old age full of sores and corruptions unto God 4. Frequently call to mind the resolutions thou hast made of a speedy and through reformateon which will be an especial means to keep them fresh in memory and a fresh remembrance of them will stir thee up to a conscionable performance of them 5. Often renew thy resolutions It is not sufficient frequently to review thy resolutions but thou must likewise frequently renew them For a resolution renewed is as new made and thereby becometh fresh and vigorous And truly there is great power in a resolution when it is fresh upon the heart new cords are strong V. Having resolved to give a bill of divorce to thy sinful lusts and pleasures make choice of Christ for thy Lord and Husband as well as for thy Priest and Saviour Take him as the Bride doth her Bridegroom for better for worse for richer and poorer with his cross as well as with his Crown resign and give up thy self unto Christ to be ruled and governed ordered and disposed in all things by him and resolve as to cast thy self at the feet of Christ in subjection to him so to cast thy self into the arms of Christ and upon his shoulders for Salvation from him adventure thy soul upon him rest upon his perfect righteousness and all-sufficient Sacrifice for the pardon of thy sins here and for eternal life and Salvation hereafter Let the consideration of those many melting invitations of Jesus Christ unto poor sinners to come unto him stir thee up to go unto him to cast thy self into the merciful and meritorious arms and embracements of thy Crucified Saviour to throw thy self upon his grace and mercy As God hath laid thy help upon him so do thou lay thy hope upon him both for the pardon of thy sins past and for power against sin for the time to come for grace here and glory hereafter saying If I perish I will perish in the arms of Iesus Christ. And if thou canst bring up thine heart to this then is the match made between Christ and thy soul so that thou maist with confidence say Christ is mine and I am his And oh what a joyful day will this be unto thee In this consisteth thy new birth and work of Regeneration whereby thou art become a new creature This day is salvation come into thy heart All other things are but preparatives unto this Oh therefore let me prevail with thee above all things to make this choice of Christ for thy Lord and Saviour to resign up thy self unto him and his Laws as well as to expect salvation from him For no man can take Jesus Christ savingly who takes him not wholly as his Lord and husband to serve and obey him as well as his Priest and Saviour to free him from the guilt and punishment of all his sinsâ— He is the author of eternal Salvation only to those who obey him Many I know are willing to accept of Christ upon their own terms Some are willing to accept of Christ provided that together with him they may enjoy their sinfull lusts and pleasures Others are willing to accept of him provided that together with him they may enjoy their worldly riches and treasures But he who will take Christ savingly must take him upon his own terms He will be all to thee or nothing he will rule thee or else he will not ransome thee Away then with thy sins be divorced from thine old Husband let sin no longer rule in thee if thou wilt be marryed to the Lord and have any part in his righteousness Ah sinner whosoever thou art how many soever thy sins are this day in the name of the great God I do tender Jesus Christ unto thee And as thou tendrest the life and happiness of thine own soul refuse him not but stir up thy self to accept of him both his person
he slew a man he that Sacrificeth a Lamb as if he cut off a dogs neck Though the Sacrificing of Oxen and Lambs were good and commanded by God himself yet because they failed in the manner of performing them they were no more acceptable to God than the killing of men or cutting off a dogs neck which things were forbidden by the Law and abomination to the Lord. 3. Failing in the manner of performance makes God not only to reject our duties but to pronounce a woe and a curse against the performers of them Cursed be he that doth the work of the Lord negligently Though it be the work of the Lord that work which the Lord appointeth to be done yet notwithstanding if it be done negligently not after a right manner cursed is he that doth it 4. It is the right manner of performing duties that obtaineth a blessing from God It may be thou hast heard much and prayed much and fasted much and yet hast found little good or benefit thereby Examine whether thou hast not been dead and dull formal and perfunctory in them doing them as if thou didst them not If so no marvail that thou hast received so little good by them As therefore thou wouldst be loth to pray in vain or hear in vain or fast in vain as thou wouldst be loth to lose the things which thou hast wrought see to it that thou be as carefull of the manner as of the matter of them how thou dost them as that thou dost them Do what thou dost with all thy soul yea and with all thy might and then thou maist expect a plentiful and gracious return For the right manner of performing good duties take these few directions I. Be sure you take Christ with you both for assistance and acceptance 1. For assistance For without me saith Christ you can do nothing That is without Union with Christ and Communion with him you cannot perform any acceptable service unto God You may fall upon the duty of prayer and attend upon the Ministry of the Word but without assistance from Christ you can neither do the one nor the other as you should Whensoever therefore you set upon any good duty in the first place beg strength and assistance from Christ and rest and lean upon him for his help go not to pray or hear but in the strength of the Lord. 2. Take Christ with you for acceptance both of your persons and services Christ is the beloved Son of God with whom he is so well pleased that likewise in him he is well pleased with all those that come to God by him and look for neither audience nor acceptance but upon his account alone The truth is as our persons are vile and wretched and all as an unclean thing so our Services even our most holy Services are all polluted and tainted with the corruption of our natures and therefore they are odious and abominable in the sight of God who may justly reject both us and them and will do it unless covered with the worthiness of our Lord Jesus Christ but in him we shall not fail to obtain gracious acceptance Whensoever therefore we go unto God in prayer or in any other ordinance let us carry Christ with us in the arms of our faith Plut arch in the life of Themistocles reports that it was the usual custome of some of the Heathens namely the Molossiaâ—s that when they would seek the favour of their King they took his Son in their arms and so went unto him And questionless it would be the wisdom of Christians in seeking the face and favour of God who is the King of Heaven and of earth to take the holy Child Jesus with them without whom they may not see his face II. Stir up thy self and all thy strength put forth thy self to the uttermost strive to be lively active and stirring in Spirit Get the Spirit of faith and of power this will be oyle to the wheels and wind to the Sails which set all a going let this be wanting and thy best services will be lifeless and dead Services in which the Lord takes no delight There is a threefold strength we should labour to put forth in all our holy duties 1. Strength of Intention 2. Strength of Affections 3. Strength of Body 1. We must intend our work as if it were for our lives for so it is whether it be the work of praying hearing meditating or the like We must put forth the strength of our intention as well as of our attention not giving way either to drowsiness of body or distractions of mind But oh what light matters are apt to steal away our minds and thoughts in the performance of holy duties If one of our superiours were talking with us he would expect that we should mind what he saith and not turn aside to talk with every one that passeth by us But when God is speaking to us in the ministry of his Word or we are speaking unto him by prayer how ordinarily do we turn aside to every vain thought and trifling business which offereth it self to us Intend God more earnestly and this will fire your thoughts 2. Strength of affections is required in every good duty Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do do it with thy might saith the Wise man This may especially be applyed to the duties of Gods worship and service that we do them vigorously with all the strength of our affections Which the Apostle requireth where he bids us be fervent in spirit serving the Lord. The word in the Greek notes an ebullition or boyling up of our spirits to the height There is nothing in the World more unbecoming the Worship of God than flatness of spirit and coldness of affection when a man serves God as if he served him not It was Davids commendation that the zeal of Gods house did eat him up Which expression sheweth the vehemency of his zeal and strength of his affections as in reforming Gods house so in performing the duties of his Worship and service For this was Iacob honoured and called Israel because he prayed with the strength of his affections and is therefore said to wrestle with God in prayer whereby he prevailed As thou desirest to prevail with God in Prayer thou must with Iacob wrestle with him putting forth the strength of thine affections which will be a special means to keep away vain wandring thoughts So long as honey is boyling hot flies will not venture on it So if the heart and affections be boyling hot in prayer vain thoughts are not apt to enter in 3. Strength of body must likewise be put forth in every good duty For Col must be worshipped as with our spirits so with our bodies And blessed is the strength which is put forth in the service of God Carnal men are apt to lay out the strength of their bodies upon their lusts Why then should not we be as ready to
oft-times ended in outward uncleanness and actual Adultery From the heart saith our Saviour proceed evil thoughts adulteries fornications c. Noting evil thoughts to be the cause of the uncleanness in the life In Athaliahs Massacre of the blood-royal young Ioash was hid in the bed-chamber there he was nurst and afterwards came to be King and ruled in the Throne Save any Lustfull thought nurse it in the bed-chamber of thy heart hide it there and it will in time come to be King and rule over thee So soon therefore as any lustful or exorbitant thoughts begin to arise in thine heart speedily reject the same quench the fire in the thatch crush the Cockatrice in the Egge stifle the first conception of sin Certainly as it is a dangerous neglect not to observe and embrace the first motions of Gods spirit in us so likewise not to take notice of the first thoughts and rising of sin in our hearts He who slights sinfull thoughts is in a fair way to sinfull actions They that are Christs saith the Apostle have Crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts The very affections and lusts of the flesh must be Crucified if we would prevent the works of the flesh IV. Sir up in thy self an earnest desire to have thy lusts mortified and subdued The reason why no more is done against sin is because we are too well contented to let it alone when nothing but the death of sin will satisfie thee thou wilt then use thy Weapons when once thou desirest in earnest the destruction of thine iniquities there 's hope they will not be long liv'd For God hath promised to satisfie the desire of those that fear him he will hear their groanings and deliver them Come unto me saith Christ all ye who labour and are heavy laden and I will give you case and rest Certainâ—y one special reason why many complain so much of the strength and prevalency of their corruptions is because they are not heartily willing to have them mortified and subdued They will indeed profess a willingness to part with their sins that they may be freed from the guilt of them and punishment due unto them but unwilling they are to part with the pleasure they find in them Thus Austin acknowledgeth of himself I prayed said he that my sins might be forgiven and mortified but yet I was afraid lâ—st my prayer should be heard and answered If therefore thou wouldst have thy sins mortified indeed stir up in thy self a willing mind thereunto V. Complain unto God of the prevalency of thy lusts and by prayer beg strength from him against the power of thâ—m From God it is that strength must be had it is his power alone that can support us against the power of sin And Prayer is the means of obtaining it This was the course that Paul took when he was troubled with that thorn in his flesh which expositors generally enterpret to be some strong motions and inclinations in him to some foul sin For this saith the text he besought the Lord thrice that is oftentimes And though he did not presently obtain a full deliverance yet did he receive strength sufficient to resist them so that he could not be overcome by them If we in like manner shall go unto God by prayer for his help laying open our condition and complaining to him thereof we shall for the present receive strength sufficient to resist and in Gods due time deliverance from our iniquities VI. Act faith in Christ for the mortifying thy sinfull lusts and corruptions To this end 1. Be sensible that thou art in thy sâ—â—f weak and unable to grapple with thy Lusts. Thou must despair of thine own strength ere thou wilt take hold on the strength of the Lord. Thou must be beaten out of thy self-confidence ere thou wilt go unto Christ. When thou seest thou art weak thou wilt turn to the strong hold 2. Bâ—lieve that Christ is able to succour and help thee In him doth all fullness dwell As he hath a fullness of grace in his heart so fullness of power in his hand whereby he is able to kill all thine enemies Sin is mighty but Christ is mightier The Devil is strong but Christ is stronger than he 3. Believe that Christ is as able so willing to subdue thine iniquities Thine enemies are his enemies and he will have their death if thou be a believer he hath undertaken for thee He is thy great High-Priest and thy Lord and King and hereupon not only by his mercifulness and kindness but by his office and interest he stands ingaged to pitty and relieve thee he will not be unfaithfull to his trust nor deaf to his own bowels which plead with him to save and help thee 4. By faith cast thy self upon Iesus Christ rest upon his power and goodness for his help and strength 'T is here in regard of Christs power as in regard of his promises As our resting and relying upon his promises in a time of danger and distress makes them our own So our resting and relying upon Christs power for help and support doth make it our own 5. By faith wait upon Christ in expectation of relief and succour against the working and stirring of thy corruptions Though relief come in but slowly from him yet wait for it because it will most surely come in the most seasonable time Hereby wilt thou ingage Christ to appear for thy help For as nothing doth more ingage the heart of a man to be helpfull to another than an expectation of help from him So certainly the raising up thine heart to an expectation of relief from Christ must needs be a great ingagement unto him to assist thee accordingly When Christ cured many of their bodily diseases and distempers while he lived upon the Earth we find their cure is still ascribed to their faith Now what was their faith They believed that Christ was both able and willing to cure them and thereupon with confidence went unto him for cure and so drew vertue from him accordingly This you may see in the poor Woman that had an issue of blood twelve years who came behind Christ and said If I may but touch the hem of his garment I shall be whole To whom Christ replyed Daughter be of good comfort thy faith hath made thee whole This is written as all other Scripture is for our learning to teach and instruct us what course to take for the curing of our spiritual maladies and diseases Hast thou any foul issue of Worldliness and Covetousness of pride or frowardness of passion or envy or the like running upon thee And wouldst thou be cured of them Do as that poor Woman did go unto Christ set thy faith at work on him believe his power and willingness let thy faith touch but the hem of his garment lay hold on him cast thy self on his blood and bowels wait at his door resolving not to return
to the husband so that they prove blessings and comforts each to other Children likewise are blessed and sanctified to their Parents and Servants to their Masters Yea Family-prayer produceth Gods blessing upon their callings and enjoyments upon their losses and crosses both are thereby blessed and sanctified unto them 2. Family-prayer as it is a sanctifying ordinance so it is a seasoning ordinance it seasons the whole house with the fear of God It is recorded of Cornelius that he was a devout man one that feared God with all his house who prayed to God alwayes his constant course of praying with his Family questionless did season his whole house with the fear of God As Prayer-less Families are for the most part destitute of the fear of God so in those Families where a constant course of Praying is kept up there the hearts of many are seasoned with the true fear of God As Abraham was a Praying-master so he had praying-servants For inferiours are very apt to write after the Copy of their Superiours and to follow their example Thus by a praying Master Children and Servants are taught to Pray 3. family-Family-prayer is a special preservative against common calamities Polanus in his Syntagm relateth how in the year 1584. there was such a terrible Earth-quake that overthrew all the houses in a whole Town in Switzerland save one wherein the Master of the Family was at the same time praying with his Wife Children and Servants If God doth not preserve praying-families from those common judgements and calamities which befall others yet he will so sanctifie those calamities unto them that they shall turn to their good according to that gracious promise All things shall work together for good to them that love God V. Consider the manifold mischiefs that usually sollow and accompany the neglect of Family-prayer As 1. Neglect of Family-prayer is usually accompanied with the neglect of all other Religious duties which is found true by sad experience For whoever heard that the Scriptures were read or Catechising used in any Family where Prayer was omitted So that Prayer-less houses are as Sepulchres wherein all Religion lyes buried 2. Neglect of Family-prayer exposâ—th the whole houshold to the wrath and fury of God as the Prophet Ieremiah implyeth where he saith Pour out thy fury upon the Heathen that know thee not and upon the Families that call not upon thy name Where by the fury of God is meant his wrath in the highest degree his anger boyled up to the height Oh who can abide this scalding wrath And by pouring out Gods fury is meant Gods inflicting his fierce wrath in the greatest measure in the highest degree The words though they are set down in the form of a Prayer yet they are a prediction as well as a petition of Gods dreadfull wrath and fury to be undoubtedly inflicted upon all Prayerless-families For the Prophet put up this Prayer unto God as foreseeing the certain ruin and destruction of such Families as called not upon the name of the Lord He knew that God would assuredly pour out his fury upon their Families who did not pour out their souls unto him Oh that all Masters and Governours would seriously think and meditate on this fearfull imprecation of the Prophet against all Prayerless-families that so they might dread the omission of so necessary a duty as much as the scorching wrath and fury of God yea as the scorching fire of hell for what is hell it self but the feeling of this wrath and fury of God I shall close this with answering three Questions and as many Objections 1. Q. How often should we Pray with our Families A. 1. Every day For first our Saviour hath intimated so much unto us in his plat-form of Prayer by teaching us to Pray for our daily bread in these words Give us this day our daily bread that is bread needfull for the present day And in regard we daily stand in need of bread therefore our Saviour would have us pray daily for the same 2. Have you not daily wants to be supplyed wants for your selves and wants for your Children and Servants Have you not daily infirmities in your Family to be healed Are you not daily subject to dangers and temptations And do you not daily sin against God Is it not necessary then that you daily Pray unto God for the supply of all your wants for the healing of all your infirmities for the preventing of the dangers you are daily subject unto for the strengthning you against all your temptations for the pardoning of all your sins Surely our daily wants our daily infirmities our daily dangers our daily temptations and our daily sins do all call upon us for daily prayers And as you and yours daily partake of Gods mercies is it not just and equal that you all should daily bless God for the same The truth is every day supplyeth new matter both of Prayer and praise and therefore there is just cause daily to offer up our Sacrifice of Prayer and praise unto God 2. Q. How oft in each day are we bound to pray with our Families A. family-Family-prayer ought to be performed twice at least viz. In the Morning and in the Evening 1. For first this is commended unto us by the Morning and Evening Sacrifice under the Law which we find given in command unto the Jews And are not Christians under the Gospel as well as those under the Law obliged to offer up their Morning and Evening Sacrifice 2. Equity requireth this duty at your hands as the mercies of God are renewed upon you and yours every Morning and the showres of his compassion fall down upon you every night so you should not forget to offer up both a Morning and an Evening Sacrifice of Prayer and praise unto him who is so continually mindfull of you 3. Q. What time in the Morning and Evening is fittest for the performance of Family-prayer A. For this no certain rule can be prescribed in regard of the several occasions which may fall out in a Family and by reason of age sickness and the like in the Governours thereof Yet it were to be wished that the Morning Sacrifice if possibly may be betimes in the Morning before Servants go about the works of their calling as being the fittest time for holy exercises when the Spirits are freshest and freest from Wordly thoughts and distractions And it were to be wished that the Evening Sacrifice may be before Supper in regard that afterwards we are generally more heavy and sleepy and will find it more difficult to keep up our hearts and spirits in the duty Having thus resolved the Questions come we now to the Objections raised against the duty of Family-prayer CHAP. VI. Objections against Family-prayer Answered 1. Obj. SOme Object their inability to pray they know not how to perform the duty A. 1. Let the sense of thine own weakness drive thee unto God for power and strength Beg