you are deafe or carelesse to the word of God if you continue in mee saith Christ and my words in you yee shall aske what yee will and it shall be done unto you Job 15. 7. the just cryed and he delivered them 't is the prayer of the righteous which availeth much Jam 5 16. therefore saith the Apostle let every one that calleth on the name of Jesus depart from iniquitie and I will that men pray every where lifting up holy hands Sanctity like that stone which Aaron and Hur put under Moses fainting hands supporteth our prayers with assurance of obtaining his prayer is powerfull whose cause tongue action and life speake for him the Oratours rule is the hand speake's injuries cry for revenge such a voice had Abels blood so almes deeds for mercy Corâ—â—lius beneficence did so thy prayers and thy almes are come up for a memoriall before God prayer flyeth up to God with Cherub's wings faith and fervency but must have hands under those wings bee thou holy and attentive to Gods word and thou maist bee confident of audience with him otherwise hee will say when you make long prayers I will not heare you prayer is the soules soveraigne balme but cannot cure where any splinter remaineth in that wound where any intention is to continue in sin no prayers are heard The Lepers mouth by the Law was to be covered sinne thy soules leprosie stops thy mouth and therein thou but awakest Gods justice to punish thee it made the heathen in the storme say to some debauched fellowes when they prayed hold your peace least God should know such wicked fellowes sailed here To the ungodly God said what hast thou to doe to take my covenant into thy mouth seeing thou hatest to be reformed 5. It may be God denieth what you aske that he may give you something better It is indeed a bitter triall to pray and have no sense of being heard I conceave that made David expostulate with God as if he were forsaken but let a man consider what God hath done to his dearest servants O that Ismael might live in thy sight cryed faithfull Abraham God giveth him an Isaak a blessed seed Moses prayer could not obtaine his entrance into Canaan it obtained his present entrance into heaven he many times denieth our wills that hee may accomplish his in our salvation he denieth temporall things that profit not that hee may bestow eternall Be not dejected not â—illed with indignation but consider how God giveth lands fruits health children plenty and the like to them that daily blaspheame him he that gives such things to sinners what thâ—nkst thou he reserveth for his children Certainly not earth but heaven I say he meaneth to give himselfe to thee if he removes the lets that he may so doe art thou impatient Againe some will say as Moses I am not eloquent to form a prayer I answer there are many formed already for thee but canst thou say lesse then the poore Publican God be mercifull to me a sinner say that as he did and it shall be enough for thee to goe home justified what was the meaning of that caution in the Law that he might offer a paire of turtles who had not a sheep but that God will accept if we offer the best we can be it never so litle If thou have no more offer a contrite heart I shall never beleeve him destitute of happy audience with God who looking on the merits of Christ interceding for him can but weepe those teares have strong cries why else doth David mention the voice of his teares Powerfull prayer is more in the groanes of the spirit then rhetoricall elegancies more in weeping then speaking There are certaine rules of practice hereto neceâ—â—ary 1. Before Prayer 1. Meditate on the gracious promises of God meditation and prayer are like the two Disciples going to Emaus whâ—le they are conferring Christ joyneth himselfe to them and like Eliah and his servant on Carmel one obtaineth the other discovereth the blessing comming 2. Forgive all thine enimâ—es give those that wâ—nt thy help forgive those that offend thee put out all bitternesse and desire of revenge out of thy soule count it the most divine victory to overcome thine adversary with vertue and goodnesse 3. Set thy selfe in the presence of God remembring thine owne vilenesse and guiltinesse Thinke of the dreadfull Majestie of God before whom thou art to appeare before whom are thousand thousand glorious Angels those unseene messengers of his who see and heare thee 4. Disburden thy minde of all cares and thoughts of this world prepare thy heart to thinke only of heavenly things 5. Humbly and heartely begge pardon for all those sinnes which have intercâ—pted his grace and made thee lesse apt to pray and thy former prayers lesse fruitfull 6. Compose thy body to that humble gesture which may best serve to expresse thy high reverence of body and soule to stirre up the greater devotion in thy selfe and others 7. Entreat Gods assistance and the evidence of his spirit to helpe thy infirmities and to prepare thee to pray faithfully 2. In prayer 1. Lift up thy soule to God call upon him with thy heart fix thy thoughts in heaven and as much as humane infirmitie can attaine to turne thee to looke upon the throne of God through the merits of Christ at the right hand of God receaving and presenting thy requests to him 2. Watch over thy thoughts and diligently fetch them in from their extravagancies and wandrings out forcing them into an ardent attention 3. As oft as Satan distracteth in a briefe ejaculation and quick flight of a thought desire the Lord to reprove and restraine him and to assist and help thee 3. After Prayer let thy heart 1. Thanke the Lord for his gratious assistance 2. In an ejaculation pray God to passe by and forgive all thy failings 3. Resolve to wait Gods leasure and to subject all thy desires to his holy will for the time and manner of his grant 4. Attend what answer God giveth either 1. More confidence of obtaining 2. Cheerefulnesse of spirit and resolution to trust in him what ever he pleaseth to doe with thee 3. More fervently to persevere in prayer 4. A constant resolution carefully to examine thy waies in case thou art sensible of some obstruction and let to thy obtaining 5. Granting thy requests that thou maist acknowledge his mercy and glorify him and thence gather future assurance of being heard in the like or other necessities Thus enformed and prepared loose not the comfortable suits of dayly prayers by foreslowing thy opportunity of calling on God while he is nigh every houre will serve hereto but be sure thou set apart some specially the first and the last every place hath served God's children in necessity the lyons denne the prison the belly of the Whale the
else have suffered to eternitie 2 That the suffering of Christ was neither accidentall or casuall nor soly in the power of man for though there were many actors in his sufferings Herod Pilat Jewes Gentiles Judas and the devill yet all these did only that which the hand and counsaile of God determined before to be done who would never suffer evill to be done but that his infinite wisedome can dispose and his goodnesse overcome evill that he can draw good out of it 3 This suffering of Christ for us was fully and soly satisfactory to the justice of God for all our sinnes here in his passion differed from all others they may truly say as that happy Convert on the crosse we are indeed righteously here but there was no sinne in him No passion of man ever hath beene or ever can be meritorious and propitiatory or satisfactory for his own sinnes much lesse for any others but Christs passion was and is satisfactory and propitiatory for the sinnes of all the elect if all men should have suffered the torments of Hell for the redemption of one soule they could never have satisfied Gods justice for that one but Christs once suffering therefore fully satisfied for all because it was of infinite valew and merit 4 The end of Christs suffering was our redemption of body and soule for so much he redeemed as he assumed to redeeme in the creation he shewed his wisedome power providence but here his justice in that he spared not his owne sonne standing in the place of our surety and his mercy in that he spared us which is a singular comfort when wee consider that hee dyed not in vaine 5 The limits of Christs passion reached from his conception to his resurrection the more evident beginnings whereof were in his life and the coâ—summation then when hee cryed upon the crosse it is finished 6 Thâ— place where his last and consummatory passion began was a garden there sinne invaded man there his soule began to be heavie to the death Math. 26. 38. while hee sweat water and blood neither is it to be wondred at why Christ was so sorrowfull herein whereas some of his Martyrs have rejoyced in their sufferings for these were assured of their sinnes remission by the sufferings of their surety Christ but he felt at once the weight of all the sinnes of the elect he was for a time left to the extreamest sense of his fathers anger and the intensest torments of hell but they in the midst of their sufferings had a comfortable sense of Gods gracious presence assuring them of their reconciliation with God and remission of their sinnes by Christ now whereas we read that he freely laid downe his life for his and none could else have taken from him I say not Pilat Jewes or Gentiles barred if he had pleased by legions of Angels but not age not death it selfe to which all others were subject by sinne but he was therefore exempt because he had no sinne and againe that he did in the bitternesse of his passion deprecate and pray the cup might passe away we must know that these flowed ex diversis principiis though he deprecated the wrath of God and that death as man subject to all our infirmities without sinne yet had he therein relation to Gods will and so willingly compleated the worke of our redemption therefore foreseeing and foretelling of his passion he would yet goe up to Jerusalem as Jonahs crying take and cast mee into the sea prefigured his voluntary passion that he would not die was of the infirmitie of the slesh which naturally and without sinne feareth and shunneth death as destructive that he would die was the promptitude of spirit for that his death was necessary for mans salvation so said he the spirit is willing but the flesh infirme relating not onely to his disciples drouzinesse The circumstance of this passion were suchlike The Jewes consult to take him the conspiracie is hatcht in the chiefe Priests house they the Scribes and Elders though they knew he was no man of violence send out an armed company against him an evill conscience is never secure they came to take him as a malefactour into that place which he had chosen to pray in that ought to have been a sanctuary to him and as the hornes of the Altar free from pursuit Judas à disciple becomes their guide his treason's signall is a kisse as many now honour him with their lips whose hearts and lives crucifie him afresh and under a faire profession betray his truth they take him who with his word could cast them downe he causeth Peter to sheath his sword and healeth one who came to destroy him he will not have his cause maintained by the sword having otherwise appointed to destroy the kingdome of sinne we were assigned for pastours not smiters they bind him and lead him away to Annas first and after to Caiphas his disciples sled the shepheard smitten the flock is scattered This sacred history affords us many good rules 1 In thy places of pleasure remember where Christs passion for thy sinnes began 2. As sorrowes encrease entreat thy fervency in prayer so did Christ. Luk 22. 14. 3 Despaire not when God answereth not thy prayers with that which thou desirest Christ was heard when he wept and offered up strong cries yet the cup did not passe from him if God give us something better then we aske as he ever doth if not that thing we aske we are heard 4 Submit to Gods will so did Christ not as I will but as thou wilt Mat. 26. 39. 42. temporall aâ—â—lictions never made any man unhappy but the impatient and wicked it cannot be an unhappy state in which Christ is neither the malice of those who to the extreame danger of religion seeme and are not religious their conspiring against thee their dealing disspightfully as with a malefactor bands convention before magistrates friends forsaking thee malitious accusations by false witnesses no nor unjust condemnation to death can make thee unhappy all this Christ suffered leaving us an example of patience 7 The high Priest examined him the officer smote him Annas sent him bound to Caiphas Peter denied him thence they lead him to the judgement hall into which his hypocriticall accusers would not enter least they should be defiled hypocrisie straines at gnats and swallowes Camels they made a conscience of going in among the Heathens being to eat the Passeover but not of murthering the Lord of life Pilat examined him sinfull man fitteth to judge the just Judge of all men offered to deliver him whom he knew delivered of envy they preferred Barabbas a murtherer Pilat to please the people scourgeth Jesus the souldiers plat a crowne of thornes and put it on his head and a purple robe on him they moâ—ke and smite him Pilat so present's him
lawes if thou wilt grant them Naaman's plea only God be mercifull to thy servant herein and sometimes Herod Ahab Pharoah will have certaine fits of seeming devotion and repentance the frozen serpent will not sting then mens corruptions appeare when opportunity gives them birth The Interrogatories to be propounded to thy conscience are 1. Doth sinne raigne in thee so that thou yeeldest a willing obedience thereto or doth it tyrannize over thee there is an immense difference between these all men sinne but sinne raigneth onely in the unregenerate let not sinne raign in your mortal body the regenerate sin but that which I doe I allow not for what I would that I do not but what I hate that I doe the evil which I would not that I doe aske thy conscience therefore whether thou wouldst have done the evill which now woundeth it if not it is no more thou but sin that dwelleth in thee 2. Doest thou loath all sin because it is contrary to God's holy will and rather because thou lovest God then because thou fearest his judgments doest thou not only grieve for every sinne which thou hast committed but also for the pravity and corruption of thy will and the infirmities of flesh and blood disabling thee to the purer service of God feare not in Gods esteeme thou art not what thou loathest and wouldst not be neither will God ever condemn thee for that which hee hath given thee grace to loath and condemne in thy selfe for if wee would judge our selves wee should not be judged The unregenerate man loveth sin however hee fear and hate the punishment thereof the regenerate hateth it therefore God will not judge him for it as our Saviour said to the penitent sinner Joh. 8. 11. neither do I condemn thee go and sin no more 3. Wouldst thou fain be holy and is it thy hearts desire to serve God sincerely so that thou canst say with the Church Isai. 26. 8. The desire of our soule is to thy name and to the remembrance of thee Doest thou hunger and thirst after rigteousnesse be assured thou shalt be satisfied Doest thou in the inward man consent to the law of God be confident a true desire to be holy speaks a man such in Gods esteeme our present best perfection is not that wee are holy but that wee would be such 4. Hast thou respect to all Gods commandements so that thou doest not in thy heart dispense with any of them for pleasures profits or any secular advantage sake but wouldst fain keep them all be comforted however Satan's delusions beguile thee and thine own corruptions sometimes betray thee yet a little to serve God without exception or dispensation to any sinne concludeth a man regenerate the denomination following the better part as appeareth in Paul's expression of himselfe in the same case Rom. 7. 25. With the minde I my selfe serve the law of God but with the flesh the law of sinne that is groaning under the tyranny thereof not dispensing with its reigne 5. Doest thou resolve to doe thy uttermost endeavour to avoid sinne God accepteth the will for the deed David said I will keep thy statutes and I have sworn and I will perform it that I will keep thy righteous Judgments it is evident he did not so but certain that he would have done so 6. Doest thou conscionably and diligently use the meanes to know thy sinnes as by an home-applying the word to thy conscience for by the law is knowledge of sinne Doest thou carefully avoid all occasions and incentives moving thee and leading thee thereunto Hee hateth drunkennesse in vaine who will not refraine from the company that led him thereto if thou hate adultery look not on the lascivious let her not take thee with her eie-lids the harlots eie is the adulterers snare Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart either looking love not or loving look not saith Isidore Come not neer the door of her house Prov. 5. 8. Occasion is lusts pander 7. Aske thy conscience whether it can presume to sin wittingly and willingly and whether it can be quiet in any known and unrepented sin if it be unquiet feare not this very unrest of conscience which so much affrighteth thee is a principal mark of a good conscience it is true as the women sang of Saul and David Saul hath slain his thousand but David his ten thousand so despair hath cast away some but presumption many thousands more 8. Hath not thy conscience at some times in some good measure been comforted by a sweet assurance of thy interest in Christ resolution to leave all thy sinnes peace with God and salvation by the merits of Christ wee must not alwaies judge of our state by present sense there are certaine houres of tentation wherein the light of grace is fearfully eclipsed to our sense and the stupid or afflicted conscience feeleth no present comfort of Gods spirit which yet in due time shall return and compensate our trials with greater advantage of assurance then wee had before 9. Lastly examine thy conscience whether that after thy fearful tryals and esteeme in the midst of them thy refuge be not to God in earnest and hearty prayer to have mercy on thee comfort and confirme thee yea sometimes when hee hath not for a long season shewed thee any countenance and seemed to reject and not regard thy earnest supplications thou hast resolved not to give over crying unto him but with Jacob thy soule hath said I will not let thee go untill thou blesse mee Happy man hee that gave thee that spirit of praier and perseverance will assuredly hear thee as he did the Cunanitish woman and accomplish his work in thy salvation The conclusions necessary to be considered hereto are 1. God's judgements are ever just I when flesh and blood say with Nicodemus How can these things be when thee too curious inquests after them are to be stayed with a Nay but O man who art thou that repliest against God and so also his mercies are as the unsounded déepes beyond all apprehension of carnal reason often curing by wounding and afllicting the guilty conscience comforting by terrifying bringing to glory and immortality through corruption killing sinne in the flesh by death the fruit of sinne and bringing to heaven as I may say by the gates of hell and feare of damnation 2. The most grievous sinnes committed in ignorance and unbeliefe after repentance are no arguments to despair Neither fornicators idolaters theeves covetous drunkards revilers nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of heaven and such were some of you but yee are washed but yee are sanctified but yee are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the spirit of our God Paul was a blasphemer persecuter and injurious man but
he may neither perplexe nor disturb it Lord whose providence sleepth not preserve us and ours sleeping waking living and dying that in every estate it may appeare wee are thine through Jesus Christ our Lord. AMEN The prayer of a wounded spirit against temptations O Lord God Almighty all-seeing examiner of the heart and reines who knowest before wee aske what wee have need of who by thy holy spirit helpest our infirmities who know not what to pray as wee ought and thereby makest requests for us according to thy will with nnutterable groanes which thou only understandest helpe my infirmities endite my praiers and restraine the busie malice of the tempter Direct my praiers as incense in thy sight let them come into thy presence through Jesus Christ our onely redeemer and advocate Trueth it is O Lord that all things shall worke together for the best to them that love thee and are called according to thy purpose for thou hast said it and that it shall be good for mee which thou doest to mee I am confident O my God that it shall once appeare that it is happy for mee that I have been in trouble when after the tryal of my faith and exercise of my patience thou shalt give mee the quiet fruits of righteousnesse I beleeve that they shall not finally miscarry who trust in thy mercy this is the voice of my faith in thee whom I beleeve and know to be the God of trueth but O Lord thou best knowest that I am also fraile flesh and blood full of infirmities feares doubtings and failings because mine iniquities have taken such hold on mee that I cannot looke up they are more in number then the haires of my head so that my heart faileth mee neither have I to deale with flesh and blood onely Lord thou knowest those unseen powers of darknesse which wth restlesse encounters assault my soule to destroy it O Lord God of my salvation be not thou farre from mee shew thy power and deliâ—iver mee from the messengers of Satan which are too mighty for mee rescue mee bridle their insolent malice binde the stâ—ong man and deliver thy vessel from his usurping tyranny that I may in every faculty of my soule serve and please thee pardon all my sinnes for thy holy sonne Jesus sake who died for mee heale my wounded soule which hath to the present sorrow of my heart so often sinned against thee hide not thy face from mee in the time of my trouble forget not my bitter affliction which maketh mee goe mourning all the day long while the insulting enemy oppresseth mee thou art my King command deliverances I am poore and needy destitute of helpe and strength to resist Satan's fiery darts put thy whole armour upon mee that I may be able to stand arise for my helpe O thou Preserver of men redeeme mee from the devouring lyons mouth for for thy mercy sake thinke upon mee make haste to helpe mee make no long tarrying O my God suffer mee not for any tryals to fall from thee lay no more upon mee then thou wilt give mee strength patience and perseverance to beare cheerfully confirme mee unto my end that I may be blamelesse unto the day of our Lord Christ give mee a blessed effect of and issue out of every tryal that the more thou permittest mee hereto the more certaine experience I may have of thy mercy and the greater assurance that thou wilt never faile mee nor forsake mee that I may through him who hath by suffering vanquished death hell and him who had the power of death overcome all these spiritual wickednesses which fight against my soule I have trusted onely in thy mercy holy Father who hast ordained strength in the mouths of babes and inâ—â—â—s strengthen mee unto the end that my heart may rejoyce in the salvation spare mee that I may recover my strength put thou a new song into my mouth that I may praise thee for my deliverance and declare unto afflicted sinners what thou hast done for my soule Lord heare mee and have mercy upon mee Lord who art ever more ready to give then wee can be to aske deny not the requests of a poore sinful soule crying unto thee for Jesus Christ his sake our only Lord and Saviour AMEN CHAP. XXIX Concerning the guidance of the minde in the encrease of wealth § 1. Afflictions common their fruit in good men Poverty a great tryall riches great temptations commonly mistaken § 2. How to guide thy selfe in the encrease of riches or a full inheritance 1. TEmporal afflictions are common to the just and wicked wee are here like the clean and unclean in Noah's ark shut up in one condition into afflictions wee goe like Israël and the Egyptians into the red-sea to events most contrary deliverance or destruction to the saint they are but as the raine to the arke the more it fell the more that was lifted up Being sanctified they give understanding and are though rough-handed yet excellent masters of vertue like biting frosts to the trees restraining the luxuriant sap and rendring them more fruitfull 2. Among other afflictions in this life want and poverty as among temptations wealth is not the least These are commonly the minds Scylla and Charybdis the two great and antient diseases of Republicks Families and incautious soules there being great hazard in either concludeth a necessity of a right guidance of the minde herein so great as that the wise man deprecated both extreames Give mee not poverty nor riches Having spoken of those things which appertain to man are in man or incident to him within it is requisite that wee consider him in the discomposures which proceed from things external as poverty imprisonment banishment old age sicknesse and death In these first estates which I proposed my purpose is to lay down some rules directing how happily to use the one and bear the other 3. Because riches are great temptations and men are commonly deceived in judging of them too much admiring and affecting these and as much impatient of poverty whereas indeed they are neither absolutely good nor alwaies signes of an happy owner but good or evil according to their use and therefore are they commonly evil because as Aristides said Many use riches ill few can well therefore it highly concerneth those who enjoy encrease or great riches to mark and practice these and the like rules 1. If riches encrease set not your heart thereon Psal 62. 10. where they have the heart there is no place for faith charity humility equity modesty or honesty He saith not Get not riches but set not your heart upon them for so they carry it away from God many of the Saints have been rich but their rule was not to trust in uncertain riches all earthly possessions often change their owners often desert and leave them to wants The heathen Solon told Croesus as much though he could not beleeve
and how canst thou correct thy children for imitating thee when thou doest worst in teaching by example When they learne cursing swearing profanation intemperance rude and foul language which hath cost many a life obscence and â—ilthy talke irreligion and neglect of all good duties from parents they think themselves justified by their sins Hence usually is hatched an evil egge of a bad bird a corrupt and cursed seed Hence cometh it to passe that children doe not more commonly inherit their fathers patrimonies then their vices and sooner are they possessed of these then them those come to them after their fathers death these in their life so have they descended to them true vices before those things which are but falsly called good Woe worth such parents and miserable are their children beyond those who by their parents impious superstition passed through those Moloch flames wherein a soon dying body perished but here is the danger of body and soul eternally perishing in hells unquenchable fire The heathen would have taught these seeming Christians better Let nothing said he uncomely to be spoken or done so much as touch these doors within which there is a childe If any evil in thy family happen to be done it ought with much discretion to be drawn to a present example of detestation of that sinne as the Spartans woont to shew their drunken servants to their children that by their discomposed deportments and loathsome deformity they might learn to detest drunkennesse 10. Pray continually for thy children O that Ismaël might live in thy sight cryed Abraham Gen. 17. 18. Job rose up early every day to sacrifice for his sonnes lest they should beare some inexpiated sinnes Job 1. 5. Thine owne experience of the folly and frailty of youth their ignorance pronenesse to error and sinne their many dangerous temptations should stirre up thy natural affâ—ctions to this duety unexcusable before God are they that neglect it and damnable they who instead of praying for them curse them on inconsiderable and lesse grounds then that which instigated Micha's mother thereto Jud. 17. 2. No wonder said the heathen that so many children prove impious seeing they grow up among their parents curses It is true the causelesse curse shall not come and that God can turn a Balaam's curse into a blessing yet Jotham's curse fell on the wicked Shechemites and heavily fell good Noah's on Cham and his posterity yea impious parents commonly see the fruits of their rash curses in their childrens ruine 11. Look on thy children as the blessings which God hath given thee we are all the sonnes of Time which devoureth all it own brood we have here â—o continuing city wee must all part again until wee meet in eternity when God took away Job's dear children he said The Lord gave and the Lord hath taken away blessed be the name of the Lord It is no little bitternesse to flesh and blood to loose hopeful children but we must in such case consider how much more happy they who rest in Christ are then we who survive to mourne for them It is one of the most incongruous acts of a reasonable soule to bewaile those whom wee beleeve blessed Next we must consider God's justice afflicting us for loving things humane too much and his mercy in taking them away from evils to come disburdening us of the care he entrusted to us for a time nor can any say what a childe may prove there are Adoniahs and Absoloms still sweet children but rebellious men there are lovely Dinahs and fair Tamars pleasant children but in their maturity bitter break-hearts Neither may wee sorrow as men without hope wee have not lost them but their company for a time David who bewailed an impious sonne bitterly comforted himself in the death of his harmless infant I shall go to him he shall not return to me Do not deceive thy self God hath given thee a short use not any lasting propriety in things secular when they told a prudent heathen of his deare sonnes death he replyed I knew I had begotten a mortal sonne Thou canst not want examples of mortality in thine own family wherein thou missest many of thy Ancestors and friends let nothing seem unsufferable or strange to thee which is both common and inevitable be sure thou want not the true use thereof which is a due value of all things present and making haste to provide thy selfe and children for a better life in the want of a good childe rather rejoice that thou hadst such an one then lament that hee is gone into God's kingdome of glory before thee while thou enjoyest their company remember to instruct them for eternity he said true An aged father is a fugitive pleasure and so are yong children thou knowest not when they goe out of thy sight whether ever thou shalt see them again till thou meet them in the kingdom of heaven there all teares shall be wiped from thine eies there shall be no more sinne sorrow curse nor fear of deaths parting deare friends there shall be blessednesse without measure or end A Parents praier for his Children O Lord God everlasting father of mercy of whom is named the whole family in heaven and earth abundant in goodnesse and trueth shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love thee and keep thy commandements Give mee grace to be upright and holy before thee that it may according to thy promise who canst not deceive go well with me and my children after mee Thou who art the God of my fathers and hast preserved me from my mothers womb who hast blessings in store for all that fear thee for their generations who depend on thee plant thy fear in every one of their hearts and sanctifie them bodies and soules whom thou hast given mee so that in whatsoever state and condition thy providence shall set them it may be my comfort and assurance that they are thy faithful and elect servants that thou maist be pleased to dispose of them as thine own to their several places and callings to which thy fatherly providence hath assigned them Lord season their tender years with grace and trueth help them and blesse them with blessings of heaven above and the earth beneath and let my blessings prevail above the blessings of my fathers give them assurance of their adoption in Christ Jesus keep them and order their steps in the way which thou wouldst have them walke in let thy faithfulnesse and mercy be with them all the daies of their lives be thou a father and rock of salvation unto them keep them by thy sanctifying spirit holy and sincere before thee uphold them that their foot-steps slip not be thou the guide of their youth keep their tender years from sinne and shame take not thy mercy and thy trueth from them preserve them from the houre of tentation in life and
death from the power of sin the snares of Satan the world and the flesh heare the voice of their praiers when they cry unto thee helpe them against all their enemies blesse their substance and accept the worke of their hands be thou ever their refuge and save them Thou who dividest the earth among the sonnes of men whose providence descendeth unto the feeding and preserving the poorest of thy creatures feed them with bread of their stature thou who encreasedst the oile and the meale so that it failed not in all the famine whether it be much or little which thou shalt be pleased to give them let thy blessing be with it that in every estate they may faithfully depend on thy gracious providence which never faileth them that trust in thee and finde such a sufficiency therein that they may live cheerfully and contentedly that they may never want that which thou knowest necessary and comfortable for their bodies and soules Lord give them hearts faithfully to seek thy kingdome and the righteousnesse thereof that all these things may be administred unto them O Lord God who hast promised to be a father of the fatherlesse who hast planted thine owne image of love and compassion in the hearts of parents towards their children heare the praiers of a poore father for his children and deny not the requests of my lips when thou shalt be pleased to take me from them leave them not destitute shew thy selfe their keeper directer and counseller that they may never swerve from thy commandements as thou hast shewed me mercy and compassion all my daies so holy father let not thy mercy depart from them but keep them in thy faith fear and love that as thy providence hath brought us together in this family so when this mortal life shall be ended we may by thy mercy all happily meet in the eternal communion of Saints in thy kingdome of glory through Jesus Christ our Lord and onely Saviour AMEN 1. The crown of the aged is children and the duety of children toward their parents is honor reverence fear obedience gratitude châ—erishing them in their age love and patience all this is comprehended in the fifth precept of Gods law honour thy father and thy mother who are comprehended under these titles I have already shewed I have here to speak of duety to parents 2. These rules of practice are hereto observable for the guidance of those children which feare the Lord and expect the promise their made to the obedient 1. Honor thy father and mother it is Gods expresse command and a dictate of nataâ—e this importeth reverence in thy bodily gesture before them as King Solomon rose upto meet his mother Bath-sheba and bowed himself vnto her as Moses went out to meet his father in law and did obeisance reverence in thy speech toward them and thy behaviour before them that it be not rude and such as becometh not the presence of those whom God will have honored as his vicegerents in the family So saith the Apostle Wee have had fathers of the flesh and wee gave them reverence none but a cursed Cham will behave himselfe unreverently before his father or mother or any waies tell or discover their failings to discredit or dishonor them but will goe with blessed Shem and Japhet with the vaile of discreet piety to conceale them Glory not in the dishonor of thy father saith the sonne of Sirach for thy fathers dishonor is no glory unto thee for the glory of a man is from the honor of his father and a mother in dishonor is a reproach to the children When God commanded Israel to be holy hee thus beginneth Ye shall fear every man his mother and father here indeed religion beginneth toward those whom God hath set in his own room on earth to nourish and give lawes to them and to receive their first tribute of obedience due to him by them there is little hope of it when it here blasteth in the bud the breach of this law carrying a fearefull curse with it as being a sinne against God and nature therefore the heathen Decius when he was offered the imperial crown refused it saying I fear lest being made an Emperour I should forget to be a sonne I had rather be a dutiful son then an Emperour let my father rule my Empire is to obey 2. Obey thy parents in all things not prohibited by God Hearken unto thy father that begat thee Forsake not the law of thy mother Children obey your parents in all things 3. Patiently beare their infirmities where age maketh them pettish where they erre not gain-saying or answering againe contend not irreverently with them though thou art in the right when they are angry with thee overcome that anger with patience 4. Be such to thy parents as thou wouldst have thy children to thee commonly it will be so an evil sonne seldom proveth an happy father Whoso honoreth his father shall have joy of his own children but as God rewardeth the duety of children according to his promise so will he their impiety and disobedience according to his justice because hee is true in both all sinnes have their severe punishments following them and when God's justice is most slow it is most sure but there are some sins which are more destructive to humane society which God the preserver thereof usually punisheth in this life that hee may deterre men from committing them so it is observable that cruelty oppression and murder seldome goe unpunished here but most closely acted sometimes they are discovered by extraordinary meanes and disobedience to parents may hence appeare odious to God and man that it is commonly punished by the like deportments of their children an example thereof is commonly found in every family of the disobedient O Sonne cryed the father beaten and dragged out of doors by the haire of the head draw mee no further for thus farre I drew my father 5. Love thy parents tenderly though the reflexes of this love are not so strong yet doe them all the good thou canst love them next after Christ above him thou maiest not No man can requite his parents and teachers yet shew thy love and gratitude to them if they want nourish them so did good Joseph so tender ought thy care to be of them that it should be thy grief if thou do any waies grieve them My son help thy father in his age and grieve him not as long as he liveth Thou must be cheerful to them not violate this piety so much as with an ill looke A necessary document for those prodigals which will not be warned from ryot and lewd company until they bring their parents hoary head with sorrow to the grave and necessity bring them home in rags as also to the profane Esaus whose impious matches are a griefe of minde unto Isaac and make