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A39813 A fathers testament. Written long since for the benefit of the particular relations of the authour, Phin. Fletcher; sometime Minister of the Gospel at Hillgay in Norfolk. And now made publick at the desire of friends. Fletcher, Phineas, 1582-1650. 1670 (1670) Wing F1355; ESTC R201787 98,546 240

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or wantonness less dangerous or loathsome The more ye grow up to youth the more closely cleave to the guide of your youth Prov. 2.17 See Psal. 119.9 Lay neer to heart nay lock up in the midst of your heart all those precious counsels of that Eternal wisdom and your heavenly Father My Son give me thy heart and let thine eyes observe my wayes for a whore is ● deep ditch and a strange woman a narrow pitt Prov. 23.26 27. Read and even get by heart Prov. 2.23 to the end and 7. ch Were it possible to cut off your arm and to graft it into a Bear and the Bears leg into your shoulder how would your soul abhorr such an exchange How much worse is it to take the members of Christ and make them members of an harlot 1 Cor. 6.15 Be careful also and very watchful with all instance I charge you to avoid all single uncleanness Onans sin Gen. 38. which is the more dangerous as it is less regarded Give up your hearts day and night in prayer to God and put them into his hand importunately beseech him who keeps his Israel to watch over you and to fence you from tentation and looking up unto his gracious providence timely as God shall provide for you retire unto his Ordinance of marriage if the Lord endow you not with the gift of continence Remember your bo●dies and souls are espoused to Christ and the wife hath not power over her own body but t●e husband 1 Cor. 7.4 Offer up therefore your bodies to him as a living sacrifice Rom. 12.1 and glorifie him both in your bodies and spi●its for they are Gods 1 Cor. 6.20 Lastly in your estate this virtue will ●each you to pray as Agur Give me neither ●overtie nor riches ●eed me with food convenient for me lest I be full and deny thee and ●ay who is the Lord or lest I be poor and steal ●●d take the name of my God in vain Prov. ●0 8 9. A great sayl to a little boat is more ●angerous than helpful That Philosopher in ●is Poetrie will teach you Boetius Libr. 2. Metr 4. If safe thou wouldst and quiet dwell Re●use a Palace chuse a cell Wouldst thou burn out thy fenced light In peace when winds storms tempests fight Wouldst thou despise the curl'd-head waves And laugh when gaping Neptune raves Let not thy house on mountains soar Trust not the swilling spewing shore There envious winds and spiteful blasts Reign rage and tear there nothing lasts Here sinking earth and bibbing sands B●tray the weight here nothing stands Climb not aloft to seek f●esh ayer Or pleasant seat build sure not fair The lowly Rock make thy foundation A strong a lasting situ●ation When thundring storms with ruins fill The pleasant shore and mounting hill Lodgd in thy trenches safely lying Fierce winds and ●oming seas defying Safe maist thou mock the angry skie And quiet live and quiet dy This was the first branch of holiness Sobrietie CAP. XVIII What is the Second THe second branch is Righteousness or Iustice that grace whereby We render to all their dues Rom. 13.7 not only which Civil but divine laws prescribe And the fulfilling of all righteousness in one word is love Read Rom. 13.7 8 9 10. The object of love is general All men e●en enemies not excluded Matth. 5.44 The ●ubject or seat of love is not the mouth in ●omplement 1 Ioh. 3.18 but the heart ●ithout dissimulation Rom. 12.9 The mea●ure or quantitie must be dispensed accor●ing to those relations in which God hath ●ed us Some must have an higher place in ●ur hearts than others 1 Thes. 5.13 The ●ruit of love is doing good which must be ●rdered and distributed generally to all ●en specially to the houshold of faith Gal. ● 10 To handle all these particulars would ●k a large volume For that referring you 〈◊〉 your best Father and his divine instru●●ions fully set out unto you in his double● ●estament I desire to cull out some few d●●rections and commend them to your practice and his blessing In conversing with men look first to your heart secondly to your actions Cease from anger and forsake wrath Psal. 37.8 put it off Col. 3.8 Be not hasty in spirit to be angry Eccl. 7.9 for discretion in a man deferreth his anger Prov. 19.11 In anger si● not Eph. 4.26 Be sure the cause be just Matth. 5.22 and the extent justifiable for it rests in the bosome of fools Eccl. 7.9 and where it lodgeth all night it hath the Divel for a bedfellow Eph. 4.26 27. Hate nothing in any man but sin and his hate of God and therefore hate the sin because ye love the man and love the man to cast out that hate and plant in the love of God Fall not out with any man but so as to reconcile him to God See Lev. 19.17 Above all beware of repaying hate for love Psal. 109.5 and tremble to hate whom God loves Psal. 38.20 It is the brand and seal of Satan upon his cattel Have nothing at all to do with Envie Anger and Hatred may be and often are evil but Envie cannot be good Love can b● angry and love can hate but love cannot envie 1 Cor. 13.4 The mouth is the dore of life Prov. 13.3 ●●ep it therefore under lock and key Hel● it self is not a more proper shop of the Divel than a wicked mouth His special warehouse is a sinful heart and an evil mouth his shop where he readily vents his wares Thither he brings that fire of hell Jam. 3.6 Wicked lips are a burning fire Prov. 16.27 The tongue his hammer by which he frames those hellish weapons lies slanders mocks to sadd the hearts of the righteous to arm and strengthen the hands of the wicked Psal. 109.2 Remember the tongue is an unruly and untamed evil Jam. 3.8 Deal with it as that man after Gods own heart He watches it keeps it as with a bridle Psal. 39.1 But finding his own hand too weak he calls in better help Set a watch oh Lord before my mouth and keep the dore of my lips Psal. 141.3 Learn that excellent lesson Speak evil of no man Tit. 3.2 Iugde no man Rom. 14.13 Neither only keep your tongues from wounding other mens ears but barricado your ears also and keep out wicked tongues The ear is the hearts factour Prov. 18.15 and if the ear be naught neither heart nor hand is good for a wicked doer gives heed to false lips and a Lier gives ear to a naughty tongue Pro. 17.4 Love peace Zech. 8.19 follow peace with all men Heb. 12.14 yea all things which concern peace Rom. 14.19 If it be possible as much as lies in you have peace with all men Rom. 12.18 And if you dwell with them that hate peace be you for peace when they are for war Psal. 120.6 7. The world will advise you to take no wrong but God commands you to do none Ier. 22.3 Not to take wrong here
stormy ayers quiet stay Can Heavens find in swiftest raptures ease Has only man no Centre none to lay His weary soul to rest no place to ●ase His boundless thoughts Me thinks I see a ray A glorious b●●● break through Heav'ns Canopy Me thinks I hear a voice Come Soul and see Come here here lies thy rest rest in my word me V. It is thy lovely voice great Love oh where Where Lord of love where should I seek to find thee In every place I see thy footsteps cleer Yet find thee not what are the mi●●s that blind me I know Lord where thou art and seek thee there Yet there I find not thee before behind me On every side I see yet seeing blind I find not what I see but heark my mind He speaks again Soul seek seek thou and I will find A great encouragement which will much hearten us in this quest is that CAP. X. We shall certainly find when we rightly seek IF worldly and carnal men so zealously affect and hotly pursue their earthly objects the ambitious straining for honour till they crack their estates and brains in reaching after it and yet are often over-reached and lose their prize the covetous as horses drawing iniquity with Cart●ropes of vanity defrauding oppressing piercing their souls with many sorrows yet often put all their gains into a bag with holes Hag. 1.6 or at the least in their end are stript and turned out naked voluptuous persons hunt after pleasures till they run themselves off their leggs and are brought to a morsel of bread and yet commonly either lose their game or as that Huntsman are eaten up by their doggs how cheerfully should a Christian ●un his course in seeking that immortal honour of being a Son and Heir to the King of Kings those durable riches treasures laid ●p in Heaven those incorruptible pleasures which are at Gods right hand and press hard toward the ●●rk for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ which following he shall surely obtain and having obtained shall never lose Never did our gracious Lord command his poor creatures Seek ye the Lord in vain Isa. 49.15 he hath past his word that in seeking him we shall certainly find and i● finding him shall be ever blessed His word is his deed what he speaks is done what he commands stands fast Psal. 33.9 Be assured therefore if thou seek him ●e will be found of thee 1 Chron. 28.9 2 Chron. 15. ●● Matth. 7.7 If you seek for honour glory immortality you shall find eternal life Rom. 2●7 Thus hath he frequently promised and all his promises are Ye● and Amen in Christ 2 Cor. 1.20 Iudah sought ●im and found him 2 Chron. 15.15 Even Hypocrites find him and some favour with him when they seek even as much and as far as they seek● A●abs temporal humiliation obtained an answerable mercy 1 King 21.29 As long a● Vzziah sought God so long he prospered●● Chron. 26.5 It is an infallible dispensation of his Providence in general to give every man what he seeks He that seeketh good shall have favour and ●e that seeketh mischie● it shall come unto him Prov. 11.27 It cannot be otherwise For 1. 〈◊〉 ●st sui di●●usivum Good i● o● a spreading nature It cannot but com●unicate it self proportionably to the power which it hath and to the object which i● finds He is good and doth good Psal. 119.68 He is infinitely good and therefore infinitely communicates himself as well to the 〈◊〉 by generation as to the Holy Ghost by procession ye● finitely as they are capable to all his Creatures as well in their Creation making them very good Gen. 1.31 as in his providence and dispensation his open hand fills them with good Psal. 104.28 and man being created after his own image and after his ●all capable of the divine nature he offers and imparts it to them who takes his offer 2 Pet. 1.4 Secondly He is Love 1 Iohn 4●16 gracious Exod. 34.6 loving before above contrary to our deserving● Thi● love our Saviour thinks best to express in the relation of a Father Luk. 11.11 12 13● so loving that he waits to be gracious unto us Isa. 30.18 that he is found of those that seek him not and makes himself manife●● to those that ask not after him Rom. 10.20 so unexpressably and unconceivably loving that when he had bestowed all his Creatures upon us he yet satisfied not his love till he had given a gift fully proportionable to his incomprehensible love the Son of his love his only begotten that we being destroyed by our selves Hos. 13.9 migh● through him never perish being dead in our selves might have eternal life in him Ioh. 3.16 being enemies in our nature might be reconciled in him Rom. 5.10 Thirdly He is the Truth Joh. 14.6 How frequently hath he promised that if we seek we shall find as before and faithful is he that promiseth who will also do it 1 Thes. 5.24 Thus Mercy and Truth meet together Psal. 85.10 And to this purpose are they met fully to assure us of success in seeking Deut. 4.25 to the 32. And observe that when for their rebellion the Lord had scattered his revolting people among the Heathen and given them up to their whorish hearts to serve wood and stone yet even from thence when they shall seek the Lord they shall find him And what is the reason that after such bitter provocations he will be found of them in their deepest misery 1. His mercy for the Lord thy God is a merciful God he will not destroy thee 2. His truth and faithfulness nor forget the Covenant of thy Fathers which he swore unto them ver 31. How then should any poor soul that seeks with lo●ging miss in finding Thou lovest him he more infinitely loveth thee Thou seekest him he first seeketh thee Thou wouldst find him he will surely find thee thou desirest to meet him doth not he promise to meet thee Isa. 64.5 nay thou goest to meet him but he runneth to meet thee Luk. 15.18 20. But that cunning and lying Serpent and our own unbelieving hearts will put in a barr and lay a notable stumbling block in our way concerning this truth They will object It is not only apparent that many have not found the Lord who yet have earnestly sought but the Lord himself plainly testifies that many shall seek and not find Luk. 13.24 They shall go with their heards and with their flocks to seek the Lord and shall not find him Hos. 5. ● but we must know that as in other actions so in this that which is not right indeed is not It may seem to be but is not what it seems A lip-love is indeed no love 1 Ioh. 3.17 18. A dead faith no faith so that seeking which is not right is indeed no seeking What then is that right seeking to which God hath annexed this promise of finding Three things are necessarily required in seeking to make it
which was against us Col. 2.14 we were Captives 2 Tim. 2.26 he the Price of our Redemption Matth. 20.28 we were fools Tit. 3.3 he our wisdom 1 Cor. 1.30 we poor Rev. 3.17 he our Riches Col. 1.27 Rev. 3.18 we Vile Job 40.4 he our Praise and Glory Deut. 10.21 Luk. 2.32 we joyless our very joy madness Eccles. 2.2 he our exceeding joy Psal. 43.4 To conclude We dead Ephes. 2.1 he our Life Joh. 14.6 we Vanity at our best Psal. 39.5 and very nothing 2 Cor. 12.11 he All in all Col. 3.11 we empty he our fulness Ephes. 1.23 Oh that the Lord would embrighten our eyes to behold some sparks of this glorious excellency and our happiness in beholding it that the eyes of our understanding being opened we might know what is the hope of his calling and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the Saints Ephes. 1.18 If our God should create for us as many worlds as we could number what were all these Creatures in comparison of the Crea●our a drop of a bucket or the dust of the ballance Isa● 40.15 He is the glorious Spouse of ou● souls but all the Creatures his servants and in him ours Let him therefore be the Covering of our eyes unto all that are with us and with all others Gen. 20.16 upon him let us fasten our sight with all admiration and burning affection but on them in comparison of him let us look as upon loss and dung Phil. 3.8 A chaste Spouse will respect her servants and behold them in their affliction with pitty in their wants with mercy in their diligence and service with a kind acceptation but in competition with her husband if they would presume to be Rivals in his love and sharers of her heart and his bed with disdain scorn and hatred Let us therefore stir up and quicken our dull hearts with some such meditation I. How is 't my soul that thou giv'st eyes their sight To view their objects yet hast none To see thine own Earths ayers Heav'ns beauties they discern their light Fair flowers admires their several dresses Their golden tresses The Lilly Rose the various Tulip scorning The pride of Princes in their choice adorning II. They joy to view the ayers painted Nations The Peacocks train which th' head out vies With fairer eyes And emulats the heav'nly constellations The Ost●ich whose ●air plume embraves Kings Captains Slaves The Halcions whose Triton-bills appease Curl'd waves and with their Eggs lay stormy seas III. Pilots fixt eyes observe the Artick Bear With all her unwasht Starry trains In Heav'nly plains Night-Travellers behold the Moon to steer Her Ship sailing while Eol raves Through cloudy waves Our less Worlds sunns with pleasure view the light Which gives all beauties beauty them their sight IV. Thou that giv'st ●ight to clay to blackness light How ●rt so dull so dimm in duty To view his beauty Who quickens every life lights every light His height those Eagles eyes surpasses Thou wants thy glasses Take up that Perspective and view those streams O● light and fill thy waning Orb with beams V. Then see the flowers clad in his Liveries And from his cheek and lovely face Steal all their grace See Fouls from him borrow their braveries And all their feather-painted dresses From his fair tresses See Starrs and Moon the Sun and all per●ection Beg light and li●e from his bright eyes re●●ection VI. Look on his lipps heav'ns gate there open lies Thence that grace-breathing Spirit blows Thence honey flowes Look on his hands the Worlds full treasuries Fix all thy looks his heart upon Loves highest Throne And when thy sight that radiant beauty ble●rs And dazels thy weak eyes see with thine ears CAP. XII When our hearts are set upon our voyage we shall meet with opposition many rocks and Sirens in our passage BUT in this way to our happiness we shall meet with much opposition we cannot steal such a Nuptial if we will needs be walking in this way of life he that hath the power of death will beat us with many storms assault us with many encounters before we can land in the arms of Christ and be bedded in his bosome That great enemy of man Satan swells with spite and envy to see us presented with such an offer and ready to embrace it and therefore in his inveterate malice will not cease to cross us as he can in this blessed match and high advancement It bursts his gall to see us contracted unto the Lord Iesus us poor worms his captives● pluckt out of his chains and instantly draw● into a covenant of marriage with the Go● of Heaven to be admitted to such an union and fellowship instated in such a Jointure of divine glory and eternal happiness which he hath utterly lost Oh how can it but grate his heart and be another hell unto him who is so stuffed with malicious envy and envious malice against the Lord Iesus and his Spouse But as it is with those Locusts his venemous armie so is it with their Captain Rev. 9.19 His power is in his mouth and in his tail He is a Serpent more subtil than strong or strong only by subtilty His lying tongue and ●inful stinging tail is his mighty and almost only weapon Therefore in your passage to your Heavenly Spouse he sets many crafty Bauds and painted Harlots to lay wait for you at every corner Prov. 7.12 we have great need then to stand upon our watch and to set a strong and faithful guard at our gates our eyes ears c. lest as he beguiled Eve with his subtilty so he should corrupt our minds and inveigle us by those Strumpets whose hearts are nets and snares and whose hands bands Eccles. 7.26 That old Baud the world and her Pandar Satan have painted and drest up divers Harlots which attired in all deceitfulness of cunning allurements they present to our sight and so draw away the wandring heart and eye after lying vanities The Turks Saraglio is not so furnished with Concubines as this old Baud with filthy Stumpets some enticing the mind some the heart Of the former rank are numberless but beside those Triobolax and obsolete fit now to work only in gross darkness upon blind or mop-eyed creatures she hath newly trimmed up two notable Harlots The first is that State of Rome but so varied in unwonted tires so curiously painted by her last dresses the cunning Iesuits and turchest in new fashions that we have need of purged eyes and much intention to know her and to see her leprous hide plastered with fair colours The second is that daughter of old Pelagius which by abasing the grace of God in Gods election binding his choice to the works of men and advancing the power of man in mans election flattering him with false abilities of an unrenewed will perverts the right wayes of the Lord who hedging and walling us out of our wayes● and conducting us only in the way of
Psal. 73. vers 25 26. The heathens were not altogether ignorant of God his eternal power and Godhead Rom. 1.19 20. but our redemption by his Son our communion with him by his Spirit and consequently our salvation and blessedness by our union with him was wholly hid from them The necessity of this knowledg appears 1. By the miserie of ignorance without it the wisest are fools very Sots of no understanding Ier. 4.22 All sin and disobedience flows from want of this knowledg Ier. 9.3 Hos. 4.1 2 c. 2. By the happiness that follows it All grace attends it Faith Psal. 9.10 the whole new man Col. 3.10 2 Pet. 1.2 3. and all blessedness Ioh. 17.3 Certainly if the studie of men be above other natural studies oh what is the studie of God how pleasant how profitable Prov. 2.10 when sin affrights us how sweet the knowledg of his pardoning mercie Psal. 86.4 5. 103.11 when men are oppressed by tyrants how sweet the knowledg of his Justice Rev. 15.3 16.5 nay even in our humiliations for sin how doth the knowledg of his Justice and faithfulness refresh us 1 Ioh. 1.9 upon all occasions how com●ortable the knowledg of his power In temporal distresses Dan. 3.17 in spiritual as pardon Num. 14.17 subduing iniquities Mic. 7.18 19. in protecting from all evil and keeping us to eternitie Ioh. 10.29 1 Pet. 1.5 2. Secondly we must know him in our Judgments to prize him as he is even all things less than nothing in comparison of him Isa. 40.17 For him Abraham despises his Country Moses the treasures and pleasures of Egypt David regards nothing in Heaven or earth with him Psal. 73.25 26. Paul esteems all things dung and loss for the excellent knowledg of Christ Phil. 3.8 Hence all the Saints deny themselves and all for him and exalt him by their own abasement Kings will be vile to honour him 2 Sam. 6.22 Iohn Baptist contented to wane that he may appear in fulness Ioh. 3.13 Paul will be a servant to every man for his sake who is Lord of all 2 Cor. 4.5 They make their honour wait upon his Prov. 4.8 For they know He is their praise Deut. 10.21 They will cheerfully buy him with loss of all buy him at any price sell him at none Matth. 13.44 Prov. 23.23 If he calls for their pleasures profits credit life they part with all If he will have body and soul they will give him all and when they have done all and given all look upon this all as a very nothing The will also must know him to chuse take embrace him as he offers himself to us He proffers himself to be our Lord Exo. 6.6 to redeem us from all Usurpers to his service Luk. 1.74 75. to be our King Hos. 13.10 to govern us under his holy and wholesome laws He offers himself to be all to us our portion inheritance shield our exceeding great reward Ier. 10.16 Gen. 15.1 More particularly he offers himself in his persons to be to us 1. A Father Deut. 32.6 2 Cor. 6.17 18. 2. An Husband 2 Cor. 11.2 Hos. 2.19 20. the Saviour of his Spouse Eph. 5.23 3. To be our Quickner and Comforter Joh. 16.13 1 Cor. 15.45 Thus he offers himself to us and thus must we receive him as a child the Father to obey him as a wife her Husband to be subject unto him as a Body the Soul to be informed by him and in all things conformed to him Chuse him therefore as your support without him you can do nothing Ioh. 15.5 without him we are nothing at our best sheer vanitie Psal. 39.5 The very plants will teach us The weak Ivie and wood-bine c. conscious of their infirmitie clasp about the strong which may bear them up even dint the trees with their close embraces He is a Lord that in our service looks not to his own but his servants profit He needs not us but we him But why then doth he call and draw us to his service To make us blessed He taketh pleasure in the prosperitie of his servants Psal. 35.27 he delights to do us good Ier. 32.40 and to give us the Kingdom Luk. 12.32 Men grosly ignorant fouly misconceive of his service they look on it as cords and bonds but indeed there is nothing so blessed as it no blessedness but it Psal. 84.4 Oh the incomprehensible love in which he hath chosen us what was there in us worthy of his choice were we wise no we were foolish Tit. 3.3 were we strong no we were of no strength Rom. 5.6 were we noble no we were servants to lust to corruption to filthiness and most filthy in that ●ervice Tit. 3.3 2 Petr. 2.19 Psal. 14.3 were we any thing no we were very nothing ●nd to him less than nothing 2 Cor. 12.11 ●sa 40.17 yet hath God chosen the foolish ●hings of the world to confound the wise God ●ath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the mighty and the base things of the world and things despised hath God chosen yea and things that are not to bring to nought things that are 1 Cor. 1.27 28. But in him what is there which is not infinitely excellent infinitely desireable delectable s●all he then chuse such dung to be his children heirs his peculiar inheritance and should not we when he offers himself chuse him the glory of all glory to be our Father our Lord our Portion 4. The Affections also are said to know that which they love in which they delight and for which they longue we therefore must know God to love fear him delight in him and longue after him Frequently in every page of scripture me meet not only with Gods precepts in these duties but the Saints practice To provoke our hearts to love we must consider him 1. In himself He is good Psal. 100.5 only good Matth. 19.17 abundant in goodness Exo. 34.6 he is Love 1 Joh. 4.16 altogether lovely Cant. 5.16 2. In relation to us He is our Father Husband Life c. as before 3. in his dealing with us He hath manifested his love to us above all the works of his hands In our creation advanced us above all crowned us with glory Psal. 8.5 6. In our redemption preferred us above the Angels assuming ours and refusing their nature Heb. 2.16 Now then take great heed that your love be true Relative affection is not right if the measure be not right An Husband loved as another man is not loved as an Husband Admit no rival or partner in his love no creature not our selves must be preferred before him or equal'd to him we must love him more than life for his love is better than life Psal. 63.3 He our quickning Spirit we his body he our head we his members why should not the hand prefer the head or the body the soul before it self As we may love him for his gifts so much more for himself Stir up your unthankful nature to this