Selected quad for the lemma: love_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
love_n	church_n	husband_n	wife_n	4,571	5	7.5354	4	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A31438	Family reformation promoted in a sermon on Joshua, chap. 24. ver. 15. and by short catechismes fitted for the three-fold relations in a family of 1. Children and parents, 2. Servants and masters, 3. Husband and wife / by D. Cawdrey ...	Cawdrey, Daniel, 1588-1664.	1656 (1656)	Wing C1627; ESTC R5596	30,955	146

her_o honour_n 2._o equity_n as_o agreeable_a to_o the_o law_n of_o god_n of_o nature_n and_o to_o the_o gospel_n q._n what_o mean_v those_o word_n in_o the_o lord_n a._n it_o imply_v 1._o a_o limitation_n 2._o a_o direction_n and_o 3._o a_o motive_n q._n what_o be_v the_o limitation_n a._n a_o wife_n must_v submit_v and_o obey_v but_o in_o the_o lord_n that_o be_v in_o lawful_a thing_n q._n what_o be_v the_o direction_n a._n to_o do_v all_o her_o duty_n to_o her_o husband_n with_o a_o eye_n to_o the_o lord_n as_o unto_o christ_n eph._n 5.22_o q._n how_o be_v it_o a_o motive_n a._n 1._o in_o do_v her_o duty_n to_o her_o husband_n she_o do_v it_o to_o christ_n and_o he_o take_v it_o so_o 2._o in_o refuse_v or_o neglect_v it_o to_o he_o she_o do_v the_o same_o to_o christ_n chapter_n 7._o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n col._n 3.19_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n and_o be_v not_o bitter_a against_o they_o q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o this_o text_n a._n two_n 1._o the_o duty_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n 2._o the_o manner_n of_o performance_n with_o mildness_n express_v by_o forbid_v the_o contrary_a and_o be_v not_o bitter_a to_o they_o q._n why_o do_v the_o apostle_n comprehend_v the_o whole_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n in_o love_n 33._o eph._n 5.25_o 28_o 33._o a._n 1._o otherwise_o no_o duty_n can_v be_v well_o perform_v from_o one_o to_o another_o 1_o cor._n 16.14_o 2_o the_o wife_n be_v the_o chief_a object_n of_o love_n above_o friend_n child_n parent_n must_v leave_v all_o for_o she_o as_o she_o all_o for_o he_o therefore_o must_v love_v her_o most_o deut._n 13.6_o wife_n or_o his_o bosom_n 3_o lest_o his_o superiority_n and_o authority_n over_o she_o shall_v degenerate_v into_o tyranny_n 4_o she_z the_o weak_a sex_n and_o apt_a to_o offend_v but_o love_n will_v cover_v all_o 5_o to_o provoke_v she_o to_o love_v he_o because_o he_o first_o love_v she_o as_o christ_n the_o church_n q._n what_o particular_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n do_v proceed_v from_o love_n knowledge_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o according_a to_o knowledge_n a._n two_n 1._o a_o wife_n maintain_v of_o his_o authority_n 2._o a_o right_a manage_n of_o the_o same_o q._n why_o must_v a_o husband_n maintain_v his_o authority_n a._n 1._o this_o maintain_v god_n and_o christ_n authority_n who_o entrust_v he_o with_o it_o 2._o this_o most_o promote_v the_o good_a of_o his_o wife_n and_o the_o whole_a family_n q._n how_o may_v he_o maintain_v his_o authority_n a._n by_o be_v a_o example_n to_o they_o in_o love_n gravity_n piety_n honesty_n which_o cause_n a_o reverend_a respect_n in_o wife_n and_o family_n 1_o tim._n 4.2_o q._n how_o be_v this_o authority_n to_o be_v manage_v a._n 1._o by_o a_o tender_a respect_n of_o she_o 2._o by_o a_o provident_a care_n for_o she_o q._n what_o be_v that_o tender_a respect_n of_o she_o a._n it_o be_v either_o inward_a or_o outward_a q._n wherein_o consist_v his_o inward_a respect_n a._n 1._o in_o regard_n of_o his_o opinion_n of_o she_o 2._o in_o regard_n of_o his_o affection_n to_o she_o q._n what_o opinion_n must_v he_o have_v of_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o regard_n of_o her_o place_n she_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o give_v honour_n to_o she_o he_o must_v esteem_v she_o not_o as_o a_o servant_n but_o as_o his_o yoke-fellow_n and_o companion_n a_o little_a low_o than_o himself_o as_o near_o to_o equality_n 2._o in_o regard_n of_o her_o person_n so_o he_o must_v esteem_v his_o own_o wife_n fit_a and_o best_a for_o he_o as_o provide_v by_o god_n prov._n 19.14_o and_o 18.22_o q._n what_o affection_n must_v he_o bear_v to_o she_o a._n it_o must_v be_v with_o the_o great_a delight_n in_o she_o as_o the_o delight_n of_o his_o eye_n as_o ezek._n 24.19_o ravish_v modest_o with_o her_o love_n prov._n 5.18_o 19_o q._n wherein_o appear_v his_o outward_a respect_n a._n 1._o in_o avoid_v offence_n to_o she_o 2._o in_o wise_o order_v her_o offence_n to_o he_o q._n how_o may_v he_o avoid_v offence_n to_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o take_v her_o duty_n tender_v to_o he_o 2._o in_o tender_v his_o own_o to_o she_o q._n what_o be_v to_o be_v do_v in_o take_v she_o a._n 1._o a_o kind_a acceptation_n of_o it_o as_o abraham_n do_v sarahs_n gen._n 21.8_o 1_o sam._n 1.23_o 2._o commend_v and_o reward_v she_o for_o it_o as_o prov._n 31.28_o 31._o esth_n 5.3_o 1_o kin._n 1.28_o etc._n etc._n q._n how_o must_v he_o tender_v his_o duty_n to_o she_o to_o avoid_v offence_n a._n in_o mildness_n a_o special_a fruit_n of_o love_n which_o the_o apostle_n intend_v in_o these_o word_n be_v not_o bitter_a to_o they_o which_o be_v express_v 1_o in_o his_o speech_n whether_o give_v her_o title_n as_o wife_n love_n etc._n etc._n or_o instrution_n command_n or_o reproof_n all_o with_o meekness_n gal._n 6.1_o prov._n 25.15_o 2_o in_o his_o countenance_n which_o must_v be_v amiable_a and_o please_a 3_o in_o his_o gesture_n with_o a_o kind_n of_o modest_a familiarity_n as_o isaac_n to_o rebecca_n gen._n 26.8_o 4_o in_o his_o action_n by_o favour_n and_o gift_n as_o 1_o sam._n 1.4_o 5._o elkanah_n do_v to_o his_o q._n what_o be_v require_v in_o order_v her_o offence_n to_o he_o a._n to_o pass●_n they_o by_o with_o meekness_n and_o patient_o to_o bear_v with_o her_o weakness_n p●ov_n 19.11_o 1_o pet._n 3_o 7._o q._n wherein_o appear_v his_o provident_a care_n for_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o provide_v thing_n needful_a for_o she_o as_o her_o head_n 2.19_o 1_o sam._n 1.3_o 4_o 7._o and_o 2.19_o both_o for_o her_o soul_n in_o private_a and_o public_a mean_n of_o her_o edification_n and_o also_o for_o her_o body_n both_o in_o health_n and_o sickness_n especial_o in_o the_o time_n of_o childbearing_n and_o this_o not_o only_o in_o his_o life_n time_n but_o after_o death_n 1.21_o 1_o kin._n 1.21_o settle_v a_o comfortable_a and_o suitable_a maintenance_n on_o she_o 2._o in_o protect_v she_o from_o danger_n in_o her_o person_n and_o name_n 1_o sam._n 27.3_o and_o 30.18_o q._n what_o motive_n have_v husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o do_v all_o these_o duty_n to_o they_o a._n beside_o the_o command_n of_o god_n these_o two_o 1._o the_o example_n of_o christ_n in_o love_v his_o church_n and_o therein_o themselves_o if_o godly_a eph._n 5.25_o now_o christ_n love_v first_o 1_o joh._n 4.19_o indeed_o and_o in_o truth_n give_v himself_o for_o it_o eph._n 5.26_o free_o deut._n 7.7_o 8._o pure_o to_o sanctify_v it_o v._o 27._o constant_o joh._n 13.1_o hos_fw-la 2.19_o so_o may_v they_o 2._o the_o example_n of_o one_o self_n eph._n 5.28_o 29_o a_o wife_n be_v himself_o they_o be_v one_o flesh_n finis_fw-la

house_n we_o will_v serve_v the_o lord_n i_o shall_v only_o say_v more_o true_o what_o once_o be_v false_o apply_v to_o our_o saviour_n this_o man_n be_v not_o of_o god_n because_o he_o keep_v not_o the_o sabbath_n day_n because_o he_o take_v no_o care_n that_o his_o family_n with_o he_o do_v keep_v the_o sahbath_n day_n and_o thus_o much_o of_o the_o three_o use_n where_o 4._o exhortation_n to_o the_o duty_n where_o 4._o the_o last_o be_v a_o word_n of_o exhortation_n to_o set_v on_o this_o duty_n upon_o all_o chief_a householder_n in_o all_o their_o relation_n to_o resolve_v with_o joshua_n what_o ever_o other_o do_v as_o for_o i_o and_o my_o house_n we_o will_v serve_v the_o lord_n to_o persuade_v they_o more_o effectual_o to_o the_o performance_n hereof_o i_o shall_v propound_v some_o more_o special_a motive_n and_o then_o prescribe_v some_o direction_n or_o mean_n how_o they_o may_v effect_v it_o good_n 1_o the_o motive_n from_o the_o good_n 1._o the_o motive_n beside_o those_o reason_n use_v in_o the_o doctrinal_a part_n which_o shall_v be_v sufficient_a to_o persuade_v any_o christian_n i_o shall_v add_v these_o which_o shall_v have_v respect_n 1._o to_o the_o family_n 2._o to_o the_o public_a 3._o to_o themselves_o family_n 1_o to_o the_o family_n 1._o to_o the_o family_n it_o be_v the_o great_a good_a they_o can_v do_v to_o they_o to_o make_v they_o religious_a to_o provide_v a_o estate_n or_o inheritance_n for_o child_n meat_n drink_n and_o wage_n for_o servant_n be_v no_o more_o than_o turk_n and_o heathen_n do_v what_o singular_a thing_n be_v this_o yea_o they_o provide_v meat_n and_o drink_n for_o their_o beast_n and_o no_o more_o for_o their_o family_n soul_n to_o leave_v they_o interest_v in_o the_o covenant_n of_o grace_n under_o the_o favour_n blessing_n &_o protection_n of_o god_n when_o they_o be_v go_v hence_o this_o be_v the_o choice_a and_o chief_a good_a and_o for_o this_o they_o will_v bless_v god_n for_o they_o for_o ever_o 2._o to_o the_o public_a public_a 2_o to_o the_o public_a in_o town_n country_n church_n nation_n which_o be_v all_o make_v up_o of_o family_n as_o family_n of_o single_a person_n to_o make_v the_o family_n good_a and_o religious_a make_v good_a magistrate_n good_a subject_n good_a husband_n good_a wife_n good_a master_n good_a servant_n good_a neighbour_n when_o any_o of_o the_o family_n swarm_n as_o i_o may_v so_o say_v into_o other_o society_n the_o town_n country_n kingdom_n be_v better_v and_o bless_v by_o such_o he_o or_o she_o will_v never_o be_v good_a neighbour_n subject_n etc._n etc._n that_o be_v not_o good_a in_o their_o family_n relation_n he_o will_v never_o be_v good_a father_n that_o be_v not_o a_o good_a child_n nor_o she_o a_o good_a mother_n that_o be_v not_o a_o good_a daughter_n nor_o he_o good_a master_n that_o be_v a_o naughty_a servant_n and_o so_o of_o the_o rest_n absolom_n who_o be_v a_o rebellious_a child_n prove_v a_o traitorous_a subject_n hophin_n and_o phineas_n that_o be_v disobedient_a child_n prove_v sacrilegious_a priest_n etc._n etc._n there_o be_v a_o say_n of_o the_o philosopher_n mulus_n vir_fw-la bone_fw-la civis_fw-la a_o ill_a man_n may_v be_v a_o good_a citizen_n but_o divinity_n say_v a_o ill_a man_n can_v no_o more_o be_v a_o good_a citizen_n or_o neighbour_n then_o evil_o can_v be_v good_a the_o want_n therefore_o of_o family_n reformation_n be_v the_o cause_n of_o all_o the_o miscarrige_n abroad_o in_o town_n church_n country_n nation_n hence_o come_v all_o those_o disorder_n in_o town_n &_o nation_n drunkenness_n uncleanness_n profannesse_n etc._n etc._n from_o want_n of_o discipline_n in_o family_n this_o fill_v the_o goal_n and_o furnish_v the_o gallow_n be_v the_o law_n order_n in_o city_n church_n never_o so_o good_a yet_o all_o in_o vain_a if_o master_n of_o family_n neglect_v their_o duty_n much_o complaint_n there_o be_v of_o the_o general_a badness_n of_o the_o time_n but_o they_o may_v thank_v themselves_o and_o as_o for_o the_o church_n or_o congregation_n the_o long_o desire_v and_o by_o some_o much_o endeavour_v reformation_n stick_v here_o the_o want_n of_o this_o resolution_n in_o master_n of_o family_n i_o and_o my_o house_n will_v serve_v the_o lord_n make_v all_o the_o minister_n labour_v unfruitful_a it_o be_v impossible_a a_o minister_n shall_v teach_v instruct_v and_o make_v a_o town_n or_o congregation_n religious_a unless_o assist_v by_o the_o governor_n of_o house_n if_o their_o household_n be_v not_o teach_v the_o principle_n of_o religion_n at_o home_n acquaint_v with_o the_o word_n by_o private_a read_n bring_v to_o attend_v on_o and_o call_v to_o account_v for_o public_a ordinance_n all_o our_o labour_n come_v to_o nothing_o as_o then_o the_o householder_n intend_v the_o public_a good_a of_o state_n and_o church_n let_v they_o resolve_v i_o and_o my_o house_n etc._n etc._n see_v psal_n 101._o last_o this_o mend_v all_o 3._o to_o themselves_o be_v 3._o to_o themselves_o it_o be_v if_o the_o other_o prevail_v not_o self-love_n shall_v it_o be_v for_o their_o own_o great_a good_a and_o that_o two_o way_n 1._o the_o way_n to_o make_v they_o faithful_a diligent_a profitable_a to_o themselves_o profit_n 1_o for_o their_o profit_n be_v to_o make_v they_o true_o religious_a now_o wife_n child_n servant_n obey_v they_o for_o conscience_n sake_n towards_o god_n onesimus_n while_o unregenerate_a be_v unprofitable_a to_o his_o master_n philemon_n a_o purloyner_n it_o seem_v and_o a_o runaway_n but_o paul_n have_v convert_v he_o send_v he_o home_o now_o profitable_a ungodly_a and_o profane_a servant_n be_v common_o idle_a deceitful_a at_o best_a but_o eye-servant_n and_o bring_v a_o curse_n upon_o the_o whole_a family_n but_o religious_a servant_n if_o true_o so_o prove_v faithful_a you_o may_v trust_v they_o with_o any_o thing_n with_o all_o you_o have_v as_o potiphar_n do_v joseph_n and_o laban_n do_v jacob_n and_o they_o dare_v not_o be_v false_a and_o diligent_a in_o 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