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A00554 Counsel to the husband: to the wife instruction A short and pithy treatise of seuerall and ioynt duties, belonging vnto man and wife, as counsels to the one, and instructions to the other; for their more perfect happinesse in this present life, and their eternall glorie in the life to come. Ste. B. 1608 (1608) STC 1069; ESTC S118841 33,892 104

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harken_v all_o you_o wife_n or_o maiden_n that_o may_v be_v wife_n especial_o you_o that_o fear_v the_o lord_n and_o do_v take_v his_o word_n to_o be_v your_o guide_n person_n necessary_a thing_n to_o be_v know_v for_o the_o quiet_a of_o marry_a person_n if_o you_o do_v desire_v the_o happy_a life_n of_o matrimony_n behold_v your_o condition_n know_v your_o place_n and_o station_n and_o who_o have_v subject_v you_o if_o will_v and_o desire_n be_v take_v from_o you_o touch_v rule_n and_o government_n what_o be_v leave_v you_o to_o use_v of_o your_o own_o authority_n if_o therefore_o you_o will_v contend_v at_o law_n about_o superiority_n you_o be_v bid_v lay_v down_o your_o interest_n for_o god_n have_v dispose_v it_o unto_o your_o husband_n not_o so_o much_o as_o to_o desire_v any_o thing_n or_o do_v any_o thing_n as_o of_o yourselves_o but_o be_v make_v tributary_n unto_o your_o husband_n hard_a the_o shrewd_a wife_n say_v this_o be_v hard_a and_o from_o hence_o i_o take_v it_o it_o 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