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sin_n that_o thou_o may_v not_o be_v so_o much_o under_o the_o power_n of_o a_o strong_a bent_n and_o inclination_n unto_o sin_n that_o it_o may_v not_o have_v such_o life_n power_n vigour_n promptness_n and_o readiness_n to_o be_v stir_v this_o mortification_n that_o i_o here_o intend_v be_v a_o daily_a endeavour_n after_o the_o weaken_n and_o abolish_n of_o indwelling_a sin_n by_o little_a and_o little_a that_o it_o may_v not_o incline_v thou_o &_o employ_v thou_o with_o such_o efficacy_n to_o make_v thou_o a_o servant_n to_o it_o as_o heretofore_o if_o thou_o let_v the_o root_n of_o thy_o corruption_n abide_v in_o strength_n and_o vigour_n it_o will_v be_v still_o bring_v forth_o new_a fruit_n of_o the_o flesh_n and_o thou_o will_v be_v hurry_v into_o violent_a passion_n upon_o every_o slight_a occasion_n one_fw-mi if_o we_o see_v person_n rage_v in_o wrath_n and_o fury_n we_o may_v conclude_v that_o indwelling_a sin_n be_v in_o its_o full_a power_n and_o vigour_n in_o they_o now_o 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as_o a_o vile_a base_a unworthy_a person_n and_o censure_v he_o for_o a_o hypocrite_n void_a of_o all_o inward_a and_o real_a good_a three_o pride_n cause_v man_n and_o woman_n to_o hate_v reproof_n those_o that_o be_v proud_a be_v forward_o in_o find_v fault_n with_o other_o but_o love_v not_o a_o plain_a reprover_n of_o themselves_o as_o in_o prov._n 15.12_o a_o scorner_n love_v not_o one_o that_o reprove_v he_o they_o can_v easy_o endure_v to_o be_v evil_a and_o do_v evil_a but_o not_o to_o hear_v of_o it_o so_o passionate_a person_n impatient_a of_o admonition_n they_o will_v not_o endure_v to_o be_v tell_v of_o their_o fault_n they_o storm_v and_o rail_v at_o every_o reproof_n that_o be_v give_v they_o their_o spirit_n be_v too_o hot_a to_o be_v tell_v of_o their_o fault_n four_o proud_a self-conceited_a person_n be_v ever_o talkative_a person_n and_o more_o desirous_a to_o speak_v than_o to_o hear_v they_o will_v suffer_v none_o to_o speak_v but_o themselves_o because_o such_o think_v always_o high_o of_o their_o own_o understanding_n so_o angry_a person_n rage_n if_o any_o offer_n to_o discourse_v in_o their_o presence_n if_o any_o presume_v to_o speak_v they_o take_v exception_n at_o every_o word_n if_o their_o passion_n be_v high_a their_o first_o word_n of_o command_n be_v hold_v your_o peace_n and_o say_v no_o more_o or_o be_v go_v out_o of_o the_o room_n they_o can_v endure_v the_o company_n of_o those_o that_o will_v adventure_v to_o reply_v to_o any_o thing_n they_o say_v they_o be_v too_o high_a to_o be_v answer_v again_o though_o by_o their_o equal_n and_o superior_n and_o this_o kind_n of_o passionate_a rage_n be_v the_o effect_n of_o pride_n five_o if_o proud_a person_n be_v wrong_v they_o look_v for_o great_a submission_n before_o they_o will_v forgive_v you_o must_v lie_v down_o at_o their_o foot_n make_v
anger_n to_o fall_v into_o the_o disease_n of_o melancholy_a frenzy_n madness_n apoplexy_n palsy_n and_o falling-sickness_n which_o be_v the_o usual_a effect_n of_o this_o prevail_a distemper_n of_o furious_a passion_n o_o then_o shall_v i_o be_v angry_a upon_o every_o trifle_a occasion_n and_o offer_v my_o body_n and_o spirit_n such_o great_a injury_n no_o i_o will_v not_o for_o i_o can_v pretend_v to_o hope_v for_o any_o inward_a or_o outward_a comfort_n by_o my_o anger_n nay_o my_o passion_n do_v not_o only_o impair_v the_o health_n of_o my_o body_n but_o mighty_o deform_v my_o body_n it_o deform_v my_o countenance_n and_o take_v away_o the_o amiable_a sweetness_n of_o it_o which_o appear_v in_o a_o calm_a and_o love_a temper_n i_o shall_v loathe_v myself_o shall_v i_o view_v my_o picture_n while_o i_o be_v in_o my_o fury_n before_o the_o frown_a wrinkle_n and_o inflame_a blood_n have_v return_v to_o their_o place_n and_o have_v leave_v my_o visage_n to_o its_o natural_a comeliness_n be_v it_o not_o then_o better_a to_o forget_v injury_n pass_v by_o wrong_n bear_v with_o some_o opposition_n and_o deny_v the_o gratify_n of_o my_o will_n than_o do_v my_o body_n and_o spirit_n so_o much_o prejudice_n and_o lose_v that_o contentment_n and_o sweetness_n that_o by_o meekness_n i_o may_v enjoy_v and_o lose_v that_o inward_a peace_n and_o satisfaction_n of_o mind_n that_o otherwise_o i_o may_v have_v or_o deprive_v myself_o of_o that_o beauty_n and_o comeliness_n that_o otherwise_o i_o may_v preserve_v o_o then_o god_n forbid_v that_o i_o shall_v gratify_v my_o angry_a humour_n 3._o a_o angry_a person_n be_v very_o troublesome_a to_o other_o even_o to_o the_o whole_a family_n wherein_o that_o angry_a person_n dwell_v and_o all_o those_o that_o do_v converse_v with_o he_o or_o she_o when_o the_o husband_n or_o wife_n be_v angry_a or_o froward_a o_o how_o extreme_o burdensome_a be_v he_o or_o she_o to_o that_o family_n that_o solomon_n say_v in_o two_o place_n prov._n 21.9_o 19_o that_o it_o be_v better_a to_o dwell_v on_o the_o housetop_n or_o in_o the_o wilderness_n than_o to_o dwell_v with_o a_o brawl_a woman_n in_o a_o wide_a house_n she_o be_v such_o a_o vexation_n to_o all_o those_o with_o who_o she_o dwell_v he_o instance_v in_o a_o woman_n because_o that_o sex_n be_v most_o subject_a to_o this_o brawl_a kind_n of_o life_n they_o be_v most_o apt_a to_o be_v angry_a and_o contentious_a a_o angry_a husband_n or_o a_o angry_a wife_n be_v a_o torment_n to_o all_o those_o that_o live_v in_o family_n and_o therefore_o the_o holy_a ghost_n by_o solomon_n say_v in_o prov._n 22.24_o make_v no_o friendship_n with_o a_o angry_a man_n and_o with_o a_o furious_a man_n thou_o shall_v not_o go_v there_o be_v no_o good_a to_o be_v get_v by_o the_o company_n of_o one_o that_o be_v usual_o angry_a upon_o every_o trifle_a occasion_n there_o be_v no_o peace_n to_o be_v enjoy_v in_o angry_a person_n company_n a_o froward_a spirit_n trouble_v his_o own_o 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life_n be_v so_o uncomfortable_a one_o to_o another_o their_o company_n be_v very_o uncomfortable_a to_o other_o passion_n be_v a_o unruly_a thing_n and_o therefore_o troublesome_a wherever_o it_o come_v and_o will_v thou_o then_o o_o husband_n or_o wife_n cherish_v that_o evil_a humour_n in_o thou_o that_o will_v make_v thou_o a_o burden_n to_o all_o that_o converse_v with_o thou_o if_o thou_o continue_v to_o be_v angry_a upon_o every_o slight_a opposition_n or_o contradiction_n thou_o will_v be_v have_v in_o contempt_n of_o all_o that_o be_v near_o thou_o they_o will_v despise_v thy_o person_n because_o thou_o do_v break_v their_o peace_n and_o depriuâ—_v they_o of_o their_o quiet_n so_o than_o if_o thou_o have_v any_o desire_n to_o preserve_v the_o peace_n and_o quiet_a of_o thy_o house_n and_o have_v any_o esteem_n of_o those_o that_o live_v with_o thou_o do_v thy_o utmost_a endeavour_n by_o the_o assistance_n of_o the_o spirit_n to_o mortify_v thy_o angry_a passion_n 4._o the_o 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god_n providence_n do_v not_o suit_v thy_o humour_n if_o his_o anger_n be_v dreadful_a when_o kindle_v but_o a_o little_a what_o be_v it_o then_o when_o kindle_v very_o much_o here_o be_v the_o sad_a effect_n of_o thy_o be_v angry_a with_o thy_o husband_n or_o wife_n thou_o than_o vent_a thy_o froward_a humour_n upon_o god_n and_o begin_v to_o quarrel_v with_o god_n for_o order_v such_o a_o relation_n for_o thou_o and_o begin_v to_o abate_v thy_o respect_n to_o god_n and_o care_v not_o to_o exercise_v thyself_o in_o those_o exercise_n wherein_o thou_o may_v enjoy_v god_n company_n do_v not_o then_o feed_v thy_o angry_a passion_n whereby_o thy_o heart_n be_v so_o much_o estrange_v from_o god_n and_o whereby_o you_o thrust_v god_n from_o your_o heart_n oh_o how_o shall_v thou_o loathe_v thy_o violent_a passion_n and_o contention_n when_o thou_o consider_v how_o they_o deaden_a thy_o affection_n to_o god_n may_v not_o god_n just_o thrust_v thou_o from_o his_o presence_n when_o by_o thy_o 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