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A19453 The court of good counsell VVherein is set downe the true rules, how a man should choose a good wife from a bad, and a woman a good husband from a bad. Wherein is also expressed, the great care that parents should haue, for the bestowing of their children in mariage: and likewise how children ought to behaue themselues towardes their parents: and how maisters ought to gouerne their seruants, and how seruants ought to be obedient towards their maisters. Set forth as a patterne, for all people to learne wit by: published by one that hath dearely bought it by experience. Guazzo, Stefano, 1530-1593. Civil conversatione. 1607 (1607) STC 5876; ESTC S105096 41,315 73

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your_o worship_n in_o all_o duty_n w._n b._n here_o begin_v the_o table_n of_o this_o book_n chap._n i._n certain_a reason_n entreat_v of_o the_o great_a and_o comfortable_a joy_n of_o marriage_n if_o the_o same_o be_v due_o and_o right_o regard_v as_o they_o ought_v to_o be_v chap._n ii_o how_o that_o oftentimes_o wise_a parent_n may_v have_v foolish_a child_n and_o foolish_a parent_n wise_a child_n and_o how_o that_o oftentimes_o rich_a man_n child_n be_v leave_v rich_a become_v poor_a and_o poor_a man_n child_n become_v rich_a chap._n iii_o what_o great_a care_n a_o man_n ought_v to_o have_v in_o the_o choice_n of_o his_o wife_n and_o what_o circumspection_n ought_v to_o be_v have_v therein_o likewise_o show_v that_o many_o mischance_n often_o happen_v to_o the_o child_n through_o the_o manifold_a imperfection_n of_o the_o parent_n chap._n four_o how_o a_o untoward_a young_a woman_n or_o a_o wanton_a wife_n may_v be_v easy_o govern_v by_o her_o husband_n if_o she_o have_v any_o good_a nature_n or_o modesty_n in_o she_o at_o all_o especial_o if_o the_o man_n himself_o be_v of_o any_o reasonable_a government_n chap._n v._n when_o a_o man_n or_o woman_n have_v be_v once_o marry_v and_o afterward_o become_v a_o widower_n or_o a_o widow_n again_o what_o great_a inconvenience_n happen_v often_o to_o the_o child_n by_o stepmother_n especial_o if_o that_o both_o the_o parent_n do_v not_o agree_v well_o together_o chap._n vi_o here_o follow_v the_o manner_n of_o life_n that_o aught_o to_o be_v observe_v and_o keep_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n and_o how_o a_o man_n be_v better_a to_o choose_v a_o young_a wife_n than_o one_o that_o be_v age_v chap._n vii_o how_o some_o sort_n of_o man_n by_o give_v of_o their_o wife_n overmuch_o liberty_n do_v persuade_v themselves_o that_o that_o be_v the_o next_o way_n to_o make_v they_o honest_a chap._n viii_o of_o the_o great_a care_n that_o every_o husband_n ought_v to_o have_v for_o the_o keep_n and_o maintain_v of_o his_o wife_n whereby_o that_o through_o want_n she_o be_v not_o drive_v to_o alter_v her_o manner_n and_o condition_n chap._n ix_o herein_o be_v show_v the_o lone_a and_o obedience_n of_o the_o wife_n towards_o her_o husband_n and_o how_o that_o a_o woman_n that_o regard_v she_o own_o credit_n aught_o to_o refuse_v the_o company_n of_o a_o woman_n that_o have_v a_o ill_a name_n or_o deserve_v any_o cause_n of_o suspicion_n chap._n x._o a_o admonition_n to_o the_o wise_a and_o discreet_a woman_n how_o to_o govern_v herself_o show_v that_o chastity_n join_v with_o vanity_n deserve_v no_o commendation_n at_o all_o and_o how_o many_o woman_n give_v occasion_n to_o beil_v think_v of_o for_o these_o four_o cause_n follow_v viz_n deed_n look_n word_n and_o apparel_n chap._n xi_o how_o a_o woman_n ought_v not_o as_o near_o as_o she_o can_v give_v any_o occasion_n to_o her_o husband_n to_o provoke_v he_o to_o anger_n neither_o ought_v she_o to_o be_v jealous_a of_o he_o without_o great_a cause_n of_o desert_n show_v also_o that_o it_o be_v better_a to_o cover_v his_o fault_n then_o to_o disclose_v they_o chap._n xii_o hereafter_o follow_v certain_a admonishion_n how_o the_o wife_n may_v continue_v her_o love_n and_o goodwill_n towards_o her_o husband_n chap._n xiii_o of_o the_o conversation_n of_o parent_n towards_o their_o child_n and_o of_o the_o disagreement_n that_o oftentimes_o happen_v betwixt_o the_o father_n and_o the_o son_n chap._n xiiii_o of_o the_o great_a discomfort_n that_o child_n many_o time_n bring_v to_o their_o parent_n through_o their_o mis-deameanor_a towards_o they_o and_o of_o the_o evil_a success_n that_o oftentimes_o happen_v thereby_o chap._n xv._o wherein_o be_v show_v the_o occasion_n of_o the_o great_a difference_n that_o oftentimes_o happen_v between_o the_o parent_n &_o the_o child_n chap._n xvi_o of_o the_o great_a wisdom_n of_o man_n in_o get_v of_o riches_n and_o of_o the_o excellency_n of_o many_o good_a and_o learned_a master_n now_o in_o this_o age_n chap._n xvii_o of_o the_o evil_a success_n of_o many_o child_n through_o the_o imperfection_n of_o their_o parent_n chap._n xviii_o of_o the_o lewdness_n of_o many_o child_n through_o the_o want_n of_o their_o good_a bring_v up_o while_o they_o be_v young_a and_o of_o the_o over-fight_a of_o the_o parent_n in_o suffer_v of_o they_o to_o grow_v too_o old_a or_o stubborn_a before_o they_o break_v they_o of_o their_o obstinacy_n chap._n xix_o if_o a_o child_n be_v of_o never_o so_o good_a a_o wit_n yet_o for_o want_v of_o good_a bring_v up_o grow_v to_o be_v over_o headstrong_a and_o base_a in_o condition_n and_o this_o oftentimes_o fall_v out_o by_o the_o cocker_a of_o the_o parent_n chap._n xx._n of_o the_o great_a commendation_n of_o such_o parent_n as_o keep_v their_o child_n in_o awe_n while_o they_o be_v young_a chap_n xxi_o here_o follow_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o child_n towards_o the_o parent_n chap._n xxii_o of_o the_o diversity_n of_o the_o care_n that_o parent_n ought_v to_o take_v of_o their_o daughter_n in_o the_o bring_n up_o of_o they_o more_o than_o they_o take_v for_o the_o bring_n up_o of_o their_o son_n chap._n xxiii_o of_o the_o great_a disagreement_n and_o discontentment_n that_o oftentimes_o do_v happen_v between_o the_o master_n and_o the_o servant_n chap_n xxiiii_o of_o the_o impatience_n of_o some_o master_n towards_o their_o servant_n over_o other_o some_o chap._n xxv_o of_o the_o great_a abuse_n of_o some_o servant_n towards_o their_o master_n which_o be_v rather_o for_o want_v of_o wit_n then_o for_o any_o other_o cause_n chap._n xxvi_o how_o a_o servant_n may_v live_v quiet_o with_o his_o master_n if_o he_o be_v of_o any_o reasonable_a government_n chap._n xxvii_o how_o the_o master_n with_o good_a persuasion_n may_v govern_v his_o servant_n and_o in_o the_o obstinacy_n of_o his_o servant_n what_o will_v ensue_v unto_o he_o chap._n i._n the_o court_n of_o good_a council_n or_o certain_a reason_n entreat_v of_o the_o great_a and_o comfortable_a joy_n of_o marriage_n if_o the_o same_o be_v due_o &_o right_o regard_v as_o it_o ought_v to_o be_v the_o great_a joy_n and_o sweet_a comfort_n that_o a_o man_n may_v have_v in_o this_o world_n be_v a_o love_a kind_a and_o honest_a wife_n contrariwise_o there_o be_v no_o great_a plaque_v nor_o torment_n to_o his_o mind_n then_o to_o be_v match_v with_o a_o untoward_a wicked_a and_o dishonest_a woman_n therefore_o let_v he_o that_o intend_v to_o marry_v and_o fie_o himself_o to_o that_o honourable_a state_n of_o life_n be_v the_o first_o bargain_n of_o thirst_n and_o the_o first_o step_n to_o good_a husbandry_n take_v all_o the_o best_a counsel_n he_o can_v in_o the_o world_n in_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o wife_n yet_o scarce_o sufficient_a enough_o for_o be_v once_o do_v it_o can_v never_o be_v recall_v but_o
both_o think_v that_o some_o fault_n must_v be_v bear_v withal_o on_o both_o side_n which_o consideration_n the_o servant_n not_o only_o aught_o to_o have_v remember_v that_o it_o be_v his_o duty_n to_o submit_v himself_o to_o the_o will_n and_o pleasure_n of_o his_o master_n but_o the_o master_n much_o more_o know_v that_o servant_n be_v for_o the_o most_o part_n of_o base_a condition_n and_o natural_o incline_v to_o do_v ill_a will_v not_o have_v that_o fidelity_n diligence_n and_o affection_n towards_o he_o as_o he_o will_v have_v towards_o any_o prince_n that_o he_o shall_v serve_v and_o consider_v that_o it_o be_v better_o for_o he_o to_o wink_v at_o some_o fault_n in_o his_o servant_n then_o to_o disquiet_v himself_o in_o go_v about_o to_o reform_v they_o chap._n xxv_o ¶_o of_o the_o great_a abuse_n of_o some_o servant_n towards_o their_o master_n which_o be_v rather_o for_o want_v of_o wit_n then_o for_o any_o other_o cause_n there_o be_v some_o servant_n i_o know_v who_o in_o their_o master_n presence_n look_v as_o though_o butter_n will_v not_o melt_v in_o their_o mouth_n but_o out_o of_o their_o sight_n they_o will_v play_v their_o part_n kind_o yea_o and_o will_v not_o stick_v to_o make_v moe_n at_o their_o master_n behind_o his_o back_n ●nt_v the_o master_n must_v not_o in_o any_o wise_a suffer_v his_o servant_n to_o commit_v either_o in_o word_n or_o deed_n any_o fault_n whereby_o god_n himself_o or_o his_o neighbour_n may_v be_v dishonour_v give_v they_o to_o understand_v that_o he_o will_v entertain_v no_o naughtynesse_n in_o his_o house_n but_o that_o he_o hate_v it_o mostal_o whereby_o though_o he_o be_v not_o able_a to_o root_v out_o their_o wickedness_n yet_o at_o least_o be_v will_v do_v his_o best_a endeau●our_n to_o make_v thou_o honest_a and_o to_o fear_v god_n touch_v some_o other_o natural_a imperfection_n of_o small_a importance_n as_o to_o be_v rude_a soolish_a undiscreete_a crasty_a forgetful_a quarelon_n spiteful_a negligent_a and_o such_o like_a they_o ought_v to_o be_v bear_v withal_o if_o they_o can_v be_v reclaim_v from_o they_o though_o for_o my_o part_n i_o think_v such_o servant_n better_o lose_v then_o find_v and_o the_o house_n it●_n worse_o that_o they_o be_v in_o yet_o i_o know_v some_o honest_a gentleman_n who_o so_o long_o as_o their_o seruavant_n be_v trusty_a and_o faithful_a care_v not_o though_o they_o be_v soolt_n or_o ●esters_n to_o make_v they_o merry_a there_o be_v likewise_o some_o master_n who_o when_o their_o servant_n take_v their_o pleasure_n of_o they_o with_o mock_n and_o scoff_n rather_o take_v pleasure_n in_o it_o then_o seem_v angry_a with_o they_o ●ike_o as_o he_o who_o call_v his_o servant_n king_n of_o fool_n who_o answer_v i_o will_v to_o bed_n i_o be_v king_n of_o soole_n i_o will_v net_n doubt_v then_o but_o i_o shall_v bear_v rule_n ever_o he_o which_o be_v better_o than_o myself_o this_o servant_n be_v without_o doubt_n profitable_a unto_o he_o or_o else_o be_v will_v not_o have_v take_v this_o scoff_n at_o his_o band_n but_o for_o all_o that_o all_o master_n be_v not_o so_o make_v mind_v to_o be_v serve_v with_o such_o man_n nor_o all_o servant_n so_o happy_a to_o meet_v with_o such_o master_n therefore_o i_o will_v set_v down_o some_o such_o order_n that_o the_o master_n and_o the_o servant_n may_v live_v and_o continue_v long_a time_n quiet_o together_o chap._n xxvi_o ¶_o how_o a_o servant_n may_v live_v quiet_o with_o his_o master_n if_o he_o be_v of_o any_o reasonable_a government_n first_o of_o all_o i_o think_v it_o necessary_a that_o be_v which_o do_v desire_n to_o be_v well_o serve_v require_v in_o his_o servant_n three_o special_a thing_n that_o be_v to_o say_v love_n loyalty_n and_o sufficiency_n &_o such_o a_o one_o that_o a_o master_n shall_v east_o come_v by_o which_o will_v show_v himself_o to_o be_v a_o good_a and_o loo_v master_n follow_v the_o commandment_n of_o the_o wise_a man_n love_v he_o who_o thou_o noutishe_v and_o he_o shall_v be_v force_v to_o love_v thou_o again_o if_o master_n will_v but_o think_v that_o servant_n be_v man_n and_o their_o humble_a friend_n they_o shall_v win_v their_o good_a will_n and_o encourage_v they_o to_o do_v diligent_a service_n but_o withal_o i_o hold_v well_o that_o the_o master_n keep_v his_o state_n and_o degree_n to_o love_v they_o well_o but_o not_o to_o embrace_v they_o for_o be_v haile-fellow_n well_o meet_v with_o his_o servant_n he_o shall_v show_v himself_o too_o low_a mindrd_n and_o not_o fit_a to_o command_v and_o to_o be_v as_o it_o be_v a_o servant_n with_o servant_n which_o will_v redound_v to_o his_o reproach_n beside_o he_o shall_v soon_o perceius_fw-la that_o too_o much_o familyarity_n will_v breed_v contempt_n and_o therefore_o man_n of_o judgement_n will_v behane_v themselves_o with_o their_o servant_n in_o such_o fort_n that_o they_o will_v nerth_o make_v they_o too_o sawey_a by_o overmuch_o familiarity_n nor_o to_o fearful_a by_o overmuch_o severity_n for_o in_o no_o wise_a let_v a_o master_n be_v terrible_a to_o his_o servant_n lest_o in_o forw_v still_o upon_o he_o he_o make_v he_o think_v that_o neither_o he_o love_v he_o nor_o like_v of_o his_o service_n which_o be_v the_o way_n quiterd_v disco●●rage_v he_o and_o yet_o in_o give_v good_a countenance_n to_o his_o servant_n be_v must_v be_v wary_a to_o observe_v fit_a time_n and_o place_n for_o as_o it_o beform_v the_o master_n abroad_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o stranger_n to_o cast_v a_o grave_n and_o sad_a look_n upon_o vis_fw-la servant_n so_o it_o be_v his_o part_n be_v at_o home_n in_o his_o own_o house_n to_o look_v more_o pleasant_o upon_o they_o and_o to_o speak_v more_o familiar_o unte_fw-mi they_o which_o be_v thing_n they_o love_v of_o life_n and_o be_v thereby_o encourage_v to_o do_v he_o good_a service_n chap._n xxvii_o ¶_o how_o the_o master_n with_o good_a persuasion_n may_v govern_v his_o servant_n and_o in_o the_o obstinacy_n of_o his_o servant_n what_o will_v ensue_v unto_o he_o you_o see_v here_o then_o that_o a_o master_n may_v with_o his_o honour_n show_v courtesy_n to_o his_o seruamt_n and_o thereby_o get_v their_o gadwil_n and_o love_n pet_n must_v be_v not_o persuade_v himself_o that_o his_o servant_n ought_v to_o discharge_v he_o of_o all_o his_o business_n but_o that_o he_o must_v take_v part_n with_o they_o &_o consider_v that_o it_o be_v no_o east_n matter_n to_o govern_v servant_n and_o that_o the_o great_a number_n be_v shall_v have_v the_o great_a will_v be_v his_o trouble_n to_o guide_v they_o for_o there_o fall_v out_o many_o household_n quarrel_n and_o contention_n where_o there_o be_v many_o servant_n he_o must_v also_o think_v that_o there_o be_v no_o servant_n so_o well_o frame_v to_o the_o service_n of_o other_o master_n but_o that_o he_o must_v be_v fain_o to_o receive_v new_a law_n of_o his_o new_a lord_n and_o therefore_o he_o must_v not_o think_v that_o at_o the_o first_o bash_v his_o servant_n be_v make_v to_o his_o bow_n but_o he_o must_v leisurely_o and_o patient_o let_v he_o understand_v his_o mind_n &_o to_o speak_v frae_o unto_o he_o as_o well_o to_o make_v he_o leave_v his_o old_a fashion_n which_o perchance_o be_v like_v not_o as_o to_o frame_v he_o to_o his_o own_o fancy_n and_o if_o i_o be_v to_o take_v a_o serunat_a i_o will_v rather_o choose_v a_o freshwater_n sowler_n which_o never_o have_v serve_v they_o one_o accustom_v of_o long_a time_n to_o service_n for_o those_o which_o have_v serve_v in_o many_o house_n have_v for_o the_o most_o part_n get_v the_o use_n of_o some_o ill_a quality_n which_o they_o will_v bare_o be_v bring_v to_o leave_v but_o one_o that_o be_v but_o raw_a in_o service_n show_v himself_o more_o tractable_a more_o gentle_a and_o more_o fit_a for_o all_o manner_n of_o service_n &_o the_o master_n common_o will_v be_v the_o better_o please_v with_o his_o goodwill_n then_o with_o the_o other_o skill_n for_o it_o be_v a_o thing_n too_o hard_o to_o change_v the_o manner_n of_o a_o old_a servant_n and_o yet_o a_o master_n for_o a_o time_n must_v be_v fain_o to_o use_v great_a patience_n and_o take_v great_a pain_n with_o a_o young_a servant_n but_o yet_o to_o avoid_v the_o more_o trouble_n let_v he_o be_v su●e_a to_o chase_v one_o of_o a_o good_a wit_n and_o fit_a for_o service_n this_o bring_v into_o my_o mind_n a_o pleasant_a story_n of_o a_o spanish_a gentleman_n that_o have_v one_o day_n good_a trial_n of_o the_o good_a wit_n of_o a_o new_a come_v servant_n which_o gentleman_n hang_v send_v his_o other_o servant_n about_o other_o business_n after_o be_v have_v mate_n ●un_v dress_v up_o the_o house_n be_v will_v he_o to_o cover_v the_o table_n which_o be_v do_v and_o though_o that_o day_n
he_o dine_v alone_o in_o his_o chan●●er_n yet_o his_o servant_n set_v two_o trencher_n on_o the_o the_o table_n and_o two_o stool_n the_o one_o against_o the_o other_o the_o gentleman_n say_v nothing_o to_o it_o but_o suspect_v the_o meaning_n of_o his_o new_a come_v man_n attended_z the_o end_n of_o the_o play_n meat_n be_v bring_v in_o so_o soon_o as_o his_o man_n bid_v give_v he_o water_n he_o wash_v and_o sit_v he_o down_o which_o he_o bid_v no_o soon_o do_v but_o his_o man_n have_v likewise_o wash_v sit_v he_o down_o right_o over_o against_o he_o the_o gentleman_n be_v natural_o eluen_v to_o be_v merry_a keep_v his_o countenance_n and_o let_v his_o man_n alone_o have_v eat_v a_o while_n friendly_a together_o the_o man_n begin_v to_o think_v he_o how_o his_o master_n may_v perchannce_n be_v a_o thirst_n whereupon_o be_v sait_fw-fr master_n when_o you_o will_v orinke_v i_o pray_v you_o make_v courtesy_n to_o command_v i_o whereat_o the_o gentleman_n lought_v so_o hearty_o that_o 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master_n fancy_n let_v he_o sake_n to_o depart_v rather_o from_o he_o with_o his_o goodwill_n then_o with_o his_o ill_n and_o when_o he_o see_v that_o he_o be_v in_o his_o master_n book_n let_v he_o there_o hold_v he_o say_v in_o his_o bart_n happy_a be_v be_v who_o serve_v the_o happy_a and_o not_o seek_v to_o channge_v remember_v that_o the_o roll_a stone_n gather_v no_o moss_n then_o let_v there_o be_v no_o want_n find_v in_o he_o of_o love_n of_o reverence_n of_o faithfulness_n of_o diligence_n of_o readiness_n and_o of_o secretness_n let_v he_o not_o account_v of_o his_o own_o life_n be_v in_o his_o master_n service_n but_o to_o conclude_v there_o be_v one_o service_n which_o exceed_v all_o the_o other_o which_o be_v the_o service_n of_o the_o king_n of_o glory_n and_o those_o servant_n which_o enter_v into_o that_o kind_n of_o service_n do_v no_o doubt_n love_v well_o both_o the_o master_n and_o the_o service_n in_o which_o bless_a service_n the_o lord_n of_o all_o lord_n make_v we_o all_o diligent_a servant_n amen_n finis_fw-la
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a_o certain_a natural_a amity_n but_o rather_o we_o must_v consider_v that_o man_n be_v not_o make_v of_o the_o woman_n but_o the_o woman_n of_o the_o man_n and_o be_v take_v not_o out_o of_o the_o head_n that_o she_o shall_v bear_v rule_n over_o man_n nor_o out_o of_o the_o foot_n that_o she_o shall_v be_v tread_v down_o by_o he_o but_o out_o of_o the_o side_n where_o be_v the_o seat_n of_o the_o heart_n to_o the_o end_n he_o shall_v love_v she_o hearty_o and_o as_o his_o own_o self_n chap._n viii_o ¶_o of_o the_o great_a care_n that_o every_o husband_n ought_v to_o have_v for_o the_o keep_n and_o maintain_v of_o his_o wife_n whereby_o that_o through_o want_n she_o be_v not_o drive_v to_o alter_v her_o manner_n and_o condition_n the_o husband_n likewise_o must_v provide_v to_o satisfy_v the_o honest_a destres_z of_o his_o wife_n so_o that_o neither_o by_o necessuse_n nor_o super_fw-la fluitie_n she_o be_v provoke_v to_o dishonesty_n and_o he_o must_v remember_v that_o ease_n and_o 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lead_v with_o he_o therefore_o i_o will_v always_o have_v they_o show_v themselves_o to_o their_o wife_n both_o in_o speech_n and_o countenance_n gentle_a and_o a_o miable_a not_o make_v a_o jest_n at_o that_o reason_n which_o be_v allege_v by_o she_o although_o sometime_o it_o be_v clean_a contrary_n to_o his_o mind_n thus_o much_o have_v i_o speak_v touch_v the_o husband_n now_o will_v i_o speak_v of_o the_o charge_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o begin_v where_o as_o bode_v law_n command_v the_o wife_n not_o only_o to_o love_v her_o husband_n but_o beside_o to_o be_v subject_a and_o obedient_a to_o he_o and_o therefore_o they_o must_v be_v put_v in_o mind_n that_o the_o sage_a matron_n sara_n call_v her_o husband_n lord_n and_o master_n chap._n ix_o ¶_o herein_o be_v show_v the_o love_n and_o obedience_n of_o the_o wife_n towards_o her_o husband_n and_o how_o that_o a_o woman_n that_o regard_v she_o own_o credit_n aught_o to_o refuse_v the_o company_n of_o a_o woman_n that_o have_v a_o 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