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A61199 The bride-womans counseller being a sermon preach'd at a wedding, May the 11th, 1699, at Sherbourn, in Dorsetshire / by John Sprint. Sprint, John. 1699 (1699) Wing S5084; ESTC T29597 9,973 16

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