ibid._n what_o true_a love_n be_v 47_o that_o sensual_a jealousy_n can_v have_v no_o place_n in_o true_a marriage_n 48_o it_o be_v sensual_a love_n that_o create_v jealousy_n 49_o what_o sensual_a love_n be_v ibid._n person_n of_o understanding_n reckon_v it_o not_o honourable_a to_o be_v jealous_a 51_o chap._n iu_o of_o the_o marriage_n of_o christian_n according_a to_o the_o primary_n institution_n thereof_o by_o god_n himself_o and_o its_o re-establishment_n by_o christ_n 53_o that_o jealousy_n break_v off_o the_o society_n which_o god_n himself_o have_v establish_v ib._n why_o god_n establish_v marriage_n 54_o how_o strong_a the_o union_n of_o marriage_n be_v ib._n that_o jealousy_n be_v inconsistent_a with_o the_o marriage_n of_o christian_n 56_o contract_n of_o marriage_n according_a to_o st._n paul_n 57_o husband_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n ib._n wife_n must_v be_v submissive_a to_o their_o husband_n 58_o reciprocal_a duty_n of_o man_n and_o wife_n 59_o the_o love_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n according_a to_o st._n paul_n 61_o why_o marriage_n be_v a_o sacrament_n ib._n what_o kind_n of_o submission_n the_o wife_n must_v yield_v 62_o law_n of_o marriage_n according_a to_o the_o cannon_n and_o the_o father_n 63_o that_o jealousy_n be_v inconsistent_a with_o these_o principle_n 66_o chap._n v._o of_o jealousy_n of_o husband_n and_o the_o remedy_n thereof_o 69_o that_o jealousy_n be_v cruel_a ib._n the_o more_o virtuous_a the_o wife_n be_v the_o more_o jealous_a a_o sensual_a man_n be_v ibid._n the_o more_o understand_v a_o sensual_a man_n have_v the_o more_o jealous_a he_o be_v 70_o the_o jealousy_n of_o mithridates_n ib._n the_o jealousy_n of_o herod_n 71_o that_o this_o jealousy_n be_v incurable_a ib._n jealousy_n of_o weakness_n and_o its_o remedy_n 72_o formal_a and_o violent_a jealousy_n 76_o the_o remedy_n thereof_o 76_o the_o pernicious_a effect_n of_o adultery_n 77_o that_o domestic_a peace_n be_v a_o inestimable_a good_a 79_o the_o dangerous_a effect_n of_o lie_v 81_o the_o bad_a consequence_n of_o pride_n 83_o the_o advantageous_a consequence_n of_o patience_n 86_o 〈…〉_z n_o the_o last_o place_n to_o have_v recourse_n to_o god_n 87_o chap._n vi_o the_o jealousy_n of_o woman_n and_o the_o remedy_n thereof_o 88_o the_o jealousy_n of_o woman_n be_v more_o dangerous_a than_o that_o of_o men._n ib._n the_o abuse_n of_o the_o reason_n allege_v for_o the_o jealousy_n of_o woman_n 89_o 1._o whether_o submission_n be_v reciprocal_a or_o not_o since_o the_o bond_n be_v equal_o indissoluble_a on_o both_o part_n and_o the_o sex_n be_v equal_a as_o they_o say_v ibid._n that_o submission_n regard_v only_o the_o woman_n 92_o 2._o whether_o the_o power_n of_o the_o woman_n over_o her_o husband_n body_n make_v she_o equal_a with_o he_o in_o all_o other_o thing_n or_o not_o 113_o 3._o whether_o or_o no_o a_o woman_n may_v be_v jealous_a because_o adultery_n be_v equal_o criminal_a on_o either_o part._n 115_o that_o it_o be_v not_o permit_v she_o because_o she_o be_v his_o inferior_a 115_o 4._o whether_o or_o no_o jealousy_n be_v a_o crime_n to_o cause_n divorce_n since_o the_o scripture_n have_v not_o express_v it_o nor_o speak_v against_o it_o 117_o 5._o whether_o or_o no_o a_o woman_n that_o be_v honest_a and_o faithful_a may_v be_v jealous_a 122_o that_o the_o honesty_n of_o a_o wife_n give_v she_o no_o privilege_n to_o be_v jealous_a 123_o remedy_n against_o the_o jealousy_n of_o woman_n 125_o the_o woman_n must_v not_o in_o any_o case_n be_v jealous_a and_o so_o she_o cut_v off_o all_o occasion_n to_o the_o husband_n 127_o woman_n must_v speak_v only_o with_o their_o good_a action_n ibid._n she_o must_v use_v all_o the_o virtue_n opposite_a to_o the_o vice_n of_o her_o husband_n 128_o the_o sincerity_n of_o the_o heart_n 129_o mildness_n in_o discourse_n 130_o submissive_a love_n ibid._n agreeableness_n of_o humour_n 132_o sincere_a virtue_n only_o beget_v love_n 136_o the_o certain_a effect_n of_o these_o counsel_n 137_o chap._n vii_o that_o it_o be_v true_a and_o reasonable_a love_n that_o produce_v peace_n in_o marriage_n 139_o that_o jealousy_n cause_v hatred_n instead_o of_o love_n 139_o that_o it_o return_v back_o upon_o themselves_o that_o be_v jealous_a 140_o that_o it_o be_v contagious_a and_o communicative_a and_o in_o the_o end_n cause_v separation_n 141_o from_o whence_o come_v reciprocal_a jealousy_n 142_o the_o true_a and_o real_a love_n of_o a_o husband_n 143_o a_o example_n of_o the_o real_a love_n of_o a_o arabian_a 144_o a_o example_n of_o the_o love_n of_o joseph_n to_o his_o virgin_n 146_o the_o mean_n for_o woman_n to_o preserve_v peace_n 147_o bad_a education_n a_o cause_n of_o division_n in_o marriage_n ibid._n the_o abuse_n of_o matchmaker_n 148_o that_o meekness_n in_o a_o woman_n be_v a_o excellent_a quality_n 150_o the_o woman_n mnst_a conform_v herself_o to_o her_o husband_n 151_o example_n of_o the_o love_n of_o several_a woman_n 152_o example_n of_o the_o love_n of_o a_o tartar_n woman_n 153_o the_o praise_n of_o a_o good_a and_o honest_a wife_n 156_o the_o conclusion_n and_o abridgement_n of_o the_o whole_a work_n 158_o a_o treatise_n of_o jealousy_n or_o mean_v to_o preserve_v peace_n in_o marriage_n chap._n i._o of_o the_o subject_a of_o the_o ensue_a treatise_n the_o error_n into_o which_o the_o great_a jealousy_n part_n of_o the_o world_n be_v apt_a to_o fall_v believe_v that_o jealousy_n be_v not_o only_o a_o ordinary_a effect_n of_o 〈…〉_z ve_fw-la but_o even_o the_o strong_a and_o most_o 〈…〉_z nvince_a proof_n of_o its_o ardure_n have_v gi_z 〈…〉_z n_o occasion_n to_o the_o transmit_v this_o 〈…〉_z eatise_n abroad_o jealousy_n say_v they_o in_o speak_v proper_o a_o excess_n of_o love_n which_o because_o of_o excess_n may_v proper_o be_v lead_v a_o sickly_a love_n viz._n a_o love_n that_o flame_n with_o the_o fire_n or_o great_a heat_n of_o a_o lever_n and_o by_o consequence_n be_v the_o strong_a ardure_n that_o true_a love_n be_v capable_a of_o so_o that_o a_o person_n presume_v to_o himself_o honour_n and_o to_o render_v his_o love_n very_o commendable_a when_o he_o express_v a_o exceed_a jealousy_n since_o jealousy_n in_o this_o excess_n be_v the_o high_a degree_n that_o love_n can_v reach_v to_o it_o be_v this_o error_n which_o be_v design_v in_o this_o treatise_n to_o encounter_n with_o all_o it_o be_v this_o jealousy_n unbounded_a that_o introduce_v these_o civil-broâ—ls_a into_o family_n that_o kindle_v the_o fire_n of_o discord_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n and_o that_o break_v their_o matrimonial-band_n which_o we_o shall_v in_o this_o treatise_n endeavour_v to_o destroy_v and_o the_o rather_o since_o erroneous_a abuse_n will_v authorize_v it_o though_o in_o itself_o so_o pernicious_a that_o it_o may_v be_v the_o better_o know_v it_o be_v people_n requisite_a in_o the_o first_o place_n to_o distinguish_v it_o from_o certain_a other_o jealousy_n which_o indeed_o do_v retain_v its_o name_n but_o not_o at_o all_o its_o quality_n some_o do_v excite_v in_o themselves_o as_o we_o have_v have_v the_o experience_n certain_a feign_v and_o counterfeit_a jealousy_n which_o they_o use_v to_o amuse_v or_o posse_fw-la 〈…〉_z some_o simple_a or_o stupid_a genius_n withal_o as_o for_o example_n some_o husband_n pretend_v 〈…〉_z o_o 〈…〉_z be_v jealous_a of_o their_o wife_n to_o persuade_v they_o of_o the_o entireness_n of_o their_o love_n according_a to_o these_o false_a principle_n we_o now_o endeavour_v to_o refute_v and_o to_o give_v way_n to_o this_o sort_n of_o reason_v my_o husband_n be_v jealous_a of_o i_o therefore_o â—e_n must_v have_v a_o most_o aâ—dâ—nt_a love_n for_o i_o on_o the_o other_o hand_n there_o be_v certain_a female_n which_o neither_o be_v ignorant_a of_o this_o popular_a maxim_n fail_v not_o to_o make_v 〈…〉_z t_o a_o vei_fw-la 〈…〉_z o_o cover_v other_o design_n they_o 〈…〉_z re_fw-mi themselves_o to_o death_n with_o weary_v their_o husband_n by_o affect_a jealousy_n yea_o and_o often_o succeed_v so_o happy_o that_o the_o most_o part_n instead_o of_o wary_o avoid_v the_o pallacie_n give_v place_n for_o advantage_n by_o their_o transport_v flatter_v themselves_o that_o their_o own_o merit_n be_v the_o motive_n of_o these_o passion_n and_o at_o the_o same_o time_n languish_v with_o tender_a resentment_n of_o such_o their_o extraordinary_a testimony_n of_o their_o love_n which_o notwithstanding_o be_v no_o more_o than_o trick_n of_o nimble_a wiâ—â—_n they_o will_v not_o dare_v to_o open_v their_o mouth_n to_o complain_v of_o any_o thing_n amiss_o they_o number_v their_o very_o 〈…〉_z ces_fw-fr they_o constrain_v themselves_o in_o every_o thing_n and_o abstain_v from_o any_o thing_n aâ—g_v 〈…〉_z give_v offence_n 〈…〉_z east_n say_v they_o we_o shall_v cast_v these_o poor_a woman_n into_o despair_n but_o we_o shall_v not_o at_o all_o meddle_v with_o these_o personate_a comedy_n intend_v to_o treat_v only_o of_o real_a evil_n
thou_o shall_v to_o her_o a_o father_n be_v and_o as_o a_o brother_n love_o shall_v cherish_v she_o a_o mother_n love_n from_o thou_o in_o she_o shall_v reverence_n move_v so_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o supply_v to_o his_o wife_n the_o place_n of_o father_n mother_n brother_n and_o all_o other_o relation_n yea_o much_o more_o two_o person_n must_v make_v up_o but_o one_o behold_v then_o the_o high_a pitch_n that_o love_n be_v capable_a of_o reach_v too_o behold_v the_o height_n of_o the_o most_o ardent_a amity_n that_o can_v be_v conceive_v to_o be_v so_o conjoin_v with_o the_o thing_n love_v as_o to_o become_v one_o and_o the_o same_o thing_n with_o it_o mar_v this_o love_n be_v a_o symbol_n of_o that_o celestial_a love_n that_o shall_v be_v perfect_v in_o the_o elect_n when_o have_v put_v off_o this_o sinful_a flesh_n and_o be_v renew_v by_o christ_n they_o shall_v be_v make_v one_o with_o he_o can_v that_o union_n then_o between_o the_o very_a soul_n and_o body_n be_v more_o perfect_a than_o be_v that_o of_o person_n join_v in_o marriage_n can_v there_o be_v any_o thing_n more_o admirable_a since_o to_o comprehend_v it_o we_o must_v conceive_v a_o kind_n of_o miracle_n imagine_v two_o person_n be_v not_o two_o but_o simple_o one_o that_o be_v to_o say_v the_o one_o ought_v to_o be_v so_o near_o unite_v to_o the_o other_o by_o love_n that_o whatever_o touch_v the_o one_o be_v it_o good_a or_o be_v it_o evil_n it_o also_o affect_v the_o other_o so_o lively_a that_o there_o be_v no_o difference_n in_o their_o resentment_n it_o be_v this_o miraculous_a love_n that_o make_v the_o union_n of_o marriage_n which_o union_n be_v undissoluâ—ble_a according_a to_o our_o divine_a lawgiver_n so_o long_o as_o this_o love_n subsist_v and_o be_v not_o banish_v by_o infidelity_n to_o that_o bed_n which_o god_n have_v make_v sacred_a to_o marriage_n 32._o if_o then_o it_o be_v this_o love_n that_o according_a sistant_fw-la to_o the_o intention_n of_o the_o word_n of_o our_o saviour_n be_v the_o sacred_a tie_n of_o the_o marriage_n of_o christian_n there_o can_v be_v nothing_o christians_n more_o opposite_a to_o it_o than_o jealousy_n since_o be_v the_o pernicious_a bud_n of_o luxury_n the_o most_o unbridled_a of_o all_o our_o passion_n it_o be_v impossible_a that_o it_o can_v consist_v with_o the_o tenderness_n and_o holy_a peace_n of_o that_o love_n that_o conjoyn_v man_n and_o wife_n now_o this_o love_n be_v a_o command_n of_o god_n which_o we_o violate_v by_o these_o motion_n of_o self-love_n it_o necessary_o follow_v that_o we_o commit_v a_o manifest_a sin_n every_o time_n we_o give_v way_n to_o this_o passion_n of_o jealousy_n and_o therefore_o to_o say_v that_o a_o man_n or_o woman_n love_n be_v commendable_a for_o their_o be_v jealous_a be_v the_o same_o thing_n as_o to_o say_v it_o be_v commendable_a to_o offend_v god_n but_o that_o we_o may_v be_v yet_o further_o convince_v wife_n st._n paul_n do_v not_o only_o give_v we_o the_o command_n of_o god_n on_o this_o subject_a but_o on_o his_o own_o part_n he_o give_v we_o the_o condition_n of_o marriage_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n in_o as_o much_o as_o on_o the_o one_o side_n he_o recommend_v to_o christian_a husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o on_o the_o other_o he_o recommend_v to_o the_o wife_n to_o be_v submissive_a to_o their_o husband_n in_o love_v they_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n say_v he_o even_o as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o give_v himself_o to_o die_v for_o it_o 25._o so_o let_v husband_n love_v their_o wife_n even_o as_o their_o own_o body_n 28._o indeed_o say_v a_o learned_a doctor_n 22._o in_o explain_v this_o passage_n as_o jesus_n christ_n be_v over_o and_o rule_v his_o church_n and_o which_o he_o govern_v and_o protect_v for_o its_o own_o good_a even_o so_o a_o husband_n ought_v to_o command_v and_o govern_v his_o wife_n both_o for_o she_o own_o and_o whole_a family_n good_a but_o we_o must_v here_o observe_v that_o since_o st._n paul_n have_v order_v husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n he_o thereby_o teach_v they_o not_o to_o command_v or_o govern_v they_o imperious_o but_o with_o mildness_n and_o in_o love_n that_o thereby_o the_o yoke_n of_o the_o power_n of_o the_o husband_n may_v be_v render_v light_a and_o more_o easy_a so_o the_o husband_n say_v another_o learned_a man_n must_v know_v that_o marriage_n be_v the_o high_a degree_n of_o all_o amity_n whatever_n and_o that_o amity_n be_v vast_o different_a from_o tyranny_n since_o tyrant_n be_v not_o obey_v but_o by_o force_n mar_v this_o for_o the_o part_n of_o the_o husband_n as_o to_o what_o respect_v the_o part_n of_o the_o wife_n he_o cease_v not_o to_o preach_v submission_n to_o they_o let_v wife_n say_v he_o submit_v to_o husband_n their_o husband_n as_o to_o the_o lord_n because_o the_o man_n be_v the_o head_n of_o the_o woman_n even_o as_o christ_n be_v the_o head_n of_o the_o church_n which_o be_v his_o body_n and_o whereof_o also_o he_o be_v the_o saviour_n as_o therefore_o the_o church_n be_v obedient_a to_o christ_n so_o let_v woman_n also_o be_v obedient_a to_o their_o husband_n in_o all_o thing_n 22._o let_v woman_n than_o consider_v the_o person_n of_o our_o lord_n and_o saviour_n who_o be_v the_o head_n and_o espouse_v of_o the_o church_n in_o the_o person_n of_o their_o husband_n neither_o do_v this_o submission_n at_o all_o exclude_v the_o love_n of_o the_o wife_n towards_o the_o husband_n but_o on_o the_o contrary_a aught_o to_o be_v accompany_v with_o love_n as_o though_o st._n paul_n shall_v say_v i_o charge_v the_o wife_n that_o she_o not_o only_o love_v her_o husband_n but_o also_o that_o she_o fear_v he_o and_o bear_v to_o he_o a_o respect_n as_o to_o her_o master_n and_o head_n to_o who_o she_o one_o submission_n for_o which_o reason_n she_o ought_v to_o take_v all_o care_v not_o to_o give_v he_o offence_n and_o thus_o much_o for_o woman_n in_o which_o we_o can_v but_o admire_v the_o wife_n justice_n and_o at_o the_o same_o time_n the_o importance_n of_o the_o word_n of_o this_o great_a apostle_n he_o say_v to_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n know_v well_o that_o if_o they_o love_v they_o they_o will_v not_o hearken_v to_o any_o infidelity_n that_o can_v loosen_v their_o conjugal_a unity_n for_o love_n be_v the_o very_a tie_n and_o cement_v of_o this_o union_n he_o know_v well_o that_o to_o love_v they_o be_v to_o love_v their_o own_o self_n 4._o since_o they_o be_v one_o flesh_n with_o they_o and_o to_o oblige_v they_o to_o a_o reciprocal_a love_n and_o last_o he_o say_v to_o they_o love_v your_o wife_n thereby_o give_v they_o to_o understand_v that_o the_o superiority_n of_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o be_v altogether_o in_o love_n then_o he_o say_v to_o the_o woman_n love_v your_o husband_n but_o he_o add_v be_v you_o subject_a to_o your_o husband_n let_v they_o that_o be_v grow_v up_o in_o year_n say_v he_o 4._o instruct_v the_o young_a marry_a woman_n with_o prudence_n teach_v they_o to_o love_v their_o husband_n and_o child_n to_o be_v orderly_o chaste_a diligent_a in_o rule_v their_o house_n good_a submit_v to_o their_o husband_n he_o add_v it_o to_o let_v they_o know_v that_o a_o woman_n shall_v so_o love_v her_o husband_n that_o she_o bear_v he_o respect_n and_o so_o to_o respect_v he_o that_o she_o love_v he_o also_o for_o from_o these_o two_o sentence_n conjoin_v arise_v the_o duty_n of_o a_o wife_n towards_o her_o husband_n a_o woman_n must_v be_v not_o only_o good_a and_o compliant_a but_o also_o submit_v and_o obedient_a to_o her_o husband_n because_o he_o be_v she_o head_n the_o apostle_n command_v obedience_n in_o the_o woman_n because_o he_o know_v from_o the_o nature_n of_o humane_a genius_n that_o this_o submission_n will_v infallible_o maintain_v love_n in_o the_o heart_n of_o the_o husband_n nothing_o in_o the_o world_n tend_v so_o much_o to_o win_v the_o heart_n and_o create_v love_n as_o submission_n so_o that_o submission_n in_o the_o woman_n 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