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in_o praise_n of_o which_o ordnance_n of_o god_n and_o man_n the_o pen_n of_o many_o author_n in_o all_o age_n have_v be_v exercise_v yea_o of_o the_o papist_n themselves_z who_o make_v it_o a_o sacrament_n and_o yet_o forbid_v the_o same_o to_o their_o priest_n the_o best_a &_o most_o learned_a philosopher_n have_v praise_v and_o use_v the_o same_o as_o socrates_n plato_n aristotle_n seneca_n plutarch_n and_o divers_a other_o though_o there_o be_v many_o enemy_n to_o the_o name_n of_o marriage_n yet_o few_o to_o the_o use_n of_o it_o he_o be_v make_v imperfect_a that_o be_v not_o tend_v to_o propagation_n he_o that_o be_v perfect_a and_o marry_v not_o be_v say_v to_o be_v guilty_a of_o a_o contempt_n against_o nature_n and_o justice_n and_o why_o shall_v any_o man_n think_v that_o god_n be_v please_v with_o that_o rigid_a inhibition_n of_o marriage_n among_o the_o papist_n which_o cross_v the_o current_n of_o nature_n and_o his_o own_o ordination_n it_o be_v the_o doctrine_n of_o 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other_o it_o be_v good_a to_o marry_v though_o better_a to_o live_v single_a if_o we_o burn_v not_o and_o if_o we_o have_v divine_a grace_n enough_o to_o live_v continent_n whoso_o find_v a_o wife_n say_v king_n solomon_n sure_o he_o mean_v a_o good_a wife_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n and_o obtain_v favour_n of_o the_o lord_n prov._n 18.22_o and_o since_o this_o conjugal_a or_o marriage_n society_n be_v ordain_v and_o bless_v of_o god_n in_o paradise_n in_o the_o state_n of_o perfection_n approve_v of_o and_o commend_v by_o christ_n when_o he_o be_v on_o earth_n and_o since_o by_o his_o apostle_n and_o saint_n and_o be_v say_v to_o be_v honourable_a among_o all_o man_n a_o remedy_n against_o fornication_n and_o unlawful_a lust_n a_o resemblance_n and_o figure_n between_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n a_o unite_n of_o two_o into_o one_o flesh_n and_o as_o some_o affirm_v into_o one_o spirit_n also_o say_v that_o the_o spirit_n of_o true_a lover_n do_v pass_v one_o into_o another_o so_o as_o saint_n peter_n advise_v they_o and_o we_o they_o may_v be_v of_o one_o mind_n 1_o pet._n 3.8_o and_o since_o it_o be_v the_o sweet_a and_o near_a relation_n of_o love_n friendship_n and_o society_n the_o occasion_n and_o increase_v of_o child_n family_n and_o all_o mankind_n it_o can_v be_v deny_v but_o it_o be_v good_a to_o marry_v especial_o for_o such_o who_o body_n and_o mind_n do_v sympathize_v and_o who_o be_v both_o of_o love_v and_o good_a condition_n from_o such_o a_o marriage_n as_o have_v be_v dilate_v spring_v the_o best_a and_o pleasant_a delight_n and_o felicity_n of_o this_o life_n to_o conclude_v then_o let_v we_o wish_v all_o joy_n to_o such_o happy_a lover_n let_v all_o the_o muse_n sing_v the_o most_o delightful_a strain_n and_o all_o the_o grace_n dance_v the_o choice_a round_n lay_v at_o their_o wedding_n let_v all_o pleasantness_n love_n and_o joy_n dwell_v in_o their_o heart_n and_o as_o their_o year_n so_o may_v their_o love_n and_o joy_n increase_v that_o in_o after_o time_n they_o may_v say_v this_o be_v the_o twenty_o or_o thirty_o year_n of_o our_o joy_n and_o let_v they_o still_o take_v king_n solomon_n counsel_n rejoice_v with_o the_o wife_n of_o thy_o youth_n let_v she_o be_v unto_o thou_o as_o the_o love_a hind_n and_o pleasant_a roe_n etc._n etc._n pro._n 5.19_o section_n v._o the_o good_a use_n of_o conjugal_a love_n and_o so_o conclude_v with_o a_o brief_a discourse_n of_o divine_a love_n such_o man_n who_o use_v these_o external_a felicity_n of_o the_o world_n as_o this_o of_o conjugal_a or_o marriage_n love_n to_o the_o glory_n of_o god_n and_o to_o good_a end_n with_o moderate_a delectation_n be_v better_a to_o be_v repute_v than_o they_o who_o undue_o inconsiderate_o rash_o inconvenient_o and_o superstitious_o as_o some_o monk_n and_o other_o do_v neglect_v and_o refuse_v such_o a_o good_a which_o god_n himself_o free_o offer_v and_o commend_v to_o our_o acceptance_n and_o the_o rather_o since_o these_o external_a pleasure_n and_o earthly_a blessing_n may_v serve_v to_o many_o excellent_a use_n stir_v we_o up_o to_o all_o duty_n of_o piety_n to_o the_o love_n of_o god_n to_o joy_v in_o he_o to_o thankfulness_n and_o so_o in_o all_o respect_n to_o his_o praise_n and_o glory_n but_o the_o principal_a good_a use_n of_o this_o conjugal_a or_o marriage_n love_n and_o the_o felicity_n thereof_o which_o i_o shall_v now_o insist_v upon_o be_v that_o by_o view_v and_o enjoy_v such_o pleasure_n and_o felicity_n of_o the_o earth_n we_o may_v look_v high_o to_o their_o fountain_n contemplate_v the_o love_n loveliness_n beauty_n sweetness_n and_o excellency_n of_o the_o creator_n and_o giver_n of_o these_o who_o be_v infinite_o more_o excel_a and_o so_o to_o conclude_v this_o division_n with_o this_o section_n of_o divine_a love_n a_o subject_a require_v our_o pure_a and_o most_o angelical_a attention_n and_o affection_n true_a it_o be_v that_o all_o other_o excellency_n be_v but_o dung_n and_o dross_n in_o respect_n of_o god_n yet_o by_o and_o through_o these_o low_a love_n delight_n and_o felicity_n of_o the_o earth_n these_o little_a glimmer_a ray_n proceed_v from_o that_o sun_n of_o glory_n god_n himself_o we_o may_v espy_v some_o light_n of_o he_o and_o of_o that_o eternal_a love_n beauty_n glory_n and_o happiness_n which_o we_o pretend_v hereafter_o to_o enjoy_v and_o so_o in_o some_o measure_n spell_n and_o spy_v heaven_n from_o the_o earth_n neither_o ought_v we_o to_o disdain_v to_o make_v such_o comparison_n between_o corporeal_a &_o spiritual_a thing_n between_o earth_n y_z and_o heavenly_a though_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o excellency_n of_o the_o spiritual_a and_o heavenly_a there_o be_v no_o comparison_n yet_o as_o child_n have_v need_n at_o first_o to_o be_v allure_v to_o the_o acquist_n of_o great_a and_o excellent_a matter_n by_o such_o toy_n and_o trifle_n as_o they_o apprehend_v so_o
and_o look_v above_o they_o do_v even_o contemn_v they_o in_o comparison_n of_o the_o more_o excellent_a thing_n which_o then_o they_o know_v so_o let_v we_o as_o child_n in_o god_n family_n make_v a_o good_a use_n of_o this_o earthly_a honour_n and_o be_v thereby_o encourage_v and_o excite_v to_o learn_v and_o search_v the_o way_n to_o the_o eternal_a glory_n of_o heaven_n of_o which_o this_o be_v but_o a_o shadow_n and_o when_o we_o be_v grow_v wise_a and_o skilful_a man_n in_o rhe_n knowledge_n of_o divine_a thing_n let_v we_o then_o in_o comparison_n endeavour_v to_o be_v above_o and_o even_o contemn_v these_o toy_n and_o trifle_n of_o the_o world_n for_o such_o be_v earthly_a honour_n even_o in_o its_o great_a excellency_n in_o comparison_n of_o the_o heavenly_a honour_n and_o glory_n and_o then_o let_v we_o untie_v ourselves_o from_o the_o overmuch_a and_o vicious_a desire_n of_o terrestrial_a honour_n which_o can_v never_o satisfy_v we_o and_o with_o a_o desire_n full_a of_o sprightfulnesse_n love_n and_o joy_n elevate_v our_o thought_n to_o heaven_n to_o eternity_n for_o certain_a it_o be_v that_o those_o soul_n which_o do_v often_o contemplate_v the_o heavenly_a glory_n and_o do_v well_o know_v the_o excellency_n thereof_o be_v often_o raise_v far_o above_o all_o the_o greatness_n of_o the_o earth_n inasmuch_o as_o eternity_n be_v above_o time_n and_o infinite_a glory_n above_o a_o shadow_n thereof_o and_o in_o these_o contemplation_n they_o be_v often_o so_o transport_v and_o raise_v beyond_o and_o above_o themselves_o as_o if_o they_o be_v then_o capable_a of_o terrestrial_a and_o humane_a vanity_n they_o will_v not_o know_v themselves_o while_o their_o soul_n do_v thus_o direct_v their_o look_n desire_n affection_n and_o contemplation_n whole_o to_o god_n himself_o to_o heaven_n insomuch_o that_o while_o their_o spirit_n be_v so_o raise_v in_o such_o divine_a thought_n and_o illumination_n they_o do_v seem_v very_o glorious_o then_o to_o despise_v all_o the_o honour_n and_o greatness_n of_o the_o earth_n and_o with_o unexpressable_a delight_n to_o mark_v out_o the_o throne_n of_o their_o honour_n in_o the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n where_o they_o know_v that_o a_o crown_n of_o immortal_a glory_n shall_v for_o ever_o environ_v their_o head_n and_o in_o these_o divine_a thought_n and_o elevation_n they_o be_v often_o even_o astonish_v with_o such_o wonderful_a delight_n and_o happiness_n as_o they_o can_v find_v neither_o measure_n nor_o limit_n in_o these_o divine_a glorious_a amusement_n heavenly_a irradiation_n and_o elevation_n of_o spirit_n so_o not_o be_v able_a to_o find_v any_o thing_n on_o earth_n worthy_a of_o their_o greatness_n they_o have_v design_v the_o crown_n and_o set_v up_o the_o throne_n of_o their_o honour_n and_o glory_n in_o the_o empyrean_a heaven_n to_o conclude_v let_v it_o always_o be_v our_o glory_n to_o glorify_v our_o fathet_n which_o be_v in_o heaven_n mat._n 5.16_o jer._n 9.23_o they_o that_o honour_v i_o i_o will_v honour_v say_v god_n 1_o sam._n 2.30_o psal_n 9.14_o 15_o 16._o o_o how_o honourable_a how_o happy_a be_v he_o who_o god_n be_v please_v to_o honour_n teach_v oh_o lord_n this_o secret_a divine_a language_n to_o my_o heart_n to_o desire_v only_o thy_o honour_n thy_o glory_n and_o that_o i_o may_v glory_v only_o in_o thou_o who_o art_n man_n sovereign_a glory_n yea_o only_o true_a happiness_n let_v i_o esteem_v this_o honour_n this_o glory_n this_o happiness_n as_o heaven_n already_o the_o three_o partition_n of_o conjugal_a love_n section_n i._o of_o the_o excellency_n of_o such_o conjugal_a or_o marriage_n love_n in_o general_a and_o the_o misery_n of_o the_o loss_n and_o want_n thereof_o king_n solomon_n say_v a_o prudent_a wife_n be_v from_o the_o lord_n prov._n 19.4_o from_o the_o beginning_n of_o the_o creation_n say_v our_o saviour_n god_n make_v they_o male_a and_o female_a for_o this_o cause_n shall_v a_o man_n leave_v his_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o shall_v cleave_v to_o his_o wife_n and_o they_o two_o shall_v be_v one_o flesh_n mar._n 10.7_o mat._n 19_o so_o it_o appear_v god_n himself_o be_v the_o author_n of_o this_o lawful_a conjugal_a or_o marriage-love_n and_o therefore_o in_o respect_n of_o he_o the_o author_n to_o be_v very_o well_o esteem_v according_o therefore_o in_o his_o sacred_a word_n by_o king_n solomon_n he_o say_v rejoice_v in_o the_o wife_n of_o thy_o youth_n etc._n etc._n see_v prov._n 18.2_o eccl._n 9.9_o and_o by_o saint_n paul_n husband_n love_v your_o wife_n as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n for_o he_o that_o love_v his_o wife_n love_v himself_o eph._n 5.25_o 28._o let_v i_o here_o again_o make_v a_o short_a though_o perchance_o very_o necessary_a digression_n since_o god_n himself_o as_o have_v be_v show_v be_v the_o author_n of_o this_o conjugal_a true_a love_n and_o commend_v the_o same_o unto_o we_o i_o do_v intend_v god_n will_v to_o write_v on_o of_o this_o subject_a though_o all_o the_o severe_a grandsire_n and_o stoic_n of_o the_o world_n shall_v frown_v and_o the_o more_o nice_a than_o wise_a people_n turâ—e_v aside_o their_o head_n and_o though_o envious_a malicious_a people_n shall_v pine_v and_o grieve_v exceed_o at_o such_o love_a felicity_n though_o over-dote_a sottish_a and_o brainsick_a lover_n shall_v be_v touch_v to_o the_o quick_a in_o this_o ensue_a discourse_n and_o therefore_o kick_v and_o though_o whoremaster_n shall_v be_v gall_v and_o lash_v though_o momus_n or_o jeer_a coxcomb_n shall_v carp_v and_o scoff_n at_o this_o subject_n of_o conjugal_a love_n and_o though_o mere_a earthly_a sensual_a fool_n shall_v not_o see_v or_o conceive_v the_o good_a and_o divine_a use_n thereof_o which_o be_v principal_o heavenly_a love_n of_o god_n and_o i_o protest_v i_o shall_v in_o this_o discourse_n principal_o endeavour_v to_o please_v god_n the_o author_n of_o this_o love_n that_o be_v to_o do_v good_a for_o i_o know_v all_o goodness_n please_v he_o and_o what_o better_o and_o more_o necessary_a endeavour_n then_o to_o increase_v this_o so_o good_a and_o necessary_a happiness_n of_o conjugal_a or_o marriage-love_n in_o the_o world_n from_o which_o spring_v so_o many_o good_a and_o happy_a effect_n therein_o as_o in_o this_o the_o next_o the_o four_o and_o five_o section_n of_o this_o partition_n i_o intend_v to_o show_v more_o large_o and_o in_o the_o next_o place_n i_o will_v glad_o also_o please_v all_o virtuous_a pious_a man_n and_o of_o they_o especial_o true-lover_n which_o i_o hope_v i_o shall_v the_o rather_o since_o i_o have_v former_o be_v much_o encourage_v by_o such_o and_o since_o i_o have_v follow_v and_o learn_v the_o substance_n of_o this_o partition_n of_o many_o wise_a and_o worthy_a author_n who_o have_v former_o write_v of_o this_o subject_n do_v much_o good_a thereby_o and_o be_v deserve_o commend_v for_o the_o same_o and_o last_o i_o write_v this_o to_o 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