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a_o remedy_n for_o their_o infirmity_n do_v nevertheless_o overflow_v in_o adultery_n yet_o it_o be_v not_o enough_o only_a to_o abstain_v from_o this_o abomination_n unless_o we_o also_o forbear_v from_o every_o thing_n that_o may_v seem_v to_o tend_v thereunto_o or_o to_o continue_v any_o beginning_n appearance_n allurement_n or_o occasion_n of_o evil_a first_o because_o that_o by_o the_o law_n all_o this_o be_v forbid_v even_o in_o these_o express_a word_n thou_o shall_v not_o commit_v adultery_n for_o the_o word_n adultery_n comprehend_v all_o provocation_n gesture_n specche_n yea_o even_o unchaste_a look_n and_o therefore_o say_v jesus_n christ_n he_o that_o look_v upon_o another_o man_n wife_n to_o lust_n after_o she_o bath_n already_o commit_v adultery_n with_o she_o in_o his_o heart_n next_o that_o we_o prevent_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n a_o most_o dangerous_a disease_n and_o of_o great_a difficulty_n to_o cure_v for_o where_o either_o the_o husband_n or_o the_o wife_n 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