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matrimonial_a unity_n be_v so_o necessary_a as_o it_o may_v not_o be_v disunited_a or_o dissolve_v though_o one_o be_v a_o christian_n the_o other_o a_o pagan_a if_o any_o brother_n 13._o say_v the_o apostle_n have_v a_o wife_n that_o believe_v not_o let_v he_o not_o put_v she_o away_o and_o the_o woman_n which_o have_v a_o husband_n that_o believe_v not_o let_v she_o not_o leave_v he_o the_o reason_n of_o this_o inviolable_a union_n be_v especial_o two_o one_o take_v from_o the_o author_n of_o marriage_n the_o other_o from_o the_o nature_n thereof_o 1._o the_o author_n of_o marriage_n be_v god_n it_o be_v his_o ordinance_n and_o 24_o he_o it_o be_v that_o by_o his_o ordinance_n have_v make_v of_o two_o one_o flesh_n now_o mark_v the_o consequence_n which_o christ_n as_o a_o rule_a case_n and_o undeniable_a principle_n infer_v thereon_o what_o god_n have_v join_v together_o 6._o let_v no_o man_n put_v asunder_o if_o no_o man_n then_o nor_o wife_n nor_o husband_n himself_o 2._o such_o 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every_o woman_n have_v she_o own_o husband_n whereby_o he_o imply_v that_o they_o shall_v not_o have_v to_o do_v with_o any_o other_o that_o which_o 11._o solomon_n express_v of_o a_o husband_n by_o the_o rule_n of_o relation_n must_v be_v apply_v to_o a_o wife_n as_o the_o man_n must_v be_v satisfy_v at_o all_o time_n in_o his_o wife_n and_o even_o ravish_v with_o her_o love_n so_o must_v the_o woman_n be_v satisfy_v at_o all_o time_n in_o her_o husband_n and_o even_o ravish_v with_o his_o love_n by_o the_o like_a rule_n the_o precept_n give_v to_o wife_n to_o be_v chaste_a must_v husband_n take_v as_o direct_v to_o themselves_o 5._o also_o and_o be_v chaste_a this_o duty_n do_v isaak_n and_o rebekah_n faithful_o and_o mutual_o perform_v each_o to_o other_o 1._o it_o be_v one_o main_a end_n why_o marriage_n especial_o since_o the_o
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